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ImDealingWithImDealingWithPreparing yourself to PivotWith change in any culture, trend, brand, business or relationship, each person is going to need to pivot from what is familiar to the unknown. The question lies in your ability to pivot and will you  be ready.. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2022-04-1524 minImDealingWithImDealingWithChange is Required...But will YouWhen it comes to change, many of us men have a hard time moving with the times as we get stuck and set in our ways.. All of us must remind ourselves that the only constant is change, relearning, growing and strengthening which is all forms of change in many different facets. The question is, will you go the way of the dinosaur (extinction) or will you learn anew, change and live? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2022-03-1814 minImDealingWithImDealingWithRestoration of a Man finalIn the last and final Installment, we discuss and open in complete transparency the restoration of family, community, fatherhood, husband-ship and most important my vertical relationship with God...I trust you have a box of tissue as this is going to be a tough one. Listen with your heart, let it sink in and allow restoration in your life to begin....   CLICK LINK  BELOW FOR FIRST INSTALLMENT...    // LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:  I post encouraging and uplifting quotes weekly  https://www.instagram.com/imdealingwith/  // NEED HELP STANDING BEFORE PEOPLE:  imdealingwith@gmail.com   // M U S I C...2021-05-2649 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Restoration of a man" Installment 3// It's a new season and we are now released to discuss my Restoration process and what it took to be completely restored as a man. It has been a long process, however "better is the end of a thing than in the beginning" Let's jump right in.. CLICK LINK  BELOW FOR FIRST INSTALLMENT... // LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: I post encouraging and uplifting quotes weekly  https://www.instagram.com/imdealingwith/ // NEED HELP STANDING BEFORE PEOPLE:  sbowdansr@gmail.com // M U S I C I use YOUTUBE Studio they hav...2021-05-1017 minImDealingWithImDealingWithRestoration of a man I Installment 2// It's a new season and we are now released to discuss my Restoration process and what it took to be completely restored as a man. It has been a long process, however "better is the end of a thing than in the beginning" CLICK LINK  BELOW FOR FIRST INSTALLMENT... // LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:  https://www.instagram.com/imdealingwith/ I post encouraging and uplifting quotes weekly   // NEED HELP STANDING BEFORE PEOPLE:  sbowdansr@gmail.com // M U S I C I us...2021-05-0624 minImDealingWithImDealingWithFinal Thoughts on Restoring TrustToday marks our final thoughts on the Rebuilding Trust series  As with all things when it comes to rebuilding anything you have to count up the cost or ask yourself is it worth it. One thing for sure is once you tackle that question the last thing would be to understand that you do not have to do it alone. Many times a second lens or vantage point is required to see clearly through the problem.   -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or wa...2021-04-2815 minImDealingWithImDealingWithTrust takes TimeWhen trying to restore trust, the next thing we mist honor and respect is "time". In some situations depending upon the person, time happens right there and now while others will take a lot longer to come to fruition. If you respect their feeling and the time needed, you are actually respecting the process. Don't force it, honor the time.... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2021-04-0909 minImDealingWithImDealingWithCommunication in trust is part 1Today we will discuss the first thing we need to do in restoring trust and it is that of communication. Without having the talk, the explanation or apology, nothing will ever return...   -ImDealingWith-  “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!!   -SUPPORT-  Feel free to support us using the support link https://anc...2021-03-2207 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Bringing back the TRUST"Bringing back the TRUST- Today we quickly discuss How to bring back the trust in personal, professional and confidential relationships. However, in order to bring back trust, we must first answer the question, "What is trust?" Rebuilding trust: How do we do it? Where do we start? Is it necessary? What is required of me? How do I deal with someone who does not want to participate? First what is TRUST? You feel committed to the relationship of your...2021-03-1811 minImDealingWithImDealingWithA Collab w/Lynne of SOARTopicsImDealingWith meets SOARTopics- Today, we meet up with Lynne Butler CEO of LynneandCompany in the Moreno Valley area. We discuss Loneliness, Abandonment, Rejection, Resentment and Letting Go....wow you don't want to miss out on this exciting woman who has been through a lot, yet God is good... @Lynneandcompany.org   I  Podcast: SOARTopics -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! -SUPPORT- Feel free to support...2021-02-2645 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Release Installment 1"Welcome to Season 3  "The Release Installment 1" Today, Anna hosts and interviews the IDW host and founder Shon Bowdan. In this first segment there are questions that open to discover who, what, when, where and why Imdealingwith has launched for men.  Listen in as Shon explains himself in this first interview process.. -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on…...2021-02-0530 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Lost Away and at Home"Welcome to Season 3  "Lost Away and at Home" Today with co-host Joshua Williams, we finish the discussion of the series Lost sheep, lost coin and today "Lost Son". Sometimes it is not only the folk or things away from us that become lost, in some instances you'll find that people, family, friends, pastors, mothers, fathers, sisters and brothers can be lost right at home... -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive thr...2021-01-151h 08ImDealingWithImDealingWith"I Need all my Coins" with JoshWelcome to Season 3 "The Release", Today we sit down with co-host Joshua Williams as we discuss Part 2 of 3 "The Lost Coin". We know many have lost or are in the process of losing their coins or coin as it pertains to money. However, have you stopped to think about the other potential coins like, peace, love, family, opportunity and goodliness that may have been lost. Today we talk about it.. -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we di...2021-01-0838 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"My Sheep are Lost" w/JoshWelcome to Season 3 "The Release", Today we sit down with co-host Joshua Williams as we discuss Part 1 of 3 "The Lost Sheep". We have all lost what one may be considered as sheep just this year alone during the pandemic. Whatever may be considered as sheep to you that may have been lost, may this episode comfort and minister to your soul. -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men de...2020-12-3141 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Ending Season 2 w/ Justice and Trey"In today's last installment of Season 2, we sit down with co-hosts "Justice and Trey" and go over some interesting ,random and sometimes controversial topics to get their insight from a 20 something year old perspective. As we close out season 2, stay tuned for Season 3 as it will be entitled, "The Release". I hope and trust you will stay in anticipation awaiting the first episode of "The Release", till then be blessed.... -ImDealingWith- “This is ImDealingWith, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive th...2020-11-271h 11ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Is the Juice worth the Squeeze?"Every man will develop or have the propensity to wake up one morning, look at himself in the mirror and ask,  "Is this juice worth the squeeze?" And if you haven't done it yet, you will.. -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! -SUPPORT- Feel free to support us us...2020-11-2121 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Pause, Stop, Think, Speak"In today's segment we discuss "Pause, Stop, Think then Speak"..How many times have you dealt with someone who doesn't quite understand and hear you before they began to speak or respond to your statement? The reason is we fail to listen and take in what is being said or don't have the appropriate info before speaking. Let us take the time to pause, stop, thing then speak.... -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we...2020-11-1714 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"I'm Incomplete"In today's segment we discuss "Incomplete"..  Many times in every one of our lives we find or discover areas of incompleteness. Let's not get it twisted as to say these areas don't bother, hinder or stop one from discovering their intended purpose, because in many cases it does. Will you use these areas as a teaching moment for the better, or stay half empty? -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men...2020-11-1320 minImDealingWithImDealingWithMen in PositionIn today's segment we discuss "Men in Position".. How often do we find ourselves awaiting for things to happen for us only to realize maybe we as men are out of position. Today we look at it from a different perspective...Gods way.. -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! -S...2020-11-0940 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Ability Motivation Attitude"In today's segment we discuss "Ability, Motivation and Attitude" where we must understand that all these qualities talk to each other and lean on the next to accomplish any given task, goal or have any measure of success. -ImDealingWith- “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! -SUPPORT- Feel free to supp...2020-11-0729 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Vessel of Honor"//In todays segment we discuss "The Vessel of Honor" and the reason why many of us have become so disposable.  Just as the Solo cup is thrown away after use, many times this happens in our everyday lives and it becomes a bit much for us to handle. How can we go from the Solo cup like experience to that of valuable china where we are washed and returned to the cabinet? //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or wat...2020-11-0322 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Blessing of 182"//In today's segment we will discuss the crash of the 1978 PSA flight 182 and the reason I am still alive today. When you are supposed to be somewhere and are interrupted, don’t get upset and or complain, because you could be saved from what could have been. //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! 2020-10-2624 minImDealingWithImDealingWithFailure to Purpose//In today's segment we will discus the reason as to why failing at something is inevitable when finding your purpose in life. Failures come not to sidestep or deter you but to move you in the right direction as per J.K Rowling states.. “It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default.” //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance f...2020-10-2433 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Out of Control"//In this episode we discuss the mysteries of the things that cause us men to be Out of Control….During this time I share one of my less controlling moments dealing with a relationship where I was used and mistreated. One thing however to note is the fact that previous seeds were sown from the past and how soon we forget from whence we’ve sowed to complain now…. //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we m...2020-10-2047 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Mixed Illusions"//In this episode today we discuss the decisions and choices that are made we have yet to learn from. Every decision, choice, speech and intreatment has a way of having a backside causing you to become very mixed up and form illusions that are not even real or possible. I discuss an issue that haunted me for many years due to a previous decision I made years earlier. //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive thr...2020-10-1752 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Too Good to Lose"// Today we discuss the problems men have when confidence is disguised as arrogance causing themselves to discount others creativity, belief systems, balance, talents and or way of thinking. Anytime we believe no one is better than us, the outcome sometimes can turn what was confidence into chaos and loss. Are you too good or just confident? //ImDealingWith “This is ImDealingWith, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold...2020-10-1343 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Doing It MY Way"//In this episode we discuss- The experiences as a young boy taking my training wheels off too early and how it correlates to our current daily life decisions. Are you taking the wheels off too early, cancelling processes or taking shortcuts? Let’s dive in to see what we have learned and are still learning. //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hol...2020-10-0938 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"10 Ways to Bring YOU back"//In this episode we discuss 10 ways to bring back your self esteem and self worth. Without doing the following things in your life, you will crumble, wither away and eventually give up on your promise. To each man, YOU have a purpose in your being here, let’s make that reality possible... //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! //S...2020-10-0542 minImDealingWithImDealingWith10 Ways to Kill Self Esteem//In this episode we discuss 10 ways that men kill their own self esteem causing it to effect our self worth as men. Never let any of these 10 things effect your esteem and or self worth. Tackle these items that affect you so you can be infectious to others in the right way. //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! //S...2020-10-0247 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Your NOT Invincible Get Help"//In this Episode Today we talk about the idea of men thinking they are invincible and have everything under control, yet they have a knack of forgetting  or caring less about the things that should be addressed. When we as men do not fix, get help or research some of the feelings and actions that happen to us, don't complain with the outcome. Get Help!! //ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through disc...2020-09-2848 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"What Men Must Address"//Episode  Many men have a  lot of things together in their life, but we as men sometimes skimp over what seems to be something small and later turns out to be a silent killer. Let's discuss a few of the categories that men need to take care of.    //ImDealingWith  “This is ImDealingWith, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!!    ...2020-09-2639 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"When Should I let Go?"//This Episode In todays episode we discuss the issues that men have with letting go of their children, teenagers or young adults as it were. When is it a good time to let go, cut the umbilical cord and say you got it now, or is there ever a good time to do that? In life, there are many reasons that cause we as men to move on and allow our children to grow and blossom. My question to you is, what prompted it, how did you feel doing it and what has been the outcome since...2020-09-2243 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"It Takes Courage"//ImDealingWith “This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! //This Episode Today we discuss having the courage to navigate this great place we call life in the climate that all men must live through. It takes every ounce of our innermost being to make sure we thrive, stay encouraged, motivated and humbled as someone is relying on us m...2020-09-1917 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Where are the Fathers?"//ImDealingWith This is ImDealingWith, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! //This episode In this episode we discuss the ramifications that happen when we men do not step up to the plate and be responsible for the children we have brought into this world. Where are they? we ask, as we dive deep into the reality that is fatherhood regardless of age, we want...2020-09-1519 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"I'm Stressed Out"In today's episode we talk about what many would say men don't go through in which we really do.  The subject today deals with STRESS and because of this word stress, we begin to acquire many physical and mental attacks all the time. Stress is not something we want to put on our plates, nor entertain them especially more so as you get older....Let's dive right in to the matter.. “Maybe today's topic / discussion has helped or inspired you, please feel free to comment, like, add a thumbs up and subscribe if you are get...2020-09-1131 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"I'm Feeling Lost"In today's topic we discuss the feeling of being lost. Not because we want to, but however this is where we have found ourselves in the midst of life happening we see ourselves as lost. What do you do or how will you respond when your mind says your lost, body says your lost and maybe the love life where you are says lost? Today we tackle being lost....... “Maybe today's topic / discussion has helped or inspired you, please feel free to comment, like, add a thumbs up and subscribe if you are getting meaningful value from th...2020-09-0837 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"The stick and the stutter"In this latest episode we discuss how as a man, there can be previous hurts of abandonment, murder, bad decisions and choices in which some of these choices were made for us. What do you do  when some decisions are made prior to you ever being born affect you you so much so, that we now have try to overcome and live through. We men have many choices that make us or break us with many of which shape our thinking. As with so many men we think our problems have such a foothold, that we can o...2020-09-0551 minImDealingWithImDealingWithEncourage Me Please“This is Im Dealing With, I am Shon your host .. I thank you in advance for listening and or watching as we dive through discussions that we men deal with on a daily basis. Strap in and hold on….here we go!!!! In today's topic we discuss the struggles men deal with when it comes to encouragement from other men. No other person on earth understands what a man thinks and truly feels about himself  than another man. One thing we have in common is our thought processes and the way we think. It is advantageous for all men...2020-09-0131 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"When your legs are takin out"“Hello good people, thank you and welcome to (Im Dealing With) The medium that caters to men and the women that love us  (I am Shon) Let's dive right in”   What happens when you think all basis are covered then lightning strikes? Do you run for cover, hide tail, put your head in the sand or deal with the problem head on? In this episode we discuss issues that cause our legs to go out from under us. Please understand how you respond is important to the future of your existence. Feel free to sup...2020-08-2819 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Garden of your Life"They say life is a series of choices and decisions.... You have the right to choose the direction, patterns, relationships ect that are going to be a part of your life and who you are going to influence or be influenced by. With all these choice you also have to understand that your life and mind is like that of a garden. You can choose to grow and harness flowers, vegetables and fruit, or weeds, vultures and scavengers.... #choices #garden #flowers #weeds #decisions #grow #men #go #life “Ma...2020-08-1819 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"When is enough, enough" w/TreyIn this episode I sit with my co-host Trey and we discuss the areas of our lives as men where we contemplate the things that cause us to say "Enough is enough." #giveup #moveforward #enough #dontgiveup #discuss #men Feel free to support us using the support link https://anchor.fm/imdealingwith/support  or use the cash app:  $imdealingwith. We thank you in advanced for any support you’ve chosen to give “Maybe todays topic / discussion has helped or inspired you, please feel free to comment, like, a...2020-08-1537 minImDealingWithImDealingWithIs this Unmanly?In this episode we discuss areas where men have said they enjoy doing in some instances could be judged as unmanly....   Are there areas in your life as a man that are judged as feminine or unmanly?  We would love to hear from you in the comments below....   #Manly #Men #common #judged #life #change #happy #pleased --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-08-1138 minImDealingWithImDealingWithExpectations and RejectionWhat do you do when you have people that have expectations upon your life, how does it make you feel and in which way do you feel when this happens? We discuss the various ways of the outcomes of personal and external expectations... Furthermore, we dive into the feeling of being rejected by our peers as well as some of the people we think care about us as men. Our response to both of theses topics speaks volumes...how will you respond? #rejection #expectations #build #life #love #peers --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters...2020-08-0837 minImDealingWithImDealingWithMy Loss or GainIn this first Season 2 episode 1 we discuss loss that men experience and how to overcome that loss... What do we do, how do we handle it and what is our response to the losses in our lives..  Learn to use perspective when approaching loss and begin to change your vantage point and use loss as an opportunity to do something new... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-08-0419 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Saw and the Sword"In this episode 30 of Saw & Sword, we tackle the thought of building from the ground up using the saw to both cut (build) / cut (to tear down). This tool is important anytime you are trying to build something from the ground up or beginning a new. On the other hand of building, you also have to have a Sword for protection, offense, defense and to cut off. Why you ask? Well when building as Noah did, not everyone will appreciate the build, appreciate your grind, the height of the dream, depth of the dream and many will have to...2020-07-0630 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"To my Younger Self"In this latest episode we talk about and answer the question of, What would I tell my younger self? When you go on through life we have always made statements of if we could start over or if i could change something about my past. These are the statements and or questions we continue to deal with in our lives. yes, some things we may not change at all, however, there are some things that we would.  I dive into telling my younger self as if he is standing in front of me. If one of your t...2020-07-0459 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Not Bitter, But Better"In this episode we discuss small wins and being appreciative over the small things in life. Furthermore, we go deeper into the fact that in order to produce change, the change has to happen first within ourselves. The Only way to get out of bitter is to get Better.... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-06-3017 minImDealingWithImDealingWithNot an "I" LandIn this episode we speak about men who are going through the struggles of life with the possibility of giving up. Though there may be struggles in your life, the goal is to find the place inside yourself and lift it up. Be honest with where you are but don't be content with where you are. Life brings seasons of change to all, though it may be sunshine on some, it could be potentially be raining on others. Re-invent yourself and thrive, just make sure you understand the gap of where you are versus where you want to go. 2020-06-2732 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Me and the Boys Part 3"The last segment Part 3 of Me and the Boys When 20 somethings get a hold of a mic and begin to express their feelings about topics that matter to them and their age category. In this last installment Part#3 we discuss: Riots and the looting Relationships/Trust The perceived double standard between men and women ect... **Erich says some stuff that we cry fool on and call flag on the play…Ugh!!! (Who do you belong to again, not su...2020-06-2258 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Sizing You Up" ft BruceThe story goes, She brings home a baby snake, names him, cleans him, takes care of him and as he grows moves him to the correct size accommodations that he needs to survive. One evening, she opens her eyes out of sleep wondering why she is struggling to get air, only to find it what was once the baby wrapped around her body. she says to him, “All theses things I have done for you since you were a baby and now you want to do this to me?” He responds, “you knew i was a snake when y...2020-06-191h 16ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Me and the Boys pt2"In this episode 24, Me and the Boys continue where episode 23 left off.  We have plenty more topics to discuss in this 24th episode. The co-hosts continue as follows: Erich(my oldest), Trey(daughters boyfriend) and (my youngest son) ShonII. Talking about perspectives, there are times when we cry out foul we don't agree and then there are times and discussions where we come together to figure out a solution... Hold on, its gonna be a wild one...... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-06-151h 01ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Me and the Boys pt1"Todays show highlights co-hosts: Trey, ShonII and Erich hence Me and the boys... This is what happens when 20 somethings decide to podcast and discuss their views on life, relationships, gaming, sports, food ect... Stay tuned in and listen to these boys tackle some interesting thoughts and ideas.... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-06-121h 06ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Men and Drag 3 w/bro JB3"Ep22 When your brother stops by and has input on Networking, starting something new and business.... From a man who says he is by-vocational (Professional Associate and a Pastor), Joel Bowdan III has a few things to ad when it comes to men who drag their feet.."lets dive right in.." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-06-081h 14ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Men and Drag w/Dad"In this episode of 21,  We discuss, family, affection and commitment with my guest host/dad Joel E Bowdan II Your gonna love this take from and older man talking to his son... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-06-0549 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Men and Drag pt1 w/Cedric"You can do nine hundred and ninety nine things right, but it seems like the only thing they remember you for is the one thing you held out on, got wrong or drug your feet on... In this episode we study aspects of men who drag there feet on several topics with included guest host Cedric Bryant.... Stay tuned, more are coming...lets go.... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-06-021h 04ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Finding your Purpose""Be brave enough to live the life of your dreams according to your vision and purpose, instead of the expectations and opinions of others.” ― Roy T. Bennett What are you willing to do to find your purpose in life? Or will you settle for whatever life brings? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-301h 10ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Stand up Speak up"So you are looked in the face by someone trying to speak to you, the response given to that person should be one of mutual respect and eye contact. No other type of response says confidence then that of looking someone in the eye when speaking……What are you gonna do? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-2556 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Season of Forgiveness"Forgiving yourself and people is a must in every facet of your life. What will you do to live in peace and move on to the next level?  Or, will you continue to live in unforgiveness, regret, hurt and shame.... Dust yourself off, forgive yourself and only then can you began to forgive others. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-2346 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Self Reliance-Keep Your Council""Where there is no counsel, the people fall, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety" Starting anything begins with you...however, make sure you have the appropriate team with you or around you as you grow, because it is easy to get off track quick. "A wise man will hear and will increase learning and a man of Understanding shall attain unto wise counsel... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-1850 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Do you really want this?"“Do you really want this? Do you?……” We go through life sometimes just minding our own business only to find later, that something or someone decides to challenge you. People often times challenge your mindset, decisions, resolve and or patience. In other times it may just be the accomplishments you have made that gets challenged and you find yourself asking them the question, “Do you really want this?" --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-151h 05ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Taking the Leap"Growing something new causes you to take a leap of Faith into the unknown. When you leap, make sure it has nothing to do with wearing a cape like I did. Superheroes get hurt, injured, killed and at many times they can no longer care about intimate relationships for fear of danger to the ones they love. Wearing a cape won't make you fly, however, but love, determination, selflessness and drive will at least get you close to flying. Take the time, have patience and watch your life turn around. Don't be afraid of taking the leap....2020-05-1149 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Trial by Fire"Trials come to make us strong.... Sometimes its our fault that the fires come and in other times life just happens.... In these fires however there is something to learn in each one. Will you go through the fire complaining or will you deal with and learn from them? Two specific fires happen, one was while in bed, the other in my car, lets dive in... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-081h 04ImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Dirty PlaceIn this episode we discuss the places in our lives that have become dirty for many different reasons. The goal here is to understand that these places are not meant to be permanent places of habitation but a stop along the way. If we stay, play, build and live in the dirty places, we miss out on all the possible opportunities out there for us. Let's clean up, spruce up or in some cases move out of the dirty place.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-0413 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"A Choice and a Force"In this podcast we talk about the days of making a choice to ride away from a consequence.. Through that choice we were forced to do things we normally wouldn't do based upon character. It is in this discovery that we must realize that choices both good and bad, have a backside to  them.  Choose wisely  in everything that you do, so you are not forced to live beneath your privilege. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-05-0257 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Not A Failure"Just because something failed in your life doesn't make you a failure. Failure is a state of mind that later becomes a way of life and you cannot afford to spend your life, pitch your tent or build a house there. Failing however, is part of life and it happens to the best of us regardless of age, gender or social status. What you do and how you respond to these drops is a choice you have to  make. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/s...2020-04-2849 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"A Fathers Struggle"It's not everyday that you can have complete oversight or make decisions on everything. However in this episode, we learn that there are many decisions that effect our children both good and bad. Today we discuss the struggles that fathers have with our children, how to strengthen that bond but more  importantly staying present in their lives. What are the cons of not doing it? Listen to the story..... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-04-2556 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"Faith in Adversity"In this episode we discuss how are Faith can waiver in adverse situations in our lives. We go into for the first time Faith in God before our faith in stuff and why it is important  for us to always put God first in every area of our lives. After all relationship with him is  the beginning of trust. Without relationship there is no trust or faith.... What causes your faith to shake? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-04-201h 14ImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Build"When troubling times happen in your life, its not what you say the matters or how you feel. What matters most is your response and what you do..It is in fact only in what you do that bring you out of the circumstance or keeps you in...But while in it or going through it, help someone along the way!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-04-181h 00ImDealingWithImDealingWith"The misconception of preconceived notions"In this episode 6: We deal with the idea of what our eyes see draws us to conclusions that may or may not be true. Are you willing to take the time and invest in the people who are close to you or those of interest. It is only through communication, collaboration and communion can one truly have an accurate measurement of those they seek to have in their lives. "Be quick to listen, slow to speak"  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-04-141h 01ImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Day She Left"The She, is whoever and whatever you want your she to be. Put a name on your she and understand that there are many elements to a man that could be a she, as we men never name our stuff after a man. What have you lost? Is it time, money, patience, love, relationship, or maybe a mother, father, brother. Your she could in fact be health related or some other sort. Today I discuss the she that effected me, yet challenged me to no longer take a she for granted if one comes back. ...2020-04-1158 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Curb"Many tings in life will cause you to get sidelined, derailed and or no longer motivated. In this episode I talk about importance, distractions and your reaction to being curbed. Stay tuned, hold on and enjoy, --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-04-061h 28ImDealingWithImDealingWith"Shh Don't Tell Nobody"In this episode we take back our power and open up with complete transparency... Every man, boy or child never wants their dirt exposed due to back lash and the possibility of being mistreated. However, when you come out with your hands up, you can walk, talk and live free to try and not repeat the same things over. Experience is a great teacher, but looking at others failures and or successes shows us what to do and what not to do. Look back, learn, be transparent go through it and prepare for the next hurdle. One...2020-04-0440 minImDealingWithImDealingWith"So You're Safe Now?"In todays topic we discuss "Safety", both in the workplace and at home Safety is not just a feeling of safe but an act that needs to be seen, worked on and pushed in our everyday lives. Safety begins at home and then translated to the work environment. In the current climate of strangeness, line standing, store closings ect. It is imperative at all levels that we model and drive the safety culture to make through this tough time and beyond.  "Lets push it, drive it and model safety" FB@imdealingwith I...2020-03-311h 39ImDealingWithImDealingWith"The Discovery"When looking for help, it starts with first looking inside of yourself and being honest about who, what, where, when and why you are who you are. When you do that, you will discover some of the things that brought us to that point. The Discovery goes back to my kindergarten years where it all begin to discover me... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-03-2750 minImDealingWithImDealingWithIm Dealing With TeaserAs men we are who we are, but yet, we have issues and problems that need to be dealt with.. Coming to you soon is a medium that deals with the issues that we have and understanding that we are not alone. In order to heal we must first be honest, upfront and ready for change as I know the women and children who loves us wants the same. "Lets go through, deal with and heal together"  What are you dealing with?  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/imdealingwith/support2020-03-1600 min