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Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense58. Managing Jealousy in Relationships ft. MultiamoryWhy do we feel jealous? Jealousy is often a complex, catch-all word that encompasses the emotions of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or anger. Some people romanticize this feeling in relationships. Others use jealousy as a justification for controlling and destructive behaviour. On this episode, Sara sits down with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast (https://www.multiamory.com/), to unpack the topic of jealousy. We start off by defining what jealousy is, and sharing candid personal experiences to show it’s a familiar, normal feeli...2023-05-261h 01Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense58. Managing Jealousy in Relationships ft. MultiamoryWhy do we feel jealous? Jealousy is often a complex, catch-all word that encompasses the emotions of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or anger. Some people romanticize this feeling in relationships. Others use jealousy as a justification for controlling and destructive behaviour. On this episode, Sara sits down with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast (https://www.multiamory.com/), to unpack the topic of jealousy. We start off by defining what jealousy is, and sharing candid personal experiences to show it’s a familiar, normal feeli...2023-05-261h 01
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThe Healing Practice of Yoni MassageYoni massage, which has its origins in Tantra, has recently been getting a lot of attention in the sexual wellness space. What is the meaning of Yoni anyway? It’s Sanskrit term that means “sacred portal” and it represents all the female genital parts - the vulva, vagina, womb and feminine essence. On this episode, Sara is joined by her sex-positive friend Will and Viv Kan (https://www.mindfulintimacy.co), a mindful intimacy coach. They discuss the benefits of yoni massage, what the experience is like and how to incorporate this practice...2023-01-2657 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThe Healing Practice of Yoni MassageYoni massage, which has its origins in Tantra, has recently been getting a lot of attention in the sexual wellness space. What is the meaning of Yoni anyway? It’s Sanskrit term that means “sacred portal” and it represents all the female genital parts - the vulva, vagina, womb and feminine essence. On this episode, Sara is joined by her sex-positive friend Will and Viv Kan (https://www.mindfulintimacy.co), a mindful intimacy coach. They discuss the benefits of yoni massage, what the experience is like and how to incorporate this practice...2023-01-2657 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseAchieving Work Life, Sex Life BalanceMany of you are busy people with multiple responsibilities and who lead stressful lives. So how do you navigate a good work life, sex life balance? On this episode, Sara talks with Lisa Fei and celebrity matchmaker Carmelia Ray about how to juggle a busy work life and maintain a fulfilling sex life. Respectively, Lisa and Carmelia are the Founder and Head Coach of the relationship wellness app, Clarity (http://clarityapp.io) which offers tools for navigating every stage of your relationship journey. Carmelia starts off by defining what an ideal wor...2023-01-0853 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseAchieving Work Life, Sex Life BalanceMany of you are busy people with multiple responsibilities and who lead stressful lives. So how do you navigate a good work life, sex life balance? On this episode, Sara talks with Lisa Fei and celebrity matchmaker Carmelia Ray about how to juggle a busy work life and maintain a fulfilling sex life. Respectively, Lisa and Carmelia are the Founder and Head Coach of the relationship wellness app, Clarity (http://clarityapp.io) which offers tools for navigating every stage of your relationship journey. Carmelia starts off by defining what an ideal wor...2023-01-0853 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThe Ins & Outs of Sex PartiesCurious about attending a sex party, also known as a play party? Think about entering a party with a giant bed, and everyone’s exploring their kinks and fetishes. It’s a smorgasbord of pleasure… On this episode, Sara speaks with a sex-positive couple, James and Kat, who enjoy organizing sex parties. They share their experiences on the ins and outs of planning such a party. James and Kat share the motivations of people in joining a sex party and the kinds of people one might meet at such a...2022-12-1655 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThe Ins & Outs of Sex PartiesCurious about attending a sex party, also known as a play party? Think about entering a party with a giant bed, and everyone’s exploring their kinks and fetishes. It’s a smorgasbord of pleasure… On this episode, Sara speaks with a sex-positive couple, James and Kat, who enjoy organizing sex parties. They share their experiences on the ins and outs of planning such a party. James and Kat share the motivations of people in joining a sex party and the kinds of people one might meet at such a...2022-12-1655 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseHow to Enjoy Porn Ethically with Paulita PappelHow can you enjoy porn ethically - with more of the pleasure and less of the guilt? Porn is commonly used to accompany masturbation. On this episode, Sara chats with erotic filmmaker Paulita Pappel (www.paulitapappel.com) on what constitutes “ethical porn” and how to consume it in a healthy and responsible way. As someone who has been both in front and behind the camera, Paulita shares her journey into erotic filmmaking and how she defines her role as a feminist in the industry. She shares her personal...2022-11-241h 12Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseHow to Enjoy Porn Ethically with Paulita PappelHow can you enjoy porn ethically - with more of the pleasure and less of the guilt? Porn is commonly used to accompany masturbation. On this episode, Sara chats with erotic filmmaker Paulita Pappel (www.paulitapappel.com) on what constitutes “ethical porn” and how to consume it in a healthy and responsible way. As someone who has been both in front and behind the camera, Paulita shares her journey into erotic filmmaking and how she defines her role as a feminist in the industry. She shares her personal...2022-11-241h 12
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseOh My G! Finding & Stimulating the G-SpotIt’s been called the “Holy Grail” of the woman’s pleasure anatomy. But does the G-spot even exist? It's been a highly debated question. And one that Sara discusses with co-host Kat Leung and guest Vera Lui on this episode. Vera is the founder of Sally Coco (http://sallystoy.com), the first female-friendly sex toy shop in Hong Kong, and a certified sex educator who is happy to share the latest research on the G-spot (or more accurately, G-area), and debunk its biggest myths. Finding and stimulating one's G-spot takes time and p...2022-11-041h 00Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseOh My G! Finding & Stimulating the G-SpotIt’s been called the “Holy Grail” of the woman’s pleasure anatomy. But does the G-spot even exist? It's been a highly debated question. And one that Sara discusses with co-host Kat Leung and guest Vera Lui on this episode. Vera is the founder of Sally Coco (http://sallystoy.com), the first female-friendly sex toy shop in Hong Kong, and a certified sex educator who is happy to share the latest research on the G-spot (or more accurately, G-area), and debunk its biggest myths. Finding and stimulating one's G-spot takes time and p...2022-11-041h 00
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How Do I Get My Libido Back?How do I get my libido back? From antidepressants, to trying to conceive and having kids, Sara invites clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kristin Zeising (http://drzeising.com) on this Sex FAQs episode to tackle the different real-life situations that could cause one’s libido to do a disappearing act. We answer the following questions: “Sex is often over in seconds with my husband. But we ignored these issues because we were great friends. Now I just feel nothing towards him sexually. What should I do?” “I enjoy masturbating regularly using porn. But...2022-10-0935 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How Do I Get My Libido Back?How do I get my libido back? From antidepressants, to trying to conceive and having kids, Sara invites clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kristin Zeising (http://drzeising.com) on this Sex FAQs episode to tackle the different real-life situations that could cause one’s libido to do a disappearing act. We answer the following questions: “Sex is often over in seconds with my husband. But we ignored these issues because we were great friends. Now I just feel nothing towards him sexually. What should I do?” “I enjoy masturbating regularly using porn. But...2022-10-0935 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseExploring Prostate PlayHave you heard of the “male G-spot”? It’s another name for the prostate and it’s a major erogenous zone. But it’s an area that has been largely unexplored by most people. On this episode, Sara and Prescott Gaylord (http://prescottgaylord.com), an improv actor and intimacy co-ordinator, go on a journey to explore everything in prostate play. First, we discuss what is a prostate, where you can find it, and the benefits of stimulating it for pleasure. Prescott shares his personal experiences of prostate orgasms, which feel longer lasting and...2022-09-181h 00Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseExploring Prostate PlayHave you heard of the “male G-spot”? It’s another name for the prostate and it’s a major erogenous zone. But it’s an area that has been largely unexplored by most people. On this episode, Sara and Prescott Gaylord (http://prescottgaylord.com), an improv actor and intimacy co-ordinator, go on a journey to explore everything in prostate play. First, we discuss what is a prostate, where you can find it, and the benefits of stimulating it for pleasure. Prescott shares his personal experiences of prostate orgasms, which feel longer lasting and...2022-09-181h 00
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasensePracticing Mindful MasturbationHow can you be more mindful with masturbation? Mindfulness has taken off as a wellness practice in recent years, yet most people don’t generally think of using it in the context of masturbation. Mindful masturbation is all about reconnecting with yourself and focusing on what makes you feel good. The practice encourages everyone to slow down, become conscious of pleasure and explore the body more holistically, instead of just focusing on the genitals. On this episode, Sara and co-host Prescott invite Singaporean sexuality and intimacy coach Gabriel / “Pothos” (https://www.sen...2022-05-311h 03Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasensePracticing Mindful MasturbationHow can you be more mindful with masturbation? Mindfulness has taken off as a wellness practice in recent years, yet most people don’t generally think of using it in the context of masturbation. Mindful masturbation is all about reconnecting with yourself and focusing on what makes you feel good. The practice encourages everyone to slow down, become conscious of pleasure and explore the body more holistically, instead of just focusing on the genitals. On this episode, Sara and co-host Prescott invite Singaporean sexuality and intimacy coach Gabriel / “Pothos” (https://www.sen...2022-05-311h 03
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations. On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafter.asia/) answer your most pressing questions around building sexual confidence. Topics on this episode include: How do I feel sexy in my body after a double mastectomy for breast cancer? How can I stop being anxious about my small penis size? I’ve noticed a pattern in my relationships that sex with my par...2022-05-1540 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations. On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafter.asia/) answer your most pressing questions around building sexual confidence. Topics on this episode include: How do I feel sexy in my body after a double mastectomy for breast cancer? How can I stop being anxious about my small penis size? I’ve noticed a pattern in my relationships that sex with my par...2022-05-1540 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThreesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes with Vonny LangIs three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang (http://instagram.com/vonnylang), to chat about our personal experiences around group sex. We explore the different benefits and dynamics of group sex, and why its such a common fantasy. We also discuss the common fears that people may have when approaching group sex, and how to overcome them. 2022-04-281h 13Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThreesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes with Vonny LangIs three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang (http://instagram.com/vonnylang), to chat about our personal experiences around group sex. We explore the different benefits and dynamics of group sex, and why its such a common fantasy. We also discuss the common fears that people may have when approaching group sex, and how to overcome them. 2022-04-281h 13
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start? On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as: What basic ground rules should I set if I’m just starting out with open relationships How can I handle my intense attraction to a new lover since I started to open my relationship with my spouse? I want to have an open relationship, but how do I manage my jealousy? How do I bring...2022-03-2244 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start? On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as: What basic ground rules should I set if I’m just starting out with open relationships How can I handle my intense attraction to a new lover since I started to open my relationship with my spouse? I want to have an open relationship, but how do I manage my jealousy? How do I bring...2022-03-2244 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.Ever been in a sexual situation where your - or your partner's - penis wasn't doing exactly what you wanted it to do? Penis issues are incredibly common, yet they are often accompanied by stress, fear, anxiety, and shame. The penis-owner can feel like a failure, and they can make sex a task instead of a pleasure. That’s why Sara and Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual health company Promescent (http://promescent.com) sit down and answer your most pressing penis questions on this Sex FAQs episode. Topics include: How do I ov...2022-03-0652 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.Ever been in a sexual situation where your - or your partner's - penis wasn't doing exactly what you wanted it to do? Penis issues are incredibly common, yet they are often accompanied by stress, fear, anxiety, and shame. The penis-owner can feel like a failure, and they can make sex a task instead of a pleasure. That’s why Sara and Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual health company Promescent (http://promescent.com) sit down and answer your most pressing penis questions on this Sex FAQs episode. Topics include: How do I ov...2022-03-0652 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSelf-Love is SexyHow does self-love help us have a better sex life? On this uplifting episode, Sara sits down with co-host and relationship coach Valentina Tudose of Happy Ever After to discuss the principles of self-love and how they apply to the bedroom. We start off with a definition of how self-love is about accepting and integrating all parts of ourselves, even the parts that we might ordinarily hide, reject or be ashamed of. When we love ourselves enough, we stop performing in the bedroom, we have more pleasure, and...2022-02-201h 06Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSelf-Love is SexyHow does self-love help us have a better sex life? On this uplifting episode, Sara sits down with co-host and relationship coach Valentina Tudose of Happy Ever After to discuss the principles of self-love and how they apply to the bedroom. We start off with a definition of how self-love is about accepting and integrating all parts of ourselves, even the parts that we might ordinarily hide, reject or be ashamed of. When we love ourselves enough, we stop performing in the bedroom, we have more pleasure, and...2022-02-201h 06
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseRekindling Sexual DesireHow can we rekindle the sexual desire for a long-term partner? Or is desire always destined to fade? On this pre-Valentine’s Day episode, Sara chats with Dr. Kristin Zeising, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, and co-host Mo from the Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast, and we tackle all things sexual desire. Kristin shares the latest scientific thinking on the sexual response cycle, and we discuss the different styles of sexual desire - spontaneous vs responsive. We learn that sexual desire doesn’t have to fade in...2022-02-0658 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseRekindling Sexual DesireHow can we rekindle the sexual desire for a long-term partner? Or is desire always destined to fade? On this pre-Valentine’s Day episode, Sara chats with Dr. Kristin Zeising, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, and co-host Mo from the Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast, and we tackle all things sexual desire. Kristin shares the latest scientific thinking on the sexual response cycle, and we discuss the different styles of sexual desire - spontaneous vs responsive. We learn that sexual desire doesn’t have to fade in...2022-02-0658 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThe Art of Erotic TouchHow are you incorporating erotic touch into your sex life? On this sensual episode, Sara chats with sex educator and founder of Confident Lovers, Christina Antonyan and co-host Kat Leung about the art of erotic touch. Touch is fundamentally important to all of us, as a love language and form of communication. It is also one of the key skills to the art of lovemaking. We discuss the different types of touch that lovers typically use to communicate, from sensual, affectionate to sexual. We also share simple, practical tips around how to enjoy...2022-01-2157 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThe Art of Erotic TouchHow are you incorporating erotic touch into your sex life? On this sensual episode, Sara chats with sex educator and founder of Confident Lovers, Christina Antonyan and co-host Kat Leung about the art of erotic touch. Touch is fundamentally important to all of us, as a love language and form of communication. It is also one of the key skills to the art of lovemaking. We discuss the different types of touch that lovers typically use to communicate, from sensual, affectionate to sexual. We also share simple, practical tips around how to enjoy...2022-01-2157 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex Toys & Your Sexual HealthCan sex toys be good for our sexual - and overall - health? Many of us regard sex toys as tools of pleasure, but this informative episode will help you to rethink the possibilities of sex toys, and how you’re using them. Sara chats with Dr. Soum Rakshit, co-founder of Mysteryvibe, a brand that aims to solve big topics in sexual health in an accessible way. Mysteryvibe creates FDA-approved medical devices for sexual health, which also do double-duty as sex toys and pleasure products. We explore how sex toys can be used to...2021-12-1836 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex Toys & Your Sexual HealthCan sex toys be good for our sexual - and overall - health? Many of us regard sex toys as tools of pleasure, but this informative episode will help you to rethink the possibilities of sex toys, and how you’re using them. Sara chats with Dr. Soum Rakshit, co-founder of Mysteryvibe, a brand that aims to solve big topics in sexual health in an accessible way. Mysteryvibe creates FDA-approved medical devices for sexual health, which also do double-duty as sex toys and pleasure products. We explore how sex toys can be used to...2021-12-1836 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBecoming Sexually Assertive & Dominant with Mistress Eva OhHow can you be more sexually assertive and dominant in the bedroom? Sara co-hosts this episode with kink coach Jannus, and we chat with guest Mistress Eva Oh, a professional dominatrix about her journey into BDSM. We discuss the psychology behind being assertive and dominant in a BDSM context and the dynamics that come with it. We learn where sexual power comes from, and what we can do to step into that power or give it away. Whether or not you’re into BDSM, sexual assertiveness is something that we can all practice by...2021-12-031h 02Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBecoming Sexually Assertive & Dominant with Mistress Eva OhHow can you be more sexually assertive and dominant in the bedroom? Sara co-hosts this episode with kink coach Jannus, and we chat with guest Mistress Eva Oh, a professional dominatrix about her journey into BDSM. We discuss the psychology behind being assertive and dominant in a BDSM context and the dynamics that come with it. We learn where sexual power comes from, and what we can do to step into that power or give it away. Whether or not you’re into BDSM, sexual assertiveness is something that we can all practice by...2021-12-031h 02
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseHotter Sex on HolidayWhy is sex always so hot when you’re on holiday? In this hilarious episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Kat and Will, about some fun and exciting holiday sex encounters. Holiday sex brings out a sense of adventure in all of us, it allows us to break from routine and explore something new in a completely different setting. We tend to be less inhibited and experience more anticipation. While the sex may be hotter, we also talk about some of the potential drawbacks of holiday sex and what to do to avoid th...2021-11-1753 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseHotter Sex on HolidayWhy is sex always so hot when you’re on holiday? In this hilarious episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Kat and Will, about some fun and exciting holiday sex encounters. Holiday sex brings out a sense of adventure in all of us, it allows us to break from routine and explore something new in a completely different setting. We tend to be less inhibited and experience more anticipation. While the sex may be hotter, we also talk about some of the potential drawbacks of holiday sex and what to do to avoid th...2021-11-1753 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseOvercoming Sexual Prejudice with Project XHow do you perceive sex work and sex workers? And why does the stigma around sex work exist? Sara and co-host Prescott interview Vanessa Ho of Project X, a non-profit group dedicated to advocating for sex workers' rights in Singapore. Vanessa helps to clarify some of the biggest misconceptions around sex work, and shares with us how the nature of sex work has changed over the years. We discuss the draconian laws in many Asian countries surrounding sex work and the risks and dangers many sex workers fac...2021-10-111h 03Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseOvercoming Sexual Prejudice with Project XHow do you perceive sex work and sex workers? And why does the stigma around sex work exist? Sara and co-host Prescott interview Vanessa Ho of Project X, a non-profit group dedicated to advocating for sex workers' rights in Singapore. Vanessa helps to clarify some of the biggest misconceptions around sex work, and shares with us how the nature of sex work has changed over the years. We discuss the draconian laws in many Asian countries surrounding sex work and the risks and dangers many sex workers fac...2021-10-111h 03
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs: Casual Sex & Dick PicsAfter a year of lockdowns, what’s being called the “summer of love” is upon us - wherein people are keen to release their pent up sexual energy. So on this Sex FAQs episode, Sara chats with relationship coach and clinical hypnotherapist, Valentina Tudose about all things casual…casual sex that is! Together we tackle common questions crowdsourced from listeners on the following topics: how to transition from a long term relationship to casual sex changing our mindsets about finding the right person what to do about “catches feelings” in...2021-07-2355 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs: Casual Sex & Dick PicsAfter a year of lockdowns, what’s being called the “summer of love” is upon us - wherein people are keen to release their pent up sexual energy. So on this Sex FAQs episode, Sara chats with relationship coach and clinical hypnotherapist, Valentina Tudose about all things casual…casual sex that is! Together we tackle common questions crowdsourced from listeners on the following topics: how to transition from a long term relationship to casual sex changing our mindsets about finding the right person what to do about “catches feelings” in...2021-07-2355 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasensePenis Performance Pointers - Lasting Longer with Jeff AbrahamCalling all penis owners and penis lovers! Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon? On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges - early or premature ejaculation (PE). We start off by discussing the various ways to manage the anxiety, shame and fear around PE and its impact on penis performance. Some of the strategies include talking openly with our partners, and focusing in on...2021-06-111h 04Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasensePenis Performance Pointers - Lasting Longer with Jeff AbrahamCalling all penis owners and penis lovers! Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon? On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges - early or premature ejaculation (PE). We start off by discussing the various ways to manage the anxiety, shame and fear around PE and its impact on penis performance. Some of the strategies include talking openly with our partners, and focusing in on...2021-06-111h 04
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseHow to Kegel for Better Sexual Health[This episode was recorded live as part of the Hong Kong Podcast Festival 2021] Are you using your pelvic floor to experience better sex and orgasms? On this live episode, Sara is joined by Trista Chan, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist from Joint Dynamics to discuss the link between the pelvic floor and the role it plays in our sex lives. Trista explains what exactly the pelvic floor is and how to locate these muscles in the body. We also discuss the numerous sexual health benefits of strengthening the pel...2021-05-1423 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseHow to Kegel for Better Sexual Health[This episode was recorded live as part of the Hong Kong Podcast Festival 2021] Are you using your pelvic floor to experience better sex and orgasms? On this live episode, Sara is joined by Trista Chan, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist from Joint Dynamics to discuss the link between the pelvic floor and the role it plays in our sex lives. Trista explains what exactly the pelvic floor is and how to locate these muscles in the body. We also discuss the numerous sexual health benefits of strengthening the pel...2021-05-1423 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseExploring Your Sexual FantasiesWhy do we love having sexual fantasies, and what are their benefits? On this episode, Sara chats with guests Mo and Andy, who are stand-up comedians that host the local Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast so be prepared for some big laughs. We discuss how sexual fantasies stimulate arousal, are an escape from reality (like the pandemic), alleviate boredom and can even help us heal from past traumas. We each share a few of our own personal stories around our favourite sexual fantasies and whether the reality live...2021-04-301h 12Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseExploring Your Sexual FantasiesWhy do we love having sexual fantasies, and what are their benefits? On this episode, Sara chats with guests Mo and Andy, who are stand-up comedians that host the local Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast so be prepared for some big laughs. We discuss how sexual fantasies stimulate arousal, are an escape from reality (like the pandemic), alleviate boredom and can even help us heal from past traumas. We each share a few of our own personal stories around our favourite sexual fantasies and whether the reality live...2021-04-301h 12
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseNavigating Consent and Sexual BoundariesWhat does consent look like, and how do you make it sexy? In this episode, Sara invites sex-positive friends Jessica and Prescott Gaylord to talk about their personal experiences on consent. Prescott is an improv actor and instructor who facilitates consent workshops. And on the show, he gives us practical techniques and exercises on how to establish better consent and boundaries. We talk about our definitions of consent and how our personal feelings towards this concept have evolved over time. Particularly with the #metoo movement bringing this dis...2021-04-1659 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseNavigating Consent and Sexual BoundariesWhat does consent look like, and how do you make it sexy? In this episode, Sara invites sex-positive friends Jessica and Prescott Gaylord to talk about their personal experiences on consent. Prescott is an improv actor and instructor who facilitates consent workshops. And on the show, he gives us practical techniques and exercises on how to establish better consent and boundaries. We talk about our definitions of consent and how our personal feelings towards this concept have evolved over time. Particularly with the #metoo movement bringing this dis...2021-04-1659 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseKeeping Sex Hot Over Long DistanceIs long-distance a deal-breaker for your sex and love life, or can it actually make things hotter and better? In this episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Helen and James, who have both been in long-term long-distance relationships and are happy to share their experiences. We talk about some of the difficulties couples may experience with intimacy and the misunderstandings that occur over long-distance relationships. But more importantly, we talk about how to keep it sexy and fun! We explore the benefits of being in a long-distance relationship, such as independence...2021-04-021h 11Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseKeeping Sex Hot Over Long DistanceIs long-distance a deal-breaker for your sex and love life, or can it actually make things hotter and better? In this episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Helen and James, who have both been in long-term long-distance relationships and are happy to share their experiences. We talk about some of the difficulties couples may experience with intimacy and the misunderstandings that occur over long-distance relationships. But more importantly, we talk about how to keep it sexy and fun! We explore the benefits of being in a long-distance relationship, such as independence...2021-04-021h 11
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How do I Manage Mismatched Libidos?Sexual desire, or libidos, naturally ebb and flow. Sometimes over a course of a single day. So one of the most common challenges that couples face in relationships is a loss of desire or mismatched libidos. Often in these situations, sex begins to feel like a chore or a performance, which leads to further avoidance. On this Sex FAQs episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After tackle common questions crowdsourced from listeners around the topics of desire, and how to take sex from performance to pleasure: “How can we restart our...2020-05-2552 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How do I Manage Mismatched Libidos?Sexual desire, or libidos, naturally ebb and flow. Sometimes over a course of a single day. So one of the most common challenges that couples face in relationships is a loss of desire or mismatched libidos. Often in these situations, sex begins to feel like a chore or a performance, which leads to further avoidance. On this Sex FAQs episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After tackle common questions crowdsourced from listeners around the topics of desire, and how to take sex from performance to pleasure: “How can we restart our...2020-05-2552 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseGetting Down with Dirty Talk & SextingDirty talk usually gets a bad rep. After all, sex isn’t dirty – so why should talking about it be? On this hilarious episode, Sara chats with her sex-positive friends Kat and James, who are never short on things to say, in the bedroom or otherwise. We talk about the many benefits of dirty talk – from building fantasy, increasing arousal, establishing consent, getting validation and connecting more deeply with one’s partner. We explore the many different styles – from flirty, naughty, seductive to filthy and degrading – and agree its all in the delivery...2020-05-081h 03Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseGetting Down with Dirty Talk & SextingDirty talk usually gets a bad rep. After all, sex isn’t dirty – so why should talking about it be? On this hilarious episode, Sara chats with her sex-positive friends Kat and James, who are never short on things to say, in the bedroom or otherwise. We talk about the many benefits of dirty talk – from building fantasy, increasing arousal, establishing consent, getting validation and connecting more deeply with one’s partner. We explore the many different styles – from flirty, naughty, seductive to filthy and degrading – and agree its all in the delivery...2020-05-081h 03
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How do I Corona-Proof My Sex And Love Life?How has the global pandemic affected your sex and love life? And how can you ‘corona-proof’ your relationship against the stress, uncertainty and conflict? A crisis like the one we find ourselves in accelerates the dynamics of any relationship, and you may feel more intense emotions for each other or reach breaking point more quickly. We’re all concerned about staying physically healthy during these times; but it just as important to keep your relationships safe, strong and healthy too. Sara chats with clinical psychologist Dr. Kimberly Carder, a...2020-04-0942 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex FAQs - How do I Corona-Proof My Sex And Love Life?How has the global pandemic affected your sex and love life? And how can you ‘corona-proof’ your relationship against the stress, uncertainty and conflict? A crisis like the one we find ourselves in accelerates the dynamics of any relationship, and you may feel more intense emotions for each other or reach breaking point more quickly. We’re all concerned about staying physically healthy during these times; but it just as important to keep your relationships safe, strong and healthy too. Sara chats with clinical psychologist Dr. Kimberly Carder, a...2020-04-0942 min
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseEverything I Wished I Learned in Sex EdWhat were you taught in sex-ed, and what do you wish you had learned? Often there’s a big difference between the two! Sara and guests Jules Hannaford, teacher and host of the Hong Kong Confidential podcast and comedian Elena Gabrielle of Story Party, talk about the sex education we received, which was shrouded in fear, abstinence and shame. We share our early sexual experiences, and reflect on what we wished we’d known about STI’s, consent and responsibility at that time. We also talk about how we le...2020-03-271h 11Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseEverything I Wished I Learned in Sex EdWhat were you taught in sex-ed, and what do you wish you had learned? Often there’s a big difference between the two! Sara and guests Jules Hannaford, teacher and host of the Hong Kong Confidential podcast and comedian Elena Gabrielle of Story Party, talk about the sex education we received, which was shrouded in fear, abstinence and shame. We share our early sexual experiences, and reflect on what we wished we’d known about STI’s, consent and responsibility at that time. We also talk about how we le...2020-03-271h 11
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBDSM for BeginnersIs your perception of BDSM and kink informed by the infamous Fifty Shades of Gray? Even though the Fifty Shades franchise does a lot to bring BDSM to the mainstream, it also get a lot of things wrong. Particularly one of BDSM’s key principles, negotiating consent. Sara and co-host Kat sit down with Jannus of KinkBites — a veteran kinkster, community organizer, and Hong Kong dungeon manager — to lament the Fifty Shades effect, and the myths and misconceptions around BDSM that it perpetuates. We talk about how the “chur...2020-03-171h 04Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBDSM for BeginnersIs your perception of BDSM and kink informed by the infamous Fifty Shades of Gray? Even though the Fifty Shades franchise does a lot to bring BDSM to the mainstream, it also get a lot of things wrong. Particularly one of BDSM’s key principles, negotiating consent. Sara and co-host Kat sit down with Jannus of KinkBites — a veteran kinkster, community organizer, and Hong Kong dungeon manager — to lament the Fifty Shades effect, and the myths and misconceptions around BDSM that it perpetuates. We talk about how the “chur...2020-03-171h 04
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex and Disability - Breaking the TabooDo people with disabilities have a right to be sexual? And what can they teach able-bodied people about intimacy and sexuality? On this episode, Sara and co-host Kat talk to Carmen Yau, a registered social worker with a PhD from Hong Kong Polytechnic University and founder of erotica collection, “Sugar’s XXX Stories”. Having been born with spinal muscular atrophy, Carmen is an iconic spokesperson for the sexual equality of people with disabilities and women. She is very vocal about breaking the taboo of people with disabilities often being considered asexual, as well a...2020-02-281h 03Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSex and Disability - Breaking the TabooDo people with disabilities have a right to be sexual? And what can they teach able-bodied people about intimacy and sexuality? On this episode, Sara and co-host Kat talk to Carmen Yau, a registered social worker with a PhD from Hong Kong Polytechnic University and founder of erotica collection, “Sugar’s XXX Stories”. Having been born with spinal muscular atrophy, Carmen is an iconic spokesperson for the sexual equality of people with disabilities and women. She is very vocal about breaking the taboo of people with disabilities often being considered asexual, as well a...2020-02-281h 03
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseKeeping the Spark & Making Love LastHow do we keep that initial passion for sex and intimacy alive for the long-haul? Highly sought after sexual/marital psychotherapist and founder of The Academy of Lasting Love, Nikki Green shares some illuminating lessons with Sara and co-host Kat from over 20 years of experience primarily working with women in Hong Kong. She believes that great sex can definitely survive over the long-haul however it’s a myth that it will just happen spontaneously and naturally. Sex is usually full of passion early on in the relationship, but the reality is that...2020-02-141h 02Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseKeeping the Spark & Making Love LastHow do we keep that initial passion for sex and intimacy alive for the long-haul? Highly sought after sexual/marital psychotherapist and founder of The Academy of Lasting Love, Nikki Green shares some illuminating lessons with Sara and co-host Kat from over 20 years of experience primarily working with women in Hong Kong. She believes that great sex can definitely survive over the long-haul however it’s a myth that it will just happen spontaneously and naturally. Sex is usually full of passion early on in the relationship, but the reality is that...2020-02-141h 02
Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBold and Body Positive in the BedroomEver felt self-conscious about your body during sex? Studies show that shame and anxiety about one's body lead to the avoidance of physical intimacy and reduced sexual satisfaction. On this episode, Sara and co-host Kat follow Curvasian.com founder and body positive advocate Bertha Chan through her journey that led her to thrive as a plus-size woman in Asia. Having never been able to find a dress to fit into growing up—not to mention having to endure judgement from those who were dear to her—a fateful encounter with a plus s...2020-01-311h 09Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBold and Body Positive in the BedroomEver felt self-conscious about your body during sex? Studies show that shame and anxiety about one's body lead to the avoidance of physical intimacy and reduced sexual satisfaction. On this episode, Sara and co-host Kat follow Curvasian.com founder and body positive advocate Bertha Chan through her journey that led her to thrive as a plus-size woman in Asia. Having never been able to find a dress to fit into growing up—not to mention having to endure judgement from those who were dear to her—a fateful encounter with a plus s...2020-01-311h 09Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseTransform your life with Orgasmic MeditationWe all love orgasms because they feel good, but are we actually using them to their full potential? Life and business coach Ying Han Cheng or “Hani” from YOLO Abundance believes that we can harness powerful orgasmic energy to create abundance and success in the rest of our lives – including our careers, business and personal lives. On this episode, Hani shares the philosophy behind the YUMMY orgasm, a unique practice brought about by orgasmic meditation, which combines mindfulness and orgasm. The goal of this practice is not orgasm per se, but rather tap...2019-11-101h 12Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseTransform your life with Orgasmic MeditationWe all love orgasms because they feel good, but are we actually using them to their full potential? Life and business coach Ying Han Cheng or “Hani” from YOLO Abundance believes that we can harness powerful orgasmic energy to create abundance and success in the rest of our lives – including our careers, business and personal lives. On this episode, Hani shares the philosophy behind the YUMMY orgasm, a unique practice brought about by orgasmic meditation, which combines mindfulness and orgasm. The goal of this practice is not orgasm per se, but rather tap...2019-11-101h 12Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseFinding love in a digital ageHow has technology changed the world of dating and finding love? In some ways, the Internet has made it easier to meet and connect with people outside our immediate social circle. Yet it’s also exploded our options, and the choices can be paralysing. So finding love could be more challenging. Sara and co-host Prescott (http://prescottgaylord.com), discuss the impact that online dating has had on our psyches, and whether we still believe in romance. Or if ghosting and unsolicited dick pics have gotten in the way.2019-09-301h 13Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseFinding love in a digital ageHow has technology changed the world of dating and finding love? In some ways, the Internet has made it easier to meet and connect with people outside our immediate social circle. Yet it’s also exploded our options, and the choices can be paralysing. So finding love could be more challenging. Sara and co-host Prescott (http://prescottgaylord.com), discuss the impact that online dating has had on our psyches, and whether we still believe in romance. Or if ghosting and unsolicited dick pics have gotten in the way.2019-09-301h 13Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseOwning your sexual wellnessWe all know that wellness is important, but how about sexual wellness? Sara and co-host Ben are recording from London this episode, and they talk to Billie Quinlan and Anna Hushlak, the creators of Ferly (formerly called Leika at time of recording), an app that guides women through various areas of sexual wellness, aiming to transform their relationship to sex. Billie and Anna introduce the concept of sexual wellness, which is not merely the freedom from sexual dysfunction, but also the ability to experience sexual pleasure.We discuss why people sometimes do...2019-09-061h 08Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseOwning your sexual wellnessWe all know that wellness is important, but how about sexual wellness? Sara and co-host Ben are recording from London this episode, and they talk to Billie Quinlan and Anna Hushlak, the creators of Ferly (formerly called Leika at time of recording), an app that guides women through various areas of sexual wellness, aiming to transform their relationship to sex. Billie and Anna introduce the concept of sexual wellness, which is not merely the freedom from sexual dysfunction, but also the ability to experience sexual pleasure.We discuss why people sometimes do...2019-09-061h 08Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSecrets of the Bedroom Sequel (Season 1 Finale)Want more “Secrets of the Bedroom”? Cumming right up! **This sequel episode covers all the material that we’d crowdsourced for the live show but didn’t end up being featured due to time - and public decency - constraints. We recommend that you listen to episode 19 before this episode to get the full Secrets experience.** Jye and Sara are joined by Kat Leung, our live show panelist as we reflect on the highlights of the live show, as well as the entire Better in Bed season. We share more be...2019-02-141h 05Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSecrets of the Bedroom Sequel (Season 1 Finale)Want more “Secrets of the Bedroom”? Cumming right up! **This sequel episode covers all the material that we’d crowdsourced for the live show but didn’t end up being featured due to time - and public decency - constraints. We recommend that you listen to episode 19 before this episode to get the full Secrets experience.** Jye and Sara are joined by Kat Leung, our live show panelist as we reflect on the highlights of the live show, as well as the entire Better in Bed season. We share more be...2019-02-141h 05Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense18 Make love not pornIs porn harmful or beneficial? With 30million people watching it every second and the average age of exposure being 11 years, porn in today's world has become a pervasive force we can't ignore. On this episode, Sara and Jye are joined by sex-positive friends Taura Edgar and Ross Gawelek to discuss all things porn. We discuss our personal experiences of porn, from how we discovered it to how its evolved, and the resulting impact on our watching habits. By sharing the different types of porn we're drawn to - from Bang Brothers to DIY to the ethical variety - we discover the world of p...2018-11-2057 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense18 Make love not pornIs porn harmful or beneficial? With 30million people watching it every second and the average age of exposure being 11 years, porn in today's world has become a pervasive force we can't ignore. On this episode, Sara and Jye are joined by sex-positive friends Taura Edgar and Ross Gawelek to discuss all things porn. We discuss our personal experiences of porn, from how we discovered it to how its evolved, and the resulting impact on our watching habits. By sharing the different types of porn we're drawn to - from Bang Brothers to DIY to the ethical variety - we discover the world of p...2018-11-2057 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense17 Opening up to open relationships Pt. 2 (Swinging)Think swinging is just for leathery, old couples swishing around keys in a bowl? Think again. Or maybe swing again... and from that chandelier in the sex club! On this episode, Sara and Jye explore another form of open relationship with married couple, Ben and Fern Bale, who open up about how swinging keeps their relationship fresh and exciting. They also explain basic swinger terminology ("soft swap, anyone?") and protocol, debunk common swinger myths and as well as give newbies tips on out how to negotiate the highs and lows of swinging. By being so open with each other and their loved...2018-08-2856 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense16 Exploring the ForbiddenWhy do we always want what we can't have? And want to do the things we shouldn't do? Sara and Jye invite Jayde Lovell, the YouTube host of popular science show SciQ to shed some light from the fascinating world of neuroscience. Jayde helps us understand how the brain is susceptible to the heightened risk and excitement of any forbidden sexual act - thanks dopamine and adrenaline! We discuss how to overcome the shame around our sexual desires and erotic selves, given that what's "forbidden" constantly evolves with our social and cultural norms. Gay marriage, case in point! Sara give...2018-07-1654 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense16 Exploring the ForbiddenWhy do we always want what we can't have? And want to do the things we shouldn't do? Sara and Jye invite Jayde Lovell, the YouTube host of popular science show SciQ to shed some light from the fascinating world of neuroscience. Jayde helps us understand how the brain is susceptible to the heightened risk and excitement of any forbidden sexual act - thanks dopamine and adrenaline! We discuss how to overcome the shame around our sexual desires and erotic selves, given that what's "forbidden" constantly evolves with our social and cultural norms. Gay marriage, case in point! Sara give...2018-07-1654 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseThe Future of SexTech Fintech, edtech, healthtech... and now, what is sextech? Sextech refers to any technology or tech-driven venture that enhances the human sexuality experience. Its the US$30 billion industry that you've never heard of... and no, its not just sex robots and VR porn. On this episode, Sara and Jye's worlds collide as we talk all things sextech with Gavin Heaton of Disruptor's Handbook. Together with Bryony Cole, Gavin is also part of the team that hosts the Future of Sex global hackathon and accelerator series. Gavin gives us his thoughts on the opportunities and challenges for sextech companies, and how they...2018-06-171h 07Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseDemystifying gay sexHow well acquainted are you with ... tops, bottoms, otters, wolves, bears, cubs or twinks? Sara and Jye take a lighthearted look at some of the most common terminology used in the gay world with their guest Tom Attenborough this episode. Tom shares his views on the classic "nature vs nurture" debate, and questions if it really matters. We also discuss the biggest stereotypes about gay people, whether the "gaydar" actually exists, and how the gay scene in Hong Kong compares with the rest of the world. We then debunk the biggest myths around gay sex, and discover why there's a lot more t...2018-05-271h 07Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasensePlaying the dating gameLove it or hate it, we all have to play the dating game to stand a chance of finding love or even getting laid. Sara and Jye discuss the triumphs and travails of dating in today's world with the very entertaining Elena Gabrielle. As a comedienne from touring dating show "Story Party" and host of sex-positive, underground variety show Dirrty Cabaret in Berlin, Elena has heard it all. From stories of bad boys with ankle bracelets, to second cousins and anal speculums, Elena shares the good, bad, and truly filthy dating stories that she's picked up on tour. We also talk abou...2018-02-281h 05Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBuilding your sex toy chestThere's lots to feel happy - or even "hysterical" - about on this episode, because its all about sex toys! Sara and Jye record their very first mobile podcast at Hong Kong's female-friendly, intimate lifestyle store Sally Coco, surrounded by all the wonderful things that vibrate, pulsate and oscillate. We follow the personal journey of founder Vera Lui, who talks about how a vibrator changed her life and led her to start Sally Coco. Discover the unlikely origins and evolution of sex toys, as well as what benefits they can bring to your sex life...2018-02-121h 07Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseSexercise: Getting fit for the bedroom Need yet another reason this year to hit the gym? Well, tune in and drop it like a squat! On this episode, fitpreneur Mack Pijewski of MackFitt joins Jye and Sara in the studio to deconstruct the link between sex and fitness, and the discussion spans neurochemicals, nutrition, mobility and more. Find out if "coregasms" actually exist, why pelvic floor training is beneficial for both sexes, and whether sex has an impact on performance before a big sporting event. --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. 2018-01-2959 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseFemale ejaculation: Turning on the waterworksWhat is female ejaculation, aka squirting? And why is it considered so hot yet so controversial? Sara and Jye are joined in the studio by sex educator Christina Antonyan, founder of Confident Lovers for literally, the juiciest episode on record yet. So don't forget your umbrella! We dive headfirst into the mystery and fantasy surrounding squirting, as well as debate the science behind what female ejaculate consists of. Christina and Sara share their top tips for people who want to explore squirting, and explain why its desirable sometimes to get wet, wild and messy...2018-01-151h 02Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseFemale ejaculation: Turning on the waterworksWhat is female ejaculation, aka squirting? And why is it considered so hot yet so controversial? Sara and Jye are joined in the studio by sex educator Christina Antonyan, founder of Confident Lovers for literally, the juiciest episode on record yet. So don't forget your umbrella! We dive headfirst into the mystery and fantasy surrounding squirting, as well as debate the science behind what female ejaculate consists of. Christina and Sara share their top tips for people who want to explore squirting, and explain why its desirable sometimes to get wet, wild and messy...2018-01-151h 02Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseWhy don't Asians talk about sex? feat. Alyson Hau (侯嘉明)Parents cringe. Teachers blush. Shame ensues. But why is talking about sex so taboo in Asian culture? Bubbly Hong Kong media personality Alyson Hau (侯嘉明) joins Sara and Jye to discuss what lies behind this cultural taboo, and how Asian attitudes differ from Western views on sex. Discover why Hong Kong has so little sex, and the intriguing Cantonese vocabulary for genitals – birds, flutes, abalone anyone? --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram Show notes for this episode here Produc...2017-12-1858 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with SarasenseBridging the pleasure gapThere's yet another gender gap to think about, and this one takes place not in the boardroom, but in the bedroom. Men have twice the number of orgasms that women do, and in heterosexual couples, women are four times more likely than men to report that sex in the past year was unpleasant. Sara and Jye talk to Janet Lieberman, founder of feminist sex toy company Dame Products, about why women are being shortchanged on sexual pleasure and what can be done to address this gap. (Hint: it's the clit!) --- Want to get even Better in Bed? D...2017-12-0646 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense07 Mastering the Art of TeaseTease? Please? But just don't leave.... before listening to this sizzler of an episode! Sara and Jye are captivated by guest Ea Holm's fascinating journey from hippie flower child to international stripper to aerial arts instructor; and what it has taught her about the power of tease. We talk about how tease is a playful form of seduction that can take many forms, from a lingering caress to cheeky banter. But overall, the true masters of tease are able to arouse and stimulate the body's biggest sex organ - the brain! --- ...2017-11-201h 03Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense06 Opening up to Open RelationshipsOpen relationships may not be for everyone, but neither is monogamy. What types of open relationships exist? And is an open relationship right for you? Sara and Jye crack open this challenging topic with the help of professional relationship and dating coach Valentina Tudose, founder of Happy Ever After. After lifting the veil on the big, "scary" world of non-monogamy, Valentina shares her personal story and what she's learned firsthand about making an open relationship work. --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Insta...2017-11-081h 06Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense05 Becoming a Cunning LinguistWant to get fluent in the language of cunnilingus? Then ditch licking those ABCs and get your earphones on. Jye leads the show this week with the help of fellow cunning linguist Roland, and together they discuss the "innies" and "outies" of delivering the kind of oral pleasure that women want and love. They even manage to teach Sara an interesting thing about the female sexual anatomy... From warming up women who may initially feel shy about oral, to what to do when tongues get tired, Jye and Roland tackle some tasty questions on this show th...2017-10-1646 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense04 The truth about sex after kidsDoes the start of kids = the end of your sex life? Sara and Jye invite Zosha Piotrowski, fitness instructor and mum of two kids aged nine and seven, on the show to find out the truth! Zosh shares her survival strategies and sexy date night inspiration to re-ignite the sexual spark after kids - behind very firmly locked doors. A must-listen for people with kids, people planning kids, and even people with a phobia of kids, like Sara! --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. ...2017-10-0947 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense04 The truth about sex after kidsDoes the start of kids = the end of your sex life? Sara and Jye invite Zosha Piotrowski, fitness instructor and mum of two kids aged nine and seven, on the show to find out the truth! Zosh shares her survival strategies and sexy date night inspiration to re-ignite the sexual spark after kids - behind very firmly locked doors. A must-listen for people with kids, people planning kids, and even people with a phobia of kids, like Sara! --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. ...2017-10-0947 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense03 Becoming a penis geniusIs getting to know the penis as straightforward as it seems? Sara and Jye are joined this week by Christina Antonyan, founder of Confident Lovers to discuss - at length - the male sex organ. Sara and Christina share their top tips for penis pleasure, and talk about what men like most and least about having their penises stimulated. We tackle whether size really matters, circumcised vs uncircumcised penises, and why a blowjob or a hand job really shouldn't be "a job". ---- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Insta...2017-10-0355 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense03 Becoming a penis geniusIs getting to know the penis as straightforward as it seems? Sara and Jye are joined this week by Christina Antonyan, founder of Confident Lovers to discuss - at length - the male sex organ. Sara and Christina share their top tips for penis pleasure, and talk about what men like most and least about having their penises stimulated. We tackle whether size really matters, circumcised vs uncircumcised penises, and why a blowjob or a hand job really shouldn't be "a job". ---- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Insta...2017-10-0355 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense02 Know thyself, love thyselfWe’re revving up our “O” engines by talking about masturbation and its benefits. This week, we invite ex-Passionately Yours event manager, Kat Leung into our Narnian closet of sexual disclosure (i.e. recording studio) to exchange early masturbation memories and fantasies. Sara talks about why women tend to start masturbating later than men, and shares some tips for getting started. So make a “masturbation date” with us, and tune in. But be warned, you may never look at a hairbrush the same way again! --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download t...2017-09-2543 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense01 Hello, thereLet's talk about sex. On this episode, sex coach Sara Tang of Sarasense and co-host Jye Smith talk about how they learned about sex, awkward first time sexual experiences and why on earth they have decided to bring their boisterous audio baby into the world - Better in Bed. --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (@jyesmith / jye@doublestar.co)2017-02-0939 minBetter in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast with Sarasense01 Hello, thereLet's talk about sex. On this episode, sex coach Sara Tang of Sarasense and co-host Jye Smith talk about how they learned about sex, awkward first time sexual experiences and why on earth they have decided to bring their boisterous audio baby into the world - Better in Bed. --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (@jyesmith / jye@doublestar.co)2017-02-0939 min