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Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 178: Proof of Life [Season 7 FINALE]Magic Mind's got a Black Friday offer, it's currently 50% off until the 6th of December, only with my link:https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDBF Use my code RANDIEPDBF for 50% off #magicmindHey y’all!It’s the end of. . . . the SEASON! So, here’s a longer episode to reflect on this long ass year. Tune in as Mikey and Randie reveal the 3 biggest things that affected them and stood out to them this year, and their favorite episodes and collabs. Later, they have a relationship check-in rating s...2024-12-071h 34
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 177: What's Going OnMy productivity hack: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20Use my code RANDIEPD20 for 20% off #magicmind..Hey y’all,The temptation to roll over and die is . . . well, tempting. But in this Indie Randie details the 4 things keeping her afloat, helping her resist despair, and inspiring her to imagine a better future. Because if Bisan from Gaza can show up, then so will she.Tune in as the shorter half of the BMM podcast shares her feelings on the world around her, the fear she and ev...2024-11-0132 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM INDIE 172: Let's Talk About Lichen Sclerosus Ft. Kathy Ruiz-CarterHey y’all!Tune in as Randie sits down with Kathy, host of the Lichen Sclerosus Podcast.Kathy was diagnosed with LS 5 years ago at 40 and the life-changing diagnosis paved the way for her podcast and organization on a mission to educate women about the auto immune disease that commonly affects the genitals.In this episode, Kathy details the symptoms she experienced before diagnosis, the sub-par medical care she initially received, and how living with this diagnosis affects her body, marriage, and children. 2024-05-2241 min
Black Millennial Marriage[FLASHBACK] BMM 082: Game of MoansHey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.Tune in to hear Game of Moans. This was another fan favorite back in the day. Happy Listening!... The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your...2024-05-0357 min
Black Millennial Marriage[FLASHBACK] BMM EP 088: 4Ever Ever, It Ain't All BadHey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.First up, an episode from 2020 when they were celebrating 4 years of marriage. This was a fan favorite back then and they hope you still enjoy it! Especially because the couple just celebrated EIGHT years married! Wow. So many things have stayed the same. haha. Happy Listening. ...The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what...2024-04-271h 14Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 166: Holistic Marriage Ft. Dr. Tiffany Smith + Mr. Horace SmithHey y’all! Mikey and Randie are back for Season 7. The Chapmans done batch recorded and everything lmao. In this episode the couple interview Dr. Tiffany Smith and her husband Mr. Horace a.k.a. Mr. Smith.Tune in to hear your hosts chat with the couple about their love story, the challenges of Horace living with chronic pain, functional medicine, and the surprising benefits of aromatherapy. Dr. Tiffany even gifts BMM listeners with a special offering.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight abo...2024-04-241h 12
Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 164: Plastic Off the Sofa [UNEDITED]Hey y'all!Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging.So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like.This episode in particular was a very popular episode last year, downloaded over 4k times and so they wanted to share the original and uncut version with y'all.They'll...2023-12-171h 01
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 161: It Is Finally SafeSo what had happened was…Randie’s mom heard her Indie episode, Mothering Myself. And like, duh right? That was always a possibility. And still..Randie was scared shitless.Tune in to hear about the creative block Randie's been experiencing, her thoughts on her own cowardice behavior, and what finally accepting her safety means for her.She wonders…what will it look like now for her to create solely for her and solely out of love for her inner child and adult self? Well, we’ll all find out together and it'll start with this episode...2023-11-0836 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 160: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love [UNEDITED + REPRISED]Hey y'all, Hey!It's a good day for a throwback.And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you.In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they...2023-10-241h 23
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage [BONUS EP]Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsDidn’t expect a bonus Indie Episode from Randie did you? (Or maybe you did if you caught her latest IG Live)She misses y’all! Mikey and Randie both do. And they want you to consider this episode an apology, an olive branch, and a promise that they will be back sooner than you think with episodes. Get excited.And . . .Tune in as Randie details a homework assignment she received from her sex and intimacy doula. This homework included lots of honey and an epipha...2023-06-0627 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. (Ft. Randy H.)Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsWas an episode with Randie's dad on your bingo card for 2022?Tune in as Big Ran gets interviewed by the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. Together the two detail their happiest childhood memories and later Randie learns what inspired her dad to give up the drugs you snort and heavy alcohol. Big Ran also reveals how he thinks his upbringing affected his previous marriage and parenting, talks about what reconciling with all of his kids would look like in a perfect world...2022-11-3051 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie: Mothering MyselfListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie's stuck on a roller coaster that sends her round and round on a ride of hating herself, shaming herself, and blaming herself for Noble's death. At least that's what her therapist says.
But why? Why can't Randie just be sad and mourn without beating herself up?
A phone call days before Noble's birth may give a hint to the answer.
Tune in as the mother half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details revealing the truth to her therapist and discusses what it means to finally believe she is...2022-04-0126 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 141: Mothering MyselfListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie’s stuck on a roller coaster that sends her round and round on a ride of hating herself, shaming herself, and blaming herself for Noble’s death. At least that’s what her therapist says.But why? Why can’t Randie just be sad and mourn without beating herself up?A phone call days before Noble’s birth may give a hint to the answer.Tune in as the mother half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details revealing the truth to her therap...2022-04-0126 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM: "Grief Sedated by Orgasm"Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.
In Lemonade Beyoncè said, "Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief," and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.
In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.
Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it's all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.
As always, Mikey and R...2022-03-1500 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 140: "Grief Sedated by Orgasm"Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.In Lemonade Beyoncè said, “Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief,” and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PD...2022-03-1557 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM INDIE 134: I Am Not Okay (BONUS EP)Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie's here with a bonus episode she didn't expect to record. In this Indie episode the shorter half of the BMM podcast is here to tell everyone she's really not okay.With a message that is sometimes read and sometimes not, Randie reveals how she has tried and failed to manipulate her grief and tried and failed to fake the funk. In fact, every time she tries to run away from the pain and from her uncomfortable grief, her inner child screams--"LOOK AT ME...2021-12-0817 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 133: A Proper Ending (End of Season 3)Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Today marks four months since Mikey and Randie lost their son, Noble, and in dedication they wanted to end the season properly.In this episode, Randie and Mikey detail why they're doing this episode, where they've been the past few months, and where they are now. There's also some exciting news for what's in store for BMM in 2022.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about an annoying habit. But in the end, it's all love when they...2021-11-2543 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 132: Live From the BedListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts.Randie’s water broke and she’s on bed rest.This new development is a pregnancy plot twist for sure and the Chapmans record in bed to tell you all about it. Together they detail the ER and hospital stay and the plan for the baby and pregnancy. Later, Mikey and Randie detail how they’re doing and what’s helping the Mrs. survive. They conclude the episode with some much needed PDA and even laugh a bit.As always, Randie and Mikey appreciate everyo...2021-07-1136 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 130: No One is Coming to Save UsListen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThere comes a point in every marriage where a couple realizes: No one is coming to save them.Mikey and Randie have reached that moment, especially concerning the podcast.In this episode, the Chapmans detail the ways they’ve been playing small, reveal why they’ve been passive participants in this podcast game, and discuss how they intend to confront and stop the bullshit. From utilizing their resources, trusting their first thought, and asking for help, Randie and Mikey let listeners in on thei...2021-06-031h 02
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 128: Another Baby.Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsRandie is pregnant! And the Chapmans want to tell you all about the new baby.In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail why they decided to have another baby, discuss how they found out about the new addition, and reveal what happened when they told family and friends about the pregnancy. Later, the Mrs. brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain why he has to hear something from 100 people before he believes her when she says something. But in the end, it’s al...2021-05-0354 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 126: Fly Drew. Fly.Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn the second episode of season 3, Mikey and Randie discuss putting Drew back in daycare. Together, the parents detail the pros and cons of having Drew home because of Covid-19, why they decided school was best for her, and how their baby girl’s return to daycare is helping them take their shit back.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight confronting Randie about a compliment gone wrong. But, in the end it’s all love when the Chapmans show each other some PDA.Ra...2021-04-1649 min
What The F*ck Are We Doing?What The F*ck Are We Listening To? #9Sophia is back on the pod and joining Randie in this week's episode of WTF Are We Listening To! This episode Randie and Sophia each made "mood wheels" and are sharing what songs fit each mood for them. Stay tuned for their playlists and we'll see you on Monday! 2021-04-0732 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 125: Let’s Play a Game!Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsMikey and Randie are back for Season 3, and true to Chapman fashion and BMM tradition, they’re back with a game!Invented by UK couple, Robert and Diana Indries, Better Topics is a game created by couples for couples. You can enjoy this game whether you are married, engaged, dating, in a long-term relationship, or a new couple.Together, Randie and Mikey play the fun game asking each other questions like: When was a moment you were ashamed? When were you last turned of...2021-04-0557 min
RANDIE¿Qué está pasando en RANDIE?Randie se independiza y esta es una prueba del ensayo 0.5, su conductora Avit platica sobre lo que viene para el programa pero no todo...2021-03-1405 minWhat The F*ck Are We Doing?What The F*ck Are We Listening To? #4Randie Mo is back at it again all on her own and killing it! This week she talks about how she FINALLY listened to one of Ariana Grande's albums and loved it, just like I knew she would 😉 Literally only Randie would notice that both Ari and Wu-Tang used the same sample on their songs. She also goes into more detail on where her love for music came from and the BTS for the making of the Drop music video by The Pharcyde. We'll see you next week! 2021-02-2429 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 124: End of Season Two! Back in 2021.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsPHEW!! It’s been a wild, wonderous, and unexpected year. When the ball drops on New Year’s Day don’t forget to shout, “Jumanji!” but before that, listen to the Chapman’s last episode of 2020. For this season finale, Mikey and Randie share the episodes that grew them up and surprised them and later they play and read feedback from . . . you. But not so fast, before the episode ends, Randie and Mikey award Patreon superlatives like, “Most likely to own half of West Atlanta” and “Most likely to be the tallest...2020-12-151h 01
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 122: I . . . QuitListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThe Chapmans are back to close out season 2 and in this Indie episode, Randie drops a bomb. She quit her day job. In this solo reflection the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details the ins and outs of her transition and shares what she’s doing now. 2020 remains full of surprises, and this is certainly the case for the Mrs. Never did she ever think she’d pull a stunt like this. But this is why we never say never and remain open to anything.2020-12-0227 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 121: What We Gained In The FireListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsThe Chapmans will be back Wednesday, December 2nd! But before then . . . election day is upon us, and that’s a big deal. However, Mikey and Randie are here if you want to take a load off–cause lord knows they need to. That’s why in this episode, the couple discuss the gains from 2020. They highlight Lovecraft Country, bonding with their family members, and a year–despite 2020’s best efforts–of heightened intimacy and sensuality.Normally, Randie and Mikey would save this kind of thing for the end of t...2020-11-031h 03
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 120: Competing With Who?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIcky, exhausted, confused, inferior, grateful, and inspired are just a few ways Mikey and Randie feel when they compete–knowingly and unknowingly.Together, the Chapmans detail what it’s like to be copied, unfollowed, and seen out here in these creative streets. Randie and Mikey also discuss what fuels their drive and keeps them focused on what matters most.Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight asking the Mrs. to do more with her glasses. But, it’s all love when they show each o...2020-10-2656 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 119: I Am AliveListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn this solo episode, Randie details how an essay by June Jordan paired with therapy has reminded her that she is alive. Stuck in survival mode, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes that surviving ain’t always living and she’s had enough of playing dead and small. After all, life is for the living. Yes? Yes.Randie hopes you tune in and that you enjoy.Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women?Pr...2020-10-2023 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 118: Another Baby?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts“AHT AHT AHT” That’s what Randie says during this entire episode. Why? Because the Chapmans are discussing what it would be like to have another baby. In this episode the couple give their initial thoughts about having another child (way in the future) and detail what it was like having siblings. Then, Mikey and Randie share pros and cons to adding to their family. The Mr. has feelings he didn’t expect, while the Mrs. may be a little stressed. Later, during the fight or flight, Randie confront...2020-10-151h 06
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 117: Big Mistakes. Big Lessons.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google PodcastsIn this episode, Mikey and Randie reveal big mistakes they’ve made in their marriage and the lessons they learned from them. From lying about being in the mood for sex to overcompensating and neglecting love languages, the Chapmans share it all. The conversation is insightful and necessary, and they’re pretty sure you’re going to cry laughing–per usual. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions Randie’s ability to look for things, but in the end it’s all love and laughter when the cou...2020-10-081h 02
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 115: Creator WoesListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Are you finding it hard to be creative or productive with all that’s been happening this year? Well, Mikey and Randie have and they aren’t too proud to share. In this open and honest episode, the couple detail the pros and cons of being a creator during a pandemic and revolution. For Randie, it’s mentally and emotionally draining in more ways than one and for Mikey, his extroverted side is taking a major hit. Later, for the Mrs.’s fight or flight, Mikey surprises Randie with a h...2020-09-2957 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 114: Dear God Ft. Brandi MillerListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
This episode is dedicated to Randie’s late grandmother Pat (1949-2012)
Dear God, thank you. But also, how much longer? And by the way, please come get your people. These are just a few thoughts that Randie and her guest, Brandi Miller have. In this indie episode, the shorter half of the podcast interviews the host of “Reclaiming My Theology,” a podcast about taking our theology back from systems and ideas that oppress. Together, the two detail what shaped their idea of God. Next, they discuss Christ...2020-09-2543 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 113: We Keep Forgetting to Say Thank YouListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Did Last week’s positivity throw you off? Well, get ready because Mikey and Randie are trying something new again. In this gratitude filled episode, the couple detail lessons they learned from people they always forget to thank. For Randie, it’s her dad and extended family members and for Mikey, it’s his mom. In this never-before-had conversation, Randie dives into her epiphany about gray areas, while Mikey bigs up his mother and recognizes how his father has contributed to who he is. Later, for the Mr.’s fight...2020-09-231h 11
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 112: What I Like About YouListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Last week was intense, right? That’s why Mikey and Randie are lightening it up a bit with some major PDA. In this episode the couple detail what they like about the other and end up surprising one another. From Randie’s rant about Mikey’s butt to Mikey’s love about her bravery, the Chapmans invite you in to listen to a heartwarming and feel good conversation. Later, for her fight or flight, the Mrs. questions Mikey about always using her things. But, in the end, it’s always l...2020-09-1641 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 111: Checking InListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie’s back to check in, and on this Indie episode the shorter half of the podcast talks starting therapy again. Later, she tells a funny (maybe) church story and reveals two podcasts she’s loving right now. Randie hopes you enjoy this short and sweet Indie.
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 110: Are You Shrinking Yourself for Me?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Have you been having simple conversations with your partner? Where neither one of you are assuming the worst or avoiding conflict? Mikey and Randie haven’t. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss ways they are shrinking themselves and the potential harm they have caused in their relationship. Randie shares her definition of shrinking herself, Mikey expresses similar feelings, and the couple share a transformative moment when they reveal the ways and reasons they shrink who they are.
Things get eye-opening, apologetic, and true to C...2020-09-081h 18
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 108: Allow Me to Reintroduce MyselfListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
NOTHING is the same, well not really, and that includes Mikey and Randie. That’s why in this episode the couple ask each other rapid fire questions paired with three questions each to reintroduce themselves to the other. Randie wonders why it’s important for Mikey to grow his hair back and if he still has a fear of abandonment, while Mikey wonders what’s Randie’s favorite part of her body and if there’s anything she’s keeping from him. Things get deep, funny, and true to Chapman f...2020-09-011h 20
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 107: Black Is.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Black is Glory, Forever, Friendship, King, and a Conversation. And Randie can’t wait for you to hear. In this Indie episode, she chats it up with two of her closest girlfriends from college about Beyoncé’s visual album and re-imagination of the Lion King. To start, the trio reveal a time in their childhoods when they were proud of themselves, and then discuss how the Black is King visual album is helping them make it through these trying times. Later, Carmen, Chantel, and Randie discuss some people’s criti...2020-08-281h 01
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 106: Brave Marriage Featuring Jeff and LoganListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
**Republished** Mikey and Randie may not have many married mentors, but they certainly have some of the best peer ones. That’s why in this episode the couple chat with their favorite married friends–Jeff and Logan about being brave and what that looks like while in a relationship. To start, the friends discuss a time they were afraid in their childhood. Then, Logan and Jeff tell their love story (spoiler: it’s hilarious). Later, the couples discuss race and power dynamics in their relationships, reveal what they have h...2020-08-181h 12
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 104: Love and Business featuring Domino SoundListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie never thought they’d start a business with the podcast, and yet here they are! It’s a plot twist, alright, and this got them thinking about other couples who are doing big things on the business front as well. Other couples like, Kenya and Alex–co-founders of the queer, black woman-owned Domino Sound network. Along with their team, the duo are making it work and staying together. How Sway?
The Chapmans interview them and find out how they met and started the busine...2020-08-0459 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 103: Thinking of Oluwatoyin SalauListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie planned to do a relationship check-in with herself, but decided instead to talk about Oluwatoyin Salau (2000-2020).
Oluwatoyin, a Nigerian-American activist was killed in June 2020 by a Black man. She died over a month ago, and right before the Chapmans took their break, and yet Randie has been unable to stop thinking about her. So, instead of carrying on as usual, Randie thought it best to finally share her thoughts about the affect Oluwatoyin’s death had on her.
Are you excited to ad...2020-07-3129 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 102: We’re RichListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
When you really think about it, you’re rich. At least, that’s what Mikey and Randie discovered while on their mid-season pod break. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss six things about their relationship that makes them feel rich and makes them want to show gratitude. From Randie holding herself accountable, to Mikey proving that he’s willing and ready to act in allyship, the couple welcome you to participate in their sap fest. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions how voca...2020-07-2745 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 100: OUR 100TH EPISODE!Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
If you’ve never listened to an episode or are trying to catch up. Stop whatever you are doing and listen to this one! How come? It’s the Black Millennial Marriage podcast’s 100TH EPISODE!! Mikey and Randie did it! They reached a monumental number in their show, and they want to share all the feels with you. That’s why in this episode, the couple play listener voicemails, read listener emails, and play snippets from their personal favorite episodes. Later, they discuss what the podcast has taught t...2020-06-221h 13
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 099: Go Back to AfricaListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Racist white people want Black people to go back to Africa, and Black people want to go back to Africa, and Randie weighs in with her thoughts.
In this episode she details things that were challenging and great about living in Cape Coast Ghana, when she studied abroad. Later, she shares tips of what to do if you travel to an African country, and finally Randie shares two book recommendations. One book by Janet Mock, in honor of Pride month and the other, if you’re in...2020-06-1228 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 098: Joy is an Act of Resistance Ft. DrewListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Writer and activist Audre Lorde said it best, caring for oneself is a form of political warfare. That’s why, in this episode Mikey and Randie are taking a break from the heartache and instead reflecting on the joys of Blackness. Why? Because while the revolution is in progress and the pandemic is still real, they needed a reminder that Black people do more than die. Black people are masters of joy and happiness. They are compassionate, strong, and magical, so together the Chapmans reveal their favorite thing ab...2020-06-1055 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 097: BMM X Cheat CodeListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
PWHEW. Talk about a time for tough and revolutionary conversations! They are happening everywhere, including on BMM’s podcast. To begin, in this episode, Randie and Mikey sit down with Andrea and Jason–the couple that brought everyone the Cheat Code podcast and the story of an affair between one woman and one man. Together they all discuss the Chapman’s criticism of their show and reveal their first encounters with infidelity. Later, the four hosts engage in a question and answer segment with each other and the result...2020-06-051h 08
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 096: Marriage CounselingListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie are in therapy . . . together! And in this episode, they discuss their experience with counseling and their latest homework assignment. Randie must consider what a fearless life looks like and show proof that Mikey supports her, and Mikey must reflect on their relationship history and reveal what he finds most valuable. The results are interesting and transformative, and they can’t wait for you to hear all about it. Never did they expect to engage in virtual therapy but it’s working and they want to spre...2020-06-031h 08
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 095: Radical AcceptanceListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Oh the irony! This episode was supposed to be the first one of season 2, but Mikey and Randie changed their plans. Now, the couple share this episode because of another plot twist and a surprise that’s not quite ready yet–but it’s all good. Recorded back in February, when they were on break, Randie and Mikey talk about some of the things they have to radically accept. From the come up not being as linear as they hoped, to understanding that they have to live with their...2020-05-2749 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 093: A Second Marriage?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
After listening to the “Rethinking Infidelity . . . a talk for anyone who has ever loved,” TED Talk, Mikey and Randie decide it may be time to start a second marriage. So, in this episode, the couple discuss what a second marriage means to them and why they think they should start anew. Next, they share pros, cons, and fears about starting this new venture, and lastly they share how they plan to manifest a second marriage. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight and confronts Mikey about a promise he b...2020-05-1847 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 092: Woman to WomanListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this rare episode, Randie interviews her mom–Nottra H. (on VIDEO, available on Patreon) and asks her questions she’s always wanted the answers to. Randie digs deep and asks questions like: “Why did you get married,” “Why did you get divorced?” “What was your first connection to God,” and “Would you rather date a Trump supporter or another Sagittarius?” And of course, there’s more.
Later, Randie’s mom brings a fight or flight from a time Randie was in college, but in the end, they grace each oth...2020-05-121h 17
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 090: The F*ck?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this episode, Mikey and Randie review the first five episodes of, “The Cheat Code,” a podcast about an affair told over ten episodes. Together, the Chapmans detail their initial reactions that ranged from–“Wtf?” to “Huh?”. Next, the couple discuss what had them in their feelings. Randie reveals the show triggered the kid in her and that she was surprised to hear cheaters cry about getting cheated on. Mikey, on the other hand was most surprised by how nonchalant and narcissistic the duo was during the time frame of the a...2020-05-041h 10
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 089: Little GracesListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Come! Take a load off with Randie. In this Indie episode, featuring just herself, the more hydrated half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes she does not have the mental and emotional bandwidth to go as deep as she usually does. Quarantine be like that sometimes! Instead, Randie reflects on the little graces she’s discovered, utilized, and turned to as a source of comfort in these trying times. From binging her favorite horror podcast–Scream Queen–, to yoga, yogi tea, a podcast about murder, and the blessi...2020-05-0129 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 088: 4Ever Ever, It Ain’t All BadListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they’re grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. Later, Mikey shares that he’s learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she’s discovered that perhaps her husband is plagued by patriarchy too. Finally, there are two fights. The first is about Randie’s “man-hating bag,” and the other about Mikey’s inability to r...2020-04-281h 09
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 086: Deeper Than the Highlight ReelListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
**RE-UPLOADED** In this episode the Chapmans share how the season 2 launch of the podcast triggered bigger concerns. Together Mikey and Randie discuss how not seeing one another on the social media feed gave truth to a bigger problem. That problem? They have not prioritized, invested time, or attempted to memorialize their relationship, on or offline, in a while.
In the past year, they only wanted to survive, and the two discuss how that mentality impacted the small things that have snowballed into big things. Now, they...2020-04-2356 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 085: On Being MarriedListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie was not going to share this episode with the public, but her intentions for herself called for real life bravery. For her first Indie back, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast talks about needing Mikey. But, doesn’t everyone? Yes. No?
Randie details how she has shrunk her needs as a wife for fear of conflict, and then she discusses why this cannot continue. Feeling a bit ashamed, embarrassed, exposed, and silly, Randie’s uncomfortable. But, a little discomfort never killed anyone. Righ...2020-04-1531 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 084: Love and Lessons in the Time of CoronaListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
What a time to be alive, right? In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss the ways the Coronavirus pandemic has already changed their life. From realizing that they’re blessed to having to accept that they should have deleted some people from their social media a long time ago, the Chapmans also share what this time in isolation is teaching them about themselves and each other. The couple lastly reveal how sad social distancing is because this means they have to stay away from key family members–like Mike...2020-04-131h 06
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 082: Game of MoansListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your most embarrassing moment in bed,” “Has my rank changed?”, “What do you wish we did more of?” and that’s just the beginning. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight questioning Randie’s hate of his favorite show, “How I Met Your Mother.” It...2020-04-0557 min
Black Millennial Marriage[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 010: Shower my BabyListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
When Randie was pregnant, the Chapmans didn’t celebrate too much. Fear and worry took over and they were slow to show real excitement about Drew until…the baby shower. So for this Patreon archive, the couple take it all the way back to the day their family and friends got together to acknowledge new life. The party had everything from books, to games, to drama, and whistles and you gotta tune in to hear all about it. In other news, Season 2 of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast airs...2020-02-2525 min
Black Millennial Marriage[Patreon Archives] BMM Mini 013: Labor of Love Pt. 3Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
It’s clear Drew got here safely, but haven’t you ever wondered about the final moments of Randie’s birth story? In this episode, never released to the public, the Chapmans detail the Mrs’s c-section. They also discuss the hospital stay in the midst of Mikey’s program, and more. Later, the Chapmans shower each other with PDA and they hope you enjoy. Season 2 of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast airs April 5th, but until then the couple will share archived mini episodes you haven’t heard before...2020-02-0451 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 081: End of Season 1. Back in April.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
IT’S THE END OF THE LONGEST SEASON EVER! Whew. Hindsight is 2020, and in this episode, the Chapmans discuss their almost two years of podcasting, how, why, and when they realized they needed an official season break and pod revamp, and finally what their plans for season two entail.
Together, Mikey and Randie reveal their fears about change ranging from a fear of missing out and a fear of losing people, but as a couple they realize the positive impact of change outweighs the possible negative. Th...2019-12-301h 20
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 080: The Best ThingsListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie’s back with the last Indie of the year and season of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. In this episode, she takes a break from talking about the hard things, and reveals the 5 best things that happened to her in 2019. From Drew’s birth to finding a community with her gang-gang, Randie uses this episode to honor the things and people that helped her survive the year. Later she talks about the three movies she can watch over and over again, shares her favorite parenting book, and give...2019-12-2733 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 079: This Email . . .Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Chapmans get lots of emails, but this one takes the cake. In this episode, the couple respond and react to a listener’s request to have sex with Randie, then they ponder the cons of having a podcast, reveal the deeper conversation the email sparked, and finally the couple set some boundaries for listeners. Later, Mikey brings a fight-or-flight asking Randie to explain her plans for Christmas, but in the end it’s all love, as usual, when they show each other PDA.
There’s only o...2019-12-231h 24
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 077: What a YearListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Whew. It’s been a year and in this episode the Chapmans talk about it. Mikey and Randie provide a broad overview of what happened between December 2018 to now and have their first relationship check-in since episode 026. Together the couple rate communication, money, sex, the podcast, vacation, and their 9 months as parents to Drew, and per usual the results are as surprising as they are funny. Randie reveals she wants to talk to Mikey less and Mikey reveals his plan to focus on more unorthodox foreplay, (and that’s ju...2019-12-161h 13
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 075: You’re a FlirtListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Chapmans are back from their break with a new episode. In this installment of the BMM podcast, Mikey and Randie discuss if they find other people attractive, and if they think it’s realistic to only have eyes for your spouse. Both of them share an experience with flirting before and now that they’re married, and the conversation is as funny as it is insightful. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight concerning Randie’s shoes, but as always they end the episode with some PDA.
...2019-12-081h 12
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 073: Relationship Horror Stories Pt. 2Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
A year later, and Mikey and Randie are back with another round of relationship horror stories submitted by . . . you.
Included are your tales about a crazy ex tricking a locksmith and trashing the place, sex with a Nazi, a group text gone wrong, and more. The Chapmans couldn’t have been more entertained. Your transparency and humor has given the couple something to hold on to while they take a pod break, but don’t worry they’ll be back December 8th.
Before they leave...2019-10-281h 10
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 071: Family DinnerListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Mikey and Randie enjoy talking about their relationship, their truths, fails, and triumphs, but more than anything they enjoy talking about . . . you.
With just one more episode to go before their break, the Chapmans respond to listener feedback, share voicemails, talk about that time Mikey’s foot got ran over, and respond to listener stories concerning their own fathers. This episode was so good even Drew had something to say. Mikey and Randie had fun, and they hope you enjoy as well.
Are you ex...2019-10-211h 28
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 069: How Randie Got Her Groove BackListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
It’s been a long time coming, but Randie’s back to work. In this episode, she reveals how loss, chaos, and fear caused her to lose her way and forget her intentions. However, she later explains how Mikey’s coding bootcamp endeavor encouraged her to bet on herself again. Later, the couple discuss the talk she had with God and how she found the new full-time job. They also detail the extensive interview process, and explain what this new work means for the podcast and Patreon. Before the ep...2019-10-131h 29
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 067: This Sh*t is Hard WorkListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Yes, Mikey and Randie have been together for a long time and yes they like and love one another, but that doesn’t mean being together is easy. Still, for some strange reason, some people assume that the work they do for their relationship is easy and lacks stressors, fears, worries, and concerns. That’s why in this episode, the Chapmans reveal six things that’s still hard for them. The list ranges from being kind when they don’t feel like it, remaining unselfish and sacrificing wants and need...2019-10-081h 36
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 065: That’s Not How Any of This WorksListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Should you put up with any old thing just because you’re married? Mikey and Randie refuse. And in this episode the Chapmans detail all the things marriage is NOT (in their opinion). They take a hard look at key parts of marital vows: “For richer or poorer,” “In sickness and health,” “For better or worse,” and, “Till death do us part,” and reveal what the commitment requires and doesn’t require to them. Later Randie brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain why she always has to repeat hersel...2019-09-291h 05
Black Millennial MarriageBMM Indie 064: Girlfriends & ThingsListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this episode Randie explains how her relationship with her sister impacted her relationship with other women. She later reveals how she’s been complicit in her bad friendship experiences, and then she let’s listeners in on other things she’s learning to accept about herself.
Before the episode ends, she answers some fun questions ranging from who is her favorite character on Pose, is she team Blanca or team Elektra, does she ever get annoyed by comments, and more.
This episode proved therap...2019-09-2544 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 061: Oh, You Watch Porn PornListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Lamar Odom’s girlfriend made him give it up, and every now and then someone reveals to IG that they’ve caught their partner watching porn porn. So in this episode, Mikey and Randie decide to talk about the subject themselves. They both reveal an embarrassing story, discuss their pros and cons, share the impact on their relationship, and detail what they think about porn as socially conscious people. They go there. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that ironically is about their episode topic but in the...2019-09-151h 28
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode’s end, the Chapmans hypothetically renegotiate terms of their relationship and engage in a fight or flight that gets deeper than expected. However, as always Mikey and Randie reel it in with some always apprec...2019-09-081h 10
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 056: Bad Dad/Good Husband. Bad Wife/Good Mom.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Before their pod break, Mikey and Randie are bringing all the emotions. You’re not crying, they are. In this episode, the couple open up about the disconnect between them. Mikey thinks he’s failing as a dad, Randie thinks she’s failing as a wife, and both of their therapists disagree. But before they get into it, the Chapmans lead with an extra special love story. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight concerning Randie’s resistance to a sexual request, and in the end they show each oth...2019-07-281h 36
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 054: What About Your Fam?Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
It’s all fun and games, until your spouse’s sister calls you evil. At least, that’s the case for a listener who wrote in. In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss an email they received. They detail what protecting each other from family and friends looks like, and reveal their thoughts about keeping family in and out their business.
In all, family’s complicated, man and while Randie and Mikey have differing opinions, they do arrive at a common ground.
Later, Mikey brings a...2019-07-171h 15
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 051: 21 Day ChallengeListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Remember the Chapman’s 21 day sex challenge? Yea. They failed. Don’t worry though–they will explain.
In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how and why they failed, who they think the challenge is best for, and what they plan to do moving forward.
Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that blames Randie for his anxiety, and then they make up with some PDA.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
Pressi...2019-06-301h 01
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 050: THAT Black Mirror EpisodeListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Anybody catch THAT Black Mirror episode? You know the one. SPOILER ALERT: In this episode the couple discuss why Black Mirror’s Striking Vipers had them up talking all night. Mikey and Randie also reveal why they believe the story is a cautionary tale for married folks and later they discuss what they took from the show. Before the episode ends Randie brings a fight or flight that questions Mikey’s response to her vulnerable moment and later they indulge in some PDA.
Are you excited to a...2019-06-241h 05
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 049: Dear Mikey, Happy Father’s DayListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie recorded this episode at 2:00am and Mikey has no idea. Why? Because it’s Father’s Day and he deserves something grand. In this unique episode, Randie details her relationship with Father’s Day in the past, why she struggled to come up with something for Mikey this year, and what she ultimately plans to do for him on this special day. She ends the episode with a message for Mikey and she hopes you enjoy.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your l...2019-06-1622 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 047: Vulnerability FailListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
If trust is earned then why doesn’t Mikey have Randie’s? And is it a trust issue or a vulnerability one? Maybe it’s all the same thing?
In this episode the Chapmans do their best to figure it out. They start by defining vulnerability, trust, and faith, and later the Mrs. reads a journal entry. It’s a tough conversation, but the couple agree that it’s a good one.
Later Randie brings a fight or flight asking Mikey to explain his bad trash...2019-06-021h 26
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 046: Hypothetically, Of Course.Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this episode the couple detail what they would do in 6 hypothetical situations ranging from Mikey finding out he has a 16 year old son 5 years from now and Randie being forced to kill off a family member.
Later Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to explain her use of coconut oil during their sex challenge, and as always they end with some PDA.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 043: Behind the PodcastListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
The Black Millennial Marriage Podcast is a year old and for their anniversary the couple take everyone behind the podcast.
They discuss how they got the money for equipment, what they went through to obtain the license for their song, how they got their image, and why their name was a big mistake. Mikey and Randie later answer listener questions and give their favorite and not so favorite 3 episodes, divulge what they hope to accomplish this upcoming year of podcasting, and detail what podcasting has taught...2019-04-221h 39
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 039: Hey StrangerListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie’s been a literal food source and Mikey’s been in class, and so for their first regular episode since Drew’s birth, the couple decide to talk to one another. They ask each other a string of questions ranging from a simple “How are you,” to “What are three emotions you’ve felt these past two weeks,” and it gets honest and emotional. It’s not all serious though. For his love story, Mikey reads a listener’s drunk story and Randie brings a fight or flight that makes he...2019-03-181h 19
Black Millennial MarriageBMM EP 031: No, I Love You (More)Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
This may be the couple’s most freestyled episode yet. For episode 031 Mikey and Randie get into topics they believe can be divisive in relationships like: who does the most work, who has it worse: men or women, and more. The conversation is eye-opening for the both of them and it takes Randie out of her shell while making Mikey feel right at home.
Are you excited to add this couple to your list of relationship favorites?
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM Mini 005: Conscious ParentingListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
In this episode the couple dive into Randie’s obsession with Dr. Shefali’s book, The Conscious Parent. So inspired by their findings, they list things their parents got right when raising them and things they want to do differently in their own families.
From wanting to give their children choices to honoring who their children are as opposed to who they hoped they would be, Randie and Mikey get each other thinking and hope you enjoy the conversation as well.
Are you excited to a...2018-11-0550 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 025: Never Gonna Give You UpListen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Marriages end, especially (sometimes) after a baby and in this episode the couple talk about the work they intend to do to keep their marriage intact once Baby Chapman gets here.
After all, wouldn’t it be a shame to break up after everything they’ve been through? Randie thinks so. Later in the episode, Mikey and Randie discuss never wanting to consider the other irrelevant–especially after reading the definition–they then talk about their goal to not neglect themselves emotionally, physically, and mentally, and lastly d...2018-10-0258 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 023: It’s a Hard Knock LifeListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
When it rains it pours.
Rather than wait until the storm has passed, the Chapmans discuss their current trials and tribulations ranging from the (happy) shock of a second pregnancy, Mikey’s mental health, Randie’s recent…self employment, money woes, and their relationship with guilt and shame. The fight or flight segment is as entertaining as ever and as always the couple close the episode with some PDA.
Are you excited to add Mikey and Randie to your list of relationship favorites?
Pressi...2018-09-101h 12
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 022: The InterviewListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Ever wanted to know more about who Mikey and Randie are, individually? If the answer is yes. Tune in.
In this episode the couple ask each other a string of questions ranging from “Are you brave and what’s a brave moment you’re proud of?” to “What are you currently struggling with right now?” With these questions, Randie and Mikey give more insight into themselves and hope the listeners enjoy the conversation.
Fight or Flight is back as Randie raises concerns about a nasty habit Mikey...2018-08-271h 05
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 019: Jealous Much?Listen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Podcasts
Randie doesn’t think that jealousy should be normalized, but Mikey thinks a little bit is healthy.
In this episode the couple get honest about jealousy before and in marriage and laugh it up as they discuss who Randie believes Mikey will marry if she dies and why Mikey wants to be the only one to take up Randie’s time. He may even be a bit envious of the dog. But you’ll have to listen to get all the details.
Are you excited to add...2018-07-2352 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 016: A Crazy Ass NightListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Drunk and in love, Mikey and Randie share a story about a crazy night.
In this episode the couple reminisce about a time they each got way too drunk. Randie and Mikey discuss the problems that arose when they mixed partying with tequila and share a few lessons they’ve learned. Later, the Chapmans are challenged by a family member who leaves a voicemail for the fight or flight segment and things get interesting.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your li...2018-07-0152 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 015: Sometimes You’re Hard to LoveListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Are you hard to love? Sometimes Mikey and Randie are.
In this episode the couple practice accountability and detail all the things that’s hard to love about themselves. Randie and Mikey discuss where these flaws originate and how they do their best to keep themselves in check.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.
Support th...2018-06-2454 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 013: A Friendship ApplicationListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Have you been traumatized by a friendship? Mikey and Randie have. That’s why, in this episode, the couple have questions.
Together, Randie and Mikey bring 10 questions to the table that they need couples to answer before they enter the Chapman circle. They detail why these questions are important and ask listeners for their feedback.
Do you think they’re crazy? Do you have a set of questions you need answered before you become friends with someone? Let them know!
Are you exci...2018-06-1254 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 010: Worst Lap Dance EverListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Who chews gum during a lap dance? Randie did. But that’s not the only reason it was a fail.
In their BIG 10 episode, Mikey and Randie talk about keeping it sexy and travel down memory lane to retell the story of the time Randie surprised Mikey with a lap dance.
It was a great gesture, but everything that could go wrong did go wrong. The couple laugh it up as they reminiscence and give listeners all the face-palming details.
Will you go...2018-05-2050 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 009: Dear MamaListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Mikey and Randie love their mothers.
In this episode the couple talk about their good relationships with their moms, but how getting there wasn’t always easy. Well, it was for Mikey when it concerns Randie’s mom but not so much for Randie with Mikey’s mom—(in the beginning).
The Chapman’s discuss jealousy, epiphanies, and more.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 008: Must Love SexListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
What’s your sex deal breaker? Mikey and Randie have the same one. Also, do you think married people make sex look boring? Questions that need answers.
In this episode the couple discuss why it’s important to them to communicate about sex and how a sex game helped them realize what they were getting right and wrong. The couple detail the things they’re cool with, won’t do, and would like the other to do more of, and Randie divulges the truth about a fetish...2018-05-0657 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 007: Just Married? Good Luck.Listen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Celebrating their second year of marriage, Mikey and Randie reminisce about how shit got real in their first year of marriage just like everyone said it would.
In this episode, Mikey and Randie talk about advice they received when they got married, problems they had that they didn’t expect, and why they were dumb to think nothing would go wrong.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
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Black Millennial MarriageBMM 005: Threesome or Nah?Listen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Don’t we all have threesome-clone fantasies?
Randie does.
In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss their thoughts on sharing your partner and then discuss and negotiate the conditions necessary to participate in a threesome. Mikey’s past is slightly exposed while Randie sheds light on her clone fantasies and questions if there are other definitions for monogamy.
Tune in to hear how Mikey might need a lot of alcohol and why Randie can’t decide if she would need to know this m...2018-03-2457 min
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 004: Plot Twists & Lemonade: Our Miscarriage StoryListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Before launching the podcast, Mikey and Randie planned to tell listeners they were pregnant but plot twists and life’s chaos changed everything.
In this episode the couple talks about their pregnancy, pregnancy loss, and how losing the baby felt like death. Mikey and Randie detail how their families reminded them that they were still alive and talk about all they’ve learned lately.
Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?
Pressing play and rating 5-sta...2018-03-231h 16
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 002: Almost Breaking Up & Non-NegotiablesListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
How far would you drive to fight for someone you love in a car that was death trap? In Mikey’s case, he drove all the way to Wooster, Ohio.
In this episode Mikey and Randie talk about that ex, a motorcycle accident, and how they let a problem fester for years before confronting it as an issue.
They give an in-depth overview of the creation of their guidelines for communication, and a series of events that finally pushed them to question and answer if...2018-03-211h 23
Black Millennial MarriageBMM 001: The Chapman Origin StoryListen to us on: iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play Music
Birth control, pheromones, falling in love, oh my.
In their intro episode Mikey and Randie talk about meeting in middle school, becoming fast friends in high school, and falling in love.
Plus, they re-tell the story of their first time and how Mikey showed up to Randie’s house nearly naked.
They poll the audience to settle an 8-year dispute and ask listeners to decide if Mikey was wrong for telling Randie’s mom they had sex through a text message.
Ar...2018-03-2146 min