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Believe in Yourself with Rohini
EPI 001 - Welcome to Believe in yourself with Rohini
Welcome to Believe in yourself with Rohini. "Belief is the bottomline for everything we do in life". what we believe about ourselves matters, what we believe about ourselves has an impact on everything we do in life, what we believe about ourselves decides what we do and become in life. How can we change? how can we believe in ourselves unconditionally? how can we make ourselves and our lives better? In this podcast we are going to discuss all this and much more where you can figure out how you can find your tru...
2023-01-11
01 min
ABCDEI
EP39 Apologies, apathy and how to stay committed to the equity journey
We’re back with a two-parter in which Susan Diaz and Rohini Mukherji, our hosts, touch on the state of the world as it relates to equity halfway through 2022. A State of the Union on where people are in the DEI journey as it stands at this moment in history. And while some things have changed, some things really haven’t changed at all. Susan and Rohini dive deep into: 📝 the Pope's apology for the actions of the Catholic Church towards the children of Indigenous peoples in Canada, and what lessons brands can take away from a...
2022-08-04
13 min
ABCDEI
EP36 - What does the inclusive ‘return to office' look like?
ABCDEI is back after a short spring break! This season, we want to really feed into some of what we’ve built through great discussions and feedback. And focus on “conversation in progress”. And this year, no conversations have been more active than the ones around the return to the office! People back in offices in some part, and we're starting to see conversations around everything from whether the dress code changed now that we've seen everybody in pyjamas! Ie: Is the suit over? But more seriously… We spotlight an inclusion perspective on the subject...
2022-04-29
10 min
ABCDEI
EP35 How marginalized communities can take up more space
Today Susan and Rohini are getting personal. What can we do to TAKE UP MORE SPACE? 💫💫💫 Here we are with the second of a two part-episode (Refer episode 33 if you missed part 1), in which we're talking about how to build the inclusion muscle and what are the things that go into the making of an inclusion habit. In the first part, we looked at it from the perspective of privileged, or the person who wants to be an ally. And today, we want to look at it from the perspective of the marginalized - whether b...
2022-02-25
13 min
ABCDEI
EP31 “I want to own your pain” - with Shari Foos
“It's a profound thing to offer an apology. An apology is not dependent on forgiveness and has no excuses. An apology is me humbly coming to you and saying, “Oh, I see that I've hurt you; that I was inappropriate in some way.” And by the way, I may not have intended to hurt you. I may not even agree that it was something for which you should feel hurt. But that's not the concern of the apology. The apology is merely recognizing that you feel hurt based on something I did or said. I want to own own your p...
2022-01-07
30 min
Rewilding Love
EP54 Vulnerability as a Turning Point in Relationships
After 54 episodes filled with heartfelt and thought-provoking conversations, the Rewilding Love podcast reaches its first season final episode. Rohini and Angus share their lessons learned from the journey and their guests. This is what makes Rewilding Love a genuine and life-changing relationship podcast.Taking a journey of vulnerability with your partner opens your eyes to them. So you gain a better grasp of how they think and how they process things. This allows you to be more sensitive to their needs and provide support when necessary.Seeing the value of honest, open, authentic communication helps...
2021-12-20
52 min
Rewilding Love
EP53 Stop Trying To Create a “Perfect” Relationship with Chana and Shaul Rosenblatt
Chana and Shaul Rosenblatt speak to the universal struggles that couples come up against in relationships and share with us the insights that have helped them in their relationship and that they share with the couples they work with. Shaul points out the importance of understanding the role that moods play in how we perceive our partner and Chana shares her journey of respecting the feeling of aliveness and not wasting time being spent caught up in upset feelings. This interview provides a light-hearted exploration of married life where Chana and Shaul share about their humanness...
2021-12-13
1h 21
Rewilding Love
EP52 Pleasing Versus Self-Honoring in Relationships with Angus and Rohini Ross
While it’s normal to want to please partners in relationships, overextension of efforts often leads to conflict. In this episode, Rohini and Angus share their take on how to break the pattern of pleasing our partners without honoring our limitations, while valuing the importance of diversity in relationships. They also talk about how to surpass any feelings of resentment that may arise when the receiver misses out on celebrating the giver’s generosity.It’s important to know our boundaries and articulate our limits to our partners. This is important for “pleasers” in a marriage who have a ten...
2021-12-06
49 min
Rewilding Love
EP51 Doubting Your Doubts with Melissa Palazzo Hart
This episode is an insightful conversation with entrepreneur, coach, and Rewilder Guide Melissa Palazzo Hart about doubting our doubts and ultimately letting go. We also get to hear Melissa’s powerful poem which perfectly encapsulates the feeling of finally accepting ourselves as we are in the here and now.Melissa shares her experiences with self-doubt and self-esteem issues, despite all the success and happiness in her life. One milestone and success point after another, she continued to look for the perfect pieces for her life to fall all in line.Melissa’s emotions can be felt...
2021-11-29
59 min
Rewilding Love
EP50 Our Stories of Neurodiversity with Angus and Rohini Ross
Every relationship includes two people often with different neurological orientations living in their separate realities. In this episode, Rohini and Angus share how they navigate neurodiversity in their relationship. Their brains work very differently, and they have different strengths and weaknesses. You will get to hear some of their hilarious escapades.Here are some teasers, Rohini lacks coordination when it comes to physical activities, while Angus is a gifted athlete and loves sports. Rohini loves to talk, while Angus needs time to organize his thoughts and says much less. During their conversations, Angus sometimes has to connect...
2021-11-22
42 min
Rewilding Love
EP49 Following My Deeper Wisdom with Alvin Dawkins
This is a beautiful conversation with recording artist and Rewilding Guide, Alvin Dawkins, about the unshakable truth of who we are at our core despite our circumstances. We also get a special sneak preview reading from Alvin's forthcoming memoir, From Prison to Purpose, which chronicles Alvin's birth in prison to his being adopted and growing up in Alabama during the harrowing Jim Crow era, to his discovery of music and his true spiritual essence. Alvin reminds us that no matter what we've been through, the wisdom behind life -- this creative energy force that infuses us all, re...
2021-11-15
1h 09
Rewilding Love
EP48 Do We Have Freewill? with Angus and Rohini Ross
Inspired by remarks Tanner Zagarino made in our previous episode, we wanted to explore the themes of personal responsibility and free will.When talking about how we generate our experience of life from the inside out, this may sound like we are saying that we have control over what we experience, since it's dependent on our internal perceptions. But while it is true that our experience is created from the thinking we identify with in the moment, it's not true that we are in control of what we experience, any more than we're in control of what...
2021-11-08
46 min
Rewilding Love
EP47 Freedom to Be Me with Tanner Zagarino
We had a great time speaking with one of Angus's long-term clients, and actor, Tanner Zagarino about the impact this understanding has had on his career, relationships, and wellbeing.In his early days working with Angus, Tanner experienced a significant shift in understanding after Angus helped him to see that the flow state emerges naturally from being present. In that moment Tanner reflected on how all the times he feels most at ease, and happiest is when he is fully present with not much on his mind. Seeing the common denominator in this allowed him to leverage...
2021-11-01
1h 19
ABCDEI
EP27 C is for code-switching
In this curated episode we bring together 2 discussions. The first with Romesh Hettiarachchi, a commercial lawyer, and the second between Susan and Rohini on the microaggressions that compound and lead to many marginalized individuals' submissive reactions in the face of bias. Romesh tells the story of when he was setting up his firm. He had a number of different directions to consider. The first was to name it after himself, and why he chose not to go that route. He details some of the non-financial factors of decision-making like comfort, fit, perhaps quite key, the ability to...
2021-10-29
13 min
Rewilding Love
EP46 Having Room for Humanness in Relationships with Angus & Rohini Ross
Making room for our partner's humanness is important for the health of relationships. It is helpful to understand the inner workings of the nervous system that are at play when we and our partners are caught up so we can see their psychological innocence. Realizing that our fight, flight, or freeze responses are involuntary can help us take our partner's behavior (or lack thereof) less personally. Ultimately the fight, flight, and freeze responses are meant to keep us safe. Our nervous system is triggered inside of us when we perceive we are in danger -- we have n...
2021-10-25
47 min
ABCDEI
EP 26 Grace, empathy, and asking for change with Darian Kovacs
How do we open up doors and break down barriers for Indigenous peoples to get work? To get mentorship? And to be leaders in that sector? Darian Kovacs asks “what if we equipped Indigenous folx with the best education, the best resources, the best credentials, and let them loose into the world of marketing and advertising? And what if they happen to rise up as the leaders? Because they're incredibly brilliant people that are resilient, understanding, and empathetic of stories and storytelling because of the way they are brought up in their...
2021-10-22
40 min
Rewilding Love
EP45 Dawn Wesolek: A Fresh Perspective on Problems
We talk with Dawn Wesolek, Business and Career Coach, Rewilding Guide, and student of the Three Principles, about how her relationship to problems in her life has completely transformed. Dawn now sees how when she doesn't get caught up in her analytical machinery she is much better able to navigate life's challenges. She sees challenges as opportunities for learning and growth rather than as problems.Since seeing her relationship with her own wisdom as her primary relationship, all the other important relationships in her life have improved. For example, she used to think her child needed to b...
2021-10-18
55 min
Rewilding Love
EP44 Angus Ross & Rohini Ross: Embodying Our Full Experience
Angus and Rohini talk about the healing power of embodying the full human experience, or put another way, the full breadth of human emotions. They each reflect on how they used to turn to coping mechanisms to avoid their more painful emotions, but these strategies just made the experience more difficult and had a negative impact on their relationship. Their coping mechanisms tended to push the other away. It's in resisting our emotional experience that we suffer. As Sydney Banks, the man whose teachings inspired ours, said: "if the only thing people learned was not to be...
2021-10-11
54 min
Rewilding Love
EP43 Becs Steele: The Freedom of Releasing Expectations
We spoke with Rewilding Guide and Registered Nutritional Therapist, Becs Steele, about her tumultuous experiences with pregnancy, due to a rare genetic disease, and how looking back she can see now that her expectations about what her life was supposed to be like were adding to her anxiety. This exacerbated her health issues. During the years of trying for a second child, Becs suffered from several health conditions including autoimmune thyroid, endometriosis, rosacea, and anxiety. She now pinpoints them as symptoms of the stress she was going through. Upon learning about the understanding behind the Rewilding metaphor, B...
2021-10-04
1h 14
Rewilding Love
EP42 Angus Ross & Rohini Ross: Cultivating Desire
Rohini and Angus talk about the journey they've been on with desire and intimacy in their marriage and their reflections on, and insights around, how they overcame the challenges they experienced in the past.At the beginning of their relationship, sexual desire was spontaneous and Rohini had no issue matching Angus' libido. But as time went on, and as intimacy and comfort ramped up, she found her sexual desire waning. This made her feel self-conscious and wonder if there was something wrong with her. When she became aware of this understanding, found herself feeling more relaxed and...
2021-09-27
44 min
Rewilding Love
EP41 Jacquie Moses: Holding Space for Healing
We spoke with the incredible Jacquie Moses, who supports others with seeing their true potential and innate resilience.When Jacquie learned about the understanding that the Rewilding metaphor is based on, she completely shifted the way she works with clients. Instead of trying to "fix" them, she saw the importance of seeing that her clients are completely whole and well just as they are. This creates a transformative healing space for the people she works with, and for herself as well, as she found that she didn't need fixing either.For several years she delivered...
2021-09-20
1h 33
Rewilding Love
EP40 Angus Ross & Rohini Ross: Navigating Low Moods
Just back from vacation, we wanted to share how to more easily navigate low moods and how seeing them as transient and impersonal can make relationships so much easier and more graceful.Angus has a perfect example of this from our vacation in Hawaii when he was feeling very caught up and upset with our daughters, he stepped outside, and by looking up at the night sky and seeing the moon, he was distracted just enough from his low mood that his mind settled naturally. Once his mind settled, he was able to re-approach the situation with...
2021-09-13
59 min
Rewilding Love
EP39 Angus Ross & Rohini Ross: Rewilding Love Season Recap
We thought we would offer you a recap of season one of Rewilding Love before taking a summer break and take the opportunity to respond to a reviewer who requested we speak more tangibly about the understanding that informs our work. Angus provides a beautiful and comprehensive description of the "Three Principles", one of the names given to the non-dual spiritual teaching revealed to Sydney Banks. Our rewilding metaphor is informed by Syd's teachings, and we have been mentored by many of his original students. Rohini speaks to how this understanding helps relationships and why our...
2021-08-02
1h 05
Rewilding Love
EP38 Nessi Gomes and Lino Hermesh: Healing and Truth Through the Voice
Nessi Gomes and Lino Hermesh, romantic and business partners, created Vocal Odyssey, a workshop designed to help people meet the spirit of their voice. After recently participating in their workshop, Rohini shares with listeners about her experience and invites Nessi and Lino to talk about the healing power of their work.From a young age, Nessi discovered the ability to heal and navigate her emotions by exploring sound. She now shares the therapeutic value of sonic expression along with her professional performances. Initially, Lino sought to manage Nessi's musical career, but following some skepticism, he joined her...
2021-07-26
1h 16
Rewilding Love
EP37 Claire Shutes: Disability Can Be a Pathway for Healing and Growth
Claire Shutes talks with us about what she has learned living with cerebral palsy (CP). Claire was born with CP, a muscular disorder that stems from a lack of oxygen to the brain at birth. She considers herself lucky that only her walking is impacted. Others with the disorder can face further complications. Navigating CP has by no means been easy, but early on Claire came to view her physical limitation as a wonderful gift that's here to teach her life lessons.Claire shares with us some of the struggles she faced while dating in the past. S...
2021-07-19
1h 00
Rewilding Love
EP36 Jennifer Miller-Allgeier: Including and Affirming All Identities
Jennifer Miller-Allgeier beautifully ties together the importance of affirming identities across all gender and sexual spectrums with her own rewilding journey and how it has impacted her marriage and her work. She guides parents on how to speak to their children who have come out or are questioning their assigned gender or sexuality.In her work as a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner, Jenn works predominantly with LGBTQ youth and she helps us understand some of the best ways to affirm and support members of the LGBTQ community, and how to use more inclusive language in our work. She a...
2021-07-12
1h 08
Rewilding Love
EP35 Ami Chen Mills-Naim: Rewilding Activism
Ami Chen Mills-Naim talks with us about how she got into activism, particularly around politics and the climate crisis. She reminds us that spirituality and anger, and/or opposition, are not mutually exclusive, and protesting is often necessary to get the attention necessary for creating any kind of meaningful change. She shows us that we can show up, be human, and learn about - and fight against - grave injustices, without losing touch with our essential nature and oneness.Her grounding and humility have allowed her to learn about her own biases without taking them personally, while...
2021-07-05
1h 18
Rewilding Love
EP34 Aaron Turner: Clarity of Mind and Relationships
Aaron Turner, Ph.D., reminds us with humor and wisdom that we're only ever up against our thinking and that we're always living in the experience of thought. It's powerful to understand how this is universal so as to not try to "beat the system". While we can't escape the way the mind works, we understand how it works so we can open to our deeper knowing and see beyond our conditioned thinking. Aaron learned this understanding from his uncle and aunt, George and Linda Pransky, and while he was skeptical of its truth and impact at f...
2021-06-28
1h 07
Rewilding Love
EP33 Dicken Bettinger: Being Rewilded By Insight
We can't help but relax when we speak with Dicken Bettinger. His way of being is so calming and the way he points to our innate health and wisdom is so clear and grounded. Dicken learned about the understanding we work from directly from Sydney Banks. His life was transformed both personally and professionally after listening to Syd just one time, and he was able to enjoy many more opportunities to be mentored by Syd. Prior to meeting Sydney Banks, Dicken was heavily involved in self-development. After meeting him, Dicken pivoted and dropped self-help and shi...
2021-06-21
1h 16
Rewilding Love
EP32 Yael Abramson: Rewilding Mental Health
**Warning: This episode contains a discussion of sexual violence and suicidal ideation. Please use discretion if you are sensitive to these topics.**Yael Abramson was so generous with us in sharing her life experience and mental health journey. Yael demonstrates our innate resilience and ability as human beings to find freedom from the suffering brought about by hardships and traumas that so many of us are unfortunately confronted with in our lives.For many years, Yael felt at the mercy of manic episodes and periods of deep depression that included persistent suicidal ideation. While she...
2021-06-14
2h 07
ABCDEI
#14 - Radical ignorance - not radical Islam – is a serious problem
Rant alert. The past few weeks have brought so much pain to different marginalized groups in Canada. In today’s episode, Rohini and Susan share their anguish at the hate-fueled killing of a multigenerational Pakistani family out for a walk in London, ON. They reflect on their time spent living in the Middle East and the warmth and acceptance of the Muslim people that made Oman and the UAE feel like home. Finally, they share some advice for leaders about how to create real change to address and end Islamophobia once and for all.
2021-06-11
16 min
Still Waking Up
Understanding IVF
My wonderful mother, Shirnett Khorran-Gajaraj M.D., M.P.H, R.N. is on to talk about the process of IVF and her experiences with it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rohini/support
2021-06-07
35 min
Rewilding Love
EP31 Lila Turner: Rewilding Dating
Lila Turner is uproariously funny and wise as she speaks with us about her incredible work helping singles who have given up hope on finding love.Equipped with the knowledge of the one thing that holds people back - their own state of mind - she is able to help her clients flip their perspective and see it is not the people they're dating that are keeping them from finding a lasting relationship, but rather it's how they are approaching dating.Lila helps her clients to become more aware of their feelings and state of...
2021-06-07
1h 22
Rewilding Love
EP30 Mavis Karn: Listening Is the Foundation for Connection
Mavis is a masterful therapist and coach who has been teaching the Three Principles and working with clients for over 40 years. Being in the presence of Mavis Karn feels like sitting in the ultimate seat of wellbeing, but just as Mavis points out, this feeling is simply a byproduct of us slowing down in the moment and releasing anything from our mind.She teaches us about the importance of listening and how it comes first before anything else when looking to connect with others. Next, it is important to recognize our state of mind, as well as...
2021-05-31
1h 11
Rewilding Love
EP29 Azul Leguizamon: Freedom from Trauma
Azul Leguizamon, valued member of The Rewilders team and life coach, graciously shares with us about her life, including traumatic experiences she went through in her own home while growing up. Her message for anyone who has dealt with trauma in their life is that it is possible to not suffer with it forever.Azul's story is so inspiring. She shares with us about the different levels of insight she has had about her mom throughout her life, and how what she has come to see most recently has been the most liberating. Although her mother's behavior...
2021-05-24
1h 07
ABCDEI
#11 - Policies and not prayers with the Milkshake Sisters
And just like that, we’re kicking off Season 2 of ABCDEI! In episode 1, Susan and Rohini are joined in studio by another dynamic duo – the Milkshake Sisters. Marianna and Angel are activists and educators with a focus on trans rights, with an intersectional lens given their immigrant roots. This episode tackles some tricky unlearning territory: for marginalized folx, it’s resisting the urge to “exhale anger” and for cis-normative/white folx, it’s the need to self-educate and to stop approaching any marginalized group as a monolith. The powerhouse duo leaves us with a serious call to acti...
2021-05-20
28 min
Rewilding Love
EP28 Chip & Jan Chipman: The Power of Presence
This is a powerful and peaceful conversation with Chip and Jan Chipman, who have been teaching this understanding for over 40 years worldwide. We zero in on a couple of themes that emerge naturally throughout the episode: when we're seeking spiritual enlightenment, it actually takes us in the opposite direction and how presence is the key ingredient for having an enjoyable, healthy relationship.Jan and Chip each moved us when describing their initial life-changing insights. In one fell swoop, Jan was able to see her innate beauty, and later Chip saw how surrendering to the peace of the...
2021-05-17
1h 19
Rewilding Love
EP27 Steve Adair: Leading With Love
It's easy to feel an instant heart and soul connection with Steve Adair, life coach and psychotherapist, who we spoke with about his passions in life, including his love for helping others, his appreciation for immersion in nature, and his soul-expanding relationship with his partner Tony.Steve seamlessly lasers through clients' circumstances to their innate wellbeing and love, instantly creating common ground, unconditional acceptance, and spiritual connection with the people he works with. By showing up open-hearted and in touch with his own innate wisdom, he transcends his clients' experiences, bringing them closer to their own hearts.
2021-05-10
1h 07
ABCDEI
#10 - Season 1 wrap: Unlearning out loud
As we come to the end of Season 1 of ABCDEI, co-hosts Susan and Rohini reflect on the lessons they have taken away from the last 10 weeks. The origin story of ABCDEI lies in the deep discomfort of staying silent in the face of inequity and the desire to unlearn out loud through conversations with people with different lived experience. The pair’s reflections touch on topics including self-worth, sponsorship, supportive networks and silence as a privilege in and of itself. Tune in for an actionable look back at some of the powerful and inspirational conversations from season 1.
2021-05-07
10 min
Rewilding Love
EP26: Lainie Barrett: Rewilding Gender
Lainie Barrett (they/them) shares with us how this understanding has impacted both their mental health, through expanded consciousness, and their gender journey, by rewilding to their true nature.Lainie recently came out as trans/non-binary and shares with us about the dissonance they have always felt between how they feel inside and the female gender they were assigned at birth. Historically, they've repressed or ignored this feeling, deciding that they should expand what it means to be a woman, but have recently begun to answer the call of the feeling and dis-identify with their assigned gender...
2021-05-03
1h 26
Rewilding Love
EP25 Scott Kelly: Rewilding Health
We spoke with Scott Kelly, a wellbeing expert, and good friend, about what it means to rewild our physical health.Scott talks about the importance of moving beyond our cultural obsession with symptomology, and no longer viewing symptoms as purely inconveniences but rather invitations from the body to see something different. And while it can be helpful to have a label for something, we tend to hold labels as static information about ourselves rather than seeing our condition as constantly evolving and changing.In our fast-paced society, we rarely slow down enough to expand in...
2021-04-26
1h 05
Rewilding Love
EP 24: Greg Ellis: Off the Clicktrack
World-renowned musician, Greg Ellis discusses the symbiosis between organic music and rewilding. Rewilding anything means we're allowing its natural process to take over. And this is what Greg has done with his music, creating pure instrumental tonics in a sea of synthetic, mechanized sounds.In the music studio, musicians are bound to a click track (digital metronome), which actively measures the time/tempo of the track. This device stifles the drummer's natural rhythmic sensibilities and requires they focus on synthetic time vs. playing in harmony with the other instruments. Greg works off the click track, developing musical...
2021-04-19
1h 08
Rewilding Love
EP23: Derrick Mason: Finding Freedom in Prison
We were deeply touched by our conversation with Derrick Mason. Derrick shares with us his journey from learning the understanding shared by Sydney Banks while in prison, to his role as Director of Beyond Recovery today. Derrick's initial insight involved seeing the psychological innocence of his mother, and the impact of believing the misunderstanding that everything in his life was her fault. During the Beyond Recovery program, he attended in prison, at first just like so many of us he was taking in the understanding from a purely intellectual place. But eventually, after several weeks of still s...
2021-04-12
1h 05
Rewilding Love
EP22: Michael Neill: The Soundtrack of Love
Michael Neill takes us on an epic, eye-opening journey through his awakening to this understanding to his heart-warming relationship with his wife. Learning, rather ironically, that subjectivity is the only objective fact of life, was a paradigm shift that changed his life forever.Michael reminds us of the beauty of keeping it simple -- letting your original feeling of love and attraction to your partner be the basis for your relationship. And allowing the ultimate purpose of your relationship to be to enjoy each other's company. Our conditioning tells us to remain hyperfocused on what could go...
2021-04-05
53 min
Rohini Recites
സ്വപ്നസങ്കീർത്തനം ബാലചന്ദ്രൻ ചുള്ളിക്കാട്
Swapna sankeerthanam(A Hymn to the Dreams) This is a poem written by renowned Malayalam poet Balachandran Chullikkad. Recited by Rohini Punnekkat.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rohini100/message
2021-04-03
04 min
Interesting Lives of Ordinary People
Rohini Rathour - Being Me: My Story
In a change to the usual format of this podcast, Rohini shares a poem that she wrote in a rare moment of creative, poetic inspiration back in May 2020. She also reads a chapter relating to her life story as presented in her book Leading Ladies published in 2016. It provides glimpses of her childhood in India, how she became an accidental immigrant to the UK, her early years of career wilderness until she found the job she once thought would be for life, how she met her husband whom she describes as "like no man I'd ever met before", and m...
2021-03-31
32 min
Rewilding Love
EP21: Christine Heath & Judy Sedgeman: The Renegades
Christine Heath and Judy Sedgeman discuss why they believe psychology has it backward. Psychology looks at things through a "causal lens" whereas Christine and Judy help their clients understand the role of thought in creating their experience. Psychological analysis can be intellectually stimulating, but it doesn't necessarily result in sustainable transformation. Judy and Christine reflect on their fresh look at the fundamental causes of stress and distress, instead of the traditional model of analysis and desensitization. They share how this not only creates a more graceful experience for their clients, but also for themselves. Providing therapy and c...
2021-03-29
1h 02
ABCDEI
#4 - Typecasting, tokenism, collective vision and cancel culture with Ali Kazmi
Celebrity alert! In episode 4 of ABCDEI, actor-director Ali Kazmi joins Susan and Rohini to chat about the challenge of tackling the intersectionality of homosexuality and South Asian culture in Funny Boy, Canada’s Oscar entry this year. He also shares his candid views on typecasting in the entertainment business, the importance of allyship within marginalized communities and the need for more fulsome roles for BIPOC talent. The trio also talked about what Kim’s Convenience did in terms of representation of Korean, Canadian and immigrant identities. About Ali ...
2021-03-26
39 min
Rewilding Love
EP20: George & Linda Pransky: A United Front
Rohini and Angus interview their mentors, George & Linda Pransky. The Pranksys share about how their relationship has evolved over time, and most notably how it changed after they met Syd Banks, the man who first conceptualized the understanding we speak about on this podcast.Linda describes their first year together as volatile and painful. After talking with Syd, they started getting over conflicts in their relationship quicker -- neither of them were taking things as personally anymore. Seeing that they were moving in the right direction together, they could ease up on trying to work to make...
2021-03-22
47 min
Rewilding Love
EP19: Erika Bugbee: Two Keys for Success in Any Relationship
We had the pleasure of sitting down with our dear friend and coach Erika Bugbee. Erika's wisdom is evident in every word she expresses. We cover topics like parenting teens (or children of any age), marriage, and relationships of all forms (even the ones with your in-laws). Erika skillfully uncovers two fundamental keys to having success in any relationship. Showing restraint when we'd rather tear into our partner for their annoying habits, behaviors, etc... goes a long way. We often show restraint in relationships with those who are not our nearest and dearest, but with those, we're c...
2021-03-15
1h 44
ABCDEI
#3 - Recollections may vary
In the last episode of the launch-time binge, Susan and Rohini tackle another topic that has a lot of baggage, especially in the South Asian community. And that is mental health. Susan shares her journey to getting comfortable with the subject. The last year has taught us many things, but a deeper appreciation for mental health is the silver lining we’re choosing to focus on. The hosts also share their take on the #MeghanandHarryonOprah interview with some learnings that anyone – manager, entrepreneur or political leader – can apply in their own lives.
2021-03-13
08 min
ABCDEI
#2 - The good fight
In this episode, Susan and Rohini get real about an important and uncomfortable topic: conflict. Is conflict always bad? No. Is it inevitable in the process of creating systemic change? Yes. Getting comfortable with confrontation can come more naturally when you’re taking on someone else’s cause, but advocating for yourself can be hard. But fight the good fight we must, if equity is the ultimate goal. In this episode, Susan and Rohini talk about the three types of racism and what we can – all – do better when confronted with them.
2021-03-13
17 min
ABCDEI
#1 - Same, same but different
ABCDEI co-hosts Susan Diaz and Rohini Mukherji have a lot in common – South Asian women who came to Toronto via Oman and work in marketing – OK, yes, that’s a lot of common ground, we hear it. But they also have distinct aspects of their identities, especially when it comes to being Canadian immigrants and their differing views on entrepreneurship. In this episode, get to know what makes their journeys so different and what drives them to ask deep questions, be true to themselves and always lead with empathy on this journey of unlearning.
2021-03-13
13 min
Rewilding Love
EP18: Rob Cook: Laughter Happens in the Moment
Rob Cook takes us on an epic journey through his life, from being born and raised in the housing projects of Birmingham, Alabama, to 21 years of active duty service in the military, to moving to L.A. and becoming a transformational life coach. He humbly shares about transitioning from living like he thought he should, to living as a man can -- as a person in touch with their essential nature. Rob takes pages from his past professions to help inform the myriad of offerings he brings to the table today. While many have told him he n...
2021-03-08
1h 18
Interesting Lives of Ordinary People
What this podcast is all about
I'm Rohini Rathour and I want to make being ordinary feel like a blessing. A chance to live freely and to be whoever you want to be without the burden of other people's expectations. One of the best ways we can do this is through stories - through the telling and listening of real life and fictional stories, we can create magic.
2021-03-06
05 min
Rewilding Love
EP17: Dr. Amy Johnson: Relationship is Everything
We had a great time interviewing our friend and colleague Dr. Amy Johnson about the nature of thought and how it impacts our relationships. As Amy points out, we're all in relationship with our thinking about other people and our thinking about ourselves. We can't be in direct relationship with anyone without experiencing them through thought.Amy shares how seeing the role of thought in her life, helped her relax around some of the "problems" she imagined would eventually derail her relationship. Once she saw how she was making it up, she was able to be present...
2021-03-01
1h 00
Rewilding Love
EP16: Your Questions Answered
Rohini and Angus close out their journey with Alicia and Mateo by answering listener questions in this hilarious and informative episode. They draw upon personal experiences and client stories to answer the in depth questions they received.Among other things, the Rewilders clarify for listeners the difference between accepting bad behavior and not taking it personally. They never advocate for people to stay in an abusive or unhealthy situation, instead they stress the importance of knowing that the behavior is not personal. And that sometimes just learning this, paired with understanding that our peace and wellbeing are...
2021-02-22
1h 32
Rewilding Love
EP15: Love Rewilded
Angus and Rohini create a safe space for Mateo and Alicia to meet for a much-needed conversation about Mateo's past trauma and how it's impacted his life and their relationship. Mateo fears Alicia will be enraged at him when he shares about his recent sexual experiences outside of their relationship but is shocked to find she has a different response. Alicia has renewed her relationship with her spirituality, and she credits this for her ability to move forward, forgive, and stay in the present. Rohini relays a story about the power of not listening to her conceptual m...
2021-02-15
1h 24