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Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow
Writer's Chat Indie Authors: On Writing and Embracing Queer Erotica with Mx. Sinclair Sexsmith
Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast: Embark on a captivating journey into the world of queer writing and spicy books and stories with Ruan Willow and Mx. Sinclair Sexsmith. In this episode, these two passionate #writers share their love for #storytelling and delve into the intricate art of crafting narratives that explore #sexuality, intimacy, and #identity. Sinclair, a queer butch writer, has made significant contributions to the genre, with their work being recognized as a finalist for the Lambda Literary Award and their role as editor for the Best Lesbian Erotica series. Their dedication to amplifying #queer...
2025-01-24
1h 17
Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow
Writing the Queer Experience: Mx Sinclair Sexsmith on Kink Storytelling, Erotica, and D/s Relationships
Send us a textSeason 5, Ep 555: Writing the Queer Experience: Mx Sinclair Sexsmith on Kink Storytelling, Erotica, and D/s Relationships.Meet the author!SINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Find more of their work at sugarbutch.net. Books: Best Lesbian Erotica (affiliate links, podcast may receive commissions on sales through...
2025-01-10
1h 18
Making Magic
The Magic Yet to Come
We’ve reached the end of our Making Magic journey, but the Magic Wand is still going strong and shows no signs of stopping! In this episode, we cover creative ways people have used their Wands, chat with Vibratex about their stewardship of this industry stalwart, and offer some tips for newbies picking up a Magic Wand for the first time.Guests this episode:BDSM educator, former Kink University director, & Two Knotty Boys co-founder Danarama (he/him)Education director for Good Vibrations & Babeland Andy Duran (he/him)Spectrum Boutique CEO/founder, author, & adult content creator Zoë Ligon (she...
2024-08-08
22 min
Making Magic
Power Play
Many kinksters, fetishists, pro dommes and kinky porn creators love the Magic Wand, and in this episode we aim to figure out why. Kink experts explain how they pair the Wand with orgasm control, bondage, humiliation play, and more, giving tips on safety and technique for anyone interested in expanding their horizons.Guests this episode:Dominatrix & Kneeling Room founder Lady Pim (she/her)Sex educator, porn performer/creator, & Dildorks cohost Billy Lore (he/him)BDSM educator, former Kink University director, & Two Knotty Boys co-founder Danarama (he/him)Crash Pad Series director Ava LaPrima (she/her)Writer, kink educator...
2024-07-11
29 min
All The Filthy Details Podcast
Yoni - Episode 45
Yoni - Episode 45 of the All The Filthy Details Podcast Join us here for more exclusive quality content. www.patreon.com/Literallylovesick Includes 'Shhh... Extra Filth' Podcast, several erotic audiobooks and more. It features our special star recommendation, winning author Thomas Carver. https://www.amazon.com/stores/Thomas-Carver/author/B00QEG25TS Free Audiobooks Here - Enchantress Gift Edition cutt.ly/0wRt7BaR Literally Lovesick Mixtape - https://on.soundcloud.com/FbSb25bWCTSotnEL9 Hot Erotica to check out now... The Witch of Rosemary Lane by Elena Nix https://a.co/d/6xk6xVd The Stage Manager by Christian Pan https...
2024-05-31
1h 20
Making Magic
Making Magic Trailer
Created and hosted by Kate Sloan, Making Magic: How Magic Wand Became the World's Most Famous Vibrator is a limited series featuring interviews with over 30 sex experts, sex educators, shop owners as well as fans of the brand, including Dr. Carol Queen, Zoe Ligon, Hallie Lieberman, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Lynn Comella, Danielle Bezalel, Lorrae Bradbury, Sinclair Sexsmith, Danarama, Stoya, and more. The series tells the unique story of a brand that has over the course of 55+ years, quietly challenged the stigma and shame that society has assigned to female pleasure and connects listeners to the stories of people whose...
2024-05-15
01 min
Fat Chicks on Top
Tracey Weise: Competence in Care
Guest: Dr. Tracey Weise, ARPN, Clinical Director Identity Wellness in Anchorage, Alaska Dr. Weise joins Auntie Vice to talk about what competent care for LGBTQ+ folks looks like in a medical setting. After working for six years as a forensics nurse, Tracey returned to school to get certified in mental health. She has a deep understanding of the how much trauma members of the LGBTQ+ community carry and how important it is to be competent when treating folks in this population. We chat what competence looks like (hint: it isn't just putting a rainbow flag sticker on...
2024-02-26
45 min
The Ready For Polyamory Podcast
Season 7 Episode 4: Polyamory and D/s
"Both these dynamics - D/s and polyamory - are emotional edgeplay, are like peeling a layer of your skin back, and there’s so much growth and power to be found in continuing to engage there." Writing Spicy registration closes October 5, 2023, and runs October 6 - November 19, 2023 - More information & register at - http://writingspicy.com/ On September 19, Laura is teaching Negotiation for Edgeplay at Wicked Grounds - More info and tickets here: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2023-09-19-online-bottoming-safety-201-negotiating-edgeplay-safely-as-a-bottom-or-submissive On September 26, Sinclair is leading The Vulnerable Dominant online workshop through Wi...
2023-09-15
1h 12
All That And Mo
Is That a Red Flag I see?
It's super important to discuss kink and BDSM in the context of events, safety, and boundaries. Are you interested in exploring this exciting world, but don't know where to start?On today's episode, we're going to be talking about red flags in the context of kink and BDSM. My list? 🚩1. People who suggest that limits are not important 🚩2. People who craft a persona that might not be accurate 🚩3. Rigidity of rule 🚩4. People who use a lot of protocol and titles 🚩5. People who use punishments...
2023-01-20
30 min
All That And Mo
Where She Been?
If you're a regular listener, you know that I've been absent for quite a while—with good reason! Today's episode gives you a sneak peek in where I've been, I discuss "The Woman King", and much, much more.Not set photos, but a trailer for Sycorax: https://youtu.be/dmOZqCGq1wMAnd a link with photos AND a bunch more information: https://buehnenbern.ch/spielplan/programm/sycorax/***A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria B, Susanna E G, James R P, Ka...
2022-12-16
1h 21
Fat Chicks on Top
Sinclair Sexsmith: Spicy Writing!
Guest: Sinclair Sexsmith, (author, editor, kink educator) Sinclair Sexsmith joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about erotic writing, nonbinary identity, ethics, and teaching. They discuss the ethics and guidelines they use when engaging in erotic writing. We have an extended conversation about the "Daddy" role in kink, what that means for erotic writing, and what goes into exploring darker, less obviously consensual relationships. If you are looking for a deep dive into what it takes to be a great erotic writer, this episode is for you! Socials and Websites ...
2022-10-10
59 min
All That And Mo
Hold the Phone!
Something I haven't talked about before on this podcast is how I've got quite a long-term, on again/off again relationship with phones. Some people would certainly disagree with this, but I actually really enjoyed my time in phone-centered jobs. I've worked everywhere from a sex line (with a deskmate getting busy under her desk) to working at a bank and experiencing blatant racism. Join me on this one-sided party line and hear about my history on the ol' chat box.***A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria...
2022-07-22
34 min
All That And Mo
'Til the Fat Lady Sings
Mollena and opera aren't exactly BFFs—we're more like casual acquaintences at this point. But when you get an opportunity to actually take part in an opera, you don't exactly say no!Join me in a conversation with my lovely spouse and owner about art (and the fear of putting something out there), theater vs. opera, and perfect pitch (and why I don't really understand it). ***A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria B, Susanna E G, James R P, Kathleen A, Marshall F, Elizabeth S, Jackie B, Ha...
2022-07-15
35 min
All That And Mo
Where She At?
Whoops. Here I am. ***A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria B, Susanna E G, James R P, Kathleen A, Marshall F, Elizabeth S, Jackie B, Haddayr C-W, Scott J K, Abigail P, Marty W, Meg B, JP R, aeric meredith-goujon, Sinclair Sexsmith, KillerB1973, Sara L E, The Adipositivity Project, Kathleen M, Andrea, DK Leather, Stephanie S, Michelle D, and Michael O'B.You are helping make this show possible. Get bonus content on PatreonSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/all-that-and-mo. Hosted...
2022-06-24
15 min
All That And Mo
What You Don't See
Very little gets under my skin like someone assuming they know everything about you—even though they are, in fact, not YOU. How some people think they can get in your head and tell you "no no, your feelings are wrong" will never fail to amaze me. Today I'm going to talk about social anxiety. Specifically, MY social anxiety, which may not look like the social anxiety you expect to see, but I can assure you it's real. I'll get into how I cope, why I think it's important to talk about, and why I don't my...
2022-05-27
28 min
All That And Mo
Munich Musings
How long should you be in control of your art? Should you have "final cut" on each performance, or is the performance itself a separate piece of art?Today, I discuss that and more with my lovely Spousemeister, Georg Friedrich Haas, composer extraordinaire. This came up as we were swept off to Germany—a trip which was not an instant "yes" from my dear husband (which we will get into).***A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria B, Susanna E G, James R P, Kathleen A, Marshall F, El...
2022-05-21
22 min
All That And Mo
From France with Love & Anxiété
In a quick mini-sode (a concept I lovingly ripped off from a YouTuber I watch) I discuss some tumultuous times my husband and I are enduring together, the impact of neurodivergence on a relationship, and how they might actually be your superpower.***A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria B, Susanna E G, James R P, Kathleen A, Marshall F, Elizabeth S, Jackie B, Haddayr C-W, Scott J K, Abigail P, Marty W, Meg B, JP R, aeric meredith-goujon, Sinclair Sexsmith, KillerB1973, Sara L E, The Adipositivity Project, Kathleen M, Andrea...
2022-05-13
11 min
All That And Mo
Fighting the Darkness
This week has felt particularly dark for some of us. How can it not? But through that, I want to give you a reminder that you (yes. YOU.) reading this? You are important. Not just important, you are significant. I really, truly mean that—and I hope if you don't believe that, you will someday.Also, find out about my strange week, which includes a lost passport, as well a previous story about a stranger who had seen my TikToks.***A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria B, Su...
2022-05-07
32 min
All That And Mo
Child Star
Saying I was a child star already gets me some looks and side-eyed glances. In all reality, my experiences weren't all bad—I had some absolutely insane opportunities, like meeting the likes of Diana Ross and Patti LaBelle. However, as you may expect, there's a bit of a tragic, darker side (and it may not be the one you're expecting. As a little bonus, here's my stellar, groundbreaking performance in an Orbit gum commercial circa 1977 😉***If you've always wanted to start a podcast and haven't quite gotten yours...
2022-04-22
36 min
Fat Chicks on Top
Meg Elison Hasn’t Seen Straight People in 7 Days
Guest: Meg Elison Ask Your Auntie: Tri tip, chili recipes Episode: Meg Elison, author of The Road to Nowhere series and recent Nebula winner for "The Pill", joins Auntie Vice to talk all things fat chicks. - Growing up queer and fat. - Writing futurism and sci-fi with queer and trans characters - Best Lesbian Erotica v. 6 - Needing more sex in adult novels - Dating as a bisexual and... an amazing list of suggested reading!!! If you a...
2022-04-11
52 min
American Sex
Dominant Submissive D/s Dynamics w/Sinclair Sexsmith - Ep 183
On Ep 183 of American Sex Podcast, we talk with Sinclair Sexsmith about dominance & submission. While most are aware that Dom/sub play is common in kink, we also have a very narrow view of what it entails. D/s isn’t always cruel & authoritarian. We talk about the many ways people engage in D/s & how they find strength by surrendering to powerlessness, including: The different types of D/s & selecting areas of control Building healthy dynamics “Subs hold all the power” Balancing fantasy & reality “Giving up” safe words D/s as an “intimacy fetish” Deconstructing power Guest Bio – Si...
2022-02-28
1h 28
KinkQuest.org
Episode 13 – The Protocol Game
We have been trying to play Sinclair Sexsmith’s Protocol Game for years now, and have just started to really make it work for us lately. In this episode, we talk about some of the experiments that went well, others that went… less well, and what it all means to us! If you are interested in learning more about this awesome activity, you can read all about it here and you can buy your own set of Protocol Game cards here. (No incentive for us to link to this stuff, other than wanting to see lots of peop...
2022-01-29
26 min
Queerly Recommended
Sinclair Sexsmith and the Lineage of Kisses (QR Bonus OO5)
It's that time of year again! The latest instalment of The Best Lesbian Erotica series is here, and Kris and Tara are thrilled to be joined by the collection's editor, Sinclair Sexsmith. Together, they discuss why writing queer erotica is a radical and political act, the healing potential of reading erotica that reflects your identity and desires, and the case for expanding the definition of the word "lesbian." Buckle up, friends. It's an important and enlightening conversation. If you enjoy this episode, please consider buying Kris & Tara a Ko-fi! Get the...
2022-01-25
57 min
Lesbian Speaking
Lesbian Erotica with Sinclair Sexsmith
Book Editor Sinclair Sexsmith discusses their new release, Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 6. As a long time writer and editor of erotica, Sinclair shared their knowledge of kink, BDSM and all things erotic. See some of the links below for informational resources highlighted in the episode. Get your copy at: https://sugarbutch.net/ Resources for someone new to kink: https://sugarbutch.net/2021/05/kink-resources/ Writing Spicy Workshop: https://sugarbutch.net/writing-spicy/ Additional Informational links: http://sugarbutch.net/ble6/ Amazon List (try these in your home): https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-6864e...
2022-01-24
44 min
Queer Pleasure by Shrimp Teeth
Writing Queer Erotica with Sinclair Interview
In this episode, I talk to my all-time favorite erotica writer, Sinclair Sexsmith. They fill me in on the newest Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year anthology. We discuss their writing practice, and they fill me in on their TPE kink relationship.As always, head over to Patreon.com/shrimpteeth to join our Discord community and talk more in-depth about this episode with our listeners and moderators. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •You can find us at www.shrimpteeth.com or instagram.com/shrimpteethUse code: ShrimpTeethPod for 10% off Peer Support Sessions. Book on our website.You can support us and access bonus episodes, daily erotica...
2021-12-06
36 min
All That And Mo
My Story, with Rami Margron (Part 2)
This is part 2 of our two-parter. Be sure to listen to episode 3 first! We’ll be chatting about dark sides, deities, and deep humiliation!Relevant Linkage: Rami’s Sit & Groove Workout!https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLR1H7pQuK71gfQiyUzxkEwWxCpAPLOantMonsters Of Talk Podcast Episode Feat Me! https://soundcloud.com/margaretcho/motmowiCurtsey to Stacey R, Andrea Z. and Samantha S, thank you for your past support and making this possible!And BIG UPS to my current PatriPosse! Marty W., Meg B., JP, Lisa C., D. Potts...
2021-11-12
40 min
All That And Mo
My Story, with Rami Margron (Part 1)
This is part one of a 2-parter feat my amazing homie Rami Margron! We go on about hyenas, breathing, theater, kinky stuff and weird spirituality.Come thru on Patreon and become my Sub(scriber) and my DOM (Donator Of Money) and earn all the clout! https://www.patreon.com/MollenaLeeWilliamsHaasCurtsey to Stacey R, Andrea Z. and Samantha S, thank you for your past support and making this possible!And BIG UPS to my current PatriPosse! Marty W., Meg B., JP, Lisa C., D. Potts, aeric meredith-goujon, Sinclair Sexsmith, Becky B., A...
2021-11-05
32 min
All That And Mo
Kinky Old Farts
Read more on my website: http://mollena.com.If you wish to support this work, please join us on Patreon!Shout out to my PatriPeeps!Stacey R, Mac, Andrea Z. and Samantha S, thank you for your past support and making this possible!And BIG UPS to my current PatriPosse! Meg B., JP, Lisa C., D. Potts, aeric meredith-goujon,Sinclair Sexsmith, Becky B., Alan G., Sara L., Esther, The Adipositivity Project, Kathleen M., Andrea, DK Green, Stephanie S., Michelle D., Michael O. Get bonus content on Patreon...
2021-10-29
28 min
All That And Mo
The Prime Directive
I am absolutely THRILLED to bring you the first of what I hope to be many opportunities for me to share with you! Today I am talking about one of the foundational aspects of my BDSM / Kink life: and that is The Prime Directive. Not that one, Trekkies. Another one that fundamentally altered the way I live my life. Not just my kink life either—ALL dat shite.Read more about it here: http://www.mollena.com/2013/06/prime-directive/If you wish to support this work, please join us on Patreon!Sh...
2021-10-15
28 min
Feminist Erotica
More Interview Highlights: Is Kink the New Norm in Queer Relationships? w/ Best Lesbian Erotica Vol. 5 Writers & Editor
We're back with more goodness from the folks involved with Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5. In this episode, you'll hear highlights from our conversation with some of the contributors and editor of the anthology. We cover whether kink is the norm in queer and lesbian relationships, why lesbian erotica matters, and whether erotica equals sex or something greater.- Rain Degrey, a writer, advice columnist, podcaster and educator whose work has taken her from Kink.com to Harvard University.- Mary P. Burns whose first novel, Forging a Desire Line, was published by...
2021-02-12
08 min
Feminist Erotica
Quickies: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Vol 5
Hear excerpts from three stories found in the Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5, as well as a bonus excerpt from the anthology editor, Sinclair Sexsmith.You'll hear from:- Rain Degrey, a writer, advice columnist, podcaster and educator whose work has taken her from Kink.com to Harvard University.- Mary P. Burns whose first novel, Forging a Desire Line, was published by Bold Strokes Books in May 2020.- June Amelia Rose, an anarchist leatherdyke fiction writer and submissive transsexual femme living in Brooklyn.- Sinclair Sexsmith, “th...
2021-02-05
24 min
Feminist Erotica
Christmas Quickie! Whatever I Want by Sinclair Sexsmith
Santa left a special gift for you under the Christmas tree - a sexy snippet read by Sinclair Sexsmith! Listen as Sinclair reads from their story, 'Whatever I Want, Whatever I Say.' This story is also printed in Best Lesbian Erotica Vol. 5, out now! Be sure to check out Sinclair's website, sugarbutch.net. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from Feminist Erotica!Follow Feminist Erotica on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, and email us with questions/comments/concerns at feministerotica@rebelliousmagazine.com. This episode is sponsored by Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.--- This...
2020-12-25
05 min
Feminist Erotica
Interview: Sinclair Sexsmith on Writing + Our Next Book Club!
You asked for them, and today our episode features Sinclair Sexsmith! Jera, Princess and Karen hosted the butch erotica writer on a lively Facebook Live where they talked about writing to be a better dom and how Sinclair's writing has transformed their idea of consent. Plus, we announce our next pick for Lit Lap, our bi-monthly book club! Be sure to stay tuned: there's much more of Sinclair coming (heh) in later episodes.For even more Sinclair, check out their website sugarbutch.net and follow them on Twitter at @MrSexsmith (help them hit 10k followers!). Follow Feminist...
2020-12-11
33 min
Between Our Thighs
Erotica and Gender (with Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch Chronicles)
If it wasn’t already obvious, we love good erotica. Like, we really love it. So, when Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) of the blog Sugarbutch Chronicles reached out for us to read and review Cleis Press’ upcoming collection — that they are editor of — we couldn’t say “no.”Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5 was amazing. The anthology “explores and expands on the very definition of eroticism with a diverse mix of queer, non-binary, trans, and polyamorous #ownvoices that will have you quivering with delight and wondering what more you can explore — no matter how you identify.” Today, we’re talking to Sinclair...
2020-11-26
33 min
The Dildorks
Touch Me So Write
This week we’re talking with Sinclair Sexsmith, writer, educator, and editor of the new book Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5! We touch on consent in erotica, the evolving definition of “lesbian,” disability representation in erotic media, and more. Alaska | Editing an Anthology | Fantasy vs. Reality | What is “Lesbian”? | Trans Representation | Mind Expansion | Pushback | Erotic But Not Sexual | Marketing & Messaging | Old Erotica Books | Underrepresented People | Disability & Chronic Pain | Generating Ideas Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get acc...
2020-11-17
50 min
PowerPivot
Kate Sloan of girlyjuice.net: writer, podcaster, storyteller
submission, kink, sex, and power...and how an imaginary assistant improved her bottom line Thank you for listening to today's episode of PowerPivot. Thanks to @demilife for our music and @larissafae for the transcript cleanup. Our guest was Kate Sloan of http://girlyjuice.net and http://katewritesaboutsex.com. You can also find her on Twitter and Instagram at @girly_juice, and on her own podcasts: The Dildorks, and Question Box. We mentioned: Emily Nagoski: author, Come as You Are Vice articles https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/nnkv3d/disabled-bdsm-experiences https://www.vice.com...
2020-04-07
1h 01
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
291: STIs, masturbation buddies, shame and fat bodies
tl;dr STIs and how to protect ourselves, men who want masturbation buddies, shame and fat bodies, plus Kobe Bryant's death. Patrons who support at $3 and above, there's a new bonus at patreon.com/sgrpodcast tomorrow. To kick off this week's episode, we are exploring some of the complicated feelings around Kobe Bryant's death, especially for survivors. We're also unpacking a new paper released by the CDC about STIs being on the rise. Check out the article at dawnserra.com/ep291 Sinclair Sexsmith recently pulled together a bunch of people, blogs, and helpful tidbits on chronic pain and sex. Grab the...
2020-01-27
49 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
291: STIs, masturbation buddies, shame and fat bodies
tl;dr STIs and how to protect ourselves, men who want masturbation buddies, shame and fat bodies, plus Kobe Bryant's death. Patrons who support at $3 and above, there's a new bonus at patreon.com/sgrpodcast tomorrow. To kick off this week's episode, we are exploring some of the complicated feelings around Kobe Bryant's death, especially for survivors. We're also unpacking a new paper released by the CDC about STIs being on the rise. Check out the article at dawnserra.com/ep291 Sinclair Sexsmith recently pulled together a bunch of people, blogs, and helpful tidbits on chronic pain and sex. Grab the...
2020-01-27
49 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 269: Sinclair Sexsmith and rife on 24/7 power exchange relationships
LAST CALL The July cohort of Power in Pleasure starts July 21st, so this is the final week to register before it closes. You deserve pleasure. You deserve to honor your hunger. Your power is tied to your pleasure. Explore with us and learn more at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. Sinclair Sexsmith and rife are here to talk 24/7 power exchange First up, you can hear me on two podcasts this week talking all about pleasure, bodies, and sex. I chatted with Chris Maxwell Rose of The Pleasure Mechanics all about pleasure, hunger, and the relationship between sex and...
2019-07-14
57 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 269: Sinclair Sexsmith and rife on 24/7 power exchange relationships
LAST CALL The July cohort of Power in Pleasure starts July 21st, so this is the final week to register before it closes. You deserve pleasure. You deserve to honor your hunger. Your power is tied to your pleasure. Explore with us and learn more at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. Sinclair Sexsmith and rife are here to talk 24/7 power exchange First up, you can hear me on two podcasts this week talking all about pleasure, bodies, and sex. I chatted with Chris Maxwell Rose of The Pleasure Mechanics all about pleasure, hunger, and the relationship between...
2019-07-14
57 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 266: Threesomes, men having boundaries, & becoming a sex educator
Your pleasure matters. Join the July cohort of my 5-week online Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. My chat with Sinclair Sexsmith and rife got postposed, so this week's episode is just me and you. First up, I share about three new articles/resources that came across my feed this week. Head to sexgetsreal.com/ep266 for all of the links mentioned in the episode. Then, we dive into two important questions from listeners just like you. Peter is a cis man who is a...
2019-06-17
43 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 266: Threesomes, men having boundaries, & becoming a sex educator
Your pleasure matters. Join the July cohort of my 5-week online Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. My chat with Sinclair Sexsmith and rife got postposed, so this week's episode is just me and you. First up, I share about three new articles/resources that came across my feed this week. Head to sexgetsreal.com/ep266 for all of the links mentioned in the episode. Then, we dive into two important questions from listeners just like you. Peter is a cis man who is a...
2019-06-17
43 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 257: Bratty submissives, being cheated on, & creative sex
Is your relationship with pleasure complicated? Check out my new pleasure course which is enrolling now through April 29, 2019 (we'll enroll again in June!). It's called Power in Pleasure: Reconnecting with Your Hunger, Desire, and Joy and runs for five weeks online. I'd love to see you there. On with the show! Anonymous shares how exploring and communicating with a partner can help open new possibilities to feeding your life and your relationship. Miss Submissive is hiring a professional Dominatrix and she would love some help learning how to be a bratty sub. Are t...
2019-04-14
41 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 257: Bratty submissives, being cheated on, & creative sex
Is your relationship with pleasure complicated? Check out my new pleasure course which is enrolling now through April 29, 2019 (we'll enroll again in June!). It's called Power in Pleasure: Reconnecting with Your Hunger, Desire, and Joy and runs for five weeks online. I'd love to see you there. On with the show! Anonymous shares how exploring and communicating with a partner can help open new possibilities to feeding your life and your relationship. Miss Submissive is hiring a professional Dominatrix and she would love some help learning how to be a bratty sub. Are t...
2019-04-14
41 min
The Dildorks
Episode 107: Yearn to Learn
School is back in session, so we’re discussing sex ed! Find out what we learned about sex in school – and what we learned, um, elsewhere. Skipping Health Class | Gender Segregation | Anatomy | Gender | Shame | Consent | Doug Ford | Emotional Maturity | Kink | The Clit | Books | Erotica & Fanfiction | Cybersex | Eavesdropping | Podcasts | Bear Bergman | Emily Nagoski | Allison Moon | Dr. Liz Powell | Andy Izenson | Aida Manduley | Mollena Williams-Haas | Sinclair Sexsmith | Caitlin K. Roberts | Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg | Takeaways | Uproxx List Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the...
2018-10-02
48 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 218: Tender masculinity, condom expiration dates, & Dommes who receive
Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is now available on demand. Grab your spot today for just $37. Ten lessons, ten worksheets, a lifetime of shifting how you feel about boundaries. Tender masculinity, condom expirations, and your questions answered. I recently came across an article called "In Praise of Tender Masculinity, the New Non-Toxic Way to Be a Man" by terra lo...
2018-07-01
55 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 218: Tender masculinity, condom expiration dates, & Dommes who receive
Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is now available on demand. Grab your spot today for just $37. Ten lessons, ten worksheets, a lifetime of shifting how you feel about boundaries. Tender masculinity, condom expirations, and your questions answered. I recently came across an article called "In Praise of Tender Masculinity, the New Non-Toxic Way to Be a Man" by...
2018-07-01
55 min
The Dildorks
Episode 93: Protocol Me Maybe
This week we’re picking the brain of writer and kink educator Sinclair Sexsmith! We touched on punishment, protocol, confidence, consent, and so much more. Power | Protocol | Check-Ins | Punishment | Submissive Playground | Consequences | Fears | Debriefing | Palette of Permission | Confidence | Receiving | Learning | Wheel of Consent Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.
2018-06-26
51 min
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 211: Amy Jo Goddard on sex, power, & leadership
SIGN UP NOW! Explore More Summit 2018 is happening now. It ends May 2nd, so grab your all-access pass for free before it's too late. exploremoresummit.com. What is changing in the wake of the #MeToo movement? How do we talk about sex and power? Amy Jo Goddard is joining me this week to talk about BIG things. Amy Jo is a powerhouse of change, fierce and uncompromising in her commitment to sexual liberation and social change. I've been working with her on her Sex, Power, and Leadership Conference - which is a free online conference...
2018-04-29
1h 07
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 211: Amy Jo Goddard on sex, power, & leadership
SIGN UP NOW! Explore More Summit 2018 is happening now. It ends May 2nd, so grab your all-access pass for free before it's too late. exploremoresummit.com. What is changing in the wake of the #MeToo movement? How do we talk about sex and power? Amy Jo Goddard is joining me this week to talk about BIG things. Amy Jo is a powerhouse of change, fierce and uncompromising in her commitment to sexual liberation and social change. I've been working with her on her Sex, Power, and Leadership Conference - which is a free online conference all about...
2018-04-29
1h 07
The Dildorks
Episode 82: Grown-Up Playtime
This week we’re talking with Dawn Serra, sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and founder of the Explore More Summit! We chatted about parenting, play, self-acceptance, and more. Explore More Summit | Watersports | Curiosity & Play | Barbara Carrellas | Sex-Positive Parenting | MakeLoveNotPorn.TV | Karen BK Chan | Sinclair Sexsmith | Coming Out | Self-Love & Diet Culture | Interviewing | Fun Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show. ...
2018-04-11
57 min
Kiss
Bully by Sinclair Sexsmith
BULLY by Sinclair Sexsmith Featured in The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 vol. 1 ~also check out~ D.L. King's Slave Girls Try some great reading Sweet and Rough by Sinclair Sexsmith Paperback & Kindle Enjoy more Sexy Audio Stories with Rose Caraway- HERE Rose Caraway Phone (202) 810-5477 Web- thekissmequicks.com Email- thekissmequicks@gmail.com Twitter- @theKMQ @RoseCaraway @BigDaddyDayv @StupidFishPro -The KMQ gratefully thank the Follo
2018-02-16
31 min
The Kiss Me Quick's Erotica
Bully by Sinclair Sexsmith
BULLY by Sinclair Sexsmith Featured in The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 vol. 1 ~also check out~ D.L. King's Slave Girls Try some great reading Sweet and Rough by Sinclair Sexsmith Paperback & Kindle Enjoy more Sexy Audio Stories with Rose Caraway- HERE Rose Caraway Phone (202) 810-5477 Web- thekissmequicks.com Email- thekissmequicks@gmail.com Twitter- @theKMQ @RoseCaraway @BigDaddyDayv @StupidFishPro -The KMQ gratefully thank the Follo
2018-02-16
31 min
The Kiss Me Quick's Erotica
Bully by Sinclair Sexsmith
BULLY by Sinclair Sexsmith Featured in The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 vol. 1 ~also check out~ D.L. King's Slave Girls Try some great reading Sweet and Rough by Sinclair Sexsmith Paperback & Kindle Enjoy more Sexy Audio Stories with Rose Caraway- HERE Rose Caraway Phone (202) 810-5477 Web- thekissmequicks.com Email- thekissmequicks@gmail.com Twitter- @theKMQ @RoseCaraway @BigDaddyDayv @StupidFishPro -The KMQ gratefully thank the Follo
2018-02-16
31 min
Between Us: A Psychotherapy Podcast
Episode 19: The Kink Controversy
One of two episodes about sex, our episode today is a reactionary one. Reactionary against the dogma that John and his guest, Leanna Ramsey, respectively grew up struggling against. What does it mean to be sex-positive? Our premise today is that a stance of curiosity is the only way to therapeutically address differing sexualities, and yet the field continually fails to approach the topic with such a stance. John speaks to sexuality and gender expert Sinclair Sexsmith about such a case. Season Two of Between Us is sponsored by MetaFi, a free download on iOS and Android. Contact: betweenuspodcast@gmail...
2017-08-16
45 min
Burlesque Stripped Down
053 - Season O'Sex: Sinclair Sexsmith on Embodiment, Health as a Spiritual Practice, and Chief Bogo
We're rocking & rolling in the Season O'Sex with this week's guest, Sinclair Sexsmith! Sinclair joins Velvet for a deep dive into being a seeker, authority exchange relationships, health as a spiritual practice, & getting back in touch with one's body! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/burlesquestrippeddown/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/burlesquestrippeddown/support
2017-01-26
1h 06
The Dildorks
Episode 6: Funnilingus
As the companion to the popular BJ episode, Bex and Kate sit down to discuss something they're considerably less excited about: cunnilingus. They each tell the story of the first time they ever received oral sex, and how their opinions have changed on it over time. They also discuss their anxieties around both giving and receiving, and what people can do to make cunnilingus really enjoyable for them. #DildoHoliday | Playground Conference | Taylor | Cunnilingus Preferences | Good Dick Garbage Human | "Treat My Clit Like A Dick" | Shame | Anxiety | Periods | Sex Lab | Fingering | Queer Imposter Syndrome | House | American Horror Story...
2016-10-26
1h 02
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 127: Master, slave, Dominance, submission
Sinclair Sexsmith (you might know them as Sugarbutch) is here this week and we are talking ALL about kink, BDSM, and power dynamics. We take a look at Sinclair's journey from submissive to Top to Dominant to Daddy and Master. What is it like to live in a 24/7 Master slave dynamic? How can people learn more? We also discuss using BDSM to heal trauma and depression - it's a fine line, but it can be a powerful practice. Plus, what is Submissive Playground? Sinclair shares the details. I am so excited to share this chat...
2016-09-18
1h 08
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra
Sex Gets Real 127: Master, slave, Dominance, submission
Sinclair Sexsmith (you might know them as Sugarbutch) is here this week and we are talking ALL about kink, BDSM, and power dynamics. We take a look at Sinclair's journey from submissive to Top to Dominant to Daddy and Master. What is it like to live in a 24/7 Master slave dynamic? How can people learn more? We also discuss using BDSM to heal trauma and depression - it's a fine line, but it can be a powerful practice. Plus, what is Submissive Playground? Sinclair shares the details. I am so excited to share this chat...
2016-09-18
1h 08
The Kiss Me Quick's Erotica
This Is What It's Like by Kass Goldsworthy
A hot and sweaty cuckolding story taken from The Sexy Librarian's Dirty Thirty Vol.1 anthology titled, This Is What It's Like written by Kass Goldsworthy.Get the Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 Audiobook!http://bitly.com/Dirty30Audiobook Check out my Bawdy Story telling video where tell you my true sex story! Catch the interview I had with Sinclair Sexsmith here: http://sexylibrarian.libsyn.com/sinclair-sexsmith-inside-the-erotica-authors-studio The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 Ebook is out and it's only 2.99 for a very limited time! Get it here- http://bit.ly/SexyLibrarianDirty30
2015-07-06
16 min
Kiss
This Is What It's Like by Kass Goldsworthy
A hot and sweaty cuckolding story taken from The Sexy Librarian's Dirty Thirty Vol.1 anthology titled, This Is What It's Like written by Kass Goldsworthy.Get the Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 Audiobook!http://bitly.com/Dirty30Audiobook Check out my Bawdy Story telling video where tell you my true sex story! Catch the interview I had with Sinclair Sexsmith here: http://sexylibrarian.libsyn.com/sinclair-sexsmith-inside-the-erotica-authors-studio The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 Ebook is out and it's only 2.99 for a very limited time! Get it here- http://bit.ly/SexyLibrarianDirty30
2015-07-06
16 min
Why Are People Into That?!
15 : kd diamond: Bootblacking
International Ms Bootblack 2011 kd diamond is an accomplished artist: and she's also a card-carrying leather fetishist. In this episode, kd opens up her boot care kit and lets us peek inside. We learn how integral bootblacks are to the Leather Scene, and how taking care of leather clothes can represent service, worship, or simply hot kinky sex.Discussed:How To Always Smell The Glove; The Smokiest Batch of Huberd's Grease; Commodity Fetishism; NYC's Submit Play Party; How Is A Bootblack Like A Hairdresser or Bartender or Grillmaster or Massuese: Learning About The World With Your...
2014-10-01
1h 16
Erotic Awakening
EA324 - Submissive Playground
This week, Dan & dawn talk to Sinclair Sexsmith about the Submissive Playground (http://www.submissiveplayground.com/)! Plus, dawn springs a question on Dan about who is responsible for the lack of communication in an M/s relationship.
2014-06-24
29 min
Why Are People Into That?!
1: Sinclair Sexsmith: Power
In the first episode, old friends Tina & Sinclair Sexsmith snuggle up in bed to talk about POWER: why it gets them hot, how to play with it, and how to be a good feminist while doing so.LISTEN:Sinclair Sexsmith is an educator, coach, and writer specializing in sexualities, genders, and relationships. They produce the award-winning personal online project Sugarbutch... Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2014-02-17
1h 10
Download Best Full Audiobooks in Erotica & Sexuality, Fiction
Say Please Audiobook by Sinclair Sexsmith
Please visit https://fashabooks.com/aff/fashabooks/1654 to download full audiobooks of your choice for free. Title: Say Please Subtitle: Lesbian BDSM Erotica Author: Sinclair Sexsmith Narrator: Muffy Newtown Format: Unabridged Length: 6 hrs and 55 mins Language: English Release date: 09-24-13 Publisher: Cleis Press Ratings: 4 of 5 out of 21 votes Genres: Erotica & Sexuality, Fiction Publisher's Summary: Sinclair Sexsmith presents a cornucopia of lesbian kink - tantalizing tales rich in variety and saucy details of girls put in their place - and held there firmly. A girly-girl reaps a sweet punishment for refusing to mess up her oh-so-pink lipstick and a well-equipped...
2013-09-25
04 min
How to Get Audiobook in Erotica & Sexuality, Fiction
Girls Who Score by Ily Goyanes | Free Audiobook
Listen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: Girls Who Score Author: Ily Goyanes Narrator: Emily Caldwell Format: Unabridged Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins Language: English Release date: 09-24-13 Publisher: Audible Studios Genres: Erotica & Sexuality, Fiction Summary: Even though they may not get a lot of action on the field after high school and college, girl jocks always manage to see a lot of action off the field. Because female athletes have an easy confidence about them, a natural nonchalance, and usually a killer bod, that draws all kinds of women to them straight, lesbian, bisexual, curious...
2013-09-24
5h 28
Download New Releases Full Audiobooks in Erotica & Sexuality, Fiction
Girls Who Score Audiobook by Ily Goyanes
Please open https://hotaudiobook.com ONLY on your standard browser Safari, Chrome, Microsoft or Firefox to download full audiobooks of your choice for free. Title: Girls Who Score Subtitle: Hot Lesbian Erotica Author: Ily Goyanes Narrator: Emily Caldwell Format: Unabridged Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins Language: English Release date: 09-24-13 Publisher: Audible Studios Ratings: 3.5 of 5 out of 29 votes Genres: Erotica & Sexuality, Fiction Publisher's Summary: Even though they may not get a lot of action on the field after high school and college, girl jocks always manage to see a lot of action off the field. Because female athletes have an...
2013-09-24
5h 28
Canadian Musician Radio
CM Radio - June 26/13 - Martha Johnson, Kim Sinclair & More - Jun 27,2013
A great episode this week featuring interviews with a pair of intriguing ladies and a new segment. First, we put Mike in the spotlight for our first edition of CM's 20 Questions - quick snappers ranging from "favourite Neil Young song" to "coolest guitar of all time" and a whole bunch in between. Expect more of these with some recognizable characters down the road. Our CM Academy segment features Kim Sinclair of SpinCount, a radio tracking and PR firm that's worked with everyone from Joel Plaskett to The Flatliners to David Myles and more. She has the scoop on what radio...
2013-06-27
42 min
Masocast
Say Please
Sinclair Sexsmith returns to the podcast. This time we talk about becoming poly, the new book “Say Please:Lesbian BDSM Erotica”, qualities of good erotica, gagging on sex toys and a whole bunch more. Plus I’ve decided to take a break from the podcast after we hit episode 100. More details to come. You can buy the book here. Find Sinclair online at Sugarbutch.net, mrsexsmith.com, thebodyelectricschool.com We mentioned Andrea Zanin’s “10 realistic rules for good non-monogamous relationships”, you can find it here.
2012-06-11
1h 06
Masocast
Say Please
Sinclair Sexsmith returns to the podcast. This time we talk about becoming poly, the new book “Say Please:Lesbian BDSM Erotica”, qualities of good erotica, gagging on sex toys and a whole bunch more. Plus I’ve decided to take a break […] The post Say Please first appeared on Masocast Podcast.
2012-06-11
00 min
Bedroom Radio
Bedroom Radio #21: Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch.net
Download Bedroom Radio #21On this episode I interview Sinclair of Sugarbutch Chronicles. We discuss gender, butch/femme identity, bdsm, and erotic blogging. You'll also be treated to an incredibly sexy piece of erotica read by Sinclair.************************Contact Me Like This:Email: bedroomradio@gmail.comVoicemail: 206-339-5939Website: bedroomradio.blogspot.comBlog: www.lumpesse.comMore More More: Twitter Subscribe Smoking Hot Phone SexSex Toys and Vibrator Reviews at VibeReview
2008-08-28
00 min