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All Things Foster: A place for Coffee, Connection, and Community Trauma, Community, and Compassion in Parenting with Robyn GobbelIn this episode of All Things Foster, Matthew Darrah speaks with Robyn Gobbel about the importance of connection and community in parenting, especially for those dealing with trauma. They discuss Robyn's journey into trauma work, the impact of her book, and the metaphors of the owl, watchdog, and possum to explain emotional responses. The conversation emphasizes the significance of co-regulation, the creation of a supportive community through the club, and the immersion program for professionals. Robyn shares insights on how to navigate parenting challenges and the importance of compassion for both parents and children.https://www.panhandleorphan...

2025-09-091h 05

All Things Foster: A place for Coffee, Connection, and Community Trauma, Community, and Compassion in Parenting with Robyn GobbelSummaryIn this episode of All Things Foster, Matthew Darrah speaks with Robyn Gobbel about the importance of connection and community in parenting, especially for those dealing with trauma. They discuss Robyn's journey into trauma work, the impact of her book, and the metaphors of the owl, watchdog, and possum to explain emotional responses. The conversation emphasizes the significance of co-regulation, the creation of a supportive community through the club, and the immersion program for professionals. Robyn shares insights on how to navigate parenting challenges and the importance of compassion for both parents and...

2025-09-021h 05

Lessons from the Playroom Special: How to Teach Kids & Caregivers About the Brain with Robyn GobbelIn this insightful episode, Lisa Dion is joined by the incredible Robyn Gobbel, MSW, to talk about a topic that has never been covered before on this podcast but is crucial for clinicians working with kids: teaching children about the brain. Robyn, a true brain enthusiast, has a new book out titled Raising Kids with Big Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work! This powerful resource blends relational neuroscience with practical tools and applications, making it the ultimate guide for parents who want to understand and transform their children's challenging behaviors into safety and connection. After listening...

2025-04-1544 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 208: Bravely Being With Grief with Rose LaPiereRose LaPiere LPC, RPT-S, and ACS invites into a space of safety and connection so we can make room for grief. Rose brings her own experiences of grief to her work as a play therapist (and co-leader in Robyn’s immersive training program for parenting professionals, Being With) so she can bravely welcome in, and be with, her client’s big, at times overwhelming, feelings. In this episode, you’ll learnThe importance of authenticity, naming, and acknowledge even really really hard feelingsThe role of playfulness is processing griefThe importance of self-compassion for the grown-u...

2025-02-1150 min

TILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children Robyn Gobbel on Raising Kids with Big, Baffling BehaviorsIf you’ve ever used the word “baffling” when describing your child’s behavior, this episode is for you. My guest is Robyn Gobbel, an expert in relational neuroscience and interpersonal neurobiology, the author of Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work and the host of the podcast The Baffling Behavior Show.As a psychologist, Robyn has always been passionate about working with those kids who have more tricky or extreme behaviors, and she does that by harnessing the power of neuroscience. Through her work with families, she decodes the latest brain science into eas...

2025-01-0941 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}REPLAY: You Aren't Doing it WrongYou aren’t parenting wrong. It’s not your fault. Asking “What am I doing wrong?” is the wrong question! Here’s what be curious about instead.In this episode, you’ll learn:That you’re not doing it wrong (well, not any more wrong than anyone else)A more helpful to question to ask ourselves when our kids are strugglingWhy having kids who are never dysregulated isn’t the goalResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookInfluence Behaviors, Not Control https://robyngobbel.com/influencebehaviors/Read a the ful...

2024-12-3134 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}REPLAY: Grief in ParentingRobyn explores the grief in parenting kids with vulnerable nervous systems In this episode, you’ll learn:The relationship between trauma and griefWhy it's important to make space for grief in our kids and in ourselvesThe role of self-compassionHow a lack of media representation of your parenting journey causes griefResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/griefApplications for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program are now...

2024-12-2637 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}EP 203: An Underwhelming Grand Reveal!Hey everyone, this is Alex, Robyn's son and podcast editor. To be 100% honest, we forgot to record a podcast for this week. Luckily, I have stepped in to fill the podcast void and to make my grand reveal!In this episode, you’ll learnWhat my voice sounds like!Why we didn't get a new episode out for y'all.Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/grandreveal :::Grab a copy of my book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJ...

2024-12-1008 min

AASR Live Making Sense of Even the Most Baffling Behaviors: An Interview with Robyn GobbelPlease join us for “Making Sense of Even the Most Baffling Behaviors: An Interview with Robyn Gobbel.”Robyn Gobbel, MSW, loves coffee, P!NK, and everything about the brain. Once (recently!) her teenager went ballistic on her for getting ANOTHER (glitter!) coffee mug in the mail. Robyn loves cultivating deep, resonant connections with anyone who is up for it, and is especially fond of all the grown-ups in the world who love and care for kids impacted by trauma- helpers, healers, educators, and parents. Robyn's favorite thing ever (besides glittery coffee mugs) is teaching anyone who w...

2024-11-221h 17

Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons 95. Protecting Connection with Our Kids: Brain Science Insights with Robyn GobbelIn this insightful episode, the Vallottons sit down with Robyn Gobbel, an expert in relational neuroscience and interpersonal neurobiology, to discuss a transformative approach to understanding and supporting children's challenging behaviors. Robyn shares her journey from being a psychotherapist to becoming a dedicated advocate for families, particularly those dealing with complex trauma or adoption histories. The conversation centers around her influential book, Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies That Really Work, which has been a key resource for the Vallotton family as they navigate their daughter’s sensory modulation challenges. Robyn’s guidance encourages parents to look beyo...

2024-11-1348 min

Regulation Revolution Ep 20 Talking about Big Baffling Behaviors with Robyn GobbelIn this engaging episode of Regulation Revolution, hosts Amy and Barry sit down with Robyn Gobbel, author of Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors, to explore the vital role of silliness as a protective mechanism in children. Together, they discuss how humor and play can serve as powerful tools for emotional regulation and connection. Robyn shares her unique metaphors for understanding nervous system states and functioning, helping parents and caregivers navigate the complexities of their children’s behaviors. The conversation highlights the importance of supporting parents without judgment, focusing on compassion rather than accountability for factors beyond their control. Tu...

2024-10-3057 min

Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children TPP 396: Robyn Gobbel on Raising Kids with Big, Baffling BehaviorsIf you’ve ever used the word “baffling” when describing your child’s behavior, this episode is for you. My guest is Robyn Gobbel, an expert in relational neuroscience and interpersonal neurobiology, the author of Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work and the host of the podcast The Baffling Behavior Show.As a psychologist, Robyn has always been passionate about working with those kids who have more tricky or extreme behaviors, and she does that by harnessing the power of neuroscience. Through her work with families, she decodes the latest brain science into eas...

2024-08-0644 min

The Rising Beyond Podcast Ep 101: The Protective Parent’s Guide to Parenting with Guest Robyn Gobbel, MSWIf you have ever felt powerless to help your children as they behave in ways that let you know that they are hurting or scared inside, this episode is for you.Parenting is hard even when you are not having to manage all that comes with post separation abuse; which includes the guilt and shame of what your children are experiencing.So, what can you do to help them and parent in a way that will build their resilience and foster your connection?I am so honored to share this conversation with Robyn...

2024-05-2951 min

Journeys With PDA Coffee Chat Podcast EP 19: Special Guest: Robyn Gobbel- Big, Baffling BehaviorsSend us a textIn this episode, Heather and Kerissa chat with Robin Goebel, a former therapist and play therapist, about supporting children with big baffling behaviors and vulnerable nervous systems. Robin discusses her shift from focusing solely on trauma to a broader understanding of neurodivergent minds and the impact of the autonomic nervous system on behavior. She emphasizes the importance of understanding behavior as a response to safety or lack thereof, and the need to support the nervous system rather than trying to control or change behavior. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by...

2024-05-231h 09

Regulated & Relational Ep 68 - Exploring Baffling Behaviors with Robyn GobbelIn this episode, Julie and Ginger invite Robyn Gobbel into the studio. Robyn loves cultivating deep, resonant connections with anyone who is up for it, and especially loves teaching anyone who will listen how to harness the power of neuroscience so they can cultivate deep, resonant connections, too. Robyn says, “Really, what would change in the world if we could all see, be with, feel, and deeply know each other…and ourselves. I think everything would change!” Before the COVID-19 pandemic, Robyn was a therapist for almost 20 years, specializing in complex trauma, attachment, and adoption. Now, she create...

2024-04-0248 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}{REPLAY} Grief in ParentingRobyn explores the grief in parenting kids with vulnerable nervous systems In this episode, you’ll learn:The relationship between trauma and griefWhy it's important to make space for grief in our kids and in ourselvesThe role of self-compassionHow a lack of media representation of your parenting journey causes griefResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/griefApplications for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program are now...

2024-03-0137 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}REPLAY: What does "Vulnerable Nervous System" mean?What is a vulnerable nervous system and how do you know if your child has one? Understanding what is meant by "vulnerable nervous system" can help you support your child with big, baffling behaviors.In this episode, you’ll learn:What do I mean by vulnerable nervous systemHow to know if your child has a vulnerable nervous systemWhat causes nervous system vulnerabilityHow to support a child who has a vulnerable nervous systemResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/Attachment Series ebook: Robyngobbel.com/ebookThe Cl...

2024-02-1632 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}EP. 164: Attachment Science in Action- A conversation with Jessica SinarskiIf you’ve ever wanted to eavesdrop on a conversation between two attachment, trauma, and neuro-nerds, today is your chance.Robyn and her dear friend and colleague, Jessica Sinarski, got together a few weeks ago for a live webinar to chat about how they have turned attachment science into practice.If you missed that webinar, here’s your chance to listen in.In this episode, you’ll learnWhy most therapy trainings are inadequate for working with children with trauma and attachment historiesHow Robyn & Jessica learned how to put attachment scienc...

2024-02-061h 04

Immerse Yourself In Your Ears To A Spellbinding Full Audiobook.Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors by Robyn GobbelPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/22661to listen full audiobooks. Title: Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors Author: Robyn Gobbel Narrator: Robyn Gobbel Format: mp3 Length: 9 hrs and 43 mins Release date: 01-18-24 Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 84 ratings Genres: Children's Health Publisher's Summary: Parenting and neuroscience expert Robyn Gobbel is here to reveal how all behavior, no matter how baffling, can be explained and remedied. You just need to look past the behavior and understand what's going on inside. Robyn decodes the latest brain science into easy-to-understand principles and metaphors to help you become an expert in your child's behavior...

2024-01-189h 43

Power-Up With A Full Audiobook That Is Simply Award-Winning.Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors by Robyn GobbelPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/22661to listen full audiobooks. Title: Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors Author: Robyn Gobbel Narrator: Robyn Gobbel Format: mp3 Length: 9 hrs and 43 mins Release date: 01-18-24 Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 84 ratings Genres: Children's Health Publisher's Summary: Parenting and neuroscience expert Robyn Gobbel is here to reveal how all behavior, no matter how baffling, can be explained and remedied. You just need to look past the behavior and understand what's going on inside. Robyn decodes the latest brain science into easy-to-understand principles and metaphors to help you become an expert in your child's behavior...

2024-01-189h 43

Get Lost In A Breakthrough Full Audiobook On Your Commute.Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors by Robyn GobbelPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/22661to listen full audiobooks. Title: Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors Author: Robyn Gobbel Narrator: Robyn Gobbel Format: mp3 Length: 9 hrs and 43 mins Release date: 01-18-24 Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 84 ratings Genres: Children's Health Publisher's Summary: Parenting and neuroscience expert Robyn Gobbel is here to reveal how all behavior, no matter how baffling, can be explained and remedied. You just need to look past the behavior and understand what's going on inside. Robyn decodes the latest brain science into easy-to-understand principles and metaphors to help you become an expert in your child's behavior...

2024-01-189h 43

Fight Like a Mother When Parenting is Traumatic with Robyn Gobbel My guest today is Robyn Gobbel, therapist and parent educator. Robyn Gobbel, MSW, loves coffee, P!NK, and everything about the brain. Once (recently!) her teenager went ballistic on her for getting ANOTHER (glitter!) coffee mug in the mail. Robyn loves cultivating deep, resonant connections with anyone who is up for it, and is especially fond of all the grown-ups in the world who love and care for kids impacted by trauma- helpers, healers, educators, and parents. Her favorite thing ever (besides glittery coffee mugs) is teaching anyone who will listen to harness the power of neuroscience...

2024-01-1758 min

Launch Your Private Podcast 018: Robyn Gobbel's Broad Approach to Private Podcasts (including a START HERE feed!)Join us as we sit down with Robyn Gobbel, a national bestseller author and a passionate educator as she shares how she uses private podcasting in her programs, for her launches, and as a lead magnet!0:51 Robyn's initial discovery and exploration of private podcasting.6:37 Insights into Robyn's creative and flexible approach to podcasting in business.10:21 Robyn's approach to nurturing potential clients through podcasting.12:06 Audience reception and adoption of podcasting as a learning tool.24:00 Utilizing a start-here podcast for onboarding and audience orientation.25:46 Robyn's perspective...

2024-01-1035 min

Calm the Chaos Parenting Is Your Kid’s Baffling Behavior Rooted in Trauma? w/ Robyn GobbelEPISODE 34: Sometimes, our kids show behaviors that leave us utterly perplexed. Like when your child suddenly kicks out of nowhere or when nothing seems to work for them. Or when their emotions switch from "I want nothing to do with you!" to “I need you, I need you, I need you,” all within 60 seconds. These are the moments when we feel utterly helpless, unsure of why this is happening and how to respond. This often leads us to feelings of guilt, a sense of failure, isolation, frustration, and sometimes, even resentment towards our own child.S...

2023-11-2842 min

Empowered to Connect Podcast [E166] Robyn Gobbel on Raising Kids with Big Baffling BehaviorsOn today's episode, one of our faorite guests is BACK to talk about her incredible new book. It's our friend Robyn Gobbel and her book, Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain, Body, Sensory Strategies that Really Work, is one of our favorite parenting books ever. Robyn talks about why she wrote this book, the thought behind her creative approach of weaving narrative and instruction together and why she felt so strongly to approach the book in a non-traditional way. We also dive deep into some of the strategies and practical advice in the book including what an Owl...

2023-11-0749 min

2 Adoptive Mamas Scaffolding and Kid's Baffling Behaviors with Robyn GobbelThe Main Thing:Robyn Gobbel is just the kind of person who needs no introduction, because the minute you meet her, her passion for children from hard places comes alive. Robyn joined us for Episode 96 to talk all things neuroscience, the "scaffolding" concept, and what to do with the "baffling behaviors" that sometimes push us to the edge. Her practical approach to relational neurosciences is transforming the journey for helpers, healers, educators, and parents. We're so grateful she agreed to join us on the show --- this is one you won't want to miss, no...

2023-10-2446 min

The Most Important Medicine Connection or Protection: How we understand children's behavior with Robyn GobbelFriends - You're in for a treat! I'm chatting with my friend and colleague, Robyn Gobbel. Listen as we talk about relational neuroscience, understanding complex behavior, and why all behavior is adaptive in nature. You'll also hear Robyn talk about her 3 core tenants to understanding children AND a sneak peek into her book Raising Kids with Big Baffling Behaviors which is out NOW! RESOURCESDr. Amy's NewsletterLearning Collaborative - The ConnectED Collab InvitationDr. Amy YoutubeFREE DOWNLOADSTop 10 Guiding Principles When Working with Children & Families

2023-10-0449 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 153: Marshall Lyles & Robyn Gobbel Talk about Writing #RKB3Marshall Lyles is here with me today to help me reflect on the journey of bringing Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors into the world.I knew Marshall was just the person to ask to help me with this. He asked questions I was so grateful to reflect on. Thank you for witnessing this experience for me and allowing me to accompany your journey.Book!!!-Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to order now!Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/talkaboutwriting

2023-09-261h 02

Therapy Chat 400: Helping Children + Families With Attachment Injuries - With Robyn GobbelWelcome back to Therapy Chat! This week, in celebration of our 400th episode of Therapy Chat, I'm sharing my recent interview with Robyn Gobbel, a former therapist who now focuses her time on writing and educating about what she calls "big, baffling behaviors," and teaching children and families to understand their Owl, Watchdog and Possum brains. Robyn is demystifying child behavior by making neuroscience relatable. She shares about her work, the communities she hosts, and her new book, Raising Kids With Big, Baffling Behaviors. This is a must listen episode for anyone who wants to gain understanding of why ch...

2023-09-221h 09

Real World Parenting Navigating a Vulnerable Nervous System and Big, Baffling Behaviors with Robyn GobbelIll behaviors make sense, even the ones that don't. In this episode, Dr. Laura Anderson invites Robyn Gobbel to explore vulnerable nervous systems and tools for regulating your child's big stress behaviors. They explore the neurobiology of lying, changing our expectations around trust, and setting psychological boundaries. Robbyn Gobel has been described by a student as "neuroscience with heart, wrapped in glitter and fun." Before the COVID-19 pandemic, Robyn was a therapist for almost 20 years, specializing in complex trauma, attachment, and adoption. Now she creates communities and educational experiences grounded in regulation, connection, and felt safety for parents and professionals...

2023-09-1545 min

The Unteachables Podcast #32: Teaching Kids with 'Big Baffling Behaviours': The Science of Opposition with Robyn Gobbel.In this episode I speak to the incredible Robyn Gobbel, and when I say you’ll want to listen to this, you should really trust me on this one.Robyn is a former therapist turned author, podcaster, educator, and community creator, supporting the grown-ups who care for kids with vulnerable nervous systems and big, baffling behaviors. Her work has been with children with histories of complex trauma, through which she takes a relational neuroscience approach to understanding what behaviour REALLY is. She draws from interpersonal neurobiology, attachment theory, the neurosequential mod...

2023-08-081h 02

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 141: Peaceful Discipline & Story Teaching with Sarah R. MooreIn this podcast episode, Robyn Gobbel interviews Sarah R. Moore, the author of Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior, and founder of Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting. Sarah was working a corporate job when as a new mom, a conversation with a pediatrician who discouraged her from responding to her baby's cries ignited a fire in her to research and understand the importance of responsive parenting. This experience led her to empower parents and caregivers by providing evidence-based information and support.In this episode, you’ll learn:The basics of conscious parentingThe importance of curiosity and...

2023-07-1156 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 137: Disappointment: A Sneaky Cause of Baffling BehaviorsAn episode exploring the feeling of disappointment as an underlying cause of many baffling behaviors.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why and how we avoid feeling disappointmentThe neurobiology of disappointmentBehaviors associated with avoiding disappointmentThe importance of embracing disappointmentResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/disappointmentApplications for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program are now open! You MUST be on the waiting list to apply! Ge...

2023-06-1347 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 136: Making Sense of Baffling BehaviorsAn episode all about the evolution of the podcast and how the name change will reflect the vast audience of families with children who have baffling behaviors. In this episode, you’ll learn:The origins of the podcastThe huge impact of the podcastWhy we're renaming the show Who the podcast is forResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookThe Neuro Immune podcast series: http://RobynGobbel.com/NeuroimmuneSeriesRead a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/bafflingbehaviorshowApplications for the...

2023-06-0635 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 135: You Aren't Doing it WrongYou aren’t parenting wrong. It’s not your fault. Asking “What am I doing wrong?” is the wrong question! Here’s what be curious about instead.In this episode, you’ll learn:That you’re not doing it wrong (well, not any more wrong than anyone else)A more helpful to question to ask ourselves when our kids are strugglingWhy having kids who are never dysregulated isn’t the goalResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookInfluence Behaviors, Not Control https://robyngobbel.com/influencebehaviors/Read a the ful...

2023-05-3037 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 134: What if Trauma Informed... Isn't?We cannot be trauma informed without changing our beliefs about human behavior. In this episode, you’ll learn:How staying focused on behavior is objectifying and dehumanizingWhy we cannot heal vulnerable nervous systems with objectifying approachesHow our culture sets parents up to believe good parents are in control of their kids behaviorsHow to begin deconstructing these beliefs so we can stay in our owl brainResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookHas Trauma Informed Become A Behavior Modification Technique? https://robyngobbel.com/traumainformed/Influence Behaviors, Not Control https://rob...

2023-05-2341 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 129: Grief in ParentingRobyn explores the grief in parenting kids with vulnerable nervous systems In this episode, you’ll learn:The relationship between trauma and griefWhy it's important to make space for grief in our kids and in ourselvesThe role of self-compassionHow a lack of media representation of your parenting journey causes griefResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/griefApplications for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program are now...

2023-04-2537 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 122: What does "Vulnerable Nervous System" mean?What is a vulnerable nervous system and how do you know if your child has one? Understanding what is meant by "vulnerable nervous system" can help you support your child with big, baffling behaviors.In this episode, you’ll learn:What do I mean by vulnerable nervous systemHow to know if your child has a vulnerable nervous systemWhat causes nervous system vulnerabilityHow to support a child who has a vulnerable nervous systemResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/Attachment Series ebook: Robyngobbel.com/ebookThe Cl...

2023-03-2829 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 121: How Toxic Shame HealsPart 3 of a 3 part series on toxic shame discusses how toxic shame heals and gives parents a map for how to be with kids who experience toxic shame.In this episode, you’ll learn:There is no technique or tool to heal shameWhat toxic shame really needs in order to healThe role of memory reconsolidation in healing toxic shameWhy holding the truth for our kids mattersResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClubPrevious Podcast Episodes:Trauma, Me...

2023-03-2139 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 120: What Does Toxic Shame Look Like?Understanding how your child's - or your - behaviors protect against re-experiencing toxic shame and what it looks like will help you along the way to healing toxic shame.In this episode, you’ll learn:What behaviors might you see that are related to toxic shameHow and why behaviors protect us from re-experiencing toxic shameHow Internal Family Systems helps us make sense of these behaviorsHow toxic shame can protect us from experiencing the grief of alonenessResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/The Club: RobynGobbel.com/Th...

2023-03-1445 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 119: The Neurobiology of Toxic ShameUnderstanding the neurobiology of toxic shame helps us understand how to begin to change this for our kids.In this episode, you’ll learn:What is the difference between shame and toxic shameWhat is the neurobiology of toxic shameHow does toxic shame develop?Why do good things trigger shame for some people?Robyn's book is available for pre-order!!!Resources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClubRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/toxicshame...

2023-03-0745 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 118: How Can The Club Help my Family? Q&AThe Club is currently welcoming new members and I know you have questions- questions that ultimately boil down to:Is The Club right for me and my family?How can The Club help?I also answer very practical questions like:What’s Included in The Club? (so much!)How much direct interaction do I get with Robyn (lots!)Is it easy to quit when I’m ready? (YES!)Welcome to the Friday Q&A series! I’m answering listener questions every Friday on the podcast.For all the details about The Club and to joi...

2023-03-0339 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 117: How I've Strengthened my Psychological BoundariesRobyn shares her personal journey with strengthening her own psychological boundaries.In this episode, you’ll learn:Robyn’s experience as a client in a therapy settingAllowing others to have their own emotional journeys without interferingCaring for your watchdog and possum brains with your owl brainThe title for Robyn’s book coming out September 2023!!! Pre-order HEREResources mentioned in this podcast:Being With Directory: RobynGobbel.com/BeingWithDirectoryParent Course Directory: RobynGobbel.com/ParentCourseDirectoryThe Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClubPodcast with Juliane Taylor Shore: https://robyngobbel.com/boundaries3/Read...

2023-02-2854 min

Adult Child 101 - The Neuroscience of Toxic Shame w/ Robyn GobbelToxic shame is the core belief that “I am bad. I am unworthy. I need to hide my authentic self from the world in order to be loved and accepted” and a hallmark symptom of the Adult Child Trauma Syndrome.In today's episode, I am joined by psychotherapist Robyn Gobbel, LMSW-Clinical, to discuss the neuroscience of toxic shame, it's roots in childhood, how to identify it in children, and its connection to insecure & disorganized attachment styles. Robyn has over 15 years of practice in family and child therapy experience, specializing in complex trauma, attachment, and adoption. She is the...

2023-02-221h 11

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 112: The Problem with a RAD diagnosis- Friday Q&A series"I’m so confused about the RAD diagnosis. My son’s therapist suggested it but everything I read online is scary and hopeless. Help!"When parents get a diagnosis of RAD (or it even gets suggested!) they head straight to Google.What they find is terrifying!That's the problem with RAD as a diagnosis!In this episode, I give a new framework for considering what's underneath the behavioral symptoms that lead to a diagnosis of RAD- and why this reframe is crucial to treatment.Welcome to Fridays in February Q&As...

2023-02-1023 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 102: Telling the Truth to Adopted Kids- Even When it's Hard with guest Marcella MoslowIn this episode, you’ll learn:How to talk with kids about tricky topics likeWhy they were relinquished for adoptionWhy they can’t see their familyWhy their family doesn’t want to see themWhy their family has gone on to have a new familyResources mentioned in this podcast:Marcella’s new podcast! Adoptees DishListen on SpotifyFollow on InstagramRobyn’s podcast series on memoryhttps://robyngobbel.com/traumamemorybehavior/https://robyngobbel.com/mentalmodels/Robyn’s eBook and video series on memoryhttps://robyngobbel.com/course/traumamemorybehaviors/Read a...

2022-11-1555 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}{BONUS} Helping Kids with Toxic ShameA short note from Robyn...This episode is a recording of a social media post and a post I made in The Club a while back.Loving someone who is held captive by toxic shame is so so hard. I hope this short episode gives you a little understanding of toxic shame and self-hatred, as well as a few practical ideas about how to be with a child who is stuck in a pit of toxic shame.The Club On-Demand Video Library houses a three-part video training on the neurobiology of t...

2022-09-3012 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}{BONUS} When Parenting Advice HurtsA short note from Robyn...This episode is a recording of an email I previously sent out.Sometimes good parenting advice can actually leave us feeling more alone, isolated, and yes- hurt.It's not bad advice. It's just not enough.In this episode I mention my interview with Marshall Lyles about Ableism and Parenting, as well as my ow memes and reels (LOL- oh the irony) over on Instagram.Read the transcript at https://robyngobbel.com/whenparentingadvicehurts/:::Grab a copy of my book R...

2022-09-2309 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}{BONUS} A Kayak Fell on My HeadA short note from Robyn...This episode is a recording of an email I previously sent out.New skills- like hoisting a kayak over your head or staying regulated in the face of utter chaos- take a lot of practice. Sometimes shame gets in the way of continuing to practice, and I easily feel the tug toward 'it's too hard. I should give up...'It is hard. Sometimes you need to rest. Sometimes you can keep going. Sometimes a kayak falls on my head.You can read...

2022-09-1607 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}REPLAY: Bethany Saltman with A Mother's Journey into the Science of AttachmentBethany Saltman is the author of part memoir part biography Strange Situation- A Mother’s Journey into the Science of Attachment. Bethany is a professional researcher, writer, and longtime Zen student who went searching for what she felt was missing when she was a new mom. Like myself, Bethany discovered Dr. Sears’ The Baby Book on attachment parenting when she was pregnant with her now 15-year-old daughter (my son is 15 and almost the exact same age!) and had expectations about what motherhood and parenting was going to look like: a blissful time where she enjoyed the natural awaken...

2022-03-2257 min

Empowered to Connect Podcast [E72] Let's Talk About Lying with Robyn Gobbel Let's talk about lying. It's time. Every time we mention lying there are exponentially more shares of content, comments, questions, dm's - all of it - so it's time to talk about it! And who better for us to talk about it with than our good friend Robyn Gobbel?? Robyn joins us to talk about ALL OF IT - why do our kids (and you and I, let's be honest) lie, how do we deal with it, what are we missing here and how can we restore connection after a break in trust due to lying? We cover all of i...

2022-02-2251 min

The Trauma Therapist Episode 565: Caring For Families with Robyn GobbelRobyn Gobbel, LMSW-Clinical, has over 15 years experience working in the field of child and family therapy, specializing in complex trauma, attachment, and adoption. She is a therapist, trainer, and consultant who recently relocated to Grand Rapids, MI from Austin, TX.Robyn’s diverse clinical training includes EMDR (including EMDR adapted for children with attachment trauma), Somatic Experiencing, Theraplay, Trust Based Relational Intervention®, Circle of Security Parent Educator, The Alert Program® and Yogapeutics Aerial Yoga Level 1 Teacher Training. Robyn has integrated these training modalities with a foundation of attachment theory and the relational neurosciences to create an attac...

2021-12-0230 min

Empowered to Connect Podcast [E57] Robyn Gobbel Crossover Episode!It's a special episode of the ETC Podcast today! A few weeks ago, one of our favorite people, Robyn Gobbel, sat down with our host JD Wilson to talk about moving from correction-based parenting to connection-based parenting for her podcast. They talked about how hard the transition can be, the letdown of realizing you're not the parent you wanted to be and how to begin again by building trust and connection with your self and your kids. The conversation was so fun and encouraging that we wanted to share it here with our audience as well! It's...

2021-11-0252 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}The parts of The Club that are Hard to DescribeYou've probably heard- The Club is open for registration from now until October 5, 2021!There are parts of The Club that are super easy to describe and there are parts of The Club that feel almost impossible to describe.If you're thinking about joining The Club, here's my best attempt at showing you what The Club is all about. In this episode I mention how there are basically no rules for membership- except that all members agree to The Club manifesto. Yup, we have a manifesto. It's not creepy, promise. In fact, it might be...

2021-10-0116 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Special Invitation to a Private Pop-Up Podcast!Hey everyone- it’s Robyn! I wanted to let you know about a surprise, pop-up podcast called The Confident & Connected Parent that starts today. It’s a five-day, five-episode private podcast that will walk you through the same roadmap I’ve taken thousands of parents so they can become their child’s own expert.This private pop up podcast is parents and professionals who are tired of playing behavior whack a mole with some of the most baffling and confusing behaviors. You’ve had too many experts tell you too many different thigns to do, and often...

2021-07-1702 min

Empowered to Connect Podcast [E42] Throwback Episode: There is No Such Thing as Self Regulation with Robyn Gobbel [E25 Replay]Today we bring you a throwback episode! Our whole ETC team is in the process of packing up to move into an amazing new space (that we can't wait to show you) here in Memphis, Tennessee, so we thought it'd be helpful to re-share one of our favorite episodes in case you missed it. One of our favorite humans, Robyn Gobbel, joined us a few months back to talk about a blog post she wrote entitled "Self Regulation Doesn't Exist" (you should definitely read it)! Robyn Gobbel is a therapist, speaker, podcast host, webinar creator and more a...

2021-06-0230 min

Therapist Uncensored Podcast Trauma-informed Therapy with Children, guest Robyn GobbelLearn more about the science of trauma and what heals. For parents and for therapists treating children and adults - Robyn Gobbel has resources to support you in addressing dysregulation and in applying the neuroscience of attachment.

2021-03-1053 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 21: Jessica Sinarski on Shifting the Paradigm- for Everyone!Jessica Sinarski stays very busy making an impact wherever she can. Jessica trains educators, parents, and professionals- helping them move beyond trauma informed. Jessica is the founder of Brave Brains, an organization that provides resources and education for professionals, and is the author of two amazing children's books. Jessica has a lot of ways she's impacting the world and we get to hear about some of the amazing things she's doing. Jessica and I also have the opportunity to talk about lifting the shame for struggling parents and validating the experience of blocked care. Hearing how Jessica passi...

2021-03-0953 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 20: Why Do I Get So Dysregulated?Or mad? Or scared? Or overwhelmed? Or shut-down?Why do I make a mountain out of a mole hill? Why can’t I keep it together? Being ignored (or yelled at or cussed at or disrespected or refusing to eat or do a chore or or or or the list is endless) is never going to feel good. But- have you ever wondered why your brain goes into full on attacking watch dog mode when the reality is- refusing to do a chore, go to school, or even being ignored or yelle...

2021-03-0237 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 19: Aerial Silks, P!NK, and Curiosity: Robyn Gets VulnerableHang on...today's episode is waaaaay different. I wanted to feel more connected to you. So I started with inviting you to feel more connected to me. I asked my dear friend Anne- author, writing coach, and adoptee, to interview ME.I gave her no rules, no script, and no agenda except that I wanted you to get to know me better.We walk down a little of different paths together in this episode- we talk about how structure creates felt-safety and a little bit of what it's like to live in my (lou...

2021-02-2345 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 18: Child always dysregulated? Try this!!!Connection. Empathizing. Offering choices. These parenting ideas sound good in theory but if you are living with a child who seems chronically angry or won’t get out of bed or is otherwise pretty much always unhappy or dysregulated- none of those parenting suggestions seem to do much good. So…what should you do instead???This episode takes you through the three places I always recommend parents start first when they are trying to support their child who feels chronically dysregulated.1. Food, water, and movement2. Structure, routing, and predictability3. Stick closeThese may or m...

2021-02-1633 min

Empowered to Connect Podcast [E25] There is No Such Thing as Self-Regulation with Robyn GobbelOur guest today got our attention when she wrote a blog post entitled "Self Regulation Doesn't Exist" (you should definitely read it)! Robyn Gobbel is a therapist, speaker, podcast host, webinar creator and more and she joins us today to do a deep dive into the topic of self regulation and what is actually happening in the brain when we are distressed and then brought back in to regulation. You'll also hear Robyn call this phrase by a different name that helps bring clarity to what is actually happening when we help our kids (or our grownups) learn to...

2021-02-091h 00

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 17: Felt-Safety: What's the Big Deal?Felt-safety is an important, yet commonly misunderstood part of parenting a child impacted by trauma (well really, parenting any child or being in any relationship, but we are talking about parenting kids impacted by trauma here).So- what even is felt-safety? Why does it matter? And how do we offer it to our children? I'll answer these question in this podcast! Applications for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program are now open! You MUST be on the waiting list to apply! Get on the waiting list at RobynGobbel.com...

2021-02-0929 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 16: Mark Vatsaas Helps Parents Feel Seen and HeardIt's hard to write a summary of this episode because it is so rich with goodness.Mark Vatsaas is a dad and parent coach for parents of kids with challenging behaviors. He's compassionate, clear, articulate, and has a knack for seeing straight through to the heart of the manner (that's my observation of him!!)There are so many brilliant sound bytes in this episode. It's long but you are going to want to listen to the whole thing.Mark gives us a peek into his process as a parent coach and describes how he...

2021-02-041h 22

Attachment Theory in Action Robyn Gobbel: Interpersonal Neurobiology and Play Therapy - Part 2Karen welcomes Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, MSW, RPT-S back to the show for the conclusion of their two part discussion on interpersonal neurobiology. Robyn Gobbel is a psychotherapist who is currently focused on teaching, training, and writing. Her clinical focus has always been children with a history of complex trauma and their families.

2021-02-0247 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 15: Lying as a Trauma Driven BehaviorLying is probably the behavior parents seek support with the most. It's confusing. It's triggering. It's exhausting. Did you catch last week's episode on X Ray Vision Goggles? We can use those goggles to get underneath the lying so we can respond in ways that actually sets the boundary and increases the possibility of helping our children developing more socially and relationally appropriate behaviors. Would you rather about Lying as a Trauma Driven Behavior? Check out my blog! https://robyngobbel.com/lying/Applications for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immers...

2021-02-0231 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 14: Eileen Devine and Brain First ParentingMy first podcast interview!!! And I tell you what- I chose wisely :) Eileen is a gem and you'll adore her.Eileen is a social worker and parent coach for parents of kids with brain-based difference that have challenging behavioral symptoms. AWESOME, right?Over the years, Eileen has become a good friend and close colleague. She is doing life-changing work with the families who work with her in her Brain First Parenting Program and Resilience Room. I can't wait for you to meet her!Check out all the goodness Eileen offers to the world at ht...

2021-01-2833 min

Attachment Theory in Action Robyn Gobbel: Interpersonal Neurobiology and Play Therapy - Part 1Karen begins an all new series of conversations by welcomeing Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, MSW, RPT-S to the show for part one of their two part discussion on interpersonal neurobiology. Part two will be released on Tuesday, February 2nd. Robyn Gobbel is a psychotherapist who is currently focused on teaching, training, and writing. Her clinical focus has always been children with a history of complex trauma and their families.

2021-01-2628 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 13: X-Ray Vision Parenting SuperpowerHear me out....If I were in charge of giving out superpowers for parents, especially parents of kids with a history of trauma, I'd give you x-ray vision.Attachment research is clear about the power of x-ray vision (except they call is reflective functioning and mentalizing). It is a powerful ingredient of secure attachment.In today's episode we will explore what kinds of things x-ray vision would tell us about our children and their behaviors and why it matters.It matters. A lot. Seeing through behaviors to what's underneath is one of the mos...

2021-01-2633 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 12: Imperfect Parenting is PerfectWhat if I told you the science is very clear- that our kids do not need perfect parents. Not only that, but perfect parenting would be bad for them!It might seem great in theory if we could always meet our kids needs. It might sound great in theory if someone else could always meet our needs! But when a relationship has a rupture- the next thing that can happen is the repair.Repair is like drizzled honey. Repair is like nestling into the most magically comfortable bed ever created. Repair is where it's at.

2021-01-1931 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 11: Changing How We See People Changes PeopleYou've heard me say "Changing How We See People Changes People." Let's talk about how I know this is true. It helps us understand why understanding the theory is a 'technique' and why staying regulated 'is a technique' that creates real, true change. We come to know who we are through the eyes of the other. Let's teach our children they are precious and full of infinite worth. Even when their behaviors are difficult.In the episode, I reference episode 2- No Behavior is Maladaptive- as well as a blog article by the same name. You ca...

2021-01-1238 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 10: Not Flipping Your Lid...When Your Kid Flips TheirsHow do we not flip our lids when our kids are going bananas? It's HARD. Because dysregulation is quite literally contagious!! And if we flip our lids too then it's usually pretty hard to deescalate the situation. Offering connection, regulation, and felt-safety to our kids is a lot easier if we don't flip our lids! (Although for sure- perfection in parenting is never ever ever required and sometimes, I flip my lid, too!)In this episode, we will look at steps you can take- IN THE MOMENT- of a stressful parenting experience (assuming no one is in lite...

2021-01-0528 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 9: Co-Regulation Before Self-RegulationSelf-regulation is a crucial developmental milestone and I’m thrilled that we are turning our eyes toward self-regulation instead of staying focused on behavior modification through rewards and consequences. At the same time, we must remember that self-regulation is developed through repeated and regular experiences of co-regulation with an attuned, regulated, present caregiver. If children are struggling to use their self-regulation skills, it’s quite possible that they aren’t regulated enough to access those skills. They are getting dysregulated too quickly and need co-regulation before they can be expected to use skills on their own. It is these experience...

2020-12-2933 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 8: Self-Compassion Keeps You RegulatedI love love love talking about self-compassion for two main reasons. #1- Self-Compassion is solidly anchored in the relational neurosciences- and you know how much I love...and need...for things to be anchored in science. #2- Self-compassion has tenacity. There's no way out. Self-compassion has an answer for all your reasons why you aren't worthy of self-compassion. I love that about self-compassion (probably because people describe me as tenacious- especially, relationally). In this episode, we will explore the science of self-compassion. We'll look at why compassion is the neurobiology of change. Why you deserve compassion. Why compassio...

2020-12-2229 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 7: Connection or Protection? The Science of OppositionThe brain has two modes- connection or protection.Protective behaviors include opposition, defiance, aggression- basically, any behavior that doesn't invite connection.If we want to help shift our children's oppositional behaviors, we must first help their brain shift out of protection and into protection!You can read more on my blog: robyngobbel.com/connectionorprotection/An article about felt-safety: robyngobbel.com/feltsafetyAn article about oppositional behavior: robyngobbel.com/oppositiondefiancecontrolApplications for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program are now open! You MUST b...

2020-12-1830 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 6: What's Regulation Got To Do With It?In a word...EVERYTHING.I talk about regulation constantly. So let's take a moment (or 25 minutes) and really define what that even is.This episode defines regulation and then defines why it even matters.When we can see how regulation is underneath behavior challenges, we can prioritize supporting regulation and not just stopping a behavior. This leads to long-term change, not just a short term band-aid solution.Seeing our children's behavior challenges as regulation challenges means we see them for who they really are. It allows us to stay more regulated and...

2020-12-1431 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 5: Saying the Unsayable with Special Guest Anne HeffronOOOOH...y'all are in for such a treat because Anne is just that. A treat. Anne is an author, writing coach, and adoptee. Her memoir, "You Don't Look Adopted" is pure gold. It's heart-wrenching and funny and raw and life-changing. You should read it.But first listen to our little conversation today about the importance of figuring out how to say the unsayable. The thing is...whatever is unsayable is always THERE. We just need to find a way to say it. And you know what...you don't even have to say it with words. You can r...

2020-12-0830 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 4: Tracking Arousal- Not BehaviorThe key to true, long-lasting behavior change is actually to stop focusing on behaviors. Stop trying to change them. Stop the charts. Stop the behavior modification. Stop the rewards. Stop the punishments.Read that again. How does that feel? Like a relief? Like terror??Both?Staying focused on behaviors, rewards, consequences, charts, stickers….it’s all just so exhausting. It’s exhausting because it doesn’t really work and because it’s pulling us out of integrity with what’s true. I think all of us have a place inside of us- maybe realllllly buried und...

2020-12-0428 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 3: No Behavior is MaladaptiveThere is no such thing as maladaptive.No. Behavior. Is. Maladaptive.Sure, there are LOTS of behaviors that have pretty big negative consequences…for ourselves and others.But the way the human mind is so brilliantly working all the time leaves me with an unwillingness to negotiate the truth that all behavior is adaptive.This core, unwavering belief creates my personal and professional foundation. It's based on neuroscience- and I explain it in this episode!Watch the original Facebook Live: Facebook LIVES Read the original blog post: No...

2020-12-0425 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 1: Welcome to Parenting after Trauma with Robyn GobbelWelcome!!Parenting after Trauma is the most spontaneous, least frills podcast on parenting children who have experienced trauma. In November 2020, I started doing Facebook Lives so I could quickly and easily connect with parents struggling to raise children who have experienced trauma. Almost immediately I realized I could turn the audios from those Lives into podcast episodes! I know I would much rather listen to a podcast than watch a video- especially if I have to be online to watch it- and I figured that might be true for you, too. This is a no...

2020-12-0406 min

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}Ep. 2: Boundaries with ConnectionBrain-based parenting with connection and coregulation doesn’t mean boundary-less parenting. In fact, if you are parenting a child who is a little delayed with regard to developing self-regulation, this type of parenting actually means MORE boundaries.But boundaries aren’t consequences or punishments.Boundaries are the supports your child needs to be successful.It’s a little like toddler proofing. Toddlers aren’t untrustworthy, misbehaving, or sneaky because they explored the stairs and then fell down. Toddlers are just doing their toddler thing with their toddler brain. It’s our job as the adults...

2020-12-0427 min

Community Routes Episode 52: Off the Beaten Path with Robyn GobbelHi neighbors! This week Sarah and Julie sit down and talk with therapist Robyn Gobbel, who focuses on the science behind dysregulation. Julie, Sarah, and Robyn all dive into dysregulation and what happens in the mind at that time. They discuss how regulating children and adults have many similarities. Julie and Robyn take the time to dive into adoption and how dysregulation plays into adoptive families. You can find more information about Robyn at robyngobbel.com --- Reach out and start a conversation with us! We would love to hear from you on...

2020-11-2451 min

Foster Care: An Unparalleled Journey Trauma Informed Humans with Robyn Gobbel lcsw, rpt-sBeing a trauma-informed human is all about learning what trauma is and the best way to handle people (kids in the foster care system, adopted kids, adults who have been on either journey, and pretty much anyone else who has experienced trauma in their lives). Robyn Gobbel is a psychotherapist who is currently focused on teaching, training, and writing. Her clinical focus has always been children with a history of complex trauma and their families. Last summer, she closed her private practice in Austin, TX, and she and her family relocated to Grand Rapids MI for a sim...

2020-05-011h 07

Why Not Me Academy I Don't Want to Die Here—Creating Your Own Path: Robyn GobbelRobyn Gobbel is a psychotherapist turned speaker, trainer, and writer who woke up one day and told her husband "I don't want to die here..." in Austin, TX. In the next 18 months, Robyn turned her occasional teaching, traveling, and speaking business into a full-time business that allow her family to move absolutely anywhere they wanted. She now speaks, trains, travels, and writes full-time while being the sole financial provider for her little family of three. Robyn: https://www.instagram.com/robyn.gobbel/ https://whynotmeacademy.com

2020-04-1528 min

Stable Moments Podcast Human Informed vs. Trauma Informed with Robyn Gobbel, MSW, LCSWToday we sit down with Robyn Gobbel to discuss how parenting kids who have experienced trauma and kids who haven't the same. It doesn't matter if they are bio, foster or adopted, they all still need safety, securing and connection.Here are some take aways.The best thing we can do when triggered by our kid is to stop and assess what is going on with ourselves. Working on yourself will free you up to be more available for a child whether it is your child or just one you interact with.Rather...

2020-02-2656 min

RESILIENT, STRONG, CONNECTED Interpersonal Neurobiology for Parents and Partners with Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, RPT-SDr. Mark Vander Ley and Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, LMSW, RPT-S Discuss the basic concepts of Interpersonal Neurobiology for Parents and Partners. Robyn offers an overview of the important concepts as well as implications in a variety of situations. We are challenged to look beyond behaviors and understand what is happening on the inside of our family members. Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, LMSW, RPT-S has over 15 years of practice in family and play therapy experience, specializing in complex trauma, attachment, and adoption. Robyn is a therapist, trainer, and consultant who recently relocated to Grand Rapids, MI from Austin, TX. Robyn...

2020-01-2042 min

reFRAMED Podcast Presented by the Gladney Center for Adoption reFRAMED S2 E2: Grief & Transitions with Robyn GobbelGuest Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, RPT-S, joins reFRAMED Podcast Host, Emily Morehead, LPC, to talk about grief and transitions in the adoption and foster world. While adoption is beautiful, sometimes there are hard places before reaching the final destination. Robyn has found throughout her practice that the littlest information or even a script is enough to help parents to know how to talk to their child about transitions and grief that are happening or going to happen. Being able to talk through the transitions is like a building block and an empowerment piece. As a therapist, Robyn shared that she...

2020-01-0236 min

Podcast – Creative Therapy Umbrella #19- Movement, Relational Neuroscience, & Trauma, with Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, LMSC, RPT-SOn today’s episode, Robyn shares her experiences as a clinician and her current shift into developing educational opportunities for therapists, parents, and caregivers. Robyn discusses the role of relationship in therapy, doing self-of-therapist work, how movement can be a powerful tool in therapy, and the importance of being over doing. Robyn has a ton of trainings available on her website, so don’t forget to check that out to learn more!Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, LMSW, RPT-S has over 15 years of practice in family and play therapy experience, specializing in complex trauma, attachment, and adoption. Robyn is a therapist, trainer, and c...

2020-01-0200 min

Around The World With The Archibald Project 50. How To Help Your Child Thrive During the Holidays With Adoption Therapist Robyn GobbelSurviving the holidays on their own can be hard enough, and helping your children with complex trauma can sometimes feel insurmountable. From lack of routine, to sugar everywhere, presents, new environments, and family that doesn't understand; the list just goes on. And, let’s be honest: keeping yourself regulated is hard enough. Fortunately, we had the pleasure of talking with adoption and trauma therapist, Robyn Gobbel, to learn healthy practices in keeping our children regulated (and happy) during the holiday season. Not only does Robyn give actionable tips to address triggers, she encourages us to take care of...

2019-12-1140 min

The Trauma Therapist Episode 402: Robyn Gobbel, LCSW. I Haven’t Met A True Self I Haven’t Fallen In Love WithToday I'm very excited to have as my guest Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, RPT-S.When you listen to this episode you'll hear Robyn's passion for supporting therapists in their journey to cultivate presence and authenticity, and all within the context of working with trauma. And yes, this topic gets me very excited!Robyn has over 15 years of practice in family and play therapy, specializing in complex trauma, attachment, and adoption. First, a huge thank you to my sponsors:CPTSD FoundationCPTSD Foundation provides live, daily, peer-led, interactive group calls, in a s...

2019-10-1436 min

Adoption Wise #26: What To Do When Your Child is Out of Control with Robyn GobbelPicture this, your child is falling apart, ramping up, and he's totally flipped his lid. Your fear starts to creep up. How do you make him stop? You've been there, right? So have we. In this week's episode, Robyn Gobbel helps us understand what is happening in us and our kids during times of dysregulation. Then she offers practical tips to help our children regulate. Don't miss her explanation about the importance of matching our children's energy in the moment, which is different from being calm. Links Relevant to this episode: Robyn on Facebook Gobbel Counseling Website Episode 6: Helping Kids P...

2019-02-1256 min

Adoption Wise #25: Regulating Through Movement and Play with Robyn GobbelWhy is it so hard for our kids to stay calm and regulated? And how can we help them learn how to do it? Today's guest, Robyn Gobbel, gives us a great explanation of how our kids' brains respond to stressors. She offers us practical ways to help them regulate through movement that is: Rhythmic Repetitive Relational Somatosensory Links Relevant to this episode: Robyn on Facebook Gobbel Counseling Website Episode 6: Helping Kids Process Scary Events with Robyn Gobbel Episode 26: What To Do When Your Child is Out of Control with Robyn Gobbel The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog b...

2019-02-0552 min

Attachment Theory in Action with Karen Doyle Buckwalter Robyn Gobbel on the Use of Rhythm and Movement in TherapyWelcome to Attachment Theory in Action! Our podcast is dedicated to therapists, social workers, counselors and psychologists who are working with clients from an attachment-based perspective. Interviews are conducted with individuals who are doing clinical work as well as leading attachment theory researchers. Your host, Karen Doyle Buckwalter will introduce you to Robyn Gobbel, who will speak on the use of rhythm and movement in therapy. Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, RPT-S is a psychotherapist specializing in adoption, attachment, and trauma. She is the founder of the Central Texas Attachment & Trauma Center. Robyn works with young children and their families, as well as...

2019-01-0834 min

Attachment Theory in Action Robyn Gobbel on the Use of Rhythm and Movement in TherapyWelcome to Attachment Theory in Action! Our podcast is dedicated to therapists, social workers, counselors and psychologists who are working with clients from an attachment-based perspective. Interviews are conducted with individuals who are doing clinical work as well as leading attachment theory researchers. Your host, Karen Doyle Buckwalter will introduce you to Robyn Gobbel, who will speak on the use of rhythm and movement in therapy. Robyn Gobbel, LCSW, RPT-S is a psychotherapist specializing in adoption, attachment, and trauma. She is the founder of the Central Texas Attachment & Trauma Center. Robyn works with young children and...

2019-01-0834 min