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The Story of WomanS3 E8. From Doubt to Belief: The Evolution of #MeToo and Survivor Testimony with Leigh Gilmore, author of The #MeToo EffectThe #MeToo movement empowered millions to speak out about sexual violence and changed the default response to women's accounts from universal doubt to selective belief. What changed?In this episode, guest host Sarey Ruden speaks with Leigh Gilmore to discuss her book, “The #MeToo Effect: What Happens When We Believe Women”. They delve into the transformative impact of the #MeToo movement, exploring the evolution of societal responses to women's accounts of sexual violence.A central theme revolves around the power of survivor testimony and the collective strength that arises when survivors speak together, challenging the stat...
2024-02-261h 04The Story of WomanS1 E4. Woman and Arab Feminism: Farida D., Rants of a Rebel Arab FeministIn this episode, I talk with Arab gender researcher and poet Farida D. about her book, Rants of a Rebel Arab Feminist.
Writing under a pen name to protect her identity, Farida D. writes about everyday oppressions from an Arab feminist's perspective while demonstrating how we are all connected under the one patriarchal system.
Some topics of discussion include:
What it means to be an Arab feminist
What the West gets wrong and how to be better allies
The spectrum of oppression that manifests differently depending on culture, but connects us under the one p...
2022-03-211h 14
Warrior Woman's CircleSarey Ruden of Sareytales Reclaims Online DatingKatarina is back from her hiatus and has officially graduated with her master's degree (woohoo) ! Season 4 teakes us back to our roots as Katarina hosts a series of conversations with incredible individuals who are ready to break out of cultural norms in order to start important conversations. Episode 1 brings us Detroit based artist Sarey Ruden, the creator behind @sareytales. Sarey has made a name for herself by taking the misogynistic messaging she receives from men on dating apps and turning it into artwork. Her work exposes the types of messages that women receive on a daily basis when searching...
2021-06-051h 20
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastThe Dating Coach for Shy Guys with Tripp KramerDo men have it just as bad as women when it comes to dating? For the final episode, Sarey sits down with Tripp Kramer, a dating coach for "shy guys," to find out what issues his clients are facing and what advice he offers them. In a spirited discussion, they address everything from pickup lines to gendered expectations. Are male dating coaches like Tripp part of the solution or part of the problem?For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-7.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2021-02-131h 02
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastThe Dating Coach for Shy Guys with Tripp KramerDo men have it just as bad as women when it comes to dating? For the final episode, Sarey sits down with Tripp Kramer, a dating coach for "shy guys," to find out what issues his clients are facing and what advice he offers them. In a spirited discussion, they address everything from pickup lines to gendered expectations. Are male dating coaches like Tripp part of the solution or part of the problem? For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-7.
2021-02-131h 02
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastTalk the Talk with Celeste HeadleeTechnology is changing the way men and women communicate with each other, but is it helping or hurting us? Celeste Headlee is an award-winning journalist and the author of We Need to Talk: Having Conversations that Matter. She joins Sarey to discuss the pros and cons of communicating through social media, text messages and dating apps.For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-6.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or...
2021-02-1335 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastTalk the Talk with Celeste HeadleeTechnology is changing the way men and women communicate with each other, but is it helping or hurting us? Celeste Headlee is an award-winning journalist and the author of We Need to Talk: Having Conversations that Matter. She joins Sarey to discuss the pros and cons of communicating through social media, text messages and dating apps. For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-6.
2021-02-1335 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastBias in Social Media with Val ElefanteIt's tempting to think that the technology that runs social networks doesn’t have the same biases that human beings do, but is that accurate? Or do biased humans inherently create biased algorithms? Val Elefante is the Community Manager for Lips, a new social network that aims to avoid biased censorship and internet trolls. She joins Sarey to talk about the hidden effects algorithms have on marginalized voices.For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-5.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. This is a public ep...
2021-02-1346 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastBias in Social Media with Val ElefanteIt's tempting to think that the technology that runs social networks doesn’t have the same biases that human beings do, but is that accurate? Or do biased humans inherently create biased algorithms? Val Elefante is the Community Manager for Lips, a new social network that aims to avoid biased censorship and internet trolls. She joins Sarey to talk about the hidden effects algorithms have on marginalized voices. For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-5.
2021-02-1346 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastThe Art of Activism with Shannon DowneyHow can artists use their work to promote social change? Shannon Downey joins Sarey to talk about how she uses her art – embroidery – to promote the causes she is passionate about, and how other artists can do the same.For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-4.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sareytales.substack.com
2021-02-1340 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastThe Art of Activism with Shannon DowneyHow can artists use their work to promote social change? Shannon Downey joins Sarey to talk about how she uses her art – embroidery – to promote the causes she is passionate about, and how other artists can do the same. For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-4.
2021-02-1340 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastDating, Men & MeToo with Cleo StillerHow has the #MeToo movement changed dating – especially for the “good guys?” Cleo Stiller, an award-winning journalist and the author of the book, “Modern Manhood,” shares the concerns she heard in her conversations with hundreds of men from across the country.For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-3.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sareytales.substack.com
2021-02-1349 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastDating, Men & MeToo with Cleo StillerHow has the #MeToo movement changed dating – especially for the “good guys?” Cleo Stiller, an award-winning journalist and the author of the book, “Modern Manhood,” shares the concerns she heard in her conversations with hundreds of men from across the country. For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-3.
2021-02-1349 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastDating App Data with Dr. Kristen MarkEverybody has stories about bad online dating experiences, but what does the data really say? Sex and relationship researcher Dr. Kristen Mark of the University of Minnesota and her team studied the dating app messages Sarey received from men. Hear what they discovered. For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-2.
2021-02-1337 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastDating App Data with Dr. Kristen MarkEverybody has stories about bad online dating experiences, but what does the data really say? Sex and relationship researcher Dr. Kristen Mark of the University of Minnesota and her team studied the dating app messages Sarey received from men. Hear what they discovered.For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-2.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sareytales.substack.com
2021-02-1337 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastDodging Wastemen with @lalalaletmeexplainEvery woman who has dabbled in online dating has run into a Wasteman. Layla, a dating and relationship expert from the UK, joins Sarey to discuss their common experiences and answer important questions like, “What is a Wasteman?” and “How do you avoid one?” For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-1.
2021-02-1352 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastDodging Wastemen with @lalalaletmeexplainEvery woman who has dabbled in online dating has run into a Wasteman. Layla, a dating and relationship expert from the UK, joins Sarey to discuss their common experiences and answer important questions like, “What is a Wasteman?” and “How do you avoid one?”For links to the things mentioned in this episode, please visit https://sareytales.com/episode-1.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sareytales.substack.com
2021-02-1352 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastOnce Upon a Feminist - Coming SoonArtist Sareytales navigates the intersection of online dating and feminism. Is happily ever after just an illusion? Join her as she seeks expert advice on her quest to rewrite the fairytale.
2021-01-0500 min
Once Upon a Feminist PodcastOnce Upon a Feminist - Coming SoonArtist Sareytales navigates the intersection of online dating and feminism. Is happily ever after just an illusion? Join her as she seeks expert advice on her quest to rewrite the fairytale.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sareytales.substack.com
2021-01-0500 min
Dating Kinda SucksHow To Talk To Women On The InternetFrom sending lackluster hellos to inundating women with unwanted dick pics, men have a deservedly bad reputation when it comes to online dating (and almost any other type of communication). This week, Sarah and Adam are joined by artist Sarey Ruden who has made a name for herself by turning the awkward and awful comments men make into spectacular art. The three discuss the best ways to have productive and healthy conversations online, how to improve the chances of getting a reply, and how not to approach women through a dating app or in life itself. It's not hard to...
2019-03-041h 27