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Ruwando Podcast
Evolution of Men's Personal Development
"Men's Personal Development" wasn't a thing even one generation ago. It became so due to shifts in culture and technology. It also is a lens on the changes in male collective consciousness.This episode analyzes the 4 recent iterations of men's work--culturally, psychologically, and technologically-- and what it says about where male psychology is headed.Text summary is available at: ruwando.substack.comAnti-stress/brain chemistry course for men: go.anabolicpsyche.com Get the course for $17, do it, and get my $497 ACM course free!Also new group coaching program just...
2026-01-19
1h 02
Ruwando Podcast
Formula for Magnetism | 216
Is there a formula for getting your way (with people or circumstances)?In my experience, there are certain qualities that make someone particularly magnetic in this sense.I draw an actionable metaphor from the physics formula for literal magnetism,Get the text version with breakdown and summary at ruwando.substack.comAnabolic Psyche 2.0: go.anabolicpsyche.com + Get my Arousal Control program for free (if you complete Anabolic Psyche.) Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2026-01-05
1h 01
Ruwando Podcast
How to Help Her Into Her Feminine | 148
Dropping an old favorite in honor of my anniversary today.How to Help Her Into Her Feminine covers what a man can do to help a woman move from her competitive (“masculine”) self to her interdependent (“feminine”) self.It draws on some fringe lessons from BDSM, evolutionary biology, and case studies from many guys I’ve helped.I recorded it shortly after our daughter was born. I wonder if you can hear the drop in testosterone in my voice.(00:00:00): Irony of Attraction Shifts(00:04:53): If Mama Ain’t Happy…(00:10:54...
2025-12-22
1h 45
Ruwando Podcast
Manic Pixie Dream Girl = Male Wound in Disguise
When I was 23, I fell in love with a drug addict. She was sexy and interesting. But more than that, she was WILD. If my life was a movie, she was cast as the Manic Pixie Dream Girl—the adolescent male fantasy of an the open-hearted nymph who saves the non-hero from mediocrity.The MPDG highlights a common male psychological wound. She also shows us how such a man can heal this wound, if he can avoid the emotional trap she represents.An abbreviated text version of this episode can be found at ruwa...
2025-12-12
45 min
Ruwando Podcast
Belle vs. Moana: Who's the better role model for women?
Disney princesses are different today. So is our culture's Feminine Ideal.Mrs. Meepagala and I debate on how these different female role models are imprinting the next generation of women, including our daughter.Tomorrow I'm posting a concise article on the 3 different types female role models and their message to women on substack.Subscribe to get it delivered to your inbox: ruwando.substack.comIf you're a woman looking to find the one in 2026, check out my wife's new book: idaretolove.com#psychology #relationships #marriage #femininity #women #feminism
2025-12-02
42 min
Ruwando Podcast
Important Update: Consolidating Podcast with Substack
A recent epiphany has made me decide to move off visual media consolidate my podcast with substack.It shouldn't change anything for you, though there's a *possibility* you won't see my new episodes pop up. (If there's an RSS feed issue.)You can prevent this by subscribing at ruwando.substack.comThere you can stay updated on future podcast episodes, accompanying writing, livestreams, and book excerpts. (You can customize notifications to receive only one or the other.)Get my book + bonuses: ORGSMbook.com Get full access to Ruwando...
2025-11-26
08 min
Ruwando Podcast
Woman as Soul (Jung's Aspects of the Feminine)
Here I read an essay by Carl Jung, "Woman As Soul", + give my commentary on what it means and how we can use it.This is part of the source material for my next book, ANIMA: The Five Aspects of the Feminine-- A Guide For Men on Female Psychology.Get free excerpts by subcribing at ruwando.substack.comOr get an advance copy of ANIMA by purchasing my other book, ORGSM, A Memoir at orgsmbook.com Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2025-11-20
1h 04
Ruwando Podcast
How To Bend Reality (Like a Cult Leader)
Reality is a set of agreements.This is a reading + commentary on a new post on substack on the nature of subjective reality: The process of brainwashing used by ideologies as seen in politics, communities, and of course, cults. It includes from excerpts from my book, ORGSM, A Memoir.I'll be posting more analyses + excerpts from my next book, ANIMA: The 5 Aspects of the Feminine Unconscious on substack:Ruwando.substack.comGet my new book + $100 of bonuses at orgsmbook.com Get full access to Ruwando Substack...
2025-11-13
27 min
Ruwando Podcast
Saving Your Relationship After Breakup w/Kris & Lily | 202
My friends Kris and Lily came back from a breakup to coming back together and now happily married with two kids. In order to do so, they both had to drastically change themselves and their reality.We discuss major turning points in a romantic relationship, balancing ideologies in a relationship, and some key (and possibly taboo) principles about how men and women can find deep harmony together.If you’re having relationship issues and you want to fix it, apply to Lead Your Family— small group program for men in committed relationships: https://www...
2024-10-16
1h 28
Ruwando Podcast
A Surrendered Woman w/ Nalaya | 200
Mrs. Meepagala rejoins the pod after 100 episodes. (She was on ep100 before we had kids).We speak on power dynamics and imbalance in relationships, mother and father figure differences, the beauty of surrendered woman, and our personal experiences with “trad” gender roles.If you’re a man in a committed relationship that’s not going the way you want, you may want to join my small group program:https://www.ruwando.com/LYF00:00 - Intro00:43 - Motherhood and work during baby years0...
2024-09-19
1h 22
Ruwando Podcast
Why is there a political gender gap: Conservative men, liberal women | 199
A few months ago the Economist wrote an article on the political gender gap— how men are becoming more conservative, and women more liberal. While this seems like a recipe for conflict, in many ways this is a return to human nature.This episode covers the evolutionary roots behind political leanings, the reasons for recent cultural shifts, and some fascinating studies about how your political leading may reveal itself in a brain scan.https://www.ruwando.com/LYFhttps://www.ruwando.com/archetype00:00 - Intro: Cultural shift to...
2024-09-12
1h 37
Ruwando Podcast
The Magician Archetype: Belief, Meaning, and the Creative Process (republish)
The Magician Archetype is the part of your psyche that makes meaning, abstracts reality, and creates your life-- whether you take that literally or figuratively depends on your Magician.This episode covers "magic" in the creative process, the shadow aspects of the magician, the five stages of belief, the importance of the Fool archetype, hacking self-fulfilling prophecy, and how to become the magician.00:00 Intro4:20 Magical thinking throughout history5:35 Subjective mind of magical thinking10:55 What is the magician archetype?13:57 Belief and meaning...
2024-05-24
1h 37
Ruwando Podcast
Warrior Archetype: Conquer Your Demons (republish)
The Warrior Archetype is the part of the psyche for overcoming obstacles and winning zero-sum competition. It's become the most suppressed aspect of masculinity in the modern era. Activate this archetype within you with the Masculine Archetype Challenge. Comes with a complementary coaching call with Ruwan:https://www.ruwando.com/archetype(Republish from 2020) Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2024-05-13
1h 04
Ruwando Podcast
Prometheus Rising: Circuit Model of Consciousness (republish)
This book totally changed how I view human behavior, and perception of reality. I focus on the first 4 "non-spiritual" circuits of Timothy Leary & Robert Anton Wilson's circuit model. Republished from 2020. This is the episode that got my wife to like me. I'm still on paternity leave. New episodes coming in June. https://www.ruwando.com/archetypePsychophilosophy, quantumpsychology, thelema, general semantics, Alfred Korzybski Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2024-05-01
1h 52
Ruwando Podcast
5 Stages of the Male Psyche | 141 (republish)
Men go through five distinct stages, each with their own drives, pitfalls, and keys to fulfillment. This episode covers each stage through the lenses of biology, psychology, mythology (Slave to King myth), and Nietzsche's Metamorphosis.Republishing this one as I wait for my next kid to pop. https://www.ruwando.com/archetype Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2024-04-24
1h 50
Ruwando Podcast
Warfare of Morals: How to build a strong family culture w/ Noah Revoy | 190
Modern society is amidst warfare of morals: Family vs. Globalism. Nature vs. Culture.Noah Revoy speaks on the war of perception and information, how part of taking responsibility as a man is in creating/building sovereignty for family, how to build a strong family culture, maintaining parent’s influence on your child, and protecting yourself via self-discipline as internal manipulation.noahrevoy.comruwando.com/archetype Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2024-04-04
1h 32
Ruwando Podcast
Can you Prepare for Fatherhood w/ Dan Doty | 188
Can you prepare for fatherhood? Dan Doty from Fatherhood Unlocked speaks on how fatherhood is changing, how fatherhood shifts your focus in life, the importance of being a father, generational differences in upbringing, and other man stuff. I’m going to be having more dads on the podcast soon to discuss the importance of being a father. It is the King Archetype after all. Make sure you’re subscribed. And if your want to better access your archetypal masculinity, check out the Masculine Archetype Challenge:
2024-03-21
55 min
Ruwando Podcast
Authentic Flirting: How to know what to say and do
Flirting = speaking with the subtext, "I want you."When authentic (and therefore easy), it comes from your instincts, not your thoughts.Unleash your instincts: https://www.ruwando.com/archetype Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-11-30
14 min
Ruwando Podcast
How to Develop Sexual Confidence as a Man | Breaking Bad
How a man behaves in the bedroom largely depends on how he behaves outside of it... down a physiological level. Here we break down some scenes from Breaking Bad to highlight 3 key principles about male psychology, libido, and confidence.Arousal Control Course— Master your arousal in 6 weeksCyber Monday deal: https://www.ruwando.com/acs-cyber-50If you're struggling with a psychogenic dysfunction, apply directly for coaching. I have almost 100% success rate with hundreds of men. (90% cured within 2 months).https://www.ruwando.com/coaching
2023-11-22
14 min
Ruwando Podcast
A Female Perspective on Men w/Reece & Efia | 179
Since raising a daughter, I’ve become more sensitive to women’s experience in dating men.So I invited on my friends Reece and Efia to get a bit of female perspective. Reece and Efia are coaches who met in a women’s mystery school in Spain. We met in Mexico last year.We discuss dating, relationships, gender role culture, and the female version of Nice Guy Syndrome.[Video Excerpt] Two Kinds of Women? Nice Gal Syndrome in Dating(Full episode in audio only)Reece: mamano...
2023-11-07
1h 31
Ruwando Podcast
How To Lead Your Family w/Josh Hatcher (Manlihood) | 178
Josh Hatcher of Manlihood and I connected earlier this summer to discuss about man stuff. But once I found out he was a father of four adults (and grandfather), I had to pick his brain on his role in his family.Here’s a video preview of our talk. (Full episode is in audio/podcast only)Check out his stuff at manlihood.comruwando.com/archetype (Still includes coaching call with me) Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to...
2023-10-20
1h 07
Ruwando Podcast
Why Monotheism is Making a Comeback
I was raised both Buddhist and Catholic. Neither really stuck.I spent my twenties being “spiritual but not religious”. And otherwise prioritizing individuality over cultural constraints.However for the first time as an adult, I’m seeing the value of traditional religion.I don’t think I’m alone in that. Global culture is at an inflection point. After centuries of moving towards secularism, many seem to be returning to tradition. Especially for those interested in personal development, religion may be the next unexpected step. Get full access to Ruwando...
2023-10-12
22 min
Ruwando Podcast
Breaking Down Ideological Conflict
Muslim and Christian families uniting in protest shows us a historical pattern of ideological conflict. Read article version at ruwando.substack.com Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-10-04
17 min
Ruwando Podcast
177 Yuval Mann: Sex and Culture
Sexual desire is one of the few places where individual nature will hold out against collective culture. (Comedy being the other big one.)Most of my life I’ve been focused on the importance of individual expression over collective “oppression.” My explorations in sexuality have been a part of that.But lately (since having a family) I’ve been seeing the great value of the other side— there’s a lot to be gained from “belonging” to a greater framework, even at the expense of some individuality.So I was particularly interested in speaking with Yu...
2023-09-17
1h 00
Ruwando Podcast
176 Vicente Alonso: Iboga Quest
I’m joined by my friend Vicente, one of the psychotherapists who run Iboga Quest, an ibogaine treatment center in Mexico. This conversation was shortly after I attended one of his retreats. We speak about mindfulness, plant medicine, psychotherapy, and how to change your mind. https://ibogaquest.com/ Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-08-27
1h 05
Ruwando Podcast
How to Handle a Woman's Emotions
Unf*ck your relationship Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-08-21
16 min
Ruwando Podcast
175 Religion, Discipline, Masculinity (Issa Ibrahim)
Religion seems to be making a comeback. Whereas most self help and pop psychology of the 90’s was more about blaming religious oppression, now it seems to be weaving back into personal development.I personally have become more interest in tradition lately. And I’ve been curious to speak with someone who knows both of these worlds.I met Issa a few months ago in a coaching program. He’s a YouTuber who covers similar topics to me. He’s also Muslim. He and I discuss culture, psychology, principles for creative entrepreneurs.
2023-08-10
49 min
Ruwando Podcast
Why Men Don't Want Relationships (and What Can Be Done About It)
Relationships are expensive. And men with options have less reason to be in one than ever before.This episode is on 1) how women can reverse that trend, 2) how men can overcome the internal dilemma. Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-08-03
17 min
Ruwando Podcast
174 Brian Begin: Overcoming Grief, Recreating Your Life, Quantum Leaps
My old friend Brian Begin, of TrueCourage (formerly Fearless Man), joins us in a pivotal moment of his life.He shares about recent grief and the lessons he learned from it. Also on recreating your self and your life.As always I got a ton of inspiration chatting with him.https://www.ruwando.com/archetype Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-07-27
1h 02
Ruwando Podcast
This is What Happens When Men Learn to Fight
I’ve done a lot of things in the world of men’s personal development.But there’s nothing that has positively impacted me as much as combat sports.Here’s how:References:The Hour Between Dog and Wolf (Coates)Arousal and Physiological Toughness (Dienstbier) Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-07-21
18 min
Ruwando Podcast
173 Puer Aeternus: Peter Pan Syndrome feat. Patrick H.
Culture encourages us to stay “young” (because then we make better consumers).This can be especially troublesome for men. And most men (including me) probably have some inner conflict related to that.Patrick and I discuss “Peter Pan Syndrome”— When a grown man is stuck in elements of “boy psychology”.Referencing Carl Jung, and Marie Louise von Franz's The Problem of the Puer Aeternus (1959) Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-07-06
1h 01
Ruwando Podcast
172 How to Live Life Like a Movie: Nikhil Pandey (Captain Sinbad)
Captain Sinbad is my favorite Youtuber in the personal development space. So I hired him as a coach. Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-06-15
55 min
Ruwando Podcast
Dokkodo: Musashi's 21 Rules for Life
Last month I noticed my mind was going in a bad direction.At moments I thought I was depressed, and maybe I was. But I realized there was a lot within my mental state that was well within my control.So I decided to do a little lifestyle challenge following the principles of one of my historical role models— the Miyamoto Musashi.This video covers the 21 principles of Dokkodo alongside my 3 week routine:Btw, I’m revamping the Archetype Challenge to include some new content along with a physical journal. Which mean...
2023-05-30
15 min
Ruwando Podcast
171 Ancient Life Coach (Alex Petkas)
Alex Petkas is the host of The Cost of Glory Podcast— which I discovered while researching for History of Man episodes III and IV and thoroughly enjoy. He’s was formerly a Classics Professor. We speak about what we can learn from the great men of history and developing your ethos.Ancient Life Coach SubstackRome - Speak Lead Retreat Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2023-04-28
1h 08
Ruwando Podcast
170 Spiritual Perimeter: Containing the Feminine Reality
How “truthful” should you be in your relationship?In a committed relationship, that’s actually the wrong way to ask the question…This episode covers a man’s role in influencing the shared perceptions (viz: Magician Archetype). We’ll look at it through different lenses such as “controlling frame” (Red Pill) vs. shared meaning-making (nation-building).(This was recorded before my concussion and I literally forgot about it till now.) Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/sub
2023-04-13
48 min
Ruwando Podcast
169 Ancestral Patterns & Family Systems feat. Noelfry
Many of our patterns of behavior and feeling do not originate in us. They are passed down, through nature or nurture, from those before us.However if you’ve “inherited” undesirable patterns, or see them spreading in your family, you can be the one to interrupt them.Noelfry rejoins the podcast to share a recent experience of disrupting his familial patterns.Btw, I’m back on Youtube: Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwan...
2023-02-15
46 min
Ruwando Podcast
168 Atonement with the Father: Completing Boyhood, Father Wound, the Godhead
Atonement with the Father is a stage in Joseph Campbell's monomyth (Hero's Journey) where a man confronts 'The Godhead'. In doing so, he becomes complete-- unlocking the "god" within himself (Apotheosis). Psychologically it represents healing of the Father Wound-- the gaps in one's masculinity due to the shortcomings of one's father figure. Ruwando Substack is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get full...
2023-02-08
52 min
Ruwando Podcast
167 On Havingness: How to Increase Self-Concept
(Apologies for the bad audio-- my main mic cut out.)Havingness (a.k.a. self-concept) is how much you subconsciously believe your deserve when it comes to different areas of life— money, love, respect, attention, ease, etc.We tend to revert to our this "Having Level" when we deviate too far away from it.But you can increase your Having Level, and upgrade your sense of normal through certain practices. Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe Get fu...
2023-02-02
1h 01
Ruwando Podcast
166 Integrating the King Archetype feat. Patrick H.
“Sometimes you need to be punched so hard in the face that you wake up” Since appearing in episode 140 Slave to King: Nice Guy Transformation, I have received more listener questions about him than any other guest.Patrick H. from Germany returns to the podcast to fill us in on his life since his return to dating post-celibacy, and now in a new kind of relationship.If you’re a man with a history of unfulfilling relationships, choosing the wrong women, or general Nice Guy BS, listen to this one. We c...
2023-01-25
46 min
Ruwando Podcast
165 Man Cave Summit: Fatherhood Philosophy
Apparently last Friday was “Three King’s Day”— referring to the magi who visited baby J in the manger.It happened to coincide with a summit planned with my new office mates. The three of us are young fathers and entrepreneurs. We christened our new space, Studio 14, with a chat on the Father Wound, the greater demands on manhood in creating a Perimeter, and fatherhood philosophy.Apologies to anyone who was expecting a livestream last Friday— I had some technical difficulties with the streaming.This Friday (the 13th) we’ll livestream 166 On Havingnes...
2023-01-12
47 min
Ruwando Podcast
164 - How to Be a Rock, with Women and Other Important Things
The last few weeks I’ve had a few discussions with guys about “being a rock”.In theory, it’s a nice manly image… but what does it actually mean?In practice, being “a rock” can seem like being “passive” at times, but it’s not the same thing.This episode covers HOW to be a grounded “rock” (as opposed to a fiery hothead, watery fish, or airy space cadet). NOTE: I’m going start livestreaming some episodes again as I was pre-pandemic. If you’d like to hop on the next episode and ask questio...
2022-12-29
47 min
Ruwando Podcast
163 - Servant to The Muse: On Involuntary Creativity
The Muse: The part of the psyche responsible for involuntary creation.The Muse is like any woman. Her desires rarely make logical sense.Get in her good graces and she'll fill you with inspiration. Get on her bad side and she'll look for ways to torture you.In this episode I share the story of writing my story, using quotes from other poets to drive certain principles home.Also my book is out. In case you didn't see, read it free on ruwando.substack.com.Next...
2022-11-14
32 min
Ruwando Podcast
149 - Mac Lethal: How to Rekindle the Flame in Relationship
Mac Lethal is a rapper, YouTuber, author, and recent Hindu convert (only partially kidding). We connected last month over an article I wrote regarding masculine-feminine dynamics, specifically on how to handle fiery women. We speak about how to regain the passion in a sexless marriage, why men are like swimming pools (not cups), and practical spirituality for the lifelong atheist.*When Kali Trampled Shiva: A Parable About Challenging Women [article]:https://medium.com/@ruwando/when-kali-trampled-shiva-a99b608b6e6e*Mac's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/BlackCloverRecords*His book (that I thoroughly enjoyed...
2022-05-19
1h 13
Ruwando Podcast
I Sticks and Stones: Prehistoric Violence and the Birth of Warrior Ethos
Episode I starts with the first skirmishes between hunting parties in the Paleolithic Era. We cover the relationship of economics and violence, and the earliest psychological mechanisms for overcoming the Resistance to Killing.Including quotes from interviews with LtCol. Dave Grossman (Ruwando Podcast episode 81) and Jack Donovan (Ep 98)This is the ad-free version for subscribers. Click on “listen on another app” to get a private feed to your preferred podcast app for future subscriber-only episodes.It’s also available on all major podcast apps: Get full access to History of Man Po...
2022-03-31
1h 43
Ruwando Podcast
140 - Slave to King: Nice Guy Transformation feat. Patrick H.
Patrick H. is a client from Germany who went through some pretty intense Nice Guy sh*t a year ago. He tells his story of transformation, overcoming mother enmeshment, rekindling masculinity, gaining personal power, and finally getting what he wants in dating and in life.He started with the Masculine Archetype Challenge. If you've been disconnected from your masculinity, you may gain from it as well:Go here to check it out >> www.ruwando.com/archetypeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando...
2022-01-27
54 min
Ruwando Podcast
136 - Depths of the Collective Unconscious feat. James Kalupson
James is a graduate student in clinical depth psychology at Pacifica, where I was considering getting a PhD. We discuss a Jungian take on the recent shifts in culture, stages of development of male psychology, red pill, childhood imprinting, how to discern a good life partner, and all sorts of good thought streams."The tangent is the way!"Archetype Challenge: www.ruwando.com/archetype (still comes with a complementary coaching session with me)Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando...
2021-12-30
1h 07
Ruwando Podcast
Gnosis: Creating From No-Mindedness
"Gnosis" is the name for a mental state that you've probably experienced before, if only accidentally. This state is a solution to anxiety and a way to "get out of your own way" in creating what you want. I share some perspectives from Carl Jung, Steven Pressfield, Eckhart Tolle, Robert Anton Wilson, and the occultist Peter Carroll. I also tell the story of my first heartbreak and overcoming my mental noise.TLDL if you don't have the attention span to listen: Spend less time looking at your phone and you'll be more creative. That...
2020-12-08
47 min
Ruwando Podcast
Sexual Shadow: Integrating Darkside, Overcoming Madonna-Whore Complex, Bringing the Beast to the Bedroom
The Sexual Shadow is the set of pre-conscious impulses that stimulate the libido but counter your morality. Dissociation is common in men and seen in the 'Madonna-Whore Complex'— the categorization of women as either pure sources of love, or as naughty sex objects... but not both.To stay in this dichotomy robs you of your full integrated expression (AND robs your partners of a full-spectrum sexual experience.) I personally have experienced this conflict for awhile. Recently it came up in my relationship, so I decided I finally needed to confront it...This episode covers:...
2020-12-01
1h 28
Ruwando Podcast
Warrior Archetype
The Warrior Archetype is the set of testosterone-driven impulses that have a man develop his competence and courage. It's also associated with aggression which is why it's often attacked as "toxic masculinity". This episode discusses the function of this archetype, how it relates to mental health/confidence, the hormonal basis, and how to embody it in a constructive way.My website is redone and the Masculine Archetype Challenge is available again. If you want a guide to connect to your warrior nature, check it out at ruwando.com/archetype.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com...
2020-11-17
1h 06
Ruwando Podcast
094 Nicole Brenny: Psychomagic
Nicole Brenny is a vedic astrologer, YouTuber, and coach. She and I used to host a pirated radio show under the train tracks in Brooklyn. She recently did a "psychomagic" session on me a la the work of Alejandro Jodorowsky. It was cool. It was also weird. We talk about how it is a different method of speaking with the unconscious.http://nicolebrenny.com/#psychomagic #jodowrosky #unconsciousAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-09-10
58 min
Ruwando Podcast
Overcoming Cyclical Depression, Suicidal Impulses
When I was 15 I tried to kill myself. Since then I have had cyclical depression. It's been an ongoing journey that has led many beautiful things and various challenges. I'm sharing this with the hope that it helps other people. Depression doesn't necessarily mean suffering.This was previously published on my YouTube channel. I'm republishing because I think it's a better version of what I was getting at in the last episode.Also I'm in a process of converting everything to audio so y'all can get off your screens.
2020-09-07
14 min
Ruwando Podcast
093 Anish Patel: Feminine Cleanse
Anish Patel is a men's coach who has worked with Dr. Robert Glover and others. He shares with me an interesting practice called the Feminine Cleanse for men to let go of limiting behavior in relating to women and their masculinity.He has a free webinar speaking about how to undertake such a project:https://getrealbrother.clickfunnels.com/feminine-cleanse-webinar-registration1597898629790Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-09-03
47 min
Ruwando Podcast
Self-Validation & Assigning Meaning to Goals
On my weekend detox trip a friend had a powerful experience regarding self-validation.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-09-01
16 min
Ruwando Podcast
088 Michael Pariser: Nice Guy Hero's Journey
Michael Pariser, PsyD is a therapist and author of No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero's Journey, a guide that takes men through a process of overcoming 'Nice Guy Syndrome'. In this episode we break down male psychological tendencies, develop intimacy techniques, and even analyze my bad relationship patterns.Get Michael's book and receive a link to his interview with NMMNG author, Robert Glover: https://amzn.to/2O1FfUbhttps://drparisertherapy.com/Want to discuss these topics with like-minded men? Join the Masculine Underground Forum: http://forum...
2020-07-16
1h 16
Ruwando Podcast
089 Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani: Tantra Meets BDSM
Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani teach Tantra Meets BDSM, a class for real intimate polarity (something many are particularly challenged by in quarantine). We speak about sexual archetypes, creating trust, and topics critical to real intimacy.Their class is this weekend (18-19 July): http://omrupani.org/courses/tantra-meets-bdsm-levei1-julyUse the code RUWANDO for $50 off. (The price is for TWO people.)#tantra #bdsm #relationshipskillsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-07-15
1h 02
Ruwando Podcast
Dark Masculine: How To Overcome Sexual Shame
Internalized shame is a killer of self-esteem, libido, and a person's spirit. More than ever before, collective morality shames authentic masculinity. The 'Dark Masculine' is the archetype of removing shame and returning to true form. In this episode I speak on 3 levels: 1. Redefining beliefs around individual vs. collective "morality" 2. The 2 types of male-specific shame, and biological roots 3. How to unearth the 'Dark Masculine' archetype and heal shame This was inspired by the posts in the Masculine Underground FB Group ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/569093646766486/ ). If you find this interesting, I'd appreciate if you'd rate this your favorite podcast app. Mentioned...
2020-07-08
1h 31
Ruwando Podcast
Overcoming Compulsive Behavior: Porn Addiction, "Laziness", etc.
Compulsive behavior is anything that you do against your higher intentions. (Doing what you don't want or not doing what you do want.) These behaviors are often involuntary because they run on primal biological drives... but that doesn't mean you need to be a slave to them.In this episode we speak specifically on porn addiction and "laziness" as they show the different extremes of compulsion. We cover the biology of desire, behavior-hormonal correlation, and practical actions for overcoming compulsion.The masculine archetype class is half off for the...
2020-07-07
1h 24
Ruwando Podcast
081 Lt. Col. Dave Grossman: On Combat, On Killing
Lt. Col. Dave Grossman is a retired Army Ranger and the author of On Killing, On Combat, and a number of other books on the psychology of violence. His first book greatly influenced Ruwan when he was an officer select in the US Marine Corps. We discuss the Warrior archetype, trends affecting male mental health, how to prepare yourself for the worst, and stoicism.Grossman's work: https://www.Killology.comAccess your inner Protector in the Masculine Archetype Challenge: https://www.Ruwando.com/ArchetypeFor the video version of this podcast, click here: h...
2020-04-13
1h 34
Ruwando Podcast
079 Brett Jones: StrongFirst, Kettlebell Training
Brett Jones is the chief instructor at StrongFirst, accomplished strongman. We speak about strength from the cellular level all the way up to the mindset required to apply force. Aside from the useful strength tips, this episode is chock full of metaphors for growth in life.Check out his work at AppliedStrength.com and StrongFirst.comThe Masculine Archetype Challenge now includes a complimentary video call with me again. Join at Ruwando.com/ArchetypeFor the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/eTQKtrSck9w#Kettlebells #Strongfirst...
2020-04-01
1h 06
Ruwando Podcast
Infinite Play: Coming of Age in the Matriarchal Cult of Orgasm
This is the opening chapter to my memoir on my time in the sex cult. To keep up to date with the book and to learn more, make sure you're on my email list. Join at Ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-02-14
06 min
Ruwando Podcast
077 Om Rupani: Masculine Resilience
Om is a D/S instructor who has been on the podcast quite a few times. I recently watched the Red Pill documentary and wanted to speak with him on the male response to hardship.Om has a few workshops this year and will put up the dates as they are confirmed at omrupani.orgYou can get $50 off by using the discount code RUWANDO. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at...
2020-02-12
53 min
Ruwando Podcast
When Kali Trampled Shiva: A Parable for Men About Difficult Women
Recording of my most shared article from last year. I referenced back to it recently after listening to a bit by Jordan Peterson on how "there's nothing men can do when a woman is irrationally upset." I like JP, but that's simply not true. Handling a woman's emotions is part of being a complete man and an opportunity for growth.The 21 Day Archetype Challenge is back: Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to...
2020-02-06
14 min
Ruwando Podcast
076 Jordan Luke Collier: Subjective vs. Objective Beauty
Jordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata. We philosophize on beauty as a heuristic for navigating life.Access my 5+ years of content archives for free by joining my list at Ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-02-05
1h 14
Ruwando Podcast
Drive Your Own Bus: On"Self-Love" and Filtering Reality Properly
"Self Love" is a phrase thrown around a lot, but it means something different for men and women. This episode covers what Masculine self-love is and how it relates to reality creation. Critical for being a powerful husband/bf, father, leader. And also simply being a happy fulfilled individual.Archetype Class:Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-02-04
44 min
Ruwando Podcast
The Virtue of Male Aggression
Article from early 2018. This one got me kicked off The Good Men Project for being "too volatile." My archived content now available free when you put your email in at Ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-02-03
13 min
Ruwando Podcast
The Devils Inside Us: How Sexual Archetypes Help Individuation
This is one of my denser articles, so I thought it would be good in audio format. We dig into the rape fantasy and how it reveals opportunities for healing in relationships and in the Self.Take the 21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge at Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2020-01-30
13 min
Ruwando Podcast
075 Christina Berkley: Orgasm, Money, Potatoes
“Money is like potatoes,” she said.Christina Berkley helps coaches build stunning practices and edge-walkers live stunning lives. I met her that time I was in a matriarchal sex cult where she was once a lead instructor. Her journey is a synthesis of mysticism and practical life creation that has had a very positive impact on my life.Her work: christinaberkley.comHer new project: https://www.facebook.com/groups/edgewalker/Get free access to my 5+ year archive of expert interviews and audio recordings by joining my email list at Ruwa...
2020-01-29
59 min
Ruwando Podcast
Individuation vs. Collective Unconscious
This episode was inspired by some synchronistic events: a coaching conversations, ponderings on my new tattoo, and an essay by Carl Jung.Video version: https://youtu.be/eDRgEWIpxFQRites of passage were once an important piece of psychology development in men that both helped one access his unique gifts and potency, but also aligned his power with the needs of the tribe. Due to post-agricultural/industrial/consumerist developments, we've largely replaced this with societal norms that mostly repress the individual.This episode covers:How to develop creative purpose without...
2020-01-07
1h 06
Ruwando Podcast
Sex Transmutation, Explained
Napoleon Hill's term for "channeling sexual energy" is often talked about, but rarely in a way that is practical. In this video I speak on a workable model for how to use "sexual energy" towards well-being and materialization of goals. Referencing:- Freud's sublimation- Jung's Instinct- Wilhelm Reich's muscular armoring and orgastic potential- Mantak Chia's microcosmic orbit, ejaculation control- the shortsightedness of NoFap- a workable metaphor for transmutation- Satanic sex magick (unintended tangent ;D)
2019-12-31
45 min
Ruwando Podcast
Your Personal Development is a Genre of Entertainment
Your Hero's Journey is the best story there is. In this episode I speak on how to invest your attention to get the most momentum in the movie that is your life.Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2019-12-17
26 min
Ruwando Podcast
Hacking Synchronicity:
"Reality is a like a woman. She either moves towards you or runs away from you, depending on how you engage with it."'Synchronicity' is a term coined by psychologist Carl Jung and often misused by spiritual folk. But even as a subjective experience, it is critical in our ability to create our reality. In this live episode we speak on:+ Actual Jungian definition of synchronicity+ How the 'Call to Adventure' shows up YOUR personal life journey+ How to speed up subjective time, and density of subjective...
2019-12-09
49 min
Ruwando Podcast
071 Melanie Curtain: Dear Men, Sex Research
Melanie Curtin is a writer, sex researcher, and the host of the podcast Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships.She shares some of her interesting data points on male-female sexuality, tips for increased intimacy, and the importance of cougars for younger male sexual education..."God bless cougars" said Melanie. (And I agree. :))You can get $200 off her course at http://www.PleaseHerInBed.com/ with the discount code: RUWANDOhttps://www.MelanieCurtin.com/#Sexuality #SexResearch #Intimacy #Neuroplasticity #Dating #Relating #Cougars #ArchetypalPsychology #RelationshipPsychology
2019-11-27
52 min
Ruwando Podcast
How Emotions Affect Arousal Response: Between Couples & For Individuals
Audio version of this week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Our ability to feel physical pleasure is affected by how we process emotions. When I was a Libido and Relationship Counselor I found one key cause in BOTH individual psychogenic sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia) AND when couples can't enjoy sex with each other.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2019-11-24
09 min
Ruwando Podcast
Before you try 'Jelquing'... Truth About 'Male Enhancement'
Audio version of last week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Does jelquing work? Kind of, but not in the way you may expect. Here what you really need to know about the quest for enlargement.Learn more about ninja bedroom skills at ArousalControlSecrets.comJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
2019-11-23
06 min
Ruwando Podcast
My 2nd Year in the Matriarchal Sex Cult
My second year in the matriarchal sex cult was much different that the first. (Catch Part 1: https://youtu.be/4Rni2uDd4Wc)I took some of the tactics I learned as a "party goer" and employed them as a "party thrower". In a sense I became a mini-cult leader. My intentions, as most peoples' were good... but power corrupts.In this video I share a little more of group reality creation, some basic brainwashing "techniques" used on and by me, and what I believe are the useful nuggets for everyone. ...
2019-11-11
1h 47
Ruwando Podcast
The Vulnerability Trap: How to Recognize Real Openness
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Most people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions or saying a particular thing. Often people aren't actually being vulnerable when they think they are. If you're watching this, I assume you already understand the benefits of vulnerability. This video will help you become aware of actual vulnerability. It might not be what you think, but it is within your control.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archet...
2019-11-07
07 min
Ruwando Podcast
My First Year in a Matriarchal Sex Cult
I was in a matriarchal sex cult for two years in my early 20's. The journey turned out to be one of the most meaningful experiences of my life, teaching me a foundational knowledge of the psyche that I couldn't have gotten in any normal school.This is Part 1 of what I think will be two parts. I speak about my first year in the cult, my background that led me to seek this adventure, and some notes on cult psychology and how group realities are formed.To participate in Part 2 live, join...
2019-11-04
58 min
Ruwando Podcast
Masculinity and Failure: How Men Should Use Hardship
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Most people misunderstand masculine vulnerability. Men need to be vulnerable, but not in the same way as women. The main difference has to with challenges, winning, and failure. Understanding this is the key for men to grow and become better men. This video shares tips for men, obviously. But if you're a woman who dates men, please watch this video to understand your man's emotions, especially when he is struggling.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com2...
2019-10-31
12 min
Ruwando Podcast
068 Karen Lorre: Chronic Pleasure
Karen Lorre teaches meditation and coaches people to healing through pleasure. She speaks with me on how to alchemize bad emotions, how materialization really works, and shares some anecdotes about Hugh Hefner during her time as a Playboy playmate. She is the author of Chronic Pleasure, I book I’ve been using to introduce healing and ease into my life. The print goes on sale later this year, but for a limited time, listeners of the Ruwando Podcast can get the free electronic copy. Just email karenlorre@me.com with the SUBJ: Chronic Pleasure and say hi. :)...
2019-10-30
57 min
Ruwando Podcast
Hacking Abundance: How Giving Actually Creates More
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Abundance and Generosity are not the same thing. Abundance, despite all the vagueries the 'Law of Attraction' promotes, there is a procedure by which you can change how you relate to material resources.Brittnee Bond and I share about in abundance retreat we put on in Thailand.Charity by Collective: TheNeighborFund.comJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou
2019-10-24
03 min
Ruwando Podcast
Bottoming: When Feminine-style Influence Masculine Power
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.I made a bad move with some cops recently... I was being too "masculine". There's a time and place to be Top Dog. There's many times where guys can take a practical tip from the ladies.We dig into how to practically deploy your anima (feminine-side) in the 21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetypeJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou #Cialdini #BDS...
2019-10-17
02 min
Ruwando Podcast
Dating Your Partner's Archetypes
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.comWhen you date someone, you're also dating their archetypes.Carl Jung coined the term "Quaternio" for the 6 archetypal relationships that exist when two people get together. Here I break down how you relate to the unconscious parts of your partners.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/bran...
2019-10-10
05 min
Ruwando Podcast
How to Handle Women's Emotional Reality
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit youtube.ruwando.com.'The Masculine' (testosterone-fueled characteristics) exists to handle material reality. Men who don't recognise the Sunday being weak partners and don't give women the opportunity to be women.If you want to create the environment where a woman feel emotionally safe to surrender into the joys of love and softness, you must understand her emotional reality.Men who have power, take responsibility. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://r...
2019-10-03
05 min
Ruwando Podcast
Paying for Women, Text Game, Sexual Performance Mindset, Sexual Shame
1:32 Paying for women on dates, providing, screening golddiggers, what to look for8:32 Text game, communication tempo, how to know what to text, subcommunication, leading vulnerability17:02 Sexual Performance Psychology23:34 Overcoming Shame ShameThis is from the FB Live in the Masculine Underground Forum.To ask questions and attend live join the free FB Group: forum.masculineunderground.comLearn about Archetypal Masculinity: https://archetype.ruwando.com/21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge: http://bit.ly/21archetype...
2019-09-22
30 min
Ruwando Podcast
061 Jordan Luke Collier: Ars Amorata
Jordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata and men’s coach. We go deep into attachment theory for men in dating, the spirituality of beauty, and some of the inevitable “magical” experiences when a man reaches advanced levels with women.Find his work at ArsAmorata.com & JordanLukeCollier.com.Ruwando.com/Podcast#Archetype #Psychology #Dating #Relationships #RedPill #Feminism #Masculinity See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substa...
2019-09-11
1h 12
Ruwando Podcast
054 Om Rupani: Conscious Dominance & Male Leadership
Om Rupani is a Dominance and Submission instructor. He’s been on the podcast a bunch. We speak about culturization of males (and females, sexual archetypes, and fun).OmRupani.orgRuwando.com/Podcast#Psychology #Jung #Archetype #Masculinity #BDSM #Podcast #RedPill #Feminism See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2019-06-05
1h 06
Ruwando Podcast
053 Elliott Hulse: Masculine Initiation
Elliott Hulse is a strongman, creator, entrepreneur, and holder of men’s initiation. We speak about masculinity, rites of passage, metaphysics, and the mind-body connection. His next men’s retreat is coming up in June: GroundingCamp.com21 Day Challenge: MasculineUnderground.com/ArchetypePodcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com#Podcast #Masculinity #Strength #Psychology #Metaphysics #Reich #Jung #Archetype #ElliottHulse #Redpill #MGTOW #Fatherhood See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Subst...
2019-05-29
1h 00
Ruwando Podcast
053 Elliott Hulse: Masculine Initiation
Elliott Hulse is a strongman, creator, entrepreneur, and holder of men’s initiation. We speak about masculinity, rites of passage, metaphysics, and the mind-body connection. His next men’s retreat is coming up in June: GroundingCamp.com21 Day Challenge: MasculineUnderground.com/ArchetypePodcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com#Podcast #Masculinity #Strength #Psychology #Metaphysics #Reich #Jung #Archetype #ElliottHulse #Redpill #MGTOW #Fatherhood See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/ruwando-podcast2515/donations
2019-05-29
1h 00
Ruwando Podcast
052 Dr. Robert Glover: Nice Guy Syndrome, Archetypal Masculinity
Dr. Robert Glover is the author No More Mr. Nice Guy, a book that was already culturally impactful, and is possibly now more important than ever. We cover Red Pill/MGTOW, monogamy vs. tribal families, parental conditioning/child development, archetypal masculinity, and of course, techniques for mitigating Nice Guy Syndrome. One of my favorite episodes of the year.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com#Podcast #Psychology #Archetype #Masculinity #Jung #Freud #RedPill #MGTOW #SexatDawn #NiceGuySyndrome #MensWork #Fatherhood See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information....
2019-05-22
1h 09
Ruwando Podcast
052 Dr. Robert Glover: Nice Guy Syndrome, Archetypal Masculinity
Dr. Robert Glover is the author No More Mr. Nice Guy, a book that was already culturally impactful, and is possibly now more important than ever. We cover Red Pill/MGTOW, monogamy vs. tribal families, parental conditioning/child development, archetypal masculinity, and of course, techniques for mitigating Nice Guy Syndrome. One of my favorite episodes of the year.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com#Podcast #Psychology #Archetype #Masculinity #Jung #Freud #RedPill #MGTOW #SexatDawn #NiceGuySyndrome #MensWork #Fatherhood See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information....
2019-05-22
1h 09
Ruwando Podcast
051 Hans Comyn: Seduction, Honor, Creation of Beauty
Hans Comyn is a scholar, seducer, and full-time traveler. He went from an academic career in sociology to a path of inquiry into the art of seduction, beauty, and adventure. I particularly enjoyed his take on the creation of beauty and seduction as an altruistic act. He’s offering his coaching at half price to listeners of the Ruwando Podcast at hanscomyn.com.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com#Dating #Psychology #Spirituality #Masculinity #Archetype #Honor #Beauty #Art #Creativity See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2019-05-15
53 min
Ruwando Podcast
051 Hans Comyn: Seduction, Honor, Creation of Beauty
Hans Comyn is a scholar, seducer, and full-time traveler. He went from an academic career in sociology to a path of inquiry into the art of seduction, beauty, and adventure. I particularly enjoyed his take on the creation of beauty and seduction as an altruistic act. He’s offering his coaching at half price to listeners of the Ruwando Podcast at hanscomyn.com.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com#Dating #Psychology #Spirituality #Masculinity #Archetype #Honor #Beauty #Art #Creativity See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2019-05-15
53 min
Ruwando Podcast
050 Devotion, Bali, Night Kings feat. Summer Engman
Summer is a photographer and all around creative cat. We used to host a radio show about dating in Brooklyn. Now we meet in various parts of the world and do radio-like things. In this episode Summer analyzes my relationship tendencies. We also theorize about this season of Game of Thrones as a metaphor for life.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com@summerinwaves@summerhokulani #Psychology #Dating #Relationships #Archetype #Mythology #Masculinefeminine #Devotion #GameofThrones #Nightking #Bali #Travel #Podcast #DoingStuff See acast.com/privacy for privacy and...
2019-05-08
49 min
Ruwando Podcast
050 Devotion, Bali, Night Kings feat. Summer Engman
Summer is a photographer and all around creative cat. We used to host a radio show about dating in Brooklyn. Now we meet in various parts of the world and do radio-like things. In this episode Summer analyzes my relationship tendencies. We also theorize about this season of Game of Thrones as a metaphor for life.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.com@summerinwaves@summerhokulani #Psychology #Dating #Relationships #Archetype #Mythology #Masculinefeminine #Devotion #GameofThrones #Nightking #Bali #Travel #Podcast #DoingStuff See acast.com/privacy for privacy and...
2019-05-08
49 min
Ruwando Podcast
048 Steve Mayeda
I saw Steve speak back in 2012 when I was first training to be a dating coach. He made an offhand remark that helped totally shift my life trajectory. We ran into each more recently doing Jiu-Jitsu. We riffed on masculinity, purpose, martial arts, relationships, fatherhood and other man stuff.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.comSteve Mayeda is a men’s coach dedicated to helping men achieve personal excellence since 2006. He is the father of 4 boys and lives in Austin TX with his wife Maria. When he’s not working with men he...
2019-04-17
1h 04
Ruwando Podcast
048 Steve Mayeda
I saw Steve speak back in 2012 when I was first training to be a dating coach. He made an offhand remark that helped totally shift my life trajectory. We ran into each more recently doing Jiu-Jitsu. We riffed on masculinity, purpose, martial arts, relationships, fatherhood and other man stuff.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.comSteve Mayeda is a men’s coach dedicated to helping men achieve personal excellence since 2006. He is the father of 4 boys and lives in Austin TX with his wife Maria. When he’s not working with men he...
2019-04-17
1h 05
Ruwando Podcast
044 The Male Hero’s Journey feat. Joe Ducard
Do guys just want to get laid? From the outside it’s easy to judge men who want to learn “how to seduce women.” But few non-men recognize that almost always that journey is sparked by loneliness, shyness, and a deep desire to connect. Sex just happens to be a more acceptable pursuit than connection. Dating coach Joe Ducard comes on to speak about the Male Hero’s Journey, spirituality, and even economics. He helps men attract with through authenticity. Check him out at joeducard.com.ruwando.com/podcasttheneighborfund.com#Dating...
2019-03-13
57 min
Ruwando Podcast
031 Q&A Feat. Tim Jack
Tim Jack has questions for Ruwando about dating, developing confidence, and self-help being a genre of entertainment. We also cover the problems with conventional education and other tangents. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2018-11-26
1h 16
Ruwando Podcast
021 Gavin Robert McGowen: Dry Fasting & Interstellar Blends
Gavin Robert McGowen is the founder of Interstellar Blend and an expert on dry fasting. I've been on his 22/2 fasting protocol for a month. Use code RUWANDO for 10% off on interstellarblend.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2017-11-13
1h 07
Ruwando Podcast
022 Gavin Robert McGowen: Shadowbanning
Gavin Robert McGowen is the founder of Interstellar Blend, herbal blends for vitality. This is part 2 of 2. We talk about Shadowbanning, how social media sites may be doctoring how information gets spread.Use the code RUWANDO for 10% off on Interstellarblend.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe
2017-11-13
1h 08