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Divorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split22 - Grandmothers and HolidaysNavigating life after divorce isn’t easy, especially when you become a grandmother for the first time. In this episode, I opened up about the unexpected blend of joy and quiet grief—letting go of old family traditions, sharing holidays, and embracing new roles. I talked about how self-care helps you show up for your grandchildren and how connection can be found in simple shared moments. Legacy is built on love and presence, not just memories from the past. If you’re moving through divorce and rebuilding your family traditions, remember: you’re not alone, and the new year holds sp...
2025-12-2904 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split21 - Holidays and DivorceNavigating the holidays after divorce, especially later in life, can feel overwhelming. In this session, I shared that it’s okay to let go of old traditions and embrace new, simpler ones that truly bring comfort. Whether it’s creating experiences with loved ones or finding meaningful ways to connect—even volunteering or joining support groups—there is no right way to celebrate. The quiet moments, the changes, and even the grief, are part of healing. Remember, peace and rest are enough this season, and joy will return, even if quietly. This holiday can be different—and that’s perfectly ok
2025-12-1705 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split20 - Life After 50
In this episode, Shari opens up about the powerful journey of reclaiming your space, reinventing your daily routines, and rediscovering your confidence in social settings — all after the age of 50. Whether you’re navigating an empty marital home, setting up a fresh space that reflects who you are now, learning the art of finding gratitude in your day-to-day, or figuring out how to make new connections, you’ll find encouragement and practical tips here. Join Shari as she shares heartfelt advice and personal stories to remind you: starting over after 50 isn’t the end, it’s the exciting start of your mo...
2025-11-2105 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split19 - How Divorced Parents Can Make Wedding Days Joyful, Not StressfulToday, we’re diving into a topic that hits close to home for many – what really happens when divorced parents come together to celebrate their child’s wedding. Shari is joined by Sarah Burton, also known as the "wedding whisperer" and owner of Simply Love Studio.
Together, they unpack the emotional highs and lows that can unfold when divorced parents and extended families are asked to share space on one of life’s biggest days. From heartwarming moments of unity and support to awkward standoffs, tears, and power plays, Shari and Sarah share real-life stories and expert advice o...
2025-10-0317 min
The Wedding Whisperer PodcastDivorced Parents at WeddingsIn this episode of The Wedding Whisperer, Host Sarah Burton discusses the complexities of planning weddings for couples with divorced parents. Joined by Shari Frasure, host of the podcast Divorce After 50, they explore the challenges of managing family dynamics, financial contributions, seating arrangements, and emotional behaviors during the wedding day. They emphasize the importance of communication, setting expectations, and prioritizing the couple's happiness amidst family tensions.
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2025-09-2425 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split18 - Forgiveness After DivorceDebra Clem, counselor, speaker, and writer, discusses the vital topic of forgiveness after divorce. Debra shares her personal journey through profound losses and a long-term marriage ending, illustrating the critical role forgiveness plays in personal healing. She emphasizes that forgiving an ex-spouse — or anyone who has caused harm — is not about excusing their actions, but about liberating oneself from the weight of resentment. Through heartfelt anecdotes, Debra uncovers how carrying unforgiveness can affect not only the individual but also their loved ones, and explains why it often requires both time and spiritual guidance to truly move forward.
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2025-09-1529 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split17 - Biblical Perspective of DivorceToday we’re diving into a question that’s deeply personal—and often fraught with confusion and emotion—for many people of faith: What does the Bible actually say about divorce?
To help us unpack this sensitive topic with wisdom, compassion, and clarity, I’m joined by author, speaker, and Christian teacher Connie Prater. Together, we’ll explore not only the scriptural foundations around divorce, but also address the guilt, shame, and questions many face when religion and real-life experience collide. Whether you’re struggling with religious guilt, questioning your place in your faith community, or just searching for...
2025-08-1112 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split16 - Divorce After 50 for Men: Emotions, Faith, and How to Rebuild Your LifeIn today’s episode, host Shari sits down with John Pearson—a man of faith, mentor, and the creator of the "Spirit, the Scribe, the Journal" book series and YouTube channel. John opens up about his unexpected experience with divorce later in life, navigating emotional upheaval, faith-based struggles, and the journey toward healing and self-discovery.
Together, they dive into the unique challenges men face in the aftermath of divorce, exploring everything from grief and guilt to rebuilding identity and finding peace. John shares wisdom from his personal transformation, the power of intentional prayer, and practical advice for men...
2025-07-1850 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split15 - More Than Pictures: The Power of Seeing Yourself After a Major Life ChangeShari welcomes photographer Ashley Lowe to discuss the powerful, healing role of photography after a major life transition like divorce. Ashley shares how portrait sessions can help women, especially those over 40 and 50, reclaim their confidence and sense of identity following the end of a long-term marriage. She explains that for many women, professional photos are something they haven’t experienced for decades—usually not since high school or their wedding—and that the process of preparing for and participating in a session is transformative. With the support of a wardrobe stylist and professional hair and makeup, clients find themselves seen...
2025-06-0620 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split14 - Boosting Self-Esteem and Starting Fresh: Beauty and Business After DivorceToday's guest is Michelle Kelly, a Mary Kay entrepreneur with a passion for empowering women, especially those finding themselves at a crossroads after divorce. The conversation centers on the profound impact that rebuilding confidence can have after a long-term relationship ends. Michelle shares insights into how refreshing your appearance—not out of vanity, but as an act of self-rediscovery—can be a powerful first step towards reclaiming your sense of self. She emphasizes the importance of small changes, like trying a new lipstick shade or adopting a new skincare routine, as gentle reminders that beauty and vibrancy are still with...
2025-05-2310 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split13 - Fairness Not Fifty-Fifty: Understanding Kentucky Divorce Property LawsShari explores how property is divided during a divorce in Kentucky, focusing on the unique challenges that come with untangling assets later in life. Shari explains the difference between community property and equitable distribution states, noting that Kentucky follows equitable distribution—meaning property is divided fairly, but not always equally. She clarifies important terms, distinguishing marital from separate property, and warns about the complications that can arise when separate assets are mixed with marital ones. She stresses the importance of documentation and highlights the key factors Kentucky courts consider, such as the length of the marriage, each spouse’s cont...
2025-05-0606 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split12 - What to Do with the Marital HomeShari tackles the challenging decision of what to do with the marital home after a divorce. She begins by addressing the emotional significance of the home, acknowledging that it's more than just a building—it's a place filled with cherished memories and milestones. However, she emphasizes the importance of considering whether staying in the home aligns with one's future goals or if it's just a means of avoiding change. Letting go of the home doesn't have to mean losing those memories; instead, it can be a step toward embracing new opportunities.
She also covers the financial implications of...
2025-04-0904 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split11- Rebuilding Your Life After a Gray DivorceHost Shari Frasure welcomes Pat Fenner, author and podcaster, who shares her insights on navigating life after a gray divorce. Pat discusses her personal journey through divorce after decades of marriage and the inspiration behind her book, "Rebuilding Your Life After a Gray Divorce: A Path to Healing, Significance, and Joy." She highlights the unique challenges faced by individuals over 50 going through divorce, emphasizing the emotional and financial hurdles that often accompany the process. Pat also touches on the importance of self-reflection, counseling, and community support as vital steps toward healing and rebuilding a fulfilling post-divorce life.
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2025-03-0630 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split10 - Navigating Emotional Recovery and Rediscovering Self After DivorceSamantha Tishner is a coach specializing in helping women heal and move forward following divorce. Samantha shares her personal journey, explaining how her own experiences with divorce inspired her to assist other women in navigating the emotional landscape post-marriage. She emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with oneself, letting go of past burdens, and forgiving oneself to create space for new and fulfilling relationships. Samantha highlights the significance of understanding one's unique qualities and trusting oneself to build confidence and self-worth.
Shari and Samantha discuss the challenges women face after divorce, such as guilt, self-blame, and the fear...
2025-02-0425 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split9 - Clear Titles, Clear Minds: Real Estate Management in Divorce After 50Annemarie Neisz from Trifecta Title in Lexington, KY joins Shari to talk about the crucial role of title companies during a divorce. They explore how these experts manage the legalities of property ownership, uncover hidden liens, and ensure smooth transactions. Whether you're selling your home or buying out your ex-spouse, early involvement of a title company can prevent surprises and delays. Understanding the intricacies of title deeds, mortgage obligations, and equity division is essential. This episode is packed with valuable advice to help you navigate real estate decisions confidently during your divorce. Listen now and empower yourself with the...
2024-12-1114 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split8 - Financial Strategies for Late-Life DivorceMorgan Murray, a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA), talks with host Shari Frasure about the complexities of managing finances during a divorce later in life. Morgan shares invaluable insights on key financial considerations such as retirement, healthcare, and the division of marital property. She emphasizes the importance of getting organized, assessing future financial needs, and understanding the long-term impacts of financial decisions made during a divorce. Morgan also highlights the significance of seeking professional financial advice and remaining proactive without making impulsive decisions driven by fear or urgency. Shari and Morgan discuss the empowering process of taking control of...
2024-12-0313 min
Aging With Grace127 - Divorce After 50 with Shari FrasureGuest Shari Frasure and host DG Linton Gridley examine the complexities of navigating divorce after 50, drawing from Shari's personal experience. They kick off by emphasizing the importance of acceptance and patience as crucial elements in the healing process, as each person grieves differently. Financial and logistical hurdles, such as housing, health insurance, and social security, are addressed, with the hosts highlighting the necessity of professional guidance, especially for older women who may face financial vulnerability. They also discuss property division, underscoring that mutual agreements and working with experienced professionals can streamline the process and minimize costs.The...
2024-11-1534 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split7 - Aging Gracefully Post-Divorce: Holistic Approaches to Wellness and IndependenceToday on "Divorce After 50," we explored how comprehensive wellness services can support your journey after divorce. DG Linton Gridley shared incredible insights on tailored health plans and nurturing both body and mind. Aging gracefully is possible!
Reach DG Linton Gridley directly at 859-539-2147 or visit the website at agingwithgraceinfo.org to learn more about the services offered by Aging with Grace.
2024-10-1524 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split6 - Divorce💔 & Real Estate🏠- Answers To Your Questions⁉️Divorce after 50 can be a challenging experience, especially when it comes to understanding what happens to your home, mortgage, and credit rating. Our latest podcast episode of Divorce After 50 touches on these critical concerns and provides valuable insights to help you make informed decisions.
Here are three key takeaways from our discussion:
Options for Your Home: Learn about the main routes you can take: selling the home and splitting the proceeds or refinancing the mortgage so one party can buy out the other.
Impact on Your Credit Score: Discover how to manage your...
2024-10-0203 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split5 - Inside Family Law: Mediation, Custody Battles, and MoreWe're taking a look at the legal intricacies of family law with our expert guest, Lauren Brooke. With 19 years of experience and a broad practice across 15-20 counties in Kentucky, Lauren sheds light on critical issues from child custody and mediation to real estate and financial disclosures.
We also explore the importance of choosing the right attorney, understanding various fee structures, and leveraging resources like mediation to resolve disputes amicably. Whether it's safeguarding your children’s emotional well-being during custody battles or understanding the true value of your property, this episode will provide invaluable insights. Lauren also di...
2024-08-2431 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split4 - Strategies for Managing Health Post-DivorceHost Shari Frasure, at the age of 50, separated from her husband, entering a deeply stressful period in her life. This major life transition significantly impacted her mental, emotional, and physical health. Around the same time, she began experiencing menopause, which compounded her challenges. Shari has navigated these tumultuous waters, dealing with significant weight loss and other health issues. Through her journey of recovery and self-care, she has gathered valuable insights and coping strategies that she now shares to support other women facing similar struggles. Shari's story is one of resilience and empowerment, offering hope and guidance to those dealing...
2024-08-1714 min
Divorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split3 - Coping with Insurance During DivorceShari had the pleasure of speaking with Stacy Starkey, an experienced insurance agent from Assured Partners. They discuss how divorce affects your insurance needs and what you should consider to ensure you're protected during this transition.
2024-07-0622 min
Divorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split2 - Navigating Mortgage Challenges After DivorceWe delve into the complex intersection of divorce and financial matters, particularly focusing on lending and mortgages. We're joined by Dana Back-Pack, a seasoned mortgage expert with extensive experience in navigating the lending landscape during divorce proceedings. We'll explore the common challenges individuals face when handling mortgages amidst a divorce, such as determining what to do with the family home, refinancing, and managing debt.
2024-06-2215 min
Divorce After 50: Navigating the Silver Split1 - Real Estate Decisions in DivorceIn this episode, we're diving deep into the complex intersection of real estate and divorce, especially for those navigating this journey after the age of 50. From understanding what happens to your shared home to the legal and financial implications involved, we've got a wealth of crucial information to help you through these challenging times.
2024-06-2205 minDivorce After 50: Navigating the Silver SplitIntroduction to Divorce After 50: Navigating the Silver SplitIn today's premier episode, Shari Frasure and Melissa Bingaman will share their personal journeys through divorce and discussing why they launched this podcast. From the trials and tribulations of post-divorce transitions to building a supportive network of professionals, they'll shed light on essential steps and considerations for those over 50 facing a divorce.
2024-06-2210 min