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Say Hello to your Therapist8. A Fast Pass for Healing? What are Therapy Intensives? with Steffeny FeldWhat are Therapy Intensives with Stephanie FeldJoin Dr. Bethany Valenti on the 'Say Hello to Your Therapist' podcast as she chats with Stephanie Feld, a therapist who only provides therapy intensives in her practice. Stephanie shares her unique journey from traditional therapy to intensives, alongside practical insights about what therapy intensives are, how they work, the types available, and who might benefit from them. Tune in for valuable info for both clients and therapists! 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast02:26 Meet Stephanie Feld: Journey to Becoming a Therapist05:40 Transition to P...
2025-12-111h 04Say Hello to your Therapist7. Men's Mental Health, Group Therapy for Black Men, and Personal Growth Dr. Ritch HallIt can be hard to find the right therapist for you. Trying to find a therapist as a man, or as a black man?Welcome to the Say Hello to Your Therapist podcast, hosted by Dr. Bethany Valenti. In this episode, Dr. Valenti welcomes Dr. Ritch Hall, a licensed clinical psychologist and the owner of Psych Works Clinic, specializing in African American cultural issues and treating various mental health concerns. Dr. Hall, also the president of the Cincinnati chapter of the Association of Black Psychologists, shares insights into his career journey, his approach to therapy, and his w...
2025-12-051h 18Say Hello to your Therapist6. Therapist Red Flags and Green Flags with Anna KhandruevaWhat are some red flags to be aware of when looking for a therapist? What are some green flags to look for as well when trying to find a therapist?Welcome to the Say Hello to your Therapist podcast with Dr. Bethany ValentiIn this episode, Dr. Valenti talks with Anna Khandrueva, a licensed clinical social worker with specialized training in trauma and family therapy. Anna shares her insights on identifying red and green flags when searching for a therapist. They discuss the essential qualities to look for, the importance of feeling comfortable and safe...
2025-11-251h 07Say Hello to your Therapist4. Couples and Sex Therapy with Dr. Carly Deremo Couples and Sex Therapy with Dr. Carly Deremo In this episode, Dr. Carly Deremo discusses her passion for working with people, the challenges and rewards of being a therapist, and her specialized focus on couples and sex therapy. Dive deep into her methods, including feminist therapy principles, communication skills, and addressing intimacy issues. Whether it's working through communication or enhancing physical intimacy, Carly's insights offer valuable takeaways for both therapists and those seeking therapy. Don't miss out on this candid discussion about the complexities and honors of helping people navigate their relationships. Where to find Car...
2025-11-111h 11Say Hello to your Therapist3. Addiction, Trauma, and Creating Supportive Communities with Eric StoneIn this episode, Bethany interviews Eric Stone, a seasoned therapist, about his journey into therapy, the importance of diverse experiences in mental health, and the challenges and rewards of working in this field. Eric shares insights on working in various therapy settings and emphasizes the significance of supportive therapy communities, harm reduction approaches, and addressing addiction and religious trauma. They discuss the impact of the field on mental health professionals, the need for diverse representation in therapy, and the future of addressing gambling addiction. Eric also touches on the essence of connection in combating addiction and the evolving understanding...
2025-11-1137 minSay Hello to your Therapist1. Navigating Therapy: Insurance, Big Tech, and Finding the Right Therapist with Dr. Amber LydaWelcome to the first episode of the Say Hello to Your Therapist podcast! In this premiere episode, we have an engaging conversation with Dr. Amber Lyda, a seasoned psychologist with extensive experience in various roles within the therapy world. Dr. Lyda shares her journey from being a client to becoming a therapist and practice manager, and now, a mentor helping other therapists navigate private practice. We delve into impactful topics such as the pros and cons of accepting insurance, the rise of big tech therapy companies, and finding the right therapeutic match. Dr. Lyda also provides practical i...
2025-11-051h 24Say Hello to your Therapist2. Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy with Dr. Monika SharmaIn this episode of Say Hello to Your Therapist podcast, we welcome Dr. Monika Sharma, a seasoned psychologist who specializes in helping professionals, caregivers, and single women transition from burnout to balance. Dr. Sharma shares her journey into the field of psychology, delving into her personal experiences and the driving forces behind her career choice. The conversation sheds light on the inner workings of running a therapy practice and explores the intricacies of hypnosis, its applications, and common misconceptions. Dr. Sharma also discusses her approach to holistic health, integrating mental and physical wellness, and the impact of cultural heritage...
2025-11-051h 03Say Hello to your TherapistStart Here: Say Hello to Your Therapist Podcast TrailerIntro to the podcast where therapists get real about their work, their specialties, and what actually happens in therapy.To learn more about Bethany Valenti, PsyD:www.bethanyvalenti.comhttps://www.instagram.com/sayhellotoyourtherapistpodcast/https://www.instagram.com/bethanyvalentipsyd/https://www.facebook.com/p/Bethany-Valenti-PsyD-61579092524236/
2025-11-0500 min
Grief is the New Normal Podcast with Dr. Heather TaylorGrief is the New Normal Podcast: Episode #32 Holding Space for Miscarriage: Navigating the Invisible Grief of Reproductive Loss w/ Dr. Julie Bindeman, PsyDIn this episode of 'Grief is the New Normal,' Dr. Heather Taylor is joined by Dr. Julie Bindeman, an expert in reproductive psychology, to discuss the intricate relationship between grief and reproductive health. Dr. Bindeman shares her personal journey and professional insights into reproductive psychology, highlighting the different ways grief manifests in this field. They explore the notion of prospective losses associated with reproductive challenges, including miscarriage, assisted reproductive technology, and postpartum issues. The conversation details the importance of validating language, supportive strategies for those experiencing these losses, and the impact of societal minimization on personal grief. Dr...
2024-10-0935 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastLearning to Trust Your Intuition, Featuring Dr. Fanike-Kiara Young, LCSWDr. Fanike-Kiara Young, LCSW joins us today to have a candid conversation about intuition. Your gut feeling about a person or situation is often your first indicator of a red or green flag. Instead of paying attention to how we feel about a person or a situation, we attempt to play things safe or small by giving it the "benefit of the doubt." *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be s...
2022-03-1851 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastSigns That You Are Being Devalued By a NarcissistDevaluation occurs when you are no longer being idealized by the narcissist. The narcissist may be preparing to discard you and regardless of what you do, you cannot prevent them from attempting to find fault in you or treat you poorly. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Some of the information discussed on the podcast can be sensitive in nature, th...
2022-02-2442 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastIdealization in RelationshipsIn this episode of the podcast, I discuss what idealization of romantic partners is in relationships, and why we do it. In the beginning of relationship, there are some of us who get caught up in the idea that this person is the "one" therefore we refuse to evaluate evidence to the contrary. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Some o...
2022-02-1827 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastAbuse Tactics We Internalize and How to Overcome ThemLong after an abusive relationship has ended, you may continue to silently abuse yourself. I discuss ways that we continue treating ourselves poorly and how we can put a stop to it. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Some of the information discussed on the podcast can be sensitive in nature, therefore listener discretion is advised. The opinions of the gu...
2022-02-0437 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastPersonal Growth Tools To Develop Healthy Relationships After AbuseOne of the most challenging things to do is to pick up the pieces of your life and start all over again after leaving a relationship with a narcissist. Where do you start? What do you work on first? Join me as I have a candid conversation on personal development tools to work on after leaving a relationship with a narcissist. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for tr...
2022-01-2830 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastHow to Know When a Narcissist is Discarding You On this solocast, I discuss the signs of narcissist discard. When a narcissist is done with the relationship and is on their way out the door, the signs are there. I discuss why it's important to see these signs for what they are and how you can take the steps to put yourself first and resist the urge to stay connected to an abusive person. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should no...
2022-01-2150 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastReasons Why Your Relationships Are Dysfunctional It's not uncommon for people to have more than one narcissistic or toxic relationship in their life. If you have evaluated the relationships in your life and have come to the conclusion that most of them are toxic, here are some reasons why as well as general tips on what to do about it. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. S...
2022-01-1449 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastMisogynoir: The Other Discrimination That Black Women Face; Featuring Dr. Donna Oriowo, PhD. Dr. Donna Oriowo, PhD. owner of Annod Right and 3rd time guest on the podcast joins the show today. Dr. Donna and I have a candid conversation about misogynoir and how it is showing up in dating. Dr. Donna and I also discuss the common question, "what do you bring to the table?" We discuss why misogynoir behavior is abusive and why you should avoid people that display those traits. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, an...
2022-01-0552 minA Date With Darkness PodcastLearning to Effectively Cope with The Narcissist's Behaviors During the Holidays Last week, I discussed how narcissists can draw negative attention to themselves by acting out in a variety of ways during the holidays. This week, I provide simple tips and coping strategies that can help manage the holiday stress caused by a narcissist. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Some of the information discussed on the podcast can be sensitive i...
2021-12-1031 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastThe Narcissist's Behaviors During the Holidays During the holidays, it's not uncommon for the narcissist in your life to draw attention to themselves by creating havoc and animosity in the home. Anything from creating a scene to giving you a demeaning gift to demonstrate your worth to them is fair game. In this podcast, I review ways that the narcissist attempts to create unnecessary drama by attempting to ruin your holiday. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should no...
2021-12-0231 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastWays to Protect Your Energy and Relationships During The Holidays In the 100th episode, I discuss how to protect your energy and avoid holiday burnout by protecting and implementing boundaries, honoring your emotions and mental health, being mindful of spending and gift giving, protecting your time, refusing to engage in toxic behaviors, and getting plenty of rest. The purpose of the holidays is to maximize enjoyment and to reduce stress. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment wi...
2021-11-2634 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastHow Sexual Shame Affects Your Relationships, Featuring Eliza Boquin, LMFT Eliza Boquin, LMFT and sex therapist; owner of Flow and Ease Counseling, and Co-Founder of Melanin and Mental Health joins the show today. She and I had a candid conversation about sex, shame, and how that shows up in our intimate relationships. Unresolved sexual shame prevents us from being emotionally close to our partners, unable to enjoy pleasure, and may cause to check out of our relationships mentally. We discuss whether you should "do it anyway" and have sex just to please your partner when you're not motivated. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general s...
2021-10-2744 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastThings to Consider Before Re-Establishing a Relationship with an Abuser In this solocast, I give you my thoughts on the commonly asked question "my abuser came back into my life and wants a relationship, what should I do?" While I don't recommend going back into a relationship with an abusive person, I recognize that it may take multiple attempts to leave an abusive relationship for good. Here are some things to consider before thinking about giving a person another chance. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, a...
2021-10-2231 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastSigns That You Are A Magnet For Abusive Relationships and How to Put A Stop to It In this solocast, I discuss some of the reasons why we may gravitate towards abusive partners if we have a history of being in abusive relationships. Basic interventions are provided to help you avoid falling into a cycle of continuously connecting with abusive personalities. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Some of the information discussed on the podcast can be se...
2021-10-1440 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastPreparing Your Finances for Divorce, Featuring CDFA Nikki Tucker Nikki Tucker, CDFA joins us to discuss how we prepare our finances for divorce. Nikki talks to us about why it's important to take control of your money, and how to make the best financial decisions when it comes to divorce. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of...
2021-10-0759 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastLearning How to be Vulnerable After Experiencing Sexual Trauma, Featuring Counsellor Jordan Pickell Canadian-based psychotherapist Jordan Pickell joins us on the couch today to discuss what it means to be vulnerable. Jordan also explores challenges survivors of sexual assault have with being vulnerable in their relationships. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LP...
2021-09-3051 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastReporting Child Abuse, Featuring Nicole Stolar-Peterson, LCSW-BCD Nicol Stolar-Peterson, LCSW, BCD joins us today to talk about reporting child abuse. Nicol provides education on when we should report child abuse, why it's important to report it when we see or hear about it, let the reporting agency determine what will be investigated, and challenges that state agencies and law enforcement have with proving cases of child abuse. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. Each intervention suggested should be utilized with caution. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the i...
2021-09-2452 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastHow to Help to Children Who Are Victims of Narcissistic Parents This solocast suggests ways to extend or offer help to children and families who are experiencing narcissistic abuse. Each suggestion is not suitable or applicable to every case of narcissistic abuse. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. Each intervention suggested should be utilized with caution. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the o...
2021-09-1736 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastHow to Find and Attract Safe Relationships With Healthy Partners This solocast is all about taking the steps to find safe relationships and emotionally healthy partners. I discuss how we work on ourselves and seek out qualities in partnerships that will foster loving healthy relationships. From mindset shifts to taking risks, this episode is for you if you desire finding love that will nurture your spirit. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests...
2021-09-1053 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastExploring Environmental and Genetic Factors of Abuse, Featuring Yolanda Renteria, LPC Yolanda Renteria, LPC and I explore how the body stores memories of trauma and how trauma is passed down from generation to generation. Our bodies are wired for survival and store these painful experiences deep within our genetic makeup. Our genetics and trauma survival mechanisms contribute to repeated cycles of abuse. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Po...
2021-09-0259 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastIncreasing Self-Care Practices and Managing Emotional Burnout: Featuring Michelle Goodloe, LCSW A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. On this episode, Michelle Goodloe LCSW and I explore what it means to be emotionally burned out. Michelle discusses the signs of emotional burnout in abusive relationships and how to prevent it. Michelle and I have a candid discussion about self-care, why it's important, how we make time for it, and why it's not a selfish act. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are ge...
2021-08-2554 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastThe Narcissistic Mother and Daughter Dynamic; Featuring Ronica Cormier A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. On this episode, Ronica Cormier and I take a deep dive into narcissistic mothers and their dynamics with their daughters. We discuss the short and long-term impact of daughters who have narcissistic mothers. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a li...
2021-08-2059 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastWhy It's Not a Good Idea to Remain Friends With a Narcissist After a Breakup A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. After a breakup with a narcissist, it can be tempting to want to stay connected, especially if the breakup wasn't your choice. I explore why it's not a good idea to stay friends with a narcissist and it is better to cut the cord and move on. I propose solutions on what you can do to work on healing. *Please note: Information provided on this ep...
2021-08-0532 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastWhy You Have Difficulty Trusting Others A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. I discuss why we develop trust issues. I explore why we have difficulty trusting ourselves and others, especially after leaving an abusive relationships or when there was a rupture in the relationship. *Content published on this podcast is the intellectual property of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not b...
2021-07-3032 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastWhat to Do Instead of Waiting for An Abusive Person to Change A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. On this episode, I discuss tips on working on yourself instead of focusing on the potential of the abuser in your relationship. It's important to manage your mental health instead of focusing your efforts on someone who is abusive. *Content published on this podcast is the intellectual property of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general ti...
2021-07-2225 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastEverything You Need To Know About Your Inner Critic, Featuring Dr. Maria Mercedes Dominguez, PhD, LMFT A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. Dr. Maria Dominguez PhD, LMFT joined us today, and she had a lot of useful information to give us regarding the inner critic. Dr. Dominguez and I explore how we internalize criticism and how we speak to ourselves, and even how our inner voices are influenced by oppression and abuse. She clarified how are inner is developed and the long-term it has. *Please note: Information pr...
2021-05-2056 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastIdentifying Red Flags in Sexual Health at the Ob-gyn's Office, Featuring Dr. Joy'El Ballard MD A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. Dr. Joy'El Ballard MD joins us today to discuss the health of women at the gynecologist's office. Dr. Joy'El is an expert in peri-menopause. She and I have a candid conversation about how signs of abuse and boundary issues around sex can show up at the gynecologist's office. She offers education about STIs and how women can become more comfortable with their doctor to ask them questions a...
2021-05-1248 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastPart 2: Healing People of Color Using EMDR Therapy, Featuring Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE joins us today to discuss EMDR therapy for trauma, how it can be helpful when attempting to resolve traumatic experiences in relationships, and how EMDR can be used. Quandra specifically discusses the use of EMDR with therapists who are culturally sensitive to treat trauma for people of color around recent racially charged events. Lastly, Quandra discusses reasonable expectations for EMDR treatment, and how t...
2021-05-0447 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastBDSM, Kink, Sexual Fantasies, and Trauma; Featuring Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions. Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE joins us today to discuss BDSM, kink, sexual fantasies, and trauma. Quandra and discuss the difference between a healthy sex-based lifestyle vs a life-style based in trauma. Quandra also discussed how to determine if a partner is abusive and not respectful of boundaries. She also shares why it's important to explore therapy if you are a trauma survivor and how trauma/abuse may s...
2021-04-1354 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastSurviving Toxic Families, Featuring Marina Williams, LMHC A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Marina Williams, LMHC and author of Surviving the Toxic Family joins us on the couch today to discuss toxic family dynamics and how to overcome them. Marina offers solid tips and suggestions on managing boundaries around family toxicity. She also shares her personal struggles in managing unhealthy family conflict. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be...
2021-03-3053 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastExploring Troubled Relationships Between Mothers and Daughters, Featuring Ann Dillard LMFT A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Ann Dillard, LMFT and owner of KIP Consulting Services, LLC joins us today to have a candid conversation about painful wounds in the mother-daughter relationship. Ann shares her experience with her own mother, and how it motivates her to hold positive space for her own daughter. Ann provides tips and suggestions on how mothers can provide a safer and more nurturing environment f...
2021-03-2547 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastPart 2: Continuing to Explore Deceptiveness and Red Flags in Relationships; Featuring Anna Stowe Certified Mitigation Specialist A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Part 2: Anna Stowe, certified mitigation specialist and owner of Stowe Investigations joins us today to talk about her experience as being a private investigator. Anna described how women seek out her services when they are distrustful of their spouses actions. Anna discussed how despite the evidence that she provides, people still choose to stay in troubling relationships. Lastly, Anna discusses the dark s...
2021-03-1157 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastInvestigating the Red Flags in Relationships, Featuring Certified Mitigation Specialist Anna Stowe A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Anna Stowe, certified mitigation specialist and owner of Stowe Investigations joins us today to talk about her experience as being a private investigator. Anna describe how women seek out her services when they are distrustful of their spouses actions. Suspicions of cheating, hiding alimony, dating scams, internet/fraud scams, having a secret lover tucked away somewhere can be just the beginning of w...
2021-03-021h 26
A Date With Darkness PodcastAddressing the Pain of Those Who are Hurting on Valentine's Day A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Today's episode addresses those who may be hurting or resentful of Valentine's Day. In this solocast, I discuss why we may be hurting on Valentine's Day and how we can cope with the hurt that we feel on this day. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, an...
2021-02-1440 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastEscaping Emotional Abuse, Featuring Beverly Engel, LMFT A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Beverly Engel, LMFT joins us today to talk about her new book Escaping Emotional Abuse. Beverly and I have a candid conversation about how powerful emotional abuse is, and how shame can keep us bound to a vicious cycle of internalized abuse. Beverly educates on how we can heal from emotional abuse. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are gen...
2021-01-2651 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastSitting in the Adult Chair With Michelle Chalfant, LPC A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Michelle Chalfant, LPC, creator The Adult Chair Podcast and I have a candid conversation about what it means to be an adult. She shares how trauma and other factors can keep us stuck in a child or adolescent state of thinking. She shared, why we stay mentally stuck, and how we can move forward to be an adult who consistently takes responsibility f...
2021-01-1958 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastComing to Terms with The Fifth Agreement, Featuring don Jose Ruiz A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. don Jose Ruiz, who co-wrote The Fifth Agreement with his father don Miguel Ruiz (author of The Four Agreements) joined us today to discuss the motivation behind his book. He shared some of his life's tragic experiences of trauma and substance abuse and how he fought and overcame his inner demons on his journey to self-love using the power of Toltec Wisdom.
2021-01-1258 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastUnderstanding How the Body Stores Trauma, Featuring Dr. Janina Fisher, PhD. A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Dr. Janina Fisher PhD. joins the show today to discuss how and why the body stores trauma in the tissue and how we can do certain exercises to release the emotional pain from our bodies. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should no...
2021-01-0449 min
The Mental Breakthrough (TMB)Psychology, Esteem, and the Great BeyondThis podcasts comes from a paper I wrote for my 8th PsyD course called Cultural Diversity in 2019. It is short and points out concerns for researchers without providing much on how to overcome them.
2020-12-1609 min
The Mental Breakthrough (TMB)My Life Through The Views of Freud and EriksonI wrote this paper for my PsyD Master's Leveling program in the course titled: Theories of Human Development. It was written on March 22nd, 2017 when I was still lecturing at the university in Phuket, Thailand, which was before moving up north to Chiang Mai. This is a good one to start with because it tells a little about me while exploring psychological theories readily useful for anyone pursuing their interest in the mind.
2020-12-1431 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastLiberation from Racialized Trauma, Featuring Shawna Murray-Browne, LCSW-C A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. I am joined by Shawna Murray-Browne, LCSW-C who discussed her work on Black liberation and healing from racialized trauma. Given the recent surge in media coverage of police brutality and racial unrest, it is important that we educate ourselves and manage our self-care. Shawna discussed the difference between Black liberation and cultural sensitivity/awareness. Lastly, Shawna discusses her personal journey of picking u...
2020-09-2755 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastExploring the Gifts of Grief; Featuring Dr. Ajita Robinson, PhD, LCPC A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Dr. Ajita Robinson, PhD, LCPC joins us today to talk about her new book The Gift of Grief which addresses different types of grief, how to honor our own grief, and how to respect those who have experienced loss. She shares the difficulty with loss in relationships through breakups, divorce, incarceration, and even death. She also shares how difficult grief can be w...
2020-09-1055 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastUnderstanding Character Disturbances, Featuring Dr. George Simon, PhD. A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Dr. George Simon, PhD. joins us today to help us understand what character disturbances are and how we should treat those who are extremely dangerous and manipulative. According to Dr. Simon, PhD, those who have character disturbances should be held accountable for their behavior and strict boundaries need to be maintained. He discusses why society has come to accept those with character d...
2020-09-0259 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastFighting for Divorce and Custody With the Narcissist, Featuring Steven Peskind, JD A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Steven Peskind, Esq. owner of Peskind Law Firm in IL, joins us today for a candid conversation on his expertise in divorce law. Mr. Peskind shares how complicated things get when trying to divorce a narcissistic spouse. He explains how toxic spouses would rather spend more money engaging in high conflict battles over assets, custody, and visitation rights rather than coming to a...
2020-05-131h 00
Mental Health Monthly's PodcastCouples Therapy with Dr. Sarah Schewitz at Couples LearnWelcome to the Mental Health Monthly podcast. I am you host Dr. Dwight Norman Jr. I am a clinical psychologist licensed to practice in the state of California. Once a month I will provide stimulating conversation surrounding mental health diagnosis, treatment, and resources. This weeks interview is with Dr. Sarah Schewitz, PsyD. We talk about how to keep your relationship happy and positive using communication, attachment, and love. Want tip on ways to help manage your romantic relationship?
2020-05-0240 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastThe Darker the Berry, The Deeper The Hurt: Featuring Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, PhD. and Dr. Donna Oriowo, PhD. A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are educational information and suggestions. They may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Dr. Donna Oriowo, PhD. a sex therapist and owner of A Nod In the Right Direction psychotherapy. Dr. Donna Oriowo and I discuss the overt a...
2020-03-221h 21
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2020-02-0500 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastFighting the Energy Vampires, Featuring Dr. Christiane Northrup, MD A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. Dr. Christiane Northrup, MD OB/GYN and author of Dodging Energy Vampires joins us today to help us understand why we feel drained by the energy that certain people bring to relationships. According to Dr. Northrup, stress from those who continue to challenge our boundaries and drain our emotional health, also cause us to be physically sick. She also shares her personal s...
2020-01-211h 00
A Date With Darkness PodcastStop the Fatness: How Fat Phobia, Fat Shaming, and Societal Narcissism Cause Body Image Hatred, Featuring Sonalee Rashatwar, LCSW, MEd. A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. *Please note: Information provided on this episode are educational information and suggestions. They may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Joining us on the couch today, is Sonalee Rashatwar, LCSW, MEd who is also known as the ever popular Fat Sex Therapist on Instagram. Sonalee a...
2020-01-1557 minListening to Dr. Taylor, B.A.M.S. M.B.A.,PsyDHow Many Times Have You Heard Im Sorry, Listening to Dr. Taylor, B.A.,M.S., M.B.A., PsyDExpress your remorse.
Just about every apology should start with two powerful words: "I'm sorry," or "I apologize." For example, "I know how difficult this has been for you. I feel terrible, and I sincerely apologize." It is important to acknowledge the damaging impact that your words and actions may have had on another, if you meant it your actions will exemplify it.
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2020-01-1408 minListening to Dr. Taylor, B.A.M.S. M.B.A.,PsyDSuicide Among Family Members; listening To Dr. Taylor, B.A.,M.S.,M.B.A., PsyDThe death of someone you care about is often painful, but the grief felt by family members and friends can be more complex when the cause of death many Americans die from suicide every year. Even though many people are touched by suicide, the stigma surrounding the suicide can mean that family and friends feel stigmatized and isolated.
Why Suicide?’
Family and friends may struggle with the question of why the person chose to end their life. Suicide is complex, often with no single explanation for why they died.
Suicide may be associated with a num...
2020-01-0610 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastThoughtful Reflections on A Father's Beliefs About His Daughter's Virginity, Featuring Dr. Donna Oriowo, PhD A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Donna Oriowo, PhD. a sex therapist and owner of A Nod In the Right Direction psychotherapy. Dr. Donna Oriowo and I discuss the infamous T.I. interview in which the rapper discussed going with his daughter to her yearly gynecology appointment to insure her virginity. We explored the implications of the statements that he m...
2019-11-1346 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastListener Question #1: Tips for How to Co-Parent with a Narcissist A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma. In this episode, I provided tips and suggestions to a listener's question about how to co-parent with a narcissistic ex. If you are just tuning in for the first time, I clarify how important it is not to pathologize or diagnose the other parent without being well-informed. Being able to normalize your emotions, decompress, find emotional support, and making efforts to inform y...
2019-10-2922 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastConfession #6: Living With Parental Incest, Featuring Nancy Allen A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Nancy Allen, host of the podcast Tail of The Bell joins us today to share her personal story of being sexually abused by her father. Nancy explains how difficult it was to be taken from her family, placed in the system, and be treated as though she was the one who did something wrong. She discusses the impact that parental incest...
2019-10-221h 03
A Date With Darkness PodcastUnderstanding Narcissism From the Perspective of a Narcissist: Featuring HG Tudor A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Author HG Tudor joins us on the couch today to discuss his perspective on narcissism. HG Tudor has written several books on narcissism which specifically address what narcissism is, how to figure out if the person that you are in a relationship with is a narcissist, and why narcissists do what they do in relationships. HG Tudor also shared why he...
2019-10-081h 00
A Date With Darkness PodcastTaking a Closer Look at Suicide and Self-Harm: Featuring Dr. Meagann Houston-Bright, LP A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Dr. Meagan Houston-Bright, PhD is a police psychologist based out of Houston, TX; who specializes in working with those who struggle with suicide and self-harm. Today, she joins us to explain how the difference between suicide, self-harm, suicidal gestures, and morbid ideations. She discusses the importance of taking threats seriously. Lastly, we discuss the impact of the threat of self-harm on...
2019-08-2057 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastConfession #5: Mr. and Mrs. X's Fight Againt the Financially Abusive Ex A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Mr. & Mrs. X discuss their personal experience in dealing with Mrs. X's ex, who refuses to keep stable employment and prefers for her to financially support his lifestyle. We discuss red flags in the beginning of the relationship as well as cultural beliefs of Mrs. X that caused her to stay in the relationship and refrain from discussing the problems in...
2019-08-151h 28
A Date With Darkness PodcastRestoring Your Personal Energy, Featuring Brandi Lewis, LPC A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Brandi Lewis, LPC owner and director of Reach Counseling Solutions LLC in Charlotte, NC joins us in a candid discussion about her work with survivors of abuse. Joy and personal energy can be completely depleted from us when we are caught in relationships that are abusive. Without realizing it, we carry negative energy with us from relationship to relationship - which...
2019-07-231h 00
A Date With Darkness PodcastLearning to Heal From Narcissistic Abuse and the Nice Girl Syndrome, Featuring Beverly Engel, LMFT A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Author and psychotherapist Beverly Engel, LMFT joins us today, to discuss her experience in working with abuse victims. Beverly has been in practice for over 40 years and has written over 23 books about abuse. She joins us today to discuss her recently released books, and offers suggestions on how abuse impacts us, when our trauma becomes pathological, and why self-compassion is so...
2019-07-161h 08
A Date With Darkness PodcastThe Highly Sensitive Person: Featuring Patricia Winkler-Young LCSW A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Patricia Young LCSW joins us today to discuss what it means to be a highly sensitive person. Highly sensitive people are more receptive to the surroundings and because of this - can be the subject of scrutiny from toxic people. Patricia helps us to understand how we can determine whether we are highly sensitive, and how you can utilize your sensitivity...
2019-06-1859 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastFatherless Daughters: Finding Inner Peace on Father's Day and BeyondA Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Today's podcast is dedicated to women who have lost their fathers. This podcast reflects on the types of loss, the impact of losing a father, and how to cope with the loss of your father. Resources/References: The Fatherless Daughter Project: Understanding Our Losses and Reclaiming Our Lives, by Denna Babul and Karin Luise On G...
2019-06-161h 08
A Date With Darkness PodcastInner Bonding: Featuring Dr. Maurgaret Paul, PhD. A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Dr. Margaret Paul, Phd joins us to discuss inner bonding, a self-healing technique used to conquer feelings of shame and abandonment. Dr. Paul tells us the importance of bonding with ourselves and connecting our feelings and how our ability to do so impacts both our lifestyle and our ability to connect with others. She shares the steps of inner bonding, and d...
2019-06-111h 02
A Date With Darkness PodcastExploring the Relational Concerns of Single Parent Homes: Featuring Dr. Earl Turner, Phd A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Dr. Earl Turner, Phd joins us to discuss his research on single-parent homes, how oppositional behaviors develop in children, and how parents select role models for appropriate behaviors in relationships. Also, he discussed the impact that the quality of the parents relationship have on the children. He surprisingly revealed that concerns with opposite sex role models are not as common. We...
2019-06-0456 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastCouples Counseling Dilemma: Exploring Counseling When Your Partner is Narcissistic: Featuring Ernesto Segismundo, LMFT A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Ernesto Segismundo Jr., LMFT and owner of CAV Family Therapy joins us on the couch today and discusses the ever popular question: should you explore couples counseling if your partner is narcissistic? Ernesto discusses how he works with couples when one partner is narcissistic, using positive psychology treatment modality. He also explains the spectrum of narcissism, and when therapy for the...
2019-05-2854 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastCoping With Your Pain on Mother's Day A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. This episode is dedicated to those who don't have a relationship with their mother, or their relationship with their mother is toxic. I discuss how to cope with the pain of Mother's Day. We review several basic and advanced coping skills for dealing with the pain that arises on this day. Email questions/comments to adatewithdarkness@gmail.com Visit t...
2019-05-1228 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastRelationships vs Situationships: Signs That Yours Teen's Relationship is Unhealthy: Featuring Marline Francois-Madden, LCSW A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Marline Francois-Madden, LCSW joins us on the couch today and she discusses the importance of parents educating their teenagers about healthy and abusive relationships. Marline discusses why parents should be involved in their child's dating life, recognize the signs of violence with their teen, and also offers her perspective on what healthy boundaries look like between parents and teenagers. C...
2019-04-2359 min
A Date With Darkness PodcastHow Describing Black Girls "Fast" and "Grown" Does More Harm Than Good: Featuring Jaynay Johnson LMFT A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd., LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist in California. Join Dr. Jones for an intimate discussion about the effects of abuse dynamics and healing from relationship trauma. Jaynay Johnson, LMFT owner of Teen Talk Therapy joins us on the couch to discuss her passion for working with teenage girls of color. Jaynay discusses the importance of spending quality time with teenage girls and discussing relationships and feelings that young girls can experience while dating. More importantly, Jaynay educates on why calling young black girls "fast" and "grown" for...
2019-04-1750 min