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Asia Dating PodcastYour Questions Answered #8 McConnell, Kane Vast and I have been really slacking on these podcasts--the coronavirus has caused us all to make many adjustments to our lives in 2020 and those continue this year in 2021. We'll probably talk about that stuff in a future podcast episode. We've already recorded the next podcast which is an interview with Aaron Darko of HealthMastery.com who you can find on Instagram. So keep a lookout for that soon too. Kane goes pretty in depth about getting your woman onto threesomes, and we give some updates on...
2021-05-011h 09Asia Dating PodcastThe Red Pill "Lessons" of Will Smith? In episode 39 of the Asia Dating Podcast McConnell, Kane Vast and I sat down to discuss Rollo Tomassi's "The Red Pill Lessons of Will Smith," an episode of his podcast where he discusses the Will Smith and Jada Pinckett-Smith "cheating" scandal. And I put cheating in quotation marks because they were separated at the time, but more on that in the podcast. It was a great conversation that got pretty emotional at times and hearing McConnell get all worked up was a big part of the fun: The manosphere and...
2020-10-132h 14Asia Dating PodcastSona - A Journey to the Top in Asia McConnell and I sat down with a special guest, Sona, who has been living in Taiwan for 14 years, and is so plugged into the culture that he runs a Chinese YouTube channel where he talks about Chinese and American hip-hop music and culture . It's a great conversation where we cover everything from slang and language learning to parkour to the local Taiwanese dating scene: weird Chinese slang: the meaning of "cow cunt" and "good dick" learning Chinese Sona's origin story" A man must go on a quest, and my quest...
2020-07-251h 36Asia Dating PodcastWe Discuss, "The Truth" by Neil Strauss Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage. It's a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including: How to lay down a great routine DHV - Display of Higher Value American ideas about sex, dating and relationships Let the girls get ready instead of encouraging them to be...
2020-07-031h 37Asia Dating PodcastVonny Lang Hangs Up Her Play Party ShoesKane, McConnell and I sat down with VONNY LANG to catch up on her new new lifestyle--monogamy and marriage! Who would have thought? The usual whackiness ensues in this podcast, including: Open minded dinner parties Naked yoga Vonny's matchmaking Fire breath orgasm How she met her husband aka Superman Don't let your ego stop you from getting the women you want Vonny's road to monogamy Jealousy is healthy feeling Muse Vonny inspires "love" poems Who licks pussy better, men or women? How to know you're ready for marriage What's so great about...
2020-06-041h 12Asia Dating PodcastYOUR Questions Answered #7 I sat down with Kane and McConnell to answer questions from a Japan Lair member who is just getting started with women and has a lot of fundamental misunderstandings and internal conflicts about women, dating and sex. In addition we answered some questions from other listeners as well, and talked about a WIIIIIIIIIDE variety of topics including: How do I avoid gold diggers and money wasters? I want to find a nice, pure girl. Any tips? Why you shouldn't sleep with "easy" girls I'm a virgin, what should you do...
2020-03-131h 33Asia Dating PodcastMore on Relationships and How to Stay Young (And Keep Dating Young Chicks) I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics. We talk more about relationships, the idea of "open" relationships, how to stay young and relevant, and of course share wacky stories from our past. In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including: How to be a black male in Korea Do you really want an "open" relationship? Friends with benefits, girlfriends and other arrangements... Is communication about...
2019-11-121h 15Asia Dating PodcastDating Multiple Girls (or Multiple Guys, If You're Into That Sort of Thing)I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics, especially how to manage dating multiple people. We talk about the pitfalls, what to avoid, what to do to keep things from getting too messy and OF COURSE share some stories. In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including: Christmas in Japan Girls touching themselves and getting a hard pounding Multiple orgasms How and why to be tough on yourself but compassionate with other...
2019-10-051h 40Asia Dating PodcastHow a "Side-Piece" Can Help Your Primary RelationshipIn the last podcast we discussed how marriage affects pickup and this time when I sat down with McConnell and Kane we discuss the role of "side-pieces" in marriage and relationships and what the pros and cons are. As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre, educational and hilarious tangents and you'll learn why we think that having a side-piece is so advantageous in many relationships, including: The practical aspects of having a side piece Mini "side ho" holidays keep you sane A great way to cure your scarcity Don...
2019-08-131h 04Asia Dating PodcastThe Pros and Cons of Marriage and Tinder I sat down with McConnell and Kane to discuss how marriage impacts dating and relationships and all the various setups possible and then we dive into a discussion of Tinder that was sparked by an interview with Jordan Peterson on Femsplainers (linked below). We also spent some time talking about the book, Selfie, which was a book club book for our Approach Mastery boot camp alumni that charts the evolution of the ideal self from the Greeks until the present moment of personal development, and even throws in some c...
2019-07-171h 15Asia Dating PodcastChoose Your Own Adventure This podcast was actually recorded quite a while ago but we made a shift to a new podcasting service so it's taken a long while to get out. This one was recorded with Kane while I was in Shanghai so the audio quality isn't quite as good as usual so please bear with us. It was a top notch discussion and in it you'll learn: The difference between "game" and "a game" and why it's important to understand for life and relationships What a Swiss army knife and g...
2019-07-1157 minAsia Dating PodcastOur Inner Ape – Part 2This time we have a format that we haven’t used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world. We’ll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often. If you like it and want to see mo...
2019-06-061h 51Asia Dating PodcastWe Discuss “Our Inner Ape”This time we have a format that we haven’t used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world. We’ll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often. If you like it and want to see mo...
2018-11-201h 19Asia Dating PodcastWhen Girls Go Head to Head and Adventures in S&MThis time we have a two part episode. The first part was recorded with Kane Vast while I was still in Shanghai, and the second part is with McConnell back in Taipei. This is definitely one of the more exciting Asia Hang Suite Sessions where we’ll hear all about covert cat wars (ie girls vs girl action) and McConnell’s very cougar introduction to the world of S&M as a sub PLUS we answer YOUR questions! In this session you’ll learn: The best spots for gaming girls in Asia That girls are go...
2018-10-171h 24Asia Dating PodcastYOUR Questions Answered #6I was in Shanghai for a boot camp alumni’s wedding, and then I had the Art and Science of Sex Seminar and lucky for me that means I got a lot of time with our man in China, Kane Vast! And even better, that means that YOU get to hear straight from the man as we answer your questions. In this one, we talk about why you don’t want the girls that come to you, and give you a few things you can do to get your ready to approach women, PLUS: How...
2018-08-1552 minAsia Dating PodcastControl Your Thoughts, Control Your EmotionsRecently, I attended a conference for location independent entrepreneurs in the hopes of meeting some cool people and getting some knowledge to help me improve PickUp Asia. And lucky for YOU (and me) a guy named Daniel Peleg gave an amazing talk about how to manage your psychology and emotions for success in business. Listening to the talk, I thought that you guys could definitely use these tools! Dating is tough and women know exactly how to destroy your mind. In this session, you’ll learn how to build the mental armor you need to protec...
2018-07-2554 minAsia Dating PodcastVonny Lang’s Play Party WorldRecently, McConnell has gotten into photography and found a Taiwanese-American model living in Singapore who flew to Taipei to do a shoot with him. The shoot turned into a lot more than a few pictures after she revealed that she’s a swinger and organizes swinger’s parties. This interview is the result. So dig in, and let us know what you think and if you have any questions for her, we’d be glad to have her on again to answer them for you. In this one, we talk about what swinging is, how she got...
2018-04-191h 06Asia Dating PodcastSucceed by Finding the Right PeopleI was in Tokyo with McConnell for the first meetup of the NEW Japan Lair, which he is leading and Kane Vast, our main man in China, who came to join us for the Tokyo Approach Mastery boot camp (Congrats to the new guys!) Despite our busy schedule and a late night emergency room visit, we found time to sit down together to record a session. In this one, we talk about how important it is to find the right people to support and help you make the changes in your life to reach your...
2018-03-1958 minAsia Dating PodcastYOUR Questions Answered #5I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and we ANSWERED YOUR QUESTIONS! Including: How western girls can get in on the Asian action Are Vietnamese girls where it’s at? Pass around packs–are we into sharing girls? How hard is it to pickup Korean girls? How to do cosplay, role-plays, and anal-ize girls What to do if you get caught with another girl? How to win over your girl’s friends and a whole lot more… http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast22.mp3 For Reference: For the latest i...
2018-02-2855 minAsia Dating PodcastElli on Her Open MarriageI sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and a very, VERY special guest! I originally met her when McConnell went for a drink with a skinny flat chested Brazilian girl (exactly what he likes!) and she brought along her friend, Elli. While at the bar, she told me that she had been dating “her guy” for 12 years and she was hoping he would find another girl so they could have a 3-way relationship! My interest was piqued so I asked her more and ultimately invited her on the podc...
2018-02-171h 34Asia Dating PodcastTokyo Sex Club AdventuresI sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and SMOOOOOOVE, a special guest from the PickUp Asia Alumni crew to talk about what it means to be attractive and McConnell and I shared our Japanese sex club adventures (separate adventures, thank god!) PLUS: how important is height? From a guy who is 168cm (5’6″) the downsides of being an attractive guy–yes, there are downsides! You don’t need excuses…you need to get out there and try Sleeping Beauty–the adult Disney land, complete with costumes How to introduce kink to your girlfriend without her flipping...
2017-12-301h 00Asia Dating PodcastMoney Matters and Dealing with JealousyI sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and a special guest from the PickUp Asia Alumni crew to talk about money matters in dating and dealing with jealousy plus: traveling while dating—is out of sight out of mind? how to keep dating cheap when you’re broke cougar hunting for fun and profit tales from the bloody trenches by Mr. Ballz Deep aka the MILF hunter how to use (fake) jealousy to keep your relationship strong how you can beat out the competition to get and keep your perfect 10 and a whole lot...
2017-11-141h 05Asia Dating PodcastWatch This Hot Korean Girl End Up AloneI sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro to talk about texting and two videos about dating in Korea: Why we hate dogs–and the girls who love them You should try for girls that are “out of your league” and here’s why Proof that Asian girls don’t care about money! Ever wonder why she’s with that loser? Should a girl sleep with you on the first date? What messaging apps do you need to use if you want to be successful with Asian women? How often you should you text and what kin...
2017-09-2959 minAsia Dating PodcastYOUR Questions Answered #4I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. Picking up where we left off last time, we finally got down to discussing the pros and cons of day game vs night game as well as: Japanese house wives gone wild! No wingman, no problem–how to go out clubbing alone Alcohol free dating–you don’t need it Living in Bangkok isn’t all fun and…what you need to know before moving there First time in Asia? Start here! How to get 9s and...
2017-06-1655 minAsia Dating PodcastYour Questions Answered #3I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro for a looooooong overdue chat where we answer a bunch of questions that have been sent in by listeners recently. In this session, you’ll learn: how to get girls sexually excited at the right time–get this wrong and your horny girl will go home with someone else the right way to show interest in Asian women and answer if you can show sexual interest how to give women a squirting orgasm how to keep a good reputation at work while still meeting women if you...
2017-06-0754 minAsia Dating Podcast“Harem” Game and Multiple Long Term RelationshipsI sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. This podcast is an especially good one. In it we answer a great question from a listener and talk about “harem” game, or more typically what we call, Multiple Long Term Relationships (MLTRs) and you’ll learn: How to understand the difference between strategy and skill with women What plausible deniability is and how to use it so women feel comfortable coming to your home How to make women feel like you REALLY like them–t...
2017-06-071h 12Asia Dating PodcastShould YOU Meet Girls in the Daytime or Out at Night?I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. Picking up where we left off last time, we finally got down to discussing the pros and cons of day game vs night game as well as: Tactics for winning over in-demand girls and how long it can take How to get girls to send you naked pics Day game vs night game–pros and cons Why phone numbers are obsolete in Asia How to deal with flakes Why Instagram is better than Facebook Wh...
2017-06-0759 minAsia Dating PodcastHow to Meet Women, ANYWHEREMcConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro came back from Kitty Spa and Tokyo and was finally able to sit down we me and Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. Picking up where we left off last time, we finally got down to discussing where and how to get started meeting women including: Pros and cons of online dating You’ll hear about Mr. Right’s virgin adventures The hazards of online dating–it can be a real haunted house! How to build a social circle with online dating apps How online dating...
2017-06-0759 minAsia Dating PodcastYOUR Questions Answered #2While McConnell was away at Kitty Spa, I sat down with the Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. After a long time, away from recording, we finally sat down to answer some of your questions including: getting girls from your social circle how to stay out of the friend zone maintaining long term sexual tension being the new kid on the block the problem with cockblocks easy cold approach environments because that’s where the ladies are why cold approach develops your character Korea vs Japan: differences in the sexual cultures Korean girls do...
2017-06-0758 minAsia Dating PodcastNo Legs, No Arms but He Gets a Ton of Ass! Who Is This Mystery Man?I sat down with the McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro. After a long time away from recording, we finally sat down to answer some of your questions including: The basic, foundational skills you need to be successful with women How to learn to get sexual with women (especially when you’re a virgin) Is there any benefit to sex with hookers? The right way to be aggressive–and why it’s so important It doesn’t “just happen,” especially for YOU! “There’s always some bullshit” The perfect role model for success with women and a whole lot more…...
2017-06-0756 minAsia Dating PodcastAsia Sexcapades: Sex Parties, BDSM, Cunnilingus Competitions, and Sex DollsI sat down with the McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and a VERY special guest: Julien Lacome aka GoldenBoy from MySiliconeLoveDoll.com at our crib. This time things got a little crazy in our house as we talked about some of our wilder sexual adventures in Asia including: Hong Kong’s 25 floors of whores Why you should get in touch with the local pickup community when you land in a new country Japan’s sex clubs Taipei’s Commander D sex party McConnell find BDSM on the bus Julien Lacome schools us on the blow job te...
2017-06-0758 minAsia Dating PodcastFrom Losers to Lovers: Our Back StoriesI sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool stuff including: Golden Fox on how he ended up drunk in Daegu, S. Korea—for a FULL YEAR! McConnell’s Asia love affair! How to make friends and build a social circle when you first move to Asia RedpoleQ’s first journey to Japan McConnell dials for love at 15 years old RedpoleQ on how desperation pushed him past discomfort Why you don’t need to have sex with lots of...
2017-06-071h 02Asia Dating PodcastYOUR Questions Answered #1I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool stuff including: More on 3-somes How getting graphic will help you improve your success with women “I’m a hefty guy, can I be successful with Asian women?” Are you suffering the dreaded one-itis? Girls aren’t responsive? Learn to plow! Why she has more value than you do when you meet her…and how to flip that The right way to use indicators of interest and a whole lot...
2017-06-0752 minAsia Dating Podcast3somes: 2 Girls and YOU and How to Make It HappenI sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. PLUS, we also had a special guest, Kane Vast who brought in to talk about the 3-some game–yup, 2 girls one… Hit play and you’ll get to hear about: Whacky adventures in Asia: Qataris and the ship of the desert, Hong Kong, and Japan Setting goals so you can get back into meeting women (or get started!) Baby stepping your way to success–so you don’t get discouraged and throw in the towel How to har...
2017-06-061h 40Asia Dating PodcastSperm Wars: Part 2Last time, in part 1 of our discussion of Sex At Dawn, we did something a little bit different. As part of learning and improving, we do a lot of reading and I recommend a lot of reading to clients as well. Doing well in social interactions and with women is all about psychology and there’s so much to learn. Recently, I convinced McConnell to read Sex at Dawn which is a book that I found so interesting because they really interpret a lot of things very differently from the conventional view. It suggests that mo...
2017-06-0643 minAsia Dating PodcastSperm Wars: Are Women Naturally Monogamous? Scientist Says “NO!”This time, we’re doing something a little bit different. As part of learning and improving, I do a lot of reading and I recommend a lot of reading to my clients as well. Doing well in social interactions and with women is all about psychology and there’s so much to learn. Recently, I convinced McConnell to read Sex at Dawn which is a book that I found so interesting because they really interpret a lot of things very differently from the conventional view. It suggests that monogamy is actually not the norm for our...
2017-06-061h 20Asia Dating PodcastYou Good Enough in Bed to Keep Her Coming Back for More?I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool things including: How to handle her concern that you’re going back to your own country Do you need to last a long time to sexually satisfy her? Find out some sexual differences between Asians and Westerners How to treat a woman after the sex is over so she comes back for seconds, thirds and beyond and a whole lot more… https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podc...
2017-05-2144 minAsia Dating PodcastManaging Women’s Emotions: Dealing with Jealousy and InsecurityI sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool things including: How to maintain relationships with Asian girls while traveling Does having sex quickly ruin your chances of having a real relationship? Why Asian girls flake and how to handle it How to deal with getting jealous The foundation for stable relationships and a whole lot more… https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/podcast3.mp3 Mentioned in This Episode: Sex at Dawn Re...
2017-05-211h 06Asia Dating PodcastAre Asian Girls Racist?This time, I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; Golden Fox; and Evan aka Socrates who worked with me to to found Asia Dating Experts, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool things including: Golden Fox talks about his text messaging disaster—don’t make this mistake! Why you shouldn’t go to Thailand Does race and ethnicity matter in dating Asia? How to get girls that are out of your league How to win at life How to stimulate the inner vagina and a whole lot more… https...
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