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The Love Clarity Podcastđď¸ Episode 13: Revenge, Forgiveness, or Walking Away?What if healing isnât about forgiving themâor making them payâbut about reclaiming your peace?
In this unflinching episode, Sanya Bariârelationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivorâdives into the messy aftermath of betrayal: the urge to get even, the pressure to forgive, and the power of simply walking away.
Youâll hear her own story and a clientâs raw, rage-filled momentâand what happens when revenge turns into reflection.
Because sometimes healing doesnât come from closure.
It comes from letting go of the sword.
Youâll hear:
đĽ Why the fant...2025-05-2812 min
The Love Clarity Podcastđď¸ Episode 12: Can You Ever Really Heal After Being Cheated On?What if the healing you need isnât about trusting them againâbut finally trusting yourself?
In this raw and powerful episode, Sanya Bariârelationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivorâasks the question so many silently carry: Can you really heal after being cheated on? Through her own story and a clientâs experience, she reveals what most healing advice leaves out.
Because betrayal doesnât just come from someone elseâit also comes from the moments we abandon our own knowing.
Youâll hear:
đ What betrayal actually does to your identity and sense of safety
đ§ W...2025-05-2111 min
The Love Clarity Podcastđď¸ Episode 11: The Microtruth That Changed EverythingWhat if the first betrayal wasnât theirsâit was yours?
In this deeply personal episode, Sanya Bariârelationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivorâshares the quiet but powerful shift that transformed her healing: microtruths. If youâve been stuck in cycles of betrayal, self-abandonment, or emotional burnout, this episode is the wake-up call you didnât know you needed.
Youâll hear:
đ A personal story of repeating painful patterns despite all the healing work
đ§ How small lies we tell ourselves create inner confusion and break self-trust
đą Why microtruths are the foundation of peace, clarity, and unshakable boundari...2025-05-1417 min
The Love Clarity Podcastđď¸ Episode 10: How to Date Again After Toxic Love (Without Repeating the Same Mistakes)What if youâre not scared of dating againâ
youâre just scared of losing yourself again?
In this powerful episode, Sanya Bariârelationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivorâdives into what it really takes to re-enter love after toxic relationships. If youâve done the work, but still freeze at the thought of dating againâthis is the clarity your heart has been asking for.
Youâll hear:
đ A real client story of wanting love but not wanting to pay for it with herself
đ§ Why fear after toxicity isnât weaknessâitâs wisdom
đą How to date again without overe...2025-05-0917 min
The Warrior Mindset PodcastThe 4 Love Lies We Must Unlearn to Heal Ourselves and Our RelationshipsIâve been thinking a lot about the invisible patterns we inheritâthe ones that quietly dictate how we love, parent, and show up in the world. This week on The Warrior Mindset, I had the absolute pleasure of speaking with Sanya Bari, a relationship transformation coach and spiritual psychologist whose story and method shook something awake in me.Sanya's journey started with a promise she made to herself at the age of nine: to figure out how to love without getting hurt. That quest led her through traditional therapy, years of clinical prac...2025-05-0637 min
The Love Clarity Podcastđď¸ Episode 9: The Silent Abuse That No One Talks AboutâEmotional Neglect & GaslightingWhat if the pain youâre carrying isnât from what was done to youâbut from everything that wasnât?
In this powerful episode, Sanya Bariârelationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivorâdives into the often-overlooked wounds of emotional neglect and gaslighting. If youâve ever felt invisible, doubted your reality, or wondered, âIs it me?ââthis is the clarity youâve been waiting for.
Youâll hear:
đ A real client story of surviving emotional neglect without ever being âhitâ
đ§ Why gaslighting is more than lyingâitâs the erosion of your reality
đą How to reclaim your truth, your needs, and yo...2025-04-3012 min
The Love Clarity Podcastđď¸ Episode 8: Co-Parenting With a Toxic ExâWithout Losing Your SanityWhy do we still ache for people who hurt us?
And how do we co-parent with someone who continues to trigger us, manipulate, or punish usâeven after the relationship is over?
In this powerful episode, Sanya Bariârelationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivorâshares real-world tools for co-parenting with a toxic ex without losing your peace or clarity.
Youâll hear:
đ A real client story of co-parenting with a toxic ex
đ§ The truth about why peace in co-parenting isnât about changing the other person
đą How to stop reacting to their chaos and protect your emotional safe...2025-04-2317 min
The Love Clarity PodcastEpisode 7: How to Heal After a Toxic Breakup (Even If You Still Love Them)Why do we still ache for people who hurt us?
And how do we move forward when our heart still longs for what our mind knows wasnât good for us?
In this powerful episode, Sanya Bariârelationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivorâguides you through the confusing grief that follows a toxic breakup.
Youâll hear:
đ A real client story of loving someone who wasnât safe
đ§ The truth about why breakups hurt even when you know it was the right decision
đą How to honor your feelings without letting them pull you backward
This episode is y...2025-04-1608 min
The Love Clarity Podcastđď¸ Episode 6: Why Narcissists Are So Addictive (And How to Break Free)Why is it so hard to let go of someone who hurt you? Why does it feel like love⌠even when itâs breaking you down?
In this powerful episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, Sanya Bari unpacks the addictive nature of narcissistic relationshipsâfrom both personal and clinical experience. Youâll discover how trauma bonds are formed, why your brain keeps chasing the highs, and the first step to breaking the emotional loop for good.
In This Episode, Youâll Learn:
đ Why âloveâ with a narcissist often feels more like a drug than a connection
đ§ How...2025-04-1017 min
The Love Clarity PodcastEpisode 5: What to Do When You Love Someone Who Keeps Hurting YouLoving someone doesnât mean sacrificing yourself.
But when you love someone who keeps hurting you, itâs easy to feel trapped between your heart and your self-worth.
You tell yourself they donât mean to, that theyâll change, that love is supposed to be hardâbut what if none of that is true?
In this episode of the Love Clarity Podcast, Iâm sharing what keeps so many people stuck in painful loveâand how to begin reclaiming your power without losing your heart.
1ď¸âŁ Why We Stay in Painful Love
đĄ Core Insight...2025-04-0217 min
The Love Clarity PodcastEpisode 4 - How to Set Boundaries That Actually Work (No Guilt, No Second-Guessing)Setting boundaries shouldnât feel like losing love. But for so many of us, it does.
We hesitate. We explain. We second-guess. Because deep down, weâre afraid:
âIf I say no, will they still love me?â
The truth is, boundaries donât hurt real relationshipsâthey reveal them.
In this episode of Love Clarity Podcast, host Sanya Bari unpacks one of the most misunderstood parts of emotional health: how to set boundaries that actually workâwithout guilt, apology, or fear.
What Youâll Learn:
â
Why setting boundaries makes you feel guiltyâand how to...2025-03-2618 min
The Love Clarity PodcastEpisode 3: Rebuilding Trust After BetrayalâWithout Losing Your DignityBetrayal isnât just about what someone did to youâitâs about how it rewrites your trust in yourself. It makes you question everything: your judgment, your worth, and whether youâll ever feel safe to trust again.
But hereâs what no one tells you: Rebuilding trust isnât about learning to trust them againâitâs about learning to trust yourself.
In this episode of Love Clarity Podcast, host Sanya Bari dives deep into one of the most painful questions: How do you rebuild trust after betrayalâwithout losing your dignity?
What Youâll Lear...2025-03-1921 min
The Love Clarity PodcastEpisode 2: Why You Keep Attracting the Same Toxic Relationships (And How to Stop)If you keep attracting the same painful relationships, rewriting your attraction patterns is the key to breaking free.
Attraction is wired into your system, and to change who you attract, you have to change what your system is drawn to.
đĄ In this episode, we dive into:
âď¸ Why attraction is a subconscious pattern
âď¸ How to shift your internal âsettingsâ to break toxic cycles
âď¸ The first step to creating a new default: PAUSE
đĽ Key Takeaway:
Pause. If you donât stop to recognize your default attraction patterns, youâll stay stuck in survival mod...2025-03-1209 min
The Love Clarity PodcastEpisode 1: Why Love Hurts. And How to Stop the PainIn this very first episode, weâre diving into a question so many of us have asked: Why does love hurts?
The truth is, love itself isnât painfulâitâs the way weâve been conditioned to see it, the patterns weâve inherited, and the programming weâve unconsciously accepted.
The Real Reason Behind Emotional Pain
Many people struggle with painful relationships and wonder, âWhy does love hurt?â The reality is that love, in its purest form, doesnât cause pain.
Instead, our childhood experiences, attachment styles, and emotional wounds shape our definition of lo...2025-03-0513 min
Relationship AdviceLove, Relationships, Giving And Receiving Love and relationships can often get mixed up in terms of the difference between the two and how we experience them. Understanding the deeper meaning of love and relationships for ourselves can help us navigate our lives and relate better. Listen to today's show for an interesting discussion around these topics and much more!In this episode with Sanya Bari we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The nature of relationships and why they require rules
The important distinction between a 'secret sacrifice' and compromiseÂ
What to do if resentment is building because of sacrifices you're mak...2023-09-2042 minRelationship AdviceLove, Relationships, Giving And Receiving Love and relationships can often get mixed up in terms of the difference between the two and how we experience them. Understanding the deeper meaning of love and relationships for ourselves can help us navigate our lives and relate better. Listen to today's show for an interesting discussion around these topics and much more!In this episode with Sanya Bari we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The nature of relationships and why they require rules
The important distinction between a 'secret sacrifice' and compromiseÂ
What to do if resentment is building because of sacrifices you're mak...2023-09-2042 min
Mindset Of Steel LIVE SHOWName Your IDENTITIES... Crush Your Limiting Beliefs đđĽYour behavior and actions are consistent with your identity. Your identity creates boundaries in your life that tell you where and what are the things you do and don't do. In this episode we are going to discuss how our limiting beliefs affect our identity and keep us back from reaching a goal.
With special guest Licensed Professional Counselor, Psychotherapist and CEO of Counseling With A Difference, Sanya Bari MEd, LPC, NCC, CTS
How do you get from where you are TODAY to where you want to be TOMORROW??? Watch THIS!
When you...2020-10-2222 min
The Couples Expert Podcast | Marriage and Relationship Advice | Rekindling Your LoveDiscernment Counseling and How Marriages Can Be Saved Even at the Brink of DivorceWelcome to episode 115 of The Couples Expert Podcast. Stuartâs topic today is Discernment Counseling with Sanya Bari from Mountain Lakes, New Jersey where she counsels couples in trouble. She works to help them look at their decisions in a new way that allows them to make a less impulsive and more informed decision [...]
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