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Handicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanIn Memory of Nex- For Some School is HellIn Memory of Nex- For Some School is Hell I will go through some of the Hell I went through while going through in school and why the Republicans are only trying to help it continue. They want children to be ignorant and bully those who are not like them to enforce that those children will then change and forced to be like everybody else. There is nothing like being forced into religious identity and cohesiveness, right?Amazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest updatehttps://youtu.be/3QeU0XAD6uQWatch my YouTube channel where...2024-03-0228 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanBlack People Can Be EducatedI talk about my trouble dating black men and why when it came to my education, I felt like I was never going to find love with a black man. 2024-02-1229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanBlack People Can InvestBlack People Can Invest and don't forget about prenups!2024-02-0929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black Woman“There’s no need to worry about the police if you’re not doing anything illegal.”“There’s no need to worry about the police if you’re not doing anything illegal.” I talk about how some certain people respond when I talk about my situations with police. https://linktr.ee/handicapableblackwoman2024-02-0729 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanAITA For Refusing to Name My Son After Me?AITA For Refusing to Name My Son After Me? https://linktr.ee/handicapableblackwomanMake sure you check out my YouTube channel and so much more! I also have Reading BINGO cards in my #Etsy store and more books coming out. Remember you're human too! 2024-02-0317 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanPastor's Kids P K's Why I Won't Date Them Dating NightmareHello and how are you guys doing?I am breaking down the stupidity I tolerated while dating undiagnosed. Many people ask me why on Earth did I date these men, but I know for a fact that your mental health tells you how to feel when it comes to your worth and who you think you deserve love or affection from.  Now I am retired from dating and some men try to tell me they are interested and everything but ... I have more stories for you but one thing I will keep saying is live your best life a...2024-01-2528 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanGoing to a Musical or Not. Part 1Going to a Musical or Not. Part 1I will talk about how I am just now going to start doing things I love again and with Lockakey it was because he was broke, I was not going to pay for everything, he was always on special candy and I was not going to drive around with him everywhere on special candy but with NoHeart, it's a different story. He truely had no heart and after his divorce must have decided to be as awful as he could to a woman without her leaving. 2024-01-0429 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanRepresentation in and inside the AMC Identity and Disability ExampleRepresentation in and inside the AMCIdentity and Disability Example When people tell me that we have all of our rights and how great our country is I shake my head. We are in a great country for the most part but when certain people are not allowed to go to work or school with their natural hair and now a civil rights activist gets kicked out of a AMC movie theater because of his disability needs. Our county has a far way to go before everyone can say they have the same f...2024-01-0229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhat is my identity? What Is Supposed to Be My Identity? Part 3I talk more about examples of my identity and how I am labeled or told who I am supposed to be on a regular basis.2023-12-3129 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhat is my identity What Is Supposed to Be My Identity Part 2I will be introducing the subject and telling examples of when I have been stereotyped and people telling me who I am supposed to be or like and how I am supposed to be their definition of an African Woman with a disability.2023-12-3030 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhat is my identity? What Is Supposed to Be My Identity?When it comes to dating, many men picture me and who I am supposed to be in such ignorant and stereotypical boxes. I will talk about identity and how you are supposed to be your best person and not who anyone else thinks you are supposed to be. Over the next few episodes, I will bring up how people tell me a black woman is supposed to be, a woman and a person with a disability. Like Comment and Subscribe!https://www.amazon.com/Lesedi-Bouncing-Blushing-Buttery-Cookies/dp/B09VF5Q1D7?ref_=ast_author_dp&dib=eyJ2I...2023-12-2929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanI Took Some Petty at UniversityI Took Some Petty at University 2023-12-1628 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanI Won't Let a Man Block My GoalsI Won't Let a Man Block My Goals This is a one-hour episode. I continue my talk about men blocking my goals, jury duty, expectations, mental health and how being a POC, Female and having a disability makes people think you can't do much of anything. https://linktr.ee/handicapableblackwoman2023-12-0859 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanStandards Before Eggplant All and Every Day. Part 1I have been pondering about the first Reddit story and diving in to explore why I related to this one. I have much more to come. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe!https://linktr.ee/handicapableblackwomanCheck out my children's books on AmazonMy Etsy store,I will be going live soon to host writing, reading, creativity time or let's get some goals accomplished! What are some standards that you have had to end a relationship over?What standards that you don't have that many desire?2023-12-0728 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanReddit My Man Hates That I Am a Massage Therapist AITAHI am now covering Reddit AITAH or I call them Am I The Absolute Horror... playing off of the Dating Nightmare theme. I will be trying to do one or two of these a week and this one is interesting and could be taken different ways and after recording I thought of another one so there will be a part two... who is surprised here? It's me, right? If you are new welcome to the cup full of petty where I give my perspective from the eyes and life of disability, POC and female. Enjoy!handicapableblackwoman | Twitter...2023-12-0426 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanAn Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 2An Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 2 I continue on my talk about how women are not appreciated enough when it comes to having children and the responsibility it takes and the trust one must have, and I touch on the two of the tougher points when it comes to being a mother and one is to be a mother or not to be a mother? That is a question that needs to be analyzed and thought out a lot more, especially when it comes to a life and the person you are performing t...2023-11-3029 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanAn Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 1An Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 1Looking at message's men send me and thinking about past relationships while working on my definition of a parent series I have thought a lot about how little women are recognized and, in several situations belittled. People judge me for not having kids yet or have different viewpoints which is human but when your church says you have to be married and not divorce, but then men you are dating you don't see yourself happy for the rest of your life and then trusting...2023-11-3030 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanLive Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 3Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 3 I tell more about my goals, inspiration and business goals. I will lay out some of the ideas for my website, going live on YouTube and much more and how I get through the negativity. handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeLike, Comment, subscribe and share!104-year-old Chicago woman dies days after making a skydive that could put her in the record books (msn.com)2023-11-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanLive Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 2Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 2I talk more about my goals and what I plan to work on with my small business and how I had to push away the negativity and figure out who I am and who I plan to be even if I fail who and what I inspire to be known for while on this Earth. This episode I start on my list and how I will start my Patreon, Discord, YouTube and more on Podcast. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe and share!https://www.youtube...2023-11-0229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanLive Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 1 Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 1I talk about goals and living your life, turning lemons into lemonade and don't let people stop you from what you want to do and what inspires you (as long as it's legal). Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! 104-year-old Chicago woman dies days after making a skydive that could put her in the record books (msn.com)handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | Linktree2023-10-3029 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 3Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 3I talk about the war of dating and the nightmare that has erupted from it ... or vise versa. How some men/ women take their anger of rejection/ being single on others who have nothing to do with it or because they find someone either they want to bully/ victim or they were interested until they saw that the person shows on their profile that they would not be interested in them. Like, Comment and Subscribe! Don't forget about my YouTube channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5koX0st...2023-10-3030 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 2Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 2More talk about the Clam Date lady and how the dating world feels in many like a war and how compatibility seems to be more complex than ever. I spill the tea and have story time in this episode. I talk dating nightmares and how my past has not changed my expectations.Like, comment and share!2023-10-2829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 1Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 1When I see stories about women who eat four dozen clams and a dinner and have a drink and record while on the date but not considering the date at all and upset when the date leaves when he pretends to go the bathroom and then another woman who was upset her date took her to the Cheesecake Factory after she was an hour late, let he sit in his car and he had reservations elsewhere but they were too late so when they get into the parking lot...2023-10-2629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThe Hairy Topic of Mental HealthThe Hairy Topic of Mental Health I am going to hop out of the box of hair for a moment to start talking about mental health and the need for understanding and coming together. I ran out of time but will definitely be a part two very soon. Enjoy.Like, Follow and Subscribe!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1872140/12136647https://youtu.be/gopX4UBjSms2023-10-0929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanMy Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 3My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 3I talk about the need for better education in beauty school for people to know and acknowledge our beauty and traditions. Mr. NoHeart's family is a great example of this and I share tidbits on how some enjoy being ignorant with everything that does not involve them.handicapableblackwoman's Favorite Music Links - LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest update(1) Handicapable Black Woman - YouTube2023-10-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanMy Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 2My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 2I continue one of my stories about my hair and when I transitioned and how my mental health was involved.  Please share with beauticians and hair stylist to let them know that they are involved in mental health and how they talk and treat their clients/ customers.https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5koX0stO4s6wE0UVtTp_mAhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Stelanie-Marshall/author/B0B64F3WDY?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isD2023-10-0729 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanMy Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 1My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen  Part 1I have story time that explains why the C.R.O.W.N act is vital in America and the ignorance withing and outside the African American Community when it comes to natural hair and the uneducated or racist businesses and schools who force only European Beauty standards that for many to not embrace their genuine natural selves/ beauty. Like, Comment and Subscribehandicapableblackwoman's Favorite Music Links - LinktreeHandicapable Black Woman - YouTube2023-10-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanIf you want to start a conversation with me, remember I am human first and I live with a disability second.If you want to start a conversation with me, remember I am human first and I live with a disability second.People come up to me or providing a service and I have learned that some of you guys need to learn how to talk to someone with a disability. I have created a summary but will cover more down the road. You're welcome.Like, comment and subscribe.https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5koX0stO4s6wE0UVtTp_mAAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest updatehandicapableblackwoman's Favorite Music...2023-10-0429 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanI Write Fiction but My Stories are True.I Write Fiction but My Stories are True.  Hisan Minhaj really disappointed me today.  Many of us tell our stories to people so they can understand others don't live the life like them. I tell my experiences and talk current events so people can understand and see how the world and America really is for some. I talk about things that I have learned and what I hope others know and understand down the road. I tell the truth and nothing but the truth and I put my truth in my novels and stories so people can understand others pa...2023-09-2029 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWould You Let Your Daughter Date a Younger Version of YouWould You Let Your Daughter Date a Younger Version of Youhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5koX0stO4s6wE0UVtTp_mAI go in more on why some women are single and why some Republican men hate it. Many women want kids and to live the family life, but we also want to create out dreams as well. Some men (I have receipts) tell me my place and only place is to make their kids, cook, clean and make the man happy. They say who wants a smart woman? Some women are smart enough not...2023-09-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanMen Want Women to Do Minimal Because That Is All They Can Be Convicts Part 1 Men Want Women to Do Minimal Because That Is All They Can Be I now refuse to date anyone with a criminal past and many men hate it. They don't ask why they just try to mentally tear me down so they can feel better. I give one of the examples so that younger women can learn from my mistakes because some of these men could have destroyed my future. Some of them did it on purpose and laugh about it. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5koX0stO4s6wE0UVtTp_mAhandicapableblackwoman | Twitter, I...2023-09-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanMen Want To SettleWhy do men want to settle with who they are going to be? Why do so many men tell me what my job is while they can't keep a good credit score or a job? Men tell me my job is to have babies but expect me to be happy living off of their minimum wage but mad when I want to pursue my passions. On the other hand, men want me to pursue my passions and tell me they want to be my sugar baby but get made when I say that is not an option. Why do...2023-09-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThey Say America is Not RacistIf America is not racist, why do we keep witnessing racist situations? If our country is not racist, why do I run into on a regular basis. Why can't we go shopping? Why can't we ask a neighbor for directions? Why can't we knock on a door? Why can't we get help from police and be sure they will actually help us. Sometimes police do but ... I will be covering more of the issues African Americans face including, business loans, real estate and other issues. 2023-09-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanSafe Relationships and Mental Health Need To Be Taught In School Part 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 66 Safe Relationships and Mental Health Need To Be Taught In School Part 1I will talk a lot more about schools and the issues in them. I give examples of when I was in school and on the flip side of when I taught in school. The needs for educators to listen and to at least pretend to listen and care because our education system is something that I have a loss of words and now in 2023 we are allowing lies to be taught when it comes to history and contradicting ourselves with freedom...2023-08-2530 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhy The Male Specimen Clinic Option Is Amazing Part 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 65 Why The Male Specimen Clinic Option Is Amazing Part 1 I talk about why marriage is not for everyone and how marriage and having children is not fair because for women we are looked at as the title of mother is "our job" and on top of that only job. Men literally tell me other than youth, beauty and fertility women are of no use to them and the only reason they take them out to dinner is, so they have some calories to burn off for the 15 minutes of use.  Men put me d...2023-08-2529 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThe Now Mrs. Lockakey Does Not Know the Truth Part 3Handicapable Black Woman The Now Mrs. Lockaby Does Not Know the Truth Part 3I talk about how everything comes together and how the break-up shows how one man can gaslight two women and trick, lie to the now Mrs. Lockakey while trying to gaslight and blackmail the other.  This woman fought so hard for a man I am grateful will never be on my speaker phone again, crying, pleading, begging for me back on one end and then saying if I want my money back that I have to do what all men want wo...2023-08-0830 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThe Now Mrs. Lockakey Does Not Know the Truth Part 2Handicapable Black Woman Episode 63 The Now Mrs. Lockaby Does Not Know the Truth Part 2I talk about how my ex. Mr. Lockakey betrayed me and put me in a situation I would not put on my enemy even though it would be tempting and as long as it is not on a petty day. I talk about how relationships can be toxic when person is trying to escape and grow and be better and the other one can't stop doing illegal things and keeps figuring out ways to force you to stay in the relationship. Some think they...2023-08-0730 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThe Now Mrs. Lockakey Does Not Know the Truth Part 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 62 The Now Mrs. Lockaby Does Not Know the Truth Part 1I talk about the start of the final end of Mr. Lockakey. I have so many stories to share but I need you know why I am so happy about him marrying Mrs. Jennifer Lockakey. She called me the n-word, threatened me and accused me of being the bad person because of his lies after he cheated on me more than once and put me in situations that could have messed up my entire life. I loaned him money to get a new job...2023-08-0729 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThey Forget I Am Human Dating Edition Part 2Handicapable Black Woman Episode 61 They Forget I Am Human Dating Edition Part 2I continue to talk about the complications of talking to men as a woman, POC, with a disability and them always trying to put me in my place when they don't know me but it's because they settled in their lives and they are mad that I want more. Many tell me I will fail or that my ideas are stupid. Why do men do that? I talk about that and more. handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeMy New YouTube Handicapable Black Woman...2023-07-2829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThey Forget I Am Human Dating Edition Part 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 60 They Forget I Am Human Dating Edition Part 1Dating while having a disability is difficult enough but when you have standards and none that are physical, none for shallow reasons just standards that will make sure we as a couple have the highest rate of success... Many people/ Men especially tell me that I should take what I can get and since I was a teenager, I was told that in other words or the blame was put on me. People with disability have a right to fall in love and love someone...2023-07-2629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanI Keep Running into Racists Part 1The Handicapable Black Woman. I give a couple examples about racism from White men and all happened this week. In one week I have come across three to four white men who have all said something racist and prove my previous two episodes even more. On top of what Florida is doing with their brainless education curriculum and Women of Liberty wanting to ban books by African American authors, especially if they are about the experience of being a Person Of Color, more police proving to be racist etc. Check out my new YouTube Channel!-...2023-07-2229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhite Cis Male and Why It's So Hard to Talk to You 2Handicapable Black Woman Episode 58 White Cis Male and Why It's So Hard to Talk to You 2I talk more about cis white men and the issues of talking to them about issues like police, hair and why I think they feel threatened. Know that we want to talk to you and exchange knowledge and understanding but how can we when at the end of the day and discussion you turn around and blame us? After this episode I might try to see how I can create car air fresheners or ones for the house as well but in...2023-07-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhite Cis Male and Why It's So Hard to Talk to You 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 57 White Cis Male and Why It's So Hard to Talk to You 1I talk about why it is so hard to talk to white men and the struggle. I talk about how POC work so hard but then they get pushed to the side or devalued. Some white men enjoy swimming in ignorance because it allows them to feel like they deserve the power, benefits and inequities that others are fighting for each and every day. handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | Linktree(486) This is So Wrong on So Many Levels... - YouTube(486...2023-07-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanTeamwork can Make a Nightmare Come Up Doctor 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 56 Teamwork can Make a Nightmare Come Up Doctor 1I talk about when I really started not trusting the medical system, doctors and people period. There is an abundant amount of blame to be passed around, but I put a lot of it on myself for so long and my mental health was demolished partially because doctors kept telling me I was making it up and just wanted attention but the attention I was getting was only getting me to hate myself more than I already did. My doctor was doing things that is...2023-07-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThese Idiots Say They are Color Blind Affirmative Action 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 55 These Idiots Say They are Color Blind Affirmative Action and the mistake America has made introduction to the topic. Work, school and how non POC see me and how I still don't fit into society because of how I look and my skin color. Race is a big problem, but people want to pretend it is not while being racist bigots. People judge and accuse me of only being or accomplishing what I have done because of my race but when a white person does the same it is from hard work.Thanks for...2023-07-0530 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanTeaching Sometimes Feel Like WarHandicapable Black Woman Teaching Sometimes Feels Like WarMy first talk about education and a summary of some of the hardships and battles that us educators go through on a daily basis and how some teachers see and or are the good, the bad or the ugly or just a plain nightmare.55 US Literacy Statistics: Literacy Rate, Average Reading Level (crossrivertherapy.com) Adult Literacy in the United StatesU.S. Literacy Rates by State [Updated May 2023] (worldpopulationreview.com)handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest...2023-07-0230 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDisability vs Disability 1 DatingDisability vs Disability 1 Dating I talk about another dating nightmare and how even dating men with disabilities can go the wrong way too. This guy is on the spectrum and talked to him for almost half of a year before we met but it fell apart after that. Never allow yourself to be caged in.My dating life sucks harder than a bj. I swear. Those shirts and things will be on Etsy very soon. A quote from my novel. I started one of my YouTube channels.check it out.  https://youtu.be/XPPDEW0d3...2023-06-2929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanI Have to Trust My Heart with Someone I TrustI Have to Trust My Heart with Someone I Trusthandicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest updateI talk about more of the awful messages I get and the ignorance and uneducated people that are out there. I talk about how the uneducated people try to trick us the most because that is the only way they are able to get any attention or they mock, tease or show they are a racist in order to produce anger and they love and are hungry for making others miserable...2023-06-0930 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDetails and the Miscommunications of Politics and Dating Details and the Miscommunications of Politics and Datinghandicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest update2023-06-0929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhen are Black Lives Going to MatterHandicapable Black Woman When are Black Lives Going to Matterhandicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest updatePlease share, rate and subscribe. (141) Stand Your Ground DOESN'T Apply In Florida Shooting, Police Find - YouTube(141) Special Report: Supreme Court rules Alabama's congressional maps violate Voting Rights Act - YouTube(141) Conservative Group Moms For Liberty Classified As Anti-Government Hate Group!! - YouTube(142) Black Veteran Faces $3 MILLION Bond After Saving Woman From Road-Rager - YouTubeOther episodes that relate to this one:A Continuation Toward a...2023-06-0828 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanIt's None of Your Business. How Would You Solve This? Part 2Handicapable Black Woman Episode 49 It's None of Your Business. How Would You Solve This? Part 2handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest updateI cover more why you and everyone deserves and space with dating and the ability to gain or earn trust. Everyone does not deserve to know everything about you because they say so. Men especially should not be able to tell you what your obligations in life are. Don't let anyone tell you your worth or tell you what you should settle for because of your race...2023-06-0729 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanIt's None of Your Business. How Would You Solve This? Part 1How Would You Solve This? Part 1handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest updateCheck out my TikTok for the proof this week. I talk story time and what is to come. What is going on with the male ego? Why is it so fragile? Why do they think women are not supposed to goal oriented? Why are we supposed to settle? Why are we supposed to trust them immediately? Why can't women keep their business to themselves until We decide to tell them? Why do men mentally abuse y...2023-06-0630 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhy Can't You Just Be Honest with Dating and Novel Sneak PeakWhy Can't You Just Be Honest with Dating and Novel Sneak PeakWhen you are dating, what are your expectations?Honesty? Is that the first priority or in your top three?I talk about my upcoming novel and how the dating messages I read and that are in my Tiktok/Instagram. Check out my Tiktok and Instagram. I will have new items each week and check out my Etsy store in progress.handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | Linktree2023-06-0329 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanSelf-Worth vs Mr. Noheart Part 3Self-Worth vs Mr. Noheart Part 3I looked and up found a lot of quotes by Steven Crowder that relates to #marriage, #religion, #relationships and #manhood. I will cover a lot of this over the next few months. So much to cover and this shows why #voting means so much for our #freedom and #wellbeing. I have 45 episodes. Check out the Handicapable Black Woman #podcast #smallbusiness #business #realtalk #politics #tea I spill all of the #pettytea and give real #factsLike and subscribe!handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest...2023-05-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanSelf-Worth vs Mr. Noheart Part 2Self-Worth vs Mr. Noheart Part 2I looked and up found a lot of quotes by Steven Crowder that relates to #marriage , #religion , #relationships and #manhood. I will cover a lot of this over the next few months. So much to cover and this shows why #voting means so much for our #freedom and #wellbeing. I have 45 episodes. Check out the Handicapable Black Woman #podcast #smallbusiness #business #realtalk #politics #tea I spill all of the #pettytea and give real #facts Like and subscribe!handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest...2023-05-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanSelf-Worth vs Mr. Noheart Part 1Self-Worth vs Mr. Noheart Part 1I looked and up found a lot of quotes by Steven Crowder that relates to #marriage , #religion , #relationships and #manhood. I will cover a lot of this over the next few months. So much to cover and this shows why #voting means so much for our #freedom and #wellbeing. I have 45 episodes. Check out the Handicapable Black Woman #podcast #smallbusiness #business #realtalk #politics #tea I spill all of the #pettytea and give real #facts Like and subscribe!handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest...2023-05-0529 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanTucker Carlson VS How White Men FightHandicapable Black Woman Tucker Carlson VS How White Men FightIf you have not heard about what Tucker Carlson said and Texted to Fox correspondents, you need to look into it as soon as possible. He was able to show how racists and bigoted he is even more (and it is hard to find that possible. But it is). I talk about how white men especially the white republican men fight and how they are using their power to obtain more greed and take rights away to obtain more power until they have all of the power...2023-05-0529 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanChoking on Quotes About Relationships and MarriageChoking on Quotes About Relationships and Marriage I talk about Steven Crowder and quotes he has used throughout the years about relationships, marriage, manliness, religion and others that have shown to be contradicting to his actual lifestyle of marriage and the treatment of family. I have more than ten quotes and repeat some of the juicy ones. I will not forget what he recently said though. "I was wrong because I picked wrong,". No, he was wrong because he does not know how to be a real man and a true example as a father and leader of a...2023-05-0129 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDetour about relationship goalsHandicapable Black Woman Episode 41 Detour about relationship goalsI started to talk about the mess going on with Steven Crowder and how it shows more evidence of why I will never date a republican/ hard core Christian man.  It kind of took a detour to be a story time and how education and the balance of goals within a relationship is vital and how some men do not think women are able to be leaders, businesswomen, and anything other than their sexual property/ baby makers. I also discuss some of the issues I have about men being t...2023-05-0129 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanRed Bottom Shoes at the Business TableHandicapable Black Woman Episode 40 Red Bottom Shoes at the Business TableI talk about how it has been hard to find men dating or business wise to run a business with. Things to look out for and things to do in a relationship and in a business to make sure you meet your goals.  I will cover in future episodes different business resources, advice and tips that have helped me along the way. I will also be starting a patreon soon too so that I can work with others on their dreams and goals.There s...2023-04-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDating and Politics is Like Ice Cream and Cake Part 2Handicapable Black Woman Episode 38 Dating and Politics is Like Ice Cream and Cake Part 1I continue talking about the dating issues and when it comes to compatibility with politics and beliefs. Men saying that I need to settle and examples of men trying to tell me why I am not good enough for what I desire.Don't forget to like and subscribe.2023-04-0330 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDating and Politics is Like Ice Cream and Cake Part 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 38 Dating and Politics is Like Ice Cream and Cake Part 1Men keep asking/saying "What do politics have to do with dating", "Since you have a disability you should settle", "You're an idiot if you are not a Republican/Trump supporter", "No wonder you are single, you are a liberal", "Why do you have such requirements with dating?", "Why do you think you deserve so much?", "What man can measure to what you are doing?" etc. I and so many people have worked hard on being an amazing person and in return h...2023-04-0230 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanAriel and Locks Do Go TogetherEpisode 37 Ariel and Locks Do Go TogetherHow many Republicans and people that are not African American have disgust or racists thoughts about a mermaid being African American. How this is in many books, novels, movies. Certain white people always want to be the main character or perceived to be the good guy just like in our American History books. They want to make sure we are not taught the truth of them sometimes being the villain and just like in real life vs books/ movies they always want to say POC especially blacks are the bad...2023-04-0129 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDisability vs the World of Not Caring Part 2Handicapable Black Woman Episode 36 Disability vs the World of Not Caring Part 2handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeAmazon.com: Stelanie Marshall: books, biography, latest updateDon't forget to like and subscribe.(50) Dying While In Custody - YouTube(41) Elon Musk MOCKS Disabled Former Employee on Twitter - YouTube(41) NBC Reporter Backpedaling After Badgering John Fetterman For His Stroke - YouTube(41) Cop Gets Checked By Fellow Officers After Arresting Disabled Man - YouTube(41) EXCLUSIVE: Disabled Student Accused Of Cheating, Kicked Out - YouTube(41) How Medicaid Helped Disabled Americans In...2023-03-2229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDisability vs the World of Not Caring Part 1Handicapable black woman episode 35 Disability vs the World of Not Caring Part 1This episode is dedicated to Lisa Edward's. No one should be treated like her and proves we need legislation in order to treat people like they are human beings.Don't forget to like and subscribe. Distressed Woman Tells Cops "I'm Gonna Die," They Respond by Mocking Her - YouTube -Lisa Edward's storyLisa Edwards' family speaks out for first time - YouTube -Lisa Edward's storyShocking Crime CAUGHT On Bar Security Camera - YouTube -Wheelchair corruption2023-03-1929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThe End of Twelve Rotten Years Part 2I talk more about the end of two of my long long-term relationships. I talk about why I am stricter with who I date and why I need to make sure that they only accept my disability so that they can gain or obtain things from me. How Mr. Noheart did not care about my existence and the actions after so many years was apparent. There is a dash or racism in this tale or a heaping cup full, but it talks about the ignorance that happens with some interracial relationships and I will give advice on how to...2023-03-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThe End of Twelve Rotten Years Part 1I talk about how I ended and broke up with both guys (Noheart & Lockakey)  and one of them they tried to blackmail me  and the only thing he was good at which was being a criminal or bad at because he go caught. The other how I caught him in his video game lie and after surgery what I did to see if he actually cared about me and what I learned from Mr. Noheart's relationship.  handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeDon't forget to like and subscribe.2023-03-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanJerk With a Side of IgnoranceHow a first date at TGIFridays turned out to be a nightmare. I learned a lot. I tell a real story about how some people think they are better than everyone else and think that is a quality to have on a date. He was a chauvinist and bully. I slide in some of the thoughts of how in many Christian churches the woman is supposed to be submissive even when the man is wrong. I will talk about it in full in other episodes but was a great time to slide in an example of how men take...2023-03-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanCupid Has Me Choking On Some Other Kind of CandyI talk about how my five- and seven-year exes were with Valentine's day including being cheated on and having to go to an ex's boss to tell him of illegal activities. I ended up being a snitch because Lord knows he is never going to be worth going to jail for or have handcuffs on my wrists especially when it is not in the bedroom.If you watch the Episodes on how I dated both of them and how Mr. Lockakey's stepmom treated me. I am already creating a trail of breadcrumbs of why I am determined to...2023-03-0229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDesantis Will Not Be Invited to the Barbeque Part 2I talk about the issues that Desantis is too scared to talk about and why his potato salad probably has raisins in it and why is Barbeque is probably dry and tastes like tomato sauce.Desantis vs African American studiesSlaveryVotingWorkingTippingNatural hairBuried citiesReal estateBusiness loansPoliceBlack PanthersLynchingsMassacreColorism and the history, patterns and turmoil it has createdBible- brainwashinghighwaysDon't forget to like and subscribe.Amazon.com...2023-02-2829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDesantis Will Not Be Invited to the Barbeque Part 1Desantis is trying so hard to dismiss and hide our history from the next generations I am giving you the base of the cake, of what you need to know and learn that he would never allow in the classroom. I go over this because everyone in our country should know this information. Black history they are afraid to teach. subscribe. Desantis vs African American studiesSlaveryVotingWorkingTippingNatural hair2023-02-2730 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhy I Ended the Relationship with Mr. NoHeartI break down critical moments that made me realize that my ex white boyfriend had racists tendencies and that his racists mother and family members made sure racism did not skip a generation. I talk about how it is vital to on top of getting to know the person you are dating but to meet/interview the parents and their children (if they have any) because that can ruin a relationship and cause divorce/ breakup. This ex I am 98% sure followed Andrew Tate. I did not realize it until the pandemic, but I started looking back and examining different...2023-02-0829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanEnding the Relationship with Candy LockakeyI tell a shorter story of what ended the relationship for good with the "candy" addicted ex and how he tried to blackmail me in order to get my money I loaned him so he could have gas money to go to job interview. Low self-esteem allows you to make very poor choices and end up with men that later in my life can honestly say that I cannot believe there are men that are this tired and waste of time. I think both of my exes would probably love Andrew Tate or listened/ watched his material when I...2023-02-0429 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanLEFT behind so the right man will love all OVER meLEFT behind so the right man will love all OVER me is about why I am not married and why I am a Left Over. I know my flaws and I know reasons why men are running away from me. I talk about my life lessons and why I am proud to be a left over. In parts of Asia if you are not married by 25-30 you are considered to be a left over. This episode dips and dives on what is important to me and why I left a 5 and 7 year relationships and why I do...2023-02-0229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanThe Crown Belongs on Braids and Locs Too CROWN stands for: “Create a Respectful and Open Workplace for Natural Hair.”I talk about how it is vital for the USA to get with the program and pass this bill. I talk about the history. I talk about how it has impacted me personally; I talk about who said yea and nay on the bill. As we already know all of the nays were from republicans. Bobert and Green call the bill "the bad hair bill" and Bobert smiles the entire time she says why she does not agree with the bill. I talk about how this shows...2023-01-2828 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanAble Privilege- Why Are You Faking Symptoms to Get ViewsWhy do people think that bad acting mocking people with genuine disabilities is humane? How come bad attempts of getting an Emmy, Grammy, Oscar, Tony Award is okay when it comes to Covid, and representation for people with handicaps/ disabilities. We are human too and deserve respect because people like them who fake it make doctors think other like me think we are as well. Disabilities come in all shape, sizes, ages, race, creed, genders, etc. but faking side effects like this can make it harder for people who really need care and doctors to listen to them.  I h...2023-01-2730 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanA Continuation Toward a DreamWhere do we need to proceed so that Martin Luther King Jr.'s dream can continue coming to fruition? I talk about the needs in health, education, justice and other issues.Don't forget to like and subscribe. Cops Beat Their Wives & Girlfriends At Double The National Rate, Still Receive Promotions - The Free Thought ProjectPolice Domestic Violence: Data Shows 40 Percent of Cops Abuse Family (fatherly.com)When It Comes To Illegal Drug Use, White America Does The Crime, Black America Gets The Time | HuffPost Latest...2023-01-1630 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDating Nightmares and Single Stories 1I read some of the crazy messages I get from men (and sometimes women) and talk about issues that I face in the dating world in my late 30's.  I also tell a few stories about the men I meet and what I have learned from present and past men. Many men hate me now but after the war of dating I have battled I will not settle and hope none of you do.What is the craziest or most delusional message you have gotten online?What is the best pickup line you have been given? I...2023-01-0430 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanI Try to Date You, But You Don't Want Me 1Maria Taylor Puts Insecure Men In Their Place - YouTubeI will be doing a skim through of why I have a hard time dating black men. It is not that I don't like, love and appreciate black men. It is because they have no use or desire for me. I just responded to the link above and it seems that the black men were blaming me for dating a white guy that has a racist mother. I have dated Asian, Hispanic, Black, White and well now only Democrat men but because I am a black woman it...2022-12-3123 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanGoals with Getting Down to BusinessI hope you all are ready to create goals and expand or create new passions to overcome for next year. After years of people telling me what I can and cannot do or that I am smart enough or pretty enough, that I walk funny and so many other things I am continuing my passions and I hope all of you do as well.  What are your goals next year? Here are mine below.Don't forget to like and subscribe. Publish 12 books  Main one is my first novel, but ha...2022-12-2729 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanTeamwork Can Make a Nightmare Come Up 2I talk about a so-called friend and how she backstabs me two times. I learned how you can be as giving and genuine as you want but some people will enjoy every chance, they get to walk all over you and laugh as they do it. I have learned how great friendships can be but also how like diamonds some are beautiful and great, and some are just glass. The woman I talk about in this episode is just glass. If you can relate to the villain in this story, please write why do you enjoy it? If you...2022-12-2230 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanTeamwork Can Make a Nightmare Come Up 1handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | LinktreeI will be talking a lot about teamwork and what I have learned throughout my life containing the beautiful or the trauma of this skill that many do not have. This episode I talk about when I was in college and how I learned that 5 heads are not better than one, especially when only one is still doing all of the work. I though this would be a great starter to teamwork because I will be talking about--Teamwork in relationships-Teamwork in (so called) friendships-Teamwork at work...2022-12-1829 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanInteresting Questions (IQ) or Comments You Should Never Say 2I go over more idiotic statements that I get and why they should never be said or thought about. Some go over ableism, racism, feminism. Basically, everything that Republicans hate. I give my perspective of what they are saying and some of these comments I have talk to other people like myself who agree and sometimes are baffled and dumbfounded with the comments I talk about in this episode. Some of them are:You are too cute to walk like that. Why not just tell the doctors to fix you?You’re not re...2022-12-0729 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanMr. Lockakey Locked Me Inside a RelationshipCaution - This episode talks about addiction, but I call the drugs "candy" I talk about self-harm in this episode near the end of it. Not me but Mr. LockakeyIncluded in this packed episode- Racism, unseasoned food, lies, betrayal, and the struggle with finding out who I was/ am good enough to date. I face getting into a relationship that I never wanted to be in but because I was scared of the consequences that could follow. I was stupid and allowed myself to be stuck in a space where someone who cared more about...2022-11-3030 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanInteresting Questions (IQ) or Comments You Should Never Say 1Interesting Questions as in Interestingly ignorant, stupid, naive or just makes you wonder how your parent's raised you? I talk about some of the crazy idiotic things people tell me in public or online that is just flabbergasting. I go over why it is ignorant and also, I spill some tea on how some things can be helped in our education system and how we are actually hurting our next generation with allowing them to be naive, selfish and expecting everyone to be like them or to stereotype those who are not. I am working on my...2022-11-2529 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanMr. Lockakey's StepmomI know it is not most of America, but as I said. Many people get to wear the beer goggles in a place that has so many issues. As I have to live in the reality of how race, gender, and disability play a factor in the society. I also see how people in society play to the point where they push all of those groups to the side, down or just seem to break the table to make sure they have nowhere to sit. This is a story of yet another man and how bad him and his...2022-11-1929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanIntro to Mr. NoHeartI talk about my life with dating and why I ended up choosing men that made me think that I had no choice but to lower my standards. There is some racism, sexism and other items mentioned in this episode. How can a man say "I love you" but other than the ways I could help him, he did not even care. I talk about stereo typing, labeling, changing identity, or them trying to change my identity. Best of all, trying to figure my life with kids while wanting my own and the issues I now face with that...2022-11-1629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanValue in Your WordsHow the value in your words can interfere with someone else's life to the point where it damages their self-esteem and image. The restaurant owner that poured water over the homeless woman is:Dizzy Dean's Donuts2380 W 11th Ave, Eugene, OR 97402- (108) Donut Store Owner Films Himself Dumping Water On Homeless Woman - YouTubeWrite a review because if a businessperson does not value all lives, then ... Let's make sure other companies get the business. I will talk a lot about value after what I have witnessed and seen during the last few...2022-11-1330 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanValue Yourself and Your Identity Part 1Handicapable Black Woman Episode 11 Value Yourself and Your IdentityDon't let anyone put you down and take away your power, self-esteem and what you think of yourself. I bring up politics up because I have to care about politics because America is trying to take my rights, liberties and the somewhat equal laws that are supposed to give People Of Color, women and people with disabilities a chance. How jobs value me based off of all three and how dating men valued me based off of race, and disability. Part 2 coming next week.Don't forget to like...2022-11-0629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanPrescription of CompassionHandicapable Black Woman Episode 10 Prescription of CompassionI tell a story that talks about how people with disabilities should not be drilled, quizzed or ridiculed, treating them like a child when it comes to their diagnosis when they are the ones living through it is a mistake you ought to make. I tell a story of how I was belittled even though I followed the steps and everyone before the pharmacy did their job in order to help me live a somewhat normal life. Don't forget to like share and subscribe! handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, TikTok | Linktree2022-10-2929 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanBeer Goggle Mindset in American Part 1I talk about how my America is different from many people when it comes to hair, resources, entertainment and why I care about America and where it is headed.I talk about the imbalance of how we are seen and perceived, stereotyped and put in a box or labeled.   I will have tons of examples that prove my stance on my twitter and will be adding my new TikTok channel very shortly.Don't forget to like share and subscribe!  handicapableblackwoman | Twitter, Instagram, Spotify | Linktree2022-10-2229 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhy I Won’t Date Police part 3This example of police before I take a break on the topic, I talk about a sexist's situation that I went through and how I was blamed for a man threatening to follow me home. This is a story I try to forget about because men try to blame me, or many men say that women want this type of attention. Men don't kid yourselves.  I will be adding different links on my twitter so check out my twitter and you will see dating nightmares, statistics about the topics I bring up and more. I also have books up a...2022-10-1528 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhy I Won’t Date Police part 2I continue with telling my story from part one on why I will not date a police officer or veteran. I will be posting many stories that explain and prove my point on my twitter which you will find in my link tree. There are some good cops and veterans, but I bump into a lot of the bad ones and with what I am seeing around me I know that our justice system needs a facelift and needs to realize the racism that in all of the cracks, corners and laying there right in front of all...2022-10-0129 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanWhy I Won’t Date Police part 1*Warning- I do bring up violent stuff in this episode so if that makes you uncomfortable, I will have new episodes next week. *Republicans say to behave and follow directions but when you are black for most cops you also need to obey.I go over some of the issues I have been through when it comes to the police officers and vets. I mention the lack of training with 4 examples of why I have low expectations of cops. How I have dealt with racism and placed in awful situations from each one. I know...2022-09-2530 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanRed Bottom ShoeI talk about how in the dating world today many men still try to deflate our (woman or man) value. I talk a lot about ways to develop yourselfYour wants and needs and how his are not the only ones that countHow some men will try to tear you down so that you feel like you are not good enough for anyone else. I have many of the messages I get online from men in my social media. You can check out my linktree to some of the thing's men have the nerve...2022-09-1629 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDon't Call Me Oreo, I Go By Macaroon**Warning there is some mention of language and violence in this episode. **(I hoped around some because this topic leads to so many other issues and topics of America.)This episode goes over part of the stereo typing issue that we have in America. I can go on for hours but will have more examples and parts later on. I talk a lot about school and dating examples from both dating black and outside of my race. Make sure to listen in on the ignorant comments and cookie cutter thoughts people actually say out loud that...2022-09-0837 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanDrowning in student loan debt while America hides the lifesaverPart one of my employment history and trying to find work but how I ended up drowning in interest and expected payments when I was being bombarded with illegal HR questions and the issue of race and my unique name.  I work and hint at some of the jobs I worked at to pay bills and survive but also jobs that I probably would have gotten if I did not have my disability or because of my race. Student loans is something many people will not understand, and I am proud of those that paid them off and those w...2022-08-2929 minThe Bearded AdvocateThe Bearded AdvocateStelanie (Hereditary Spastic Paraplegia) & The Bearded AdvocateToday I am joined by Stelanie who has been living with Hereditary Spastic Paraplegia and has taken some time out of her day to share her story and what she has been doing to help other. I hope you all enjoyed the conversation we had as well as show your support down below by checking out the books she has published.  https://www.amazon.com/dp/163684703X https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09TZBJM4K https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09TZBJM4K --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.f...2022-08-241h 47Handicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable People Sometimes Just Want to EatI tell 3 restaurant stories about how I was treated as someone with a disability. I share how some companies do not care if their employees treat people in a degrading way. I mention some ways that people can make it easier for those nervous who want to get out and socialize but maybe scared or feel out of place.Lessons to learn- Learn or train or fake to treat people with disabilities like they count or matter.*I forgot to mention please try to hire someone who speaks/signs ASL and try to have a menu...2022-08-2329 minHandicapable Black WomanHandicapable Black WomanLearning My True Self As the Handicapable Black WomanThis podcast is a voice for everyone who is finding or realizing their true identity and those who always feel like they have to prove themselves or wonder why and how people are the way they are. My introduction video where I talk about my identity as a newly diagnosed disability person and why I am just now finding value in myself and in my life. I am still getting judged and looked down on and I am finding out how shallow people can really be when it comes to dating, job placement, coworkers, "friends" etc. I kind of...2022-08-151h 24