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Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!"BOSS DOESN'T GET ME!" HELP!!You’ve got ideas. You want to grow. But your boss? Seems like they’re speaking a totally different language. One minute they’re all “take initiative,” next minute they’re like “why didn’t you check with me first?”You give your best, and they still don’t ‘get’ you. It’s like trying to charge your phone with the wrong cable! In this episode, we’re diving into the everyday struggle ofworking with a boss who doesn’t understand your style, your ideas, or your way of doing things. You’ll hear real stories, laugh...2025-07-3113 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!What will "THEY" think???Did “What will they think?” — ever had that thought stop you from speaking up, wearing what you like, or trying something new? Me too. This episode is all about that little voice in your head that cares ‘way’ too much about other people’s opinions. It is for anyone who's ever overthought a text, replayed a conversation in their head 20 times, or held back an idea in a meeting because… well, what will they think?We dive into real stories, simple tips, and funny moments we can relate to. No jargon. No lec...2025-07-1715 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Breaking the Ice in a NEW OFFICE!Starting a new job can feel like the first day ofschool—again. New faces, unfamiliar coffee machines, and that awkward silence in the lift... we've all been there!In this episode, we’re talking about how tobreak the ice in a new office without sounding like a weirdo or trying too hard. From what to say on day one, to how to start conversations without it feeling forced—we’re covering the small stuff that actually makes a big difference.Perfect for introverts, over-thinkers, and anyonewho gets sweaty just thinking about small talk. Tune in, l...2025-07-0313 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!TERRIFIED TO SPEAK? Here's the fix!Frozen mid-sentence? Let’s fix that.You know the feeling—you’re in a meeting, an interview, or on a date, and suddenly… your mind goes blank, your tongue twists, and you’d rather vanish under the table. The internet is bursting with “instant confidence” hacks (and yes,I’ve shared my fair share), but here’s the truth—none of that works if you don’t first figure out why you’re struggling. It’s like slapping a bandage on a wound without checking for infection. Today, we’re getting to the root of the problem befo...2025-06-1913 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!FOLLOW UP AFTER INTERVIEW: YES OR NO?Job interviews and first dates? Practically the same thing! :)You meet a stranger, put on your best self, and then... the waiting game begins.Should you follow up? Should you wait? The suspense is real! Some say always follow up. Others say never follow up. So, what’s the right move? In this episode, we’re cracking the code on post-interview follow-ups—when to reach out, what to say, and how to stay on their radar without coming across as desperate. 🎙️ If you're serious about upping your comm...2025-06-0516 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!NO ONE UNDERSTANDS You? FIX it!Ever feel like people just don’t get you?Like no matter what you say, it’s misinterpreted, ignored, or twisted into something you never meant.In this chatty, no-fluff episode, we’ll break down why communication goes sideways and how tiny tweaks can instantlymake people listen, connect, and finally understand you. We’re diving deep into the sneaky habits that make you hard to understand.Plus, I’ll give you ‘simple, instantly actionable fixes’ to make sure your message lands ‘clearly, confidently, and exactly asyou intend’. If you’re tired of saying, "That’s not what I meant...2025-05-2219 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE 'Must Say' Things in an INTERVIEWEver walked out of an interview wondering, "Did I say the right things? "In this episode, we’re unlocking the three must-speak things that can instantly boost your chances of landing thejob!Whether you're a newbie or a seasoned pro, these game-changing phrases will make you unforgettable. We’ll break it down with real-life examples, insider tips from hiring managers, and a sprinkle of humour (because job interviews are stressful enough!).So, hit play and learnhow to impress, connect, and confidently own the conversation.🎙️ Tune in for:✅The ABC Formula that...2025-05-0816 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE MASTER HACKS TO HANDLE CRITICISM!Imagine you’re walking through a park, enjoying a peaceful afternoon. The sun is shining, birds are chirping, and you’ve got an ice cream cone in hand. Suddenly, a bird swoops down and leaves a gift on your shoulder. Now, you didn’t ask for this, and it’s certainly not pleasant, but what do you do? You don’t scream at the bird, do you? You grab a tissue, clean it up, and move on.
So, today, we’re unpacking NOT ONE, NOT TWO, BUT THREE Master hacks to help you handle criticism SMARTLY! And th...2025-04-2517 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!MAKE YOUR WORDS MEMORABLE!You're at a party, and you’re introduced to someone new.
They're smiling, they’ve got a friendly face,
but you're not sure what to say to break the ice.
What do you do?
You could start talking about the weather,
or how bad traffic was on the way over—
but let’s be real, that’s not the stuff they’re going to remember you for.
And that’s what you’re aiming for!
I promise, by the end of this episode,
...2025-04-1113 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!BECOME UNFORGETTABLE TO YOUR AUDIENCEToday I’m going to share a simple yet powerful approach that I use in many of my communication skill workshops. It is extremely useful when you want to engage an audience and make your story- Memorable!
I promise that by the end of this episode, you would be able to apply this technique- Masterfully & effortlessly in your conversations and that’d make what you say unforgettable to the others.
This podcast is purely for public interest and not a commercial venture. It grows through your support, sharing it with your friends and family. If you c...2025-03-2812 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE POWERWORDS FOR EVERY INTERVIEWIt's normal to feel a little anxious before a job interview. This is because your body perceives an interview as a threat and releases stress hormones to protect you. However, it's important to be able to overcome your nerves so you can set a confident tone during the interview. If interviews make you feel like you’re walking into a lion’s den, don’t worry!
By the end of this episode, you’ll be striding in like a lion tamer with a cape, a whip, and, let’s be honest, a lot of flair.
Now, the Power Wor...2025-03-1419 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE STEPS TO 'ACE' ANY INTERVIEW!Get ready to totally ‘nail’ your communication in your next big interview and stand out from the crowd! 🚀🎤 Whether you're aiming for that dream job or preparing for a high-stakes conversation, I’ve got your back! In this episode, I’m unveiling the ‘‘three powerful steps’’ that will transform the way you communicate. Follow these precisely, and you’ll position yourself as the top contender for that coveted role.
But that's not all! I’m going to walk you through exactly what you should be saying (and what you should ‘definitely avoid’ saying) to leave a lasting impression. From pro tips to...2025-02-2821 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!ONE Phrase to Build Trust 'INSTANTLY'!Today’s episode is your ultimate guide for those high-stakes situations where you have to make a powerful impact. Let’s say you're in that big meeting, with all eyes on you. You’re aiming not just to speak, but to win everyone over, and actually have them take your side. Or suppose you’re at home, and you're trying to get through to someone who matters to you, whether it’s your partner, a parent, or that ever-resistant teenager. You've got a point of view you need them to hear, understand, and, yes, even agree with. 🗣️✨
But let’s rai...2025-02-1415 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE Hacks to Sound smart INSTANTLY- Part IIIToday, we’re jumping into a crowd-favorite topic: how to *appear* and *feel* smarter right from the get-go! Meeting someone for the first time? You want to make a memorable impression, right? You want them to think, “This person is sharp, insightful, and fast on their feet!” Well, I’ve got not one, but THREE POWERFUL TIPS to help you make that happen. Each one is easy to apply yet highly impactful, helping you come across as thoughtful, expressive, and yes—even remarkably smart! I’ve divided it into a three-part series so each TIP gets its moment in the spotligh...2025-01-3115 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE Hacks to Sound Smart 'INSTANTLY'- Part IIToday, we’re diving into a topic everyone loves: how to ‘look’ and ‘feel’ more intelligent right off the bat! When you meet someone for the first time, you want to leave a lasting impression, don’t you? You want them to think, “Wow, this person is sharp, clever, and quick-thinking!” Well, I’ve got not one but THREE POWERFUL HACKS that can help you pull this off. Each of these is simple yet incredibly effective, helping you appear more thoughtful, articulate, and yes—even impressively smart! I’ve broken it down into a three-part series so each HACK can truly shine. This...2025-01-1711 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE Hacks to Sound smart INSTANTLY- Part IToday, we’re diving into something we all crave: how to ‘sound’—and ‘feel’—smarter, and do it right away! Whenever you meet someone, you want to make a fantastic impression, right? You want them to see you as "sharp," "intelligent," and "quick-witted." Well, I’ve got not one, but ‘three’ strategies that can help you do exactly that. Each one is simple, yet incredibly powerful, helping you come across as more insightful, articulate, and, yes—brilliant! Since these strategies deserve time to truly sink in, I’ve made this a three-part series.
This podcast is created purely for the...2025-01-0320 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!WINNING EVERY ARGUMENT without raising your VOICE!Are you tired of getting into heated arguments and feeling like you have to shout just to be heard? Imagine walking away from any conflict, feeling cool, calm, and in control… while the other person actually agrees with you. It’s not magic, it’s a skill – and guess what? YOU can learn it too! Sounds like magic, right? Well, it’s not!
It’s a communication superpower, and in this episode of your favourite communication skills podcast- Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips, I’m spilling the secrets.
Whether it’s with your boss, your partner, or that...2024-12-1928 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!The Magic of ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS!Ever felt like you’re asking ALL the questions but getting NONE of the answers? 😕 Oh, we’ve all been there, friend! But what if I told you that asking the RIGHT question is like discovering a secret key that opens the door to deeper, more meaningful conversations? Let’s be real for a second—how many times have you left a meeting, conversation, or even a quick chat with a friend thinking, "Wow, that went nowhere"?
It's not about having all the answers, it’s about asking the questions that get you there!
🌟 Whether you're a manager navig...2024-12-0519 min
Renew motherhoodSpeak to be heard: communication skills for mumsBlanka Falk and Sarika Singh, an award-winning communication coach, discuss self-confidence in public speaking and parenting. With nearly three decades of experience, Sarika shares strategies for communicating with teenagers, balancing parenting roles, and addressing bullying with assertiveness, all while inspiring others through her insights.
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Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE WORDS that change how people SEE you!In this episode, we’re diving into the magic of language and how three words can instantly shift the way you’re seen – at work, in relationships, and even with total strangers! Whether you’re in a heated meeting or trying to impress at a social event, these words have the power to shift the dynamics in your favour. I’ll be sharing real-life stories, breaking down why these words work, and we’ll play a fun game that lets YOU try them out in everyday scenarios. Whether you're looking to boost your confidence, strengthen connections, or just want to be rememb...2024-11-2115 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!LISTENING MASTERY in just 10 mins everyday!Ready to level up your listening game? This episode is your shortcut to mastering the 'ultimate' technique to improve your listening skills, that too, in just 10 minutes a day! With this, you'll know how to make anyone feel heard and understood—whether it’s your boss, your partner, or your best friend. I’ll share my go-to listening hack, with fun exercises, and real-life stories from my clients (and maybe a few of my own missteps too!). If you want to be that person everyone 'loves' to talk to, this episode is your fast track to becoming a listening master...2024-11-0717 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to make conversations 'INTERESTING'!Ever been trapped in a boring conversation, quietly dreaming of an escape route? We’ve all had those moments! But here’s the good news: with a few tweaks, you can transform any conversation into something lively, engaging, and fun for all!
In this episode, I’m spilling all the secrets I’ve gathered
as a communication coach—how to break free from small talk jail, ask the right questions, and add a sprinkle of charm that keeps people hooked. Whether you're chatting at a party, on a first date, or even navigating awkward work convos, I'll share real...2024-10-2419 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to 'LOOK' CONFIDENT! (when you're not!)No one is 100% percent confident at all times!
Why? Because we don’t have answers to all the questions at all times!
And fair enough.
Yet we all want to be confident 200% of the times!
This episode is all about how to make you APPEAR confident, LOOK confident, even when you’re not feeling confident inside.
The idea is to make confidence a habit, a part of you- so that you start becoming confident naturally and effectively.
I keep sharing tips and strategies on how to im...2024-10-1014 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!AVOIDING: "I DON'T KNOW"!"The Shocking Truth About Saying 'I Don’t Know' in Job Interviews!"
Wondering if it's okay to say "I don't know" during an interview? You might be surprised to learn it can slash your chances of getting hired by up to 60%! So, what's the smart move? In this episode, we dive into powerful communication tips that can help you navigate tough questions and ace your next interview. We touch not only interviews, but many aspects of personal and professional lives where this can come handy! Don't miss out on these game-changing strategies!
This podcast is pur...2024-09-2621 min
The Inspire PodcastS6 E12: Mastering Communication Skills with Sarika SinghIn this episode, Bart is joined by Sarika Singh, host of a top communication skills podcast in India and a seasoned coach with 25 years of experience. Sarika shares her journey from her early career to becoming the Chief Operating Officer of an Indian artisanal sugar company, driven by her passion for communication. She coaches a diverse audience, including
children, young adults, and corporate teams, focusing on written and spoken communication through her bespoke programs in creative writing and public speaking.
Sarika’s podcast, inspired by listener questions, addresses communication challenges in both personal and professional contexts. Together, Sarika and Bart ex...2024-09-1742 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to APOLOGISE effectively- Part IIApologies are never easy. It’s difficult to say sorry, and also, not easy to forgive. But when you seek forgiveness with sincerity, it makes the road easy for both the giver and the seeker. Sometimes, the hardest thing about saying "I'm sorry" is finding the right words to do so. A successful apology validates that the other person felt offended, and acknowledges responsibility.
In the last episode, “How to apologize effectively- part I”,
I shared ‘must-haves’ of an effective apology, and also the best timing to give one.
In today’s episode, I’ll share...2024-09-1324 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to apologise EFFECTIVELY- Part IApologizing effectively is like navigating through a dense forest. Imagine you're on a path surrounded by thick foliage, where one wrong step could lead you astray. In the same way, a misstep in your apology can take you off course and create more harm than good. Mastering the art of a sincere apology involves knowing the right steps to take and the pitfalls to avoid.
A genuine apology should acknowledge the hurt, take responsibility, and offer a way to make amends. This podcast episode is the first leg of this series and is followed by the second and last leg...2024-08-3019 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!My 'UNCENSORED' CommunicationEvery soul carries a tale, each heart whispers its own narrative. We are all storytellers, some weave their words into pages, while others lock their verses within their hearts. My story is a gift, a piece of my soul I offer to you. Perhaps, in the tapestry of my experiences, you might find a mirror to your own life, a thread that gently weaves through your own journey, sparking a change, no matter how small, in the fabric of your existence......
This is my story.....
If you like this podcast, you'll love my instagram because I share...2024-08-1616 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Are you COMMUNICATING?Vandana- Sahil, a couple, is planning a vacation. Vandana, suggests going to the beach because she loves the sea. But instead of clearly expressing her preference, she simply mentions, "I don't know, anywhere is fine."
Her partner Sahil, thinking she's genuinely indifferent, books a ski resort because he enjoys skiing. Vandana is disappointed, feels misunderstood, agrees reluctantly, but spends the trip discontented with the ‘he doesn’t care about me’ attitude. If Vandana expressed her desires clearly, they could both enjoy!
A team is working on a project with tight deadlines. John, a team member, is struggling with a particular task bu...2024-08-0216 min
Darren F MageeImproving Communication Skills: With Sarika SinghSend us a textSarika Singh is an award winning communications coach and seasoned public speaker with almost three decades helping individuals, groups and teams understand and improve their self confidence, their communication skills, whether written or verbal.She is also an online content creator and host of the ‘Communicate 101: Speaking and Writing Skills” Podcast where she discusses many different aspects of communication and regularly shares tips and ideas to help others improve how they express themselves.Whether in our interpersonal relationships, workplace or in society we discuss the importance of good communication, self...2024-07-271h 09
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to sound TRUSTWORTHY!You know, it's kind of interesting how just saying "hello" can give away whether someone's trustworthy or not. Like, most folks can pick up on it just from the tone of their voice. Imagine, you're browsing through training courses, eyeing one led by someone who seems to lack experience in the subject. Or maybe you're considering making a purchase from a salesperson who has let you down before. And then there's the leader who rarely keeps their word, expecting you to go the extra mile. Would you be all in for any of these scenarios? Probably not. Why? Because when...2024-07-1920 min
"Soulful Prosperity" Talks with Prosperous JennSoulful Communication: Navigating Prosperity with Sarika Singh🎙️ NEW EPISODE of Soulful Prosperity! 🎙️ Today, we are honored to have Sarika Singh, the founder and director of Communicate101.com. Sarika is a seasoned public speaker, event moderator, and communication skills coach with nearly three decades of experience. She is an author, achiever, and recipient of the United Nations Global Fellowship award. Known for her patient listening and passionate speaking, Sarika captivates and inspires her audience with motivational talks and captivating anecdotes from her life. In this episode, we dive into her journey and uncover valuable insights into effective communication and personal growth. We’ll also explore her path to soulful p...2024-07-1933 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to console/ comfort someone?You know, by the time we reach middle age, life tends to throw us a few curveballs - losing loved ones, dealing with illness, going through divorces, or getting laid off from jobs. It's like a series of tough punches.
But you know what's interesting? Even though we've been through some stuff ourselves, when someone we care about is going through a really tough time, we often struggle to find the right words to show our love and support. We end up feeling awkward or just defaulting to a generic "I'm so sorry."
Veena had been eagerly awaiting the results...2024-07-0521 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Difficult Conversations: UNPLUGGED!Having a tough chat might mean dealing with stuff you'd rather avoid, finding yourself at a loss for words, facing conflicting views, not knowing how things will turn out, or just feeling uneasy about the whole thing. So, when I'm helping folks through tough talks, we're usually gunning for one of three things: a solution, a plan, or just getting each other. A solution is like the big win, where everyone's happy, all problems are solved, and it's supposed to last forever. Sounds great, right? But sometimes, pushing for that perfect fix can actually make things worse by piling too...2024-06-2118 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Master DIFFICULT Conversations- Part IIToday, let's talk about something we all deal with at some point: those tricky workplace conversations. You know the ones – tackling office drama, stepping into disagreements between team members, or even addressing behaviour that's not quite up to par. It's definitely not the most fun part of the job, but it's crucial for keeping things running smoothly. But even though these conversations can be tough, they're super important. When you face them head-on, you're showing your team that you're there for them, that you value their input, and that you're committed to making things better.
Therefore, those difficult conversations might not...2024-06-0724 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Master DIFFICULT Conversations- Part INavigating tricky talks is like a daily sport, right? Whether you're handling a co-worker who's not quite hitting the mark, having a tiff with your partner over finances or parenting styles, hashing out a deal with a client, or just expressing those three little words—"No," "Sorry," and "Love you"—it's all part of the game. Even if you're a total pro, there are always those conversations that make your heart race and your palms sweat.
Let’s talk about tackling those tough conversations we often shy away from. We’ll dive into some cool strategies, tips, and tricks to gear you...2024-05-2419 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Magic trick to SPEAK-on-the-SPOT!Hey, ever feel like you're stumbling over your words? Turns out, it might not just be about what you're saying, but how you're holding yourself. But hey, there's more to it than just posture! Let me tell you a secret: the best off-the-cuff speakers? They're actually the ones who've done a bit of prep. They might not rehearse their whole speech, but they've got a few anecdotes up their sleeve for any occasion. So next time you're faced with a topic, think: got a story that fits? If yes, let it flow!
But hey, let's remember one golden rule: Practice...2024-05-1016 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Handling INTERRUPTIONS when you're speaking"Ever been hit by those 'stolen spotlight' moments? They're like unwanted guests crashing your party. But hey, here's the scoop: interruptions aren't just a nuisance, they're a chance to shine. Yup, you heard it right! There are savvy ways to tackle them head-on and still ace your message. Whether you're chatting one-on-one or leading a group pow-wow, there are hacks to keep from being steamrolled. Here's the deal: when you're constantly cut off, keep on talking. How you handle those interruptions? That's your moment to shine, baby. It's what sets you apart and gives you that speaker swagger. And hey...2024-04-2617 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!The power of POSITIVE communication!Do you struggle in making people agree with you
Or listen to you?
So, let's talk about positive communication, because that’s what you need! It's basically all about spreading good vibes, making sure everyone gets where the other person is coming from, and making sure everyone feels good about the convo. When you communicate positively, you're being constructive, supportive, and just generally bringing those good feels into the mix.
Now, when it comes to getting your point across at work, being assertive is where it's at. Assertive communicators are like the champs of respectful and productive talk. They're confident in...2024-04-1915 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Magic trick to Stop Rambling- Part IIEver find yourself in a waffling or rambling, situation? It's like your brain takes a coffee break, but your mouth keeps on chatting!
And isn't it wild how even super smart folks
can't always nail it
with their awesome ideas?
Like, you'd think
being brainy would guarantee
success every single time, right?
Well, here's the scoop:
when you come up with a fresh, out-of-the-box idea,
your brain's like,
"Whoa, what's this?"
It's like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole—
totally unfamiliar territory.
We even call these ideas "half-baked" or ‘half- cooked.
So, naturally, your wants to hold it
Your mout...2024-04-1213 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Magic Trick to Stop Rambling- Part IHey, got a big presentation on the horizon?
Feeling overwhelmed by all the content you have to cover? Worried about whether what you say will actually be valuable to your audience?
I get it, starting can be tough when you're drowning in information and unsure where to begin. And I know, the clock is ticking, adding to the pressure.
Top of it, you worry that you might end up rambling or waffling on!
It's a common fear.
Rambling occurs when you haven't prepared well or when your notes aren't helping you stay on track.
It's like talking a lot without...2024-04-0517 minCommunicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!STAR method of PUBLIC SPEAKING- PART IIIn the words of Nancy Duarte, "Planting a S.T.A.R. moment in a presentation keeps the conversation going even after it's over and helps the message go viral."
ask yourself, “When someone leaves my talk, what do I want them to talk about?
Watch both parts of this episode if you really want to become the star of your show
and get yourself a star moment!
Because let's face it,
a memory that hits you in the feels
is one that sticks.
Get ready to rock the game
like a star!
If you like this podcast, subscribe and spread...2024-03-2915 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!STAR method of PUBLIC SPEAKING- PART ISomeone rightly said,
"The mind is a wonderful thing. It starts working the minute you're born and never stops working until you get up to speak in public."
Do you think these stars were always stars?
Do you think people always let up for them when they walked on the stage?
Do you think the huge round of applause is that they hear today always existed?
Nope! They used the STAR method! According to Nancy Duarte, a STAR moment should “dramatically drive the big idea home”
Your audience should always leave your presentation with something they’ll always remember. Having said that, wh...2024-03-2219 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to 'CONTINUE' conversations- Part IIIHow often are you speaking to someone new, feeling like the conversation’s going pretty well, and then…
Silence hits. You don’t know what to say. They don’t know what to say. This is so awkward. What do you do?
Conversations are a dance of words, where each person knows when to step forward and when to step back. Chances are, those conversations moved smoothly from one speaker to the next, and naturally from one topic to another. There was no sense of "What do I say now?" or "Am I supposed to talk next?" You and the other people...2024-03-1512 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to 'CONTINUE' conversations- Part II"When ever I talk to someone new. It always dies after the introduction.
I have no idea why.
I literally feel awful because I know that I can talk to people and I have the confidence to approach people. But I never have any idea what to say." .......
I hear this from clients, all the time!
The best conversations always have both interlocutors bouncing off one another's statements. So, if you're struggling, just remember that it might not be your fault, at least not completely :). This podcast and particularly, this episode is for you if your conversations keep running dry!
...2024-03-0815 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to 'CONTINUE' conversations- Part IStarting a conversation is one thing. Continuing it, without letting it run cold, another. This podcast is all about mastering that skill! The secret to keeping up a conversation is to be interested in the person you're speaking to.
"When ever I talk to someone new. It always dies after the introduction. I have no idea why........I literally feel awful because I know that I can talk to people and I have the confidence to approach people. But I never have any idea what to say."
This episode is an answer to just that! It'll help develop meaningful connections...2024-03-0113 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Magic Mantras to Beat that Anxiety!You’ve waited patiently in line for hours, and you’re next up. Only a minute ago, you were as cool as the proverbial cucumber, but now your breathing is speeding up, your heart is thumping, your stomach is churning and your palms are beginning to sweat. You feel a bit dizzy, and your legs are going numb. What’s going on?
You’ve got stage fright, also known as performance anxiety. Many people experience a mild nervousness before giving a speech or doing a recital. But for some individuals, the thought of performing can cause panic attacks. Feeling nervous before a...2024-02-2316 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE invaluable lessons: don't miss these!I lost my dad in the February of 2023. So, this podcast is dedicate to him, in celebration of the life he lived well. I don't know if this podcast is appropriate to share with everyone because it's very personal. Having said that, I have never been 'politically correct' and always spoken my heart out. So, sharing this, is like sharing my grief, my pain, and how I'm coping with it. I thought about my dad's meaningful contributions in my life, and put the top three in this podcast. I hope this resonates with some of you. A lot of sections...2024-02-1612 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!When someone BLAMES you: What to do!Who likes blame? No one....right! and who blames.....well, all of us blame others more than we think we do!
Blaming other people is an easy way out. This denial of responsibility also denies us control of a given situation. Blame means less work as when we blame, we don't have to be held accountable.
Some of us perpetually get blamed. Especially for things we didn't do! What's the way out? What do we do? How to handle the toxic blame-game?
This episode brings in smart strategies to handle the situation when someone blames you. Believe me, these are not...2024-02-0917 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to use HUMOR to deal with CONFLICT- PART II"Make me laugh & I'm your friend!" someone rightly said!
Humor proves highly effective in creating a human connection between conflicting parties, thereby diffusing tension. Mahatma Gandhi once said,
"If it was not for my sense of humor, the continuous disharmony and animosity would have pushed me towards madness long ago."
Humor, a crucial cognitive skill, possesses the ability to address conflicts in unexpected ways.
Improving relationships entails mastering the art of employing humor and play to navigate through disagreements, alleviate stress, and foster communication that strengthens connections.
Okay, so it's no replacement for going to the gym, but one study...2024-02-0217 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!"TRICKS": How to deal with CONFLICT- PART IConflict is an inherent aspect of life, emerging in various forms like interpersonal relationships, discussions, and debates with unfamiliar individuals. Despite our best efforts, complete avoidance of conflict is impossible. Consequently, the ability to comprehend and address conflict is crucial for day-to-day interactions. As we introduce our moods, perspectives, needs, and personalities into our work environments, differences with colleagues may surface. If these conflicts go unaddressed, they have the potential to disrupt collaboration and diminish productivity. Nevertheless, it is imperative to acknowledge that conflicts can be resolved and, furthermore, they can yield positive outcomes by bringing underlying issues to light...2024-01-2619 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to Ask for Help- - Part II- THREE TECHNIQUESThis episode is in continuation with the last one where we talked about
why we hesitate to ask for help
each one of us has a unique reason why we shy away from asking anyone for help
we also talked about
when to ask for help,
where, that is best people and time to seek that help
& most importantly,
We talked about how to seek help
And understood
the SMART WAY to seek help
a way which is
Specific. Meaningful. Action-oriented. Realistic, Time-Bound
In this episode,
We will talk about THREE effective
Communication Techniques
Practical
Tried & tested techniques
To Ask For Hel...2024-01-1915 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to Ask for Help- Part I - THE SMART WAY!A dumb question, is the one that you don’t ask.
Usually, if you don’t ask, you don’t receive.
Very few people know how or where to ask for help. Why do we hesitate? If you fall in a pit in a jungle, probably only thing you’ll scream is ‘HELP’.
It’s a different thing that only the tiger will hear it.
But we hesitate because of the is social conditioning. Somewhere along the way, we learn that asking for help is weakness, that you should be strong or at least *look* strong. So we are embarrassed or we fear rejectio...2024-01-1218 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!GOLDEN RULE: How to rule the stage!Who doesn't want to rule the stage! Someone says - it's body language trick, others say it's your opening statement, yet others claim that your confidence is what it takes to rule the stage.
I beg to differ.
Take your hands out of your pockets!Talk with eye contact!Pause every seven and a half seconds!Too many rules, isn’t it? But are these the rules to rule the stage? Yes, and no!
In this episode, the secret mantra, the golden rule to rule the stage gets revealed! Plus, there's a special secret - bonus tip- at the end- ju...2024-01-0515 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Life-Changing Story about Communication!The power of story is the most important tool in your arsenal. If done well and done correctly, a great story can can inspire, enliven and move an audience to take action! I'm trying to do just that.
This story is a game-changer. I promise it'll change the way you think about communication, and also change the way you communicate! Stories like this give us an opportunity to learn from another person's experience and alongside shape, strengthen or challenge our opinions and values.
This one is coming from a great Greek philosopher, who's name I don't want to reveal here :)
S...2023-12-2906 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to praise yourself in public: Million-dollar trick!Nike ad says their shoes are most comfortable,
Godiva says their chocolates are the best,
Starbucks boasts about their coffee-
basically no successful brand, no successful company,
stops singing praises for itself, and its products.
Can you?
If you struggle with self-praise
and expect
that magic will happen and your boss or your teacher or your team will know your success stories automatically,
Let me help you!
Self-praise is not a bad thing....at all!
only if you do it right!
This podcast is all about that!
Stay tuned and enjoy! Don't forget to hit the subscribe button for deeper conve...2023-12-2217 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE TRICKS: MASTER NERVOUSNESS IN PUBLIC SPEAKINGNervousness or anxiety in public speaking situations is normal. Nearly everyone gets nervous when they have to give a speech or a presentation, even experienced speakers.
I’ve heard people saying-
My chest tightens up, my head starts to spin, confused thoughts race through my head, I forget what was supposed to be coming out of my mouth. Sometimes I even forget to breathe, and my voice begins to crack.
“How do I get rid of this nervousness?”
This is the number one question I’m asked by most of my students. I’m going to share three tried and tested str...2023-12-1519 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Self Control Reality Check....& marshmallows!What does self control have to do with communication? Well, the simple answer is-
It has everything to do with communication!
But the important thing is- do you have it under check?
If you’re nodding your head in affirmation, it only means you’re peeeerrrrffffeeecccct! Well, if you ARE that singular, perfect, ideal soul, walking the face of the earth, congratulationssssss!
I would love to see you go around boasting about your saintly power of self-control until someone loses their self-control, roughs you up, and knocks seven bells out of you…..driving your blood shot angry eyes, insane. I’d really love...2023-12-0812 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Change: Introvert to Extrovert? or vice versa?Consider the list-
Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk.
Yep, all introverts.
Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, Mahatma Gandhi
Again, all introverts!
Bill Clinton, Steve Jobs, Marie Antoinette, Winston Churchill, Narendra Modi, George W. Bush.
Are they introverts or extroverts?
You guessed it right
Complete extroverts!
Are you an introvert
Or an extrovert
Or an ambivert
Or an omnivert!
Think about it!
In this episode we will talk about who’s more successful- introverts or extroverts?
And whether an introvert can become an extrovert?
And
Whether its even needed!
Stay tuned and enjoy! Don't forget to hit the subscribe button...2023-12-0111 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to create: A Great First Impression!You don’t even know it
but by the time someone has formed a first impression of you,
they’ve effectively answered these four questions,
1. Do I like you?
2. Do I trust you?
3. Are you good to have around?
4. Who do you remind me of?
So, what IS this impression?
What is its genesis?
What or who verifies it?
Can you control it?
If yes, then how?
We'll master THREE smart and effective tricks to create great first impressions!
In my podcasts, I endeavour to add some value to your communication skills, so that you can build transferable skills,
that can come in handy
in bot...2023-11-2418 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to Speak Your Mind: Without Sounding Rude!Are you afraid of conflict?
Do you get anxious about voicing your opinions?
Do you often feel guilty about the things you say?
Not speaking up can be a double whammy – disaster for your physical health, and mental health! Expressing yourself openly makes you appear more confident, earns the respect of the people around you, and helps to highlight problems before they escalate. Most people think speaking up is a difficult thing because they think they may offend people But the truth is that you can be honest effectively without saying anything offensive. How do you do that? Start by practici...2023-11-1718 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to Apologise: Three Steps & One Magic Formula!Losing your temper at home?
Regret sending that long and harsh whatsapp message you really shouldn't have sent?
Pranked a colleague, who later felt very small?
Forgot your friend’s birthday?
Ouch!
We are humans.
We make mistakes.
Sometimes it’s our words
Sometimes our actions.
Sometimes we do it on purpose
Sometimes we do it unintentionally
But does it call for an apology?
Yes.
It does.
But
Do you know how to communicate your apology effectively?
Master the art of apologising genuinely and effectively!
Of course your heart must be in-built in the apology!
Rest everything else, I’ll show you i...2023-11-0315 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Think as you Speak: Master Spontaneous Speaking!Think as you Speak: Master Spontaneous Speaking2023-10-2718 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Breaking the Ice: Cool Conversation StartersHave you ever arrived at a business conference alone….where you don’t know anyone?
What do you talk about?
How do you break the ice?
Being adept at starting and maintaining meaningful conversations is an indispensable part of efficient communication skills! I'm going to show you the mantras, the magic! From the frivolous to the serious, these fun and random questions for everyone and anyone are sure to inspire meaningful conversations. Whether you consider yourself an outgoing, extrovert or a hide-in-your-shell type, there are going to be times when you need to connect, communicate, & network but just don’t know how t...2023-10-2014 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE TIPS TO RE-ENGAGE AN AUDIENCE!Your audience listened to you initially!
They were excited!
Not any more!
Now, you’re speaking to an audience
Who’s not listening!
Your heart breaks!
Research suggests that highly intelligent people get bored easily so if your audience is getting bored easily, chances are that you’ve got a super intelligent audience!
Why they get bored- well there could be a myriad reasons:
Your audience has heard it all before. You need to find smart and innovative ways to shake them up and find novel, motivational ideas to add-value to your audience and get them interested- yet again!.
In this podc...2023-10-1311 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Master Active Listening with 3 Tricks!Active listening skills, involving both verbal and non-verbal techniques, are at the core of any successful conversation. Habitually, we listen to reply!
We are dying to make the speaker stop speaking so that we can start speaking our thoughts and give our suggestions and at times we are even finding ways to end the conversation so we can move on to the next thing. When we sincerely listen to what others say they will also be interested in communicating with us and so a connection will be formed.
This can effectually help avoid miscommunication, form friendships and improve any relationships.
I a...2023-10-0619 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!THREE STORIES & TOTAL MISCOMMUNICATION!Have you had a situation where you said something & other person thought you meant something completely different?
Have you lost a friendship or a relationship because of miscommunication?
Then this episode is dedicated to you!
Miscommunication happens when there are discrepancies between what is said and what is understood during a dialogue. Effective communication is essential at work as it not only generates stronger interpersonal relationships but also impacts the business's overall productivity. Poor communication results from a disconnect between what is said and what is understood. While misunderstandings will always happen at one time or another, there are things...2023-09-2912 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to talk to STRANGERS!Being able to start a meaningful conversation is an important skill that you can use to build and strengthen relationships. Establishing a list of conversation starters can also help you communicate with any person under any circumstances. In this podcast, we discuss how to start a conversation, explore several ways to start talking to a new person and share some examples of conversation starters for different situations.
Conversation starters with colleagues or professional contacts can look different than those with new friends or acquaintances. Your initial efforts can start a conversation that might help you build valuable relationships with coworkers...2023-09-2217 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to deal with UNHAPPY customers!Dealing with unhappy customers is never easy. But, despite the headaches, angry customers are good for business — you just need to know how to relate to them!
The simple thing is that your business will not succeed if your customers are dissatisfied. An angry customer is convinced that your company neither cares nor listens to them. An unhappy customer feels that your product failed to meet their expectations. A demanding customer thinks highly of them and wants you to treat them differently.
When faced with an angry customer, avoid the (natural) tendency to justify your position. Instead, understand that they're me...2023-09-1615 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Three exercises to speak like 'BUTTER'!Do you admire those speakers on the stage who speak super smooth and yet look so comfortable?
Do you say-
"Wow! I wish I could be like them!"
But in reality, you dread speaking to an audience!
No need to answer that because nearly half of your audience doesn't want to be in your shoes because they have public speaking anxiety, too.
There’s something about public speaking that’s both exciting…and super scary.
On the one hand, when you speak to public, you connect with a lot of new people. It’s a fantastic way to network, to meet new cli...2023-09-0715 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to 'BEAT' ChatGPT in communication!Most of us use Alexa & Siri- what are these? AI, right??!!
As people increasingly rely on ChatGPT to carry on conversations, they get addicted! Whether this addiction is positive, or negative, each to his own. Mental health experts claim that this could lead to a breakdown in social relationships, both online and offline. Nonetheless, it is a fact that the future of work will require a balance of human intuition and AI precision. So, hear this episode and learn to build healthy defense mechanisms with AI such as ChatGPT, setting your boundaries, staying in charge, and harnessing it to assist yo...2023-09-0119 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to NOT take things personally!Are you always blaming yourself when other people don’t treat you well? Are you sensitive to what others think
of you? Do you get emotional and defensive to any form of criticism? These can be signs that you take things too
personally, which can take a huge mental and emotional toll on you.
If you tend to take things personally when they are not personal, it is because something has hit a nerve.
I used to get very upset when my best friend didn’t return my call. Even though I didn’t have important things to talk
about, I couldn’t hel...2023-08-2520 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Million dollar trick to influence people!What if I tell you such a simple trick that you find yourself connecting well with people? Suddenly you know how to sell your brand or influence a crowd of strangers, or pitch your business plan?
What if I tell you it was always around you but you never noticed it?
What if you start noticing it and its impact once I share this trick with you?
Its magical, powerful, and super-effective!
Wait no more, hold no more, lets roll it!
Lights, camera, action!!!!!!!!
Learn Tips & Tricks of Communication: Creative Writing| Public Speaking| Grammar| Business English | Interview skills | Presentation skills...2023-07-1417 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Public Speaking 101: Persuade an audience!Welcome to "Communication 101," a podcast dedicated to helping you enhance your communication skills and become a master communicator.
Whether you're a business professional, a salesperson, a leader, or simply someone looking to improve your interpersonal relationships, this podcast is
for you.
Here, we deep into the art of persuasion and provides valuable insights, strategies, and techniques to help you navigate conversations with
confidence and influence others effectively.
Stay tuned and enjoy! Don't forget to hit the subscribe button for deeper conversations! The techniques, tips & tricks I share are easy, practical, tried and tested and will make you a better communicator...2023-07-0815 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to say exactly what you mean?So you said one thing to someone, that person believed you said something else, interpreted it as something else, you thought he will react in one way, but he reacted in a way opposite to what you had thought.
Has that happened to you? Often? Have you thought why? Why does this happen to me I didn’t mean to upset or hurt anyone But I end up doing
so.
Stay tuned and enjoy! Don't forget to hit the subscribe button for deeper conversations! The techniques, tips & tricks I share are easy, practical, tri...2023-06-3011 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Public Speaking 101: How to Kill the Filler Words!Do you say words like - "like", "uhm", "umm", "so", "y'know"........ after every few words? These are called filler words.
While they fill, they don’t really add any meaning to a sentence. For example, when you can’t think of a word, you might say “umm.”
Is your conversation plagued by them?
Do you want to overcome this habit?
This episode will help you with just that!
Learn Tips & Tricks of Communication: Creative Writing|
Public Speaking| Grammar| Business English | Interview skills | Presentation
skills| Comprehension | with award-winning Coach Sarika Singh- A Communication
Coach for 20+...2023-06-2122 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Public Speaking 101: How to make audience listen to you!Keeping your audience's attention can be one of the biggest challenges whilst speaking in front of a crowd. One surefire way to engage your audience: Rather than speaking to them, involve them in your talk!
In this episode, I'm sharing tons of tips & tricks on how to keep your audience engaged! How not to 'Bore' them!
Hear this yourself! Tune in to my fun podcast!
Learn Tips & Tricks of Communication: Creative Writing|
Public Speaking| Grammar| Business English | Interview skills | Presentation
skills| Comprehension | with award-winning Coach Sarika Singh- A Communication
Coach for 20+ years! This p...2023-05-2031 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Public Speaking 101: How to fight the fear!Do you feel you'll bore the audience? That no one will be interested in listening to you?
Imagine, that day has come, you’ve gone on stage to speak, excited, nervous, challenged, anxious, full of expectations, clearing your throat that final time, ......and ........
I’m dead- that’s what you tell yourself!
Why did I sign up for this?
Most of us can relate to this situation- isn’t it?
Heres's what I say:
If you are scared to talk, don't think, just go and talk. Once your mind becomes familiar with tal...2023-05-1220 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Mom, Dad & the unsent loveletters............In our busy lives, we may speak to people, but don’t have time to communicate. Because communication starts with 'listening'.
Then when our loved ones are gone, we live with regrets- regrets of not communicating with them……regrets of not being there to listen to them, to care
for them, to tell them how much we love them….and to tell them that we know how much they love us.
Did you tell your mom dad yet? What will happen if you tell them today---- can’t you already imagine that smile?
Which unexpressed feeling is lying unsaid, unspoken...2023-04-2316 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How & when to say that NO!Have YOU ever said YES when you want to say NO?
Did you said that YES out of obligation or to meet someone’s expectation, or just because you were shy to say a NO?
And then….
Then what happened?
You regretted saying that YES
Your heart cried why you didn’t say NO
You wanted to say- NO, NEVER, NOT AT ALL
……………………….and all you said was- YES, SURE, OF COURSE!
We avoid saying ‘No’ because we have been conditioned to believe we can’t, and we shouldn’t. When we keep saying YES to everything we want to say NO, we soon start to pour...2023-02-0914 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!How to reduce "I" in conversations!Have you noticed how 'I'-centric your conversations are? "I want this", "I went there", "I hate it", "I'm missing him", "How will this benefit me", "Its mine"......and the like. Most of us love to talk. We communicate with others- all day long- through messages, emails, phone calls, and face-to-face meetings. Surprisingly, the type of conversations we engage in, or talk about, have one central theme- and is pretty much consistent.
This recurring theme is our favourite topic- in most of our communication.
Do you know what is it?
Yes, 'I'.......
Suppose, you try to go two days without talking a...2023-01-2610 min
Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!A short story about Communication SkillsHave you lost a relationship or a friendship because you could not communicate well? Think about it…. .
If you say too little, your communication never goes through as well as you would want it to. You need words around words- the right words around the right words- that’s what communication is.
The more you say, the less people will remember what you have said.
Had each of the three conversations between the monk and gurudev been a paragraph or two, Gurudev would’ve understood the monk’s concerns better and not judged him.
If the monk spoke a para everytim...2022-10-1605 minCommunicate101: Speaking Writing Tips!Communicate101: Speaking Writing Tips! (Trailer)2022-10-1600 min