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Love & CherishAnxious Husbands & Avoidant Wives - Dead Bedroom Attachment | Ralph (DSO)In this candid episode, I talk with Ralph Brewer—author, YouTuber, and founder of @DadStartingOver and @RealHelpForMen—for an eye-opening and deeply personal conversation about marriage, attachment styles and the realities of sexless marriages. BOOK A SESSION ▶▶▶https://laurahow.com/online-coaching-sessions/
🔥 TOPICS WE COVER:
• Ralph’s personal story of betrayal, divorce, and rebuilding
• Why so many men feel alone and anxious in modern relationships
• What really lies beneath the "dead bedroom" issue
• The avoidant/anxious dynamic that keeps couples stuck
...2025-07-3037 minLove & CherishSex & Marriage - A Discussion with Ralph (DSO) - Help For MenIf you want your husband to function well, then sex needs to be regular and enjoyable feature of your marriage. If you have committed to loving your spouse, then do it well!
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Dad Starting Over"My Wife Is Polyamorous Now – And Wants Her Boyfriend in Our Bed"A husband writes in with a heartbreaking and outrageous story: after 16 years of marriage and raising six boys together, his wife gave him an ultimatum — “Open marriage or no marriage.” She claims to be polyamorous and bisexual… and already has a boyfriend she’s in love with. Now she expects her husband to accept it — even while the boyfriend sleeps with her in their own marital bed.In this episode of Dear DSO, Ralph (Dad Starting Over) breaks down the emotional chaos, what’s really happening behind the scenes, and what this man — and others in similar situations — nee...2025-04-1818 minDad Starting Over"My Wife Is Polyamorous Now – And Wants Her Boyfriend in Our Bed"A husband writes in with a heartbreaking and outrageous story: after 16 years of marriage and raising six boys together, his wife gave him an ultimatum — “Open marriage or no marriage.” She claims to be polyamorous and bisexual… and already has a boyfriend she’s in love with. Now she expects her husband to accept it — even while the boyfriend sleeps with her in their own marital bed.In this episode of Dear DSO, Ralph (Dad Starting Over) breaks down the emotional chaos, what’s really happening behind the scenes, and what this man — and others in similar situations — nee...2025-04-1818 minDad Starting OverDon't Lie to Get Women (from a DSO Live Stream)From a DSO Live Stream, Ralph reacts to a follower saying that he has to lie to women about his kid situation in order to get dates. Guys, we have to stop lying to just get women. It's not doing anybody any good. It shows your level of desperation and scarcity when it comes to relationships, and it flat out doesn't work in the long run.Join the HFM Brotherhood!2025-01-2406 minDad Starting OverDon't Lie to Get Women (from a DSO Live Stream)From a DSO Live Stream, Ralph reacts to a follower saying that he has to lie to women about his kid situation in order to get dates. Guys, we have to stop lying to just get women. It's not doing anybody any good. It shows your level of desperation and scarcity when it comes to relationships, and it flat out doesn't work in the long run.Join the HFM Brotherhood!2025-01-2406 minDad Starting OverHow One Horrible Decision Can Ruin Your Life - A Follower's StoryRalph gets a "Dear DSO" submission for a guy named Joe... and it's a doozy! Listen to Joe's story and how one big, important life decision (taking his mentally ill ex-girlfriend back) derailed his entire life. This one is not for the faint of heart!Join the HFM Brotherhood!2025-01-2014 minDad Starting OverHow One Horrible Decision Can Ruin Your Life - A Follower's StoryRalph gets a "Dear DSO" submission for a guy named Joe... and it's a doozy! Listen to Joe's story and how one big, important life decision (taking his mentally ill ex-girlfriend back) derailed his entire life. This one is not for the faint of heart!Join the HFM Brotherhood!2025-01-2014 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "How Can I Win Her Back?"Ralph addresses a common dilemma faced by many men undergoing relationship challenges; the question of whether and how to "get your wife back" after a separation. Using a listener's question as a springboard, Ralph dives into the complexities of attempting to reconcile when a significant other leaves. Throughout the discussion, he examines various relationship advice trends and the psychological dynamics that often underlie such situations.Join The HFM Brotherhood2025-01-0315 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "How Can I Win Her Back?"Ralph addresses a common dilemma faced by many men undergoing relationship challenges; the question of whether and how to "get your wife back" after a separation. Using a listener's question as a springboard, Ralph dives into the complexities of attempting to reconcile when a significant other leaves. Throughout the discussion, he examines various relationship advice trends and the psychological dynamics that often underlie such situations.Join The HFM Brotherhood2025-01-0315 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "I can't wait that long! I need to make a baby now!"Ralph delves into a thought-provoking discussion prompted by a listener named Paula, who challenges his advice that men should wait three years before marrying a woman. Ralph explores the complexities of relationship timelines, contrasting perspectives, and biological constraints, offering a nuanced view on navigating modern relationships. This episode provides listeners with a comprehensive look at both societal expectations and the natural aspects influencing relationship decisions.Ralph argues that while some women expect men to propose within six months, a thorough understanding of a partner requires more time. He underscores the importance of observing partners through various life...2024-12-2721 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "I can't wait that long! I need to make a baby now!"Ralph delves into a thought-provoking discussion prompted by a listener named Paula, who challenges his advice that men should wait three years before marrying a woman. Ralph explores the complexities of relationship timelines, contrasting perspectives, and biological constraints, offering a nuanced view on navigating modern relationships. This episode provides listeners with a comprehensive look at both societal expectations and the natural aspects influencing relationship decisions.Ralph argues that while some women expect men to propose within six months, a thorough understanding of a partner requires more time. He underscores the importance of observing partners through various life...2024-12-2721 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Wife Became a Fitness Fanatic and Then Cheated!"Ralph addresses a "Dear DSO" letter from a man named Steve, who shares the breakdown of his 15-year marriage due to his wife’s significant lifestyle and fitness changes. The story unfolds themes such as infidelity, personal change, and the impact of overlooking warning signs in relationships. Ralph provides advice and support to Steve and listeners facing similar issues.Steve’s story highlights how quickly life can change when personal growth leads to unforeseen and painful outcomes. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-11-2916 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Wife Became a Fitness Fanatic and Then Cheated!"Ralph addresses a "Dear DSO" letter from a man named Steve, who shares the breakdown of his 15-year marriage due to his wife’s significant lifestyle and fitness changes. The story unfolds themes such as infidelity, personal change, and the impact of overlooking warning signs in relationships. Ralph provides advice and support to Steve and listeners facing similar issues.Steve’s story highlights how quickly life can change when personal growth leads to unforeseen and painful outcomes. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-11-2916 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Why is she so ANGRY at me for being upset about being rejected for the hundredth time?"This episode of "Dear DSO" addresses a common couple's issue: reduced sexual intimacy. Ralph shares a letter from Jack, a 40-year-old struggling with a near-nonexistent sex life in his 10-year marriage. Jack notes that he and his wife have been intimate five times in five years. Despite his efforts to spark romance, his wife remains uninterested, which strains their relationship.Ralph examines the complexity of sexless marriages, focusing on Jack’s situation and suggesting practical solutions. He considers psychological reasons for Jack's wife's lack of interest, like childhood influences and parental marriage dynamics. Ralph recommends open communication be...2024-11-1110 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Why is she so ANGRY at me for being upset about being rejected for the hundredth time?"This episode of "Dear DSO" addresses a common couple's issue: reduced sexual intimacy. Ralph shares a letter from Jack, a 40-year-old struggling with a near-nonexistent sex life in his 10-year marriage. Jack notes that he and his wife have been intimate five times in five years. Despite his efforts to spark romance, his wife remains uninterested, which strains their relationship.Ralph examines the complexity of sexless marriages, focusing on Jack’s situation and suggesting practical solutions. He considers psychological reasons for Jack's wife's lack of interest, like childhood influences and parental marriage dynamics. Ralph recommends open communication be...2024-11-1110 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "It's Like When Your Boss Just Decides to Cut Your Pay!"In the latest episode of 'Dear DSO,' Ralph responds to a question from a participant called "Wordsmith." Wordsmith compares the decline of workplace wages to the decrease of intimacy in relationships, questioning why some women expect their partners to stay in a sexless marriage indefinitely. Ralph takes this opportunity to discuss relationship challenges, comparing professional and personal commitments.Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-11-0414 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "It's Like When Your Boss Just Decides to Cut Your Pay!"In the latest episode of 'Dear DSO,' Ralph responds to a question from a participant called "Wordsmith." Wordsmith compares the decline of workplace wages to the decrease of intimacy in relationships, questioning why some women expect their partners to stay in a sexless marriage indefinitely. Ralph takes this opportunity to discuss relationship challenges, comparing professional and personal commitments.Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-11-0414 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Why Are Women So Mad When Men Relax?!"In this episode of Dear DSO, Ralph discusses the topic of how men relax and how women perceive it. This subject was brought up by a contributor named Mr. Wordsmith 380. Ralph talks about why women might find men's leisure activities, especially when they're alone, annoying or misunderstood.He looks at the habits of male relaxation and how society views gender roles. Ralph explains that men tend to separate different parts of their lives, which allows them to enjoy doing nothing or being in a meditative state. This approach can be confusing to women, who often see things...2024-10-1811 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Why Are Women So Mad When Men Relax?!"In this episode of Dear DSO, Ralph discusses the topic of how men relax and how women perceive it. This subject was brought up by a contributor named Mr. Wordsmith 380. Ralph talks about why women might find men's leisure activities, especially when they're alone, annoying or misunderstood.He looks at the habits of male relaxation and how society views gender roles. Ralph explains that men tend to separate different parts of their lives, which allows them to enjoy doing nothing or being in a meditative state. This approach can be confusing to women, who often see things...2024-10-1811 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Cheating Ex-Wife Left... But is Now Contacting Me Again!"Ralph addresses a letter from a listener named Dunk, dealing with the aftermath of his wife's infidelity. The episode explores the challenges of handling betrayal, mental health issues, and co-parenting with a difficult ex-partner. Ralph gives practical advice to help Dunk set boundaries, communicate effectively, and focus on personal growth.Dunk's situation is complex, as his wife started a relationship with her younger boss, showing narcissistic traits and causing turmoil. Ralph stresses the importance of not engaging with the ex-wife's emotional attempts. He emphasizes that Dunk’s main responsibilities are to his child and his own mental he...2024-10-0408 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Cheating Ex-Wife Left... But is Now Contacting Me Again!"Ralph addresses a letter from a listener named Dunk, dealing with the aftermath of his wife's infidelity. The episode explores the challenges of handling betrayal, mental health issues, and co-parenting with a difficult ex-partner. Ralph gives practical advice to help Dunk set boundaries, communicate effectively, and focus on personal growth.Dunk's situation is complex, as his wife started a relationship with her younger boss, showing narcissistic traits and causing turmoil. Ralph stresses the importance of not engaging with the ex-wife's emotional attempts. He emphasizes that Dunk’s main responsibilities are to his child and his own mental he...2024-10-0408 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Wife Says She Wants Sex... Just Not With Me".Ralph discusses a listener-submitted story from Thomas about relationship issues and maintaining intimacy in marriage. The episode, titled "Wife not worried about being left," covers a relatable situation for many men. Ralph provides clear advice, addressing themes like religious constraints, emotional detachment, and personal growth.Thomas talks about his marital problems after a lack of intimacy and an eye-opening experience from reading "The Dead Bedroom Fix." Despite self-improvement efforts, his wife remains emotionally distant and sexually uninterested, suggesting deeper issues. Ralph's analysis encourages Thomas and the audience to consiJoin the HFM Brotherhood!2024-09-3014 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Wife Says She Wants Sex... Just Not With Me".Ralph discusses a listener-submitted story from Thomas about relationship issues and maintaining intimacy in marriage. The episode, titled "Wife not worried about being left," covers a relatable situation for many men. Ralph provides clear advice, addressing themes like religious constraints, emotional detachment, and personal growth.Thomas talks about his marital problems after a lack of intimacy and an eye-opening experience from reading "The Dead Bedroom Fix." Despite self-improvement efforts, his wife remains emotionally distant and sexually uninterested, suggesting deeper issues. Ralph's analysis encourages Thomas and the audience to consiJoin the HFM Brotherhood!2024-09-3014 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "We Are Not The Same Since My Wife's Emotional Affair"Ralph addresses a poignant letter from Jay, a long-time listener seeking advice on how to revive the dwindling romance in his marriage. The letter, filled with raw emotion, highlights Jay's struggle with feelings of inadequacy and longing after discovering his partner's emotional affair seven years into their relationship. Despite attempts at couples therapy and personal efforts to rekindle their connection, Jay finds himself stuck in a monotonous routine, with his partner seemingly disengaged and distant.Ralph delves into the complexities of emotional affairs, the impact of time, familiarity, and parenthood on relationships, and the steps required to...2024-09-0618 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "We Are Not The Same Since My Wife's Emotional Affair"Ralph addresses a poignant letter from Jay, a long-time listener seeking advice on how to revive the dwindling romance in his marriage. The letter, filled with raw emotion, highlights Jay's struggle with feelings of inadequacy and longing after discovering his partner's emotional affair seven years into their relationship. Despite attempts at couples therapy and personal efforts to rekindle their connection, Jay finds himself stuck in a monotonous routine, with his partner seemingly disengaged and distant.Ralph delves into the complexities of emotional affairs, the impact of time, familiarity, and parenthood on relationships, and the steps required to...2024-09-0618 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Wife Says She Enjoys Our Time... But Sometimes She Doesn't Orgasm"Ralph dives into a unique and complex relationship concern that's been submitted by one of our listeners, who goes by the pseudonym "Could be worse." In this episode, Ralph tackles the anxiety and insecurity surrounding permission-based intimacy in long-term relationships, especially in the face of health-related challenges.In our listener's scenario, his wife suffers from unspecified health issues that inhibit frequent, fulfilling intimacy. Despite this, she enjoys and permits him to "use" her between their infrequent, yet mutually satisfying sessions. This episode centers on understanding the psychological and emotional dynamics at play, including feelings of guilt, consent-based...2024-08-3012 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Wife Says She Enjoys Our Time... But Sometimes She Doesn't Orgasm"Ralph dives into a unique and complex relationship concern that's been submitted by one of our listeners, who goes by the pseudonym "Could be worse." In this episode, Ralph tackles the anxiety and insecurity surrounding permission-based intimacy in long-term relationships, especially in the face of health-related challenges.In our listener's scenario, his wife suffers from unspecified health issues that inhibit frequent, fulfilling intimacy. Despite this, she enjoys and permits him to "use" her between their infrequent, yet mutually satisfying sessions. This episode centers on understanding the psychological and emotional dynamics at play, including feelings of guilt, consent-based...2024-08-3012 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Can My OCD Wife Change?"Ralph addresses a deeply personal letter from a listener named Jay, who is grappling with significant intimacy issues in his ten-year marriage. The common theme throughout this episode revolves around navigating the intricate web of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and its implications on marital intimacy, emotional disconnect, and the potential for infidelity.Jay's story revolves around his wife's OCD, which creates barriers to physical affection, leaving him feeling unattractive and unsatisfied. Ralph dives into the intricacies of living with a partner who has OCD, explaining that OCD falls under the category of neurodivergence, and often comes with other...2024-08-2307 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Can My OCD Wife Change?"Ralph addresses a deeply personal letter from a listener named Jay, who is grappling with significant intimacy issues in his ten-year marriage. The common theme throughout this episode revolves around navigating the intricate web of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and its implications on marital intimacy, emotional disconnect, and the potential for infidelity.Jay's story revolves around his wife's OCD, which creates barriers to physical affection, leaving him feeling unattractive and unsatisfied. Ralph dives into the intricacies of living with a partner who has OCD, explaining that OCD falls under the category of neurodivergence, and often comes with other...2024-08-2307 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "I'm In An Abusive Relationship"Confused Husband seeks advice from Ralph on handling a toxic marriage where his wife despises his daughter and exhibits abusive behavior. He reveals deep-seated issues including threats, accusations of infidelity, and financial concerns tied to potential divorce. Ralph provides critical advice, highlighting the importance of cutting ties with the abusive spouse, seeking legal and emotional support, and reflecting on his own patterns that led to this relationship. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-2113 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "I'm In An Abusive Relationship"Confused Husband seeks advice from Ralph on handling a toxic marriage where his wife despises his daughter and exhibits abusive behavior. He reveals deep-seated issues including threats, accusations of infidelity, and financial concerns tied to potential divorce. Ralph provides critical advice, highlighting the importance of cutting ties with the abusive spouse, seeking legal and emotional support, and reflecting on his own patterns that led to this relationship. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-2113 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Cheating Wife Wants Back"Ralph addresses John’s heart-wrenching predicament: his wife’s affair led to their separation, and now she wants to come back. Ralph sheds light on different types of affairs, emphasizing the deeply ingrained issues often underlying such actions. He suggests that John’s wife may be seeking a safety net rather than genuine reconciliation. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-1914 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Cheating Wife Wants Back"Ralph addresses John’s heart-wrenching predicament: his wife’s affair led to their separation, and now she wants to come back. Ralph sheds light on different types of affairs, emphasizing the deeply ingrained issues often underlying such actions. He suggests that John’s wife may be seeking a safety net rather than genuine reconciliation. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-1914 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "I'm Divorced and Ready to Get Back Out There. Or Am I...?"A 50-year-old man, Mister In Between, seeks advice from Ralph on rebuilding his life post-divorce. Diagnosed with depression and mild bipolar disorder, he grapples with isolation, a dead bedroom from a 28-year marriage, and navigating new social dynamics. Ralph discusses the risks and benefits of casual sexual encounters and the potential pitfalls of rebound relationships. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and caution in exploring new connections. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-1414 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "I'm Divorced and Ready to Get Back Out There. Or Am I...?"A 50-year-old man, Mister In Between, seeks advice from Ralph on rebuilding his life post-divorce. Diagnosed with depression and mild bipolar disorder, he grapples with isolation, a dead bedroom from a 28-year marriage, and navigating new social dynamics. Ralph discusses the risks and benefits of casual sexual encounters and the potential pitfalls of rebound relationships. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and caution in exploring new connections. Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-1414 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Wife's Illness Is Impacting Our Relationship"Ralph tackles a heartfelt query from a listener named "Help," who is grappling with the challenges posed by his wife's debilitating condition, POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome). The listener's frustration over a sexless marriage, compounded by the daily struggles of managing a child with autism, paints a vivid picture of marital strain and the desperate need for guidance.Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-1211 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Wife's Illness Is Impacting Our Relationship"Ralph tackles a heartfelt query from a listener named "Help," who is grappling with the challenges posed by his wife's debilitating condition, POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome). The listener's frustration over a sexless marriage, compounded by the daily struggles of managing a child with autism, paints a vivid picture of marital strain and the desperate need for guidance.Join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-1211 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Husband Doesn't Want Me!"Ralph addresses a poignant message from Lana, a 42-year-old woman facing a significant marital dilemma. Despite being attractive, fit, and highly sexual, Lana struggles with her husband's distant and emotionally abusive behavior. Over their 25 years of marriage, Lana has grown weary of her husband's lack of affection and wonders if the time has come to leave and seek a fulfilling life elsewhere.This scenario should sound familiar to many of you!Click here to join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-0809 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Husband Doesn't Want Me!"Ralph addresses a poignant message from Lana, a 42-year-old woman facing a significant marital dilemma. Despite being attractive, fit, and highly sexual, Lana struggles with her husband's distant and emotionally abusive behavior. Over their 25 years of marriage, Lana has grown weary of her husband's lack of affection and wonders if the time has come to leave and seek a fulfilling life elsewhere.This scenario should sound familiar to many of you!Click here to join the HFM Brotherhood!2024-08-0809 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Wife Has Suddenly Changed!"Harry asks his wife to return to work post-pregnancy, which results in her filing for divorce. Their marriage struggles due to frequent disputes, troublesome family members, and strong feelings. Ralph examines the couple's dynamics, highlighting persistent problems and Harry’s desire for more kids. He recommends that Harry should focus on the well-being of their children and engage in self-reflection to avoid repeating these issues in any future relationships. 2024-06-1711 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "My Wife Has Suddenly Changed!"Harry asks his wife to return to work post-pregnancy, which results in her filing for divorce. Their marriage struggles due to frequent disputes, troublesome family members, and strong feelings. Ralph examines the couple's dynamics, highlighting persistent problems and Harry’s desire for more kids. He recommends that Harry should focus on the well-being of their children and engage in self-reflection to avoid repeating these issues in any future relationships. 2024-06-1711 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Wife Has Become Withdrawn, Angry, and Has More Mental Breakdowns""Mister Niceguy No More" has written to Ralph about difficulties in his eleven-year marriage, describing his wife's distant and transactional approach to their sex life. This has caused him frustration and feelings of isolation. Ralph examines possible causes such as mental and hormonal health issues and suggests that proactive actions should be taken. Emphasizing the need for personal well-being and establishing boundaries, Ralph discusses how to deal with relationship problems and the importance of seeking assistance. 2024-06-1009 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Wife Has Become Withdrawn, Angry, and Has More Mental Breakdowns""Mister Niceguy No More" has written to Ralph about difficulties in his eleven-year marriage, describing his wife's distant and transactional approach to their sex life. This has caused him frustration and feelings of isolation. Ralph examines possible causes such as mental and hormonal health issues and suggests that proactive actions should be taken. Emphasizing the need for personal well-being and establishing boundaries, Ralph discusses how to deal with relationship problems and the importance of seeking assistance. 2024-06-1009 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Is paying a cosplayer on Only Fans considered cheating?"In this episode, Ralph addresses a listener's question about whether subscribing to OnlyFans is considered cheating. Ralph emphasizes that it's not about his opinion, but rather what the listener and his spouse think. He advises open communication and setting boundaries. Ralph also cautions against engaging in desperate behavior and encourages self-reflection. Listeners are reminded to respect their partner's values and opinions while expressing their own concerns. This episode offers honest advice on navigating boundaries and communication in relationships.2024-05-0909 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: "Is paying a cosplayer on Only Fans considered cheating?"In this episode, Ralph addresses a listener's question about whether subscribing to OnlyFans is considered cheating. Ralph emphasizes that it's not about his opinion, but rather what the listener and his spouse think. He advises open communication and setting boundaries. Ralph also cautions against engaging in desperate behavior and encourages self-reflection. Listeners are reminded to respect their partner's values and opinions while expressing their own concerns. This episode offers honest advice on navigating boundaries and communication in relationships.2024-05-0909 min
WRCJ In-Studio GuestsRalph Skiano (Florida Tour) - February 19, 2024Peter caught up with DSO Principal Clarinetist Ralph Skiano first thing this week to talk about the orchestra's Florida tour. This past weekend was a two-fer in Vero Beach with different programs showcasing Nicolai Rimsky Korsakov's Scheherazade on Saturday, followed by Sunday's Tchaikovsky 6...2024-02-1906 min
WRCJ In-Studio GuestsRalph Skiano - January 24, 2024DSO Principal Clarinetist Ralph Skiano takes center stage with the orchestra on this weekend's Neighborhood Concert Series. Peter catches up with Skiano to talk about Mozart and more...plus the Gerald Finzi Clarinet Concerto...2024-01-2406 min
We Chat Divorce Podcast89. Dad’s and Divorce: Navigating the Emotional Roller CoasterIn today’s episode of the "We Chat Divorce" podcast, we delve into the complex and often turbulent journey of Dads Managing the Emotional Roller Coaster of Divorce. Join us as we explore strategies to navigate this challenging chapter with resilience, intention, and a clear sense of purpose.Our special guest for this episode is Ralph, the Founder of Dad Starting Over. Ralph is a prolific author with four books under his belt, including the widely acclaimed "The Dead Bedroom Fix." He has created a supportive community for men called The DSO Fraternity, where in...2023-11-2237 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: Have You Ever Heard About An Affair SAVING A Marriage?A follower asks if I have ever heard about an affair saving a marriage. "John" says that he has been in a dead bedroom relationship for a while, tried all kinds to rekindle his marriage, but it wasn't until he actually stepped outside of his marriage that things seem to improve. Interesting! Let's talk about it. You can submit your own question to Ralph/DSO here: https://dadstartingover.com/dear-dso2023-11-1113 minDad Starting OverDear DSO: Have You Ever Heard About An Affair SAVING A Marriage?A follower asks if I have ever heard about an affair saving a marriage. "John" says that he has been in a dead bedroom relationship for a while, tried all kinds to rekindle his marriage, but it wasn't until he actually stepped outside of his marriage that things seem to improve. Interesting! Let's talk about it. You can submit your own question to Ralph/DSO here: https://dadstartingover.com/dear-dso2023-11-1113 min
The Dude DadsThe Dude Dads talk with Dad Starting OverThis week we were fortunate enough to have Ralph from DSO on our show. Founder of Dad Starting Over, author of The Dead Bedroom Fix, Divorce Panic, Red Flags and more! Great conversations, from Ralph's story to infidelity in families to the need for masculinity in relationships and so much more! Find the DSO fraternity at www.dadstartingover.com Facebook YouTube TikTok Instagram2023-11-061h 06
I Was Only Doing My Job: Australia's Military HistoryLieutenant Colonel Ralph Honner DSO, MC: Buna, Gona and Sanananda Campaigns (The Hero of Kokoda Part Five)This is the fifth and final instalment in the life service and legacy of Ralph Honner.
20-MAY-1941. While serving as a Company Commander within the 2/11th Australian Infantry Battalion, Lieutenant Colonel Ralph Honner, participated in the first major engagements of the Australian Imperial Force during the Second World War including the capture of Bardia, Tobruk and the disastrous campaign in Greece before making a name of himself during the Kokoda Campaign. In this episode, we focus on the Australian operations around the Japanese strongholds of Buna, Gona and Sanananda
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Men Are The P.R.I.Z.E. PodcastSeason 2, Episode 24: The P.R.I.Z.E. is Ralph Brewer from Dad's Starting OverThe case study is Ralph Brewer. Who is Ralph?
DSO is the pen name for Ralph, founder of the Dad Starting Over website, the Dad Starting Over Podcast, author of several books including his most popular title, "The Dead Bedroom Fix," and founder of the DSO Fraternity, a private group for men only.
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The Dr. Psych Mom Showwith clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman WhitenDad Starting Over: My First Podcast Guest!!Today I have my very first and possibly only podcast guest! Ralph who created Dad Starting Over gives me his thoughts on men, women, relationships, vulnerability, and of course SEX. Why don't men share their vulnerable feelings with women? What is the metric by which men assess their lives? And how did Ralph even come up with DSO in the first place (hint: a divorce is involved), nevermind sell over 100,000 copies of his book?? Note that Ralph will be presenting a zoom event with me Thursday May 19 6:30p EST (link below) so please sign up!!
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The Suzanne Venker Show104. The Dead Bedroom Fix: A Conversation with “Dad Starting Over”DSO is the pen name for Ralph, the founder of dadstartingover.com, host of the Dad Starting Over Podcast, and author of three books including his popular title, “The Dead Bedroom Fix”. The Dad Starting Over website is a resource for men that are “starting over” in life after divorce, after enduring a wife’s affair… or for those men who are still married and want to hit the reset button on their relationship, find their place in life, and finally do things the “right” way.
In 2020, Ralph started the DSO Fraternity, which is the members-only portion of dadstartingov...2021-07-111h 00