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Probably OK Parenting54: Parenting HOT TAKESWe heard last week's episode was a snoozer...so we tried to spice this one up a bit. We discussed some parenting hot takes (thanks for some listeners for entries!), a pretty shameful combined parenting confession, the quality of our neighborhood pool snack shack, and our 4.5 year old starting swim lessons with a 12 year old "teacher." It's Probably OK!
2026-06-221h 17Probably OK Parenting53: Can you name a professional baseball player?Well friends, I don't even know what happened in the episode. A lot of tomfoolery. Listen to find out. It's Probably OK!
2026-06-0836 minProbably OK Parenting52: Sticky Sitch!Allison & Brian do their best to navigate a sticky stitch involving unruly children at a playground, debate the morality of having kids involved in paid content on social media , confess their weirdest behaviors at the neighborhood T-ball game, and go off on at least 15 random tangents. It's Probably OK!
2026-04-2357 minProbably OK Parenting51: Not the Fun HouseMusings about after school activities, trying to host fun playdates, the horrors of feeding your child frozen mac and cheese, and more!
2026-02-1546 minProbably OK Parenting50: Parenting Other People's ChildrenBrian & Allison are back with a smattering of updates! They share what strange details their child is divulging to the preschool teacher, why another mom gave Allison an obscene gesture, and the story of Allison getting into a verbal altercation with another mom in the preschool drop off line. Brian has a lot to say about it, as you can imagine. But- you don't have to imagine! You can listen as EPISODE 50 IS OUT NOW!
2025-12-1842 minProbably OK Parenting49: Is Mick Jagger your dad?Well folks- we're summing up a summer of parenting fun in this episode. Travel adventures, trips to urgent care, parenting confessions, playdates, roller coasters (both of the emotional variety and the amusement park variety) are all discussed at length. This episode ends with a particularly upsetting story, but otherwise, it's just us laughing our way through doing our best raising our FOUR year old. Grilabit!
2025-08-311h 10Probably OK Parenting48: The Juice is LooseWell folks, this one has it all. Allison & Brian grapple with many issues as they try to set rules for their toddler---especially when they differ from the rules of his friends' families. We've got many parent confessions (some more serious than others--Brian's got a BIG one!) and a big disagreement over sharing sunscreen (we need your input!), a rare satellite segment , discussion over whether it's appropriate to wear a g-string bikini to the tot pool with your child, cringe moments with other parents at a birthday party, attempts to try to limit our toddler's sugar intake and more...
2025-06-271h 01Probably OK Parenting47: Major Parenting GripesAllison & Brian discuss some cringe-worthy experiences with other parents at the playground, debrief the end-of-year preschool parent-teacher conference, discuss watching their son cry through soccer practice, debate the legalities of performing a 'citizen's arrest,' gripe about meaningless details, and much more in this whirlDwind of an episode. Goodnight, mam!
2025-05-1457 minProbably OK Parenting46: Toys 'R Lust: The Kelce PickupAllison may have accidentally hit on a dad at the toy store, and Brian gets criticized for not allowing his son to use an ipad during dinner...They also recap their recent traumatic flu experience, debrief the experience of bringing their 3 year old to his first funeral, celebrate becoming an aunt and uncle, reflect on frolicking around New York City with a toddler, and can't help but end up sharing their thoughts on the White Lotus Season 3 Finale. It's all over the map and it's probably OK!
2025-04-1145 minProbably OK Parenting45: The Mangione SliceIn this whirlwind episode, Allison delivers on a critical update that ALL the fans have been yearning for. Also included: discussion over our future pizzeria based on famous killers, whether or not it's rude to compare someone's baby to your dog, and some HIGH quality presidential impressions. You don't want to miss! It's PROBABLY OK!
2024-12-2047 minProbably OK Parenting44: Too Much GlueAllison & Brian discuss their first "Parent-Teacher Conference" for their 3 year old preschooler. Also, yet again- a NEW SEGMENT- is introduced, called "AITA?" where Allison questions the excuses her friends give to avoid hanging out with her. Lastly, Allison's encounter with another mom at the library leaves us all wondering what the heck is going on.... Please listen and us know if you think she's in danger.
2024-11-1749 minProbably OK Parenting43: Parenting PeevesWe're back! Our 3 year old toddler is up to his usual antics and we're here to talk about it! Why are there 10 zillion halloween events? And why do all child events include some sort of zoo animal? All this an MORE, including our new segment "parenting peeves." Lots to get into! Visit us on instagram @ProbablyOKParenting and let us know what you think of the episode.
2024-10-3041 minProbably OK Parenting42: Tough Transitions in the time of THREEAllison & Brian discuss BIG emotions, their attempts to reinforce manners and their toddler's reactions to changes in routine as their toddler just turned THE BIG 3! They also introduce a new segment called "PICK A FIGHT" where they battle it out over whether or not their 3-year old still needs a daily nap. As usual, many tangents derail the conversation and Brian & Allison attempt to right the ship among the choppy seas of their discussions! Visit us on Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting and let us know what you think of the episode, who "WON" the fight, and if you disagree with any...
2024-08-2850 minProbably OK Parenting41: Big Boy Bed BluesOn the eve of their son's 3rd birthday, Allison & Brian reflect on 3 years of parenting while they come to terms with the fact that their child might be disappointed with his birthday plans for this year. In addition, they reflect on using humor/sarcasm as a parenting technique and spend a lot of time hashing out the WOES of switching from a crib to a "big boy bed."
2024-08-1638 minProbably OK Parenting40: Ask The ManagerAllison & Brian recap the last few weeks in toddlertown including weird antics of their 2.5 year old and various parenting confessions. They start exploring their different parenting boundaries and realize they have contrasting ideas of what rules are acceptable. It gets HEATED! Find us on Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting and comment to help us settle this dispute! Who is being reasonable and who is being ridiculous?!
2024-07-0942 minProbably OK Parenting39: You Don't Control PeopleAllison & Brian celebrate their Paci Sobriety, debrief their first kids-only playdate, discuss some important etiquette issues regarding kid birthday parties, and discuss the ways in which they "bend" the truth when talking with their 2 year and 9 month old. Just some good old fashioned parenting fun!
2024-06-1343 minProbably OK Parenting38: Potty TalkOur toddler is 2 years and 9 months old and we're using potty talk in every sense of the phrase.... Including lots of toilet discussions (Can we all agree the men's room in the airport is a definite hellscape?!) AND some *warning* explicit language while ranting about the trials of frustrations of health insurance! Thanks for listening! Visit us on instagram @ProbablyOKParenting
2024-05-2352 minProbably OK Parenting37: Comedy HealsBrian & Allison spend most of this episode recounting an extremely traumatic parenting event that happened recently involving their (almost) 2.5 year old toddler, two ambulances, and a naked Brian in the middle of the street. Thankfully, everything turned out OK, and they are now able laugh about many aspects of the insane story. They also give an update on their potty training efforts and end with the fan favorite segment, "high, low, weird."
2024-01-1559 minProbably OK Parenting36: Mom-trepreneurOn today's episode, we recap our first scary injury with our 2-year old before moving into a 'parenting news' segment about building a side-hustle through social media. We got to interview special guest Jessica Chapman (@cozyandevergreen) about what it's like to be a busy mom of 2 AND active social media entrepreneur. We conclude the episode discussing a new law in Illinois that will attempt to apply child labor laws to children of exploitative influencers. Find us on Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting
2023-09-0959 minProbably OK Parenting35: I dunno about you..but I'm feelin TwoBaby C turned the big T-W-O and we have lots to say about it. We also recap our first (traumatic) trip to the pediatric dentist, a sleepy parenting confession, how to simultaneously enforce rules and manners, and generally overanalyze any interaction we've had with our 2-year old toddler. Moms out there: let us know if you've ever been 'picked up' at a local spot. Come here often?!
2023-08-1946 minProbably OK Parenting34: Holy $#@&!Allison & Brian talk sleep woes, a new toddler travel experience, the deep regret that follows them to any toddler restaurant experience, Brian's shocking parenting confession, a sticky situation involving a stark contrast of expectations among parents of your child's friends, and digest an article on the contrasting parenting norms around the world. It's a doozy!
2023-07-2348 minProbably OK Parenting33: The 'Illusion of Independence" EraWhat do raising boys, meth-dealership windows, and a bidet have in common? You'll have to listen to episode 33 to find out! There's a lot packed into his episode, including Brian's weirdest "weird" he's experienced yet in this crazy game called parenting! Does anyone else....experience "nap paralysis"? Let us know @ProbablyOKParenting
2023-06-2654 minProbably OK Parenting32: No Experts in ParentingIn Episode 32, we dive deep into some parent confessions, question our conflict-navigation skills, randomly break out into Italian pop song lyrics, and discuss the parenting chapter of Brene Brown's Book, "Daring Greatly." It's a personal and reflective episode, full of ridiculous tomfoolery. What does our 21-month-old toddler have in common with the main love interest in any romantic comedy? You gotta listen to find out!
2023-06-0243 minProbably OK Parenting31: Diapers & Crib foreverBaby C is 21 months old and his parents have differing opinions about potty training and transitioning to a toddler bed.. They also wonder... does anyone else have a hard time keeping up emotionally with their toddler's mood swings? Also, is it inappropriate to mean mug another child at the playground? Let us know what you think @ProbablyOKParenting
2023-05-2144 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 30: International BabeOn today's episode, we discuss some recent travel adventures with our 20-month old, what happened when Allison tried to pull a fast one on a TSA agent, and some interesting playground interactions.. We also launch a new segment; "Sticky Sitch" where we interview one of our dear friends of the pod (DFPs) about a tricky parenting situation! Find us on instagram @ProbablyOKParenting and let listener Heather know what she should do!
2023-04-161h 01Probably OK ParentingEp 29: 25 Things Parents Shouldn't DoAllison & Brian break down an article from www.mykidstime.com describing many parenting "no-nos." As always, they have more than a few meandering thoughts as they relate these items to their own journey raising their 19-month old toddler.
2023-03-2638 minProbably OK Parenting28: The 8 SecretsIn this episode, we discuss the book "8 Secrets to Raising Successful Kids" by Dr. Kevin Leman. Trust us...all you have to do is listen to this episode and you'll never have any issues with your child ever again...guaranteed. Probably.
2023-03-1642 minProbably OK Parenting27: And Sally turned out to be... Barack ObamaIs playing a video game an extraverted or introverted activity? We don’t exactly agree and we’d love to hear your thoughts, DFPs! In this episode, Allison & Brian discuss the book “The Child Code” and continue the age old “nature vs. nurture debate.” They discuss the famous “marshmallow test” and if kids who have self control truly end up more successful or not? You’ll have to listen to find out how little Sally turned into Barack Obama. Brian might call BS…but either way… It’s probably OK. Visit us on Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting
2023-03-0736 minProbably OK Parenting26: Is that a baby toy or are you just happy to see me?What happens when your child's beloved pop-it toy is the talk of the town? How can we re-brand "mom-nesia"? Why is there really no perfect day-care situation no matter how hard you try to find one? Why is Brian a judgmental parent? All of these questions & MORE answered in this episode full of ridiculous tomfoolery. Baby C is 18-months old. Visit us on Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting
2023-02-2643 minProbably OK Parenting25: It's in the GenesAllison & Brian discuss how much of their child's personality is just the makeup of his genetic code versus the result of their expert-level parenting decisions as they recap the beginning of the book "The Child Code," by Danielle Dick. Brian has a parenting confession (uh oh!) and they both discuss balancing a very busy week at work with caring for their (newly) 18-month old toddler. Was bringing him to work with them a huge mistake? Maybe so, but.....It's probably OK. Find us on Instagram at @ProbablyOKParenting
2023-02-1947 minProbably OK Parenting24: Music Vs. CodingIn this episode, Brian and Allison add a new segment; "Does Anyone Else...?" where they wonder if anyone else has tried to put toddler shoes on their dog before, or accidentally driven to work wearing pajamas?! During the popular segment; "Parenting News," Allison & Brian talk about research supporting early music education for toddlers and give some suggestions and ideas for musical activities you can engage in with your toddler. Whatever you do, DON'T teach them to code! :) As always, visit us on Instagram @ProbablyOKParening and remember...It's Probably OK.
2023-02-0643 minProbably OK Parenting23: Old Vs. New Parenting TrendsBrian & Allison recap their highs, lows, and weirds of parenting their 17-month son, and rehash two articles that compare modern parenting techniques to the ways of yonder. Which are better? Is it harder to be a parent in 2023 than it was in the 1980s? Listeners, please let us know what you think @ProbablyOkParenting ! Thanks to all of our DFPs!
2023-01-3046 minProbably OK Parenting22: Shaping Toddler Behavior: Word ChoiceAllison & Brian recap their week in toddler-land (their toddler is 17 months old), including starting a new parent-tot music class, monkey noises, and several embarrassing moments at the library. In the Parenting News segment, Allison & Brian rehash Chapter 6 ("Saying the Right Things") of the book "Raising Good Humans" and overthink every word choice they use when attempting to direct their toddler's behavior.
Listeners with toddlers- please tell us- what techniques to use to shape your toddler's behavior and encourage them to clean up, wash their hands, brush their teeth, etc...?! We'd love to hear from you in the c...
2023-01-2452 minProbably OK Parenting21: Disney Content Warnings!Parenting comes with its fair share of awkward moments...and Brian & Allison have a few to share on this week's episode. Their toddler is 16 months old and completely obsessed with the "Amazon Alexa" robot. In the "Parenting News" segment, Brian & Allison spend some time discussing a whole host of Disney movies that now come with a "content warning." They pontificate about which movies & TV-shows will be essential to their son's childhood experience, and which they may rather skip. Do some of our beloved Disney characters actually engage in nefarious behavior?! Listen to find out! As always, find us on...
2023-01-1450 minProbably OK Parenting20: Parent Confessions & Crib SheetBaby C is 16.5 months old and he's on the cusp of a big language "explosion." Brian & Allison confess some questionable parenting choices to each other and review a section of the wildly popular book "Crib Sheet" by Emily Oster.
2023-01-0737 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 19: Toddler Food WoesBaby C is 16.5 months old and Brian & Allison discuss more sleep woes, playdate expectations, unexpected delays, and most frustratingly: he's basically stopped eating! They summarize and discuss the "Food Fiesta" chapter of "The Everything Toddler Book" by Dr. Linda Sonna as they attempt to strategize! Bonus: Check out @ProbablyOKParenting on Instagram to see a picture of Baby C at the Library... He hasn't exactly taken to the magic of books quite yet...
2022-12-3142 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 18: Snowed in with ToddlerAllison & Brian are stuck inside with their 16 month old toddler and attempt to keep him entertained indoors. Listen to hear about all of the different activities they planned and their varying levels of success. Also, during the segment "parenting news," Allison & Brian discuss a recent article weighing the merits of 'gentle parenting,' and try to find the right balance in between differing parenting techniques.
2022-12-2541 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 17: Traveling with TotsAllison & Brian discuss their best tips, tricks, and wacky experiences after traveling on 14 individual flights with their baby between the ages of 4 months and 16 months. Listen to hear which products they recommend, how to (hopefully) keep your young toddler entertained and happy throughout a flight, how to avoid the germ party that will surely start to take place all over your toddler's hands (spoiler alert: there is no way), and some of the fun challenges they've encountered while flying with their lap child! Here are links to the products referenced in this episode:
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2022-12-2059 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 16: Decisions, Decisions..Baby C is 15 months old, and Allison & Brian find themselves confronted with a lot of parenting decisions as they make they way solidly into toddler territory! How do we approach redirecting undesirable behavior? When to start thinking about potty training? What to do to help him sleep consistently? How to keep things interesting when it's 5 degrees outside ? Should we keep our child's hair & teeth forever? Listeners- please weigh in and let us know what you think on Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting !
2022-11-2045 min
Probably OK ParentingEp. 15: News You Can't UseJoin Allison & Brian as they discuss the latest events in the thrilling world of toddler-mania. They recap a birthday party, how their friendships have changed since becoming parents, their ongoing sleep woes, and feature a main segment discussing a parenting news article that doesn't pertain to anything they are experiencing right now! It's a totally worthwhile discussion that ends up feeling similar to a dilapidated paw patrol piñata hanging from the ceiling!
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2022-11-1436 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 14: Lost in TransitionBaby C is 14.5 months old and giving his parents a run for their money. Join Allison & Brian as they talk about sleep transitions, changes in their toddler's autonomy/mobility and how they are trying to keep up.
2022-11-0552 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 13: Grandparent Tell-AllBrian & Allison escape for the weekend and Brian's parents fly in to take care of baby C while they're gone. During Episode 13, Allison & Brian sit down and hear a little bit from the grandparent perspective as they interview their first POP guests- Baby C's paternal grandparents! How does parenting today differ from their experience raising kids 30 years ago? What baby products do Allison & Brian use that their parents find completely unnecessary?! Listen to find out!
2022-10-2727 minProbably OK ParentingEp 12: How Has Parenting Changed Us?Allison & Brian talk about ways parenthood has changed them, and discuss lots of listener answers and contributions. TL;DL: We've all changed in MANY ways, and we can find comfort knowing others are just as scatterbrained as us! Allison & Brian also discuss their weekend trip to Denver with their 14 month old and analyze his (maybe) first words? Listen along and remember: It's probably OK!
2022-10-1340 minProbably OK ParentingEp. 11: Daycare Struggles!Allison & Brian are back from a 3-week hiatus and discuss what happens when one parent goes down for the count (spoiler alert: it's rough!!), the challenges with finding reliable daycare, tales from flying alone with a baby, and conclude with an uplifting message from Brian about raising your kids in today's sometimes scary climate. Let us know what you think on our Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting !
2022-10-0347 minProbably OK ParentingEpisode 10: Parental Expectations Vs. RealityIn Episode 10 of Probably OK Parenting, Brian & Allison discuss all those things they told themselves before they had a child that are now pretty laughable. One example is: "We certainly won't rely on snacks and screen time!" Luckily, a few listeners weighed in with the expectations they had for themselves before they had children as well, and how their mindsets have changed since becoming a parent. We out here just doin the best we can!
2022-09-1131 minProbably OK ParentingEpisode 9: Newborn Survival TipsBrian & Allison take some time to reflect on their experience with a newborn and share some tips that helped them make it through the "4th trimester." In addition, they recap the exciting (and sometimes stressful!) events of the past week as their 12.5 month old continues to find himself in various perilous positions. They end the episode by sharing their high, low, and weird points of the last week in the world of parenting! Visit our Instagram @ProbablyOKParenting to see visuals of the products mentioned in the episode !
2022-09-0550 min
Probably OK ParentingEpisode 8: Best & worst baby products of the first yearNow that baby C has completed his first year, Brian & Allison discuss various baby products they've purchased and tried in the categories of SLEEP & TOYS. Find out which products they absolutely swear by, and which ones they would ditch next time around.
2022-08-2644 min
Probably OK ParentingEpisode 7: Reflecting on ONE YEAR of parenthoodJoin Allison & Brian as they recap their week (their baby turned ONE YEARS old!), reflect on the most unexpected, rewarding, and challenging parts of the past year, and end with some predictions of what they may encounter next on their parenting journey. Good 'ay, mate!
2022-08-2130 min
Probably OK ParentingEpisode 6: Grievously injured by baby?!Brian suffered a baby-caused injury while in Colorado, and Allison had to brave the travel nightmare that is flying alone with a baby! Listen to this week's episode to find out how it all went down! (Baby C is 11.5 months old)
2022-07-3134 minProbably OK ParentingEpisode 5: Baby comments from randos?!Brian & Allison discuss daycare troubles, weird or interesting comments they've received about their baby from random out and about, and close the episode with reflections over their highs and lows from the last week of parenting. Listen along as they try to figure out how to be parents AND how to have a podcast that is not a complete snooze fest! (Baby C is 11.25 months old)
2022-07-2225 minProbably OK ParentingEpisode 4: What exactly is "cruising"???Brian & Allison go off the rails as they discuss their baby's new skills (and what exacting "cruising" means..) , awkward parenting moments they've encountered, and the everlasting quest to get a full night's sleep! Listen along as they try to get better at making this kind of shambly podcast! (Baby C is 10.75 months old)
2022-07-1425 min
Probably OK ParentingEpisode 3: Parenting confessions!Allison & Brian are BACK for real this time after quite a long hiatus. They discuss recent travel excursions, the struggles of long-term sleep deprivation, parenting during COVID times, and play a fun game called "guess the parenting confession.' They are still working on getting the audio figured out so thanks to ALL THE FANS for hangin in there! (Baby C is 10.5 months old)
2022-06-3018 minProbably OK ParentingEpisode 2: Sleep training adventures at 4 months oldBrian & Allison discuss adventures in parenting their 21 week old baby boy. They tackle sleep training, introducing formula for the first time, and baby's first solid food! They also recap their first plane ride(s) with baby on his first big trip. Allison & Brian explore the segments, "what I purchased this week," and "what I'm scared of." They conclude the episode with their top-one-bottom-one parenting moment of the week! (Baby C is 21 weeks old)
2022-01-1920 minProbably OK ParentingEpisode 1: Where's the baby?!Allison & Brian are still waiting on baby to arrive...They discuss the anticipation, intrusive comments by strangers, and how to deal when you have you doubts about your healthcare provider
2021-08-1316 min
Probably OK ParentingIntroduction to Probably OK ParentingComing soon! A podcast where we talk about all of the craziness that is becoming a new parent. Join Allison & Brian on their impending parenting adventures. We are having a baby any day now...and fully expect it to be a wild ride. We don't know what we're doing- but we're looking forward to laughing through it with you!
2021-08-0302 min