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To Be Single or Not to BeSTATE OF THE UNION ADDRESS: THE STATE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN 2024In this special and final episode of the Runnin' it Back Series, we take a deep dive into the state of relationships in 2024. It's a real, raw, and VERY necessary conversation that every woman seeking healthy and happy love needs to hear! Put those headphones on, get comfortable, and buckle up for a helluva meaningful ride that I promise you will be worth it! Shop the Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/author/shaanahmontanna If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB Have an inspiring relationship story or advice yo...2024-03-2718 min

To Be Single or Not to BeDo You Even Know Who Raised That Man?On this episode we take a deep dive into the role that family plays in your dating life when you think it does not! It's essential for you to ask yourself questions like, who raised that man, what kind of upbringing did he have, was he taught to respect and value women, does he hate his family? Too many times we sign up for a relationship with a man before knowing their background and sometimes this means we lose before we even had a chance to win! So, get to know your potential partner inside and out, through and...2024-02-2028 min

To Be Single or Not to BeMarket Value is More Than a Pretty Face & FinancesOn this episode we take a deep dive into the conversations around market value so we can lay it to rest! Market value is more than skin and pockets deep. Yet, it still lies in the hands of the beholder. Your value begins and ends in you and within you. So, how marketable are you and are you sure you have the right "things" on the market? Let's talk about! FULL visual episode available now on YouTube! https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Shop the Shaanah Montanna Journal Collection: ⁠https://www.amazon.co...2024-02-0814 min

To Be Single or Not to BeDon't Commit to Your Next Relationship Before Reviewing This List!On this episode we take a deep dive into the areas you need to make sure you fully tap into before you decide to commit to a new relationship! These are items that call for us to step out of the laziness that has led us to bad partner selection in the past and will force us to put in the work to determine if they are a good partner for us on the front end so we won't regret it on the back end if we find out they weren't. FULL visual episode available now on...2024-01-2630 min

To Be Single or Not to BeStop Playing With Your Friendships!On this episode we take a deep dive into what friendship really means and looks like in the digital age of premature dismissals. If they are really your friend and someone you say you care about, then watch this episode to continue moving forth in grace and accordingly! Platonic friendships deserve the same grace, time, attention, and energy that we give romantic partnerships. So, let's acknowledge and own that and started treating our friends as good as we say they deserve. FULL visual episode available now on YouTube! https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna 2024-01-2129 min

To Be Single or Not to BeIs She Too Independent or Is That Man Not Doing Enough?On this episode we revisit my views on what it really means to be independent and is there a such thing as too independent in a society that say women want to be masculine anyway! It's much deeper than taking out the trash when a man is in close proximity. Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! If would like to support & buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To...2023-07-3118 min

To Be Single or Not to BeThey Cheated. Do I Stay or Pay Them Dust?On this episode we revisit my views on cheating, how you define what cheating is to you personally, the hand social media plays in cheating present day, and how you navigate it if it happens to you (whether you should leave or stay). Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be...2023-07-2716 min

To Be Single or Not to BeThat Man Does Not Need More Time. That Man Does Not Like YouOn this episode we revisit my views on timelines in relationships and dating and why they are not as necessary as I once thought. It's more so about what you are doing with the time you are giving over how much time has gone by! Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or No...2023-07-2520 min

To Be Single or Not to BeHow to End Generational Curses Immediately!On this episode we revisit my views and the truth about GENERATIONAL CURSES! They are more than only building financial wealth. There are actually FEELINGS involved, too! Listen to the episode and let me know what you think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an inspiring relationship story or ad...2023-07-2030 min

To Be Single or Not to BeThe Hard Truth About Breakups...NOW WHAT?On this episode we revisit my views the HARD truth about breakups, why they happen, what you can possibly do to prevent them, and how to navigate them if you run into their murky waters! Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit ht...2023-07-1927 min

To Be Single or Not to BeStop Negotiating Your NON-Negotiables!On this episode we revisit my views on non-negotiables because it's time for us to discuss WHY do we even have them if we are not going to ever stick beside 'em? Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@sh...2023-07-1327 min

To Be Single or Not to BeWhy Would a Woman Go Half on Anything With a Man?On this episode we revisit my views on the financial perspective of a relationship! Should women go half, should they never consider it, or is it still up for debate? Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! Shop • Shaana Montanna & if would like to buy me a coffee, please visit https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit patreon.com/shaanahmontanna To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit https://youtube.com/@shaanahmontanna Have an...2023-07-1027 min

To Be Single or Not to BeWhy Women Really Want a Husband!On this episode we revisit my views on why women really want a husband! Is it for love, is it for money, or is it for reasons that have nothing to do with that at all! Tune in for the deets and let me know what you really think! If would like to buy me a coffee, please visit ⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TBSONTB⁠ To become a patron of all things Shaanah Montanna of TBSONTB podcast, please visit ⁠patreon.com/shaanahmontanna⁠ To subscribe to The To Be Single or Not To Be Podcast on Youtube, please visit ⁠https://youtu.be/FgwKPHI...2023-07-0625 min

To Be Single or Not to BeOne Night Only: The Tell All Interview with Shaanah Montanna - Ep. 111This is the season finale of the To Be Single or Not To Be podcast and we are so excited to be here! This episode is exclusively on YouTube and is one you do not want to miss! We sit down with the Creator and Host of the podcast for a one night only special where she "TELLS ALL" about aspects of her relationship life! She dives into what love looks like, what makes her feel safe, what would be her grade in "relationship class" personally, and so much more! So, be sure to head over to YouTube to view...2022-07-1804 min

To Be Single or Not to BeWhere The Money Reside! - Ep. 85On this episode we take a deep dive and a revisit to previous episodes we've had around money and relationships! Money is a funny thing and it's even funnier if you and your partner or potential partner aren't on the same page about it! So, all of that said, we dive into what the conversations should look like around money, releasing shame attached to money, and how you and your partner should BOFF stay tryna get this money! So, pull up, grab your partner, and get this tea on how to handle making sure you know where the money...2021-03-291h 08

To Be Single or Not to BeDo Opposites Really Attract? - Ep. 84On this episode we take a deep dive into the age old, and OUTDATED notion of opposites attracting! Yeah, dating your opposite may be fun for a moment or in some capacity. However, when it comes to long term love, compatibility and complementary partnership are way more ideal! So, pull up for this informative and enlightening conversation with some special guests as we dissect that in 2021 being with your complete opposite just may not be the move! Special guests: Keshia Kesh, Reese, & BBW Quoya 2021-03-2248 min

To Be Single or Not to BeIt's the Phone For Me! - Ep. 83On this episode we dive into a very necessary, yet sometimes controversial topic, on social media and those dam cell phones! We live in a world where social media is a permanent fixture in it. So, this means that we must start having real conversations about it with our partners so that we can all be sure we are keeping it real with each other. In this case, ignorance truly is NOT bliss. So, pull up a chair, grab your cell phone, and feel free to listen to this episode with your partner to get the convo going if...2021-03-1650 min

To Be Single or Not to BeYour Partner Will Not Complete You - Ep. 82On this episode we take a deep and necessary dive into what wholeness and feeling complete looks like with or without a partner. We tackle what being “complete” really means, what the self work looks like to get to self worth, and how to navigate these relationship waters to feel complete no matter what your status may be. Special guests: Kandice M., L’Kenya D., Heather C., Brittney R., & Nikita H.2021-03-081h 19

To Be Single or Not to BeRelationships, Communication, & Conflict - Ep. 81On this episode, we had the opportunity to get the real from a man's perspective when it comes to what they really want from women, what communication they really need from women, and how to handle conflict with them because SURPRISE... they do know how to communicate!! Men are a special species. However, most are very simple. More simple than we tend to think or give them credit for (in a good way). So, pull up on us and listen to this informative, yet hilarious conversation, with the men and of The Doneson Podcast (that I also co host...2021-03-011h 01

To Be Single or Not to BeBoundaries, Dealbreakers, & Triggers - Ep. 80On this episode we take a a closer, and necessary, look back into boundaries, dealbreakers, and triggers. We dive into how to identify these areas, how to ensure that you have the right tools in your kit to push through or get out of certain situations with these items, and knowing when you truly have these areas under control because only the strong & PREPARED will survive. So, pull up and let's get into this REAL, RAW, & HONEST conversation. Special guests: The one & only Bulli Carter & Samantha Jean 2021-02-221h 50

To Be Single or Not to BeUncertainties & Insecurities - Ep. 79On this episode, we take a deep and necessary dive into the effects that uncertainties and insecurities can have on relationships. We discuss what these items show up as and how to navigate these waters with a partner or just within if without one. There is truly a difference between uncertainty and insecurity and this episode will give you all the tools you need to decipher the difference between the two, understanding what to do with this info, and how to proceed moving forward and doing so with caution where applicable! Pull up for this tea with our special...2021-02-151h 04

To Be Single or Not to BeSurrendering to Happiness - Ep. 78On this episode we have a very awakening and eye opening discussion about HAPPINESS! We dive into the definition of what happiness truly is, what it should actually look like for you personally, and how we navigate this life keeping it in the forefront of your minds and our lives! If we are not happy with ourselves, how can we be happy in a relationship? Pull up a chair, sit back, and take notes as we dive into this much needed conversation about surrendering to happiness and why we deserve it oh so much! Special guests: Morgan Bullock from...2021-02-091h 01

To Be Single or Not to BeIt Just Might Not Be the Right Fit: Part II - Ep 77On this episode, we take a deeper diver into what it means to be the right fit in Part II of this conversation! We discuss why you need to spend time getting to know a partner before they become a partner, where your loyalties should lie before a person becomes a partner, what it looks like from the MALE perspective when choosing the "right fit" in a partner, and so much more! Join us for this informative, yet hilarious conversation with special guests: Therapist James Bush of the Mind of a Man Podcast, Nikki H., and Cara Freeman 2021-02-011h 11

To Be Single or Not to BeIt Just Might Not Be the Right Fit! Part 1 - Ep. 76On this episode, we take a very necessary and overdue deep dive into determining if you’re just bad at love OR if you are just choosing people that are not the right fit! Join us for this honesty hour as we give it to you straight, no chaser, and begin that conversation with yourself to see if YOU need to do better! Special guests: Nikita H. of the Straight 2 It podcast, KiKi B., and Kirsten D.2021-01-251h 02

To Be Single or Not to BeALL LABELS MATTER - Ep.75On this episode we dive into why ALL LABELS MATTER! We discuss why labels are important whether you are boo'd up or not, how labels allow you to remain in control of your relationships and the boundaries set within them, and why you need to label whatever you are doing with whomever you are doing it with TODAY! Join us in this hilarious and fun, yet informative, convo today! Special guests: Amani M. & Nikki H.2021-01-1856 min

To Be Single or Not to BeSTOP SETTLING! Give These People Back to the Streets! Ep. 74On this episode, we take a much needed and overdue examination of why we must stop settling for less than we deserve and start giving these people back to the streets IMMEJETLEE when we find that they are not our cup of tea! It comes down to things like knowing our own worth, making sure that your person is honestly the "RIGHT FIT", unleashing the fear of singleness or loneliness, and so much more! Grab some wine and popcorn and snuggle up to your device so you can cackle along with us (and learn some new gems) with our good...2021-01-1157 min

To Be Single or Not to BeThrow The Whole Timeline Away - Ep 73On the episode we revisit a topic from Season 1 as we dive into a conversation around relationship timelines and why we need to just throw the whole timeline away! We discuss creating your own relationships goals, doing what works best for YOU, and recognizing that a timeline won’t make a person stay anyway because it is what it is mane! Special guests: In House therapist Chemyeeka Tumblin & Kari of the podcast Conversing With Kariscene 2021-01-051h 27

To Be Single or Not to BeNarcissist, Gaslighting, & Manipulation in Relationships - Ep. 72On this episode we take a deeper dive into narcissism, gaslighting, and manipulation to discuss what it looks like in these relationships and why they are NOT just buzz words of 2020! We discuss how finding the language to identify these issues is empowering in your relationships and how they extend beyond the spousal world to show up in other familial, professional, and friend based relationships. Dive into the conversation with us so you can determine if you need to learn how to drive in the lane with these people or get off of the next exit now! Special guests: Alyson...2020-12-281h 04

To Be Single or Not to BeWhatever You Do, You May Need to Say NO to the Pandemic Boo - Ep. 71On this Season 3 opening episode we talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of dating while in a pandemic! YIKES! It may sound good to the naked ear or look good on the outside looking in, but once you get close up on it, we aren't so sure if it is all it's cracked up to be or worth the entanglement of it all! Tune in to this informative, yet hilarious conversation and help us to decide! Special guests: In house wife Tori Brianna & Our fave therapist Chemyeeka Tumblin 2020-12-2152 min

To Be Single or Not to BeBack Into Time - Ep. 70It’s our SEASON 2 finale and we take a look back into time over some of our favorite and most interesting episodes of the season! Tune in to hear our candid thoughts on the episodes then, where we stand now, and what direction we are going on for the future! Special surprise... this episode stars only yours truly, Shaanah Montanna 2020-09-1025 min

To Be Single or Not to BePart II: Protect the Black Woman - Ep. 69On this episode we go deeper into the conversation of protecting the Black woman and what that truly looks like. How do we protect ourselves in times of crisis? How do we pick up the pieces when our Black men are not protected and still be there for ourselves and those around us? How do we make sure that the outcry for the protection of Black women is the same as Black men? So many questions that need answers and we give them to you on this episode!2020-08-111h 25

To Be Single or Not to BeReal Romance, Real Relationships, Real Issues - Ep. 68On this episode we take an interesting look into romance, relationship mantras, society’s role in it all, and why prioritizing your mental health over it all is most important! Don’t let these relationships run YOU, YOU run them! Special guest: R&B recording artist Mallory 2020-08-0441 min

To Be Single or Not to BePart I: Protect the Black Woman - Ep.67On this episode we dive into the layered topic of protecting the Black woman and what that truly looks like in our communities, our culture, and beyond! Join the conversation with our special guests: KiKi B., In House Wife Tori, & Chemyeeka Tumblin @positivelymyeek 2020-07-281h 12

To Be Single or Not to BeAre Men Still on the DL in 2020? Ep.66On this episode we have an interesting conversation around down low brothers and discuss if this is really still necessary in 2020?! We uncover that the ego is a powerful drug and one that has more power than some may think! Tune in for the full low down with special guest: Bulli Carter as she gives the real spill and so much more!2020-07-2152 min

To Be Single or Not to BeEntanglements- Ep.65On this episode we talk about the infamous Red Table Talk where Jada “tells all” about her entanglement with Singer August Alsina. However, we take it a step further to really discuss how these entanglements happen, the role mental health plays in it all, was Jada’s behavior predatory, and so much more! Special guests: @positivelymyeek & In House Wife Tori Brianna 2020-07-131h 18

To Be Single or Not to BeAre You Single Until You’re Married? Ep. 64On this episode we have an interesting conversation around the concept of one being single until they are married. Is this true, it this valid, is this accurate info? Join the convo to find out if this the wave in 2020 or nah! Special guests: Ladies of the Nashville New podcast Aigner & Miranda J.2020-07-0633 min

To Be Single or Not to BeThe WAIT - Ep.63On this episode we take a deep dive into what “THE WAIT” of being single looks like while you patiently wait on who you know God has designed for you. We talk about the good, the bad, and the sometimes very ugly parts of it and how you can successfully navigate it all! Special guests: Nikita Haynie of the Straight 2 It Podcast & Ms. T’Erica 2020-06-301h 04

To Be Single or Not to BeLose My Breath: Mental Health & Anxiety - Revisited Ep. 62On this episode, we revisit a recording on mental health and anxiety from Season 1 that we all can benefit from during the current climate in the world right now! Let’s relax, relate, and release!WOOSAH....2020-06-221h 25

To Be Single or Not to BeDating in the Workplace - Ep.61On this episode we take a deep dive into work husbands/work wives and if dating a coworker is a good idea or the worst idea ever! Tune in to hear the run down and why some of us have a dated a coworker but would possibly never do it again! Special guests In House Wife Tori & Therapist Chemyeeka Tumblin of @positivelymyeek 2020-06-151h 04

To Be Single or Not to BeShould One Partner Love One More Than the Other? Ep. 60On this episode, we take a deep dive into the age old notion that your man should love you more than you love him and why that might be outdated info! Join the conversation as we discuss the levels to it, the importance that self love plays in it, and why you have to be able to maneuver it if you find yourself on one side of this coin! Special guests: Morgan B. of the Around and Within Podcast & Shana Shaee 2020-06-0144 min

To Be Single or Not to BeLove After Lockup... We Mean Divorce! Ep.59On this episode, we take an insightful look into love and life after divorce and what navigating those waters looks like! Whether you’ve been married or not, this episode is one you can benefit from immensely before, during, and after the vows so get ready! Special guests: Aigner G. & Miranda J. of the New Nashville podcast 2020-05-2749 min

To Be Single or Not to BeNo More Boyfriends - Ep.58On this episode we take a deep dive into the notion that women should stop settling for boyfriends when they truly want a HUSBAND! Tune in for some life experiences and wisdom being dropped to find out if a boyfriend or a husband is really for you! Special guests: Angie Woo & Q 2020-05-181h 09

To Be Single or Not to BeIs Love Best When It’s Fresh? Ep.57On this episode we take a deep and insightful look into the many phases of love and relationships to determine is love best when it’s fresh during the honeymoon phase or can it truly be amazing at any time? Special guests @positivelymyeek & @kariscene 2020-05-111h 00

To Be Single or Not to BeYou Have to be “THIS” Tall to Ride “THIS” Ride! Ep. 56On this episode the TALL GANG dishes on what it’s really like to live the life of a taller woman, what the pros and cons are to this y’all life, SHORT guys, and having confidence through it all!2020-04-2735 min

To Be Single or Not to BeDoes Your “Market Value” Decrease as Your Age Increases? Ep. 55On this episode we take an interesting look at the notion that a woman’s value decreases as her age increases! HMMMM... tune in so you just hear all that we had to say! Special guest: The One & Only Bulli Carter 2020-04-2041 min

To Be Single or Not to BeWhew Chile... The Toxicity! Ep. 54On this episode we take a deep & interesting dive into toxicity and what it looks like in ALL relationships and all forms! We discuss why we are still tolerating it, if some people just LIVE for toxicity, how to identify it, and how to move away from it! Tune in to be fully educated on it all and to learn how & why family and friends can get this business too! Special guests: @positivelymyeek, Dr, Grant, They call her Nikki but her name ain’t Nicole, Ms. Nicole, & Mrs. Freeman 2020-04-1340 min

To Be Single or Not to BeQuarantined.... How We Handle This & Maintain Relationships & Sanity Ep. 53On this episode we take a deep dive into these quarantined times we are living in right now! We discuss how we navigate working from home, spending more time with bae or any family at home, and now we stay sane because all we can do is be at home! Special guests: Ms. Emerald & Ms. Quoya 2020-04-0639 min

To Be Single or Not to BeIt’s Our Anniversary!The podcast had its first birthday on March 28, 2020 and this is an announcement to say THANK YOU because we cannot say it enough!2020-03-2901 min

To Be Single or Not to BeRED FLAGS!! Ep. 52On this episode we take a deep dive into the obvious... RED FLAGS! So many times the hopeless romantic in us all decides to ignore all of the Red flags and then we wonder why we’re left with a Red bleeding heart! However, today’s special guests were to the rescue with what, who, now, and why you can stop letting Red flags ruin your love life and tap into the romance you desire today! Special guests: In house wife Tori, Kyla C., Reese of PHRIENDS, & @positivelymyeek 2020-03-2352 min

To Be Single or Not to BeIs it Family Over Everything in Your Relationship? Ep. 51On this episode we take a deep dive into what role your family of origin actually plays in your relationship of marriage, if any at all! Is it family over everything or you and yours against the world? Special guests: Nikki H, Dr, Grant, Mrs. Freeman, Ms.Nicole, & @positivelymyeek 2020-03-161h 24

To Be Single or Not to BeLove is Blind - Ep. 50On this episode we take a deep dive into the new, Netflix reality show Love is Blind! We discuss the good, the bad, the ugly, the Jessica *insert rolling eyes emoji*, and so much more! Tune in and decide for yourself if love is really blind or if someone may be a dam fool to think so! Special guests: Courtney N & Nikki H.2020-03-091h 38

To Be Single or Not to BeBEFORE the Commitment- Ep. 49On this episode we take a deep dive and explore all the stuff we forget to talk about BEFORE we commit to a partner! From spirituality, to kids, to finances, to travel, to holidays, to the temperature on the thermostat! We must get back to talking about things NOW before we get into a relationships and issues arise that cause the relationship to go to hell LATER! Special guests: @positivelymyeek, In House Wife Tori, Reese of PHRIENDS, & Ms. Kyla C.2020-03-021h 09

To Be Single or Not to BeRelationship Problems! How Many of Us Have Them? Ep.48On this episode we take a deep dive into conflict resolution in relationships! We get to the bottom of why some people fight so much, how and why you should fight fair, and IF you and your partner should be partners if the fighting gets to be too much! Special guests: B.Hopkins, Miss Leona, Mrs. Jordan, & Jacquita Parks 2020-02-241h 05

To Be Single or Not to BeMarry For Love or Money? - Ep.47On this episode we take a deep dive into the good, the bad, and the ugly of marriage and ask the question, “Would you marry for love or money?” Our special guests Dawn of @shemakesmore , Ms. Amani, & Ms. Loreal make for an interesting panel with their answers and leave you wanting more! I think a PART II is absolutely in store!2020-02-171h 22

To Be Single or Not to BeOpen Relationships: How Many of Us Could Have Them? Ep.46On this episode we take a deep dive into the entertaining and sensational world of open relationships to discuss if they’re a real possibility for anyone, are they right or wrong for some, or if any of us would really are about that open relationship, non monogamous life! Tune in and you won’t regret it! Special guests: The Core Four Podcast & socialmedialess Janae 2020-02-101h 44

To Be Single or Not to BeLet’s Talk About Sex - Part II Ep.45The ladies of The Den Podcast & the one & only Bulli Carter are BIZACKKKK with Part II of this episode on all elements of sex, the R word, and so much more! Just buckle your seatbelts and get ready for the ride of a lifetime! You won’t regret it!2020-02-042h 04

To Be Single or Not to BeCelebrating Being Single - Ep.44On this episode, we take a colorful deep dive into the beauty and beasts of being single, why it’s actually not a disease or something you need to “escape” from, the inexplicable freedom that comes with it, and why it may not be for everybody! To sum it all up in the words of the great philosopher Megan Thee Stallion, “Got a ex that miss me so bad, probably praying for me now” let’s you know that being single really IS all it’s cracked up to be! EXTRA special guests: @itstwoelles, Mister Wilson, Cass, & @positivelymyeek 2020-01-201h 49

To Be Single or Not to BeGender Roles - WTF does that mean?! Ep. 43On this episode we take a deeeeep, interesting, and EXPLICIT dive into gender roles and I loved every minute of it! Tune in if you want to know what gender roles are, if and when they should be applicable to your relationship, OR if you should just throw them out the window! Special & AMAZING guests: @thedenpodcast & the one & only Bulli Carter 2020-01-061h 35

To Be Single or Not to BeIs Long Distance Love Possible? Ep. 42On this episode we take a deep dive into the world of our special guest who has experienced the highs and lows of long distance love, what the journey is truly like, and uncovering that it AIN’T FOR EVERYBODY! Tune in to find out if it may be for you! Special guest: Obrenka Thompson of @thesitdownwbrenks 2019-12-3058 min

To Be Single or Not to BeKnowing When it’s Time to Let Go Ep.41On this episode, we dive into a serious conversation around knowing when it’s time to let go of a relationship that has worn out its welcome and is wearing you down as a person! Tune in to find out how to identify if it’s time to let go, how to know if you’re on either side of the coin, and how to move on if you so desire! Special guests: In House Wife Tori, Cass, & @positivelymyeek 2019-12-241h 01

To Be Single or Not to BeNo Matter What, You Will Be Okay Ep.40On this episode we dive into some deep conversation around when LIFE happens, how you PUSH through, how you GROW from it, and how you LIVE to see another day because you will always be OKAY! #RIPPops Special guests: Krystal M., Krystal J., & Magical Dr. Grant 2019-12-161h 20

To Be Single or Not to BeLove Languages - Ep.39On this episode we take a deep dive into what love languages are, how they can help your relationship to flourish, and the importance of having a partner who understands them and vice versa! Special guests: Brandie J., reoccurring star @positivelymyeek, and the one & only Bulli Carter 2019-12-101h 18

To Be Single or Not to BePart II: Creating a Thriving Relationship Ep.38We dive head first into PART II of how you can create a thriving relationship if you’re willing to do the WORK and if you have a partner that is willing to as well! In truly takes two to tango and without a partner willing to dance with you, you may go nowhere fast! Special guests: @positivelymyeek, In House Wife Tori, & reoccurring star Cass 2019-12-0257 min

To Be Single or Not to BePart I: Creating a Thriving Relationship Ep. 37HOV might’ve made one of the greatest blueprints ever, but I promise he nor any other man on this earth has the blueprint for a thriving relationship and we dish on it here! Tune in as we dive into what healthy and happy looks and feels like, what angles you should honestly view your relationship from, and we call YOU to the carpet to ask yourself is your relationship thriving or is it just surviving and how to navigate with your answer! Special guest: @positivelymyeek, in house wife Tori, & reoccurring star Miss Cass 2019-11-251h 02

To Be Single or Not to BeIs Your Partner Responsible for Fulfilling All of Your Needs? Ep. 36On this episode we open up SEASON 2 by giving a microscopic examination over the age old question of partner fulfillment! Is it possible for your partner to truly fulfill ALL of your needs and theirs or is it even realistic to desire such a thing? Tune in as we put a magical perspective on it all with our special guests, Dr. Grant & our in house wife, Ms. Tori!2019-11-181h 15

To Be Single or Not to BeDoes Being a Boss Hurt You or Help You in Relationships Ep.35On this episode we take a deep dive into exploring if being a BOSS hurts you or helps you when it comes to romantic relationships and how to handle the dating field or being partnered in the midst of it all! Guests: Kay of @justkayelle & Mykia of @comfort.togo_2019-11-111h 04

To Be Single or Not to BeManifesting the Love You Desire Ep.34On this episode we take a deep dive into understanding why we love love and are so driven by love! We then examine if it’s possibly to manifest the exact love you desire, what it takes if is possible, and why sometimes you just have to let the chips fall where they may when it comes to real love. Special guests: Kesh Kesh, H, & Mrs. Brooks 2019-11-041h 31

To Be Single or Not to BeAre Women Making it Too Easy for Men to Show Up & Ask For the Most While Doing the Least? Ep. 33The great philosopher Tupac once said, ”Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy“ and he must’ve been referring to present day 2019 and state of relationships! For this reason, we take a deep dive into a conversation around why some women make it so easy for men to be in their lives without giving them what they desire, what role fear plays in all of this, and why we have to unite and stand as one to move past this epidemic immediately! Special guests: Nikki, Kyla C., & TT 2019-10-2854 min

To Be Single or Not to BeEXES...Where Do They Belong? Ep. 32On this episode we dive into all aspects of EXES! Why some people still communicate with them, why some people hate them, and why some people may still love them! Tune in so you can know how to navigate in the future! Special guests: Cara, Nikki, & Kirbie 2019-10-1439 min

To Be Single or Not to BeLet’s talk about SEX, baby! Ep. 31WARNING! We don’t go too far, but we do take a peek over the edge with the conversation on this episode as we take a deep dive into sex, sexuality, why we have to OWN our sexuality, why it’s nothing wrong with having multiple partners, and so much more! Special guests: Candace, Ashley, & Kelsi 2019-10-071h 00

To Be Single or Not to BeWhat’s My Type?! Ep. 30On this episode we take a DEEP dive into types, preferences, chemistry, attractions, and much more to let you know if your decisions in these areas are helping or hurting your relationship chances. We all have a type, but are we choosing the right one? Special guests: @positivelymyeek, Crystal Denae, Mrs. Jordan, & Mardae 2019-09-301h 44

To Be Single or Not to BeAre You Really Ready for a Relationship or Marriage? Ep. 29On this episode we give relationships and marriage a deep examination to determine if people are really ready for what they think are ready for, what it may look and feel like if you are ready, and what you may need to do if you can’t decide where you stand either way. Special guests: @positivelymyeek, Tori Brianna, & Ms. Crystal 2019-09-2346 min

To Be Single or Not to BePotential... What Are We Supposed To Do With That? Ep.28On this episode we examine what potential is, why some people choose to risk it all and date people based on it, and what to do with it, if anything! Guest Co Host: Miss Cassanora L.2019-09-1652 min

To Be Single or Not to BeHow Do You Know They Are The One? Ep.27On this episode, we speak from the single and married perspective of how you may be able to determine if your partner is “THE ONE”! We dissect what this means, what it looks and feels like, and if they aren’t “THE ONE”, how you can determine that too! Special guests: T- Baby, @positivelymyeek, & Crystal Denae 2019-09-1055 min

To Be Single or Not to BeSisterhood & Relationships Ep.26On this episode I had the pleasure of having a conversation on sisterhood with two of the closest sisters I’ve had in my life the past 15 years. We dish on the importance of having the support of a sisterhood, how to sustain it while dating, and why sisterhoods are the backbones of our lives whether in relationships or not. Special guests: Danny Sims & Brooke Breezy 2019-09-0235 min

To Be Single or Not to BeMiss Independent... Is She Doing Too Much? Ep.25On this episode we take a closer look at independence to determine if there’s a such a thing as being too independent! We dive into what this really looks from a woman’s perspective, why it’s a conversation we must have, and how to maneuver it in relationships! Co starring Miss Quanda, Janae J., Tori Brianna, & Mrs. Jordan 2019-08-261h 09

To Be Single or Not to BeSelf Care... Don’t Lose Yourself Ep.24On this episode we take a deep dive into what self care really looks like in a relationship, how to prioritize it, and why you can’t lose yourself just because you have a new partner in crime! Special guests: Jenn Benn & Cordell S.2019-08-201h 12

To Be Single or Not to BeDating in 2019...Is it a War Zone? Part II: Ep. 23On this episode, we complete the conversation on why dating in 2019 can be a hard task, if you should get on or off a dating app, and being CLEAR on your intentions! Special guests: Courtney N, Crystal E., & Ernest aka Mr. Oblivious 2019-08-1256 min

To Be Single or Not to BeDating in 2019...Is it a War Zone? Part I - Ep.22On this episode, a few brave girls and guys dive into conversation about this war like dating zone in 2019. We deep dive into personal experiences, what the hell does no expectations mean, why it’s so different for girls and guys, and how to navigate it if you want to eventually find love after fighting the good fight! Special guests: Courtney N, Crystal E., & Ernest aka Mr. Oblivious 2019-08-0554 min

To Be Single or Not to BeToxic Masculinity - Ep. 21An episode all men need to hear! We discuss toxic masculinity, men’s mommy & daddy issues, and how we combat this epidemic today! Special guests: Lizzy Liz, Miss Cassanora, & the one & only Krystal Jordan.2019-07-291h 12

To Be Single or Not to BeThey Cheated...Now What? - Ep. 20On this episode we discuss cheating and cheaters and the low downNESS of it all! Special guest: @positivelymyeek, Nikki H., Kyla C., & Mrs. Freeman 2019-07-231h 33

To Be Single or Not to BeSettling & Why You Really Don’t Have To - Ep. 19On this episode, we dish about the reasons why we settle, why society has made us think it’s the norm, and why we should no longer make settling an option when the life we desire can be manifested and is truly available! Special Guests: Chemyeeka Tumblin, Nikki, Kyla C., & Mrs. Freeman 2019-07-0955 min

To Be Single or Not to BeTimelines in Dating & Relationships- Part II - Ep. 18This is Part 2 of our previous episode on the four stages of dating and relationships and why we should all possibly invest in having dating timelines to prevent the preventable in the future! Special Guests: @PositivelyMyeek, Nikki, & Nicole 2019-07-011h 30

To Be Single or Not to BeTimelines in Dating & Relationships & Why You Might Need Them - Part I - Ep.17This is Part 1 of a 2 part episode on the four stages of dating and relationships and why we should all possibly invest in having dating timelines to prevent the preventable in the future! Special Guests: @PositivelyMyeek, Nikki, & Nicole 2019-06-2457 min

To Be Single or Not to BeLose My Breath - Dealing with Mental Health & Anxiety - Ep.16An educational episode where we discuss mental health and anxiety, what it looks and feels like, how we help each other deal with it, and so much more! Co starring special guests!2019-06-171h 26

To Be Single or Not to BeBreaking Generational Curses, Setting Boundaries, and Healing YOU before the relationship! - Ep.15On this episode we take a deep dive into the conversation on how we can break generational curses, set boundaries with family, and how we must heal ourselves before we bring a partner into the fold! Co starring special guests Danny Sims and K. Watkins 2019-06-101h 30

To Be Single or Not to BeMarried Millennials: What Does Marriage Look Like in 2019? - Ep. 14An episode where we dish with 3 millennial married couples to talk about the highs, lows, compromises, and so much more on what marriage is really about! Co Starring The Brooks, The Dewalts, and The Jordan’s.2019-06-031h 35

To Be Single or Not to BeR&B Divas Series: Toni Braxton - Let It Flow: Triggers: Stop, Drop, & Address Them - Ep. 13On this episode we discuss how to identify triggers, how to handle them in relationships, and how to not allow them to WIN when it’s you against the mind! Co starring special guest!2019-05-271h 02

To Be Single or Not to BeR&B Divas Series: Toni Braxton - Breathe Again: Breakups & How You Deal - Ep.12On this episode we dish on how you do the breaking up, how you push through one to heal, and how you handle them when you’re in the midst of it all! Featuring special guests!2019-05-201h 05

To Be Single or Not to BeR & B Divas Series: Toni Braxton - Just Be a Man About It - Ep.11On this episode we dish about Accountability, Ownership, & Submission in all forms, shapes, and sizes! Do men need to step up or do us women have work to do to? Special guests: Danny Sims & K.Watkins 2019-05-131h 07

To Be Single or Not to BeEmotionally Unavailable & Narcissist Men aka Fvck Boys - Ep. 10We discuss how to identify, understand, and get the hell away from the creatures known as fvck boys and why they make second chances null and void. Guest: LaJanee Miseducation of the Stereotype 2019-05-061h 18

To Be Single or Not to BeNon Negotiables.... How Many of Us Have Them? - Ep. 9An episode that dives into the relationship necessity of the list of non negotiables and why everyone should have one! Guests: Tori Brianna & Founders of PHRIENDS 2019-04-291h 26

To Be Single or Not to BePart 2: Why Are So Many Sistas So Single? - Ep.8We continue and close the discussion on why so many sistas are single, the work that needs to be done, and how we overcome this epidemic once and for all!2019-04-221h 12

To Be Single or Not to BePart 1: Why Are So Many Sistas So Single? - Ep.7An episode around the single epidemic that many sistas face today. We discuss what this looks like for us, the work that must be done to navigate through it, and how we come out on the other side of it if that’s what we desire. Featuring various special guests!2019-04-1556 min

To Be Single or Not to BeI Ain’t Going Half on Sh*t! - Ep.6We get into a round table talk about finances in relationships and marriages, gender roles within them, and how we have arrived at these conclusions! Guest appearances: Ms. Cara, Ms. Krissy, & Ms. Janae 2019-04-0956 min

To Be Single or Not to BeWe Cookin’ or Nah? - Bonus Ep. 5Here we briefly explore gender roles in relationships and if cooking will keep your man in the streets or the sheets!2019-04-0514 min

To Be Single or Not to BeI want a HUSSSSSSBANNNND! - Ep. 4An episode that explores the ins and out of why people want to get married... is it for the gram or nah! Guest: Miss Amani 2019-04-021h 04

To Be Single or Not to BeDead Weight! How to Identify it, Address it, and Move on! - Ep.3Bonus Episode! This episode discusses all things dealing with dead weight in a relationship, how to handle it as a single person, and how to avoid it in the future! After this episode decide, To Be Single or Not To Be? Guest: Danny Sims 2019-03-2932 min

To Be Single or Not to BeWhy Are so Many Sistas so Single? - Ep. 2This is a snippet and preview episode where we dive into why we think so many sistas are single? Is it Us or is it Them?2019-03-2807 min

To Be Single or Not to BeWe Welcome You! - Ep. 1On this episode, you get a briefing on what to expect from this podcast, why I decided to do it, and how often you will hear from me. Pretty much, setting the mood!2019-03-2800 min