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Unlabelling EffectLove Without Guarantees: Handling What We Can’t Predict | UnlabellingEffect S7EP21🌟 In this episode of the Unlabelling Effect podcast, we tackle a profound topic: "Love Without Guarantees: Handling What We Can’t Predict." 💖✨ How do we navigate relationships when the outcome is uncertain? Is it possible to love fully while accepting the unpredictability of human connections? 🤔
Love Without Guarantees: Handling What We Can’t Predict | UnlabellingEffect S7EP21
Relationships are a beautiful complexity that requires us to embrace uncertainty. Join us as we delve into: 💔 The challenges of loving without expectations
🌊 How to manage fears of unpredictability in love
🔑 Strategies for building connections rooted in trust and openness
💡 The importance of vulnerability in cultiva...2025-01-0225 minUnlabelling EffectPlan It or Wing It? The Great Relationship Debate | UnlabellingEffect S7EP20🌟 In this episode of the Unlabelling Effect podcast, we explore the classic debate: Are you a planner or a spontaneous person? 🗓️💥 Is one better than the other, or is there a way to strike the perfect balance between both? 🤔
Plan It or Wing It? The Great Relationship Debate | UnlabellingEffect S7EP20
Life is about finding harmony—between making plans and embracing the unexpected. Join us as we discuss:
📝 The pros and cons of being a planner
🌍 The joy and freedom of spontaneity
⚖️ How to blend both to create a rich and fulfilling life
💡 The key to balancing structure with flexibility—without falling t...2024-12-1325 minUnlabelling EffectLove’s Secret Ingredient: Mixing Compatibility with a Dash of Flexibility | UnlabellingEffect S7EP19In this episode of the UnlabellingEffect podcast, we explore the delicate balance of compatibility and adaptability in romantic relationships. How much should you compromise to make your relationship work without losing your true self? 🤔
Join us as we dive into key topics like:
💡 When is it healthy to compromise, and when is it too much?⚖️ The fine line between being flexible and losing your identity❤️ How to know when to fight for your relationship—and when it’s time to let go
💪 Maintaining your individuality while still growing together as a couple
Key T...2024-11-3017 minUnlabelling EffectThe Reality of Selflessness: Does a Fully Selfless Good Deed Exist? | UnlabellingEffect S7EP18In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the complex nature of selflessness. Can a truly selfless good deed exist, or is every act motivated by some form of personal gain, whether it's emotional satisfaction, social recognition, or even subconscious benefit? We explore different scenarios and challenge the assumption that humans can ever act without some underlying self-interest. Tune in as we unpack the layers of selflessness and question the very nature of altruism.
The Reality of Selflessness: Does a Fully Selfless Good Deed Exist? | UnlabellingEffect S7EP18
If you are new to our podcast, the Unlabelling Effect, our very...2024-11-1323 minUnlabelling EffectWhen a Friend Is Low: Should You Offer Comfort or Respect Her Space? | UnlabellingEffect S7EP17In this podcast episode, we discuss the challenge of supporting a friend who is feeling down. We explore the dilemma of whether to provide comfort or give the friend space. Through personal stories and insights, we highlight how different coping styles affect friendships. We emphasize the importance of empathy and communication, ultimately concluding that understanding and respecting a friend's needs is key to maintaining strong, supportive relationships.
"Dare to feel, dare to be real."
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New episodes are released on the 1st and 14th of EACH...2024-10-3119 minUnlabelling EffectCan You Find Joy for Others When You’re Facing Your Own Crisis? | UnlabellingEffect S7EP16In this episode, we explore how to offer joy and support to others while dealing with your own struggles. We dive deep into the emotional challenge of balancing your own crisis with being there for others. Learn how to nurture empathy without losing yourself and discover ways to find joy for both yourself and those around you during tough times.
Can You Find Joy for Others When You’re Facing Your Own Crisis? | UnlabellingEffect S7EP16
If you are new to our podcast, the Unlabelling Effect, our very warm welcome!
We are Melody, Rita an...2024-10-1321 minUnlabelling EffectGut Feeling vs. Inner Critic: Understanding Your Intuition | UnlabellingEffect S7EP15In this episode, we explore the fascinating world of intuition and gut feelings. We explore whether these instincts are driven by our inner critic or if they stem from subconscious memories and experiences. Join us as we explore the concepts, the role of intuition in decision-making, and the strategies we employ to tune into our inner voice.
Gut Feeling vs. Inner Critic: Understanding Your Intuition | UnlabellingEffect S7EP15
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We are Melody, Rita and Vivian, three distinctive women daringly diving into some taboos to normalise some...2024-09-3026 minUnlabelling EffectCan You Really Be Friends With An AI? The Human-Computer Bond | UnlabellingEffect S7EP14In this episode, we explore whether genuine friendships can exist between humans and artificial intelligence. We discuss AI’s ability to analyze our emotions and provide tailored emotional support. However, we also question the implications of relying on AI for companionship. What does this mean for our real-world relationships? Join us as we delve into the evolving dynamics of friendship in the digital age.
Can You Really Be Friends with an AI? The Human-Computer Bond | UnlabellingEffect S7EP14
A huge shoutout to Salvaged Clothing for sponsoring this episode! As a preloved consignment movement, they lo...2024-09-1420 minUnlabelling EffectThe Self-Discipline and Self-Care Face-off: Gym Time or Couch Time? | UnlabellingEffect S7EP13In this episode, we tackle the delicate balance between self-discipline and self-care. When is it essential to power through and stick to your fitness routine, and when is it better to be kind to yourself and take a break? Join us as we explore the nuances of self-discipline, the importance of listening to our bodies, and how to find harmony between pushing ourselves and practising self-compassion.
The Self-Discipline and Self-Care Face-off: Gym Time or Couch Time? | UnlabellingEffect S7EP13
If you are new to our podcast, the Unlabelling Effect...2024-09-0116 minUnlabelling EffectFrom First Impressions to Real Connections: Asking the Tough Questions | UnlabellingEffect S7EP12In this heartfelt episode, three podcasters dive deep into their personal histories and spark honest and revealing conversations that strengthen their connection.
From sharing our first impressions of each other to exploring how our perceptions have evolved, this episode is a journey through the growth and challenges of our friendship.
Tune in to witness the raw and real moments that brought us closer together and discover the truth behind the bond that keeps us inseparable.
From First Impressions to Real Connections: Asking the Tough Questions | UnlabellingEffect S7EP12
2024-08-1436 minUnlabelling Effect"Big Sister Talks: Healing from Childhood Trauma" - A Heartfelt Convo | UnlabellingEffect S7EP11Join us on a thought-provoking discussion as we explore the profound impact of childhood trauma and family environments on adult attachment styles. These can significantly influence how individuals connect with others later in life. Through spotting and acknowledging our triggers and emotional patterns, we can better manager our emotions and reactions towards stressors and life happenings!
"Big Sister Talks: Healing from Childhood Trauma" - A Heartfelt Convo | UnlabellingEffect S7EP11
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Rhythma founded Candle Up candles, the first company ever...2024-07-3140 minUnlabelling Effect"Can You Live Alone?" Navigating Lonely Nights | UnlabellingEffect S7EP10There are obvious perks of living alone, including learning how to be your own company, knowing yourself on a deeper level, having your own routine/schedule without disruption... Nonetheless, what can you do when loneliness has taken over? To the brave souls who moved abroad alone, how did you cope being away with all your ties and loved ones? Tune in and join us in this convo!
"Can You Live Alone?" Navigating Lonely Nights | UnlabellingEffect S7EP10
If you are new to our podcast, the Unlabelling Effect, our very...2024-07-1314 minUnlabelling Effect"Why Am I Lost?" - Navigating the Late 20s Crisis and Finding Self-Identity| UnlabellingEffect S7EP9Entering your late 20s is when people start to reflect on all the decisions they've made. Should you pivot or stay? Do you have a pattern/loop that you'd like to break? Do you want to take THE risk now? How does YOUR future look, and are you heading that way? These questions might help to bring some clarity in this pivotal period.
"Why Am I Lost?" - Navigating the Late 20s Crisis and Finding Self-Identity| UnlabellingEffect S7EP9
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Thank you, Candle Up, for the sponsored...2024-07-0131 minUnlabelling Effect"Why Don't I Love My Body?" - A Journey with Body Banter ft. Stephy Ng | UnlabellingEffect S7EP8We have Stephy Ng with us on the Unlabelling Effect in this episode !
Stephy is a mental health advocate and a linguistic researcher. Not only is she an academic, she is also the founder of Body Banter, a charity that empowers young people to spark conversations around creating our body image.
Stephy's experience with an eating disorder earlier in her life has undeniably been a source of inspiration in every facet of her work and current lifestyle. However, during our conversation, Steph also emphasised that sharing recovery stories for the purpose of mental health advocacy is not equivalent to...2024-06-141h 09Unlabelling EffectWhat To Do When You Feel All Over The Place - Checking In With Your Friends | UnlabellingEffect S7EP7Have you thought of a friend recently and wondered how they’re doing?
As we grow older, friendships inevitably get trickier to maintain. Nonetheless, checking in with your friends at the right time can really help people to overcome challenges and life stressors. In addition, you gain insight into each other’s successes and failures which can be an invaluable opportunity to learn and grow, individually or together.
Tune in to one of our candid catch-up conversations!
If you are new to our podcast, the Unlabelling Effect, our very warm welc...2024-06-0122 minUnlabelling Effect"CHOMP"ING Through: a Young Female Entrepreneur ft. Carla Martinesi | UnlabellingEffect S7EP6We have Carla Martinesi with us on the Unlabelling Effect in this episode !
Carla is the CEO and Founder of CHOMP, Hong Kong’s food saving app which aims to reduce the amount of PERFECTLY EDIBLE food being thrown into Hong Kong’s landfills DAILY.
Since its launch in 2021, the app has saved over 3000 kg of food from landfills. What an impressive achievement! Behind the great achievement, Carla was not taken seriously in earlier days for pitches or collaboration opportunities in the corporate world solely because she was a YOUNG WOMAN.
Connect with Carla on Instagram: @carlamartinesi
CHOM...2024-05-141h 10Unlabelling EffectWhat Have You Learnt About Love? Embracing Uniqueness #IceBreakerDeck | UnlabellingEffect S7EP5Instigating DEEP conversations by putting forward some "difficult" questions might help with your introspection, self-reflection and also deepening the bond with others. Here are some questions we discussed. What are your thoughts? Bring them up to your loved ones and mates!
1. What would you refuse to give up for 10 million dollars?
2. What’s that one life lesson you would pass on to your kids?
3. What negative trait that you publicly laugh about but know you need to fix?
4. What love is FOR YOU? What have you learnt about love?
2024-05-0152 minUnlabelling EffectI Am NOT My Limited Self-Beliefs - ft. Janice Ng #AbsFocus | UnlabellingEffect S7EP4We have Janice Ng with us on the Unlabelling Effect in this episode !
Janice strongly believes in mindfulness and the duality of physical and mental health. She started her fitness journey at the age of 5 and wrestled with anxiety, depression and heaps of self-doubts, which led her to become the founder of Absolute Focus. AbsFocus is a Pilates-inspired workout program where Janice promotes wellness inside and out, including physical, mental, and emotional health.
Janice mentioned that meditation is a challenging practice but you need to sit through your chaotic...2024-04-141h 01Unlabelling EffectSetting Goals - Facing Biggest Fear & Thinking Outside The Box | UnlabellingEffect S7EP3FOUR months into 2024, how's it going?
Despite how smooth or bumpy your sailing has been thus far, it's always helpful and nice to have a sit-down reflective sesh with your friends and say your thoughts out loud.
It's never too late to get back into your goals and find ways to feel how you wanna feel! We know that the journey of one's healing, regardless what it may look like to you, is not easy; hence we need to lift each other up, support and empower one another!
If you...2024-04-011h 01
Unlabelling EffectI Am NOT Having It All - ft. Amy Tsien #EveBliss | UnlabellingEffect S7EP2We have Amy Tsien with us on the Unlabelling Effect in this episode!
Amy is an avid advocate for physical and mental well-being, which has led her to become the founder of Eve Bliss, a functional wellness brand that produces research-backed revitalising functional products, raises awareness for mental health initiatives, and runs community events.
The horrid experience of being bullied at school, Amy was forced to look inward and live her authentic life in order to regain control in life. In her opinion, wellness should be inclusive and for...2024-03-1337 minUnlabelling EffectNavigating New Relationships - Getting Triggered & Fear of Losing Yourself | UnlabellingEffect S7EP1The FIRST episode of Season 7 ! We're trying out a new video podcast format to engage with our listeners like never before. Grab your coffee, tea or wine, and get ready to join us in this conversation on different ways to navigate all sorts of relationships in life.
As the saying goes, "people enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime." But how do you make sense of it and make peace with the fact that people do grow apart? How do you show up for people whom you care for?
Meeting someone new romantically and introducing...2024-03-0157 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP11 How It All Started - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is CaringComing to the LAST episode of this Season, podcasters Rita, Melody, and Vivian, decided to get around each other and had a reflective moment together on our life trajectory and stories on the Unlabelling Effect @unlabellingeffect. Despite all the challenges, life hiccups, and hurdles, we've come so far. We're thrilled to see what life brings!
Tune in NOW and celebrate our own personal growth collectively!
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New episode releases on the 1st of EACH MONTH on Spotify & iTunes🎙
#daretofeeldaretobereal #mentalhealth #mentalwellbe...2023-11-0145 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP10 The Art Of Finding Stillness ft. Gary Moody - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring"How We VIEW People. We Need To Treat People With Respect And Be Curious About Them And Their Lives."
In this episode, we have Gary Moody @garyjmoody with us!
Gary is an anthropology Ph.D. candidate researching Western spirit mediums, healers, Spirit Art, and sound healing. He is learning how to sense and talk to spirits for wellbeing. As he is training under spirit mediums and healers, A LOT of the focus is on identifying his own trauma, self-limiting beliefs, and working through that - but also discovering his True Self and passions.
Gary...2023-10-0124 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP9 Facing Our Financial Fears ft. Palka Chopra - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring”There is NO RUSH to ACHIEVE.”
In this episode, we have Palka Arora Chopra @palka.chopra with us on the Unlabelling Effect @unlabellingeffect. To fully utilise her talent, especially in the financial sector, she wears multiple hats with an aspiration to make financial services & concepts accessible to all. She founded her dream project Mindful Money Tribe @mindfulmoneytribe in Hong Kong in 2022, where she works as a Certified Money Coach and helps her clients to become more financially literate.
As a philanthropist, she aims to contribute to the welfare of women & children who are economically underprivileged. On to...2023-09-0133 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP8 Why is Sex Still Taboo?「性」點解仲係禁忌？ft. Sticky Rice Love - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring (CANTONESE)"DROP the stigmatisation surrounding 'SEX'; 放低「性」一個好污名化的標籤"
Kitty is one of the directors of Sticky Rice Love, a Hong Kong-based NGO that promotes public sexual wellness and delivers Comprehensive Sexuality Education. They hold workshops and talks across Hong Kong and also offer multiple public inquiry platforms, including Instagram and Whatsapp.
Kitty also proudly identified herself as Bisexual and Sapiosexual. Altogether, I am sure Kitty could offer a lot of insights and knowledge in the spaces of gender and sexual wellness.
Please tune in and find out more about this inspiring sexuality educator and advocate in Hong Kong!
Connect wi...2023-08-0132 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP7 Silencing the Ego and Be Present ft. Reina Chan - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring”Vulnerability is the biggest sign of bravery instead of weakness”.
In this episode, we have Reina Chan @reina.suichan with us on the Unlabelling Effect
Reina went through TWO life and death experiences, including being a brave cancer survivor, which have changed her world views and made her appreciate the MOST FUNDAMENTAL things in life. Not only is Reina the Top 10 finalist of Miss Hong Kong 2022 Beauty Pageant, but she also has a bunch of great achievements, including leading the Business Development of Vegas360 (@vegas360hk @vegas360_spa), which is a beauty clinic providing skincare treatme...2023-07-0132 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP6 Escape the Rat Race and Live Life Your Way Ft. Mandy Pao - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring“DO NOT live off other people’s expectations. ”We have Mandy Pao @themandypao with us on the @unlabellingeffect. Mandy is a branding expert and founder of a splendid branding agency, Eloquence (EQ) International @eq.international. She aspires to empower, contribute to and impact the creative community in Hong Kong. What interesting about Mandy’s story is that her works got recognised to a significant extent that she was swamped holding large-scale campaigns wherein she somehow caught herself losing touch with her purposes and intentions. To re-anchor herself and EQ, she has turned to empowering smaller businesses, assisting them to craft th...2023-06-0131 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP5 Cultivating Self-Discipline ft. Bastien Gerber - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring"STOP giving so much importance to what people might think of you.”
We have Bastien Gerber @the.bas.life with us to discuss self-awareness and tips on leading a goal-oriented and disciplined life on the Unlabelling Effect @unlabellingeffect.
Bas is not only a full-time Engineer, but he is also an artist , a certified TRX trainer, and an entrepreneur who started his liver detox shot business, Happy Liver, in Hong Kong. Bas is one of the most disciplined people we know who is also very in tune with his emotions. Let’s unpack Bas’ special traits in being...2023-05-1535 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP4 Feeling Lost is a Gift ft. Zoe Pena - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring"You don't have to be one definition of success. Be okay with NOT KNOWING and BE LOST."
We have Zoe Pena @zoemeaninglife with us to discuss the feeling of being LOST on the Unlabelling Effect.
Zoe Pena is the first Filipino and youngest president of the AWA, the American Women's Association of Hong Kong. They are dedicated to giving back to the community and creating spaces for women from all walks of life. Going strong on its 67th year, AWA has paved the way for other charitable women-focused organisations to flourish. Zoe also serves on...2023-05-0123 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP3 Emotional Baggage ft. KELY Support Group - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is Caring“We should be UNlabelled from what we WILL be but focus on what we WANT to be”.
We have Renee from KELY Support Group (KELY) on the Unlabelling Effect to dissect the topic “Emotional Baggage”. How can we become aware of our unresolved emotions/trauma and actively recover from them?
KELY is a Hong Kong-based nonprofit organisation whose mission since 1991 is to equip young people with the skills, knowledge, and opportunities needed to support themselves and each other. They envision a world where young people are empowered to reach their full potential.
Connect with KELY...2023-04-1720 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP1 Depression Is Not Crazy ft. Gianne Chan - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is CaringWe are so glad to have Gianne, the co-founder of a creative marketing agency, Lexemedia. She is also the Founder of Calmed & Co., the first Hong Kong brand to sell supplement patches to promote better health, sleep, and mood. Last but not least, Gianne also has her own podcast channel, Calmedclub. We have met Gianne on different occasions via Women Of Hong Kong, where professional and aspiring women come together to network and empower each other. Gianne’s openness in sharing her story is admirable. Tune in right now!
Connect with our guest:
G...2023-04-0623 min
Unlabelling EffectS6EP2 You Are Not Alone ft. Jessica Hulton - Mental Health Stories: When Sharing Really Is CaringIn this episode, we’re so glad to have Jessica Hulton, the APAC lead for The New Normal Hong Kong (TNN), joining us today. She organises peer support groups for the community to ensure that people are not going through tough times alone. Jess also candidly talked about her own vulnerability and the journey of grief. Additionally, Jess connected us to The Gym and the 6-week Move Partners Project, which was a great reminder that physical well-being is closely linked to one's mental health. Please tune in and find out more about the remarkable work that Jess does in Ho...2023-04-0337 min
Unlabelling EffectS5EP10 The Art Of Checking InWe tend to bring up conversations with people only when there was a conflict and we were reactive to it. Today, let’s try to take proactive measures to enhance the great quality of friendships by checking in with each other!
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Unlabelling EffectS5EP9 What Happens When We Struggle To Find Closure?What happens when we struggle to find closure?
The purpose of having closure is to provide us the ability to move forward. We however, have the tendency to look for answers to the cause of a certain change in order to resolve the uncomfortable feelings.
Join us on this conversation and discuss perspectives on seeking closure.
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Unlabelling EffectS5EP8 Mending A Broken HeartBreak ups usually arent easy. whether your ex partner ended the relationship or you did. Reminiscing about the happy moments during your time together can make the break up hard to get past. Whatever you’re feeling right now is normal though, whether that's lonliness, humiliation, rejection, disconnection, disappointment, or even relief. To help you better navigate the healing process, we will dissect on the feeling of being hard broken and some tips on how to move past it.
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A new episode is released biweekly on Mondays on Spotify & iT...2023-02-0616 min
Unlabelling EffectS5EP7 How To Rekindle Long-term Relationships?When people are around us, it’s very easy to take their presence for granted and fall into our comfort zone and get into a dull routine. However, as long as you and another person are motivated and willing to make an effort to rekindle the relationship, it's never too late to reintroduce that excitement!
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A new episode is released biweekly on Mondays on Spotify & iTunes🎙@unlabellingeffect #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal #mentalhealth #mentalwellbeing #mentalwellnes #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal #daretofeel #daretobereal#mentalhealthpodcast #selfdevelopment #selfworth #mindfulness #rekindlerelationships #interpersonalrelationships2023-01-2315 min
Unlabelling EffectS5EP6 Love And Hate, Can They Coexist?This episode is a reflection on our love and hate relationships. While I think about love and hate, my brain immediately brought me to the emotional difference between them. Do we have control on pouring more LOVE or HATRED in our life?
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#mentalhealth #mentalwellbeing #mentalwellnes #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal #daretofeel #daretobereal#mentalhealthpodcast #selfdevelopment #selfworth #mindfulness #loveandhate2023-01-0914 min
Unlabelling EffectS5EP5 How To Love and Be Loved?To many of us including myself, we need to learn to give and receive love. Because love was not something they always knew, they do not automatically know how to do it well, especially when it comes to loving themselves and feeling worthy of being loved by another. But, the good news is that it CAN be learned right? So today, we will discuss how we can learn to love and be loved.
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Unlabelling EffectS5EP4 Being BetrayedBetrayal is the sense of being harmed by the intentional actions or omissions of a trusted person. There are many types of betrayals. The most common forms of betrayal are harmful disclosures of confidential information, disloyalty, infidelity, and dishonesty. They can be traumatic and cause considerable distress. You might feel shocked, self-doubting, angry, and so forth. How can we control the controllable and begin the recovery process?
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#mentalhealth #mentalwellbeing #mentalwellnes #unlabellingeffect #dareto...2022-12-1210 min
Unlabelling EffectS5EP3 Is It Okay To Feel Jealous?Jealous is a feeling that might have associated with feeling ashamed, and didn’t want to admit to that. Most people confuse the feelings of jealousy with feelings of envy. We are here to relearn how to build a healthy relationship with jealousy.
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#mentalhealth #mentalwellbeing #mentalwellnes #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal #daretofeel #daretobereal#mentalhealthpodcast #selfdevelopment #selfworth #mindfulness #Jealousy #Envy2022-11-2818 min
Unlabelling EffectS5EP2 5 Steps to Overcome Your Fear of ConfrontationA confrontation is usually a conversation with heightened emotions. Sometimes it is a result of unresolved conflict. Sometimes it is a cause of future conflict. And sometimes, if managed properly, it can be the beginning of greater trust and understanding. Today, we will explore on how we can learn to control our fear of confrontation.Find us on Instagram @UnlabellingEffect #UnlabellingeffectA new episode is released biweekly on Mondays on Spotify & iTunes🎙@unlabellingeffect #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal#mentalhealth #mentalwellbeing #mentalwellnes #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal #daretofeel #daretobereal#mentalhealthpodcast #selfdevelopment #selfworth #mindfulness #confrontation #fear #fearofconfrontation #conflict #con...2022-11-1421 min
Unlabelling EffectS5EP1 Do You Have The Right Support System In Place?We have briefly mentioned the categorisation of people in your life (S3Ep7 on Three Types of People you will meet) and the reasons to have a functional support system (S4EP2 Why Relationships Matter?). In this episode, we will dive deeper into the topic and discuss what expectations do we have on them. Are they realistic expectations? When to rely on yourself and when to turn to your support system? Find us on Instagram @UnlabellingEffect #UnlabellingeffectA new episode is released biweekly on Mondays on Spotify & iTunes🎙@unlabellingeffect #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal...2022-10-3118 min
Unlabelling EffectS4EP7 (PART 2) Vulnerability Brings People Closer (Ft. Joanne Yiu @Bubbletalksss)We are so happy to have Joanne back on our podcast again after S3EP9 on “How Much Do You Crave For Understanding”. If our audience has not already known Joanne, she is the founder of “Bubble Talksss” as well as “Humble Bubble HK”. She is great at sharing inspiring thoughts and bringing positive motivations on her channels in addressing mental health issues.We are very lucky to have her here today to talk about vulnerability. As Brené Brown has once mentioned, vulnerability and courage come hand-in-hand, we should be proud and celebrate those to who have the courage to...2022-10-0312 min
Unlabelling EffectS4EP7 (PART 1) Vulnerability Brings People Closer (Ft. Joanne Yiu @Bubbletalksss)We are so happy to have Joanne back on our podcast again after S3EP9 on “How Much Do You Crave For Understanding”. If our audience has not already known Joanne, she is the founder of “Bubble Talksss” as well as “Humble Bubble HK”. She is great at sharing inspiring thoughts and bringing positive motivations on her channels in addressing mental health issues. We are very lucky to have her here today to talk about vulnerability. As Brené Brown has once mentioned, vulnerability and courage come hand-in-hand, we should be proud and celebrate those to who have the courage to...2022-09-2615 min
Unlabelling EffectS4EP6 (PART 2) Does Your Behaviour Align With Your Expectations Or Intentions? (Ft. Billy Leung @billy.yoga1)Have you ever questioned if our behaviours are aligned with our expectations? Do you struggle to reach your expectations even though you think that you are trying your best? We are here with Billy Leung to discuss on finding our true-self through the power of sound. It brings us joy and privilege to have Billy Leung with us. Billy is an enthusiast of personal wellness in every single way the phrase can be conceived and understood. We admire Billy’s dedication and concentration on exploring the power of sound therapy, such as singing bowls, gongs and tuning fo...2022-09-1920 min
Unlabelling EffectS4EP6 (PART 1) Does Your Behaviour Align With Your Expectations Or Intentions? (Ft. Billy Leung @billy.yoga1)Have you ever questioned if our behaviours are aligned with our expectations? Do you struggle to reach your expectations even though you think that you are trying your best? We are here with Billy Leung to discuss on finding our true-self through the power of sound.It brings us joy and privilege to have Billy Leung with us. Billy is an enthusiast of personal wellness in every single way the phrase can be conceived and understood. We admire Billy’s dedication and concentration on exploring the power of sound therapy, such as singing bowls, gongs and tuning fo...2022-09-1216 min
Unlabelling EffectS4EP5 (PART2) The Secret To Building Healthy RelationshipsHealthy relationships don’t look the same for everyone since people have different needs. Your specific needs around communication, affection, space, shared hobbies or values, and so on may change throughout life.So, a relationship that works in your 20s may be nothing like the relationship you want in your 30s. Echoing to our previous episode "Is Love At First Sight Real?", we will dissect how to build healthy relationships with new people entering into our lives.Dare to feel, dare to be real. #UnlabellingEffect2022-09-0512 min
Unlabelling EffectS4EP5 (PART1) The Secret To Building Healthy RelationshipsHealthy relationships don’t look the same for everyone since people have different needs. Your specific needs around communication, affection, space, shared hobbies or values, and so on may change throughout life.So, a relationship that works in your 20s may be nothing like the relationship you want in your 30s. Echoing to our previous episode "Is Love At First Sight Real?", we will dissect how to build healthy relationships with new people entering into our lives.Dare to feel, dare to be real. #UnlabellingEffect2022-08-2912 min
Unlabelling EffectS4EP4 Is Love At First Sight Real?In a world where dating often requires a lot of work, which comes with disappointment, rejection, and uncertainty. The idea of falling in love at first sight is just too good to be true. Do you think it really exists? Is it just pure lust or a strong initial attraction that will fade shortly? Dare to feel, dare to be real. Follow us on Instagram @UnlabellingEffect #UnlabellingEffect2022-08-2216 minUnlabelling EffectS4EP3 (PART2) Are You Unconsciously Playing The Game? (Ft. Sandra Chan)There are a number of reasons people play mind games, but the goal is usually to gain a sense of control or power over another person. The player wants to get a specific response, but instead of telling you what they need or asking for what they want, they try to get their needs met by using manipulative tactics. It’s all about feeling powerful and in control, but those feelings never last for very long. Any time we try to use someone else to make ourselves feel better, it usually doesn’t end well. It’s almost...2022-08-1717 minUnlabelling EffectS4EP3 (PART2) Are You Unconsciously Playing The Game? (Ft. Sandra Chan)There are a number of reasons people play mind games, but the goal is usually to gain a sense of control or power over another person. The player wants to get a specific response, but instead of telling you what they need or asking for what they want, they try to get their needs met by using manipulative tactics. It’s all about feeling powerful and in control, but those feelings never last for very long. Any time we try to use someone else to make ourselves feel better, it usually doesn’t end well. It’s almost...2022-08-1515 minUnlabelling EffectS4EP3 (PART1) Are You Unconsciously Playing The Game? (Ft. Sandra Chan)There are a number of reasons people play mind games, but the goal is usually to gain a sense of control or power over another person. The player wants to get a specific response, but instead of telling you what they need or asking for what they want, they try to get their needs met by using manipulative tactics. It’s all about feeling powerful and in control, but those feelings never last for very long. Any time we try to use someone else to make ourselves feel better, it usually doesn’t end well. It’s almost...2022-08-0818 minUnlabelling EffectS4EP2 Why Relationships Matter?We want to cultivate the awareness that we’re both a Me and a We in society. Have you selected people that are beneficial to your wellbeing and filtered out the rest? How do you see relationships? What purposes do these relationships serve? Find us on Instagram @UnlabellingEffect #Unlabellingeffect New episode every Monday on Spotify & iTunes🎙@unlabellingeffect #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal#mentalhealth #mentalwellbeing #mentalwellnes #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal #daretofeel #daretobereal#mentalhealthpodcast #selfdevelopment #selfworth #mindfulness #relationship #interpersonal #network #belongingness 2022-08-0110 minUnlabelling EffectS4EP1 Do We Communicate Our Love Languages Enough?Do we know the love language that we appreciate the most? Is it expressing love through gifts or words of affirmation or perhaps quality time or acts of service or physical touch? We were inspired by Jay Shetty, he shared how we should connect with each other with real empathy by using their emotional language, not our own (https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cei6mQWv3U2/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link). Similarly, is the way we communicate our wanted love language(s) and expressing love the right way that our receiver(s) can reciprocate? Fi...2022-07-2511 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP17 How To Be Your True Self In A Society That Worships Fakeness?You want to be true to yourself, not a slavish follower of social expectations. But authenticity is a slippery thing. Although most people would define authenticity as acting in accordance with a set of values and qualities, research has shown that people feel most authentic when they conform to a particular set of socially approved qualities, such as being extroverted, emotionally stable, conscientious, intellectual and agreeable.So how exactly will we know if we are being truly authentic, and how exactly do we make the daily decision of acting as our true self, or acting according to...2022-07-1820 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP16 Could You Be The Reason Of Someone's Smile Today?What makes us perform good deeds? Is it possible to do it without any expectation of return? Prior to this episode, I invited Melody and Vivian to perform several good deeds and share their experiences with us. Tune in to find out what the girls did and what were the learnings! Find us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/unlabellingeffect?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= New episode every Monday on Spotify & iTunes🎙@unlabellingeffect #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal#mentalhealth #mentalwellbeing #mentalwellnes #unlabellingeffect #daretofeeldaretobereal #daretofeel #daretobereal#mentalhealthpodcast #selfdevelopment #selfworth #mindfulness #selfreflection #introspection #society2022-07-1121 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP15 Are We Socially Malleable?As humans, we enjoy social interactions while in our S3EP5 episode, we talked about Introverts versus Extroverts. In this episode, we are going to explore the idea that regardless of whether you are an introvert or an extrovert, can we build who we want to be socially? 2022-07-0414 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP14 (PART 2) Is It Ever Okay To Cry At Work? (Ft. Sandra Chan)Crying in the workplace can be embarrassing, but it’s also a sign that you care.We spend around 90,000 hours of our life at work—so it shouldn't really come as a surprise that many of us have (or will) at some point shed a few tears while at our jobs.That being said, while the probability of crying at work is fairly high, the workplace appears to be one of the last forums in which we feel the need to suppress our emotions, all of which begs the question:Is it ever okay...2022-06-2714 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP14 (PART 1) Is It Ever Okay To Cry At Work? (Ft. Sandra Chan)Crying in the workplace can be embarrassing, but it’s also a sign that you care. We spend around 90,000 hours of our life at work—so it shouldn't really come as a surprise that many of us have (or will) at some point shed a few tears while at our jobs.That being said, while the probability of crying at work is fairly high, the workplace appears to be one of the last forums in which we feel the need to suppress our emotions, all of which begs the question:Is it ever okay...2022-06-2018 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP13 Are You A Social Alcoholic?People drink socially for a variety of reasons. Alcohol is perceived to be a social lubricant that improves mood, reduces self-consciousness, and enhances social skills . We talked about social anxiety in season 3 episode 11 where individuals experience heightened stress in social situations. In response, they turn to alcohol. Today, let us discuss our relationship with alcohol. 2022-06-1326 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP12 What Is A Silly Question?There might be times that you would pull back from asking questions that you have in mind. Have you thought if you were scared of causing inconvenience of others or that you might might want to avoid any chances of feeling embarrassed or perhaps you cared too much how people might judge you or it might have been a natural act of protecting our own ego? 2022-06-0522 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP11 Social Anxiety That We All HaveSocial Phobia is characterized by overwhelming anxiety and excessive self-consciousness in social situations. There’s no one thing that causes social anxiety disorder. Genetics likely has something to do with it. It can be linked to a history of abuse, bullying, or teasing. Shy kids are also more likely to become socially anxious adults, as are children with overbearing or controlling parents. The best we could do is control the controllable.In this episode, we would focus on the anxiety level that creates discomfort in u but it is still manageable. We won't cover anxiety disorder that requires med...2022-05-3027 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP10 Are We Appalling Teachers?Every person has a unique communication style, it’s the way we interact and exchange information with others. Have you ever wondered if you possess a particular style? And in your own measures, what considers a successful communication?The ingredients of successful communication are firstly to understand yourself, then to understand others, and then to use this knowledge to manage the interactions in your relationships with your customers, your colleagues, your friend, and your family.In the previous “How You Describe Yourself” episode we touched on personalities. Today, we will dissec...2022-05-2321 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP9 How Much Do We Crave For Understanding? (Ft. Joanne Yiu)Do people want to be understood in most aspects of life? Probably, but Why? Are we seeking reassurance? Is it because we need to know that my presence is being confirmed? Or Is it because our confidence is not well established that we would appreciate ourselves to be heard?We met Joanne at a mental wellness event back in 2021 in Hong Kong. Joanne is a multi-talented explorer who has a podcast channel called “Bubble Talks”, who is also a director that is now working on a documentary named “Restrained”, highlighting what it is like in public p...2022-05-1725 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP8 Are You Really Listening?What do we know about Active Listening?Active listening requires you to listen attentively to a speaker, understand what they’re saying, respond and reflect on what’s being said, and retain the information for later.Do you recall the last decent conversation you had with someone you genuinely care about, how engaged and present were you? 2022-05-1027 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP7(Part2) Three Types Of People You Will MeetIn our life, people come and go all the time. Did you have moments that you r looking at the sky and thinking about someone u’ve met back in time, might be a really close dear friend once, but have parted way and lost contact. Sometimes it is nice to sit and look over our life as a sort of overview; to recognize what went wrong and appreciate what was right. 2022-05-0328 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP7(Part1) Three Types Of People You Will MeetIn our life, people come and go all the time. Did you have moments that you r looking at the sky and thinking about someone u’ve met back in time, might be a really close dear friend once, but have parted way and lost contact. Sometimes it is nice to sit and look over our life as a sort of overview; to recognize what went wrong and appreciate what was right. 2022-04-2631 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP6 What Makes People Charismatic?We’ve all met someone in our lives, that is so charming, the way the person talks, laughs, or tells stories. We are almost supernaturally drawn to them — only a few of us can quantify, in an instant, what makes charismatic people so magnetic. John Antonakis, notes that in every interaction with others, we’re making constant micro-decisions about whether the person demanding our attention is deserving of it, and charisma, is merely information signaling. Today, we will dig deep into building charisma, and the possible ways to hone it as if it’s a skill that...2022-04-1924 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP5 Are You An Introvert Or An Extrovert?The early 1900s was a period in which the field of psychology was developing as an independent discipline. During this time, Carl Jung proposed core ideas in his exploration of personality, including the constructs of introversion and extroversion. Suggested that the interest of the introvert is directed inwards; they think, feel, and act in ways that suggest the subject is the prime motivating factor. Extroverts, on the other hand, direct their interest outwards to their surrounding environment; they think, feel, and act in relation to external factors rather than the subjective.In reality, most of us exhibit q...2022-04-1224 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP4 How Would You Describe Yourself?It WAS believed that personality traits changed very little over the course of a lifetime. Is it true though? By exploring and identifying our personality traits, we might be able to find our limitations and fathom why did we react the way we did, apply appropriate intervention to work around it to make a REALISTIC change in order to move towards our best self. 2022-04-0523 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP3 Defense MechanismDefense mechanisms are unconscious psychological responses that protect us against anxiety, and the avoidance of experiencing conflict and see events as threats to our self-esteem and ego. Have you noticed what your defense mechanisms might be? Join us on this journey find out more about the reasons behind our very own defense mechanisms? 2022-03-2925 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP2 How To Build Your Confidence?Many people credit their sense of self and their confidence to their success, but not many people really explain how to build confidence? It's tricky, because confidence is built on different things. It’s on the choices and accomplishments that feed your passion, and that make you feel happy and proud of who you are. And discovering these things is one of the most worthwhile pursuits of you life. So how do we do it? 2022-03-2221 minUnlabelling EffectS3EP1 The Root Of Self-ConfidenceSelf-confidence is your belief in yourself and your abilities. This could change depending on the situation. It's normal to feel quite confident in some circumstances and less confident in others. Self-confidence is vital in almost every aspect of our lives, yet many people struggle to find it. But, where does our self-confidence come from? What is the root of it? 2022-03-1530 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP13 Living To Our SatisfactionThis is a wrap up for this whole season - Power Of Mindsets. We are going to reflect back on our takes on episodes that we enjoyed, or mindsets that we perhaps have changed or that we are constantly working on. 2022-03-0819 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP12 Change For The Better?We experience transitions in work and relationships, changes in our physical and mental health, and new events in our local communities and our world. Sometimes we know a change will occur, while other times it comes suddenly and unexpectedly. Maybe it’s a disappointment, or maybe it’s a wonderful surprise.Change is needed in growth, needed in maintaining relationships – so if you find yourself trying to avoid change, it’s not going to work as it will eventually catch up on you. How can we increase our level of resilience and cope with change?2022-03-0123 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP11 You Are Not Your ThoughtsBy becoming more mindful, you will increase your awareness of your thoughts and feelings and will notice that your mind is never still – it is constantly thinking and making up stories. Learn to categorise them into 'facts' and 'opinions'. We aim to acquire skills to acknowledge these thoughts as just thoughts, let them go, and give less meaning to them.2022-02-2223 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP10 Staying In Your Comfort Zone?2022-02-1529 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP9 How To Stay Curious?2022-02-0817 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP8 Inner Voices: Angels & Demons2022-02-0123 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP8 Inner Voices: Angels and Demons2022-02-0123 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP7 Expectation VS. Reality2022-01-2528 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP6 Letting Go2022-01-1819 minUnlabelling EffectS2EP7 Expectation Vs. 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Texas MandarinBS 004(Nikita hw)-You are not my friend(key words: 跟。。；想当）10/17/2020
我有三个好朋友，Nawal, Helena, 还有Melody
Nawal上九年级，Nawal 想当工程师，Helena也上九年级, Helena想当护士，还有Melody也上九年级， Melody 想当音乐家. 我们都上九年级。
有一次，我想看电影。
我打电话给Nawal。“喂，Nawal 我们去看电影吧”
Nawal说“啊，对不起。我不想看电影，我想要画画！
我说”啊。好吧！没关系。我去找HELENA 跟我去看我电影。拜拜。
我打电话给Helena。“喂，Helena 我们去看电影吧”
Helena说“啊，对不起。我不想看电影，我想要拉小提琴！
我说”啊。好吧！没关系！我去找Melody跟我看电影拜拜。
我打电话给Melody。“喂，Melody我们去看电影吧”
Melody说“啊，对不起。我不想看电影，我想要弹钢琴！
我说”啊。我很生气，我非常生气，我超级生气。我气死了。你们不是我的朋友！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！
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