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The New ManDrama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments?
What drains our aliveness more than work?
And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex?
Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle
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The New ManDrama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments?
What drains our aliveness more than work?
And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex?
Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle
CO...2025-07-1652 min
Unfiltered Photography w/ Jason LanierAbandoned Beauty: A Model’s Story of Shooting at Six Flags New Orleans with Jason LanierThe "Jason Lanier Unfiltered" podcast is where real talk meets raw creativity, offering unfiltered conversations about photography, life, and the wild journey in between. Host Jason Lanier invites people he works with to share their experiences, making for enlightening and fun discussions. In this particular episode, Jason speaks with model Krystal Kadaver, who has been modeling since she was 18 and has been a frequent collaborator on Jason's project at Six Flags New Orleans.The conversation delves into Krystal's experiences modeling at the abandoned Six Flags park, from seeing its transformation from a Jurassic Park like abanbdoned location to...2025-07-021h 00The New ManFeeling Stuck and Uncertain: Moving from Anxiety to Clarity — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever feel stuck about what to do with your life, relationship, or career?
What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”?
And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan?
Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuels anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/stuck-and-uncertain
COACHING
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What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”?
And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan?
Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuels anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/stuck-and-uncertain
COACHING
2025-07-0143 minThe New ManIs It Healthy to Use AI for Therapy? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you talk to AI like it’s your therapist?
Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human?
And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning?
Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the value of real connection.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/ai-therapy-connection
COACHING
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→ To learn...2025-06-1838 minThe New ManIs It Healthy to Use AI for Therapy? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you talk to AI like it’s your therapist?
Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human?
And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning?
Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the value of real connection.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/ai-therapy-connection
2025-06-1838 minThe New ManWhy We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhy do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them?
Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun?
And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work?
Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry and connection.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/attract...2025-06-0350 minThe New ManWhy We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhy do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them?
Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun?
And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work?
Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry...2025-06-0350 minThe New ManHow to Have Deeper Conversations — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you get drained by small talk?
Does it feel like no one else likes to talk about the things you love?
And how can you have deeper conversations even if you don’t see eye to eye?
Today Alyson and I discuss some ways to have deeper and more meaningful conversations — even when interests don’t align. Whether you’re chatting with strangers or deepening bonds in a long-term relationship, we share a few key ideas that’ll help you get out of the shallow end of the pool.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/deeper-conversations
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→ To learn more about coaching with T...2025-05-2154 minThe New ManHow to Have Deeper Conversations — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you get drained by small talk?
Does it feel like no one else likes to talk about the things you love?
And how can you have deeper conversations even if you don’t see eye to eye?
Today Alyson and I discuss some ways to have deeper and more meaningful conversations — even when interests don’t align. Whether you’re chatting with strangers or deepening bonds in a long-term relationship, we share a few key ideas that’ll help you get out of the shallow end of the pool.
https://w...2025-05-2154 minThe New ManShould You Settle in Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp LanierShould you settle in your relationship?
Do you ever wonder if there’s someone out there who’s a better fit?
And could raising the bar too high leave you alone forever?
Today, Alyson and I dig into the idea of “settling” in relationships. We talk about what it really means to raise your standards, how we sabotage relationships, and why it’s tempting to focus on someone else’s flaws instead of facing our own fears.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/settle-in-relationship
COACHING
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→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier...2025-05-0644 minThe New ManShould You Settle in Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp LanierShould you settle in your relationship?
Do you ever wonder if there’s someone out there who’s a better fit?
And could raising the bar too high leave you alone forever?
Today, Alyson and I dig into the idea of “settling” in relationships. We talk about what it really means to raise your standards, how we sabotage relationships, and why it’s tempting to focus on someone else’s flaws instead of facing our own fears.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/settle-in-relationship
COACHING
→ To lear...2025-05-0644 minThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever fantasize about escaping your current life?
Is fear the one setting your goals and expectations?
And do you have any idea what would truly bring you peace of mind?
Today, Alyson and I try to help a listener who is tired of the grind and wants to hit the eject button. We discuss how to know if you’re on the right track, why we pile on the pressure to succeed, and accessing our deeper selves to find peace of mind.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/on-the-wrong-path
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLa...2025-04-2245 minThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever fantasize about escaping your current life?
Is fear the one setting your goals and expectations?
And do you have any idea what would truly bring you peace of mind?
Today, Alyson and I try to help a listener who is tired of the grind and wants to hit the eject button. We discuss how to know if you’re on the right track, why we pile on the pressure to succeed, and accessing our deeper selves to find peace of mind.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/on-the-wrong-path
...2025-04-2245 minThe New ManDealing with Blame and Big Emotions in Your Relationship — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it easier to do a cold plunge than to deal with your partner’s emotions?
If your partner’s in a bad mood, should you just be their punching bag?
And do you spend more time focusing on solutions or who’s to blame?
Today Alyson and I explore navigating big emotions in a partnership. We explore how to deal with intensity while also setting boundaries against aggression and good old-fashioned drama.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/dealing-with-blame-and-emotions
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://Alyso...2025-04-0836 minThe New ManDealing with Blame and Big Emotions in Your Relationship — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it easier to do a cold plunge than to deal with your partner’s emotions?
If your partner’s in a bad mood, should you just be their punching bag?
And do you spend more time focusing on solutions or who’s to blame?
Today Alyson and I explore navigating big emotions in a partnership. We explore how to deal with intensity while also setting boundaries against aggression and good old-fashioned drama.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/dealing-with-blame-and-emotions
COACHING
→ To learn more about...2025-04-0836 minThe New ManStriving to be Set for Life — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat does it mean to 10X your life?
Why are we so afraid to go “backwards” financially?
And what’s really driving our desire for more, more, more?
Today, Alyson and I talk about developing a healthy high achiever mindset. We explore scarcity, motivation, and what really drives us to be “set for life.”
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/set-for-life
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lacklu...2025-03-2544 minThe New ManStriving to be Set for Life — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat does it mean to 10X your life?
Why are we so afraid to go “backwards” financially?
And what’s really driving our desire for more, more, more?
Today, Alyson and I talk about developing a healthy high achiever mindset. We explore scarcity, motivation, and what really drives us to be “set for life.”
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/set-for-life
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit http...2025-03-2544 minThe New ManStruggling with Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you struggle with spirituality?
If you stay off the naughty list, does the Universe give you what you want like Santa Claus?
And why can spirituality feel so threatening to some folks?
Today Alyson and I discuss some of the ways folks relate to the unseen, mysterious world of spirituality. We explore how this relates to our fear of uncertainty, our need for control, and why some people — including me — struggle with spirituality.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/struggling-with-spirituality
COACHING
→ To learn mor...2025-02-1146 minThe New ManStruggling with Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you struggle with spirituality?
If you stay off the naughty list, does the Universe give you what you want like Santa Claus?
And why can spirituality feel so threatening to some folks?
Today Alyson and I discuss some of the ways folks relate to the unseen, mysterious world of spirituality. We explore how this relates to our fear of uncertainty, our need for control, and why some people — including me — struggle with spirituality.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/struggling-with-spirituality
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https...2025-02-1146 minThe New ManFeeling Stuck and Out of Alignment — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs there a voice in your head that says you need to make a change?
Do you experience scarcity if you’re not always making more money?
And what can you do if the things that used to light you up feel empty now?
Today Alyson and I discuss what we can do when we feel out of alignment with our lives. We talk about why we don’t need to beat ourselves up, what really holds us back from making a change, and why feeling “not enough” is really an invitation to get out of the shallow end of the pool...2025-01-1445 minThe New ManFeeling Stuck and Out of Alignment — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs there a voice in your head that says you need to make a change?
Do you experience scarcity if you’re not always making more money?
And what can you do if the things that used to light you up feel empty now?
Today Alyson and I discuss what we can do when we feel out of alignment with our lives. We talk about why we don’t need to beat ourselves up, what really holds us back from making a change, and why feeling “not enough” is really an invitation to get out...2025-01-1445 minThe New ManWhy People Pleasing is Killing Your Sex Life and Career — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it normal for you to forget things until someone nags you about it?
Do you ever wonder why your relationships seem shallow or you miss out on career opportunities?
And what does this all have to do with brown M&M’s?
Today Alyson and I talk about people pleasing, nice guy syndrome, and how being checked out is killing your sex life and career. We discuss the dangers of transactional relating, why the little things matter and how you can become more trustworthy simply by saying “no” more often.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/people-pleasing
COACHING
→ To learn more about coach...2024-12-1730 minThe New ManWhy People Pleasing is Killing Your Sex Life and Career — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it normal for you to forget things until someone nags you about it?
Do you ever wonder why your relationships seem shallow or you miss out on career opportunities?
And what does this all have to do with brown M&M’s?
Today Alyson and I talk about people pleasing, nice guy syndrome, and how being checked out is killing your sex life and career. We discuss the dangers of transactional relating, why the little things matter and how you can become more trustworthy simply by saying “no” more often.
h...2024-12-1730 minThe New ManHow Being Guarded Kills Aliveness, Meaning, and Purpose — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you devoted to anything other than money, security, or status?
Does living with an open heart make you weak?
And how is staying guarded killing aliveness?
I grew up guarded and armored. For many years, I thought it was necessary and strong to cut myself off from emotional vulnerability. The truth is that I was fragile and incapable of being in emotionally challenging situations. That way of living almost destroyed me.
For the last 20 years I’ve watched my wife Alyson navigate life very differently. She’s one of those rare few that can effortlessly disarm people and help them...2024-12-0354 minThe New ManHow Being Guarded Kills Aliveness, Meaning, and Purpose — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you devoted to anything other than money, security, or status?
Does living with an open heart make you weak?
And how is staying guarded killing aliveness?
I grew up guarded and armored. For many years, I thought it was necessary and strong to cut myself off from emotional vulnerability. The truth is that I was fragile and incapable of being in emotionally challenging situations. That way of living almost destroyed me.
For the last 20 years I’ve watched my wife Alyson navigate life very differently. She’s one of those rare...2024-12-0354 minThe New ManAre You Jealous About Her Sexual Past? — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you the best lover your partner has ever had? How could you ever be sure?
What if they preferred having sex with someone else more than you?
And is sex a place where you strive to prove that you’re good enough?
Today we talk about feeling jealous about our partner’s sexual history. We explore what drives that insecurity, how neediness is repulsive, and why trying to prove you’re a rockstar in bed is a big mistake.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/jealous-about-sexual-history
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about wo...2024-11-1937 minThe New ManAre You Jealous About Her Sexual Past? — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you the best lover your partner has ever had? How could you ever be sure?
What if they preferred having sex with someone else more than you?
And is sex a place where you strive to prove that you’re good enough?
Today we talk about feeling jealous about our partner’s sexual history. We explore what drives that insecurity, how neediness is repulsive, and why trying to prove you’re a rockstar in bed is a big mistake.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/jealous-about-sexual-history
COACHING...2024-11-1937 minThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo obstacles mean you're on the wrong path, or are they simply part of the journey?
Is the universe conspiring against your dreams, or is it just your own fear holding you back?
And what can you do if you’re struggling to find motivation or inspiration?
Whether you're questioning your career path, second-guessing a major life decision, or simply feeling stuck, you’re bound to experience doubt and resistance. In this episode, we discuss finding your calling, facing inner resistance, and the fear that we might be heading in the wrong direction. And we also explore ways to keep movi...2024-10-2233 minThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo obstacles mean you're on the wrong path, or are they simply part of the journey?
Is the universe conspiring against your dreams, or is it just your own fear holding you back?
And what can you do if you’re struggling to find motivation or inspiration?
Whether you're questioning your career path, second-guessing a major life decision, or simply feeling stuck, you’re bound to experience doubt and resistance. In this episode, we discuss finding your calling, facing inner resistance, and the fear that we might be heading in the wrong direction. And...2024-10-2233 minThe New ManBuild True Confidence by Understanding Unhealthy Self-Esteem — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat’s the common link between workaholism, greed, and love addiction?
Does your sense of self worth go up and down like a rollercoaster?
And is there more to life than protecting our egos?
If you’re like everyone else on the planet, then you’ve probably struggled with feeling “enough.” Today Alyson and I dive under the hood to discuss Terry Real’s unhealthy forms of self-esteem so that we can all understand what kills our true confidence.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/workaholism-greed-love-addiction
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working wit...2024-10-0839 minThe New ManBuild True Confidence by Understanding Unhealthy Self-Esteem — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat’s the common link between workaholism, greed, and love addiction?
Does your sense of self worth go up and down like a rollercoaster?
And is there more to life than protecting our egos?
If you’re like everyone else on the planet, then you’ve probably struggled with feeling “enough.” Today Alyson and I dive under the hood to discuss Terry Real’s unhealthy forms of self-esteem so that we can all understand what kills our true confidence.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/workaholism-greed-love-addiction
COACHING
→ To learn more a...2024-10-0839 minThe New ManDealing with Anger and Emotional Constipation — Alyson and Tripp LanierIf you’re angry, is it better to bottle it up or lash out in retaliation?
Do you get stuck in a loop thinking of things you should say to that jerk who pissed you off?
And how is emotional constipation draining our aliveness and motivation?
In this conversation, Alyson and I discuss the problems that arise with anger. For many, we feel stuck — if we say something with anger it might make the situation worse. But if we bottle it up, we become a toxic balloon that could burst at any moment. So today we explore what really drives our...2024-09-1749 minThe New ManDealing with Anger and Emotional Constipation — Alyson and Tripp LanierIf you’re angry, is it better to bottle it up or lash out in retaliation?
Do you get stuck in a loop thinking of things you should say to that jerk who pissed you off?
And how is emotional constipation draining our aliveness and motivation?
In this conversation, Alyson and I discuss the problems that arise with anger. For many, we feel stuck — if we say something with anger it might make the situation worse. But if we bottle it up, we become a toxic balloon that could burst at any moment. So toda...2024-09-1749 minThe New ManAvoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs our drive for more money, more status, or more stuff really just an attempt to fill a God-sized hole in our lives?
Do you ever feel awkward when expressing love to others?
And how does our need for safety block us from having satisfying relationships?
Today Alyson and I try to understand why love can be so challenging to receive. We discuss the ways we armor ourselves to avoid vulnerability and how we can still feel alone even when we’re with others.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/feel-empty
CO...2024-09-0334 minThe New ManAvoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs our drive for more money, more status, or more stuff really just an attempt to fill a God-sized hole in our lives?
Do you ever feel awkward when expressing love to others?
And how does our need for safety block us from having satisfying relationships?
Today Alyson and I try to understand why love can be so challenging to receive. We discuss the ways we armor ourselves to avoid vulnerability and how we can still feel alone even when we’re with others.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/feel-empty
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://Tripp...2024-09-0334 minThe New ManFacing the Fear of Being Alone — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you with someone because you really want them or because you’re more afraid to be alone?
Are you settling for junk food relationships that never satisfy and leave you feeling empty?
And how does loneliness drive us to choose lousy partners?
Relationships are hard and the only way to learn is to get in the mix. Today Alyson and I find some friction when it comes to dating and playing the field. We also discuss how we’ve helped ourselves and others face their loneliness so that they don’t have to set...2024-08-201h 06The New ManFacing the Fear of Being Alone — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you with someone because you really want them or because you’re more afraid to be alone?
Are you settling for junk food relationships that never satisfy and leave you feeling empty?
And how does loneliness drive us to choose lousy partners?
Relationships are hard and the only way to learn is to get in the mix. Today Alyson and I find some friction when it comes to dating and playing the field. We also discuss how we’ve helped ourselves and others face their loneliness so that they don’t have to settle for lousy partners.
https://www.thenew...2024-08-201h 06The New ManIs Therapy Frustrating? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs the purpose of therapy to just dig up junk from your past? We talk about why many folks — including therapists we know and love — find the conventional form of therapy to be limiting. Is there another possibility?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/frustrated-with-therapy
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most m...2024-08-0639 minThe New ManIs Therapy Frustrating? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs the purpose of therapy to just dig up junk from your past? We talk about why many folks — including therapists we know and love — find the conventional form of therapy to be limiting. Is there another possibility?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/frustrated-with-therapy
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You...2024-08-0639 minThe New ManCan a Nerd Become a Stud? Reinventing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp LanierCan a nerd become a stud? Alyson and Tripp react to a movie called The Hitman and the topic of reinventing ourselves. This leads us to discuss pickup artists, neutered men, and handling our inner critic.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/reinvent-yourself
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men...2024-07-2329 minThe New ManCan a Nerd Become a Stud? Reinventing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp LanierCan a nerd become a stud? Alyson and Tripp react to a movie called The Hitman and the topic of reinventing ourselves. This leads us to discuss pickup artists, neutered men, and handling our inner critic.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/reinvent-yourself
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dange...2024-07-2329 minThe New ManFeeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time?
Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges?
And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better?
Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it possible to get things on a better...2024-06-1344 minThe New ManFeeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time?
Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges?
And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better?
Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it po...2024-06-1344 minThe New ManMotivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs FOMO driving you to constantly be busy, busy, busy?
Is it scary to admit that the hustle and grind is killing your motivation?
And when is our resistance trying to help us?
Today Alyson and I discuss motivation, resistance, and the cult of success. We talk about how it’s necessary to learn how to thrive in the world, but ultimately we have to stop jumping through hoops, forge our own path, and create success on our own terms.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/motivation-success-resistance
COACHING
- To...2024-05-3000 minThe New ManMotivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs FOMO driving you to constantly be busy, busy, busy?
Is it scary to admit that the hustle and grind is killing your motivation?
And when is our resistance trying to help us?
Today Alyson and I discuss motivation, resistance, and the cult of success. We talk about how it’s necessary to learn how to thrive in the world, but ultimately we have to stop jumping through hoops, forge our own path, and create success on our own terms.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/motivation-success-resistance
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To...2024-05-3000 minThe New ManFinding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever feel like something is just not quite right with your life?
Do you have most of what you could want but still feel like something’s missing?
And who are you underneath that ambition to succeed and avoid failure?
Today Alyson and I talk about why so many folks feel empty inside even though they have amazing lives on the outside. We discuss what it means to find our gold, to reveal our essential nature, and what I call the “big imposter syndrome.”
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/finding-your-gold
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier...2024-05-1452 minThe New ManFinding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever feel like something is just not quite right with your life?
Do you have most of what you could want but still feel like something’s missing?
And who are you underneath that ambition to succeed and avoid failure?
Today Alyson and I talk about why so many folks feel empty inside even though they have amazing lives on the outside. We discuss what it means to find our gold, to reveal our essential nature, and what I call the “big imposter syndrome.”
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/finding-your-gold
...2024-05-1452 minThe New ManSpiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDoes your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life?
Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God?
And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru?
Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own te...2024-04-3046 minThe New ManSpiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDoes your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life?
Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God?
And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru?
Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms.
If some of these ideas are he...2024-04-3046 minThe New ManIs Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that le...2024-04-1637 minThe New ManIs Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ev...2024-04-1637 min
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Michael W Lanier AttorneyMeet with your best lawyer today in Jacksonville | Michael W Lanier AttorneyIf you are also looking for a lawyer who can assist you professionally, we recommend taking Michael Lanier Jacksonville assistance. Michael Lanier Jacksonville is among the best legal advisors assisting people daily.2022-04-2603 minThe New ManYou’re Being Hormonal - When Heated Talks Turn into Fights — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhen you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames?
Why do heated conversations have a tendency to spiral into infernos?
And is it more important to win the fight or find a solution?
It’s not always sunny in the Lanier household, and on this particular day, I stepped on a landmine. After the fire was brought under control, Alyson thought it might be helpful to turn on the mics and explore what caused the fire - as well as what we did to put it out. But to be honest, like a moron, I ended...2021-09-1445 minThe New ManYou’re Being Hormonal - When Heated Talks Turn into Fights — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhen you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames?
Why do heated conversations have a tendency to spiral into infernos?
And is it more important to win the fight or find a solution?
It’s not always sunny in the Lanier household, and on this particular day, I stepped on a landmine. After the fire was brought under control, Alyson thought it might be helpful to turn on the mics and explore what caused the fire - as well as what we did to put it out. But to b...2021-09-1445 minThe New ManHow to Meditate for Mindfulness — Tripp LanierWhat’s the point of meditation?
How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity?
And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of farting people?
Today, Tripp Lanier shares some insights gained from 20+ years of meditation plus why he insists that his coaching clients develop a coaching practice.
In this video:
Why bother meditating?
Why your hobby isn’t a meditation
Flow states vs meditative states
Different types of meditation
Developing the “witness” or mindfulness
Plu...2020-11-1300 minThe New ManHow to Meditate for Mindfulness — Tripp LanierWhat’s the point of meditation?
How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity?
And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of farting people?
Today, Tripp Lanier shares some insights gained from 20+ years of meditation plus why he insists that his coaching clients develop a coaching practice.
In this video:
Why bother meditating?
Why your hobby isn’t a meditation
Flow states vs meditative states
Different types of meditation
Developing the “witness” or mindfulness
Plus:
A basic overview for how to meditate
Meditating in a room full of farting people
The upside to having a c...2020-11-1300 min
undeclaredHaving Challenging (but Productive) Conversations, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: How at Up&Up, “conscious leadership” embedded in the agency’s culture by CEO Adam Landrum has created an environment of true collaboration and open dialog How conscious leadership is comprised of fifteen commitments, including “taking radical responsibility”, “learning through curiosity”, and “speaking candidly” Why these fifteen commitments are a powerful platform for having difficult but productive conversations within the team How radical candor is the ability to challenge directly and show that you are caring personally at the same time Why understanding your goals and intentions for having difficult conversations before...2020-10-2816 minThe New ManDivide and Conquer: Avoid the Trap — Tripp LanierAre you sick of the pissing match being played out in politics and the media?
Can you no longer be friends with folks because you have differing political views?
And what if it’s possible that we’re being manipulated to believe this funhouse mirror version of reality?
Today we take a look at some practical ways we can reclaim our power and peace of mind while the media and masses act like turd tossing toddlers. Feel free to keep whatever ideas work for you and discard the rest.
In this interview:
Tripp’s history in the dark underbelly of politi...2020-10-2017 minundeclaredThe Pandemic and Changing Media Consumption Habits, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: How the outbreak of the global pandemic has had a broad effect on prospective students’ media consumption habits and the channels through which they consume media Why video is an explosive category for prospective students’ media consumption, with a 51% increase in online video consumption since the start of the pandemic How TV streaming, online video game viewing, and audio streaming are all rapidly growing categories that all indicate where you can best meet your audience Why a dramatic increase in website traffic volume indicates an opportunity for institutions to streamline their...2020-10-1409 minThe New ManIntegrity: What if We Weren’t So Full of Sh*t? — Tripp LanierA quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportunity to use honesty to great advantage.
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play f...2020-10-1313 minundeclaredHelping Students Succeed During the Pandemic, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: How the global pandemic and social distancing requirements have dramatically increased the number of webinar offerings available to higher ed professionals How Up&Up is now offering its own webinar series, and how Scott and Allison have found value in participating in webinars from others in the industry as well What facts, trends, and best practices Scott and Allison have noticed in how higher ed institutions have prepared for the fall 2020 term during the pandemic How many students have shifted their plans to second- or third-choice institutions to stay closer to...2020-09-3007 minThe New ManIs Playing it Safe Killing Your Motivation? — Tripp LanierWhat’s killing your motivation?
Is there more to life than making money or being exceptional?
And why do so many fathers and husbands forget how to feel alive?
Today we’re going to discuss how to rebuild our inner fire and why too much of a good thing is not a good thing.
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swif...2020-09-2910 minundeclaredThe Benefits of a 3-Year Marketing Plan, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: How the current global pandemic crisis and the coming enrollment cliff are creating new changes in higher ed marketing and necessitate a plan Why there is a need for ongoing projects within higher ed marketing, and why research is vital for navigating these projects successfully Why your website needs a brand platform that offers at least three years of longevity, and why you should refresh your website every three to five years How your ongoing marketing campaigns will drive your brand awareness, enrollment campaigns and nurture efforts Why budget planning of...2020-09-0907 minundeclaredThe 7-Steps to Successful Branding, with Allison Lanier and Scott Fogleman How to download Allison and Scott’s FREE webinar series, and what exciting topics they are covering within the series How the first of the 7-steps to successful branding is the insights or discovery step where you will collect data and ask meaningful questions How the second step is to strategize how to craft your messaging around attracting and retaining the right students, grow your engagement and strengthen your brand How step three involves creating a strategy roadmap and concepts, prototype your messaging and lay the foundation for your campaigns How the fourth step, production, is the key to creating co...2020-08-2610 minThe New ManGive Up or Stick it Out? Tough Love Swimming Lessons and The Hollywood Montage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierDid you have a terrifying experience when you learned how to swim?
Does learning a difficult task feel the same as doing it well?
And what life lesson can we learn from cheesy 80’s action movies?
In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we talk about the desire to quit, the magical, hollywood montage, and my covert black ops swimming lesson.
If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com.
In this episode:
Should we give up or stick it out?
Learning something vs doing something well
Old school “tough love” swimming...2020-08-1806 minundeclaredGetting Ready for The Cliff, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: How the coming enrollment cliff is stemming from the economic downturn of 2008 as birth rates declined during that period of uncertainty What positives may be coming from the cliff, including the number of degree-seeking students aged 25-34 is expected to increase by as much as 11% How to evolve your strategy and messaging to get ahead of the coming changes in enrollment How students of color and particularly Latinx students are becoming an increasingly larger cohort within our student populations, and how this creates growth opportunities Which previous episodes of Undeclared to...2020-08-1206 minThe New ManMotivation, Clarity, and Why Kids Suck (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierDo you depend on motivation or confidence to do what’s best for you?
What if you’re stuck because you don’t know what to do?
And why do kids suck?
In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we take a quick look into the myth of motivation, the best way to find confidence and clarity, and why it’s important to face the fact that we all suck from time to time.
If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com.
In this episode:
Are you waiting to feel passionate...2020-08-1108 minThe New ManDealing with Analysis Paralysis and Self Sabotage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierDo you believe you have commitment issues?
Why do we sabotage ourselves?
And how can we overcome analysis paralysis so that we can start taking meaningful action today?
In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, I’m going to share the reasons why we hit the brakes when we’re trying to make a positive change, and we’ll also begin to understand the invisible force of resistance so that it doesn’t keep us stuck.
If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com.
In this episode:
Why won’t a man commit...2020-08-0410 minundeclaredDigital Innovation and Brand Awareness, with Allison Lanier and Scott Fogleman How an institution’s reputation affects a prospective student’s decision-making process What quick, simple, and cost-effective steps help begin boosting your institution’s brand awareness now Why you should use analytics and data in your social media strategy to track engagement and feedback Why your institution must focus heavily on digital marketing to meet prospective students of today where they are Why traditional marketing efforts still have a place but now take a backseat to digital marketing Why embracing new technologies like augmented reality and virtual tools puts your institution ahead of competitors Additional resources: Website: www.theunde...2020-07-2907 minundeclaredWelcome Back! Season 2 of Undeclared Kickoff Episode, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: What exciting topics will be discussed in the coming second season of the Undeclared podcast How to reach out to Scott and Allison if you have topic ideas you would like to hear discussed on the show or if you are interested in becoming a guest for a future episode Additional resources: Website: www.theundeclaredpodcast.com Website: www.upandup.agency Email: contact@upandup.agency LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/foglemanscott LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allison-lanier Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/upandupagency Twitter: https://twitter.com/upandupag...2020-07-1503 minThe New ManFear of Failure and Choosing to Play Big (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierWhat if the fear of failure wasn’t the thing holding us back?
Could the freedom we deeply want be available to us right now?
And how could we quickly shift into a perspective that challenges us to play big?
Today we’re going to zoom out and see our problems and lives from a perspective we rarely take. In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we’ll tap into a universal view to minimize fear in order to access greater freedom and power.
If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting Dangerou...2020-07-0709 minThe New ManThis Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier - Starbucks ShootoutHave you ever wanted something so badly that you screwed it up?
Why do our efforts to “get it right” usually end up with us getting it wrong?
And how does fear block our ability to be more energized, creative, and bold?
Today, we’re going to hear another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. In this excerpt you’ll hear how I found myself in a cinematic coffee shop shootout and why I almost blew up my marriage before it ever got off the ground.
If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting D...2020-06-0208 minThe New ManHow to Use Death to Become More Powerful (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierHave you ever felt that you’re waiting to do what you really want to do in life?
How could the fact that we’re going to die, help us live more fully?
And what are the two key elements needed for us to step fully into our power?
Today, I want to share another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. First, you’ll go through a short exercise designed to help us create more alignment with what we truly want. And second we’ll discuss how giving away our power keeps us playing small.
If you’re interested...2020-05-2608 minThe New ManHow to Stop Playing it Safe - Coaching Call with Tripp LanierDo you ever play it safe when it comes to money or sex?
Do you take risks or only go for what appears to be a “sure thing?”
And how can we make sure we don’t get stuck in a prey mentality?
Today we’re going to listen in on a recent call I had with a coaching client. His work and sex life were feeling flat, so we explored some ways he could get out of his own way, stop playing it safe, and find that mojo again.
In this interview:
Feeling uninspired in our work and sex life
Why...2020-05-1934 minThe New ManThat Time I Went to the Butt Doctor (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierWhat does it mean to be dangerous?
How can we ensure we don’t become grumpy, soft, and fragile old men?
And could what you’re about to hear be the worst, most disgusting way to open a book?
Today, I want to share an excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. This is the introduction where we take a very unconventional look at expectations and clarify why I throw most success how-to books in the trash.
Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com.
In this interview:
What happened when I went to the butt doctor
Why I throw most succ...2020-05-1214 minThe New ManFacing Fear: Only the Dead Survive - Tripp Lanier Group Coaching CallWith so much uncertainty right now, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings that arise?
What if it actually all came crashing down?
What could possibly exist on the other side of your worst nightmare?
Our brains are constantly scanning for threats — most of which never come true, but this constant worrying can kill the enjoyment of our short time to be alive. Today I’m sharing a recent group coaching call where, instead of running away from these scary feelings we chose to do something else instead.
In this interview:
Clarifying what’s at stake
Getting hijacked by our fe...2020-05-0620 minundeclaredIncreasing Alumni Engagement, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: How Scott and Allison have had very different alumni experiences keeping in touch with their alma mater How 85 percent of alumni professionals believe their alma maters need to do more to attract and engage alumni How 56 percent of donors say they would be willing to become repeat givers if they received personalized messages from their institutions How the trend of Give Days is on the rise, and why developing an ongoing relationship with alumni helps improve engagement Why your institution should offer stories that show how students directly benefit from al...2020-04-0108 minundeclaredStudent Diversity and Student Success, with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWhat you’ll learn about in this episode: How Latinx students are the fastest-increasing demographic of new students among all racial and ethnic groups, increasing to about 36 percent in 2017 from 22% in 2000. How nearly one-third of first-generation students drop out within three years, compared to 14 percent of students whose parents hold a degree How 36 percent of today’s higher education students classify as housing-insecure, while 9 percent are homeless What steps higher ed institutions can take to help support these diverse student demographics How to reach out to underperforming and at-risk students and bring awareness about your programs Why diversity isn’...2020-03-1807 minThe New ManMaybe You Don’t Have Commitment Issues with Tripp and Alyson LanierIf you want more out of life then what’s really getting in the way?
Why do we have such a hard time making a commitment?
And what’s so wrong with trying to live happily ever after?
Today, my wife Alyson and I explore the deep-seated fears that keep us stuck, the ways we operate from a prey mentality, and Alyson’s embarrassing bathroom experience.
In this interview:
“Why won’t a man commit?”
There’s no such thing a commitment-phobe
Competing commitments (Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey)
What keeps us from having alignment with our values?
When we believe that t...2020-03-0331 minThe New ManHow to Get Out of Your Own Way — Tripp and Alyson LanierDo you want to make a change but believe you need the perfect plan before you take action?
Does your work or salary or title determine your value as a man?
And how do we know when it’s time to make a big change?
Today, my wife, Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the episode entitled A Bold Way to Start a Relationship. We explore how I went from feeling very confident to very lost; how I spent years dicking around while waiting for the perfect plan; and how I finally pulled my head out of...2020-02-2533 minThe New ManA Bold Way to Start a Relationship — Tripp and Alyson LanierDo you face your challenges alone or do other men have your back?
How does our desire for a plan or vision become a trap?
And what’s the key to making a commitment in relationships?
Alyson and I continue where we left off in the episode entitled, Should You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? Today we talk about making bold moves, the value of a men’s group, and how I almost killed our relationship by acting like a nice guy.
In this interview:
Outgrowing a split lifestyle
Starting Tripp’s first men’s group
The Way of the Supe...2020-02-1834 minThe New ManShould You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? — Tripp and Alyson LanierDo you feel guilty for wanting more out of life?
Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship?
And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change?
Today my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut.
In this interview:
Living a split life
“Stop being a spoiled brat.”
Focusing on problems vs s...2020-02-0400 minThe New ManThe Emotionally Constipated Control Freak — Tripp and Alyson LanierHow important is it for you to be in control?
Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values?
And what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply?
Today my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20’s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside.
In this interview:
Does Alyson have a fart fetish?
Be...2020-01-2800 minThe New ManThe Emotionally Constipated Control Freak — Tripp and Alyson LanierHow important is it for you to be in control?
Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values?
And what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply?
Today my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20’s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside.
In...2020-01-2800 minThe New ManProductivity and The Shadow Side of Goals — Tripp and Alyson LanierAs someone who makes a living coaching others to accomplish goals, Tripp discusses how our goals can become a trap. Plus: Glorifying busy-ness, how our mindless pursuit “more” is lazy, and why our need to prove that we’re not a failure is making us weak.
In this interview:
The trap of proving we’re not a failure
Why protecting, pleasing, and proving kills our peace of mind
Glorifying busy-ness
Trying to carry 6 gallons in a 5 gallon bucket
Plus:
The shadow side of goals
Having a great life that’s unfulfilling
The difference between comfort and peace
Using your emotions as informa...2020-01-1400 minThe New ManDefining Success and Strength on Your Own Terms — Tripp and Alyson LanierAfter coaching successful men for over 15 years, Tripp boils down what kills our freedom, aliveness, and peace of mind. Does success really mean we’re stronger? How can we get off the hamster wheel of “more, more, more”? And what would it mean to define success and strength on your own terms?
Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance2020-01-0700 minundeclaredWelcome to undeclared with Allison Lanier and Scott FoglemanWelcome to undeclared, the podcast that explores many of the challenges facing Higher Education across the United States. Allison Lanier and Scott Fogleman will bring you conversations and interviews with many of today’s higher ed leaders. We will explore case studies describing what works, what doesn’t, and offer insights into why. We will introduce research on trends and habits subjects such as Gen Z and today’s prospective students and ultimately offer our listeners a platform to learn how they too can drive impact and change for their own institutions. Higher education as a whole is face...2019-05-0205 min
Relationships & Sex Archives - The New Man Podcast228 What She’s Not Telling You – How to Communicate Without Arguing – Alyson Schwabe LanierRelationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. What is she not telling you? Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk about challenging things with our partner. We avoid certain topics because we’re afraid of a fight, strong emotions, rejection, or worse. In this discussion Tripp and Alyson Lanier share practical tips for getting relationships back on track.
Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resist...2019-03-051h 03The New Man228 What She’s Not Telling You – How to Communicate Without Arguing – Alyson Schwabe LanierRelationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. What is she not telling you? Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk about challenging things with our partner. We avoid certain topics because we’re afraid of a fight, strong emotions, rejection, or worse. In this discussion Tripp and Alyson Lanier share practical tips for getting relationships back on track.
Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance2019-03-051h 03The New Man228 What She’s Not Telling You – How to Communicate Without Arguing – Alyson Schwabe LanierRelationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. What is she not telling you? Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk about challenging things with our partner. We avoid certain topics because we’re afraid of a fight, strong emotions, rejection, or worse. In this discussion Tripp and Alyson Lanier share practical tips for getting relationships back on track.
Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resist...2019-03-051h 03
A Modern VisionaryEp 04: Next-Level Leadership Required with Tiffany LanierOn this quick episode of AMV, we’re talking activation. Host Tiffany Lanier breaks down what it means to be a Next-Level Leader in this day and age, and what that means in the grand scheme of things.2018-06-2214 min
The Law Office of Ken Lanier, LLCShould You Admit Fault For An Accident Decatur Personal Injury Attorney Ken LanierVisit us today at http://www.kenlanierlaw.com/ or call 404-494-7784.
Hi, I'm Ken Lanier at the Law Office of Ken Lanier and the question is, why should you hire a car accident attorney? Well, the reason is you want to make sure your rights are protected. Personal injury law, insurance law is very complicated. It's very nuance and you can end up saying the wrong thing that could destroy or diminish the value of your case. So you need someone advocating and fighting for you. Those insurance adjusters are going to come after you and try to get...2017-10-2501 minThe Law Office of Ken Lanier, LLCShould You Call The Police After An Accident Decatur Personal Injury Attorney Ken LanierVisit us today at http://www.kenlanierlaw.com/ or call 404-494-7784.
Hi, I'm Ken Lanier at the Law Office of Ken Lanier and the question is, why should you hire a car accident attorney? Well, the reason is you want to make sure your rights are protected. Personal injury law, insurance law is very complicated. It's very nuance and you can end up saying the wrong thing that could destroy or diminish the value of your case. So you need someone advocating and fighting for you. Those insurance adjusters are going to come after you and try to get...2017-10-2501 minThe New Man201 Should You Leave Your Relationship? — Alyson LanierAlyson Lanier (relationship and intimacy coach) discusses: hot to get your relationship on the right track, how to make a big commitment, when it’s time to leave the relationship.2017-06-161h 03The Law Office of Ken Lanier, LLCWhat Happens in a Free Consultation? | Decatur Personal Injury Attorney Ken LanierVisit us today at http://www.kenlanierlaw.com/ or call 404-494-7784.
Hi! I'm Attorney Ken Lanier of the Law Office of Ken Lanier and I want you to know what to expect at the free consultation.
So when you come for the free consultation, what I like you to do is bring the police report, any pictures you may have, your medical records, bills, anything that relates to your case so that we can sit down, we can go over what happened - discuss the situation.
Whether there were witnesses there, whether that were other mitigating circumstances or whether...2017-05-0701 minThe Law Office of Ken Lanier, LLCWhat Is Your Case Worth? | Decatur Personal Injury Attorney Ken LanierVisit us today at http://kenlanierlaw.com/practice-areas/ or call 404-494-7784.
Hi. I'm Attorney Ken Lanier of the Law Office of Ken Lanier. The number one question I get, “What is my case worth?”
Well, it depends. I don't necessarily know what your case is worth at the beginning, but I will by the time that you finish up your medical treatment.
We look at what venue your case might be in, look at if your injuries are permanent, and basically get all the information that we need to do a proper evaluation of your case because there are a nu...2017-05-0301 min