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The Parenting Standard#58: If your kids are suddenly unresourceful when you are there, then...Picture this: A confident girl climbs the high dive, just like she did yesterday. But today, her dad is watching. He’s never there. And suddenly, she’s trembling. Frozen. Six minutes go by. She whispers, “I’m scared.” He crosses the line—literally—and screams. She crawls back down the ladder. The class ends in silence.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Take the 2 min Parenting Impact Quiz: https://www.successstacker.com/piq-2-minute-quiz | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form...2025-08-1418 minThe Parenting Standard#57: If your child keeps interrupting you mid-sentence, then…Picture this: You’re listening in on your child’s conversation with a beloved teacher. It’s serious. Deep. Then out of nowhere: “Can you move your eyes without moving your head?”Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Take the 2 min Parenting Impact Quiz: https://www.successstacker.com/piq-2-minute-quiz | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------You cringe. The moment is lost, right?But no. The teacher doesn’t flinch. She follows....2025-08-0711 minThe Parenting Standard#56: If you want the best school for your kids, then...Here’s a scene: You’re standing in the school hallway, choosing which door your child will walk through. One says “public school,” another “private.” Others whisper “Montessori,” “Steiner,” “homeschool.” Parents all around you are yelling directions—but no one’s asking what your child actually needs.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Take the 2 min Parenting Impact Quiz: https://www.successstacker.com/piq-2-minute-quiz | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------In this mind-opening episode, we tos...2025-07-3128 minThe Parenting Standard#55: If you’re tired of using threats with your kids, then...Picture this: You're running late, again. Your voice is rising, your child is stalling, and you’re issuing threats you don’t want to keep. You hate the sound of your own words—but what else can you do?Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Take the 2 min Parenting Impact Quiz: https://www.successstacker.com/piq-2-minute-quiz | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------You tell yourself you’re teaching responsibility. But what if all you’...2025-07-2824 minThe Parenting Standard#54: If you want a "genius" child, then...There you are, sitting across from another parent who just casually mentions their 15-year-old is about to enter college—as a third-year student. You smile politely. But inside, a silent flood rises: Am I doing enough for my kid? Should we be reading more? Did we miss something?This episode isn’t about praising “gifted” children. It’s about destroying the myth of genius.We confront the toxic myth of genius and expose the invisible trap parents fall into—valuing grades, tutors, and tight schedules over what really matters. The truth? Most “smart” kids aren’t smarter. They’re just following a sma...2025-07-1719 minThe Parenting Standard#53: If you're worried about your child falling behind, then...There you are, standing at the front door, shoes in hand, backpack slung, and your 8-year-old says, “I’ll be there in a minute!” But 1 minute later, they’re not there. And suddenly, you're wondering: What’s wrong with them? Or… is it me?In this revealing episode, we unravel the myth of cognitive timelines—and what truly makes a child “ready.” Forget checklists and charts. We explore how traditional development theories fail our kids and why values like responsibility, accountability, and dependability are the real milestones that matter.Through Priya's RADaR framework, we shift the spotlight from forced progress to authen...2025-07-1015 minThe Parenting Standard#52: If you want your kids to be more independent, then...There you are. Your kid scrapes their knee at the pool. They curl up, hurt—but not broken. Another parent looks at you. “Aren’t you going to help?” But what if you didn’t? What if you let them stay in the water, just long enough to learn something?In this episode, we turn parenting upside down. We talk about false expectations—not failure. We unpack how a milkshake swirl leads to a breakdown... and a breakthrough. And we share how a four-year-old cooking breakfast isn’t extraordinary—it’s preparation.We challenge the obsession with resilience and the myth that life...2025-07-0324 minThe Parenting Standard#51: If your kids keep breaking their promises, then...Picture this: You wake up determined—today’s the day. You’ll finally reclaim time for yourself. Maybe it’s the gym, a quiet coffee, a meditation. But life barges in. A text from work. Milk’s out. Kid’s shoes are missing. And that promise to yourself? Gone again.In this episode, we explore what happens when we treat our own promises as optional. You’ll learn why that erosion of trust—with yourself—is the true cost. And how it’s not willpower you’re lacking. It’s your brain quietly concluding: “You don’t mean it.”With raw stories and surprisin...2025-06-2614 minThe Parenting Standard#50: If sharing is important to you for your family, then...Imagine your kid’s face scrunching up, baffled by “share your toy, but also be kind to yourself.” That confusion? It’s a parenting trap we’ve all fallen into. In this episode, we unravel why “sharing” is a messy, useless word that leaves kids lost. Instead, picture your child crafting a playdate like a master host, handing out goodie bags, even giving away their favourite toys to spark joy. We explore how to swap sharing for “community-minded” thinking, teaching kids to design experiences that light up others—and themselves. From turning a 12-minute car ride into a BFF moment to greeting a...2025-06-1925 minThe Parenting Standard#49: If your child rejects their mother tongue, then...Picture this: You’re pleading with your kid to learn their mother tongue, but they shrug, “It’s boring.” Your heart sinks—how do you share your culture? In this episode, we dive into why motivation isn’t the answer. We share tales of kids who found joy in heritage through curiosity, not pressure. From Priya's own quest to connect with her grandmother’s language to simple ways to weave culture into daily life, we reveal how to make their roots resonate. Learn questions that unlock what their heritage means to them. Hit play and ignite a spark that ties them to t...2025-06-1227 minThe Parenting Standard#48: If you want to teach your kids about money, then...Picture this: You hand your child a dollar, their eyes wide with possibility. But then you hear yourself say, “Don’t waste it!”—and instantly, you’ve planted a seed of scarcity.And then perhaps you find yourself accidentally growing this scarcity mindset by repeating phrases like "Money doesn't grow on trees!", "I'm not made of money!" & "Money can't be wasted".In this episode, we unravel the “sticky patterns” that sabotage your child’s relationship with money, like thinking wealth is “filthy.” We reframe money as energy, like a river you direct toward growth, joy, or purpose. Forget “spending” or “saving”—it’s about a...2025-06-0525 minThe Parenting Standard#47: If you want your kids to make better decisions, then...Picture this: Your kid’s eyes light up, holding money for a new toy, but they hesitate, thinking ""I don't want to lose my money..."". They are wrestling with what ""loss"" means to them. We show you how discipline isn’t about enforcing bedtime routines—it’s about crafting questions that ignite a child’s deepest ""why.""We share a child’s journey from yarn to plants to reveal how kids can decide with purpose when emotions are clear. We’ll guide you to help your child connect feelings to choices, bu...2025-05-2926 minThe Parenting Standard#46: If your child keeps ignoring logic, then...Imagine this: You catch your nine-year-old sneaking chocolate — again. You’re not angry. Just confused. You had the talk. You made the rules. You were clear. And still, here you are — standing in the doorway, wondering why nothing you say seems to stick.This episode takes you into the trap every parent falls into believing that understanding = change. But asking “Why did you do that?” will only make it worse.You’ll learn how even well-meant questions backfire, why gentle words can feel like pressure, an...2025-05-2218 minThe Parenting Standard#45: If you’re stricter with one child than the other, then...There you are: Your voice snaps at one child for a minor mess, but the other’s chaos goes unchecked. Are you unknowingly playing favorites? We dig into the unsettling truth behind stricter parenting—how your own self-doubt and discomfort with a child’s differences fuel uneven rules. From clothes strewn by an eight-year-old to a teen’s maddening empty milk carton, rigid expectations can trap you in bias. Worse, your self-criticism might be punishing the child who mirrors you most. We share raw stories...2025-05-1515 minThe Parenting Standard#44: If you want to turn complaints into connection, then..."Imagine a 9-year-old girl, voice trembling, saying, “I want my younger brother back.” Her world’s shifting as her brother hits puberty, and she’s desperate to hold onto their wrestling matches and math sessions. We dive into this family’s raw, real dialogue, uncovering how change—like a teen’s mood swings or screen obsession—ripples through everyone. It’s not just about his transformation; it’s about her heart, her fears of losing their bond. We share a game-changing question: “Who do we want to become in this change?” From her plea to keep laser tag alive to a parent’s clever mon...2025-05-0812 minThe Parenting Standard#43: If puberty is changing your tween, then...Picture this: You hear your daughter whisper through tears, “I want my old brother back.” Puberty has stolen the boy she knew, and answers from ChatGPT only fuel the confusion: anger, aggression, territory. All expected, it says. Everyone nods—but should they?This week, we dig into why easy answers do more harm than good.You'll hear the harrowing story of a boy whose whole identity was crushed by a book that taught him to fear his own mind—and how his parents fought to bring him back.2025-05-0131 minThe Parenting Standard#42: If you think great parents "stop & listen" to their children, then...Imagine this: You’re pouring your heart into parenting, but each attempt to “listen” leaves you and your child on opposite sides of an invisible divide. The advice to ""listen to your child"" & understand their perspective? It’s a trap, setting you up for a lifetime of blame from a kid who feels unseen. In this episode, we expose the dark flaw in modern parenting—treating your child as “other” risks a bond as distant as strangers. Through gripping tales of love’s raw unity, we reveal...2025-04-2420 minThe Parenting Standard#41: If you’ve ever said “How would you like it if I did that to you…?”, then...There you are—snatching a toy from your kid’s hand, just to prove a point. You say, “How would you like it if I did that to you?” But here’s the twist—what if they say, “I’m fine with it”?This episode peels back the layers of parenting tactics we think are harmless—and reveals how they’re built on failed psychology, institutional control, and fear. We dig into why “consequences” might be the most damaging word in your parenting vocabulary. Why sticker charts and token rewards don’t work. Why contrast—the same tool used...2025-04-1721 minThe Parenting Standard#40: If you want to be a "good parent", then...Imagine this: You blink, and your child is dangling from the top of a jungle gym. Your breath catches. One wrong move and—your mind races. You want to shout. You need to shout. But instead… you stay silent.Because deep down, you’re testing something: What if your instinct to help is causing harm?This episode lays bare the invisible tension every parent carries—the crushing belief that constant instruction equals love, safety, responsibility. We unpack how that belief, born of fear, becomes a trap.Wit...2025-04-1019 minThe Parenting Standard#39: If your child thinks Elsa is the perfect role model, then...There you are, within earshot of a conversation that stops you cold: a mom tells her little boy she hopes he marries an ""Elsa."" It sounds sweet, but a nagging feeling surfaces. Are we sleepwalking into accepting potentially harmful role models for our kids? Frozen is everywhere, its songs inescapable, but what dangerous ideas might be hiding beneath the sparkle? We tackle the Elsa paradox head-on. Is her story truly empowering, or does it glorify running away, shirking duty, and a self-centeredness that leaves...2025-04-0321 minThe Parenting Standard#38: If you're tired of dishing out consequences to get your kids to behave, then...Picture this: You’re standing in your kitchen, exhausted. Your kid just rolled their eyes at you—again. You tried reasoning, consequences, maybe even a sticker chart. But nothing’s working.Now imagine this: What if the real problem wasn’t your kid—but the entire system you’ve been using?We’ve all been conditioned by behaviorism—rewards, punishments, control tactics we don’t even question. But what if there’s another way? A way that doesn’t rely on bribes or power struggles?In this episode, we...2025-03-2734 minThe Parenting Standard#37: If your child can’t handle boredom, then…Picture this: Your child slumps onto the couch, sighing, "I'm bored." You reach for a solution—an activity, a screen, something to end their discomfort. But what if boredom is exactly what they need?In this episode, we dive into the power of boredom and discomfort in shaping resilient, independent kids. We explore why today’s children crave constant stimulation, how overscheduling steals their ability to self-entertain, and the dark side of "screenagers"—dopamine-driven, emotionally volatile, and addicted to instant gratification.We unpack why shielding kids from hardship does more h...2025-03-2025 minThe Parenting Standard#36: If you want to do parenting proactively instead of reactively, then...Picture this: You're late for school, tension’s high, and you casually ask, ""What makes a sleepover unforgettable?"" It seems random, but that’s where real conversations begin.In this episode, we reveal why heavy, planned ""talks"" at dinner or bedtime often miss the mark—and how brief, casual chats during everyday moments can build lasting trust. Hear stories of kids opening up about loss and bullying, not during scheduled talks, but over casual lunches and car rides.Discover how small, playful questions can create deep, meaningful connections without pressu...2025-03-1318 minThe Parenting Standard#35: If you think your teen has outgrown praise, then...Picture this: Your teenager stands in the kitchen, face serious. “Mom, can you celebrate me? Like... really celebrate me?”Turns out, he’s been craving the same over-the-top praise you used to give him when he was little—potty dances and all.In this episode, we explore what happens when the cheering stops. When milestones become expectations, and our kids quietly wonder if anyone notices them at all. We share wild stories—road rage, racist drivers, and the terrifying truths of sending our teens into the world.2025-03-0626 minThe Parenting Standard#34: If you're always solving problems for your children, then...Picture this: You’re exhausted. It’s been a day of breaking up sibling fights, micromanaging homework, reminding them—again—to be kind, to share, to clean up. And yet, tomorrow, it’ll be the same. Because here’s the truth: the more you control, the less they learn.This episode is about why most parents set their kids up for failure by over-managing instead of guiding. We’ll break down Priya's very own ""RADaR"" framework and why forced kindness and “we don’t do that” parenting can backfire.Want your kids to gr...2025-02-2719 minThe Parenting Standard#33: If you want to be a leader for your children, then...Imagine this: Your teen is about to leave home. You’ve spent years modeling good habits, values, structure. But as the days tick down, panic sets in. Did they even learn anything? Will they fall apart the moment they’re on their own?This is the fear that haunts so many parents. We cling to the belief that if we model well enough, our children will mirror us. But what if that’s the very thing pushing them away?In this episode, we uncover the painful truth about forced modeli...2025-02-2017 minThe Parenting Standard#32: If you’re not sure when to push or pause, then...There you are. Your five-year-old is frozen in fear on a ski slope. What was supposed to be fun has turned into panic. You’re 15 meters below, a two-year-old strapped to your chest, and your wife waiting further down. You climb back up. Now what?Shout encouragement? Give a pep talk? Bark orders? Carry her down?This isn’t just skiing—it’s parenting in real time. It’s the moment when fear takes hold, and you have to decide: is this a lesson in toughness or something else entirely?2025-02-1317 minThe Parenting Standard#31: If you want to know the #1 mistake parents make, then...Picture this: You say the same thing every single morning. “Put your shoes on.” “Brush your teeth.” “Stop hitting your sister.” You’re a broken record, and no matter how many times you say it today, you’ll have to say it again tomorrow.But what if we told you it doesn’t have to be this way?Parents have spent the last century obsessed with controlling behavior—believing that if we just shape our kids the right way, they’ll grow up successful. And yet, anxiety, depression, and screen addiction are a...2025-02-1023 minThe Parenting Standard#30: If parenting feels like a battle or struggle, then...Picture this: You're drowning in parenting advice that treats every interaction with your child like a military operation. The Facebook ads scream about ""winning battles"" with your toddler. The parenting books outline ""strategies"" for ""defeating"" tantrums. And somewhere deep inside, you realize this combat mindset is slowly destroying the very connection you're trying to build with your child.What happens when we've turned our homes into battlegrounds? Listen in as we uncover how this warfare mentality is sabotaging parents worldwide, and discover a transformative approach that could save your family's peace – before your next ba...2025-02-0613 minThe Parenting Standard#29: If you want your kids to take action without conditions, nagging or whining, then...Picture this: A family living on the edge, where every imposed rule ignites a quiet rebellion. We reveal a stark reality—if we dare to dictate our children’s lives, they will push back, setting conditions that could shatter our bond.
In this engaging banter, we dive into the fear of losing control when breaking the rules, hiding secrets and asking “what do you want?” becomes the everyday norm.
With heart-pounding stories of near-breakdowns and raw confrontations, we show how values-based conversations aren’t just a luxury—they’re essential to s...2025-02-0309 minThe Parenting Standard#28: If your child hears “no” too often, then…Picture this: Your child begs for extra screen time. Instead of saying no, you say, “Yes, if…” Suddenly, they’re negotiating, strategizing, figuring out how to earn it.
One woman built her entire life around this idea—leading a thriving business and raising kids who naturally problem-solve. But is it genius or a slippery slope? Does it inspire independence, or turn parenting into a constant deal-making session?
We break down the risks & rewards of this type of strategy but then we explore an alternative - A high-stakes story of a student...2025-01-3014 minThe Parenting Standard#27: If every day feels like a juggling act, then...Picture this: You’re rushing to drop one child at gymnastics, another needs picking up from school, and dinner for your partner isn’t even started. You feel the overwhelm creeping in—every decision feels like a battle of priorities. Who comes first, and what gets left behind?Now imagine flipping that script. Instead of reacting to stress, you redefine simplicity. What if simplicity wasn’t about cutting things out but about making space for connection? In this episode, we share a transformative framework born from a year-and-a-half of deep conversations—a sticky note with three...2025-01-2716 minThe Parenting Standard#26: If your teen thinks everything’s dumb or boring, then...Picture this: Your teenager bursts through the door, rolling their eyes at the rigid formulas of their English class. It’s a window into a bigger challenge: balancing creativity with conformity, amusement with meaningful enjoyment. What begins as a rant about dumb rubrics evolves into an exploration of entertainment, overstimulation, and how we teach our kids to think beyond the surface.Discover how a single question—“Does enjoyment have to be entertaining?”—sparks a transformative conversation. You’ll hear about redefining success, the hidden costs of our amusement culture, and guiding kids toward curiosity and purpose...2025-01-2316 minThe Parenting Standard#25: If you can’t hear “that voice” again, then...Picture this: Your child’s “voice” grates like nails on a chalkboard, and you feel your frustration boiling over. But wait—what if this isn’t just noise? What if it’s a doorway to something profound? Join us as we dive into those raw, irritating moments and uncover how they teach us about authenticity, acceptance, and the stories we tell ourselves and our kids. This isn’t just parenting; it’s about rewriting the script of connection.---------------------------- Do you have some qu...2025-01-2013 minThe Parenting Standard#24: If the small stuff keeps ruining everything, then...Here’s the scene: The house is chaos. Kids are yelling, time is slipping, and your toothbrush head—missing. Again. You scramble, anger rising, wondering why your kids can’t just listen.This dad felt the same. He tried reasoning, pleading, even teaching thoughtfulness. Nothing worked. Until one day, he realized: it wasn’t about them. It was about simplifying the madness. One small change brought unexpected peace. And that small change didn't depend on anyone else doing anything.This isn’t just about a toothbrush; it’s about survival in...2025-01-1612 minThe Parenting Standard#23: If you're giving your all and still feel it's not enough, then...Picture this: You’re constantly running on empty. The kids need you, work is piling up, and somewhere along the way, you’ve forgotten what it feels like to breathe. Parenting wasn’t supposed to feel like this – like a never-ending sacrifice.In this episode, we dive into the hidden toll of parenting burnout and, more importantly, how to stop it. It’s not about getting your kids to behave – it’s about measuring how well you are holding up. From guarding your mind against toxic thoughts to finding joy in giving (without giving up), we reveal...2025-01-1314 minThe Parenting Standard#22: If you want home to feel safe and free to your kids, then...Picture this: Your child freezes at the dinner table. They’re excited, but should they be authentic and sing about it? Or should they speak calmly and considerately because they’re at the table? Or should they do nothing because mummy or daddy might’ve had a long day? They’re stuck—afraid to speak up, confused by the mountain of rules you’ve unknowingly stacked.Elon Musk’s words hit hard: “When you have too many rules, everything becomes illegal.” This episode unpacks how over-planning and excessive control may be breaking your child’s spirit. Harry and...2025-01-0917 minThe Parenting Standard#21: If you’re scared of looking like a bad parent, then...Picture this: The yelling starts. A fork drops. Eyes dart toward you. In that instant, you wonder—""Am I being judged as a bad parent?""We know that feeling. But what if you could dissolve that fear instantly? This episode reveals the three simple questions that bring peace back to public parenting. No more second-guessing, no more performing. Just you, your child, and the calm you crave.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We co...2025-01-0612 minThe Parenting Standard#20: If tantrums are driving you crazy, then...Picture this: Your child is in full meltdown mode. The screaming echoes. Every word you say feels like gasoline on the fire. You try reason, logic, bribery—but nothing works.
This episode is about what actually does work. Learn the counterintuitive (and slightly ridiculous) ways to shift your child’s emotional state—by shifting yours first. Whether it’s throwing Squishmallows or acting like a monkey, we reveal the small physical tricks that dissolve tantrums faster than words ever could.
Because the longer the meltdown lasts, the harder it is for e...2025-01-0218 minThe Parenting Standard#19: If you want to apply life lessons from role models, then...Picture this: You’re scrolling through social media, and there it is—another perfect parent, effortlessly handling tantrums, crafting homemade meals, and still smiling. And there you are, drowning in parenting chaos.
Here’s the truth: no one is that perfect. But what if you didn’t need them to be?
In this episode, we shatter the myth of all-or-nothing parenting. Forget copying everything from one person. Instead, pick and choose—the way you’d fill a plate at a buffet. Take patience from one, playfulness from another, and leave the re...2024-12-3030 minThe Parenting Standard#18: If you need your kids to "show more respect", then...Picture this: You’ve repeated yourself four times. Your child’s still playing. You feel the heat rise in your chest. This isn’t just ignoring – it feels personal. ""Why won’t they listen?""
In this episode, Harry and Priya unravel why kids ignore instructions, why it’s so triggering for parents, and how ""disrespect"" might be a misread signal. If you’ve ever left the park fuming or canceled an outing because of pushback, you’re not alone.
What if the secret isn’t in demanding respect, but in shifting how we...2024-12-2620 minThe Parenting Standard#17: If you want them to embrace choices not just avoid consequences, then...Picture this: Your child inches toward the top of a tree branch, legs trembling. You want to scream, “Get down now!” But will that empower your child to make the right choices on their own? Will it stop them next time when you're not there?
In this episode, we unravel the hidden weight of the word “consequence.” Why do we always assume it’s negative? What if guiding children was about possibility, not fear?
Join us as we explore how to shift the narrative—teaching kids to think critically while trusti...2024-12-2318 minThe Parenting Standard#16: If you're (also) getting angry with your kids, then...Picture this: You’re yelling at your kids, anger rising as you sit in the car. Suddenly, your child asks, “Do you really need to be yelling at us right now?” The question stings, forcing you to confront your own frustration.
In this episode, we dive into parenting’s hardest moments—the ones filled with frustration, unmet expectations, and guilt. Learn why anger surfaces, how to reframe your desires, and why collaboration with your kids might be the missing piece. You’ll hear about tantrums (both theirs and yours), repairing relationships, and practical strategies to keep calm...2024-12-1923 minThe Parenting Standard#15: If ADHD or Autism is defining who your child is, then...What if the diagnosis your child was given is the wrong solution? What if the system built to help them is actually holding them back?
In this episode, we expose the pitfalls of modern diagnoses and why they could limit—not liberate—your child. Discover how to escape the trap of step-by-step parenting and unleash your child’s unique brain patterns.
The greatest danger isn’t the diagnosis—it’s how you use it.
Let’s change the story.
...2024-12-1623 minThe Parenting Standard#14: If you believe that “Parenting is Hard”, then...Picture this: You’re standing at the edge of the Grand Canyon, awestruck by its layers and vastness. But here’s the twist: this marvel wasn’t carved by chaos—it was shaped by a single river, flowing steadily over time. Now imagine that river is you, and the canyon is your child’s future.
Parenting feels overwhelming because we’ve been told it’s supposed to be. ""It’s hard!"" we say, clutching myths like ""it takes a village."" But what if the real secret is clarity—not effort? This conversation reshapes the narrative, from th...2024-12-1329 minThe Parenting Standard#13: If trauma culture concerns you, then...Picture this: Your child comes home, naming their anxiety, calling it universal, almost inevitable. It’s what they’ve learned—online, in therapy, from friends. But deep down, a voice whispers: What if this narrative cripples them instead of helping them grow?
This episode confronts the dangerous normalization of anxiety and trauma. Are these concepts empowering your kids or anchoring them to fear? Learn how ""The Five Gifts of Gratitude"" can replace these harmful scripts, giving children tools to contextualize challenges with grace. Hear powerful stories, like Tony Robbins’ defiance of a painful past, that pro...2024-12-0929 minThe Parenting Standard#12: If you want to know what kids need instead of grit, then...Picture this: Your child faces a challenge, and the world’s advice is “Push harder.” But what if that push risks burnout or makes them feel inadequate? In this eye-opening episode, we uncover the dangers of glamorizing “push through,” explore the transformative power of precise language, and show you how to inspire resilience without exhaustion. Join us to learn how a single word choice can empower your child to face life’s challenges with clarity and confidence.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences...2024-12-0525 minThe Parenting Standard#11: If you want to handle “I’m bored” better, then...Picture this: Summer starts, and structure collapses. Your kids are restless, complaining of boredom. Panic sets in—should you fill their days with camps or worksheets? This episode flips the script, revealing why downtime isn’t a problem—it’s a gift. Discover how to help your kids embrace unstructured time, turn complaints into creativity, and grow in ways schools can’t teach. Let this be the summer you do less, and they gain more.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could...2024-12-0113 minThe Parenting Standard#10: If they’re ready to give up too soon, then...Picture this: Your child finally joins the gymnastics classes they begged for—gleeful, confident, and dreaming big. Three months later, they’re frustrated, struggling with a difficult technique, and ready to quit. The promises, the excitement? Gone. What now?This episode dives deep into those moments where motivation wanes. What do they mean, and what should parents do? Learn how to teach your child that resilience isn’t about being the best but about facing discomfort and deciding if—and why—they want to keep going.Together, we’ll explore how...2024-11-2720 minThe Parenting Standard#9: If you're running on fumes and still saying yes, then...Imagine this: Your child beams with excitement about their next big activity. But all you can think is, “How can I possibly fit this in?” The schedule’s already bursting, your work’s piling up, and you’re running on fumes.If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. In this episode, we tackle the fear of dropping the ball and the guilt of saying no. From using untapped internal resources to finding flexibility amidst chaos, we’ll show you how to adapt and thrive. Don’t let overwhelm steal your child’s dreams—or your peace of min...2024-11-2524 minThe Parenting Standard#8: If your calendar runs your family, then...Do you ever feel like your family’s calendar has a mind of its own? Like one more commitment could tip the whole schedule into chaos?In this episode, we dive into the world of parenting when things don’t go as planned—because, let’s face it, with kids, surprises are inevitable. Our hosts share how to balance structured days with moments of spontaneity that make life memorable.You’ll hear real stories of travel adventures gone awry, snack-related mishaps, and the wisdom of “recovering planners” who learned the hard way...2024-11-2131 minThe Parenting Standard#7: If you’re correcting more than you’re connecting, then...Imagine this: Every conversation with your child feels like a power struggle, leaving you wondering if you’ve already lost the connection. Do you focus on correcting behaviour, or rebuilding trust?We’ll discuss how you can set limits without sacrificing your bond, and why viewing family interactions as something to value (not manage) could change everything.You don’t have to watch your relationship slip away while struggling with boundaries. Tune in to see how these simple shifts can strengthen your parenting journey and bring peace back to your h...2024-11-1822 minThe Parenting Standard#6: If you want kids who jump into action to get ready, then...Picture this: It’s morning, and you’re already running late. You’ve told your child to hurry, again and again, but there they are—lost in their own world, trying on outfits or gazing into the mirror. Frustration rises. But here’s the catch: what if rushing isn't the solution?
In this insightful conversation, we break down a radically different approach. Instead of rushing, imagine matching your child’s energy and gradually lifting it, turning a stressful morning into a positive, team-building experience. From incantations and gratitude practices to the 'copy each other' game, these...2024-11-1425 minThe Parenting Standard#5: If you want to be celebrated as a loving parent, then...Picture this: You see the term “toxic parenting” pop up on your feed—again. Words like “manipulative” and “controlling” flash at you, making you question every small mistake. What if you’re one of those parents?
Harry and Priya get it.
This episode cuts through the fear-mongering to offer a new path: one focused on building lasting connections with your kids. Forget the labels; they’ll guide you in shifting from instructional to inspirational parenting, using stories and honest conversations to foster independence.
This isn’t about dodgin...2024-11-1124 minThe Parenting Standard#4: If you want kids who think responsibility is a blast, then...Imagine this: You’re watching your child rush out the door, barely half-prepared, and you feel that familiar frustration rise—why can’t they just be more responsible? In this episode, Priya and Harry reveal the truth about what responsibility really means and why the word itself might be working against you.
By breaking it down into four values—accountability, dependability, reliability, and response-ability—they show you how to truly guide your child toward self-ownership. Through a touching real-life exchange, Harry demonstrates these values in action, proving that ‘responsibility’ isn’t about perfection but about real growt...2024-11-0723 minThe Parenting Standard#3: If you want to prepare your kids while letting them find their own way, then...Picture this: You're sitting at your dining table, absolutely certain you know what's best for your child. Your heart races as you recognize patterns from your own past – patterns that led to burnout, stress, and even physical illness. You're ready to step in, to save them from the path you walked.
But what if that certainty is the very thing standing between you and truly understanding your child?
In this eye-opening conversation, we witness a mother's powerful moment of revelation when her son transforms what she saw as a hi...2024-11-0420 minThe Parenting Standard#2: If you want to reclaim your focus and energy from screens, then...Picture this: You're all cozy on your couch, remote in hand, snacks in the other, fighting that familiar battle between ""just one more episode"" and your better intentions. But what if I told you that your show choices aren't just random entertainment – they're actually sophisticated signals from your brain about your deeper needs?
In this eye-opening conversation, we decode the hidden language of your viewing habits, revealing why drama lovers might be seeking connection, thriller enthusiasts crave variety, and documentary watchers are pursuing growth in disguise.
Through fascinating insights in...2024-10-3108 minThe Parenting Standard#1: If you want kids to engage mindfully with screens, then...Picture this: You're curled up with your child at bedtime when a startling truth hits you – maybe our kids' screen time struggles aren't just about them. Maybe they're about us, too.
In this eye-opening conversation, we dive into one mother's late-night revelation that transformed her family's entire approach to technology. When her 8-year-old daughter found an ingenious way to multiply her screen time across devices, it didn't lead to punishment – it sparked a revolutionary three-step framework that turns traditional screen time management on its head.
You'll discover why measuring scre...2024-10-3111 min
Success With Purpose040 Priya Narthakii | Values for Success in Marriage, Parenting & BusinessPriya has had a pretty extraordinary life so far. And what changed her direction is raw, authentic & inspiring.
At age 7, she was a professional “child prodigy” Indian dance performer. She’s completed 2 degrees in 3 years, 2 masters in 1 year, deferred medical degree and studied business instead, built incredibly successful businesses, been a high flyer business consultant and then one moment changed it all.
Her son’s first word was not “amma” or “mama”. It was “Priya”.
She quit her job, pursued connection, focused on family and reconnected with spirituality.
But perhaps the most inspiring part of Priya’s journey today is her marriage, her relation...2023-08-142h 11