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Love On CommandThe Real Reason He Lost Interest (Even When You Looked the Part)What’s the difference between a woman who looks feminine and a woman who embodies feminine energy? In this episode, we go deep into the subtle energetic shifts that separate a woman who draws high-value masculine men toward her effortlessly—and one who constantly finds herself being ghosted, misunderstood, or left feeling like “pretty” just isn’t enough. We’re not talking about performing softness, dimming your light, or using femininity as a tactic. We’re talking about recalibrating your energetic field so that love doesn’t just notice you—it chooses you. You’ll learn:2025-07-0109 min
Love On CommandIf You’re Done Attracting Feminized Men, This Is the Real Reason (And How to Fix It)Hey Queens 💋 It’s Shay, and in today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the exact shifts that took me from attracting emotionally unavailable, feminized men… to being fully magnetized to masculine, high-value providers who lead, protect, and pour into me. I’m not holding back. Because the truth is—it’s not about your looks, your degrees, or how “healed” you think you are. It’s about your energetic alignment. It’s about what your nervous system is subconsciously choosing on autopilot. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: 👑 The...2025-06-2411 min
Love On CommandDating Past 3 Months? He’s Playing You. PERIOD.Ladies… we need to talk. If you’re still calling it “talking” after three months, I love you—but you are playing yourself. There is no such thing as “talking” in grown-woman dating. That’s just a holding pattern for a man who’s keeping his options open. In this episode, I’m breaking it all the way down. We’re going deep into why so many high-potential women get stuck in situationships, why you’re still attracting emotionally unavailable men, and how your nervous system might be addicted to the chaos you think is chemistry. He...2025-06-1710 min
Love On CommandThe Shocking Truth About Why He Sleeps With You… But Never CommitsIn this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many high-value women stay single, situationshipped, or endlessly heartbroken — and it has nothing to do with your looks, your past, or your worth. We’re diving deep into: The 5 phases of every relationship — and the exact spot where most women get stuck The science of masculine bonding (and why you fall fast while he falls slow) The truth about testosterone, oxytocin, and what’s really happening in his body when he says he’s "just not ready" Why being amazing isn’t...2025-06-1012 min
Love On CommandWhen God Sends You the One After 10 Years of Silence… He’ll Never Make You GuessSis… this episode is a testimony. After 10 years of no contact—no texts, no calls, no clue what he was doing—God brought him back. And not just back… but better. Evolved. Ready. Aligned. In today’s episode, I’m sharing the raw, unfiltered story of how Love Bugg and I reconnected after a decade of life, heartbreak, and growth. You’ll hear what really happened behind the scenes—how I healed, how he transformed, and how divine timing led us both back to the kind of love that doesn’t play games, doesn’t make you beg, and do...2025-06-0413 min
Love On CommandHow to Trigger Commitment from Masculine MenIn this episode, I’m taking you deep into the psychology of masculine commitment—the real science behind what makes a high-value man not just desire you, but choose you. This isn’t about playing games or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about understanding how the masculine mind bonds, what ignites long-term devotion, and how to awaken the part of you that naturally draws commitment without chasing it. We’ll explore the subtle shifts in energy, language, and presence that create magnetic polarity, and I’ll walk you through the core principles that high-caliber m...2025-05-2720 min
Love On CommandThe Real Reason You’re Failing at Dating (And How to Fix It FAST!) Welcome to the Love On Command podcast! I’m Shay, your certified love transformer and master love coach. Join me as I dive deep into the complexities of dating, relationships, and self-discovery. In each episode, I share my nearly 20 years of experience helping women heal, transform, and attract the right partners. Are you frustrated with the dating game? Do you feel lost, hurt, or disappointed? I’m here to reveal the reasons behind these feelings and empower you to trust your intuition and judgment again. With insights drawn from my extensive research, including over 100 dates and interviews with...2025-05-2009 min
Love On CommandCoffee Over Dinner: The High-Value Woman’s First Date RuleIn this episode, I’m breaking down why FaceTime and dinner dates are not enough—and how too many women are unknowingly setting themselves up to be consumed like a buffet instead of being savored like fine dining. I’m walking you through the psychology, the energetics, and the strategy behind holding your value from the very beginning. Because here's the truth: if you're giving him access to all of you too soon—your time, your energy, your body—you're killing the very desire you're trying to build. We’re talking about setting a standard that says you are high...2025-04-1510 min
Love On CommandMastering Your Feminine EnergyIn this episode, we’re diving deep into the fascinating world of dating, relationships, and personal empowerment. I’m Shay your love Diva, and today we’ll be exploring how your unique love archetype impacts your dating life and how you can harness this understanding to attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships. We’ll cover everything from the science behind attraction to the six key phases of a relationship. Plus, I’ll be sharing some powerful insights from my work with women across the globe—helping you identify and break free from the patterns that may be holding you back in l...2025-04-0857 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Love: Overcoming Subconscious Blocks and Attracting the Right RelationshipIn this episode of Unlocking Love, I’m diving deep into the subconscious blocks that may be sabotaging your love life. I’m going to help you uncover the hidden patterns you may not even know are holding you back—from generational influences to the subtle messages you're unknowingly sending. I’ll break down the science of attraction and why knowing your love archetype is key to attracting the right partner. If you’ve been dating with insecurities, struggling to heal from past traumas, or wondering why you keep attracting the wrong men, this episode is for you. I’m sharing po...2025-04-0217 min
Love On CommandTop 5 Mistakes Keeping You Single — And the #1 Secret to Attracting LoveHey love, in this episode, I’m breaking down the top 5 mistakes that might be blocking you from finding the relationship you deserve. I’ll share the sneaky ways we self-sabotage, why being “too busy” is hurting your chances at love, and the truth about feminine energy that no one talks about. Plus, I’m spilling the #1 mistake I see high-achieving women make that keeps them stuck in a cycle of heartbreak. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally attract your romantic best friend, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in!2025-03-1108 min
Love On CommandHow to Attract a High-Value ManIn this episode, I’m breaking down the science of attraction and how to call in a financially successful man who matches your energy and ambition. You’ll learn how to tap into the power of your feminine energy, navigate the six phases of a relationship, and avoid the traps that keep women stuck in cycles with emotionally unavailable men. I’m sharing my personal experiences from my dating journey, including what I learned from dating successful men and how I attracted my husband, who still makes me blush after 10 years! Tune in to discover the biochemical processes that shape...2024-12-0311 min
Love On CommandWhy Over-Giving Pushes Men AwayHey loves, it’s Shay here! In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into why giving too much in a relationship can actually make men less interested. It might seem like you’re showing love and care, but sometimes, over-giving can cause imbalance and even push someone away. I’m sharing insights on how to find the perfect balance of giving and receiving and how to keep your energy aligned to attract the right kind of attention. Trust me, you won’t want to miss this! Let’s talk about how you can love yourself and set boundaries without losing...2024-11-2711 min
Love On CommandHow to Win at Love and Relationships!In this episode, we're diving into the dynamics of attraction and the science behind why some women find themselves in unfulfilling relationships. Join me as I share personal experiences and insights, revealing how understanding male psychology can empower you to attract the right partner. Discover the essential rules of the game, learn how to shift your energy, and understand the types of men to look out for. Get ready to take control of your love life!2024-10-0813 min
Love On CommandAre You Really Ready to Date?Welcome to Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into the intricate dance of love, relationships, and self-discovery. In this episode, I unpack the essential steps you must take before jumping back into dating—because if you're still healing from heartbreak, battling insecurities, or facing financial challenges, it’s time to pause and prioritize your healing journey. Join me as I share insights on the importance of recognizing your love blocks, understanding the different faces of a man—from his public persona to his secret self—and how your past can shape your present relationships. I’ll guide y...2024-10-0111 min
Love On CommandThe 3 Faces of Every Man: Are You Really Seeing Him?Do you really know who you're dating? In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology behind men's behavior and uncover the 3 faces every man has: public, private, and secret. I break down why rushing into a relationship or marriage too quickly can prevent you from truly getting to know who you're with. Learn the importance of taking your time, vetting his character, values, and intentions to avoid toxic relationships and heartbreak. We also discuss how unhealed love blocks may cause you to attract the wrong men over and over again—and how to break the cycle. Tu...2024-09-2410 min
Love On Command10 Ways to Stay Single Forever!Ready to stay single forever? In this playful yet insightful episode, I'm flipping the script to reveal 10 surefire ways to keep attracting toxic relationships and living a life of mediocrity. Using a little reverse psychology, I’ll show you how the mind resists change and how you can use that to your advantage. From dating the wrong types to staying stuck in old patterns, we’re diving deep into the self-sabotaging behaviors that keep you from the healthy love you deserve. So, do I have permission to be your coach today? Tune in, and let's trick your brain into choo...2024-09-1028 min
Love On CommandAre You Choosing the Right Partner?Did you know that female eagles put their potential mates through a series of challenges to prove they’re worthy partners? In this episode, I dive into the fascinating world of eagle mating rituals and uncover what they can teach us about modern dating. Why are so many women still trying to qualify themselves for men who haven’t earned their place in their lives? It’s time to shift the narrative, ladies. Stop settling and start raising your standards. Learn how to embody the strength of an eagle and choose a partner who truly matches your worth...2024-09-0310 min
Love On CommandThe Science of Attraction!Ever wondered why some relationships thrive while others falter? In this compelling session, I’ll break down the biochemical and psychological factors that drive romantic connections. Discover how understanding your own and your partner's hormones, like vasopressin, can empower you to attract the love you desire. With over 180,000 women transformed through my unique approach, I’ve turned heartbreak into happy endings, offering insights from my personal journey of overcoming adversity to mastering the dating game. I’ll share my incredible story—from aspiring pediatric cardiologist to dating guru. I’ll reveal how I conducted groundbreaking experiments, dating 100 men in jus...2024-08-2721 min
Love On CommandThe Truth About Men & MonogamyAre men truly wired for monogamy? In this episode, we delve into the biological and biochemical factors that influence a man's commitment. From the surge of testosterone to the vital role of vasopressin and dopamine, we break down how science drives male bonding and the instincts behind monogamy. Join us as we uncover the signs of a man who’s genuinely committed versus one who's just playing games. This episode offers empowering insights for women navigating relationships, highlighting the importance of recognizing true commitment and knowing when it’s time to move on. Tune in for essential relationship advice and...2024-08-2009 min
Love On CommandWhy Men Pull Away (& What To Do)In this episode, we dive deep into the "Pull Away Phase" in relationships, often referred to as the "Rubber Band Phase," as explained by Dr. John Gray in his book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. This phase can be confusing and frustrating, but understanding it can significantly affect how you handle it. We explore: The biochemical reasons behind why men pull away. How this phase typically occurs around 2.5 to 3 months into the relationship. The importance of confidence and independence in navigating this phase. Common mistakes women make during this phase, like sending long texts or...2024-08-1310 min
Love On CommandInside South African Romance: The Secrets Behind Courtship, Marriage & Lobola Revealed!Hey there, beautiful Divas! Join me on a fabulous wine tour in Cape Town with our charming guide, Gray, as we sip and chat about the ins and outs of love, dating, and relationships. In this episode, we dive into the heart of South African romance, exploring everything from the traditional Lobola (bride price) to the modern dynamics of dating. Gray shares his unique insights on how men choose their partners, what makes someone "marriage material," and the cultural nuances that shape relationships in South Africa. Curious about the real deal behind marriage proposals and r...2024-08-0628 min
Love On CommandWhy Coffee Beats Dinner for a First DateIn this episode, we’re diving deep into the intriguing science behind first dates and why a dinner date might be the worst choice if you're looking for a long-term relationship. We explore how the dinner date can inadvertently sabotage your chances of finding a committed partner by focusing on curiosity, anticipation, and polarity. Learn why setting boundaries and making strategic choices about your time can significantly impact how a potential partner perceives you. From the animal kingdom to modern dating practices, we break down the psychology of attraction and the importance of maintaining your feminine energy....2024-07-3022 min
Love On CommandHow to Date So He Craves YouJoin me as we dive deep into why some women find themselves doing it all in relationships, only to get minimal effort in return. We’ll uncover the science behind true emotional connection and how biochemical responses play a role in commitment. Learn the secrets to distinguishing between genuine affection and mere manipulation. Plus, I’ll reveal why it’s crucial to set high standards and truly vet potential partners. Tune in for insights that could transform your approach to love and relationships!2024-07-2321 min
Love On CommandThe 5 Phases of Love & How to Master Them!Welcome to The Love on Command podcast, where we decode the mysteries of relationships with sass and wisdom! Join me as I spill the tea on navigating love phases, dodging red flags, and reclaiming your power. From attracting quality partners to avoiding heartbreaks, we're diving deep into what makes love work. Get ready to laugh, learn, and boss up in your dating life with me, your host, delivering truth bombs straight to your earbuds!2024-07-1621 min
Love On CommandUnderstanding the Biochemistry of Masculine and Feminine EnergyWelcome to this episode where we explore the intriguing dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships, all through the lens of biology. Drawing from my experience in science and pharmaceutical sales, we'll uncover how a man's behavior directly impacts his biochemistry, influencing everything from testosterone levels to stress responses. I'll highlight why embracing masculine energy is crucial for fostering healthy connections, and we'll dissect the consequences of feminizing men in modern relationships. Join me to discover why mutual investment and self-respect are pivotal in creating and sustaining meaningful partnerships.2024-07-0908 min
Love On CommandAre Love Blocks Keeping You from Finding True Love?Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into understanding and overcoming love blocks to attract the relationships you truly deserve. Join us as we explore powerful strategies, insights, and stories from over 20 years of experience, helping women heal, activate their feminine energy, and become an irresistible magnet for love. Get ready to transform your love life and unlock the secrets to attracting the partner who is perfect for you. Tune in, and let's start your journey to finding true, lasting love.2024-07-0217 min
Love On CommandHow Healing Your Love Blocks Transforms Relationships!Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we delve into relationships, exploring how masculine and feminine energies influence dating and attraction. Discover why being in your masculine energy might hinder finding the right partner. We'll decode the science—from biochemistry to subconscious patterns—shedding light on why some effortlessly attract great relationships while others struggle. Join us for strategies to heal past wounds and embrace your authentic feminine energy. Whether you're navigating dating, strengthening connections, or curious about personal growth, we're here to empower you. Let's transform your approach to relationships, uncovering insights, inspiration, and actionable step...2024-06-2512 min
Love On CommandWhy Successful Women Choose the Wrong Men and How to Break FreeIn this episode, we delve into the profound impact of love on our lives, emphasizing its status as a vital human need rather than a mere want. We explore how love, beyond emotional desire, becomes a core element of our existence, influencing us on both biological and spiritual levels. Through personal stories and insightful revelations, we challenge the common dismissal of love, advocating for its transformative power. We celebrate the beauty of genuine, nurturing partnerships while debunking misconceptions about relationships. Join us as we navigate the complexities of attraction, relationships, and self-discovery, urging listeners to...2024-06-1810 min
Love On CommandUnderstanding Men and Building Strong Relationships!Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, your ultimate guide to mastering the intricacies of love, dating, and relationships. In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of romantic connections, offering invaluable insights and advice that you won't want to miss. Join us as we explore the unique dynamics between men and women, drawing on expert advice from relationship coach Alison Armstrong. Understand how men and women differ fundamentally and how this knowledge can work to your advantage. We'll discuss the different stages men go through in their lives and relationships, and how recognizing these stages...2024-06-1116 min
Love On CommandSecrets to a Happy Marriage!Join me as I dive into the secrets of creating lasting love and fulfilling relationships. With over two decades of experience helping successful women find their perfect partners, I share practical tips and transformative insights on embracing your feminine energy, attracting high-quality men, and maintaining a loving, supportive partnership. Whether you're single, dating, or married, discover how to become the best version of yourself and build a relationship where love flourishes. Tune in for empowering advice, real-life stories, and strategies to make your love life thrive.2024-06-0411 min
Love On CommandType A Women: The 'Ruby' PersonalityIn this episode, we dive into the attraction phase of relationships, exploring how different personality types draw specific kinds of partners. For Type A women, known as "rubies," their career-driven, masculine energy often attracts men in their feminine energy. This dynamic can lead to increased stress and exhaustion, as these women typically have lower estrogen and higher cortisol levels. We’ll discuss how this energy imbalance draws in "feminized" men or narcissists, who further drain their energy. We also examine other personality types, such as "amethysts" and "citrines," who have faced extreme trauma. These individuals often attract pa...2024-05-2811 min
Love On CommandStop Leaking Sexual Energy and Attract True Love and Abundance! In this episode of our podcast, I dive deep into the transformative potential of feminine and sexual energy. We explore how societal norms often lead women to feel used and disconnected from their true power. Drawing from historical sources and modern insights, we discuss reclaiming feminine energy as a potent force for manifesting love, wealth, and health. Addressing issues of sexual trauma and societal conditioning, we offer practical guidance on harnessing sexual energy to heal and create the life you desire. Join me for an empowering conversation on reclaiming your feminine power and stopping the leakage of your sexual...2024-05-2118 min
Love On CommandEmbracing Transformation: A Journey of Self-Discovery and EmpowermentIn today's episode, we explore Sarah's remarkable journey through Diva University, a transformative experience that saw her overcoming deep-seated fears, dismantling limiting beliefs, and reclaiming her self-worth. Join us as we follow Sarah's courageous steps towards personal growth, which not only empowered her but also led to positive changes in her relationships and overall life. Through dedication, guidance, and perseverance, Sarah exemplified the importance of investing in oneself and seeking support systems conducive to healing and growth. Listen in as Sarah's story serves as a beacon of hope, encouraging listeners to trust the process, embrace...2024-05-1423 min
Love On CommandUnderstanding Your Unique Love Archetype and Dating Phases!In this episode, I'll be diving deep into the intricate science of attraction and the six essential phases that define every relationship journey. Drawing from my extensive experience as a master certified love strategist, I'll introduce you to five distinct love archetypes—ruby, amethyst, onyx, diamond, and creme—crafted over my two-decade-long career dedicated to helping women heal and discover their ideal romantic partners. Throughout our conversation, I'll unveil how each archetype approaches the realm of dating, attracts potential partners, and navigates the intricate landscape of relationships. From shedding light on trauma responses to unraveling subconscious patterns, I'll share inva...2024-05-0723 min
Love On CommandThe Truth About Dating and Relationships!Join me for an insightful discussion on the crucial importance of self-value in relationships and dating. I passionately advocate for women to prioritize their time and avoid freely giving it away. Excessive phone calls and early dinner dates can inadvertently signal low self-worth. Instead, I propose coffee dates as a practical means to vet potential partners and establish mutual respect and compatibility. With an emphasis on dating with intention, I share personal anecdotes and illuminating insights supported by scientific research. Let's delve into how nurturing a healthy, supportive relationship can positively impact various facets of life, from...2024-04-3012 min
Love On CommandUnveiling the Seven Stages to True Love and Fulfillment!In this episode, we will cover the profound reasons behind the dissatisfaction experienced by many women in their relationships, whether they are single, dating, or married. Join us as we explore how societal expectations and misconceptions have led women astray, leaving them drained and disconnected. We'll delve into the science of attraction and relationship dynamics, uncovering the secrets to fostering genuine connections and deepening intimacy. Learn about the stages of healing, activating feminine energy, and embracing your authentic self to attract the love you truly deserve. Discover practical strategies and transformative insights that will empower...2024-04-2326 min
Love On CommandKhadija's Journey to Self-Love and EmpowermentIn this empowering episode, join us as we hear about Khadija's inspiring journey of transformation. Khadija opens up about her life before Boston University, where she navigated the challenges of divorce and a profound sense of loss and stress. Through her commitment and investment in herself, Khadija discovered a path to true self-worth and confidence. She shares how participating in the transformative Bosti program allowed her to shed fear and embrace love, ultimately leading to a profound shift in her life and relationships. Join us as Khadija discusses the incredible changes she experienced—moving from st...2024-04-1619 min
Love On CommandMaria's Transformation Story: From Business Growth to Personal Healing!In this episode, we meet Maria Castillon, a successful entrepreneur whose journey from Mexico to Silicon Valley led her to helm a multimillion-dollar furniture company. Despite professional achievements, Maria felt a personal void and turned to self-care and personal development. Joining Shay's Boss Diva program was pivotal for Maria. Guided by mentorship and tools like meditation and coaching, Maria regained clarity and confidence. As she healed personally, her business thrived, expanding globally. Maria's story extends beyond business success. She redefined her relationships, prioritizing self-worth over validation. Now in a fulfilling partnership, Maria advocates fearlessly investing...2024-04-0922 min
Love On CommandTriggering Vasopressin for Long-Term Love!Explore the fascinating world of dating and attraction through this insightful presentation. Discover the intricate biochemical responses that drive romantic connections, with a focus on triggering vasopressin in men and managing oxytocin in women for lasting relationships. Learn why rushing physical intimacy can hinder long-term bonding and the importance of allowing time for a genuine connection to flourish. Gain valuable insights into power dynamics within relationships and empower yourself to recognize your worth. Ultimately, embrace a message of empowerment and self-value as you navigate the journey of love and connection.2024-04-0214 min
Love On CommandI Am A Queen, Don't Call Me An Alpha!Unlock the secrets of love, dating, and relationships in today's powerful episode. Join us as we debunk myths and explore the true dynamics at play. From understanding masculine and feminine energies to navigating the courting phase, this episode is packed with insights. Don't miss out!2024-03-2610 min
Love On CommandInsights on Intuition, Seduction, and Self-Empowerment!In this episode, we're diving into feminine energy, intuition, and seduction. I'm speaking directly to women who've faced betrayal in relationships, stressing the need to trust their intuition and feminine power. I begin by acknowledging women's innate ability to sense relationship issues, emphasizing the strength of feminine intuition. I discuss how societal pressures lead women to ignore red flags, disconnecting from their authentic selves. Exploring feminine energy, I explain its association with women due to biological factors like estrogen levels. Society's push for equality often causes women to adopt more masculine traits, diluting their feminine...2024-03-1910 min
Love On CommandUnderstanding the Coolidge Effect and Polarity in Relationships!Hey there, beautiful Diva! Welcome to another insightful episode where we'll dive deep into the fascinating world of dating and relationships. Today, I want to share some invaluable nuggets of wisdom that will help you navigate the twists and turns of the romantic journey. Let's start by unpacking some intriguing concepts, shall we? Ever heard of the "Pull Away Phase" or the "Coolidge Effect"? Well, buckle up, because we're going to explore why men sometimes seem to lose interest out of the blue, and how understanding these phenomena can empower you in your love life. ...2024-03-1221 min
Love On CommandUnderstanding the Pull Away Phase!Welcome to Love on Command podcast, where we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, dating dynamics, and self-love. As a certified Love Transformer and one of the top love coaches in the world, I bring you raw, unfiltered truths about love, dating, and femininity. Join me as I share insights, advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the intricate world of love and relationships. From understanding the pull-away phase to mastering the art of seduction, we cover it all. Get ready to transform your love life and unleash your inner diva.2024-03-0500 min
Love On CommandThe Interconnectedness of Mental and Physical Well-being!In today's episode, we explore the intricate link between mental and physical well-being. I propose that a significant portion of weight gain is linked to inflammation, often stemming from past traumas and negative relationships. It's crucial to address these emotional wounds and boost self-worth for overall health and fulfilling relationships. Through personal anecdotes and client interactions, I highlight the transformative power of healing emotional scars on all aspects of life. Let's prioritize self-love, empowerment, and acknowledging our inherent worth for a healthier, happier existence.2024-02-2711 min
Love On CommandWhy Are Women Leaking Their Power?In this thought-provoking podcast, join us as we delve into the profound influence of feminine energy and sexual power. From the societal shifts in masculinity to the ancient wisdom of feminine seduction, we explore how women's innate power has been historically marginalized and how reclaiming it can lead to profound personal transformation. Learn how to harness your sexual energy for manifestation, heal past traumas, and step into your true worthiness. Tune in for enlightening discussions and empowering insights to reclaim your feminine power and create your desired life.2024-02-2016 min
Love On CommandOvercoming Obstacles to True Love!Welcome to today's episode where we delve into the intricacies of attracting a deeply fulfilling relationship with a compatible partner. As your guide, I emphasize the crucial role of embracing truth and readiness for transformative change to enhance your journey towards finding love. We explore the common challenges confronted by women, particularly those over 40, shedding light on tendencies towards excessive independence, operating predominantly in masculine energy, and the lingering impact of unresolved traumas on relationship dynamics. Moreover, we dissect the phenomenon of attracting partners who resonate with one's current state rather than aspiring to match...2024-02-1319 min
Love On CommandUnderstanding the Phases of a RelationshipWelcome to the podcast where we break down the intricacies of modern dating and relationships. Join us as we dive deep into the phases of relationships, from attraction to commitment, and learn how to navigate the complexities of love in today's world. In this episode, we explore the five phases of a relationship and delve into the biochemical reactions that drive attraction. From understanding the power of sexual energy to recognizing the importance of the pull-away phase, we uncover the secrets to building lasting connections. Listen in as we discuss the pitfalls of rushing into...2024-02-0621 min
Love On CommandWhy 50/50 Isn't Enough & How to Attract High-Quality Men!Join me, Shay, the love expert, as we unravel the mysteries of successful dating in this episode. We tackle the controversial issue of men expecting women to go 50/50 on dates, diving deep into the underlying reasons for such expectations. Discover the importance of treating dating as an interview process, learn to identify red flags, and explore a proven formula for attracting high-quality men. Drawing from 20 years of documented success and a unique dating experiment, I provide insights and share a feminine dating cheat sheet to guide those navigating the complexities of modern dating. Don't miss out on this episode...2024-01-3016 min
Love On CommandUnveils the Truth About Building Lasting Relationships!In this powerful podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey, unlocking the secrets of love with Shay, Your Love Diva. Learn the crucial principles for attracting the right man and establishing a lasting relationship. Explore the significance of polarity, pitfalls of dating in masculine energy, and the surprising impact of dinner on long-term commitment. Tune in to elevate your love game and embrace the truth – you are always the prize.2024-01-2313 min
Love On CommandThe Truth About Love Blocks!Join our empowering podcast episode as we dive deep into breaking through love blocks and transforming your life. In this soul-stirring discussion, we confront common beliefs and fears that hinder your ability to attract and sustain the love you deserve. From debunking the notion of being cursed to unraveling the fear of abandonment, we provide insights that empower you to embrace the magic of love in your life. Discover the profound impact of subconscious beliefs on your relationships and learn how to heal from past traumas. Our expert guide challenges the myths and misconceptions around love, offering...2024-01-1609 min
Love On CommandScience-Based Insights for Lasting Love!Unlock the secrets of dating and relationships in this eye-opening podcast episode. Join us as we delve into the biological intricacies of attraction, understanding the hormones like vasopressin and dopamine that play a pivotal role. Learn why the way you start a relationship matters and discover the science-backed strategies to build lasting connections. Don't miss out on the essential insights for navigating the world of dating with confidence and authenticity. Tune in now!2024-01-0920 min
Love On CommandUnderstanding Relationships, Attraction, and Empowerment!Join me in this journey. Let's uncover the complexities, empower ourselves, and learn to navigate the dating landscape with newfound awareness and resilience. This episode is your beacon toward reclaiming control, understanding, and embracing your strength in the world of relationships.2024-01-0209 min
Love On CommandFrom Struggle to Success: A Journey of Transformation and Abundance!In today's episode, I delve deep into my personal journey – from a place of despair and financial struggle to finding abundance and purpose. I share the pivotal moments that shifted my perspective, the power of investing in oneself, and how aligning with abundance transforms not just your financial state, but your entire life. Join me as I uncover the keys to manifesting wealth and purposeful living.2023-12-2611 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Seduction Secrets: Your Path to Lasting Love!Join us as we delve into the secrets of seduction and uncover the real essence of lasting connections. Discover how to elevate your dating game and cultivate healthy, meaningful relationships. Learn the power of attraction, the phases of courtship, and the profound impact of energy control. Uncover the truths about intimacy, hormonal health, and the pursuit of genuine, lasting love. This episode is packed with insights to transform your approach to relationships and empower your journey towards love and fulfillment.2023-12-1914 min
Love On CommandBreaking Love Barriers!In this episode, we delve into the complexities of love blocks, uncovering how they can obstruct the path to genuine love. Join us as we identify these barriers and dismantle them, paving the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.2023-12-1219 min
Love On CommandA Boss Diva's Journey to Self-Worth & Success!Join us on the Love on Command podcast for an inspiring journey with Sheema, a phenomenal boss diva. She shares her transformation from attracting the wrong partners to manifesting her dream life and career success. From dealing with love blocks to embracing self-worth, her story empowers anyone seeking love and self-growth.2023-12-0527 min
Love On CommandFrom Struggle to Strength: Brenda Hall's Journey to Inner EmpowermentEmbark on a transformative journey with Brenda Hall as she shares her empowering story on our podcast. From battling anxiety and depression despite external success to finding healing through Boss Diva's program, Brenda's narrative dives into the complexities of inner fulfillment. Her journey underscores the power of investing in oneself, overcoming deep-seated patterns, and prioritizing mental health for true abundance. Join us as Brenda inspires with her shift from emotional distress to empowerment, offering invaluable advice for those seeking similar transformation.2023-11-2829 min
Love On Command3 Dates = Better Options. Science Of Dating!In this episode, the dating landscape gets a major makeover. Discover the secrets behind dating multiple people simultaneously, why first-date dinners are a thing of the past, and how to elevate your allure through strategic, seductive dating tactics. Welcome to a paradigm shift in finding love.2023-11-2118 min
Love On CommandThe Dating Game EvolutionIn today's podcast, I'm diving deep into the complexities of modern dating with the amazing Alison Wellington, a certified dating and relationship coach. We get real about the impact of social media, how gender roles are evolving, and the unique challenges of online dating. Alison shares her personal journey, highlighting the significance of self-reflection and accountability in building fulfilling relationships. The bottom line: while technology expands our dating options, finding true love demands a journey of self-discovery and genuine connections. Join us for some eye-opening insights and a heart-to-heart on the realities of modern love!2023-11-1423 min
Love On CommandCracking The Code!In this episode, we delve into the scientific aspects of dating and love. We discuss the common misconceptions surrounding dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of dating with intention and common sense. The episode highlights the value of dating multiple people and the need to avoid emotional blindfolds. We also explore the biochemical processes that occur in both men and women during the courting phase, shedding light on why it's essential to let a man work to earn your commitment. Ultimately, this episode empowers women to make informed choices in their dating lives and to appreciate the true value...2023-11-0711 min
Love On CommandThe Realtionship Quality Starts With YouIn this episode we discuss how the quality of a relationship is determined by the version of oneself that enters into it.2023-10-3113 min
Love On CommandPersonal Healing : My Ayahuasca Journey online-audio-converter.comIn this episode, I'm discussing the profound experiences and transformative journey I underwent with Ayahuasca. It's an introspective narrative about my decision to explore Ayahuasca despite not being inclined towards drugs initially, the emotional and spiritual impact it had on me, the healing it brought to my life, and the profound changes it induced in both myself and my husband. I also touch upon the process and its deeper meaning, clarifying misconceptions and detailing the spiritual growth it facilitated. Overall, it's a candid exploration of the Ayahuasca experience and its incredible effects on personal and spiritual development.2023-10-0316 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Your Dreams : Transforming Illusions Into RealityIn this captivating episode, we delve into the powerful journey of turning your dreams and illusions into tangible reality by investing in personal growth and self-improvement. Join us as we explore practical strategies, and expert insights that will empower you to bridge the gap between imagination and achieving the love you've always envisioned.2023-09-2613 min
Love On CommandYour Pick-Me-Up Behavior Will Not Get You The Right OneIn this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve deep into the complex issue of how society sometimes treats women's bodies as commodities. Join us as we explore the societal pressures that make some women feel obligated to offer exclusivity without commitment. Our candid discussions shed light on the intricacies of this phenomenon and the importance of redefining norms. Tune in to gain fresh insights and foster a more inclusive, equitable world. 2023-09-1916 min
Love On CommandDoes He Consider Or Call You As "His Friend"?Description: Join us on this eye-opening podcast as we delve deep into the complex world of modern relationships. Explore the nuances of when someone addresses you as a friend while secretly pursuing a romantic or physical connection. Discover the signs, strategies, and empowering insights to help you navigate these situations with confidence and grace. Tune in for candid discussions, expert advice, and real-life stories that shed light on the "friendship" disrespect phenomenon. Elevate your relationship game and embrace healthier connections. Don't miss this episode!2023-09-1217 min
Love On CommandThe Different Archetypes And The Men They AttractExplore the Intricate Connections: Archetypes, Traumas, and the Men They Attract. Uncover the profound interplay between diverse archetypes and their underlying traumas, delving into how these shape the men they draw into their lives. Join us for insightful discussions that unveil the intricate dynamics that influence relationships and behaviors. A transformative podcast journey into psychology, attraction, and self-discovery.2023-09-0515 min
Love On CommandWhat Men Need To KnowThis insightful episode delves into the subtle nuances and unspoken insights that men need to navigate the dating landscape successfully. Discover the secrets to decoding body language, understanding emotional cues, and grasping the unexpressed expectations that women might not reveal outright.2023-08-2910 min
Love On CommandJourney To Empowerment And True LoveDiscover the transformative journey of J.L. Beasley as she shares her empowering story on our podcast. Join us as we delve into her experience at Diva University, where self-love flourished and led her to find a partner who treated her like the queen she truly is. Tune in for inspiring insights on personal growth, self-discovery, and the path to deserving love.2023-08-2225 min
Love On CommandThe Science Behind Constant Cheating in MenJoin us in this thought-provoking podcast episode as we unravel the intriguing topic of the gene that has been associated with a propensity for infidelity in men. We discuss the interplay between biology and behavior, addressing questions about nature versus nurture, the ethical implications of genetic determinism, and the role of personal choices in relationships. Tune in for a captivating exploration of the genetic factors that may contribute to infidelity and the broader implications for understanding human behavior.2023-08-1513 min
Love On CommandHow Women Should Handle Men Pulling AwayWelcome to our empowering podcast, where we delve into the vital topic of understanding what actions a woman should take when faced with a man pulling away. Join us as we navigate through valuable insights and expert advice on maintaining healthy relationships and communication. Discover practical strategies to nurture emotional connections and foster mutual growth. Tune in now to unlock the secrets to handling these challenging situations with grace and confidence.2023-08-0817 min
Love On CommandStop Thinking Of Seduction As A Bad Thing - PodcastJoin us as we challenge misconceptions and explore how the right kind of seduction, rooted in science, can enhance confidence and build meaningful connections. Discover the secrets to embracing your inner allure and attracting the partners you deserve.2023-08-0115 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Emotional Healing: How DIVA University Transformed Sallie's Life!Join us in this inspiring episode as we delve into Sallie's transformative journey with DIVA University. Discover how confronting her emotional unavailability led to profound healing, paving the way for a higher quality of life. Tune in for powerful insights and lessons on emotional growth and empowerment!2023-07-2513 min
Love On CommandBreaking Free from Traumatic Pasts - Empowering Advice for WomenUnlock Your Potential: Empowering Women to Break Free from Traumatic Pasts and Embrace the Present. Join us for transformative insights and practical advice on how to overcome past traumas and live a fulfilling life in the present moment. Don't let the past hold you back - it's time to reclaim your power and thrive!2023-07-1815 min
Love On CommandHow Women Can Balance Giving and Receiving in RelationshipsIn this empowering episode, we will uncover valuable insights and practical strategies to help women maintain healthy boundaries, establish emotional equilibrium, and foster more fulfilling connections in their romantic lives. Tune in to discover the secrets to finding harmony in love and creating lasting, meaningful relationships.2023-07-1115 min
Love On CommandTransforming Life and Love Gayla's Journey with BDUDiscover the inspiring journey of Gayla as she shares her transformative experience after joining BDU. In this captivating podcast, delve into her remarkable story of personal growth, love, and an elevated quality of life.2023-07-0422 min
Love On CommandTransforming Resentment: Rebuilding Family BondsIn this transformative podcast episode, discover how Tami's journey with our program not only empowered her personal healing but also paved the way for healing her family relationships. Join us as we delve into the profound impact of Tami's experience and the remarkable journey of healing, growth, and renewed connections."2023-06-2716 min
Love On CommandConquering Fears Overcoming Love Blocks and Unleashing SuccessIn this empowering podcast episode, join me and my special guest, Sam Gutierrez as she shares her incredible journey of personal growth and transformation after joining DIVA University. Discover how she conquered her deepest fears, broke free from love blocks, and experienced a profound shift in the quality of life. Get ready to be inspired and motivated to embark on your own transformative journey with the help of DIVA University.2023-06-2016 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Your Feminine Energy: Overcoming Love Struggles for WomenOn this week's episode, we will talk about "Unleashing Feminine Power" with our special guest, Fila Antwine. A thought-provoking episode where we dive deep into the struggles faced by women who find it challenging to attract the love they truly desire due to being disconnected from their feminine energy. Join us on this empowering audio journey as we explore the transformative path towards reclaiming and embracing your authentic feminine essence.2023-06-1327 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Inner Healing: Breaking Self-Betrayal Patterns to Overcome TraumaIn this powerful podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey of healing from trauma by confronting the self-betrayal patterns that keep us locked in pain. Join me and my special guest, Erica Turner, as we explore actionable strategies, expert insights, and inspiring personal stories to guide you towards breaking free from the chains of self-betrayal. Discover how to reclaim your power, cultivate self-compassion, and embark on a path of healing, ultimately creating a brighter future filled with resilience and self-love. Tune in now and embark on your own journey of liberation and transformation.2023-06-0613 min
Love On CommandTransforming Heartbreak: Writing and Journaling as Powerful Tools for Healing (No Judgment Zone!) with guest: Barbara GianquittoJoin me and my special guest, Barbara Gianquitto in this transformative podcast audio as she shares her soulful journey of healing her own heartbreak through the power of writing and journaling. Discover the cathartic release and emotional freedom that comes from putting your thoughts and emotions onto paper, all while creating a safe and judgment-free space for yourself. Gain valuable insights, practical tips, and heartfelt advice on navigating the healing process, embracing self-expression, and finding solace in your own words. Tune in to this empowering podcast episode and embark on a profound healing experience that will nourish your soul...2023-05-3017 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Your Body's Power: Heal and Manifest Your Desires (With Allana Pratt)Welcome to this empowering podcast episode where we explore the profound connection between your body, healing, and manifestation. Join us as we delve into the transformative journey of deepening your connection with your body, uncovering its innate wisdom, and harnessing its power to manifest your desires. With our special guest, Allana Pratt, let's discover practical techniques, insightful anecdotes, and expert advice on how understanding and honoring your body can lead to profound healing and attract the abundance you seek. Tune in now and embark on a path of self-discovery, self-healing, and manifesting your deepest desires through the wisdom of...2023-05-2334 min
Love On CommandFrom Challenge to Triumph: Healing Journey and TransformationOn this week's episode, Deirdra will share how she was able to transform her wounds to wisdom and listen as she unveils her extraordinary healing journey that ignited profound transformation2023-05-1630 min
Love On CommandUnlocking Love and Living in the Present : A Guide with Alex StockwellOn this week's episode, listen as we discover true love in the present moment on this conversational journey with Alex Stockwell.2023-05-0931 min
Love On CommandThe Art of BurlesqueIn line with the recently concluded Love Mastery Retreat, we're gonna have a sit down with the Queen of Burlesque herself, Perle Noire as she talks about the arts behind her craft and how Burlesque can even help you heal your deepest traumas. Stay tuned divas!2023-05-0237 min
Love On CommandSelf Love and How To Nurture Your MarriageOn this week's episode, we had the chance to talk to Mecca Tart, who's also an expert on marriage and relationship as she helps us understand how your character reflects the man that you attract and how can you take care of your marriage2023-04-2532 min
Love On CommandSingle Parenthood and Co-Parenting With Guest Syndy BuchananOn this week's episode, we will talk about the conflicts of single parenthood and co-parenting with our special guest, Sindy Buchanan. 2023-04-1827 min
Love On CommandWhat Is Somatic Experiencing and How Can It Help You Heal Your Traumas- PodcastIn today's episode, we will learn about what it means to communicate with your nervous system through Somatic Experiencing Therapy with a licensed expert and a fellow relationship coach, Lauren Zoeller as she also tells us how it can heal traumas and help with your dating pattern. 2023-04-1137 min
Love On CommandMarriage Is Not The PrizeIn today's episode, we will talk about the LOST art of seduction and how we, women have mistakenly think of marriage as the ultimate prize2023-04-0417 min
Love On CommandWhy It Didn't WorkOn this week's episode, you will hear it from the experts as I sit down with Allison Wellington, a licensed councellor while we talk about practices ans advice when it comes to dating and love. Stay tuned Divas!2023-03-2823 min
Love On CommandThe Difference Between Feminine Men and Masculine MenIn today's episode , we will discuss about men's behavior when it comes to attraction and dating that will make you, ladies, identify a mascuine man and a man who's in his feminine energy. 2023-03-2122 minLove On CommandThe Battle of Depression In Women That Blocks LoveIn today's episode, we will hear it from Dr. Nelson Bulmash as he discusses about women's mental and physical health and the role that it plays in attracting The One..2023-03-1438 minLove On CommandInterview with AliciaOn this week's episode, we had the chance to talk to a certified Boss Diva, Alicia as she discussed about the power of her feminine energy and how it helped her heal from traumas and love blocks that keep her from finding The One. 2023-03-0724 minLove On CommandInterview With AnastasiaOn this week's episode, we'll hear it from Diva University graduate Anastasia and her journey through healing her traumas that caused her love blocks. 2023-02-2819 minLove On CommandInterview With Skye LegrandOn this week's episode, we'll hear an interview with Skye Legrand as she talks about her past traumas and her journey to healing and finding her romantic bestfriend.2023-02-2124 minLove On CommandInterview With DajahOn this week's episode, we will hear an interview of one of my Boss Diva University graduates, Dajah and how she's able to end her love blocks as she goes through the journey of finding her romantic bestfriend. 2023-02-1421 minLove On CommandInterview with April Mason Part 2Here's is the second part of my interview with April as she discuss about the power of femininity.2023-02-0751 minLove On CommandInterview with April Mason Part 1On this week's episode, we'll hear part 1 of April Jackson's interview as she talks about how powerful women can be when tapping on their feminine enegry2023-01-3151 min
Next Level Thinking!Next Level Thinking ft. Shay Levister ep. 138What's up everyone we have a great show for you in this one! As business professionals, we would still like to have a partner along the way. So many achieve wealth, but their love life is struggling. If you have that problem we have the solution for you with Shay Levister! She is certified in Rapid Transformation Technique, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, best selling author, and speaker! She has appeared on multiple radio and TV shows and is appearing in several Fatal Attraction TVOne episodes!Let's start transforming your life today! https://shaybettercoaching.clickfunnels.com/sales-page...2019-11-1223 min
Next Level ThinkingNext Level Thinking ft. Shay LevisterWhat's up everyone we have a great show for you in this one! As business professionals, we would still like to have a partner along the way. So many achieve wealth, but their love life is struggling. If you have that problem we have the solution for you with Shay Levister! She is certified in Rapid Transformation Technique, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, best selling author, and speaker! She has appeared on multiple radio and TV shows and is appearing in several Fatal Attraction TVOne episodes!
Let's start transforming your life today!
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