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Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas062 Play Schema Series - Age Specific Trajectory BehaviourTrajectory Play Schema by Age: What Movement Play Looks Like from Birth to 5+Ever wondered why your baby keeps dropping things, your toddler throws everything in sight, or your preschooler builds elaborate ramps and obstacle courses?In this episode, we explore age-specific trajectory play behaviours from birth through to five years and beyond, giving you a clear roadmap for how movement play naturally evolves as your child grows.The Trajectory Play Schema is all about a child’s deep, instinctive urge to explore how objects, and their own bodies, move through space. This is...
2026-02-1111 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas061 Play Schema Series - Transformation 101Why is my toddler so messy? If your child loves mixing, squishing, pouring, smearing, and turning everyday materials into something new, you’re likely seeing the Transformation Play Schema in action.In this episode, we explore the Transformation Play Schema, one of the most powerful and misunderstood play schemas in early childhood. Play schemas are deep, instinctive urges that drive children’s play and support brain development, learning, and emotional regulation.The Transformation Schema is all about change: how materials change in texture, colour, shape, size...
2026-02-0409 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas060 Play Schema Series - Disconnection 101What is the Disconnection Play Schema? A 101 OverviewHave you ever watched your toddler peel every sticker off a book, pull tissues out one by one, or dismantle a block tower you just built… and wondered why they do it?In this episode, we’re diving into the Disconnection Play Schema, one of the most misunderstood (and often messy!) forms of toddler play.Disconnection play is all about a child’s deep, instinctive urge to understand how things come apart. It’s the opening, pulling, removing, unzipping, unscrewing, tearing, and undoing that helps children...
2026-01-2806 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas059 Play Schema Series - Connection 101What is the connection play schema… and why does your child seem driven to tie, tape, build, and join everything together?In this episode, we’re starting with a foundational question: what exactly is the connection schema, and why does it matter so much in early childhood development?Schemas are deep, instinctive urges that drive children’s play. They aren’t random behaviors—they’re the brain’s way of building foundations for lifelong learning. And the connection schema is all about how things join together… and sometimes how they come apart.From tying objects to...
2026-01-2107 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas058 Tired of “New Year, New Me”? Try a Family Preset InsteadJoin the free 2026 Family Preset: https://playschemas.com/presetFeeling tired already, and the year’s only just begun?If “new year, new me” feels more exhausting than motivating, this episode offers a different way forward.In this episode, Ruth introduces the 2026 Family Preset, a free, gentle, 5-day guided experience designed especially for parents of young children. No pressure. No hustle. Just clarity, connection, and small shifts that make family life feel lighter.Instead of fixing everything, this is about deciding what really matters, and setting your family up for a calmer, more c...
2026-01-0707 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas057 How Play Can Transform Your Parenting in 2026Join the 2026 Family Preset waitlist! Preset week is 12th-16th January 2026.The new year can feel full of pressure, new routines, new goals, and the quiet expectation that everything should suddenly feel more “together.” But if you’re parenting a toddler or preschooler and your day still involves toast on the floor and snack requests five minutes after breakfast, you’re not doing it wrong.In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re welcoming 2026 with a gentler, more grounded perspective on parenting, one that replaces overwhelm with understanding and helps you reconnect with what really...
2025-12-3108 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas056 From Baubles to Tantrums: How Play Schemas Can Transform Your Christmas Day with ToddlersJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!If you'd love a ready-to-go cheat sheet with all the schema explanations and ideas from today’s episode, you can download the free Christmas Play Schema Guide at playschemas.com/free.Ever wondered why your child suddenly throws baubles across the room, moves everyone’s presents to the opposite corner, or mixes their entire Christmas lunch into one giant “experiment”?In this episode, we take the stress, confusion, and guilt out of those big festive behaviours, and replace...
2025-12-1715 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas055 Less Stuff, More Play: Creating a Connected ChristmasJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!If your living room has ever looked like a toy shop exploded on Christmas morning, you’re not alone. The wrapping paper, the noise, the overstimulated kids… and that quiet thought in the back of your mind: “How did we end up here again?”In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, host Ruth Vercoe brings a fresh, reassuring perspective to the festive season, one that’s grounded in child development, play-based learning, and realistic expectations...
2025-12-1009 min
Juggernaut 2: The Story of the Fourth National GovernmentEpisode 6: The Prime Minister Is Not a PersonNew Zealand’s first MMP government gets off to a rocky start, beset by boxer-short scandals and lousy poll numbers. Jim Bolger declares “springtime for New Zealand”, but the economic weather won’t play ball. He leaves for Europe oblivious to the plans being cooked up by a small, secretive group of MPs called “The Te Puke Bypass Committee”.
When Bolger returns from overseas, Doug Graham is there to deliver the news – Jenny Shipley has the numbers; the game is up. Many are relieved, many distraught. Winston Peters is furious. The frost between Peters and Shipley never thaws, and bef...
2025-12-081h 02Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas054 The Secret Language of Play: How to Read What Your Child Is Telling YouJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Have you ever watched your toddler throw toys, empty your handbag for the tenth time, or spin in circles until they fall over, and wondered, why on earth are they doing that? This episode will help you finally make sense of it, and trust your child’s play in a whole new way.In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving into one of the most powerful, and often misunderstood, parts of early childhood development: play schema...
2025-12-0307 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas053 Water Play + Play Schemas: 10 Ways Kids Learn Through Splashing, Pouring & PlayJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Why is your toddler obsessed with pouring, tipping, splashing, and carrying cups of water around the house?In this episode, Shelly from HapiTap and I dive into the world of water play through the lens of play schemas, so you can finally understand what your child is learning every time they head straight for the tap, bath, or puddle.If you’ve ever wondered “Is this normal?” or “Why does water play keep them so focused?”, this episo...
2025-11-2628 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas052 A Playful Christmas: Understanding Your Child’s Play for Calm, Joyful HolidaysJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Is your toddler more interested in the box than the toy this Christmas? You’re not alone, and there’s a reason behind it!In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re kicking off our festive three-part miniseries, A Playful Christmas, exploring how understanding play schemas can bring more calm, confidence, and connection into your holiday season. If you’ve ever wondered why your child throws, spins, hides, or moves things around, this episode explains exactly what’s happening...
2025-11-1910 minJuggernaut 2: The Story of the Fourth National GovernmentEpisode 3: Bugger the PollstersAfter some of the most hectic months in the history of New Zealand politics, Jim Bolger faces a white-knuckle byelection in Tamaki. In the seat vacated by the pugnacious Rob Muldoon, even the National candidate seems to be standing against the government.
With the impacts of radical and painful reforms still raw, a general election rapidly approaches. It will go right down to the wire, and serve up an unforgettable pair of election night speeches from Bolger and Mike Moore.
On the left, a new force challenges Labour for supremacy: Jim Anderton’s Alliance. Helen Clar...
2025-11-1753 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas051 Nourishing Nutrition for Mums: Preconception to Postpartum with Hannah EriksenJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!How can mums nourish themselves through conception, pregnancy, and beyond? NZ dietitian Hannah Ericksen from oh Goodness Nutrition joins Ruth Vercoe to unpack nutrition for mums , the real, practical kind. From the “first thousand days” to postpartum recovery, discover how small changes can make a lifelong impact for you and your baby.You’ll learn:Why the first thousand days are so important for baby’s lifelong healthThe 3 food groups every mum needs more of (and how to make it...
2025-11-1227 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas050 Create a Connected, Calm, and Joy-Filled Christmas with Your ChildJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!What Your Child Really Wants for Christmas (It’s Not What’s Under the Tree)This week on Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe is joined by Linda from The Thriving Home and The Connection Couple to explore what truly makes Christmas magical... connection. If you’ve ever felt torn between creating a picture-perfect holiday and actually being present with your kids, this episode will help you slow down, simplify, and reconnect.Linda shares her and her husband M...
2025-11-0521 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas049 Connect Before You Correct: Parenting Neurodiverse Kids with CompassionJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever wondered how to truly connect with your neurodiverse child, especially when life feels like one long guessing game? In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, host Ruth Vercoe welcomes Sarah from We Are Equal — a mum of four, early childhood teacher, and passionate advocate for neurodiversity, to share the five powerful lessons she wishes she’d known going into parenting her autistic son. From navigating “safe foods” and understanding sensory overload to handling social pressures, stimming, and affection i...
2025-10-2934 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas048 Dinovember, Dinosaurs & Play Schemas: Turning Toddler Chaos into ConnectionJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Discover the Magic of Dino-vember, and the Hidden Learning in Your Child’s Play!What if your child’s love of dinosaurs could actually help you understand why they play the way they do?In this fun and insightful episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe dives into Dino-vember, that magical month where toy dinosaurs mysteriously come alive overnight, and reveals how it’s so much more than a playful tradition. It’s a unique opportunity to connect...
2025-10-2211 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas047 Why Knowing Your “Normal” Could Save Your LifeJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!What if prioritising your own health could be the most important thing you ever do for your children? In this powerful and deeply honest conversation on Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe talks with Tamara Milne, a radiographer and mum who was just 33 and weeks away from welcoming her second baby when she received a life-changing diagnosis: breast cancer.Tamara shares how knowing her normal and performing regular self-checks quite literally saved her life, and how every par...
2025-10-1518 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas046 How Play Builds Language: The Secret Link Every Parent Should KnowJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Did you know your toddler’s everyday play is secretly building the foundations for language and communication?If you’ve ever worried about whether your child is talking “enough,” or wondered how you can best support their speech and confidence, this episode will give you the reassurance and practical strategies you’ve been searching for.As parents, we often look for ways to help our children learn—but the truth is, the most powerful tool is already happening ri...
2025-10-0824 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas045 Everyday Moments Matter: Turning Daily Routines Into Language-Rich OpportunitiesJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!How does play shape your child’s speech and language?If you’ve ever wondered whether those endless games of peek-a-boo, block towers, or toy tea parties actually do anything for your child’s speech development, you’re not alone. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play | Play Schemas, we’re unpacking the fascinating connection between play and speech, and how understanding this link can help you feel more confident in supporting your child’s growth with Paige O'Dwyer from T...
2025-10-0122 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas044 From Mess to Meaning: Baking and Child Development with Play SchemasJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever felt like baking with your toddler is more mess than magic? You’re not alone. But what if I told you that the flour on the floor and the endless stirring are actually signs of learning in action?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I share the 10 main play schemas and how they show up while baking gingerbread with your little one. From pouring flour (trajectory) to lining up cookie cutters (positioning) to covering cookies in spri...
2025-09-2412 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas043 Baking with Kids Made Easy: Create Memories, Not StressJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever thought about baking with your toddler but stopped yourself because of the mess, the chaos, or the fear it’ll all go wrong? You’re not alone. Many parents love the idea of baking with their kids but find the reality overwhelming.Flour on the floor, sticky fingers everywhere, and a kitchen that looks like a tornado hit... sound familiar?Baking with children isn’t just about producing perfect cupcakes. It’s about connection, learning, and making m...
2025-09-1716 min
Your Best Life : Confidence And Clarity For Moms Building Aligned Businesses37. How One Mom Turned Her Teaching Background into a Business – A Mom Story with Ruth from Play SchemasIn this very first Mom Story guest episode, I sit down with Ruth — teacher, mom, and founder of Play Schemas. She started this business after seeing how many parents felt frustrated or unsure about how to play with their kids — and knew her background in play schemas could help turn that chaos into connection. Through her podcast and membership, she’s now helping other parents feel more confident and connected in their everyday play.We talk about how she balances full‑on parenting and a job while growing something new, what it’s really like starting from scratch, a...
2025-09-1737 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas042 Five things I wish I knew about Birth and Postpartum with Jade from Your Mama JourneyJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Feeling overwhelmed after birth? You’re not alone.In this week’s episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I’m joined by Jade from Your Mama Journey. A mum, an accredited mental health social worker, and the creator of beautiful guided journals designed to help women reflect on their birth and postpartum journeys.Like many of us, Jade expected her birth to go one way… and then it went another. An emergency C-section changed everything, and while she held h...
2025-09-1024 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas041 Do Twins Really Need to Share Everything? 5 Insights for Twin ParentsJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Parenting twins is a beautiful gift but, it can also feel overwhelming. From double nappies to double tantrums, everything feels doubled. And when it comes to sharing, many parents wonder: Should twins always share? What if they’re constantly fighting over the same toy? How do I teach fairness without endless meltdowns?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I’m joined by Smadar, a New Zealand–based twin specialist and founder of Twinful Life. With more than 15 years of...
2025-09-0323 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas040 5 Messy Play Tips Every Parent Needs with Sam from Messy MatesJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Messy play can feel like chaos… but what if it’s actually one of the best things you can do for your child’s learning, confidence, and connection?In this episode, I sit down with Sam, founder of Messy Mates, to talk about the hidden magic of messy play and how parents can make it easier (and less stressful!) to bring into everyday life.What we cover:Why messy play is a developmental goldmineHow it boosts creati...
2025-08-2714 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas039 New Baby, New Balance: How to Care for Yourself While Caring for Your BabyJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Bringing a new baby into the world is magical, but it can also feel overwhelming. Between sleepless nights, adjusting to life as a bigger family, and trying to find time for yourself, it’s easy for mums to feel stretched thin. That’s why this week, I’m joined by Ally from @EntwinedParenting, who shares her 5 top tips for welcoming a newborn into the family, with a big focus on looking after yourself as a mum.This episode is all abo...
2025-08-2022 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas038 Welcoming a New Baby? Help Your Toddler Adjust with Less Stress & More ConnectionJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!If you’re a parent of a toddler or preschooler and you’ve got a newborn on the way, you already know it’s about to be a season of big feelings, big changes, and a whole lot less sleep. Between preparing the cot, stocking up on nappies, and navigating your own emotions, it’s easy to wonder: How will my little one cope when the baby arrives?In this practical episode of Demystifying Child’s Play | Play Schemas, I’m sharin...
2025-08-1411 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas037 Sibling Conflict & Play Schemas: A Guide for Parents of ToddlersJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Is your home filled with cries of “Muuuum, he took my toy!” or “She wrecked it again!”?If so, you’re definitely not alone and you’re absolutely in the right place.In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play Through Play Schemas, we’re diving deep into a topic every parent of more than one young child knows all too well: sibling conflict. But instead of seeing these daily dust-ups as something to avoid or “fix,” we’re reframing them as o...
2025-08-0709 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas036 You Can Always Make More Memories, But You Can’t Make More TimeJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!If you’re a parent of toddlers or preschoolers, you’ll know that feeling all too well—time seems to slip through your fingers. One moment your baby is crawling, the next they’re racing across the playground with fearless determination. The days feel long, but the years pass quickly, and it can leave us wondering: Am I making the most of this time with my child?In this heartfelt episode of Demystifying Child’s Play | Play Schemas, I share a ve...
2025-07-3109 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas035 Throwback Episode: The Magic Behind Repetitive Play | Episode 002Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!“Why is my toddler always dropping things, spinning, or hiding under the table?”If you’ve ever found yourself asking this (or wondering if it’s normal)... this episode is for you.Hi, I’m Ruth from The Play Schemas Collective, and I help parents make sense of their child’s play, so you can stop second-guessing and start enjoying the magic of toddlerhood (meltdowns and all 😉).In this episode, we’re...
2025-07-2320 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas034 Why Is My Toddler Always Throwing Things? Understanding the Trajectory SchemaJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever wondered why your toddler throws their food, launches toys off the couch, or can’t stop running back and forth? It’s not just chaos - it’s science in action.In this episode, I’m giving you exclusive access to one of the most-loved modules from The Play Schemas Collective - all about trajectory play. You’ll learn to spot the everyday signs that your child is exploring this powerful play schema, and most importantly, what it’s...
2025-07-1709 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas033 Getting Outside as a Family with Guest AdivaJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Feeling overwhelmed by the idea of getting your kids out the door for a walk or a play at the park? You’re not alone. But what if those muddy puddles, long car rides, and slow wanders were actually building blocks for your child’s development?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I am joined by Adiva, founder of @LittleTrailsNZ and mum of four, to talk about the power of outdoor play — and how it supports strong family b...
2025-07-1015 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas032 Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor Now & Play Freely With Your Kids | Guest CarenJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Is your pelvic floor holding you back from truly enjoying play with your kids?You’re not alone — and this episode is here to help.Whether it’s needing to cross your legs when you sneeze, quietly avoiding playing chase the backyard... not to even mention the fear of hearing 'Mum's turn' when it comes to the trampoline. Pelvic floor issues are incredibly common for mums after pregnancy and birth. But just because it’s common… doesn’t mean it has to be...
2025-07-0227 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas031 “I Can’t Play With My Kids”: Why It Feels So Hard and What Actually HelpsJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever feel like you should be playing with your child… but you just can’t bring yourself to do it?Maybe you’re exhausted. Maybe you feel silly or awkward. Maybe you’re not even sure how to play anymore.If this sounds familiar, you are so not alone. In fact, many loving, involved parents feel exactly the same. And in this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on why play can feel so hard and w...
2025-06-2515 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas030 Play, Not Pressure: How Everyday Play Builds Your Child’s Literacy Foundation with Alex WeehuizenJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Worried your toddler isn’t “school ready”?Feel like you should be doing flashcards, worksheets, or alphabet drills — but it just doesn’t sit right?This episode is your deep breath and warm reassurance. We’re busting the myth that early literacy needs to look like formal learning and showing you how play, movement, and everyday conversations are actually doing the heavy lifting.Join host Ruth Vercoe and special guest Alex, from First Five Years —...
2025-06-1833 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas029 Why Play Builds Connection With Your ChildJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Connecting with Your Child Through Play — Why It Matters More Than You ThinkIs your toddler constantly throwing toys, lining them up, or wrapping things in blankets and you’re not quite sure why? What if these repetitive behaviours are actually your child’s way of connecting with you?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we dive deep into a powerful parenting truth: connection doesn’t just happen through doing dishes and conversations — it happens through play...
2025-06-1112 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas028 Unlock Your Child's Learning Through Play: Join 'The Play Schemas Collective' BETAJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Apply to Join the BETA Test Group – Spaces Are Limited!Applications close 26 June 2025. Only 5 spots available.For more information and to apply now, head to https://playschemas.com/betaOr flick me a DM on Instagram: @Play_SchemasGet FREE access during the BETA roundEnjoy a FREE first month once we officially launchBook a personalised 1:1 coaching session with a play schema specialist (that’s me!)Receive early access to schema-aligned video and prin...
2025-06-0407 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas027 Why I Still Say “Be Careful” Even Though I Love Risky PlayJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Do you ever catch yourself saying, “Be careful!” — even when you’re trying to let your child take healthy risks? You’re not alone, and you’re not doing it wrong.In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we unpack one of the biggest tensions many parents face: wanting to support our children confidence and independence, while still keeping them safe.If you’ve ever felt unsure about how much risk is “too much” when your toddler is climbing...
2025-05-2814 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas026 Why Imperfection Matters in Parenting - with Sophie MoskowitzJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever feel like you’re the only one dropping the ball as a parent? Spoiler alert: you’re not, you're not alone in feeling this... and this episode might just be the breath of fresh air you didn’t know you needed. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play | Play Schemas, we’re joined by Sophie Moskowitz from Imperfect Parents, who brings a powerful message every parent deserves to hear: you don’t have to be perfect to be enough. To...
2025-05-2124 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas025 Parenting Hacks: Master ‘When’ & ‘Then’ Magic!Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!The Two Words That Will Transform Your Parenting — “When” and “Then”Are you tired of endless toddler negotiations, meltdowns during transitions, or repeating yourself a hundred times a day? You’re not alone — and there is a gentle, effective way forward. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe introduces two simple, yet powerful words that can make all the difference: “when” and “then.”Whether you're trying to get your child out the door, clean up after pla...
2025-05-1409 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas024 Part 2 - Self Care through the Schemas with Hannah SadlierJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Part 2 of 2In this episode, we’re flipping the script on self-care. Instead of waiting for naptime or feeling guilty for needing a break, we’re inviting you to see the magic already happening in your everyday parenting life — through play schemas.Parenting young children can be exhausting, joyful, overwhelming, and deeply meaningful — often all in the same hour. Between messy floors, toddler meltdowns, and managing your own mental load, it’s no wonder so many parents feel like...
2025-05-0820 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas024 Part 1 - Self Care through the Schemas with Hannah SadlierJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Part 1 of 2In this episode, we’re flipping the script on self-care. Instead of waiting for naptime or feeling guilty for needing a break, we’re inviting you to see the magic already happening in your everyday parenting life — through play schemas.Parenting young children can be exhausting, joyful, overwhelming, and deeply meaningful — often all in the same hour. Between messy floors, toddler meltdowns, and managing your own mental load, it’s no wonder so many parents feel like...
2025-05-0818 min
Toddler ToolkitFrom Throwing to Lining Up: What Your Child’s Play Is Really Telling You with Ruth VercoeThere may just be a method to the madness after all!Our toddlers are constantly learning about the world around them. And the main way in which they learn is through play and play schemas.From throwing things and ripping pages out of books to tossing all their toys out of the bin and lining their cars up in a certain way, our toddlers are naturally moving through phases that help them better understand how the world works.Though it can be frustrating for us as parents, our children aren't just trying to...
2025-05-0755 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas023 Why Your Toddler Isn’t Listening — And What to Do About It with Heather SchalkJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever feel like your toddler is just ignoring you on purpose? You’ve asked nicely (three times), tried raising your voice, or even taken a toy away — and still, they won’t listen. Before you start second-guessing yourself or wondering if it’s just your child, take a deep breath. You are not alone — and there’s a powerful reason behind this common toddler behaviour.In this episode, Ruth sits down with parenting and behaviour specialist Heather Sc...
2025-04-3035 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas022 Growing Curiosity: How Gardening Supports Play Schemas & Child DevelopmentJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!What if your toddler’s obsession with mud, watering cans, or hauling carrots isn’t just play—but a window into how they learn best?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we take you into the garden—yes, dirt and all—to uncover how vegetable gardening can reveal powerful insights about your child’s development. Whether your little one is digging, transporting soil, or burying seeds, these actions aren’t random. They’re part of play schemas—the n...
2025-04-2322 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas021 Easter Play Ideas for Toddlers that Support Play SchemasJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Free download available!Grab your free Easter Play Ideas PDF with all 10 schema-based activities, family-friendly versions, and our go-to oaty pancake recipe at playschemas.com/freeFeeling overwhelmed by all the Easter hype—and wondering how to make it meaningful for your toddler?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving into how you can use this Easter season to truly support your child’s development—without extra stre...
2025-04-1614 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas020 Keeping Kids Safe: Practical Tips for Parents with Victoria BarendsenJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Looking for the discount code? use playschemas10 at the checkout! ww.thesafekidsproject.comAs parents, we want to protect our children. But when it comes to body safety, it can feel overwhelming—where do we start?How do we talk about it in a way that’s age-appropriate and empowering? And how do we navigate such an important conversation without fear or discomfort?You’re not alone in these concerns. In today’...
2025-04-0929 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas019 Understanding Play Schemas & Love Languages in ParentingJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Wrapping Up the Love Languages Series: How Play Can Deepen Your Connection with Your ChildDo you ever wonder what’s really behind your child’s play? Or why they behave a certain way when they’re feeling disconnected? Understanding play schemas and love languages can completely transform the way you interact with your little one—making parenting more intentional, fun, and fulfilling!In this final episode of our Love Languages & Play series, we bring everythi...
2025-04-0211 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas018 Acts of Service = Love in Action!Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Unlock the Secrets of Your Child’s Play: Play Schemas & Acts of Service in Parenting!Have you ever wondered why your child insists on lining up their toys, spinning in circles, or moving objects from place to place? It might seem random (or even frustrating!), but these repetitive behaviours are actually part of their natural learning process. They’re called play schemas, and understanding them can transform the way you see your child’s play—helping you to nurtu...
2025-03-2613 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas017 Loving your child through gifts and playSend us a textTime is ticking! Use this link for more information and to join https://playschemas.com/collective If you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into your child’s play with people who speak your language. Join us at playschemas.com/collective — we can’t wait to meet you.Support the showIf this episo...
2025-03-1916 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas016 Make Memories: Play & Quality Time Tips!Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever feel like your child is constantly throwing, spinning, or building the same thing over and over—and you’re not quite sure why? Or maybe you’re wondering how to give your child the quality time they crave without adding more to your already packed schedule? You’re not alone! In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re unlocking the magic behind play schemas and how they connect with the love language of Quality Time—helping you build stronger bonds...
2025-03-1219 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas015 Why Your Words Matter: Affirmation in PlayJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of child play through the lens of play schemas and the powerful impact of words of affirmation. Understanding why children engage in particular play patterns allows us to connect with them on a deeper level and support their growth more effectively. These schemas are not simply repetitive behaviors; they serve as gateways to developing essential skills like problem-solving and spatial awareness.We discuss how to frame our communication to not...
2025-03-0615 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas014 Play Schemas & The Love Language of Physical Touch | Understanding Your Child’s NeedsJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Did you know that something as simple as a hug, a high-five, or a game of tag could be the key to your child feeling deeply loved and secure? In this episode, we’re exploring Physical Touch as a love language—how it shapes your child’s emotional development, why some kids crave it more than others, and how you can easily incorporate it into everyday moments of play.For many parents, physical touch comes naturally in the early years—...
2025-02-2622 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas013 Play Schemas and Love Languages - a Match Made in HeavenJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!LOVE to a Child is Spelt TIME: Understanding the 5 Love Languages of Children💛 Do you ever wonder if your child truly feels loved? You tell them “I love you” a hundred times a day, but sometimes, their behaviour suggests they need more. The secret? Kids don’t just hear love—they experience it. And every child has their own way of receiving love.In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we dive into Gary Chapman’s 5 L...
2025-02-1914 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas012 Engage your little helpers at home through Play!Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Play Schemas at Home: Turning Play Into ProductivityHow to Encourage Your Child to Help Around the House—Through Play!FREE list of play and helping around the home ideas - head to playschemas.com/free!Does it feel like you’re constantly cleaning up after your little one while they seem more interested in making a mess? What if, instead of working against their natural play instincts, you work...
2025-02-1214 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas011 Playing Together – How Adults Can Join the Fun Without Taking OverJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Playing Together – How to Join the Fun Without Taking OverHave you ever found yourself ‘playing’ with your child, only to realise that you’re the one in charge? One moment you’re happily stacking blocks, and the next, you’re directing the entire build like an overzealous project manager. Sound familiar? You’re not alone!In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving into the art of playing with your child—without taking over...
2025-02-0511 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas010 Play Schemas and Siblings – How to Make Schemas Work for (Not Against!) YouJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Play Schemas and Siblings – How to Make Schemas Work for (Not Against!) You!👧👦 Do your kids constantly clash over toys, fight over space, or seem to have completely different play styles? You’re not alone! Sibling play can be tricky—one child wants to build, while the other wants to knock things down. One loves to throw, while the other carefully arranges their toys in a perfect line. What if we told you that these differences...
2025-01-3113 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas009 The Power of Independent Play – Nurturing Confident and Creative KidsJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Episode 9: The Power of Independent Play – Nurturing Confident and Creative KidsDo you dream of guilt-free moments to enjoy a hot drink while it’s still hot—without hearing a desperate “Muuum!” every two minutes? What if those moments didn’t just give you a breather but also helped your child grow into a confident, creative problem solver?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving deep into the world of independent play...
2025-01-2215 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas008 Kickstart 2025 with Play: Unlock Joyful Parenting Through Play Schemas!Ready to make 2025 the best year yet for your family? Dive into this exciting episode of Demystifying Child’s Play as we explore how understanding and embracing play schemas can transform your parenting journey. Whether you’re a returning listener or new to the podcast, this episode is packed with inspiration and actionable tips to help you connect with your child through meaningful play.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:🔹 What are Play Schemas? Discover the 10 universal patterns of play – from trajectory and transportation to enveloping and positioning. Learn how these natur...
2025-01-1515 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas007 Christmas Play Schemas: Tips & ScenariosJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Is your child tossing baubles, spinning ornaments, or carrying presents across the room? Before you wonder if they’re being “naughty,” take a deep breath—they’re not being difficult; they’re being explorers! In this episode, we’ll decode these behaviours through the lens of play schemas, helping you see the magic in your child’s play this Christmas.✨ What’s Inside This Episode?Christmas can be a magical time, but for parents of young children, i...
2024-12-1814 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas006 Experience the magic of nature with Play SchemasJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Unlock the Secret to Your Child’s Play: Why Nature Play and Play Schemas Matter! 🌱Ever wondered why your toddler spends hours collecting sticks, throwing pebbles, or carefully lining up leaves? What if these seemingly random behaviours were actually the building blocks of their development? In this episode of Demystifying Child's Play, we explore the fascinating world of play schemas—the patterns of play that children naturally engage in to learn about their w...
2024-12-1119 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas005 The Origins of Play SchemasJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Unlock the Secrets Behind Your Child’s Play: The Origins of Play SchemasEver wondered why your little one loves to spin wheels, drop toys, or line up blocks over and over again? Those seemingly simple actions aren’t just random—they’re part of something much bigger: play schemas. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving deep into the fascinating origins of these repeated behaviours and uncovering why they are essential fo...
2024-12-0411 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas004 Unlocking Your Toddler’s World: A Deep Dive into the 10 Most Common Play SchemasJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Do you ever wonder why your child insists on lining up toys or endlessly pouring water? Are you curious about how these playful quirks unlock their learning and development? You're in the right place! 🎉In this episode, we’re diving into 10 play schemas—the building blocks of children’s play—and how understanding them can transform your parenting journey. From Transporting 🛻 to Enclosing 🏗️, I’ll guide you through each schema with real-life examples and tips to nurture your child’s creativi...
2024-11-2827 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas003 Reducing Frustration through understanding Play SchemasJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Ever wonder why your toddler insists on throwing toys, spinning in circles, or hiding your kitchen towels? Believe it or not, there’s a method to the madness—it’s called play schemas. These are natural, repeated behaviours that children use to explore and understand their world. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re uncovering how recognising these play patterns can revolutionise your parenting.🎯 What You’ll Learn:What play schemas are and why they’re key to your ch...
2024-11-2016 minDemystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas002 Unlocking Play Schemas: Understand & Support Playful LearningJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Hey there! 👋 Ever wondered why your child keeps repeating the same actions, like throwing toys, moving objects around, or spinning in circles? Believe it or not, there's a fascinating reason behind these repetitive behaviours. They’re called play schemas—patterns of play that help kids explore and make sense of the world.In today’s podcast, I’ll walk you through the 10 most common play schemas, from the Trajectory Schema (think throwing and dropping) to the Positioning Schema (lining up toys). E...
2024-11-1320 min
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas001 Play Schemas: Demystifying Childs PlayJoin us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here!Welcome to the first episode of "Demystifying Child’s Play"! I’m Ruth Vercoe, and today we’re diving into the fascinating world of play schemas—the patterns that shape how children learn and grow through play. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, or caregiver of children aged 0-7, this episode is packed with insights on how understanding these schemas can transform your parenting approach. 🧸In this episode, I share my own journey from being a teacher to a Mum and how rec...
2024-11-0816 min
We Like To GardenInterview with Ruth Vercoe from Grow.Nuture.NourishThis week we sit down with Ruth, a fellow Christchurch gardener, to talk about how to successfully succession plant, how to compost and prep your garden for the coming season, as well as tips and tricks like getting your leeks to grow better and how to have a harmonious "organic-ish" garden.Ruth is on Instagram @grow.nuture.nourish and is on Secret Gardens (www.secretgardens.co.nz), although is taking a short break from having people come and visit the garden for the rest of 2023. But watch this space and book through Secret Gardens from 2024!
2023-07-2847 min
Pastor Brian PodcastBONUS- The Entire Genealogy of Jesus with Unique Voices in Advent - Thursday, December 3rd, 2020Hey y'all! This is a bonus episode because we have gotten so much positive feedback on the first three scriptures, over the first three days, that we read this Advent season. The scriptures are from the Matthew 1:-1-17. Folks have been asking if we could edit all three days together, to hear the full 42 generations of Jesus’ genealogy as a whole- with each person being voiced by a unique voice. Fun side note, many of the people voice their namesake, or are Father/Son and Mother/Son pairs in real life as well! Here are the voices who ma...
2020-12-0305 min