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Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast77: Standoffish or Barely Standing?It’s been over a year since my last episode. I have truly been struggling. In silence. Life has been all over the place and I had no choice but to retreat and get my mind right. While some think that I have been acting funny, being distant, or standoffish, in reality I was barely making it. In this episode, I explain what has been happening with me and what I have learned from it. It’s been a minute but I’m back, baby! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unmotherednoproblem/message 2023-05-1038 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast76: The Donda West EffectI was motivated to record this episode after watching Jeen-Yuhs on Netflix. I absolutely loved the relationship that Kanye West had with his mother! She was his #1 fan and loudest cheerleader. It was beautiful to watch. I never expected to get online and see people compare Donda to their own mothers and blame their mothers for their failures. Stating they didn’t accomplish their goals because they didn’t have a mother like Donda. They didn’t go to college because their mom was toxic and they blame her. I was extremely disgusted! These were adult women! You don’t have muc...2022-03-3128 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast75: 5 Things to Understand Before Healing From Mama TraumaI was so motivated to get this message out! It’s healing time!! In this episode, I share 5 pivotal things that I had to grasp and fully understand before I was able to see a real difference in my healing process. Listen, digest, and move accordingly!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2022-02-1525 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast74: Parenting From a Place of Trauma feat. Joycelyn JohnsonIn this episode, I interview Joycelyn Johnson, a Clinical Counselor from Ohio. In an effort to help others heal from their trauma, Joycelyn left corporate America and, in her 50's, went back to school and opened True Calling Counseling & Consulting Services, LLC. The mother of 2, now adult boys, she shares the challenges she faced trying to raise them without allowing her childhood traumas to interfere. Spirituality, communication, honesty, and laughter are just a few things she shared with me that helped her parent from a safe place. This interview was like talking to someone I've known for a long time! W...2022-01-241h 11

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast73: I Know Ya’ll Been Talking About Me!Hey y’all! What y’all been doing??In this episode, I explain the reason for my dry spell and briefly mention what I have in the works for the future of Unmothered + Unbothered!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2022-01-2010 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast72: My Mother Was in a Cult pt. 5This is the last part of the 4-hour interview that I had with Amanda as she told me her story of growing up with a mother in a cult. In episode 71, Amanda describes her mother's final days and shares the things her mother went through during the last few years of her life. In this episode, we discuss the aftermath of growing up with a mother in a cult and why we think the destruction of her mother's soul was more about HER than her mother. I hope you have enjoyed Amanda's story and her transparency. This i...2021-11-171h 02

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast71: My Mother Was in a Cult pt. 4I’m this episode, we find out just how much Amanda’s mom’s life was devastated by the cult. Listen as she describes her mother going from upper class to homeless, all while still following the cult leader. The episode’s ending will leave you in tears. There is also a spiritual component that will give you chills. Enjoy!!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2021-10-2250 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast70: My Mother Was in a Cult pt. 3Episode 2 ended with a cliff hanger! Amanda was convinced by the cult leader to accuse her own father of raping her. She knew it wasn't true but decided to go along with it just for the torture to stop. She didn't fully understand the implications of her words and didn't expect what happened next!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2021-10-021h 03

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast69: My Mother Was in a Cult pt. 2This is part 2 and there is a huge bomb dropped at the end of the episode! Part 1 explained Amanda's background and how her mom got connected to the woman that will destroy her and those closest to her.Stay tuned for part 3!!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2021-08-0826 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast68: My Mother Was in a Cult pt. 1An orchestrated meeting with a stranger leads Amanda's mom to run through her 401k, buy a condo for the stranger, buy a brand new car for the stranger's daughter and ultimately leave her mom broke and homeless.These are just a few details you will hear in this series. There couldn't be a better episode to jump-start my comeback! In this episode, I interview Amanda about her growing up with a mother that was in a cult until the day she died. This ended up being a 4-hour interview, full of twists and turns that I was...2021-07-2139 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast67: “My Mother Just Don’t Love Me” an anonymous interview feat. “MJ”This interview is gritty, raw, and uncut! “MJ” holds nothing back as she tells us the horrific details of her childhood. We are all going to endure some hardships but they are all unique to our situations. Let me be the first to say that I can’t fathom living through what she has. I applaud her for telling her story and I am proud of her for not allowing where she has been to dictate what she has done in life. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2021-04-291h 19

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast66: Being Honorable While Speaking My Truth feat. Imani Brooks-WheelerThis interview was a long time in the making. Imani Brooks-Wheeler has listened to the podcast for about a year at the time of this recording. She silently listened until it was her time to share her story. Well, that time has come! Imani shares her unique story of being able to sympathize with her mother from a very young age. She understood that it was hard for her mother to be there for her during childhood due to her fighting her own personal demons. Imani shows us what it means to be honest AND honorable while discussing your mother...2021-03-091h 16

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast65: My Mother is Not Welcome in My House feat. Sabrina BeltonIn this episode, I speak with Sabrina about growing up with a mother that was too trusting and carefree. As a result, Sabrina had to grow up before her time and experienced some things that she will never forget. Although her mother has a giving heart, Sabrina often shuffled between her home and her grandmother's home because her mother did not provide a stable place for her to live. She often lost the rent money on extracurricular activities, claiming that God would find a way to provide for them. Her attention was always focused on the men in her l...2021-02-1752 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast64: Embrace Your TriggersThere is a natural inclination to run from those things, people, and places that trigger us. This is assuming that we even know what our triggers are because most of us mistake our strong emotional reactions for passion and that is not always the case. We also run from our triggers because they scare us but we learn so much from those triggers. This episode is a quick look at why its important to delve into those triggers and embrace them.IG: @unmotheredunbotheredpodcastTwitter: @podcastpreshEmail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com...2021-01-1423 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast63: A Heart-to-Heart Convo About ForgivenessI know how I used to feel about forgiveness so I never want to force my current opinions on others. I do want to be able to tell my story and encourage others to take a close look at themselves and question whether they truly are "okay" with not forgiving someone. I used to think that I was not harboring ill feelings towards my mother and that forgiving her was not necessary until I began to notice my own toxic behaviors. All I'm asking is that you stay true to yourself when it comes to what you need to f...2020-12-1624 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast62: Facade (Ep. 1 Replay)This week I have decided to re-publish my very 1st episode, which happens to be the one with the most downloads. Lately, I have been reminded more and more of how important it is to be authentic to who I really am. Not because I want to be phony, but because I am constantly being told that I am too much. This is especially the case in professional settings because I am so passionate about what I do. Being told to relax or to hear coworkers say that I do "too much" is commonplace for me and I work...2020-11-3021 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast61: Stop Hating Yourself!In this episode, I explain what self-loathing is and give specific examples. I also discuss the importance of not allowing other people's insecurities to shape your view of yourself. Self-loathing does not have to be a lifelong battle. You are in control of your own life and there is still hope. IG: @unmotheredunbotheredpodcastFacebook: The Unmothered + Unbothered PodcastTwitter: @podcastpreshBlog: Passionately PreciousEmail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.comVisit my Amazon Author Page to purchase my one-of-a-kind journals!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/u...2020-11-0526 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast60: Passive -AggressivenessIn this episode, I explain what passive-aggressiveness is and how it plays out in people's actions. I use a personal story as an example to show what it looks like in real-time. I personally am not a fan of passive-aggressive people because I am more confrontational in nature. In my opinion, there is no benefit in holding something that will eventually manifest in another way. Be up-front about it so that we can move on.IG: unmotheredunbotheredpodcastTwitter: @podcastpreshFB: The Unmothered and Unbothered PodcastEmail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com--- S...2020-10-1824 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast59: Social Media Smear CampaignsIn this episode, I discuss smear campaigns, also known as social media draggings. You know, when someone attempts to embarrass and discredit you online because they need people on their side? They make videos or create outlandish posts aimed at you, hoping to get a rise out of you. Why do people do that? What are their actions REALLY about? Let's talk about it!IG:@unmotheredunbotheredpodcastemail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-10-0617 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast58: Your Feelings Are ValidWhy do we suppress our feelings instead of showing them? Why do we equate certain feelings to being soft, hostile, and inadequate? The answer is simple: we were never taught how to process our feelings. We were taught that suppressing our feelings somehow gives us the upper hand. It does not. What we are feeling will come out one way or another and we will be forced to deal with them. In this episode, I discuss how we can become comfortable with feeling and why it's important.IG: @unmotheredunbotheredpodcastTwitter: @podcastpreshE...2020-09-1923 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast57: Who You Have Always Been vs. Who You Need to BeWhy do we feel that people should except the ugly parts of us just because its how we've always been? Why do we not feel that we should change those things? Saying "that's just the way I am" is just another way of saying "oh well" to the hurt, pain, frustration, and embarrassment that we may cause other people. That attitude is very dismissive and selfish. There is a way to be yourself but do it in a way that reflects positivity. That take it or leave it attitude may get you left! Follow me on Instagram: @u...2020-09-0614 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast56: The Parenting Pivot feat. Tracie OsborneIn this episode, I interview Tracie Osborne about how she had to make a conscious decision to parent her sons, intentionally. She parented her kids the same way she was parented until she realized it was wrong. Listen as she explains when and why she found it necessary to pivot her parenting. Email: tracieosbornespeaks@gmail.comIG: tracieosbornespeakswww.tracieosborne.comFollow me on Instagram: @unmotheredunbotheredpodcast Like my Facebook page Twitter: @podcastpresh Blog: Passionately Precious Email: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com Follow...2020-08-2241 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast55: Enough is EnoughPlease excuse me as I let off some steam! LOL, It is not often that I go off like this but it's needed sometimes.IG: UnmotheredUnbotheredPodcast FB: https://m.facebook.com/Unmotheredandunbotheredpodcast/Twitter: @theycallmepresh Tumblr: PreciousDetinaBlog: https://preciousdetina.comEmail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.comFollow my Amazon author page and check out my one-of-a-kind journals, designed by mePlease 5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ RATE & REVIEW in iTunes✔️SUBSCRIBE and ✔️SHARE--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednop 2020-08-0424 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast54: How to Handle Awkward Mother-Daughter ConversationsWhen you grow up with an untraditional relationship with your mother, it can be very awkward when the topic of MAMAS comes up in conversation. You're not sure what to say because you cannot relate to what's being said. Or you do chime in but seem to always say the wrong thing because you honestly do not understand the mother-daughter dynamic as it is supposed to be. In addition, you may be nervous about being asked too many questions about your mother, which forces you to decide if you want to share the truth and risk being judged or...2020-07-2127 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast53: Fighting for an Unavailable Love feat. "Tanesha"In this anonymous episode, I interview "Tanesha" about how her unmothered childhood has impacted her friendships and romantic relationships. This is her first time telling her story and she does a great job of painting a picture of what physical & emotional abuse looks like at the hands of your own mother. You do not want to miss this one! This episode is sponsored by @blinkbeautifullashes on Instagram. Listen to find out how to get free shipping on your order.IG: UnmotheredUnbotheredPodcast FB: https://m.facebook.com/Unmotheredandunbotheredpodcast/ Twitter: @theycallmepresh Tumb...2020-07-141h 10

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast52: Teaching People How to Treat YouIn this episode, I give actionable steps that will help you teach people how to treat you. What you allow is what will continue. This episode is sponsored by Gemini Flyii. Where Tribal meets Bohemian Chic. To check out handmade jewelry for your personal style, visit https://www.geminiflyii.com/ Listen to the episode for a secret discount code!! IG: UnmotheredUnbotheredPodcast FB: https://m.facebook.com/Unmotheredandunbotheredpodcast/Twitter: @theycallmepresh Tumblr: PreciousDetinaBlog: https://preciousdetina.comEmail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.comFollow my Amazon author page and check out my one-of-a-kind journals, designed by me: https://www.amazon.com/Leilani-Grace/e/B089DP8QR6 Please 5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ RATE & REVIEW in iTunes...2020-07-0715 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast51: Responding to Emotional ManipulatorsIn episode 50 I discussed how to recognize Emotional Manipulators. In this episode, I explain ways to respond to them. IG: UnmotheredUnbotheredPodcast FB: https://m.facebook.com/Unmotheredandunbotheredpodcast/Twitter: @theycallmepresh Tumblr: PreciousDetinaBlog: https://preciousdetina.comEmail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.comFollow my Amazon author page and check out my one-of-a-kind journals, designed by me: https://www.amazon.com/Leilani-Grace/e/B089DP8QR6 Please 5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ RATE & REVIEW in iTunes✔️SUBSCRIBE and ✔️SHARE--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-07-0111 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast50: Emotional Manipulation: What Are the Signs?After a short hiatus, the Unmothered + Unbothered podcast is back. In this episode, I detail the signs of emotional manipulation and provide specific examples of how it may look. You will be surprised at how many of these signs you recognize in others AND yourself. Knowing these signs will make you re-evaluate your relationships and make necessary adjustments. Stay tuned for an episode on how to respond to emotional manipulators. Hit that subscribe button so you won’t miss it!This episode is sponsored by Gemini Flyii. Where Tribal meets Bohemian Chic. To check out handmade jewelry for your personal sty...2020-06-2820 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast49: Meet Ms. Rose...My Mama.This is the episode you’ve all been waiting for, even if you didn’t know you were waiting! I am so excited about this one! Introducing Ms. Rose, the woman that gave birth to all this fabulousness called Precious Detina! Listen as we discuss self-love, the bible, and shame. What you will also hear is years of frustration, pain, anger, resentment, and PRIDE being washed away by growth and forgiveness!The rapport we have in this interview is all due to doing the work and divine intervention! Enjoy and please share!There is hope!...2020-05-1855 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast48: Mother’s Day Message for the UnmotheredSending light and love to the unmothered today!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-05-1007 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast47: No Contact, in My Own WordsIn this impromptu episode, I explain how an explosive argument with an ex and going no contact with my mother evoked similar feelings, and led to me cutting them both off!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-04-2119 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast46: Overly Involved Mother: An Anonymous Interview feat. “ Nicole”.In this episode I interviewed “Nicole”, who wished to remain anonymous. She shares a different aspect of toxic mothers that some would call MATERNAL ENMESHMENT. This can essentially be described as a mother being overly and inappropriately involved in their (in this case) daughters life. She lives through the daughter and depends on her for physical and emotional support in most cases. The mother does not want the daughter to have any independence and will guilt her if she has her own mind. There are many layers and degrees to enmeshment and in this episode you’ll hear “Nicole’s” version...2020-04-1235 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast45: I’m so Proud of You!!So many of us have a hard time complimenting ourselves. Patting ourselves on the back. Extending grace to ourselves. Well until you feel comfortable doing it, I GOT YOU!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-04-1005 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast44: I’m Wack AF!Taking a risk doesn’t make you wack. Not taking it does! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-04-0208 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast43: Stop Caring About the Opinions of People You Don’t KnowListen to this story about what happened to me today! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-3106 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast42: Don’t be Led by EmotionAlthough its easy, fight against it!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-3008 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast41: Trust Yourself to Make Decisions About Your LifeWe all are afraid to make a wrong decision in our lives but we cannot let that fear paralyze us. Oftentimes when we are afraid to make our own decisions, we lean on the advice of others. Subconsciously we want to share the blame in case something goes wrong. Get out of that habit! Trust yourself to make decisions about your own life! So what if it ends up being the wrong decision! Find the lesson in it and move on!! Be encouraged! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-2807 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast40: Your Voice Matters!Its late and I almost forgot...but I didn’t! Here’s your daily affirmation episode!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-2805 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast39: Your Past Shaped You Into Something Beautiful!Just in case you are ashamed of your past...tighten up, buttercup! There is nothing to be ashamed of! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-2605 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast38: You Are Full of Potential!This is the first episode in my Affirmation Series. I have compiled a few short episodes, designed to breathe life into everyone that listens! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-2507 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast37: If You Want to Hurt Me, Call Me Selfish.This episode hit home for me because I can relate to practically every characteristic of Dismissive Avoidants. At the same time, it gave me such a release and sense of peace because I know that there is a reason behind my actions. I now have to commit to continuing to work on being the best version of myself I can possibly be. I’m up for the challenge! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-1823 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast36: What You're Raised in, You Absorb feat. Brenna WilderBrenna Wilder, health & wellness entrepreneur and author of Wholly Healing, joins me this week and drops some major jewels! She has a passion for mental health, specifically family & childhood trauma. We connected via podcastguests.com and I am so happy we were able to chat. Growing up in a Lebanese family played a major part in the way toxicity and trauma were dealt with within her family. She shares how she was once homeless before moving into public housing with her family at 12, her suicide attempt at 14, and having to take care of her family at 16. Her stories about love an...2020-03-151h 04

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast35: Mama Drama Straight From My DM's: Should I Invite My Mother to My Wedding?In this episode, I share one of the many DM's I receive from women wanting to know what I would do in certain situations. My response is coming from what I would do PERSONALLY. I am in no way telling anyone what to do. Follow me on IG @unmotheredunbotheredpodcastEmail: unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2020-03-1110 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast34: You Can't Heal What You Haven't Uncovered.In this episode, I explain what core wounds are and why you need to connect to the source of your wounds in order to heal them. The "source" is not a person or people, but more about the wound that remained after trauma took place. For example, my mother not raising me left a core wound of rejection. This core wound has kept me from making genuine connections with some people and has caused me to reject others before they reject me. A few common core wounds are abandonment, betrayal, abuse, and rejection. Core wounds vary so make sure y...2020-02-1334 min

Melanated MomUnmothered and UnbotheredIn this episode Precious Detina and I dove into a topic that may be hard for most moms to receive well. It makes me rethink my whole parenting game...how can I be a better mother. A mother who shows up to go through the hard things with her kids while really hearing their voices. We spoke mostly to the tumultuous relationship that can happen between mother and daughter. If you want to get an insight on how you can structure the relationship that both you and your daughter need to have with one another, you will get a...2020-02-1238 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast33: "Going No Contact Was a Matter of Life and Death" feat. Shawn MarshallShawn Marshall joins me on this episode as we discuss boundaries, maternal abandonment, drug addiction, teen pregnancy, suicide and more. After listening to episode 26: No Contact Was Best, featuring Black Cat, Shawn had the courage to go no contact with her mom without feeling guilty. She joins me from Virginia, where she lives with her husband and six-year-old son. At the current age of 38, she is positioned to retire from the military in 2 years. Shawn and I became fast friends as we bonded over stories of trauma and pain. Through this newfound friendship, we hope to work through the f...2020-01-291h 00

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast32: April Mack Fit Spotlight/InterviewThis week on Tell Us About it Tuesday (or what was supposed to be TUAT), we have April Mack out of Birmingham, AL, creator of Kick | Box | Sculpt and host of the Warm Up, Cool Down Podcast. April and I go back 20 years to undergrad and it was great catching up with her. She discusses how she left corporate America to follow her passion and how she finds the most joy out of the non-paying gigs she gets. You also don't want to miss the story of how she was stopped in the grocery store by a woman she ne...2020-01-211h 02

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast31: The Key to My ConfidenceI am often asked about my ability to make decisions based on what is good for me. Sometimes that means upsetting or disappointing other people, but that comes with the territory. I have to have peace in my life and within my heart, so when making decisions I consider this first. In my life this often looks like creating boundaries for certain people or cutting them out of my life all-together. Though not always the easiest thing to do, it is always whats best for my sanity. I believe that being confident in who you are and t...2020-01-1331 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast30: What Type of Friend Are You?In this episode, I discuss my concern for people that feel they don’t need any friends or make no effort to be a good friend. I express my gratitude to all of the friends that I had growing up and how amazing they were to me during my times of need. Whether it was allowing me to wash clothes at their house, feeding me or allowing me to borrow clothes, I appreciate them! I give a shoutout to several of those friends at the end and add how many years we’ve been friends. I appreciate them more than I co...2020-01-0428 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast29: Cassie's World Podcast SpotlightThis week's Tell Us About it Tuesday features Cassie of Cassie's World podcast. Listen in as she tells me all about how and why she got started podcasting and her plans for 2020. She is a woman on a mission and I am here for it! Be sure to check her out on Instagram and on her website. Links below.IG: thepodcastcassiesworld Website: Cassie's World--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-12-3107 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast28: Views From a Jerk Spotlight with Nekos DavisOn this week's Tell Us About it Tuesday, I sit down with my friend, in real life, Nekos Davis. He is the host of Views From a Jerk podcast, a show in which his logic is the only logic that matters. If you want to hear a point of view that is probably unlike yours, tune in. Nekos is a highly opinionated, sarcastic comedienne, that will always bless you with a song. This 20 minute conversation will allow a small glimpse into what most of our conversations are like. You're welcome.IG: itsnekosTwitter: wheresNekos 2019-12-1721 min

Views From a JerkEp 5: The Break Is OverSo it’s been a while, but I’m glad to say the sabbatical is over. On this episode, I welcome myself back to recording. A friend (Precious Detina) of the show makes a guest appearance. The conversation begins, the laughs occur, and the logic spreads throughout. We touch on the “Shallow Hal Effect,” preference-type, classisms, & our ignorant cousin. Remember to correspond with me at the following places Twitter: @wheresNekos IG: @itsNekos & over itsnekos.com 2019-12-171h 00

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast27: Your Mama Lied to YouIn this episode, I discuss some of the lies that we were told by our mothers growing up. Mothers are supposed to uplift, encourage and inspire, but there are many that discourage, berate, and guilt. When you grow up hearing so many negative things about yourself, it is hard to see yourself as anything but what you were told you are. It's time for a change. All of the negativity your mama spewed at you in an effort to beat you down, were lies! Don't believe any of it! You are intelligent, capable and dope AF! How other people v...2019-12-1324 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast26: No Contact Was Best (feat. Black Cat)In this episode, I am joined by author and avid listener Black Cat. She saw my comment on a Youtube video and was so intrigued that she did a little digging to find my email. The rest is history. In this interview, we discuss why going no contact with her mom was best for her and how it was growing up in a house where she was belittled and constantly ridiculed. We find common ground when discussing how tough it is to unlearn the negative things we were told about ourselves growing up, even though we now know we wer...2019-12-0337 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast25: Holiday DreadThe truth is, I really don’t like the holiday season. It makes me sad but I fight through it. There are so many people that feel the same way. Just know that you are not alone. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-11-2813 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast24: Black Girls Have Good Credit 2 SpotlightIn this installment of Tell us About it Tuesday, I interview Jasmine Patton, Founder of Black Girls Have Good Credit 2, owner of Jazzy's Paradise Getaways and author of Black Girls Have Good Credit 2: Book of Poems. She is a woman on the move, determined to define her own destiny by following the path God has cleared just for her.FB: Black Girlz Have Good Credit 2 | Jazzy's Paradise GetawaysEmail: BGHGC2@gmail.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-11-2620 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast23: GeminiFlyii SpotlightIn the first installment of Tell Us About it Tuesday, I interview Ginger, creator of Gemini Flyii and Voice of the Makers podcast host. Gemini Flyii is Boho + Tribal infused handmade jewelry. Ginger finds beauty in a myriad of things and as a result finds inspiration in things that most would not. She also channels her creativity through her podcast and her new custom shirt line. She represents for all makers and we are so excited to have her on the show. Website: https://www.geminiflyii.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/geminiflyii/ | https://www.instagram.com/voiceofthemakers/Facebook: Gin Gemi...2019-11-1909 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast22: Family SecretsWe all have family secrets and know others that have family secrets. It’s no surprise that there are things that are not to be disclosed to everyone but what if the secret being kept is damaging to the entire family? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-11-1823 min

Unmothered + Unbothered PodcastBONUS: How to Tell Family “NO” and Feel Good About it. (Story time!)An impromptu episode about telling your family no and how to deal with the aftermath. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-11-1512 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast21: How to Respond to a GaslighterIn this episode, I discuss ways that I was able to free myself from a manipulative situation. I revisit the 6 signs of being gaslighted from episode 20 and explain how I directly applied them to my life. It was not an immediate change and I had to work hard at loving myself and demanding the treatment I knew I deserved. The key to freeing yourself from the manipulative hold of a gaslighting mother is self-love and trusting your choices and intuition. Seek validation from within instead of from external sources.FB: The Unmothered + Unbothered PodcastIG: @unmotheredunbotheredpodcastEmail: Unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com--- Send in a...2019-11-1228 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast20: "That's Not What I Remember" and Other Things Gaslighting Moms Say.Welcome to the gaslighting episode! This is by far Precious Detina's favorite episode to date because gaslighting is so prevalent! We explore the definition of gaslighting, specifically maternal gaslighting, and how it can affect you adversely in adulthood. Get your pen and paper and jot down these 6 signs that you were gaslighted by your mother. Did your mother: Make you question your past? Make you think your feelings aren't valid? Compete with you? Compare you to your sibling(s)? Show envy towards you/hinder your successes? Do one thing but say another?If so, LISTEN NOW!!!IG: UnmotheredUnbotheredPodcast | FB: The U...2019-10-2923 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast19: Be Careful With MeIn episode 19, Precious Detina updates listeners on what has been going on in her life, including visiting her mother! It has been several years since she's seen her and she didn't know what to expect. There is also a passionate discussion that focuses on healthy communication and why most people do not have a clue what that is. Precious expresses her disdain for the way some mothers speak to their children and sadness because those children have no idea that they are being disrespected and verbally & emotionally abused. Listeners are encouraged to demand to be spoken to in a respectful...2019-10-0923 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast18: UPDATE on me and my MomSince the motivation behind this podcast is to chronicle the relationship that I have with my mother and share in the frustrations and pain women go through from being unmothered, I thought I should update you on where we are. My mother and I have a long way to go but we are more communicative than ever before. She texts daily and I respond. That may not seem like much to some people but it is huge to me. In this episode, i share some of the things that have been going on with us, specifically things that I credit...2019-09-2410 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast17: 3 Reasons Its Okay to Fall Back SometimesThis week’s episode discusses 3 reasons it’s okay to take a break if you’re not feeling inspired. We all experience times in which creativity doesn’t flow. Sometimes we’re just flat out unmotivated. Other times we are emotionally drained and physically spent and need a mental health day. Or five. No worries. Take the time you need and get back on track when you can. IG: @unmotheredandunbothered | @PreciousDetina | FG Group: The Unmothered abs Unbothered Group. Main background track produced by @akilpratt on IG--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-09-1514 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast16: Are You Projecting Your Fears onto Your Children?Does YOUR fear hold your CHILDREN back? Are they insecure about things you pointed out? Are they afraid to share things with you because they fear you may shoot them down? Parents often have the best intentions for their kids but do not realize that they may be projecting their own fears onto their children. On this episode of Unmothered + Unbothered, Precious Detina discusses this touchy subject and briefly talks about some of the things she sees as an educator.Main background track, Cold Maybe, produced by @akilpratt on IG.IG: Unmothered and Unbothered | FB Group: The Unmothered + Unbothered Group | E...2019-08-2819 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast15: You Are EnoughThe title is self explanatory. Have a great week! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-08-1207 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast14: Do Not Relive Your MistakesPrecious Detina calls out people that want you to waddle in your mistakes and encourages you not to fall for it! Admit the mistake, apologize and move on. Outro music produced by @akilpratt on IGIG: Unmotheredandunbothered FB Group: The Unmothered and Unbothered Group Email: Unmotheredandunbothered@gmail.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-08-1109 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast13: Thin Line Between Honesty and RudenessThis episode hit very close to home as Precious takes a brief look at honesty and whether people use it as an excuse to be rude and hurtful. She also explains a surefire way to determine the difference. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-08-1006 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast12: Fake BougieIn this episode, Precious explains how wrong people are about her upon first interaction. She takes responsibility for the misconception but is unsure how to change it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-08-0906 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast11: You’re From New York!? How the Hell Did You End up in Alabama?? (1/5)My sis, Ginger or GeminiFlyii to most, has challenged me to release a 5 minute podcast for 5 days straight. CHALLENGE ACCEPTED! Being that my podcast is so specific in nature, I’ve decided to use these 5 minute episodes to share more about myself. This is the perfect way to engage a more diverse audience and allow a deeper dive into who Precious Detina really is! I’m going to start with the question I get the most! This will be interesting!Intro and Outro Produced by Akil Pratt. Follow him @akilpratt on IGChallenged by: @geminiflyiiChallenging: @viewsfromajerkIG: @unmotheredandunbotheredFB: The Unmothered and Unbothered Grou...2019-08-0710 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast10: Mother-ishFollow along as Precious Detina tells the story of a friend who refuses to allow her mother-in-law to be the mother she never had. In this episode, Precious explains how it feels to experience a Mother-daughter relationship, even if it is not with your biological mother and what you could potentially miss out on if you fight it. She even dared to say that her friend NEEDED her MIL’s relationship whether she realized it or not. Although she is being a little pushy, her MIL’s heart is in the right place. IG: Unmothered and Unbothered | FB Group: The Unmot...2019-07-1915 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast9: Are They Overreacting or Are They Triggered?On this week’s episode, we discuss trauma triggers. Host, Precious Detina, tells us a funny yet relevant story about her own experience with a trauma trigger. It’s funny now but was a terrifying experience that left her wondering if she was overreacting or had she been triggered. Hit that play button to find out. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-07-0634 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast8: When Your Truth Exposes OthersPrecious Detina is ready to tell her story. All of it. In order to do so, she will have to have some very uncomfortable conversations with those that may be a part of her story. In this episode, she explains that telling your truth does not betray others. Hiding or omitting your truth is not an option when seeking to be free. Your truth is your story and it never changes. Click the link to listen to her interview on the To Emerge Podcast, where she explains how she ended up on a Greyhound bus from NY to AL at...2019-06-2431 min

To EmergeKeeping an open heart with Precious DetinaMeet Precious Detina, a teacher and podcaster. Precious shares her story of growing up with a difficult mother-daughter relationship and the path that it set her on. She shares how she overcame difficult situations living in poverty as a young girl and how they shaped her into the empathetic women she is today. Precious' podcast, Unmothered & Unbothered, works to provide a safe space for women who have walked the journey of a hurtful relationship with their mother and seeks to encourage healing and understanding. If you have a difficult relationship with your mother, we hope you take...2019-06-1123 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast7: Just Because I'm Carrying it Doesn't Mean its Not HeavyJust because I'm carrying it doesn't mean its not heavy. Let that sink in.In this episode, Precious discusses the importance of not being presumptuous in assuming that people are okay. Just because people don't LOOK like they are carrying a heavy load does not mean they are not. Some people are barely making it: dragging their loads, switching hands, slinging it across their backs...but they are making it. Them being able to thrive does not minimize your wrongdoing in their lives. We must all acknowledge our part and not assume they are unaffected. An apology is still in o...2019-06-0412 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast6: I Know She’s My Mother But Does She Know I’m Her Daughter?This episode is a long time coming! SHE'S STILL YOUR MOTHER is a very damaging, dismissive and judgmental statement that so many are guilty of using. Most people do not mean much by it and simply say it because it seems like the right thing to say, while others truly believe that one should stick by their mother's side regardless of what she's done. This episode points out 3 things that everyone should know about this statement. Please listen with an open heart and mind so that true understanding can take place. Who This Episode is For: Unmothered women Women raised wi...2019-06-0427 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast5: Somebody Lied to YouIn this encouraging episode, Precious Detina speaks life into women that may feel they are less than, inadequate, or not worthy of the same blessings and benefits reaped upon women who were raised with their mothers. She implores them to know their worth and walk confidently into any room or situation they find themselves in because THEY BELONG THERE! IG: UnmotheredandUnbothered FB: Unmothered and Unbothered Apple | Google | Spotify Search: Unmothered + Unbothered--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-05-2720 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast4: Unmothered, Not BitterThis impromptu episode is all about showing love to great mothers. Precious had something on her heart and she wanted to share it with the wonderful mothers out there! Let us be the first to say -- Happy Mother's Day! IG: UnmotheredandUnbothered FB:Unmothered and Unbothered Apple | Google | Stitcher | Spotify Or Search: Unmothered + Unbothered on all platforms--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-05-0915 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast3: Faux Forgiveness pt. 2faux /fō/ adjective not genuine; fake or false In this episode, Precious discusses the 5 steps or processes she has gone through and is currently going through on the journey to forgiving her absent mother. There once was a time in which she thought she had forgiven her mother, however, she realized over the years that she still harbored ill feelings towards her. Her forgiveness had not been genuine. It was faux. Its time to get real! Intro and Outro Voice over: Selah11 via Fiverr.com Intro track: This is Soul Hip Hop by STEREO_JAM Keep Up With Me: Facebook and Ins...2019-04-2927 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast2: Faux Forgiveness pt. 1This is a teaser for episode 2 Faux Forgiveness, where I describe the very moment I knew I had to forgive my mother or turn into a monster.Keep Up With Me: Facebook and Instagram - Unmothered and Unbothered | Podcast Platforms: Unmothered + Unbothered--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-04-2912 min

Unmothered + Unbothered Podcast1: FacadeThis inaugural episode is the first in a four part series that will Dare You to Strip and force you to be your authentic self. If you want to move from being emotionally depleted to being full of joy and contentment, GET NAKED! Expose yourself so you don’t have to worry about someone doing it for you.Keep Up With Me: Facebook and Instagram - Unmothered and Unbothered | Podcast Platforms: Unmothered + Unbothered--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-04-1627 min

Unmothered + Unbothered PodcastTrailer: Mask OffIn this trailer, Precious gives a brief explanation for why she feels its necessary to create a space for the unmothered women of the world and what she hopes to accomplish with the podcast. By committing to being transparent and taking the mask off, she hopes to build a community of women that will support one another and become a safe haven for so many that have nowhere to unmask. It's time to heal, forgive and thrive!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unmotherednoproblem/message 2019-04-0714 min