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Mind Your MannersHello I’m Dead: What to Know Before You GoWhat if talking about death isn’t morbid—but loving? In this episode Sara Jane sits down with QuyenZi Pham to understand why she founded Hello I’m Dead and how reframing end-of-life planning as care—not catastrophe—can bring families peace and clarity. Together they explore why death is taboo in many Asian families and how silence and superstition leaves us unprepared. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2025-09-0250 min
Messy Sexy MeS2E17 Bonus Episode: Gut it Out - Appendicitis Adventures 🤢🤰🏻🩺 🏥In this bonus episode, Jessie shares her recent terrifying ER experience caused by appendicitis, which leads to surgery while pregnant! QuyenZi and Nicki coincidentally, have also had emergency surgeries to remove that mystery organ. Somehow, some way, all three of our Messy Sexy Me ladies dealt with their own crazy ordeals (and pains) to get their appendix removed. The stories will blow your mind, or give you some insights on how to identify symptoms before it's too late (and FYI - they don't recommend self-diagnosing)!
2023-06-2746 min
Messy Sexy MeS2E16: Sunsetting Season 2 🌅 : Season FinaleSeason 2 has so quickly come to an end, but this is really just the beginning. In this heartwarming Season Finale, QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki are back where it all began on QuyenZi's rooftop where Messy, Sexy, Me was birthed (not by Nicki's ex's ex, the doula - LOL referencing S2:E6). Join the ladies as they close out this Season's Finale with their wins and losses, under an LA sunset.
2023-03-2151 min
Messy Sexy MeS2E15: A "Q & AI" with Keith Koo: the ABC's of ChatGPT 🤖 🤯WTP (What the Prompt) is Chat GPT? Is it the future of artificial intelligence? Where does one draw the line between creativity and ethics? QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki each have their own plans to use the Generative Pre-trained Transformer, but first, they want to know who, what, where, when, and how ChatGPT works. The Messy Sexy Me ladies collect detailed insights and answers from their trusted friend, talk show host, and tech maven Keith Koo, whose vast knowledge of the latest trends and innovations in tech and AI makes him a sought-after speaker, consultant, and advisor for businesses and...
2023-03-1451 min
Messy Sexy MeS2E14: International Women's Day & RxESCUESKIN - All Day Err Day! 🙆🏻♀️👩🏻🎤💃🏾🦸🏽♀️A special International Women's Day episode sponsored by RxESCUESKIN. The powerhouses we know as QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki all agree that women should be celebrated every day. From women who inspire, breakthroughs for women, and these three women's own daily habits - pull up a chair to this infinite round table and get ready to seize the day (or lifetime) with some beauty (inside and out) tips, daily love rituals, and some Messy, Sexy, Me GIRL POWER in this episode!
2023-03-0744 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E13 Content Consumption: Engage, Rage, or Disengage 🤳 👿 📵Everyone seems to have a love x hate relationship with content consumption. Whether we consume vis-à-vis social media, streaming services, or traditional media, content can be addictive. The average person spends about 2.5 hours on social media alone. Nicki is a huge supporter of social causes and amplifying marginalized voices through her own content creation platforms, but hones in on authenticity. QuyenZi can binge-watch her favorite drama series and documentaries in one day while doing research for her ad agency (showering optional); and while she is fascinated with data analytics - she's not down with data mining. Jessie discusses t...
2023-02-2846 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E12 Tackling Toxicity 😓We all love Britney Spears' Toxic when it bumps in the club but realistically, dealing with toxic behaviors can be mentally and physically exhausting - especially when they're being projected from a loved one. QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki come to terms with their own experiences with emotionally painful relationships. Share healing space with the ladies as they identify toxic traits and venture into paths of forgiveness, love, or just choose to "forget about it." Online Information: https://bit.ly/8TypesofToxichttps://bit.ly/WomensHealthToxicArticle
2023-02-2150 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E11 Chaotic Singles Party with Cassidy Davis 🥳Messy Sexy Me welcomes Cassidy Davis, the brilliant mind behind the Chaotic Singles Party. What started out as a mashup singles mixer at her apartment where she invited over 65 random men for the single ladies (the Tik Tok video has now over 1.2 million views) has evolved into a series of successful events for her devoted community of singles. To attend, you have to bring a random person that you’ve matched with on a dating app (or in line at the grocery store works, too). The objectives are to mix, mingle, make-out, or marry (or at least start dating so...
2023-02-1441 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E10 First Round's On Me: From Online to IRL Dating with Joe Feminella 👩🏻❤️👨🏽First Round's On Me Founder Joe Feminella cuts to the chase with QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki in this episode about his inspiration to create a dating app that brings back the IRL chemistry test. Why 'Like' when you can actually meet, with intention? The best feature about this new dating app is the capability to instantly ask someone on a date and schedule it. There's also safety features and other sexy features that are being rolled out, to help make virtual dating less messy. The ladies all tested out First Round's On Me and have thoughts that they don't hesitate...
2023-02-0741 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E9 Questions With Benefits: (Fore) Play Time With @AnnaIsAverageGet ready for a hot 🥵 Girls Night In with QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki as they (fore) play Questions With Benefits with the card game's founder, Anna Lee (@AnnaIsAverage). Anna also happens to be a cofounder of @Lionesshealth, a leading smart vibrator company which not only promotes having more orgasms, but hones in on how to have the best orgasms (the MSM squad surely approves of this message). The card game's objective is to get the players a little hot and bothered with 3 levels of sexy, saucy, and daring questions. Everyone gets to know each other in ways you'd never guess by...
2023-01-3159 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E8 Hopping into the Year of the Rabbit🐰: Bring the Auspicious, Not the Suspicious!2023 is the Year of the Rabbit (or Cat) in the Lunar New Year. QuyenZi (the Tiger), Jessie (the Ox), and Nicki (the Rabbit/Cat) break down their Asian Zodiac signs, their good or bad luck fortunes, and give some insights on how they celebrate Vietnamese, Korean, and Chinese Lunar New Year in America. It's not just about eating delicious food and getting red envelopes, but about tapping into history, culture, community, and sharing AUSPICIOUS traditions to combat that SUSPICIOUS bad luck energy!
PLEASE HAVE A VERY HAPPY, HEALTHY, FORTUITOUS YEAR OF THE RABBIT (OR CAT)🐰🐱, EVERYONE!
Chúc Mừng Năm Mới
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2023-01-2454 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E7 Eat, Pray, Love...and Shop: Travel Adventures ✈️In Season 1, the Messy Sexy Me Travel Baes discussed favorite vacays...and in this episode, they manifest some dream trips. Did they eat, pray, or love (and/or shop)? From Champagne to Bali, and a romantic trip to Hawaii inclusive of lots of self love and making love; get the pro-tips for where to drink the best bubbly, get a free pre-engagement photo shoot, and take an off road adventure that are not only IG worthy, but will knock out a few check marks on that Bucket List. Don't forget to try Q's recommendation for period sex (while traveling or...
2023-01-171h 02
Messy Sexy MeS2:E6 To Girlfriend or Not Girlfriend (Your Man's Ex)🙆🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️In this episode QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki share their individual run-ins with their men's Exes. Each of the gals have a plethora of awkward, bizarre and sweet stories of the Ex-girlfriend (or the new girlfriend of the Ex). Find out if Nicki had to get a blow up mattress under the advice of her Mom; to deal with the Ex who wouldn't go away. Navigate with Jessie, all the twists and turns of being kind and empathetic, but also holding folks accountable for creating cat fights. And don't miss the plot twist when QuyenZi turns the tables on the new...
2023-01-1059 min
Messy Sexy MeS2: E5 Mickey, Daniel, & Don Spill the Tea in '23Messy Sexy Me is kicking off the New Year with the Mensss! The ladies of Messy Sexy Me are all Boo'd up (From year one to year 7) and invited their men to come share their thoughts on the loves of their lives. Was it love at first sight, or, first smell? What drives the men crazy or madly in love with the hosts of Messy Sexy Me? What's it like to be partners with QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki and what are the challenges that come with coupling with these 3 baddies? This episode will have you cringing, laughing, and eye rolling...
2023-01-031h 03
Messy Sexy MeS2:E4 Routines, Rituals & Daily Hacks 🧘🏻♀️To close out 2022, the Messy Sexy Me babes detail their routines, rituals, and daily hacks that keep their mind, bodies, and souls in balance. It's important to take some time off from conquering the world to breathe and invest in a little self care. This episode is all about doing what is much needed to nurture, pamper, and reset; so light your favorite candle, pour yourself that perfect drink, and sit back and relax to episode 4 because it's important to #treatyoself!
2022-12-2756 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E3 Cheaters Never Win...but Hopefully, They LearnApparently, there's a new study that 40% of women are cheating on their partners. Have you ever been suspicious that your lover, partner, or new interest is cheating on you, being unfaithful, or is just straight trifling? What are the signs that make them sus? What's the investigative process to find out the truth? How do you (or do you?) confront the cheater? What if you were the one who cheated? Why does one cheat in the first place? These are all the topics the ladies of Messy Sexy Me discuss in detail in this episode. The goal is to understand...
2022-12-2052 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E2 Fears and Phobias 😱: Crickets Gone WildQuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki do a deep dive into their early childhood fears; and then somehow, this episode snowballs into teenage angst, near death experiences, and the case of the attacking cricket. The ladies dissect all of these stranger things to reveal what monsters are still lurking just around the corner, or maybe just buried deep inside! 👻
2022-12-1356 min
Messy Sexy MeS2:E1 Season 2 Launch: Up to All GoodThe Messy Sexy Me squad is BACK! After a much needed break from the wrap of Season 1, a wrap/launch party with Q&A moderated by Fox LA's Sandra Endo, the launch of Messy Sexy Me on YouTube (with a hot🔥 a$$ sizzle reel), and getting Boo'd up...QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki bring y'all up to speed in this Season 2 launch episode. Get ready for the ladies to douse you in the tea 🫖!
2022-12-0644 min
Messy Sexy MeS1:E17 Season 1 Finale 🎉: Ask and You Shall Receive 🙏🏻 💫In this heartfelt Season 1 Finale episode, the Messy Sexy Me squad hone in on asking for what they've always wanted while learning to receive. How often do we yearn, want, need something that brings us satisfaction, joy, or healing but do not allow ourselves to ask for it 🥺 or even receive these gifts because we don't feel worthy, or feel we are indebted if we do? This 17th episode is all about learning to ask and receive so that we fill our cups and overflow into cups for others. Thank you to all our listeners who have come along this jou...
2022-09-2057 min
Messy Sexy MeS1:E16 Tips, Tricks, & Licks 👅: Let's Get Turnt Up 💦Let's talk about sex! Turn the lights down low, light some candles, get your favorite sultry playlist going... and get ready for some hot tips, tricks, and licks in true Messy x Sexy style with QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki. It's all about getting turned on (with or without a partner) and describing all the things that get you to climax(es) (x 16?!). Whether it's scenarios with role play, toys, or even a toothbrush - this episode has it all; sorry, batteries are not included, so make sure yours are charged up for this super sexy and ridiculously fun, descriptive, and...
2022-09-1353 min
Messy Sexy MeS1:E15 Bitch, Don't Kill My Vibe: Squashing Imposter SyndromeIn this powerful episode, QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki get vulnerable 🥺 as they share their experiences with Imposter Syndrome. Through different introspection and recollections with people and their own self-monitoring, the messy feelings associated with these painful occurrences help them overcome their own battles with not feeling worthy or enough. The conclusion...empathy, self love, celebrating your value, protecting your energy, not allowing others to project onto you, and allying up - will squash Imposter Syndrome! 🥰
2022-09-0658 min
Messy Sexy MeS1:E14 We Be Trippin: Baes on VacayThe Messy Sexy Me gals reminisce about their favorite trips (and how they overcame some very uncomfortable mishaps during their travel adventures). Live vicariously through QuyenZi's escapades rollin' with a Gangster and his hawk in Vietnam; Jessie's Ayahuasca trip in Ecuador, and Nicki's glorious Grecian dream vacation. On true Messy Sexy message...there are some seedy and dangerous road bumps, but the ladies are able to avoid danger with a little help from friends (and their own intuition) and embrace the saying "When in Rome."
2022-08-301h 07
Messy Sexy MeS1: E13 Odd Jobs: "Werk" We Don't Put on the ResumeWhat was your first worst job or side hustle? QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki share stories of all the dark, traumatic, and all around crazy odd jobs that were part of their past hustle...and can laugh (well, mostly cringe) about in hindsight.
2022-08-2352 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E12 Astrology Animals: Wolves and Weaver Finches and Black Bears, OH MY!Social Media or Websites Referenced in this Episode:https://www.thepattern.com/https://www.primalastrology.com/animal-spirit-chart.htmlhttps://www.instagram.com/sanctuarywrld/
2022-08-1640 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E11 Exes: Did It End, Suspend, Blend, or Mend?Links for relationship advice/support:https://5lovelanguages.comhttps://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a25907941/expert-relationship-advice/https://www.thehotline.orghttps://www.safehorizon.org/programs/5-signs-emotional-abuse/
2022-08-0952 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E10 WTF Do We Do?! (For a Living)QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki speak candidly about career losses, wins, and their journeys towards becoming a Marketing Assassinista, Tech Show Host, and Event Producer & Escrow Consultant. From red carpet successes to porn star meets peacock FAILS (you had to be there), it's all about lessons learned to secure that bag. Sorry, not sorry: this episode is for #goaldiggers only...#golddiggers need not apply!
2022-08-0249 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E9 Bringing Out Your Inner Beauty with Outer Beauty💁🏻♀️: Our Must-Have Regimen & Products💄Shop our FAVORITE beauty products HERE!https://technicki.info/msmAdditional links outside Amazon: Links to Quyenzi's products:(Scrub, Essence, Vitamin C Serum, Serum, Face Cream, Beauty Oil, Lip Balm) https://www.tatcha.com/(Skincare) https://epicuren.com/(Undereye cream) https://www.sk-ii.com/(Precision skin wand to even skin tone) https://opte.com/Links to Jessie's products:LG Su:m 37 Fleur Regenerative CreamLG Su:m 37 Fleur Regenerative SerumLinks to Nicki's products:(Concealer) https://www.ilmakiage.com/(Email Resource) https://10...
2022-07-2640 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E8 Pick Up Lines That Land 🛬 (or Crash and Burn 🔥)The ladies of MSM answer a listener question: “How should I approach someone and ask them out?”A can of worms was open but QuyenZi, Jessie, and Nicki turn these caterpillars (not worms) into butterflies 🦋 in the most hilarious and brutally honest (per as usual) way. After all, they’re rooting for an epic love 💕 ending (or beginning) for you - and themselves.
2022-07-1949 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E7 Dating App Profile Disasters and MastersIn this episode, the ladies discuss their own profiles and the master vs disaster profiles of their suitors. From basic tips (best greetings) that lead to a first date to how one can avoid getting left swiped and Xed out, this one will resonate with all you single (or once single) lovers out there.
2022-07-1254 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E6 Surviving Bullying: from Being Dragged Down to Finally Standing UpWe've all been bullied or have been the bully at one times in our lives. It's time to let go of the pain, hold ourselves or others accountable, and reflect so that we can spread more empathy and kindness. It's never too late to change for the better. Resources for anti-bullying:
https://www.stopbullying.gov/
https://www.cfchildren.org/resources/bullying-prevention-resources/
https://www.uft.org/your-union/uft-programs/brave/anti-bullying-resources
https://www.thebullyproject.com/
2022-07-0543 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E5 Best, Worst, and Dream DatesFrom discussing innie vs outtie vaginas to losing an Audi, 80 dollar hot pot fiascos, and an eat-pray-love story in Italy, the ladies pile on the messy and sexy in this episode that's guaranteed to make you laugh your a$$ off 🤪 🤣 😝
2022-06-2846 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E4 It's NEVER YOUR FAULT: from Harassment to Healing ❤️🩹Resources for help or to speak with someone:1. National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-4673) 2. https://www.rainn.org/resources
2022-06-2130 min
Messy Sexy MeS1: E3 Enough is EnoughIf you've ever felt "not enough" or have had "enough" - you can relate to the experiences these women share when it comes to struggling to be strong and giving themselves grace.
2022-06-1431 min
Messy Sexy MeS1:E2 What we find sexy AF 🔥The Messy Sexy Me ladies get down, deep, and dirty in this episode and break down what they find sexy (and not so sexy) in a partner. Grab a glass of wine or whiskey and get comfy for this one, but be warned...you might spit out your drink LOL during this episode! The ladies each provide their love language preferences and provide some sultry tips that will bring mental, emotional, and physical satisfaction. LFG!!!
2022-06-0833 min
Messy Sexy MeS1:E1 Welcome to Messy Sexy Me: DON'T Tune in if You're PERFECT.An entrepreneur, producer, and tech expert join forces and create a platform that will help them (and hopefully their listeners) learn, heal, and grow.
2022-06-0805 min
Best ServedClubhouse #27: Friday Food News Roundup 11/5/21Tune in every Friday, for a news roundup hour, as our diverse crew of industry leaders breaks down the current affairs of all things food, beverage and hospitality. We take a select few topics directly from the headlines and forums to give you a 360 degree view.
Headlines from this week
New York Times - Accessibility Is a Right. This Restaurant Treats It That Way. - by Pete Wells
Food Dive - Tetra Pak launches accelerator program to speed product development - by Chris Casey
Salt Bae's Restaurant Hiring at $16/hour
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2021-11-0558 minBest ServedClubhouse #20: Food That Represents Your HeritageOn our twentieth episode from the Clubhouse app, we listen in on a chat about Food That Represents Your Heritage. Join “In The Weeds” and “Best Served” as we talk about the power of Food as a way to celebrate our cultural heritage. Listen to stories of the people behind the food and how their history and family guide what’s on the plate.
Moderators
Jensen Cummings - @ChefJensenCummings
Elle Jarvis - @elleintheweeds @intheweeds.us
Nite Yun - @nyumbai
Andrea Murdoch - @fourdirectionscuisine
Ameera Muhammad...
2021-09-241h 20