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The Fearlessly Free PodcastAre you really judging me for how I'm responding to my pain?Religious people can be so judgy can’t they?! They see you’ve left the church and all of a sudden you’re on the way to the wide path of destruction *rolls eyes emoji* When all it really is, like in most people-y experiences, you were let down by people who should’ve done better. Listen to this informative episode as I give tips on how to really support someone who’s experienced church abuse and/or trauma.2020-10-1541 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastLife after ReligionThis episode unpacks religion vs relationship! I speak about my experience of religion and how it crippled me, and the liberating journey of a Fearlessly Free relationship with God. Expect to hear candid transparency as always!2020-09-3041 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastS2 Life After Trauma IntroWelcome back to the Fearlessly Free Podcast series 2! We all want to be healthy functioning adults, right? Well in order for us to do that we need to face the things that hold us back, and for many of us that’s trauma. In this series, I’ll be candidly discussing traumatic experiences and how we can rise from them so we can live lives that are whole, healed, and free!2020-09-2901 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the Church Player Part 4 - A Man's PerspectiveIn this final instalment of the four-part special. The guys (Riccy Mitchell, Kial Jon-Lewis, Nicholas Osei, and Emmanuel Lawal) really debunked some myths, and the thinking that we as women have. We talked about sex, what men want, what women should look out for when dating a man. We spoke about the importance of listening to our gut when dating someone. The guys even told us never to lower our standards for a guy just because we like them! This episode was rich with banter, wisdom, and encouragement. I know you're going to enjoy this one!2020-05-0240 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the Church Player Part 3 - A Man's PerspectiveMe and the lads (Kial Jon-Lewis, Emmanuel Lawal, Riccy Mitchell, Nicholas Osei) discuss every and anything about men and women's expectations. We talk about the dating scene, and whether it's OK for a woman to approach a man. We unpack the impact of social media on relationships, and I even ask one of the guys to explain why Christian men are [seemingly] timid when it comes to dating women! We know you're going to enjoy this one. Don't forget to comment, rate the podcast, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss new episode releases!2020-04-301h 03The Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the Church Player Part 2 - A Man’s PerspectiveLadies & Gentlemen, I present to you 'Letter to the the Church Player - From a Man's Perspective'!
Y'all know that this is a very sensitive topic for most of us, and judging by the responses I received from my last instalment about this, I knew I had to do another.
So I have something special for you, especially the ladies! I have four amazing male guests (Kial Jon-Lewis, Emmanuel Lawal, Riccy Mitchell, Nicholas Osei) who have given nothing but transparency, honesty, and truth. We discuss women's vulnerabilities, a woman's worth, accountability and culture and how it impacts a man’s beh...2020-04-2858 minThe Fearlessly Free Podcast‘Stillness in the Standstill’I thought I’d interrupt this series with a little pick me up in light of what’s happening right now. When it seems like hopelessness and uncertainty is everywhere, where can we go to find peace, and how do we sustain it? In this episode I speak about my experience and how I’m coping during this time. I’ve even added something extra for you! I hope you're blessed by it x2020-04-2135 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the Church Player Part 1This episode is entitled 'Letter To The Church Player'. It's for the guys in the church who seek to play women with no intention of doing right by them. You know the one that tells you he's sincerely looking for a wife, but you find out he's really looking for a play date?
I explore the effects of boys not being taught accountability as children, which then leads to them being irresponsible and dysfunctional men. How does this impact the way men see women? How does this impact the way they see God? How can they learn to be accountable...2020-02-171h 01The Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the First LadyThis “letter” is to the ‘First Lady’ in the church. Who is she? Why does she have that title, & why is she first? I speak about the non-biblical truth behind her name, as well as explore the impact being a Pastor’s wife might have on her self esteem. I also tie in the importance of understanding your purpose so you don’t end up walking in someone else’s shoes!2019-11-2554 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the PastorIn this episode I speak about the issue of Pastors who claim their church is the one true church, Pastors who interfere in the personal lives of their church members. I share ways on how to tackle this, whilst empowering you to live a Fearlessly Free life!2019-11-111h 01The Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the Wounded - Part 2In this week’s episode I discuss the traditions within the black culture that potentially impact our awareness of spiritual abuse. Do our customs cause us to trust church leaders too soon? Have we confused respecting our elders with collusion and/or accepting abuse? I explore the connection between spiritual abuse in the black church, and trans-generational trauma caused by slavery.2019-10-2957 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastLetter to the Wounded - Part 1This first official episode forms one of the ‘Letters to the Wounded’. We address public embarrassment in the church, and over-emphasis on submission to leadership. As well as discussing red flags, I also share my own experiences of spiritual abuse.2019-10-1854 minThe Fearlessly Free PodcastFearlessly Free - The IntroThis intro is a taster of what I’ll be discussing over the next few episodes. Spiritual abuse is something many of us don’t talk about, yet some of us are very much wounded by the things we’ve witnessed and had to endure in church. Well it stops today! ITS TIME TO BE FREE & FEARLESS! Let’s begin our Fearlessly Free journey together!2019-09-2913 min