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The Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastThe Ghost in the Machine: Why You Keep Dating the Same Person in Different Bodies🎠Are you tired of living the same heartbreaking story with a different name?
In this powerful episode of Love, Lies, and Life Lessons, we dive deep into the haunting truth behind repetitive relationship patterns. Why do you feel a chilling sense of familiarity with someone new? Why does the same argument, the same distance, the same emptiness keep appearing—no matter who you choose?
🔍 We expose the ghost you’re trying to resurrect: the unconscious blueprint from past wounds that turns every new connection into a trauma re-enactment. You’re not looking for love—you’re searching for a c...
2026-02-0616 min
Soul Points PodcastUnderstanding When the Soul Is Speaking: Signs, Inner Guidance, Intuition vs Fear & How to Trust Your Spiritual Voice | Soul Points Podcast✨ Have you ever felt a quiet inner knowing that didn’t make logical sense—but it felt true? In this powerful Soul Points episode, we explore how to recognize when your soul is speaking, how to tell the difference between intuition and anxiety, and what it means when your spirit is guiding you through discomfort, endings, and divine redirection. 🌙
You’ll learn the top signs your soul is trying to communicate, why your body reacts before your mind understands, and how to build trust with your inner voice so you stop second-guessing your destiny. 🔥
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2026-01-2918 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastThe Good Man Who Destroys You: Recognizing the Architect of Your Ruin🏗️ What do you do when the person building a life with you is secretly dismantling your soul—and calls it love? This explosive episode of Love, Lies, and Life Lessons exposes the most dangerous partner: the high-functioning “good man.” 🔍 He’s reliable, respected, and publicly adoring—but behind closed doors, he criticizes with logic, pathologizes your needs, and makes you feel lonely in your own relationship.
💔 We dissect The Blueprint of Ruin: how he uses respectability as a weapon, frames your pain as a personal flaw, and turns commitment into a cage of self-betrayal. This isn’t about monsters; it’s about emot...
2026-01-2923 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastLove, Lies, and Life Lessons: The Currency of Loneliness—What Are You Willing to Pay for Companionship?What is the true cost of your loneliness? In this raw and urgent episode of Love, Lies, and Life Lessons, we conduct a forensic audit of the most dangerous transaction we ever make: trading our sovereignty for the anesthesia of companionship. When the desperate hunger to feel chosen overrides our basic boundaries, the price can be catastrophic—eroding self-worth, compromising safety, and paying with pieces of ourselves we can never get back.
We dissect the "Architecture of Acquiescence"—the three psychological walls we build to trap ourselves in mediocre or damaging relationships. We confront the lethal lie that "a...
2026-01-1621 minSoul Points Podcast"The Fractured Lens & The Whole Light: How Your Wounds Reveal Your Soul's Purpose"Your wound is not a mistake—it’s a message. In this explosive episode of Soul Points, discover how your deepest pain holds a direct, coded blueprint for your purpose. Move beyond asking “why me” and learn to decode the soul’s urgent question: “what for?” We reveal how your recurring struggles are actually spiritual curriculum, how to transform raw triggers into profound superpowers, and why the part of you that feels most broken is the precise seat of your strength. This is a guide to spiritual alchemy: stop hiding your scars and start listening to what they’ve been trying to tel
2026-01-1117 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastLove, Lies, and Life Lessons: The Physics of Emotional Gravity—Why We Orbit What Destroys UsHave you ever felt trapped in a relationship by a force that feels as powerful and inescapable as gravity? In this profound episode, we use the metaphor of emotional physics to explain why leaving a destructive partner is so hard. We explore how a toxic person operates like a black hole, warping your reality and creating a trauma bond that mimics love. Learn to identify the lies that keep you in orbit, understand the "event horizon" of your own identity, and calculate the "escape velocity" needed for freedom. We provide actionable steps to build your rocket—through financial, social, an...
2026-01-1019 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastLove, Lies, and Life Lessons: The Action Audit: Seeing Truth in a World of Pretty WordsThe first days of a new year often reveal hard truths. Promises shatter, masks slip, and the painful gap between what is said and what is done becomes impossible to ignore. This explosive first episode of 2026 is a survival guide for when "love" feels like a hostage situation.
We move beyond vague intuition into a forensic examination of behavior. We dissect the specific, documentable actions that form the true architecture of a relationship—not the temporary feelings, but the enduring patterns. This episode provides the tools to conduct your own unflinching "Action Audit."
We confront the...
2026-01-0623 minSoul Points PodcastEnd-of-Year Cleansing & Purging: How to Reset Your Energy, Your Mind, and Your Life for the New YearIt’s the end of the year—and if you’ve been feeling heavy, drained, distracted, or emotionally “full,” that’s not random. In this Soul Points episode, we’re doing a real reset: mental cleansing, emotional purging, relationship release, digital detox, home clearing, and a simple spiritual reset plan you can actually follow. This is how you stop dragging old energy into a new season and enter the new year clear, motivated, and aligned.
2025-12-3019 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastThe Over-Giving Trap: How to Stop Earning Love and Start Receiving It The Currency of Love: Are You Funding Their Love Story?Are you constantly giving more than you get? In this episode, we explore the painful dynamic of over-giving and under-receiving. We'll uncover the Lie that love must be earned, learn the Life Lesson that your worth is inherent, and discover how to build relationships based on the Love of mutual flow, not transactional exhaustion. If you're tired of feeling like a sponsor instead of a partner, this is your guide back to balance.
2025-12-2218 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastLOVE, LIES, AND LIFE LESSONS: — THE ANATOMY OF A CAGE: RECOGNIZING THE LOVE THAT ISN’T LOVEWhat does it sound like when love starts to rot? It doesn’t begin with a scream, but with a whisper. A whisper that tells you jealousy is passion, control is protection, and criticism is care. In this essential, hard-hitting episode of Love, Lies, and Life Lessons, we dismantle the sinister blueprint of emotional abuse—the slow, methodical construction of a cage where the bars are made to look like love.
This is not a conversation about dramatic fights or obvious wounds. This is a forensic examination of the quiet violence of coercive control. We go deep into...
2025-12-1613 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastThe Holiday Heartbreak: How to Mine Your Grief for Gold & Actually RecoverStruggling with a holiday breakup that ruined Christmas or New Year's? This isn't just another "get over your ex" pep talk. In this raw and transformative episode of Love, Lies & Life Lessons, host Ronda guides you through the sacred work of emotional alchemy. Learn how to dismantle the lie of the "ruined holiday," use the "wintering" season for deep self-auditing, and perform practical rituals to reclaim your joy. We dive deep into breakup recovery that leads to true personal growth, teaching you how to get over a breakup by finding the profound lesson in the breakup. If you're feeling lonely...
2025-12-0728 minSoul Points Podcast“When the Soul Gets Crowded: Clearing the Energy You Absorb from Others”This powerful episode of Soul Points dives into one of the most spiritually draining experiences highly intuitive and empathic people face — carrying emotions, energy, and internal clutter that do not belong to them. Many individuals move through life feeling heavy, foggy, tense, or emotionally overloaded without realizing that much of what they’re feeling is not their own. This episode reveals the subtle and often invisible ways your soul becomes crowded with the emotional residue of others.
We explore the psychology of emotional absorption — why certain people take on others’ feelings so easily, why some environments feel draining...
2025-12-0311 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastIs It You or Them? Decoding Ghosting, Breadcrumbing, and BenchingEpisode Description:
Feeling confused, hurt, or erased by modern dating? You're not alone. In this deeply compassionate and empowering episode, Ronda dives into the silent epidemics of ghosting, breadcrumbing, and benching—and why they hurt so much more than a simple rejection.
We go beyond just naming these behaviors to truly understand the psychology behind them: Why do people ghost? What drives someone to breadcrumb? Is benching a form of control? More importantly, we tackle the real aftermath: how these experiences can shatter your self-esteem, trigger old wounds, and create cycles of chasing unavailable partners....
2025-11-3031 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons Podcast“When Jealousy Backfires — The Silent War Women Start When Their Insecurity Meets a Man’s Past”In this explosive episode of Love, Lies & Life Lessons, Ronda dives deep into one of the most secretly destructive issues in modern relationships: the jealousy some women feel toward their partner’s ex — especially the mother of his child. What begins as insecurity quickly turns into obsession, manipulation, and emotional warfare. But when jealousy goes too far and begins targeting children, co-parenting dynamics, and a man’s peace, the consequences are devastating.
This episode follows the dramatic true-to-life story of Marcus, his peaceful co-parenting relationship with his ex Talia, and the unraveling of his new girlfriend Janelle — a woman...
2025-11-2013 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastWhen Trust Breaks: The Truth About Love, Lies, and the Lessons We Never ForgetIn this raw and revealing episode of Love, Lies & Life Lessons, Ronda dives deep into one of the hardest human experiences — broken trust.
What happens when the person who said “I love you” also told the biggest lie?
When truth turns to silence, and love turns into confusion?
Using real stories — including a recent Florida case where a woman impersonated an ICE agent to confront her ex’s new partner — Ronda explores how fear, deception, and control can twist love into something unrecognizable.
But this isn’t just an episode about heartbreak — it’s about transforma...
2025-11-1114 minSoul Points PodcastAncestral Healing: Reclaiming the Wisdom and Wounds That Live Within UsIn this deeply reflective episode of Soul Points with Ronda, we explore the sacred art of ancestral healing — the process of understanding, honoring, and transforming the energy we inherit from those who came before us.
Our ancestors don’t just live in our history books — they live in our bones, our habits, our fears, and our strengths. Their stories shape the way we love, protect, and survive. But within every inherited wound lies an equally powerful inheritance of wisdom.
Ronda gently unpacks how generational trauma travels through families, how silence can become a survival tool, and ho...
2025-11-1114 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons Podcast“Love Is Not Enough: The Practical Pillars Everyone Ignores”Is love enough? The answer is no — and it’s time we talk about it. In this explosive episode of Love, Lies, and Life Lessons, Ronda goes beneath the surface of modern relationship goals to expose the hard truths about compatibility, emotional maturity, and what it actually takes to build a long-term relationship that lasts beyond passion.
We’ve been lied to. Movies, music, and social media told us that love conquers all — but real life says otherwise.
In this raw and unfiltered episode, Ronda dismantles the illusions we’ve been taught about love and dives deep into...
2025-11-0634 min
The Love Lies & Life Lessons Podcast“Max Ehrich Arrested: When Unhealed Love Turns Dangerous.”💔 In this powerful episode of Love, Lies & Life Lessons, Ronda dives into the recent Max Ehrich domestic violence arrest and unpacks the deeper truth behind the headlines — how unhealed love, ignored trauma, and emotional instability can turn passion into pain.
Through raw honesty and spiritual insight, Ronda explores:
✨ Why heartbreak exposes our deepest wounds
✨ The red flags we overlook when we crave love
✨ The psychology of unhealed hearts and emotional control
✨ How accountability becomes the bridge between chaos and peace
✨ The ultimate life lesson — learning to love without losing yourself
This isn’t about...
2025-10-1136 minSoul Points PodcastThe Frequency of Faith: How to Stay in Alignment When Life Tests Your Spirit | Soul Points PodcastIn this deeply transformative episode of Soul Points, Ronda takes you beyond surface-level spirituality and into the heart of energetic mastery. When life starts to unravel, how do you stay grounded in faith? How do you hold your vibration when everything around you is demanding proof?
This episode, The Frequency of Faith, explores the art of spiritual stability—how to regulate your emotions, rebuild your inner foundation, and reconnect to Source through stillness. Ronda unpacks what it truly means to trust your soul’s timing, maintain emotional alignment, and embody peace even in seasons of uncertainty.
Th...
2025-10-0521 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastWhen Loving Them Means Losing Yourself | Reclaiming Self-Worth, Boundaries & TruthEpisode 3: When Loving Them Means Losing Yourself
Have you ever looked in the mirror and realized you don’t even recognize yourself anymore? In the name of love, you silenced your needs, ignored your dreams, and shrank yourself just to hold onto someone else. This episode of Love, Lies and Life Lessons dives deep into the painful reality of self-abandonment—and the powerful journey of reclaiming who you are.
We’ll explore:
The subtle ways we lose ourselves in relationships.
The emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual cost of self-abandonment.
How to...
2025-09-3027 minSoul Points Podcast✨ Soul Alignment: Listening When Your Spirit Speaks | How to Trust Your Soul, Overcome Fear, and Connect to Source✨ In Episode 2 of Soul Points, we dive into the transformative practice of soul alignment—learning how to listen when your spirit speaks and trust the inner voice that guides you. Have you ever felt torn between logic, fear, and intuition? That quiet knowing inside you isn’t random—it’s your soul, leading you back to Source.
In this groundbreaking episode, host Ronda reveals:
đź’« What soul alignment really means across spiritual traditions.
đź’« How to tell the difference between the voice of your soul and the noise of ego or fear.
💫 The warning signs of misalignment—and ho...
2025-09-3034 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastEpisode 2: The Lies We Tell OurselvesSometimes the hardest lies to uncover aren’t the ones told by others—they’re the ones we tell ourselves. In this episode of Love, Lies and Life Lessons, we dive deep into the ways we deceive ourselves in the name of love, comfort, and fear. From convincing ourselves that “things will get better” to believing we don’t deserve more, self-deception can quietly destroy our spirit and keep us locked in cycles of pain.
Join Ronda as she explores why we cling to these lies, the emotional and physical cost of denial, and most importantly, how to break fre...
2025-09-2224 minSoul Points Podcast“What is the Soul? Returning to the True Source”✨ In the very first episode of Soul Points, we begin with the most important question of all: What is the soul? Together, we explore the essence of the soul, why it matters, and how staying connected to Source shapes every part of our lives. Through wisdom, reflection, and storytelling, host Ronda guides you into a deeper understanding of the eternal spark within you—the part of you that never fades, never dies, and always leads you back to truth.
💫 In this episode, you’ll discover:
What the soul truly is across different traditions.
Why the s...
2025-09-2137 minThe Love Lies & Life Lessons PodcastLove Lies & Life Lessons Premiere: When Love Teaches Through PainEpisode 1: When Love Teaches Through Pain
In this premiere episode of Love, Lies and Life Lessons, we begin with the one thing that connects us all—love. Love has the power to make us feel alive, seen, and cherished. But it also has the power to blind us, to make us overlook red flags, and to leave us vulnerable to lies that can break our hearts.
This episode dives deep into the journey we all face: the sweetness of love, the devastation of lies, and the life-changing lessons hidden inside both. Through raw storytelling, soulful re...
2025-09-1938 min
Twisting the Plot12 in 12 Stories with Una Betti, Lori McAndrew and Ronda TamerlanePicture this: you’ve come to a crossroads. It’s time for a change. But, which way do you go? Where do you start? How do you start? In our 12 in 12 program, twelve women meet for twelve months, with each woman starting out in a new direction. Each creates a project of her own design and begins work on it, supported by the group. They decide where to start, and what comes next. How? By constructing individual roadmaps to follow for the year. Each woman’s roadmap envisions a path as well as the inev...
2021-10-1238 min