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The Barn Philosopher102 - Shelby’s Selfish Prayer Syndrome (and Ridge’s Cure)In this thoughtful episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby opens up about a personal struggle with prayer—feeling selfish when recognizing how much he benefits from praying for others. Ridge offers encouragement, reframing the conversation by comparing prayer to talking with a friend. Just like a good friend, God listens, cares, and sometimes helps in ways we don’t expect.
It’s an honest discussion about faith, friendship with God, and learning to trust that answers might come in forms we don’t anticipate.
Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and more.
Don’t forget to rate, follow, and share!2025-08-1335 min
The Barn Philosopher101 - What the Truck: Hauling Home HistoryAfter ten years of trying, Shelby finally got his grandfather’s truck—a farm fixture that hasn’t run in over thirty years. While his grandfather owned plenty of vehicles, this was the truck everyone remembers him driving around the farm. It’s going to take a lot of work before it’s road-worthy, but Shelby’s goal is to have it running by the winter of 2026. A crew of friends helped him haul it home, sharing in the excitement of the moment. Ridge joins in with stories of his own grandfather’s truck and Cadillac, making it a nostalgic ride down memo...2025-08-1016 min
The Barn Philosopher100 - The Roast Episode and Reflection on a Century in The BarnIn this milestone episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge kick things off the only way that feels right—with a roast. Nothing says “friendship” like lovingly mocking each other’s quirks, from sleepless nights to spray foam disasters.
But after the laughs, they reflect on what 100 episodes have meant. They talk about how the show has evolved, how it’s challenged them to ask better questions, listen more intentionally, and even change their minds along the way. From exploring faith and family to fumbling through philosophy, it’s been a journey of growth, humility, and a surprising amount of brake dus...2025-08-071h 04
The Barn Philosopher99 - Are you the expert? Let's Take a Step Back.In this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge take a hard look at what it means to be an “expert” these days. With the internet overflowing with advice, tutorials, and self-proclaimed gurus, how do we know who to trust? And what happens when the person with the most likes isn't the person with the most knowledge?
Shelby shares a story about a well-meaning mistake—someone ignored expert advice in favor of an internet how-to with lots of views... and things didn’t go so well. We talk about the tension between healthy skepticism and outright dismissal, the danger of overc...2025-08-0431 min
The Barn Philosopher98 - Faith, Friendship, and a Few Forgotten HymnsIn this roundtable-style episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with two of his favorite faith companions—his wife, Rita, and their friend Joan—for an open and honest conversation about the twists and turns of their spiritual journeys.
What starts as a thoughtful discussion about belief, growth, and gratitude becomes both heartfelt and humorous. Shelby reflects on how Joan and Ridge have been steady guides in his and Rita’s path toward a deeper Catholic faith—not by preaching, but by simply walking alongside them. Joan admits that the support goes both ways, joking that being tested by Shelby a...2025-07-3036 min
The Barn Philosopher97 - The Man-tality Shift: Following Up on “Hey Man, Are You Okay?”Challenging the man-tallity. In this follow-up to Episode 54 – Hey Man, Are You Okay?, Ridge and Shelby revisit the challenge of guys asking each other the hard questions. But this time, the conversation runs deeper—not just about checking in, but about letting go.
Ridge, in the thick of raising a young family, talks about the struggle of control and the surprising freedom he’s found in adopting a bit of Shelby’s “it is what it is” mindset. Meanwhile, Shelby reflects on his own season of fatherhood, navigating the emotional rollercoaster of adult children making grown-up decisions… some of them questionable.
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The Barn Philosopher96 - Back in the Barn Reunion: Fried Chicken, Family, and Fried ShelbyIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge and Shelby reunite in the barn to debrief Shelby’s whirlwind adventure abroad. From Japan’s seafood and Korea’s unbeatable fried chicken to the blazing sun of Guam, Shelby shares the highs, the heat, and the hilarity of life near the equator.
They talk food (cheap unless you overdo it on sushi and beer), family, and the simple joys of island time—including Ridge’s prized souvenir: a legendary Kmart Guam T-shirt.
It’s a warm, funny, and occasionally sweaty recap of a trip full of flavor, friendship, and faraway fun. But in the e...2025-07-2336 min
The Barn Philosopher95 - Brake Job Baptism: Ridge Takes the WheelIn this hands-on episode of The Barn Philosopher, the barn becomes more than just a recording studio—it’s a garage. Ridge takes on the challenge of changing brakes for the first time, with Shelby as his mentor and mechanic-in-residence.
While Ridge has dabbled in oil changes and lawnmower fixes, this is his first dive into real car work. Next on his list: changing oil on a full-sized vehicle. The brake job goes surprisingly well… until Shelby breaks a small part and has to order a replacement. Just another day in the barn, where every fix comes with a little frustr...2025-07-2014 min
The Barn Philosopher94 - The Adventurous Life of Aunt Margie: From Acrobatics to AgricultureIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with Rita’s Aunt Margie during their trip to Guam for an unforgettable conversation that spans continents, decades, and one incredible life.
With Rita joining for the intro and outro, we learn how Aunt Margie began her journey in an unexpected place—performing in a circus across Southeast Asia during World War II, entertaining troops as a child. Her family’s travels eventually landed them in Guam, where they made their home.
Aunt Margie shares stories of her adventurous upbringing, her time living on the island of Yap, and her lifelo...2025-07-1617 min
The Barn Philosopher93 - Rita’s Sister in Sync: Guam Grace, Nonprofit Passion, and a Family ConspiracyIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with his sister-in-law Juanita for a lively and meaningful conversation about life on Guam and the incredible work she does with local nonprofits—including Island Girl Power and one with a name Shelby can't quite pronounce (despite his best efforts).
Juanita shares her passion for empowering young people, supporting community initiatives, and preserving the culture that shaped her. Rita and Shelby join together for the intro and outro, where Rita—of course—knows exactly what Juanita is talking about. This leaves Shelby mildly convinced there’s a family conspiracy to confuse...2025-07-1331 min
The Barn Philosopher92 - The Pearl of Guam: Carnival Rides and Demolition DrivesIn this special episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby shares a heartfelt interview with his mother-in-law, Pearl—recorded while visiting Guam. As a unique (and slightly strange) birthday gift, Rita joins him to listen back and reflect on her mom’s remarkable life, filled with warmth, grit, and unforgettable memories.
Pearl paints a vivid picture of growing up in a quieter, simpler Guam and watching the island evolve through decades of change and growth. But her story isn’t just one of nostalgia—it includes unexpected highlights, like helping run the family carnival and earning the title of demolition derby champion...2025-07-0938 min
The Barn Philosopher91 - Barn Insomnia: A Sleep Study in Two PartsIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, we drift into the topic of sleep—or the lack of it. Ridge opens up about his nightly struggles: tinnitus, tossing and turning, and waking up more times than he cares to count. He remembers far too much of the night that’s supposed to be forgotten.
Meanwhile, Shelby reports no such troubles. His secret? Possibly an empty mind and a clear conscience—though Ridge might have a different theory. Shelby marvels at the way kids sleep, from the limp weight of their arms to their uncanny ability to snooze through anything short of an...2025-07-0631 min
The Barn Philosopher90 - From Cornfields to Korea: Shelby Checks InIn this long-distance episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge rings up Shelby while he’s still abroad—this time calling from the comfort of the barn to the bustle of Busan, South Korea. The two catch up on Shelby’s time in Guam, reflecting on beach days, family time, and the kind of heat that sticks with you.
Ridge, naturally curious, tries to pin Shelby down: Tokyo or South Korea—what’s better? But with two days left in the trip, Shelby isn't ready to commit. What he is ready to talk about? The beautiful grit, the friendly chaos, and the honest...2025-07-0232 min
The Barn Philosopher89 - From Ginza to Guam: The Adventure ContinuesIn this episode of *The Barn Philosopher*, Shelby and Rita are back on the mic after their big international adventure. While they didn't manage to record in Guam (blame the beaches and the heat), they're making up for it with stories from that leg of the journey before they headed off to South Korea.
From reconnecting with family and friends to soaking in the sun (and sweat) of the island life, they reflect on the meaningful moments, vibrant culture, and what it’s like traveling in the tropics with a tight itinerary and a looser schedule.
Grab a cold drink an...2025-06-2930 min
The Barn Philosopher87 - Quiz Me If You Can: Shelby Fails the Food TestIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge turns the tables and quizzes Shelby on food facts—and let’s just say the results won’t earn anyone a Michelin star. But as the laughter flows, both hosts agree: you don’t have to be an expert to love something. Shelby confesses he’s not a foodie, just a food enthusiast. The kind who may not know the origin of a dish, but definitely knows how to enjoy it.
From fast food flops to flavor-filled favorites, we celebrate the simple joy of eating—no culinary credentials required.
Listen now on Apple, Spoti...2025-06-2528 min
The Barn Philosopher87 - Tech as a Tool: A solo Ridge EpisodeIn this solo episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge takes the mic while Shelby treks across the globe on his big adventure. With the barn a little quieter than usual, Ridge reflects on the role of technology—not as a flashy distraction, but as a meaningful tool to make life better. From gadgets to platforms, we explore the idea that just because something is new or impressive doesn’t mean it’s useful.
Whether you're a digital minimalist or a tech junkie, this episode invites you to think about how you’re using the tools at your disposal—and whether they’re he...2025-06-2219 min
The Barn Philosopher86 - Shelby & Rita's Big Adventure: Tokyo DriftIn this special travel edition of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Rita kick off their big adventure in none other than Ginza, Tokyo. After a full day of walking (and even more eating), they sit down to reflect on their first and only full day in Japan’s capital.
From navigating the quiet politeness of Japanese culture to the thrill of trying unfamiliar foods, Shelby and Rita share their impressions, laughs, and a few travel hiccups along the way. It’s a heartfelt, lighthearted look at stepping outside of your comfort zone—and into a convenience store with 12 kinds of bottle...2025-06-1819 min
The Barn Philosopher85 - Vice & Virtue: Ridge Without the RuckusIn this solo episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge takes the mic alone to explore one of Shelby’s favorite subjects: the seven deadly sins. With Shelby away (and probably being ironically envious.), Ridge breaks down the classic vices—pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and sloth—and offers reflections on how they show up in daily life.
But it doesn’t stop there. Ridge also turns the conversation toward the antidotes: the seven heavenly virtues—humility, charity, patience, kindness, chastity, temperance, and diligence. With thoughtful insights, some dry humor, and the peaceful absence of Shelby’s emotional interruptions, this might just b...2025-06-1518 min
The Barn Philosopher84 - From Ohio to the Orient: Shelby’s Food-Fueled Tour Begins!ADVENTURE TIME! In this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge flips the script and interviews Shelby before he sets off on a big international adventure. With Tokyo, Guam, and South Korea on the itinerary, Shelby shares what he’s looking forward to most—especially the food. From sushi in Japan to family meals in Guam and spicy dishes in Seoul, this trip is less about sightseeing and more about eating his way across the Pacific.
We also talk a little about the cultural expectations, family connections, and how Shelby plans to embrace the journey (and survive the jet lag).
Pack your...2025-06-1118 min
The Barn Philosopher83 - The Wealth of Relationships: Lessons from the Long RoadIn this heartfelt episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with his wife, Rita, for a reflective conversation on what truly holds value in life. As they navigate the challenges of parenting adult children who seem drawn to materialism, the two open up about their own evolving perspectives.
With age and experience comes clarity—and for Shelby and Rita, it’s clear that relationships far outweigh riches. Whether it’s within family, friendships, or work, meaningful connections have proven to be the most lasting and rewarding investments.
They also discuss the discomfort of watching others flaunt their wealth while they’v...2025-06-0815 min
The Barn Philosopher82 - Joan of Clarity: Taking on Catholic MythsIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with Ridge’s wife, Joan, for a lively and enlightening conversation about common misconceptions surrounding the Catholic faith. From misunderstood traditions to pop culture myths, Joan brings clarity, insight, and a good dose of grace to the table—while Shelby asks the questions many are too afraid (or too confused) to ask.
Whether you're Catholic, curious, or just confused, this episode offers a respectful and approachable deep dive into what the Church actually teaches—and what it doesn’t.
Listen in as Joan kindly sets Shelby straight (and maybe you, too).
Av...2025-06-0433 min
The Barn Philosopher81 - Scroll Club: We’re Not Supposed to Talk About ItIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, we dive into a more adult topic—one sparked by a jarring and unexpected Facebook ad featuring suggestive content that somehow avoided violating community guidelines. Shelby and Ridge unpack the moment and explore how digital algorithms serve up content based on age, gender, and user behavior—even when that content doesn’t align with what you typically consume.
We also discuss Ridge’s experience with questionable content showing up on his household's devices and the awkward detective work that followed. This conversation leads us to broader questions about privacy, digital targeting, and what it means...2025-06-0124 min
The Barn Philosopher80 - Rita's Return: The Foraging Philosopher and His WifeIn this light-hearted episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with his wife, Rita, for a warm and funny conversation about their shared (and sometimes wild) interests. From foraging for mushrooms in the woods to experimenting with unusual crops like paw paws and Israeli artichokes, they reflect on the joy of trying new things—even if they don’t always work out.
Along the way, Rita offers some honest insight into what it’s like living with Shelby and his many… quirks. It’s an easygoing chat full of laughs, a little dirt under the fingernails, and a lot of heart.
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The Barn Philosopher79 - Badges, Bravado, and Borrowed ValorEpisode Title: Stolen Valor and Borrowed Brilliance
In this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge and Shelby dive into the topic of stolen valor—not just in the military sense, but in all areas of life where people claim honors, experience, or expertise they haven't earned. From fake war stories to people pretending to be pros in fields they barely understand, we unpack what drives this need to seem accomplished and how it erodes real trust.
We also reflect on the awards we've received and why they don’t mean as much to us as the actual work and growth behi...2025-05-2526 min
The Barn Philosopher78 - Digital Goods; You Bought It, But Do You Own It?In this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge and Shelby dig into the murky world of digital ownership. Do we really own the things we buy online—eBooks, movies, games—or are we just renting access until a company decides otherwise? From rumored cases of disappearing digital libraries to sneaky changes in service agreements, we explore how the modern marketplace has quietly redefined what it means to “own” something.
Shelby gets especially fired up over streaming services. What once promised ad-free content for a premium price is now sliding commercials back in under the banner of “new tiers” and “enhanced options”—while...2025-05-2127 min
The Barn Philosopher77 - Dry Generation and Dusty Memories of a Wilder TimeIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, we reflect on a surprising cultural shift—young people today are drinking less.
Shelby and Ridge take a walk down memory lane, back to a time when drinking was almost a rite of passage. From rowdy nights to questionable choices, it felt like part of living fast and making the most of a fleeting youth. But times are changing—and maybe for the better.
We unpack what this trend says about a new generation, and how it ties into our own youthful sense of mortality. Was all that urgency about really living—or just f...2025-05-1828 min
The Barn Philosopher76 - Blood & Oil: Trying It Once, the Barn Philosopher WayIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, we explore the value of trying something—anything—at least once.
Ridge shares his family's annual tradition of butchering steers to feed the masses, offering a glimpse into the grit, connection, and satisfaction that comes with doing hard things together. Shelby balances things out with a less intense (but no less formative) story about how changing oil became his gateway into DIY mechanical work—and, naturally, he finds time to rant about the damage commercial fishing has done to our oceans.
From blood to oil, we reflect on how hands-on experiences shape our perspe...2025-05-1432 min
The Barn Philosopher75 - No Going Back: When the Boat Becomes the BuildingIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby opens up about a pivotal life choice—when he metaphorically built a house out of his boat. It’s a moment that marked his commitment to forging ahead, even if the tools weren’t perfect and the boat seemed better suited for floating than framing. Ridge reflects on his own place in the journey, feeling like he's drifting just offshore, wondering if it's time to do the same.
Together, they unpack what it really means to go all-in—not by burning your bridges, but by turning your escape plan into a foundation. It's a c...2025-05-1120 min
The Barn Philosopher74 - From Seashells to Cornfields: Meet the Wonderful Rita!In this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with his wife, Rita, for a warm and personal conversation.
Rita reflects on her coastal childhood, where “island time” was the norm—but ironically, she grew up hating to be late. Now married to Shelby, who is habitually late, she shares how his flaws have helped her grow in patience (and how she still can’t stand tardiness).
They talk about Rita’s younger dreams of becoming a marine biologist or professional seashell collector, and how she ended up surrounded by cornfields instead of crashing waves. The two reminisce about the early...2025-05-0740 min
The Barn Philosopher73 - Shelby's Clan Ties? Thin Skins, Silly Games and Thick BeerIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby shares a tough and thought-provoking workplace story—one where trying to correct someone’s mistakes quickly turned into an accusation of racism. Despite having a diverse family, Shelby chooses not to “play the race card” in response. Instead, he reflects on how people sometimes deflect accountability by reaching for the wrong defense.
Ridge and Shelby dive into a deeper conversation about responsibility, identity, and the social awkwardness of calling out poor behavior in today’s climate. And of course, no episode would be complete without a little levity—this time courtesy of a beer calle...2025-05-0421 min
The Barn Philosopher72 - Rapid-Fire on the Ridge: Meet the Brains Behind the BarnIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby turns the tables and puts Ridge in the hot seat for a round of rapid-fire questions. From favorite salty snacks and go-to movies to obscure actors Ridge secretly identifies with, nothing is off the table. Ridge even treats us to a surprise burst of singing—because why not? It’s a lively mix of laughs, insights, and unexpected revelations.
Join us as we get to know Ridge a little better. He's a mystery wrapped in an enigma.
Listen now on Apple, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and more.
Don't forget to rate, follow, and share!2025-04-3021 min
The Barn Philosopher71 - Stock Watching vs. Tariff Walking: A 2025 PerspectiveIt's early 2025, and the markets are buzzing — not just from the usual chaos, but now with new tariffs shaking things up. Ridge keeps a close eye on his investments, while Shelby... well, let’s just say he’s aware he has investments somewhere.
In this episode, we talk about saving for the future, riding out the market waves, and how easy it is to get caught worrying about money. We reflect on the love of money, the temptation to obsess over it, and how faith helps us keep a healthier perspective — even when headlines scream about tariffs, trade wars, and economic...2025-04-2735 min
The Barn Philosopher70 - The $12 "Value" Meal: Where Did the Deals Go?In this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge take a bite out of a growing trend: fast food prices climbing while quality stays flat. What happened to the days of cheap burgers and dollar menus? We talk about how once-reliable spots for a quick, affordable meal are starting to rival the cost of sit-down restaurants—and not in a good way.
From soggy fries to sticker shock at the drive-thru, we’re calling it what it is: The McDonald’s Effect. Join us for a conversation that’s part economic rant, part nostalgic longing, and all flavored with that cla...2025-04-2317 min
The Barn Philosopher69 - Ridge's Better Half: Behind Every Great Philosopher...This week on The Barn Philosopher, we're trying something new—Shelby steps into the interviewer’s chair to chat with Ridge’s wife for a candid, heartfelt conversation. It’s the first in a mini-series where we bring our better halves into the barn and see what kind of wisdom and laughs come from it.
In this episode, we dive into her and Ridge’s shared faith journey in the Catholic Church, how they’ve grown spiritually as individuals and as a couple, and the unique ways their beliefs shape their daily life. It’s honest, warm, and occasionally hilarious—because what wou...2025-04-2025 min
The Barn Philosopher68 - Fast Food Face-Off: Cheap, Greasy, and Surprisingly ScientificIn this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge and Shelby hit the drive-thru circuit in search of the best cheap fast food. With burgers, fries, and nuggets in hand (and a food scale in the backseat), they take a scientific-ish approach to value: weighing each meal and calculating the cost per pound.
From golden arches to unexpected gems, they put their wallets and stomachs to the test. The surprise? The most budget-friendly bites came from the place they assumed would break the bank.
Hungry for insight—and maybe a little indigestion? Tune in for laughs, stats, and strong opinions on sa...2025-04-1643 min
The Barn Philosopher67 - Easter Candy: Peeps, Pastels, and Candy ControversiesIn this Easter-themed episode, Ridge and Shelby unwrap their all-time favorite candies—whether sweet, sour, or questionably savory (you’ll have to tune in to decide). From childhood Easter baskets to adult snack drawer stashes, it’s a nostalgic and sugar-filled stroll down memory lane.
Somewhere along the way, Shelby shares the legend of a full case of Peeps and his lifelong dream of swimming through them like Scrooge McDuck in a vault of marshmallow chicks.
Whether you love jelly beans, chocolate bunnies, or avoid candy altogether, this episode has something for every taste. Plus, we ask the big questions: Is Eas...2025-04-1312 min
The Barn Philosopher66 - The Promise of Spring: Derailed by The Gen X AttitudeThis episode was supposed to be about spring—you know, fresh starts, new growth, birds chirping. But Shelby isn’t buying it. In fact, he hates the “promise” of spring so much that he hijacks the whole conversation and sends it spiraling into a rant about childhood, disappointment, and the defining traits of Generation X.
Ridge tries to keep things on track, but soon we’re knee-deep in memories of being locked out of the house, drinking from hoses, and figuring life out the hard way.
It’s part nostalgia, part therapy session, and all Barn Philosopher chaos.
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The Barn Philosopher65 - The Quickening: Life, Time, and Toilet PaperThis episode was inspired by Shelby’s wife, who dropped some unexpected wisdom: “Life is like a roll of toilet paper—it spins faster the closer you get to the end.”
Shelby’s been feeling that truth lately, and Ridge calls it “the quickening”—that strange acceleration of time as we get older. We talk about how this feeling shows up in everyday life, what it means to live with intention, and how to make peace with time slipping by.
It’s a thoughtful conversation about growing older, not taking things for granted, and squeezing meaning out of every spin of the roll.
Liste...2025-04-0619 min
The Barn Philosopher64 - Difficult People: Petty Victories and Problematic PeopleWe’ve all dealt with them—those people who seem to make life harder just because they can. In this episode, Ridge and Shelby swap stories about the most difficult people they’ve encountered, from stubborn coworkers to impossible customers.
Shelby even claims victory over one particularly tough case… by simply outliving them. (A win is a win, right?)
But at the end of the day, why do some people go out of their way to be a problem? And is there any way to handle them without losing your mind? Tune in as we break it down with our usual mi...2025-04-0224 min
The Barn Philosopher63 - Kids, Phones, and Remembering When Finding "Stuff" Was Hard?Kids and phones—an endless debate. Ridge and Shelby dive into the impact of smartphones on the next generation, from constant distractions to the way instant access to everything (yes, everything) changes how they grow up.
We also take a trip down memory lane, reminiscing about a time when finding certain things (ahem) required real effort—unlike today, where the internet serves it up on a silver platter.
Are kids better off, or are we raising a generation that’s too plugged in? Tune in for a conversation that’s part nostalgic, part cautionary, and as always, full of good laughs.
...2025-03-3033 min
The Barn Philosopher62 - Cheap, Good, Fast – Pick Two (And No Hassling!)In this episode of The Barn Philosopher, Ridge and Shelby break down the classic rule of project management: Cheap, Good, Fast – pick two. Want it cheap and good? It won’t be fast. Need it fast and good? It won’t be cheap. Shelby swears he and a coworker invented this saying, but Ridge has his doubts.
But Ridge isn’t stopping there—he’s adding a fourth rule: You can’t hassle the person you hired. Because if you’re already cutting corners, maybe harassing the worker isn’t the best strategy.
Join us as we rant, debate, and share real-world e...2025-03-2615 min
The Barn Philosopher61 - Grudges, Grace, and Loving Those Who Wrong Us: A Lenten ChallengeIt’s one thing to say "love thy enemy," but it’s another thing entirely when that enemy has wronged you. In this episode, Ridge and Shelby share personal stories of people who have tested their patience, their forgiveness, and their ability to take the high road.
With Lent in full swing, we’re challenging ourselves—and our listeners—to wrestle with what it really means to love those who have done us wrong. Can we let go of grudges? Should we? And does forgiveness mean we have to forget?
Join us for an honest, sometimes painful, and (of course) slightly s...2025-03-2312 min
The Barn Philosopher57 - The Cross and Courage: Who Has Been Rewarded for Ultimate Sacrifice?Welcome to one of the first recordings of The Barn philosopher.
People have given their lives for all kinds of reasons—some noble, some questionable, and some downright strange. So when we talk about Jesus’ crucifixion, was it an act of ultimate courage, or was it simply inevitable?
In this episode, Shelby quickly regrets his thoughts as The Barn Philosophers dive into the idea of sacrifice, comparing Jesus’ death to others throughout history who have died for far less.
It’s a conversation about faith, courage, and what it truly means to give up everything. Join us as we question, debate...2025-03-0930 min
The Barn Philosopher55 - Lent: Misery Loves Company (and a Side of Fish)Lent is here, and for some of us, that means fasting, sacrifice, and… eating fish.
Shelby doesn’t do much for Lent besides reluctantly suffering through fish dinners. Ridge, on the other hand, takes it a step further with fasting—though he once gave up drinking for Lent and tried to cash in on the “Sunday loophole” by telling his wife he was going to drink all day.
But beyond the food and fun, there’s something to be said about penance. Maybe there’s a reason suffering—even in small ways—makes us feel better about ourselves. Maybe discipline, sacrifice, and a l...2025-03-0225 min
The Barn Philosopher54 - Hey Man, Are You Okay? A Challenge for Every GuyIn this episode, we’re throwing out a challenge: Ask your guy friends if they’re okay.
Men aren’t always great at talking about their feelings. We’ll joke about sports, cars, or the latest nonsense, but when it comes to the real stuff—stress, struggles, or just life in general—we tend to keep quiet.
And maybe that’s because the world is changing. Historically, men had clear roles—provider, protector, leader—but today, those expectations aren’t as defined. Modern life has shifted what it means to be a man, and a lot of guys are left wondering where they...2025-02-2627 min
The Barn Philosopher53 - Media interests of The Barn Philosophers: From Frazier to Y’s…This Sunday on The Barn Philosopher we dive into what’s been keeping us entertained—whether it’s worth our time or just a distraction.
Shelby doesn’t read anything but blueprints, but he’s been binging Frasier in a noble (or misguided) attempt to make himself smarter. Meanwhile, Ridge is deep into an impossibly difficult book and playing some truly bizarre Japanese games.
From classic TV to challenging reads and the weirdest corners of gaming, we break it all down with plenty of laughs along the way. Join us for unfiltered takes on the media we’re consuming—whether it’s highbrow...2025-02-2315 min
The Barn Philosopher52 - First World Problems: Picky Eaters and a Lost EpisodeWelcome back to The Barn Philosopher. In this episode, Ridge and Shelby tackle a classic first-world problem—picky eaters. Specifically, kids who turn their noses up at perfectly good food. Ridge shares the struggles of parenting kids who refuse normal meals, sometimes choosing to go to bed hungry instead. As two people who love food, it’s tough to watch!
But there’s more to this episode than just food talk. This is actually a re-record because Shelby... well, let’s just say he had a little too much fun the first time and doesn’t remember a thing. He’s very sorry...2025-02-191h 05
The Barn Philosopher51 - Baby Shower or Beer Fest? The Diaper Party LoopholeThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into a topic that many guys secretly (or not so secretly) dread—being roped into “girl events.” From baby showers that go beyond the first kid to the rise of diaper parties (aka an excuse for guys to grill and drink) and the ever-growing spectacle of gender reveals, the hosts unpack the social expectations placed on men when it comes to these gatherings.
Shelby isn’t thrilled about attending, even when the invite comes with good intentions. Ridge tries to make sense of it all, questioning whether these events are about th...2025-02-1616 min
The Barn Philosopher50 - Snack to the Future: A 50th Episode Chip-Tasting AdventureThis week on The Barn Philosopher, we celebrate a major milestone—our 50th episode! And what better way to mark the occasion than with something near and dear to our hearts: potato chips. Ridge and Shelby go all in on a blind taste test of eight different ridged, unflavored potato chips, comparing national and local brands to determine the ultimate crunchy champion.
Along the way, they share their favorite chip flavors, debate the best non-chip salty snacks, and, of course, have plenty of strong opinions on the perfect crunch. Whether you’re a snack connoisseur or just here for the laug...2025-02-121h 05
The Barn Philosopher49 - Who Prefers Hot or Cold Weather? Hot Takes on Cold WeatherThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Ridge and Shelby take on the ultimate weather debate—hot vs. cold. Ridge embraces the warmth, while Shelby, a man who spends much of his time outdoors, prefers the chill. But is it really about comfort, or just what you’re used to?
They break down the perks and pitfalls of each season, from the bliss of air conditioning to the undeniable fact that winter wipes out both bugs... and, well, people. Do we adapt to the weather, or does it shape who we are?
Grab a drink (hot or iced, your choice), and sett...2025-02-0909 min
The Barn Philosopher48- Father, Son, and Holy Spirit: Who Are You Talking About?A religious episode! This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby has an interesting theological question for Ridge: Why Jesus, not God? Have you ever noticed that many modern churches focus almost exclusively on Jesus, while the name “God” seems to take a backseat? Why do some churches lean so heavily on one over the other?
The hosts dig into the shift in language and what it means for faith, tradition, and the way people connect with Christianity today. Is it just a trend, or is there something deeper at play?
Join us as we explore the balance between Jesus and God...2025-02-0528 min
The Barn Philosopher47 - Rapid-Fire Regret: Murdered Chickens, Sandwiches, and Olympic FishingThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Ridge puts Shelby in the hot seat with a rapid-fire round of short, offbeat questions—much to Shelby’s dismay. From the age-old debate of whether a hotdog is a sandwich to the dark fate of chickens, Ridge keeps the questions coming while Shelby begrudgingly plays along.
Expect a mix of laughs, frustration, and unexpected insights as the hosts tackle the weird, the random, and the oddly philosophical. Tune in to see just how long Shelby can last before calling it quits!2025-02-0220 min
The Barn Philosopher46 - Dementia: You lost the Remote... and Also 2005This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge open up about a deeply personal and challenging topic—dementia. Both hosts have seen its effects firsthand through family members, and they reflect on the heartbreaking realities of watching loved ones slip away.
Shelby shares his raw perspective, admitting he’d rather disappear into the woods than have others witness his decline. Ridge, ever the thoughtful counterbalance, offers his own take on what it means to face aging and vulnerability with dignity.
It’s a conversation about fear, loss, and the value of memories—both the ones we hold onto and the ones...2025-01-2938 min
The Barn Philosopher45 - Phubbing and Festivity: Are We Scrolling Our Lives Away?This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge unwrap a conversation that’s all too familiar in today’s world: Phubbing—the act of snubbing someone in favor of your phone.
After a bit of Christmas cheer and sharing stories from the holiday season, the hosts dive into the frustrating reality of trying to connect with loved ones who are glued to their screens. Was Christmas filled with festive joy, or was everyone too busy scrolling? Shelby and Ridge explore how technology impacts our relationships, what we’re missing when we’re not fully present, and why it’s important to...2025-01-2611 min
The Barn Philosopher44 - Why Do You Care? Because We All Should.This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into a question that’s as puzzling as it is pervasive: Why do you care? The hosts explore why people often dismiss others’ concerns as irrelevant, even when those concerns reflect a desire to look out for society as a whole.
From debates about societal responsibility to the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways men’s opinions are disregarded in certain conversations, this episode gets into the heart of why caring is more than just a personal matter—it’s a cornerstone of community.
Join us as we discuss what it means to genuine...2025-01-2229 min
The Barn Philosopher43 - From Stoic to Soulful: Shelby’s Emotional Confession ExperienceThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby steps out of his comfort zone and into the confessional—an experience that catches even this typically stoic man off guard. As emotions rise and the weight of the moment sets in, Shelby finds him with a story of his confession failure, leaving Ridge both surprised and intrigued.
In this heartfelt episode, Ridge takes on the role of spiritual guide, offering perspective, support, and a little wisdom from his own faith journey. Together, the hosts discuss the vulnerability of confession, the importance of humility, and the unexpected ways faith can challenge even the to...2025-01-1921 min
The Barn Philosopher42 - Building the Hierarchy: What Do We Really Need In Life To Survive, Live and Thrive.This week on The Barn Philosopher, we dive into Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs in a shorter-than-usual, but not a Sunday Short, episode. Shelby brings his knowledge to the table, while Ridge learns the ins and outs of this iconic psychological theory for the first time.
From basic needs like food and shelter to the lofty pursuit of self-actualization, the hosts discuss how Maslow’s pyramid shapes our lives—even if we don’t realize it. Along the way, they explore where they fit on the hierarchy and share relatable (and sometimes humorous) takes on climbing the pyramid.
Whether you’re a psych...2025-01-1524 min
The Barn Philosopher41 - Crystal Ball Chronicles: What 2025 Might BringThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge look ahead to the future with their 2025 predictions. From bold technological advancements to cultural shifts and unexpected curveballs, the hosts dive into what they think the next year might bring.
Will housing prices come down? Will the new administration help end the wars abroad? With a mix of humor, insight, and just a touch of speculation, Shelby and Ridge tackle the big (and not-so-big) questions about what’s next.
Grab your crystal ball—or your favorite drink—and join us for a thoughtful and entertaining look into the possibilities of 2025!2025-01-1222 min
The Barn Philosopher40 - China in the USA? A Chat About "Buying America"This week on The Barn Philosopher, Ridge flips the script and interviews Shelby about his book, Buying America. In this thought-provoking episode, they dive into the book's themes, exploring the provocative idea of China’s influence in the U.S. and what that could mean for the future.
Careful not to spoil too much, the conversation teases just enough to pique your curiosity while giving listeners a glimpse into Shelby's creative process and motivations. Ridge even gets Shelby to admit a shocking confession—he’s only willingly read a handful of books in his entire life!
Join us for an engagi...2025-01-0825 min
The Barn Philosopher39 - From Nerdy Joy to Holiday Rivalry: Christmas ReflectionsThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into the joy, excitement, and occasional surprises of giving and receiving Christmas gifts. Shelby thought he had the perfect plan to win Christmas with his wife, only to discover she had outdone herself with thoughtful gifts for him. Meanwhile, Ridge reflects on a low-key but meaningful Christmas, embracing his nerdy gifts and the simplicity of the season.
The hosts discuss the art of gift-giving, the thrill of being surprised, and why it’s the thought and effort behind a gift that truly matter. Whether you’re a gift-planning mastermind or just...2025-01-0513 min
The Barn Philosopher38 - House Rules: Balancing Politeness, Presence, and Necessary RudenessThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into the sacred (and occasionally broken) laws of the home. From “No phones at the table” to the philosophical debate of when it’s actually necessary to be rude, they share their personal house rules and the life lessons that inspired them.
What does it mean to be present in a world full of distractions? How do you navigate the balance between enforcing rules and living by the mantra “You only live once”? Join the hosts as they reflect on the quirky, meaningful, and sometimes hilarious guidelines that shape how they live...2025-01-0157 min
The Barn Philosopher37 - Is Anybody Out There? Family, Friends, and FeedbackYour revision is excellent! It’s engaging, flows well, and captures the tone of curiosity and humor that fits the theme of the episode. Here’s a slightly polished version for added clarity and punch:
This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge get introspective as they tackle a surprisingly awkward question: do our family and friends even know we have a podcast? And if they do, are they actually listening?
The hosts dive into the funny, sometimes uncomfortable intersection of personal passions and close relationships. From discovering who’s been secretly tuning in to navigating the vulnerability of sharin...2024-12-2913 min
The Barn Philosopher36 - Season’s Eatings: The Ultimate Wing Taste TestThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge spice things up at their company Christmas party with the ultimate wing showdown! In the middle of the festive fun, they dive into a taste test featuring wings from a national chain, a regional favorite, and a beloved local spot.
It’s not just about the holiday cheer—it’s about the flavor, the sauce, the crunch, and settling the debate on who delivers the best wings. Amid the jingle bells and party vibes, the hosts share their thoughts, wing-eating strategies, and a few hilarious party antics along the way.
We’re excit...2024-12-251h 03
The Barn Philosopher35 - Unwrapping Nostalgia: Our Favorite Christmas PresentsWelcome to The Barn Philosopher! As the holiday season wraps us in its warmth and cheer, we want to wish you all a joyful and meaningful time, no matter what traditions you celebrate. Whether you’re decking the halls, lighting candles, or just enjoying a little extra time with loved ones, we’re glad you’re spending some of your season with us. Let’s dive into the spirit of the holidays together!
This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge take a trip down memory lane to reminisce about their favorite Christmas presents of all time. From the thrill o...2024-12-2210 min
The Barn Philosopher34 - What Do You Have to Offer, Besides Neediness?This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge tackle a timeless question: What do you have to offer? From people who only show up when they need something to those who take others for granted, the hosts dive into the give-and-take of relationships and why it’s important to bring something to the table.
Why do some people always expect help but never return the favor? What happens when appreciation is nowhere to be found? With their usual mix of humor and hard truths, Shelby and Ridge explore the value of reciprocity, setting boundaries, and recognizing the people who tr...2024-12-1832 min
The Barn Philosopher33 - Happy Wife, Happy Life? What about us !?!This week’s short on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge step into the role of amateur marriage counselors (emphasis on “amateur”) as they share advice for husbands. Drawing from their own experiences, lessons learned, and maybe a few mistakes along the way, they offer practical tips and humorous insights on what’s helped them navigate their marriages.
From communication hacks to the art of saying “yes, dear,” Shelby and Ridge keep it real with plenty of laughs and heartfelt moments. Whether you’re a newlywed, a seasoned husband, or just here for the fun, this episode has something for everyone. Tune...2024-12-1515 min
The Barn Philosopher32 - Pitchforks and Politics: These country bumpkins go political.This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge don their country hats to tackle some harsh stereotypes about life in rural America. Are country folks really as clueless as some critics claim, or is there more to the story? The hosts explore the narrative of "country bumpkins" voting for politicians who may not have their best interests at heart, questioning the assumptions and misunderstandings that fuel these critiques.
With their signature blend of humor and thoughtfulness, Shelby and Ridge dive into the complexities of rural life, political choices, and why it’s not as simple as it seems. Whether yo...2024-12-1128 min
The Barn Philosopher31 - The Jungle Jim’s Experience: The Good, the Great, and the Grocery FaintOn this week’s short, Shelby and Ridge embark on a wild adventure through Jungle Jim’s International Market in Cincinnati, Ohio—a grocery store so outrageous, it’s practically a theme park. From canned squid to ant cheese and an unexpectedly impressive tobacco selection, no corner of this culinary wonderland is left unexplored.
The trip takes an unexpected twist when Shelby, overwhelmed by the sheer spectacle (or perhaps the squid), passes out mid-conversation. Don’t worry—he’s fine! Ridge steps up to keep the laughter and analysis going in this one-of-a-kind foodie escapade.
Join us for a hilariously chaotic episod...2024-12-0819 min
The Barn Philosopher30 - Relaxing? Not so Relaxing: How to Fail at Chill time, like Shelby and Ridge.This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge tackle the elusive art of relaxation—or, more accurately, their complete inability to master it. From the never-ending to-do lists to the guilt of “wasting time,” the hosts explore why kicking back feels more stressful than productive.
Is it possible to truly relax when life’s demands are always looming? Can Shelby and Ridge learn to embrace downtime, or will they just turn relaxation into another task? Join the conversation as they share their struggles, swap strategies, and even laugh at their own hyperactive minds.
If you’ve ever found yourself stressing...2024-12-0447 min
The Barn Philosopher29 - Sweatpants and Crocs: Sloppy Chic or Casual Revolution?This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge tackle an age-old question: have we all given up on looking decent in public? From Shelby’s unapologetic love of Crocs to Ridge’s sweatpants habit, the hosts reflect on their own fashion choices (or lack thereof) while arguing that the world might be just a little too comfortable.
Are sweatpants in public a sign of cultural decline, or are they just practical? Can Ridge convince Shelby to ditch his Crocs for something “presentable”? Join the conversation as the duo debates dressing for success, the power of first impressions, and whether we owe t...2024-12-0115 min
The Barn Philosopher28 - The Seven Deadly Sins: A Virtuous Crash Course into vises.This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into the fascinating (and slightly scandalous) world of the Seven Deadly Sins. From Pride to Wrath, they explore what these infamous vices are all about, why they’ve captured humanity’s imagination for centuries, and how they might show up in everyday life.
Are these sins as deadly as they sound, or are they just part of being human? Shelby and Ridge bring their unique blend of humor and curiosity to the table, sharing insights, stories, and maybe even confessing a sin or two.
Whether you’re a curious philosopher or jus...2024-11-2759 min
The Barn Philosopher27 - A Short Swim in Gravy: A Thanksgiving PhilosophyIn this Sunday Short, Ridge and Shelby sit down to dish on all things Thanksgiving. From their favorite holiday foods to the time Shelby suffered through a very questionable oyster dressing, this episode is stuffed with hilarious stories, strong opinions, and a little culinary chaos.
Will Shelby finally defend his controversial stance on canned cranberry sauce? Can Ridge convince anyone that green bean casserole is a top-tier dish? And is swimming in gravy okay?
Join us for an exploration of Thanksgiving traditions, food fails, and why this holiday might just be the ultimate feast for thought. Grab a plate (and...2024-11-2420 min
The Barn Philosopher26 - Big Questions, Little Snacks, and Plenty of LaughsThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into life’s big questions—really big questions. Whose music would tell your story? Does bacon secretly start with a “P”? And most importantly, why would Ridge blind-side his buddy Shelby?
With Shelby a few drinks deep and aggressively devouring cheese, and Ridge doing his best to keep things on track, this episode blends deep thoughts with delightful nonsense. Expect random tangents, surprising insights, and the occasional moment of clarity.
Grab a snack, pour a drink, and join us for a hilariously chaotic journey through life’s most perplexing (and ridiculous...2024-11-2029 min
The Barn Philosopher25 - Returning Shopping Carts: The Ultimate Morality TestSunday Short time! This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge tackle the ultimate question of civilization: Why won’t people return their shopping carts? Is it laziness, rebellion, or a symptom of deeper societal decay? Join the guys as they explore the psychology of the “cart leaver,” share hilariously petty parking lot stories, and debate whether the shopping cart is truly humanity’s most underrated moral test.
From rogue carts smashing cars to the heroes who actually walk the extra 20 feet, Shelby and Ridge leave no cart unchecked in this fun and surprisingly philosophical episode. Tune in, laugh along, a...2024-11-1715 min
The Barn Philosopher24 - Hobbies Apart, Hearts Together: The Marriage Balancing ActThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into the surprisingly controversial world of spouses with separate hobbies. Why do some people think it’s strange for couples to enjoy different things? Is there really such a thing as “too much alone time,” or is it the secret to staying happily hitched? Shelby and Ridge swap stories, share some questionable advice, and break down the pros and cons of solo hobbies—from music, parenting, grandparenting, and all the way to leave me alone.
Join us for a lively chat about the joys (and occasional perils) of independence in marriage...2024-11-1332 min
The Barn Philosopher23 - Sunday Short: A bathroom debate. Taking a Stand on Sitting Down.Welcome to another Sunday Short. This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into one of life’s great debates: should men pee standing up or sitting down? Get ready for a (surprisingly thoughtful) conversation as they tackle the pros, cons, and surprising nuances of both approaches. From debates about bathroom etiquette to hilarious personal stories, Shelby and Ridge leave no stone—or seat—unturned.
Join the guys as they overanalyze, question societal norms, and maybe even spark a bathroom revolution. It’s an episode full of laughs, unexpected insights, and maybe a few too many puns. So sit back...2024-11-1015 min
The Barn Philosopher22 - Gandhi or Gladiator? Understanding Your Argument StyleDo you argue to win, or are you just trying to survive the conversation? This week on The Barn Philosopher, Shelby and Ridge dive into the fine art of argument styles—because let’s face it, everyone’s got one. Whether it’s the “broken man,” the “fight to win,” or the “debater,” your hosts break down the tactics we all use and misuse when things get heated.
Get ready for some laughs as Shelby reveals his Gandhi like passivism, while Ridge explains his evolving argument style. From playful disagreements to full-blown standoffs, they’ll explore how arguing can be both ridiculous and re...2024-11-0640 min
The Barn Philosopher21 - Bee-lieve It or Not: A Short and Fun-Gi Guide to Foraging.Ever wonder what’s edible out there in the Ohio wilderness? Well, so do Shelby and Ridge! In this week’s episode of The Barn Philosopher, they dive into the mysterious (and possibly tasty) world of Ohio foraging. With zero guarantees on identifying the right mushrooms, these two non-experts grab a basket, hit the trail, and share their foraging finds – whether or not they’re actually supposed to be eaten.
Expect plenty of laughs, questionable discoveries, and the duo’s attempts at convincing each other that “this one is totally safe!” If you’ve ever thought about foraging or just want to join two...2024-11-0321 min
The Barn Philosopher20 - Q & A. Questions from the haystack.Welcome to The Barn Philosopher! In this episode, “Q&A,” hosts Shelby and Ridge are ready to tackle intriguing questions with their signature blend of humor and wisdom. From the mysteries of the universe to the quirks of life, nothing is off-limits! Join us as we explore the big ideas that shape our lives—while having a blast along the way. Whether you’re milking cows or simply milking life for all it’s worth, you’ll find something to ponder in this lively chat. So saddle up and let’s get philosophizing!2024-10-3043 min
The Barn Philosopher19 - Boo or Boo-Hoo: The Haunting Truth Behind What Goes Bump in the Night! A Sunday Short.Sunday Short time! Welcome to 'The Barn Philosopher,' where deep thoughts meet dusty straw bales! I’m Shelby, and joining me is my co-corn husker, Ridge. Today, we’re diving into the question that’s kept folks awake for centuries: Boo or Boo-Hoo? We’ll explore the haunting truth behind what goes bump in the night. Is it a ghostly apparition or just a raccoon in the rafters? Let’s get our philosopher hats on and uncover the spooky secrets of the dark!2024-10-2716 min
The Barn Philosopher18 - From fears to dreams. What are you so afraid of?What are your greatest fears? Do you still dream? Is it reasonable to fear alien invasion?
Join us, as a simple question of fears, turns into an odd revelation of lucid dreaming, helping the world, and murder. Have a drink and a pipe with Ridge and Shelby as they dive into their fears and dreams.
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The Barn Philosopher17 - Sober October. Sunday Short.Join Ridge and Shelby as they discuss drinking habits and the one month a year someone avoids them. Let us know if you take part in this annual ritual and what your experiences are. thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com2024-10-2012 min
The Barn Philosopher16 - Opposite Sex Relationships. Have we pushed the limits? Well, Shelby definitely has!Have you ever drank something you know you shouldn’t have? Well, this episode we do just that. It’s a special beer starter, with regrets, that keeps on giving. Welcome back to the barn. In this episode, Ridge and Shelby talk about their experiences with relationships with the opposite sex and one inappropriate relationship with someone of the same. We would love to hear your stories of the good and bad that confront you every day. Also, would you have drunk the beer? thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com2024-10-191h 08
The Barn PhilosopherOpposite Sex Relationships. Did we push the limits? Yes, yes we did.Have you ever drank something you know you shouldn’t have? Well, this episode we do just that. It’s a special beer starter, with regrets, that keeps on giving. Welcome back to the barn. In this episode, Ridge and Shelby talk about their experiences with relationships with the opposite sex and one inappropriate relationship with someone of the same. We would love to hear your stories of the good and bad that confront you every day. Also, would you have drunk the beer? thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com2024-10-191h 08
The Barn Philosopher15 - What's wrong with volleyball shorts?Time for a Sunday Short, about short dresses and shorter shorts. Join Shelby and Ridge as they try not to be offensive or creepy as they cover this topic of high fashion. A topic first introduced by Shelby’s wife, when she plainly stated, “What happened to volleyball shorts?” From the court to homecoming, what happened to clothing? Someone is saving a bundle on fabric costs. Thanks for joining us once again.2024-10-1318 min
The Barn Philosopher14 - AI Overlords. Everything will be fine, until the robots come.We would like to welcome our AI overlords to the barn. Too soon? Maybe a few more years before we’re there. Join Ridge and Shelby as they explore their experiences with AI. Shelby is confident the changes in technology won’t be swinging hammers anytime soon, at least not in what’s left in his lifetime. Ridge isn’t so confident about the changes coming to his industry. Will the changes in our technology affect you? Good or bad, we all are seeing it everywhere, from advertisements to assisted tools on all our electronics. Whatever happens, we’re happy to be in t...2024-10-0956 min
The Barn Philosopher13 - Halloween Hobo. A Sunday ShortLets go on an adventure with a helpful hobo! Welcome back to The Boo-arn Philosopher. Join Shelby and Ridge as they talk about their favorite Halloween costumes growing up. In a time before pop up Halloween stores, how did we all survive? We're talking full sized candy bars and the candy that almost made Shelby quit the show. What was your favorite costume? Drop us a line, thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com2024-10-0610 min
The Barn Philosopher12 - You Can Never Go Home; Things aren't the same, and neither are you.Join Ridge and Shelby in the barn as they unpack what it means to go home. An episode of reminiscence, of a time that we can’t return to. We hope everyone has wonderful memories of their formative years, so good that they want to share them with others. Unfortunately, it rarely feels the way we remembered those times. Even if you can go back to those places that made significant memories, they are rarely the same, and neither are we. We can make the best out of what we have to work with. Share your stories of the experiences yo...2024-10-0241 min
The Barn PhilosopherYou Can Never Go Home. Things aren't the same, and neither are we.Join Ridge and Shelby in the barn as they unpack what it means to go home. An episode of reminiscence, of a time that we can’t return to. We hope everyone has wonderful memories of their formative years, so good that they want to share them with others. Unfortunately, it rarely feels the way we remembered those times. Even if you can go back to those places that made significant memories, they are rarely the same, and neither are we. We can make the best out of what we have to work with. Share your stories of the experiences yo...2024-10-0242 min
The Barn Philosopher11 - Quotes from the best selling book of all time. Yes, it's the Bible. A Sunday Short.This time in the barn, a listener’s question gets answered. What are the Philosopher’s favorite Bible quotes? Thinking this would be a good time to involve their better halves, they ask the wives their favorite quotes as well. It would seem that the wives may have better senses of humor than the Philosophers... And Shelby might need to watch his steps. Come on in, have a seat and join us for a Sunday Short. Feel free to send us an email with your questions, comments or concerns, at thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com. We do our best to keep up, but...2024-09-2915 min
The Barn Philosopher10 - The World Needs to Nap.Shelby and Ridge talk about one of Shelby’s passions, napping. Unfortunately, not everyone gets to nap, but if we could find some time to kick back and relax, maybe people wouldn’t feel the need to, as Ridge so eloquently put it, “Strangle someone.” Having sleeping issues seems so common, we have feel for you. We hope you enjoy the show, and don’t forget to share your stories with us. We’d love to hear them and possibly put them in the show. Drop us a line, thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com2024-09-2540 min
The Barn Philosopher9 - Fatherly and Grandfatherly Advice. A Sunday Short.Join Ridge and Shelby in the barn for a Sunday Short, as they give a glimpse into their lives as fathers. Is it okay to fail? Absolutely, we have had many failures. When you’re always winning, victory is not as sweet as when you can compare it to your failures. Do well, be well, and always support those around you. We’ll talk soon. Thanks for stopping by the barn.2024-09-2223 min
The Barn Philosopher8 - Hearing God's Voice.Join Ridge and Shelby as they explore their experiences of talking to God. Is prayer just us listening to ourselves, or a divine voice, speaking to us? Share your experiences with the hosts at thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com. As always, thanks for listening, share and like if you'd like.2024-09-1846 min
The Barn Philosopher7 - Suck. A Sunday Super Short.Chatting between recordings sparks a memory, and the Sunday Super Short is born. Join Ridge and Shelby on this quick adventure and see why they think this episode doesn’t suck.2024-09-1506 min
The Barn Philosopher6 - Pumpkin Spice, the bringer of fall. A Sunday ShortTis the season to pumpkin. Pumpkin everything it would seem. Join Shelby and Ridge as they dive down the rabbit hole of pumpkin spice and all it has to offer. Believe it or not, one of the hosts is for it and the other indifferent. Let us know what you think at thebarnphilosopher@gmail.com2024-09-1510 min
The Barn Philosopher5 - When Work and Life Collide: Balancing Careers, Calls, and ConversationsIn the barn, Shelby and Ridge dive into the challenge of balancing personal life and career to give each the best you’ve got. They discuss the importance of keeping work at work and life at home, sharing personal experiences of how they’ve both struggled and sometimes failed to make that separation. Along the way, they try some of the worst beer they've ever tasted—definitely a one-and-done situation. After that, you can’t help but wish you had a simple lager instead.2024-09-1157 min
The Barn Philosopher4 - Just Aliens: No Pipes, No WhiskyJoin Ridge Whitaker and Shelby Robinson in the barn for a late night conversation in their first Sunday Short.
Ridge has been champing at the bit to surprise Shelby with this off brand question: Do aliens exist?
Hundreds of conversations have come and gone, but this subject has surprisingly been missed. Until now, that is.
From personal stories involving little green men to instant regret of associating a boxing legend with the Roman empire, it’s sure to entertain.
No beer, whisky or pipe talk in this episode, just down to business asking the tough questions. Enjoy.2024-09-0836 min
The Barn Philosopher3 - Saints, Snoozes, and Sunday SermonsRidge and Shelby dive into the challenge of staying awake during church—no easy feat when surrounded by the soothing sounds of hymns, the glow of stained glass, and the occasional outburst from restless children. While distractions are everywhere, they reflect on the deeper purpose of the Mass and the balance between meditation and dozing off.
To keep things lively, they introduce a foamy new beer and revisit a favorite pipe tobacco, making for a relaxed and lighthearted conversation. Grab a drink, settle in, and join us for this fun take on faith, focus, and fighting off Sunday slumber.2024-09-0830 min
The Barn Philosopher2 - Beyond the Beard: What It Means to Be a ManThis week on The Barn Philosopher, Ridge and Shelby take on a topic that’s central to the modern man: masculinity. In celebration of hump day, the hosts dive into the tough questions surrounding what it means to be a man in today’s world.
Far from outdated notions of chest-beating bravado, this episode focuses on the evolving nature of masculinity—one rooted in responsibility, strength, and service to family, friends, and society. Ridge and Shelby make the case that masculinity isn’t dead; it’s just adapting to meet the needs of a changing world.
Join us for a thoughtful...2024-09-051h 47
The Barn Philosopher1 - Two Perspectives, One Mission: The Barn Philosopher BeginsWelcome to The Barn Philosopher—where we explore the challenges, triumphs, and complexities of modern masculinity.
With honest conversations and thoughtful insights, hosts Shelby and Ridge dive into the realities of relationships, faith, personal growth, and the everyday musings that shape our lives.
Through the eyes of an artist and the hands of a tradesman, they bring unique perspectives to the table—seeking common ground in their shared pursuit of wisdom, purpose, and laughter.
Join us as we navigate life’s questions with curiosity, humor, and an open mind, uncovering what it truly means to be a man in today’s ever-e...2024-09-0428 min