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I Hate TalkingMerry Christmas and the Mystery of the Missing Color of the Year EpisodeSend us Fan Mail This Christmas-day mini episode is a warm holiday check‑in rather than a full installment. The hosts pause regular programming on December 25, 2025 to wish listeners a Merry Christmas, acknowledging that many are spending the day with friends and family, working essential jobs, or maybe even heading to a movie theater instead of a big gathering. They invite anyone who feels alone—or just wants some company while commuting or cooking—to revisit past episodes, suggesting their November 21, 2024 episode “Under the Auspices of I Hate Talking, a New Podcast Appears” and the January 23, 2025 synesthesia episode as...
2025-12-2504 minI Hate TalkingColor of the Year and More Color DiscussionSend us Fan Mail In episode 88 of I Hate Talking, the hosts revisit the idea of “color of the year” and unpack Pantone’s 2026 pick: Cloud Dancer. Instead of finding it calming or inspiring, they both react strongly against it, describing the off‑white shade as dingy, dirty, and more like a stained wall or leaky dishwasher water than a serene, billowy cloud. They also read and gently roast Pantone’s poetic marketing language about clarity, creativity, and fresh starts, noting how little it matches their actual emotional response to the color.To frame the discussion...
2025-12-1827 minI Hate TalkingPants and Other Clothing That Could Go To WasteSend us Fan Mail Episode 87 of I Hate Talking dives into the surprisingly rich world of pants—sparked by the hosts’ recent closet decluttering and reflections on how many clothes a typical American household accumulates. They start with definitions and regional differences: in North America, “pants” means trousers, while in British English “pants” often means underwear and can even be slang for “nonsense” or “rubbish.” They trace the word back through “pantaloons,” to the comic Italian character Pantalone, whose too-tight breeches helped give the garment its name.From there, the conversation branches into culture, gender, and clothing norms: who “...
2025-12-1130 minI Hate TalkingThe Interesting Etylmology of GoodbyeSend us Fan Mail In episode 86 of I Hate Talking, the hosts take on the deceptively simple word “goodbye” and discover how emotionally loaded it has become in modern conversation. They unpack why “goodbye” can feel harsh or final—more like a relationship-ending period than a casual sign‑off—and contrast it with softer alternatives such as “bye,” “see you later,” and even the more cheerful “good morning.”Digging into etymology, they explain how “goodbye” began as the devotional phrase “God be with ye,” was shortened in writing (like an old-school “BRB”), and eventually morphed into the single word used today. From t...
2025-12-0436 minI Hate TalkingHappy Thanksgiving and Episode RecommendationsSend us Fan Mail No new episode this week—your hosts are taking a break to celebrate Thanksgiving in the United States! If you’re looking for something to listen to while you cook, travel, or relax, there’s a rich catalog of over 85 past episodes to choose from.For a listener favorite, check out the 'Synesthesia' episode (Jan 23, 2025), which offers a deep dive into the fascinating phenomenon of mixing senses. If your mood leans festive, revisit 'Christmas Tide, When Will It End, and the Lost Ornaments' (Jan 16, 2025) for cozy holiday reflections. Other top listens include...
2025-11-2702 minI Hate TalkingRaingutter Regatta, Kayaks, Canoes, Rowboats, and MoreSend us Fan Mail In episode 85 of I Hate Talking, the hosts open with a milestone announcement: November marked their most downloaded month since the podcast launched, second only to their debut month. Listeners are encouraged to catch early episodes and share feedback—preferably with a dose of kindness or even pure praise!The word of the episode is "regatta," inspired by the recent Cub Scout rain gutter regatta boat race. The hosts break down the origins and meaning of "regatta," tracing it from its Italian (and possibly Latin) roots as a contest or race, to...
2025-11-2029 minI Hate TalkingThe Word of the Year Isn't Even a Word?Send us Fan Mail Episode 84 explores Dictionary.com's controversial 2025 "Word of the Year"—the number —and the explosion of meme culture in everyday language. The hosts debate whether numerals can truly count as words, and dissect what it means for a dictionary to embrace viral Gen Alpha fads as legitimate lexicon. They unpack the origin of 67 as slang: from a rapper's lyric and TikTok trends, to schoolyards and sports memes, to its status as an in-joke that, paradoxically, includes everyone in the fun.Alongside plenty of real-life stories (including how a scout meeting devolved into a cho...
2025-11-1321 minI Hate TalkingMore Debate on the Quote "Nostalgia is simply a longing for a time we know we can survive"Send us Fan Mail In Episode 83 of I Hate Talking, the hosts dive into the concept of "nostalgia," sparked by a listener suggestion and a memorable quote: "Nostalgia is just a longing for a time we know we can survive." The duo debates the merits and shortcomings of this definition, reflecting on whether nostalgia is more about overcoming hardships or an emotional longing for the best moments of our pasts. With personal stories about parenting, childhood memories, and once-in-a-lifetime trips, they explore how nostalgia is shaped by both triumph and struggle, and whether it applies to adulthood m...
2025-11-0629 minI Hate TalkingFetid Smells and Debate on NostalgiaSend us Fan Mail In Episode 82, the hosts take a listener suggestion and spotlight the word fetid—a recent Wordle answer—and trace its meaning, origins, and less obvious relatives. The hosts discuss both their Wordle strategies, starter words, and the minor heartbreaks and little victories that come with daily word games, before diving into vocabulary.They explain that fetid means “having a heavy, offensive smell”—think stinky swamps, unwashed gear, or foul breath. Drawing on its Latin roots (fetidus from fetere, "to stink"), they clarify that it’s not related to words like fetish, despite some...
2025-10-3031 minI Hate TalkingConclusions on Blue, When Does Christmas Start, the Value of Thanksgiving Day, and Day Light SavingsSend us Fan Mail In this richly layered episode, the hosts follow up on unanswered questions from last week’s exploration of blue. They start by confirming what Russians actually call their beloved “Blue” cats—Синий русский (Siniy russkiy)—and dive into why Puritan “blue laws” might have literally come from blue paper or blue clothing. From there, the couple unpacks theories on how “blue” came to mean both “religious strictness” and “indecency,” tracing its tangled linguistic roots through New England idioms and 19th‑century slang.The new word of the week, crèche, opens a thoughtful discussion on the Latin, French, and Greek...
2025-10-2337 minI Hate TalkingAll the Variations, Shades, and Definitions of BlueSend us Fan Mail Overview:An unexpectedly multifaceted English word examined through color, emotion, temperature, and cultural usage—plus comparisons to Russian and historical linguistics.Why it came up:The hosts had recently discussed Russian—the language’s treatment of blue inspired today’s topic.Linguistic Insight: Russian Words for “Blue”Russian distinguishes light and dark blue with two separate terms:синий (siniy) — dark blueголубой (goluboy) — light blueScientific studies show Russian speakers identify shades of blue faster and more precisely than English speakers because their brains associate distinct words with each hue.English only modifies blue...
2025-10-1616 minI Hate TalkingIs Timidity Even a Word?Send us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: TimidityDefinition (Oxford): Lack of courage or confidence.Usage: More common historically (esp. 1800s), in decline until a slight uptick since 2019—possibly linked to its appearance in modern Bible translations (e.g., NLT). Example usage: “She believes everyone can overcome their timidity.”Etymology: From Latin timidus (“fearful”) ← timere (“to fear”). Related to timid, intimidate, etc.Comparison: Timidness exists, but AI claims timidity is more established—a claim the hosts dispute, saying they had never encountered it until now.Biblical Connection: Appears in 2 Timothy 1:7 in NLT (“spirit of timidity”), contrasted with KJV “sp...
2025-10-0928 minI Hate TalkingPolemics on Morals, Morale, and WorldviewsSend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: PolemicalDefinition (Oxford): Expressing or constituting a strong critical attack or controversial opinion.Etymology: From Greek polemos (“war”) → polemikós (“warlike/hostile”).Discussion:Related to debate and controversy, not to Ptolemaic (Claudius Ptolemy’s geocentric astronomy).Hosts joked about confusing the two since they sound similar, imagining a “Ptolemaic polemic.”Takeaway: polemical ≠ Ptolemaic, but both useful as play on words.Connection to Past EpisodesRevisited pontificate: noted they’re now noticing frequent (often incorrect) uses of the term in culture and academics.Bridge to discussion: morals vs. morale can...
2025-10-0231 minI Hate TalkingMorals Versus MoraleSend us Fan Mail Words of the Episode: Morals vs. MoraleMoralsDefinition: Standards of behavior or principles of right/wrong by which a person lives; also lessons drawn from stories.Etymology: From Latin mos/moris → morales → moralia (used by St. Gregory in his exposition on Job) → Middle English.Can be good or bad, but always refers to a guiding code.MoraleDefinition: Confidence, discipline, and outlook of a person or group at a given time (e.g., workplace morale).Etymology: From French moral in the mid‑18th century; respelled morale in English to preserve stress on the final...
2025-09-2522 minI Hate TalkingInterstellar Objects: 'Oumuamua, 3I-ATLAS, and moreSend us Fan Mail Links to materials mentioned in the episode:Link to book by Avi Loeb: Extraterrestrial: The First Sign of Intelligent Life Beyond Earth.Link to the paper co-authored by Avi Loeb: Is the Interstellar Object 3I/ATLAS Alien Technology? (PDF)Word(s) of the EpisodeʻOumuamuaHawaiian name for the first observed interstellar object (2017).Meaning: “A messenger from afar arriving first” or “advance scout.”Had unusual properties—possibly pancake-shaped, non-natural trajectory, and odd light reflections that led some scientists (e.g., Avi Loeb, Harvard) to propose it might be an artificial probe.3I/Atl...
2025-09-1828 minI Hate TalkingPareto Principle, the 80/20 Rule, and More Jumbotron AnticsSend us Fan Mail Episode MilestoneHosts note that Episode 75 feels like a meaningful number (cool, but not as significant as 60 was for them). Next true milestone will be Episode 100, expected in ~25 weeks.Word of the Episode: Pareto (Pareto Principle)Definition: The Pareto Principle or 80/20 rule: roughly 80% of consequences come from 20% of causes.History:Coined by Italian economist Wilfredo Pareto (1848–1923), originally observing that 20% of Italians owned 80% of land.Later applied by Joseph Juran to quality control (20% of causes lead to 80% of defects).Other Names: “Vital few,” “principle of factor sparsity.”Applications:Donations: 20% of donors ofte...
2025-09-1126 minI Hate TalkingPontification of Deadlines and UrgencySend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: PontificateHosts’ Initial Guess:They believed it meant to think deeply to arrive at a decision.They even associated it with careful contemplation and resolution.Actual Definition (Oxford Languages):To express one’s opinions in an annoyingly pompous or dogmatic way.Far from quiet reflection—it's about pompous expression.Negative connotation, closer to “know‑it‑all” behavior.Additional Meaning: In Roman Catholic Church context, pontificate = officiate as a bishop at mass; also used as a noun for tenure (e.g., “the Pope’s pontificate”).Etymology: From Latin pontifex → Old French pontificat →...
2025-09-0434 minI Hate TalkingLibfixes, Diving Boards, and GenerositySend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: LibfixDefinition: A “libfix” is a liberated suffix—when part of a word (often mistaken as a suffix) gets reanalyzed and reused as a suffix for other words.Examples:-gate (from Watergate): now used to mean “scandal” (e.g., Pizzagate, Elsagate).-core (from hardcore): extended to music genres or aesthetics (metalcore, cottagecore, tropicore in Animal Crossing).-holic (from alcoholic): becomes workaholic, shopaholic.-cation (from vacation): staycation, workcation.-punk (from cyberpunk): steampunk, dieselpunk, etc.Etymology: Libfix = “liberated suffix.” Differs from a normal suffix since it wasn’t originally a suff...
2025-08-2817 minI Hate TalkingSelf-Care versus Self-IndulgenceSend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: PenitentUsage: Came up while studying Psalm 6 (one of the “penitential psalms”).Common Associations:Hosts thought it related to humility, kneeling, or seeking forgiveness.One recalled Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, where the “penitent man kneels before God.”Also connected to penance.Dictionary Definition: Feeling or showing sorrow/regret for wrongdoings; repentant. As a noun, someone who repents.Etymology: From Latin paenitent- (“repenting”) → Old French → English. Related to penance.Fun fact: Appears in scientific term “penitent ethylene” (plants shedding leaves under stress, a kind of “repentance”).Main Discussion: Self-Car...
2025-08-2129 minI Hate TalkingOur One-Day Whirlwind Trip To Chicago - Part 2Send us Fan Mail This episode is Part 1 of the Chicago recap. Find Part 1 in episode 70 last week.Word of the Episode: Porta PottyDefinition: A portable, temporary toilet facility.Etymology:“Porta Potty” comes from portable potty, but its popularization is linked to a brand name, much like Kleenex.“Potty” derives from “pot” (as in chamber pot) with the diminutive suffix “-y/-ie.”In other cultures, “toilet” is the more common term; in ASL, “toilet” is used rather than “potty.”Chicago Trip Recap – Part 2Ancient History Museum VisitOfficially: Institute for the Study of Ancient Cultur...
2025-08-1429 minI Hate TalkingOur One-Day Whirlwind Trip To Chicago - Part 1Send us Fan Mail This episode is part 1 of the Chicago recap; it will continue in the next episode, including the promised description of the "Taj Mahal of porta potties" and covering the remaining tourist adventures.Word of the Episode: FlabbergastThe hosts dive into the word "flabbergast," inspired by previous use when describing the "Coldplay incident." They share their own definitions (astonished, shocked to the point of near speechlessness) before consulting official sources.Definition: To surprise greatly; astonish.Etymology:The origin is uncertain."Gast" is an archaic English word meaning "to frighten" or "s...
2025-08-0726 minI Hate TalkingOldies, Remakes, and Spin-OffsSend us Fan Mail Theme & Word of the Episode:The episode focuses on the word "oldie," exploring its definition, history, and how its meaning has shifted over time, especially in the context of music.Origin and Evolution:"Oldie" combines "old" with the suffix "-ie," recorded first in 1874 to describe an old person.By the 1940s, it expanded to refer to old tunes or films.In the 1960s, as radio became widespread, stations began using "oldies" to describe music from earlier decades (primarily the 1950s and 1960s).Phrase "Oldie but a Goodie":Credited t...
2025-07-3130 minI Hate TalkingBonus Onomatopeia Behind the ScenesSend us Fan Mail Special behind the scenes bonus episode:The hosts discuss how to represent a rewind sound (onomatopoeia). They debate whether to cut out a portion of the recording or continue, and ultimately decide to keep the candid moment because it's funny, then agree to continue from where they left off.Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice. Special thanks to...
2025-07-2500 minI Hate TalkingOnomatopeia and the Sounds of ColdplaySend us Fan Mail The hosts continue their discussion on the word "onomatopoeia," elaborating on its definition (words that imitate sounds, like "splash" or "ping") and etymology (from Greek meaning "name making"), and exploring examples of onomatopoeia, especially in animal and bird names. They highlight how different languages create onomatopoeia differently (e.g., a duck’s sound is “quack” in English, “coin” in French, “gaga” in Japanese), and discuss how language, words, and their meanings evolve over time and across cultures.The episode shifts focus to a recent viral incident involving a “kiss cam” at a Coldplay concert...
2025-07-2439 minI Hate TalkingBloops, Bloopers, and TreesSend us Fan Mail The Word of the Episode: "Bloop""Bloop" Origins and Mysteries: The episode opens with a discussion about the word "bloop," notable in the hosts' family for its mysterious oceanic association. The "bloop" refers to an ultra-low-frequency underwater sound detected in 1997 by two hydrophones 5,000 miles apart. It initially fueled speculation about an unknown sea creature, fueled by the interests of one of the hosts' children.Scientific Explanation: Despite myths about sea monsters, the scientific consensus is that the "bloop" sound was caused by underwater seismic activity or icebergs colliding, specifically identified as an "i...
2025-07-1733 minI Hate TalkingRoshambo (alternatively known as Rock Paper Scissors)Send us Fan Mail Episode 66 of "I Hate Talking" shifts to a more lighthearted tone after two serious episodes, focusing on the word "Rochambeau," which is another name for the game rock-paper-scissors. The hosts discuss the debated origins of the term. One popular but incorrect urban legend claims that a French general named Rochambeau used the game to make battlefield decisions during the American Revolutionary War. However, the World Rock Paper Scissors Association debunks this, stating the term’s true origin is unclear but likely unrelated to the general.The game itself originated in China, pos...
2025-07-1016 minI Hate TalkingParallel Play - Part 2Send us Fan Mail Episode 65 of "I Hate Talking" centers on the word "cogitate" and continues the discussion about parallel play.The hosts introduce and explore the word "cogitate," which means to think deeply about something, tracing its Latin roots and comparing it with "meditate." They note that while both words involve deep thought, "cogitate" implies active, problem-focused thinking, whereas "meditate" often connotes relaxation or contemplation without a specific goal.The hosts discuss how "meditate" is more commonly used in modern English, while "cogitate" is rare and might be misunderstood if used in conversation. They highlight t...
2025-07-0328 minI Hate TalkingParallel Play - Part 1Send us Fan Mail The hosts discuss the concept of "parallel play," ultimately choosing it over other potential topics like "predictive programming" or "apse" for this episode.Definition and Origins:Parallel play originally describes a stage in child development where children play side by side without direct interaction, as a precursor to cooperative play.The term is now also applied to adults: it refers to people engaging in separate activities in the same physical space, such as one reading while the other watches TV, without direct interaction.Hosts’ Perspectives:One host dislikes par...
2025-06-2631 minI Hate TalkingPareidolia (Seeing Faces and More in Everyday Scenery)Send us Fan Mail Example #1: Person Standing Over Edge of A Cliff Seen In Background of One Photo but Not Another.Example #2: My family member went on a hike – but someone (or something) else showed up in her photo.The Pareidolia episode:Pareidolia is the tendency to perceive familiar patterns, especially faces, in random or ambiguous images and objects.Common examples include seeing faces in clouds, rock formations, or everyday items like breakfast foods.Etymology and OriginsThe term derives from Greek roots: "para" meaning "beyond" and "eidolon" mea...
2025-06-1924 minI Hate TalkingGoing Gangbusters on Personal Health and MoreSend us Fan Mail Main Topic: The Word "Gangbusters"The episode centers on the meaning, usage, and origin of the word "gangbusters," prompted by a listener request.The hosts initially discuss their own understanding, associating "gangbusters" with something that is very successful, energetic, or goes "all out."Dictionary definitions are referenced:(1) A police officer or person who breaks up criminal gangs.(2) Something very successful or performed exceptionally well.The term is noted as informal and primarily North American in usage.Etymology and Historical Usage"Gangbusters" originated from a popular 1930s–1950s radio show called "Gan...
2025-06-1227 minI Hate TalkingThings of Which We're Proud, Plus PlumbersSend us Fan Mail The episode centers around the etymology of the word "plumber" and segues into a broader discussion about pride, personal achievements, and learning styles.Key Points:Origin of "Plumber":The hosts discuss the word "plumber," tracing its roots to the Latin word plumbum (meaning lead), which is why the chemical symbol for lead is Pb. Historically, plumbers worked with lead pipes, hence the profession's name..Learning Styles:The conversation touches on different mnemonic techniques, with one host preferring visual mnemonics and the other auditory, highlighting how people remember i...
2025-06-0527 minI Hate TalkingBonus Knock Knock JokeSend us Fan Mail Bonus knock knock joke, following our humorous episode from yesterday!Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice. Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.
2025-05-3000 minI Hate TalkingWhat a Joke of an EpisodeSend us Fan Mail Episode Milestone and Word of the DayThe hosts discuss the significance of reaching episode 60, debating whether 50 or 60 is a more exciting milestone.The featured word is "rubric." They explore its meanings:In education and structure: a checklist or set of criteria to fulfill a purpose.In liturgical context: instructions for how a religious service should be conducted, not the service itself.As a category: grouping ideas under a broader concept.The etymology of "rubric" traces back to the Latin "rubeus" (meaning red), through Old French and Middle English, to modern English. T...
2025-05-2939 minI Hate TalkingLatin Terms and When To CommitSend us Fan Mail Key Terms and EtymologyDe Minimis: This Latin phrase, from "de minimis non curat lex" meaning "the law does not concern itself with trifles," refers to a threshold value in tariff law. Goods imported into the US below a certain dollar amount (e.g., $800) are considered trivial and not subject to tariffs, while those above are.Ad Valorem: Also Latin, meaning "according to the value," this term describes a tariff or tax that is a percentage of the value of goods, similar to a sales tax. An item can be subject to b...
2025-05-2225 minI Hate TalkingTaxes, Value, and VolunteeringSend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: TariffThe hosts define a tariff as a tax imposed by a government on goods, usually on imports, with the goal of making foreign goods less competitive compared to domestic products. Tariffs can also be applied to exports, though this is less common and often used when a country has a unique product or resource.Types and Purposes of TariffsThere are two main types:Specific tariff: A fixed fee per unit (e.g., $500 per container).Ad valorem tariff: A percentage of the declared value of t...
2025-05-1528 minI Hate TalkingInstrumental TariffsSend us Fan Mail The episode opens with the hosts noting there are no major announcements and moves directly into discussing the “word or phrase of the episode”: instrumental. The hosts observed that “instrumental” has come up frequently in their recent personal conversations, prompting them to explore its meanings and usage.Etymology and Definitions•Etymology: The word “instrumental” traces back to Latin instruere (construct or equip), then to instrumentum (implement or equipment), later entering Middle English as “instrument,” and finally “instrumental” as an adjective.•Definitions:•General Use: When someone or something is described as “instrumental,” it means...
2025-05-0833 minI Hate TalkingOne Year Podcasting Celebration and Norman DoorsSend us Fan Mail Episode 56 of “I Hate Talking” celebrates the podcast’s one-year anniversary since its launch in May 2024, reflecting on the journey and thanking listeners for their support. The hosts announce that all episodes now have transcripts and improved show notes to enhance accessibility and discoverability.The episode’s featured phrase is “Norman Door,” a term named after design expert Don Norman, referring to doors whose operation (push or pull) is unclear or confusing to users. The hosts discuss examples of Norman Doors, including doors with misleading handles or no handles, and share personal anec...
2025-05-0132 minI Hate TalkingMind Your Ps and QsSend us Fan MailDiscussion Focus:The hosts explore the origin and meaning of the phrase "mind your P's and Q's," sharing theories, personal experiences, and research.Main Theories Discussed:Typesetting/Printing Press Theory:The phrase may have originated from early printing, where printers had to be careful not to confuse the lowercase letters "p" and "q," which look similar when set backward for printing.Tavern/Pub Theory:Another theory suggests the phrase comes from English and Australian pubs, where bartenders kept track...
2025-04-2432 minI Hate TalkingNarrator Research Behind the ScenesSend us Fan Mail This clip didn't make the final cut to our previous episode, but now you can get a behind-the-scenes listen to our roundabout and somewhat humorous research on our favorite narrator. Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice. Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.
2025-04-1806 minI Hate TalkingApt, App, App, App, and Ray PorterSend us Fan Mail We have an extended conversation on the etymology of the word "apt" as well as three different versions of shortened words that result in "app" (application, appetizer, and appearance).We continue the episode with discussion about the likes and dislikes of when authors self-narrate their own books, and conclude with talking about our favorite narrator of all time: Ray Porter.You can find the link to the audiobook mentioned in the episode here. Support the show---Any views expressed o...
2025-04-1726 minI Hate TalkingLess is More, More or Less - Bonus ClipSend us Fan Mail Missed our latest episode? Maybe you are thinking less is more, more or less, but it's still worth a listen.Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice. Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.
2025-04-1100 minI Hate Talking"Argue Less, Talk More" A Discusion on ConversationSend us Fan Mail We delve into a word related to the recent book titled "The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More" by Jefferson Fisher. That word is "pause"....You can find that book on Amazon or wherever you buy books.We then discuss a variety of topics related to talking as well as pausing in conversations. Is this just a strategy or does pausing during conversations provide real value when communicating with others? Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are t...
2025-04-1036 minI Hate TalkingThe Starter, the Sustainer, and the CloserSend us Fan Mail We talk about Sturgeon's Law at the start of this episode as it relates to some of the topics covered in last week's episode as well as some of the discussion we continue this week.We build on the (hopefully good) content from last week and discuss the "starter" role versus the "sustainer" role. Maybe there is, or needs to be, a third role: the "closer". Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for e...
2025-04-0326 minI Hate TalkingTroth, Social Contracts, When To Quit, and moreSend us Fan Mail We begin with a word related to the topic in mind: troth. We discuss the etymology and related words, and discuss our thoughts on commitments, truth, and declarations.Then we delve into how much commitment you need to have things, when is a good time to quit, and the social pressure put on us by unspoken contracts. Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical a...
2025-03-2729 minI Hate TalkingAstronauts Have Made Egress From The SpaceshipSend us Fan Mail We have a short discussion about the recent "rescuing" of the astronauts that experienced a much longer trip to space than planned.The word of the episode, "egress", has the definition and origin discussed, since that was one of the technical words used during the live broadcast of the capsule returning to earth. This word has more meaning than just "exit". Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of t...
2025-03-2008 minI Hate TalkingOn the Fly Daylight Savings Time DiscussionsSend us Fan Mail We talk about the definition, usage, history, and etymology of the phrase "on the fly", as requested by a listener. Where do you think that phrase came from? See if you're right; there's actually two different prevailing theories on the origin of that phrase.Then we have a conversation on Daylight Savings Time, the impact it has on our lives, and potential alternatives to this practice. Enjoy all the results of our mid-episode research, but through the magic of podcast editing you don't have to wait around while we do our o...
2025-03-1333 minI Hate TalkingEncouragement and EnduranceSend us Fan Mail Adam talks about the etymology of two words, encouragement and endurance. Heart and hardness are the two themes.Then, for this special episode, an original sermon from a Scout Service in late 2024 is recited.Finally, some brief thoughts on the need for "softness" versus "hardness" when dealing with life. Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice. Sp...
2025-03-0621 minI Hate TalkingOperation MockingbirdSend us Fan Mail We have an unstructured conversation about Operation Mockingbird. But first we talk about the Northern Mockingbird and How to Kill a Mockingbird.Then we dive into the conspiracy theory that the US Government infiltrated large media organizations. Supposedly this project was shut down in the 19070s, but does it continue secretly to this day?One of the sources on the legitimacy that this project did in fact exist at one time can be found here (PDF warning). Support the show---Any views exp...
2025-02-2728 minI Hate TalkingAutolyse, Sour Dough Bread, and Trad WivesSend us Fan Mail The long awaited sourdough episode is finally here. We talk about autolyse, a word coined by a French chef in regards to baking. Then we talk about our sourdough journey including the validation that Steph found in this endeavor. Finally, we try to determine what women sourdough bakers should call themselves as we discuss both the positive and negative connotations associated with “trad wives.”Find the Joe Rogan clip about McDonald’s Coke here (warning: language). Support the show---Any views expre...
2025-02-2028 minI Hate TalkingReflections on the Truth and Theories Around the January 2025 Air DisastersSend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: Per SeThe episode centers on the phrase "per se", often miswritten as one word but correctly written as two ("per se"). The hosts discuss its meaning: "by or in itself; intrinsically." For example, "It is not these facts per se that are important" means the facts themselves aren’t what matter most.The hosts share a personal anecdote about mistakenly writing "per se" as one word in previous show notes and being corrected by spellcheck, leading to this episode’s topic.Scouting Skit StoryThe hosts...
2025-02-1340 minI Hate TalkingNPCs, Neologisms, and the Magic of Human ExperienceSend us Fan Mail In episode 44, the hosts begin with light banter about podcast audio issues and reminders for listeners to like, share, and subscribe. They pick up on topics left unfinished from the previous episode, especially the idea of how people see themselves and others in everyday life.Neologism ExplainedThe hosts clarify the meaning of neologism: a newly coined word or expression. While "neologism" literally means "new word" (from Greek roots "neo" for new and "logos" for word), the term itself is not new-it dates back to the early 1800s. The hosts n...
2025-02-0626 minI Hate TalkingSonder and Realization that All People Have Deep Complex Life ExperiencesSend us Fan Mail In episode 43, the hosts discuss the concept of sonder, a neologism coined by John Koenig in 2012 in his blog The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows. A word with no etymology per se, the episode unpacks the word’s meaning, origins, and how it applies to daily life.Key Points:Definition and Origin:"Sonder" is defined as the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own, with their own ambitions, routines, and worries. The word is a recent invention (neologism) and, while it may...
2025-01-3034 minI Hate TalkingSynesthesia - Seeing Colors from Numbers and ShapesSend us Fan Mail In episode 42, the hosts celebrate a podcast milestone and thank their loyal listeners before diving into the long-awaited topic of synesthesia-a phenomenon where stimulation of one sense involuntarily triggers experiences in another.Key Points:Definition & Etymology:Synesthesia comes from Greek roots: "syn" (together) and "esthesia" (sensation). Unlike "anesthesia" (without sensation), synesthesia means combined or blended sensations. For example, someone might see colors when hearing music or associate numbers with specific colors.Prevalence & Research:Synesthesia is estimated to occur in about 2–4% of the population, more commonly in women, and is...
2025-01-2339 minI Hate TalkingChristmastide, When Will It End? And The Lost OrnamentsSend us Fan Mail In episode 41, recorded in January 2025, the hosts discuss the lingering presence of Christmas in their lives, prompted by one wearing a Christmas sweater well after the holiday. This leads to a deep dive into the word of the episode: Christmastide.Key Points:Christmastide Defined:Christmastide refers to the traditional Christian season of Christmas, beginning at sunset on Christmas Eve (December 24) and ending at sunset on January 6 (Epiphany). This period encompasses the "12 Days of Christmas," a concept often misunderstood in popular culture as the days leading up to Christmas, when i...
2025-01-1644 minI Hate TalkingIcy Conditions AheadSend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: MawkishThe hosts introduce the word mawkish, which neither of them initially knows. They discuss its pronunciation and origins, noting confusion with similar-sounding words like "mockish" or "moccasins."Looking up the word in historical dictionaries, they find that "mawkish" means:Having a faint, sickly, or unpleasantly sweet taste (insipid).Being weakly sentimental or feebly emotional, often used to describe something exaggeratedly or childishly emotional (e.g., a "mawkish love story").The word’s roots are linked to the Greek for "masticate" (to chew), and the noun "mawk" refers to...
2025-01-0947 minI Hate TalkingStickler Rule Following in Life and GamesSend us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: SticklerThe episode’s focus is the word "stickler", which historically comes from Old and Middle English, meaning an umpire or someone who sets things in order. Today, it refers to a person who insists on strict adherence to rules or certain standards.The hosts note that while "stickler" often has a negative connotation (suggesting rigidity or compulsiveness), it can also be positive, as such traits can lead to success in careers or life.Main Topic: Rules in Games and LifeThe discussion shifts to how peo...
2025-01-0221 minI Hate TalkingKitschy Trip to New York City - Part 2Send us Fan Mail Episode 38 of "I Hate Talking" features the conclusion of the hosts’ whirlwind, family trip to New York City, with a focus on the word epitome.Word of the Episode: EpitomeThe hosts discuss the pronunciation and Greek origins of "epitome," explaining it means a perfect example of something or a summary of a larger work.They note that while "epitome" is often used sincerely, it can sometimes be used sarcastically or with a slight negative edge.Traveling Light: The Epitome of MinimalismThe hosts describe how they were the...
2024-12-2640 minI Hate TalkingKitschy Trip to New York City - Part 1Send us Fan Mail Word of the Episode: KitschyThe hosts discuss the word "kitschy," prompted by a recent family trip where their child asked what it meant.They define "kitschy" as describing objects or art that are in poor taste due to excessive gaudiness or sentimentality, but sometimes appreciated ironically. Examples include overdone souvenir items like "I ❤️ NY" merchandise, snow globes, or Statue of Liberty trinkets.The word comes from the German "kitsch," meaning worthless or trashy art, and entered English in the late 19th century. It’s often used to describe things that are unsophi...
2024-12-1938 minI Hate TalkingBonus Content - Blessed Family SongSend us Fan Mail Enjoy the song mentioned in the main episode as bonus content!Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice. Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.
2024-12-1202 minI Hate TalkingMoney Laundering and Song ProductionSend us Fan Mail In episode 36, the hosts focus on the word "launder", exploring its etymology, meanings, and a personal story that inspired the topic.Key Points:Not About Synesthesia, Sourdough, or Keto:The hosts clarify this episode will not cover previously considered topics like synesthesia, sourdough, or keto diets, though they briefly mention the "30-30-30" diet trend.Etymology of "Launder":"Launder" comes from the Latin lavar (to wash), through Old French (lavander) and Middle English (lavender), originally referring to washing clothes or linens. The discussion touches on how the spelling a...
2024-12-1234 minI Hate TalkingNeophilia, The Love of All Things NewSend us Fan Mail In episode 35, the hosts introduce and explore the word neophilia, which means "love of the new." They explain that while the term isn’t widely used in English, it is constructed from Greek roots-philia (brotherly love or affinity) and neo (new). The discussion clarifies that philia words (like audiophile, bibliophile, cinephile) aren’t inherently negative and often describe someone with an above-average passion for something.Key Points:Neophilia Defined:Neophilia refers to a strong interest in or love for new experiences, objects, or ideas. The hosts note it’s often u...
2024-12-0532 minI Hate TalkingHappy Thanksgiving Mic TestSend us Fan Mail Thanksgiving Day is not a good day to release a podcast episode (now we know for next time)! We've shuffled some episodes around, and in the meantime you can enjoy this Mic Test from our archives, from a time before we recorded any episodes at all. Support the show---Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice. Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD ST...
2024-11-2801 minI Hate TalkingUnder the Auspices of I Hate Talking, a New Podcast AppearsSend us Fan Mail Find the new podcast here: Nature Facts with Dark A.In episode 34, the hosts announce a new podcast called Nature Facts with Dark A, created by a young science enthusiast nicknamed Dark A. This child has been passionate about science from infancy, impressing adults with his knowledge of the solar system, dinosaurs, animals, and geography. The new podcast features short, Friday-released episodes where Dark A shares interesting nature facts. The hosts oversee and occasionally guest star on this show, which is produced under the auspices of I Hate Talking.T...
2024-11-2133 minI Hate TalkingBonus Behind the Scenes Terroir ContentSend us Fan Mail In this lighthearted bonus content, the hosts test their recording equipment and joke about the possibility of receiving live questions from listeners, despite not being famous or broadcasting live. They discuss the idea of doing a live episode in the future and humorously consider whether anyone might be spying on them or contacting them about their podcast.The conversation then circles back to the word of the episode, "terroir," with the hosts playfully struggling to pronounce it correctly and comparing it to the sound of a lion's roar. They reference a r...
2024-11-1403 minI Hate TalkingTerroir, Nature vs Nuture, and MimicrySend us Fan Mail In episode 33, the hosts explore the word terroir, a French term referring to the complete natural environment-including soil, climate, and topography-that influences the characteristics of wine or other agricultural products. They discuss how terroir shapes the unique qualities of a wine, emphasizing that it encompasses all environmental factors combined, rather than any single element.The conversation then broadens to consider terroir of humans-how the environment where a person grows up impacts who they become as adults. This leads to a discussion of the classic nature versus nurture debate:Nature: Genetic i...
2024-11-1426 minI Hate TalkingBonus Mariana Trench with Guest Host DarkASend us Fan Mail In this bonus episode, the hosts and a special guest discuss the Mariana Trench, the deepest point in the world’s oceans.Key Points:The Mariana Trench is the deepest known location on Earth, reaching about 7 miles (over 36,000 feet) below sea level5.Its depth is so great that if you placed the Empire State Building (1,454 feet tall) in the trench, it would be completely submerged-nearly 29 Empire State Buildings could be stacked end-to-end to reach the bottom.The trench is home to unique deep-sea creatures, such as anglerfish and dragonfish. Despite the...
2024-11-0704 minI Hate TalkingProprioception and a Dream About a Kid FallingSend us Fan Mail In Episode 32, the hosts discuss the concept of proprioception-the body's ability to sense its own position and movement without visual cues. They share family anecdotes and games related to this "sixth sense," such as drawing or eating with eyes closed or while wearing goggles that invert vision.Main Segment: Dream AnalysisOne host recounts a vivid dream involving a family gathering outdoors, a dangerous staircase with no railings, and their youngest child climbing to a high landing to interact with a light source. The child, after being yelled at by c...
2024-11-0728 minI Hate TalkingBonus Poutine Content with Guest Host DKZooSend us Fan Mail In this bonus episode, a special guest named DKZoo is invited to guess the meaning of the word "poutine." Initially, DKZoo guesses that poutine might be a type of dessert, based on a hint that it is food and its Canadian association. The hosts clarify that poutine is not a dessert but a savory Canadian dish consisting of french fries, cheese curds (explained as the chunky parts of cottage cheese), and hot gravy poured on top. DKZoo reacts with surprise and some disgust at the combination, saying that while potatoes with cheese or p...
2024-10-3104 minI Hate TalkingCondescending Canadian PoutineSend us Fan Mail We take on a word request by Good ol Boy Mike at Sips, Suds & Smokes podcast: poutine.The hosts discuss the word "poutine" at the request of a fellow podcaster, intentionally avoiding prior research to see what they can recall or deduce about its meaning and origins.Key Points:Initial Guesses and Context:The hosts recall a conversation with another podcast host about Canadian culture, leading to the topic of poutine.They guess that poutine is a Canadian food, likely potato-based (thick-cut fries), with some kind o...
2024-10-3133 minI Hate TalkingPossum-Hunting HeroesSend us Fan Mail In episode 30, the hosts dive deeply into the word hero, exploring its definition, etymology, and historical usage through various reference books and tools.Key Points:Physical Resources:The hosts bring out several large, classic reference volumes including:The Little & Ives Webster Dictionary and Home Reference Library. Complete and UnabridgedAmerican Dictionary of the English Language (1828 Facsimile Edition) Facsimile of 1st EditionThe New Strong's Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible (Every Word of the Bible Indexed, Large Print Edition)Google Books Ngram ViewerYou can find some photos of our personal copies on o...
2024-10-2428 minI Hate TalkingC's Get DegreesSend us Fan Mail Episode 29 centers on the word "accouterment," exploring its definition, origins, and broader implications for achievement, fairness, and personal values.Key Discussion Points:Meaning and Usage of "Accouterment":The hosts discuss the word "accouterment," initially guessing its meaning as something fancy or indicative of success.They clarify that its primary meaning is rooted in the military: extra equipment carried by soldiers or personnel beyond their basic uniform and weapons, necessary for specific duties or ceremonial roles.In everyday language, "accouterment" can also refer to additional items that enhance something, such as g...
2024-10-1725 minI Hate TalkingSpartanSend us Fan Mail Episode 28 centers on the word "Spartan" and the hosts’ recent experience participating in a Spartan Race, an obstacle course event inspired by the endurance and discipline of ancient Sparta.Key Discussion Points:Meaning of "Spartan":The hosts explore the word’s origins and definitions. "Spartan" can refer to something related to ancient Sparta, but as an adjective, it means showing indifference to comfort or luxury, being rigorously simple, frugal, or austere. The term is also associated with bravery and discipline, and the hosts contrast this with stoicism and modern usage...
2024-10-1030 minI Hate TalkingHealth and PainSend us Fan Mail Episode 27 of I Hate Talking starts by defining "optimist" and "pessimist" from a dictionary and philosophical perspective, with one host identifying more as an optimist in the philosophical sense (believing good will triumph), but a pessimist in the day-to-day sense (seeing the world as relatively evil). The other host identifies as an optimist, seeing no benefit to thinking negatively. They then bring in the concept of a "realist," which they consider the most ideal but difficult state, requiring one to shut off emotions. The crux of the episode shifts to a discussion of h...
2024-10-0331 minI Hate TalkingTime is Running OutSend us Fan Mail The quote "time is not running out, but it's building up" is discussed and debated. Is time running out or not? Can time be "built up" or is it better to describe experience, memories, and relationships being built, through wise use of your time?Episode 26 of I Hate Talking starts with a discussion of the word "emblematic," defined as serving as a symbol of a particular quality or concept. The hosts discuss whether it's a newly popular word or if it's always been in use, b...
2024-09-2628 minI Hate TalkingLong Distance and DucksSend us Fan Mail Pickle juice, ducks, weddings, and long-distance dating. We tackle all these topics in an emblematic episode of I Hate Talking. This is a great episode for new listeners to “dive” in.Episode 25 of I Hate Talking begins with the hosts welcoming new and returning listeners, including those who may have heard test episodes early on. One host reveals a quirky detail: they were going to get pickle juice when they saw hundreds of plastic ducks. This leads to a discussion about their child's school campaign, for which the family glued miniature ducks...
2024-09-1929 minI Hate TalkingSeptember 11 (Conspiracy Theory)Send us Fan Mail Episode 24 of I Hate Talking begins by discussing the word "para" as a root word, inspired by a Joe Rogan episode with Louis Elizondo. While Elizondo correctly defined "para" (meaning "beside" or "alongside of" in Greek), he incorrectly used "parachute" as an example. The hosts clarify that "parachute" comes from Italian and French roots meaning "to protect against a fall." The hosts shift to a discussion of the events of September 11th, 2001, and some of the conspiracy theories surrounding it. They focus on World Trade Center Building 7, which collapsed despite not being hit b...
2024-09-1225 minI Hate TalkingSummer of CampingSend us Fan Mail Episode 23 of I Hate Talking begins by exploring the word "nice" and its etymological journey from meaning "ignorant" in the 13th century to its modern connotation of "pleasant" and "agreeable." The hosts then transition to discussing their "Summer of Camping" challenge, where they tent-camped at least one night per week for 13 weeks.Key Points:Word of the Episode: NiceThe modern definition is "pleasant," "agreeable," or "satisfactory."The etymology traces back to Latin "nescire" (to not know), evolving to mean "ignorant" in French and then "fussy," "dainty," and eventually "agreeable."Summer o...
2024-09-0534 minI Hate TalkingMental LoadSend us Fan Mail Episode 22 of I Hate Talking tackles the concept of mental load, also known as cognitive labor, defined as the cognitive effort required in managing work, relationships, family, and household tasks. The hosts delve into the often invisible and intangible responsibilities involving thinking, planning, and decision-making. The episode explores potential gender disparities in mental load, acknowledges it as a contemporary "hot topic", and distinguishes between normal mental load and problematic mental overload which can lead to mental fatigue.Key Points:Definition of Mental Load: The cognitive effort required to manage work, r...
2024-08-2931 minI Hate TalkingDecision FatigueSend us Fan Mail Episode 21 of I Hate Talking delves into the concept of decision fatigue and choice overload, exploring how both impact people's mental state. Decision fatigue occurs when one becomes overwhelmed by the sheer number of decisions they must make, while choice overload, or the paradox of choice, stems from being overwhelmed by the multitude of options available when making a single decision. The hosts discuss how decision fatigue can lead to diminished decision quality, procrastination, or decision paralysis.Key Points:Definitions:Decision Fatigue: Exhaustion from the number of decisions made.Choice O...
2024-08-2228 minI Hate TalkingChange FatigueSend us Fan Mail Mandela Effect & the “Shazam” Movie MythThe hosts revisit the Mandela Effect, focusing on the widespread false memory of a 1990s movie called “Shazam” starring Sinbad as a genie. In reality, no such movie ever existed.The confusion likely stems from the real 1996 film “Kazaam,” which starred Shaquille O’Neal as a genie.Sinbad himself has publicly denied ever making a genie movie, though he once appeared in a genie costume for a TV event and later did a parody skit referencing the myth.Other factors contributing to the false memory include Sinbad’s role i...
2024-08-1526 minI Hate TalkingThe Mandela EffectSend us Fan Mail We discuss the definition, source, and many examples of the Mandela Effect. How many do you remember correctly, or incorrectly? What amimal laid down with the lamb?What color is Pikachu's tale?What are the lyrics to Mister Rogers' Neighborhood or Queen's We Are The Champions?Why are there so many different Mandela Effects associated with peanut butter? Episode 19 of I Hate Talking discusses the Mandela Effect, defined as a phenomenon where a large group of people share a false memory of something that did not occur.Key Points:D...
2024-08-0834 minI Hate TalkingOur Favorite Toxic DrinksSend us Fan Mail We then talk about some of our favorite drinks, including:WaterJoshLodiGratsi - order with this link and get two free Bàcaro glasses.Pickle JuiceEpisode 18 of I Hate Talking explores the concept of toxicity, specifically in relation to caffeine, alcohol, and even fruits and vegetables.Key Points:1. Word/Phrase of the Episode: ToxicThe hosts define "toxic" as poisonous, harmful, or unpleasant in a pervasive way, and discuss its cultural usage in terms like "toxic masculinity" or "toxic relationships."2. Acceptable "Drugs": Coffee an...
2024-08-0129 minI Hate TalkingCost Tracking, Income Protection, and GivingSend us Fan Mail Episode 17 of I Hate Talking continues the money miniseries, focusing on cost tracking and budgeting strategies in light of inflation and money dysmorphia.Key Points:1. Word/Phrase of the Episode: NaivetyThe hosts stumble over the pronunciation of "naivety," defining it as a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgment, stemming from the French word "naivete."2. Cost TrackingOne host tracks spending on a spreadsheet, broken down by week and item, to increase awareness of spending habits. The other host receives alerts for every e...
2024-07-2531 minI Hate TalkingMore Money and BudgetsSend us Fan Mail Episode 16 of I Hate Talking continues the discussion from the previous episode on money, money dysmorphia, and inflation, focusing on concrete strategies for enduring the current economic climate through budgeting and personal consumption adjustments.Key Points:1. Intro and "Chicken Wing"The episode begins with a humorous intro about the phrase/word of the episode, "chicken wing," which is both a food and the name of a pet chicken.2. Topic IntroductionThe main topic is a continuation of the previous discussion on money dysmorphia, i...
2024-07-1834 minI Hate TalkingAssassination Attempt - Bonus ContentSend us Fan Mail Warning: This episode is about the assassination attempt on President Trump on July 13, 2024. It also references the outcomes and deaths related to the events that transpired. This bonus episode, released on July 13, 2024, discusses the assassination attempt on former President Donald Trump at a Pennsylvania rally.Key Points:The Incident: Trump was shot in the right ear during a rally. One audience member was killed, and another was critically injured. The shooter is also deceased.Historical Context: The hosts state this is the first assassination attempt in their lifetime wh...
2024-07-1426 minI Hate TalkingInflation and Money DysmorphiaSend us Fan Mail Episode 15 of I Hate Talking discusses dysmorphia, focusing on body dysmorphia and money dysmorphia.Key Points:1. Defining DysmorphiaThe hosts define dysmorphia as a distorted perception of one's physical form or financial situation. While the word implies something is genuinely misshapen, the psychological use refers to a perceived flaw.2. Body DysmorphiaThey discuss the challenge of body dysmorphia, noting it involves individuals perceiving nonexistent or minor flaws in their appearance, influenced by social media and societal expectations.3. Money DysmorphiaM...
2024-07-1131 minI Hate TalkingIndependence and AutarkySend us Fan Mail Warning: this episode contains references to 9/11, various wars, and death statistics. Episode 14 of "I Hate Talking" is a July 4th (Independence Day) special that reflects on American independence, language, and the complexities of U.S. history and identity.Key Topics:Independence Day Context:The episode opens with the hosts expressing their enthusiasm for July 4th and explaining its significance as the day the United States declared independence from England in 1776.Word of the Episode – "Autarky":The featured word is autarky (spelled A-U-T-A-R-K-Y), meaning self-sufficiency, typically applied to s...
2024-07-0429 minI Hate TalkingExpect the UnexpectedSend us Fan Mail Warning: this episode contains reference to shark attacks. Episode 13 of "I Hate Talking" opens with a discussion about the superstition surrounding the number 13 and its omission in contexts like building floors and episode numbering. The hosts reflect on their reluctance to skip numbers in sequences and share personal anecdotes about encountering missing numbers due to cultural beliefs about luck.Main Topics:Colloquialisms and Commonly Misused Phrases:The episode’s central theme is the exploration of colloquial expressions that are often used incorrectly. The hosts define a colloquialism as a...
2024-06-2730 minI Hate TalkingExpedition into Time Bound ConversationSend us Fan Mail Episode 12 explores the nuances and meanings of three related words: exhibition, exposition, and expedition, prompted by a listener’s request. The hosts also discuss the challenges of communicating time expectations using common phrases like "in a second" or "in a minute."Key Points:1. Defining Exhibition, Exposition, and ExpeditionExpedition: A journey or voyage undertaken for exploration, research, or adventure.Exhibition: A public display of works of art or items of interest (e.g., a duck exhibit at a zoo).Exposition: A comprehensive description or explanation of an idea or...
2024-06-2027 minI Hate TalkingThe Chaos EpisodeSend us Fan Mail Episode 11 dives into the phrase "que sera sera" ("whatever will be, will be") and explores its meaning, origins, and philosophical implications, especially in relation to fate, control, and acceptance.Key Points:1. Introduction and Word of the EpisodeThe episode begins with Adam unaware of the topic, creating a spontaneous and candid conversation.The phrase "que sera sera" is discussed as the word of the episode—a phrase meaning "whatever will be, will be," originally Italian, adopted into Spanish, and then English.The hosts note that the phrase is not...
2024-06-1323 minI Hate TalkingPodcast Origination StorySend us Fan Mail Episode 10 celebrates reaching double digits in the podcast series and focuses on the origin story ("Genesis") of the podcast itself.Key Highlights:Word of the Episode: GenesisThe hosts explore the etymology of "Genesis," tracing its roots through Hebrew (Berisheth), Latin, and Greek, where it means origin, creation, or birth. This ties into the episode's theme of beginnings—the start of their podcast journey.How the Podcast BeganOne host shares how the idea arose spontaneously during a casual conversation after the kids went to bed, inspired by lis...
2024-06-0628 minI Hate TalkingDon't Be DistractedSend us Fan Mail Or send us an email at ihatetalkingpodcast@gmail.com. You need to "actively" listen to this episode. Are audio books a valid way to "read"? We explore this and many more topics in this episode. Episode 9 focuses on the concept of active listening, marking the first time the podcast discusses a phrase rather than a single word. The hosts explore what active listening means, how it relates to different processing styles, and the challenges people face in truly listening.1. Definition of Active ListeningActive listening involves fully paying at...
2024-05-3027 minI Hate TalkingI Hate Talking Before ProcessingSend us Fan Mail Episode 8 centers around the theme of "elastic"—both as a noun (the material) and an adjective (describing something that can stretch and return to its original shape). The hosts use this as a metaphor to explore the concept of elasticity in people, particularly in how individuals process thoughts and conversations.Key Topics Discussed:1. Word of the Episode: ElasticThe episode opens with a playful discussion about the word "elastic," distinguishing between the noun (the material itself) and the adjective (describing something stretchy, like elastic pants).This leads to a d...
2024-05-2325 minI Hate TalkingHatred of NarrativeSend us Fan Mail Main ThemeThe episode explores the distinction and interplay between narrative (storytelling) and reasoning (facts and logic) in communication, art, and personal experience.Key PointsDefinition of Narrative:The hosts define narrative as a spoken or written account of connected events—a story—which can be found in literature, art (like sculptures and pictographs), and even everyday conversation.Art as Narrative:The discussion highlights how sculptures and visual art can tell stories and evoke empathy or understanding, depending on how people relate the artwo...
2024-05-1623 minI Hate TalkingPerfection is HatedSend us Fan Mail What does it really mean to be a perfectionist? Episode 6 of “I Hate Talking” explores the concept of being a perfectionist, moving beyond their initial show introduction into more open-ended topics. They discuss the common perception of a perfectionist as someone who demands flawlessness and is self-critical, often with negative or positive connotations, but the dictionary simply defines a perfectionist as someone who refuses to accept any standard short of perfection.The hosts share a personal story where one took a therapist’s survey to assess perfectionist traits versus excellence traits. The the...
2024-05-0921 minI Hate TalkingWhy Bother Talking At AllSend us Fan Mail Episode 5 of I Hate Talking concludes their introductory 5-part series by exploring why we bother talking at all. The episode opens with the word of the episode, “posit,” which means to assume something as a fact or to put forward a statement as the basis for an argument. The hosts clarify that “posit” is about presenting an idea for consideration, not simply stopping or hesitating.They discuss various reasons people talk: one host talks out of love and interest in others, wanting to share and hear ideas, while the other sometimes chooses s...
2024-05-0219 minI Hate TalkingWho Hates TalkingSend us Fan Mail The first episode of the podcast I Hate Talking introduces the show’s focus on etymology, frustrating everyday topics, current events, and random subjects. The hosts explain that etymology—the study of word origins and evolution—will be a recurring theme, with a “word or phrase of the show” featured each episode. This episode centers on “who hates talking,” highlighting introverts as a primary group. Introverts are described as people who gain energy from solitude and may find social interactions draining, partly due to concerns about control and how others perceive them. The hosts...
2024-05-0218 minI Hate TalkingWhat Topics are HatedSend us Fan Mail Episode 2 of I Hate Talking opens with two featured words: ketogenesis—the metabolic process that produces ketone bodies as an alternative energy source for the body—and cryptocurrency, a digital currency maintained by a decentralized system using cryptography rather than a central authority. The hosts note these words reflect their personal interests and joke about future episodes featuring more themed words.The main discussion explores topics people hate talking about, contrasting them with topics people often enjoy, such as their own lives, children, or hobbies. The hosts point out that while indiv...
2024-05-0218 minI Hate TalkingWhere People Hate TalkingSend us Fan Mail Episode 3 of I Hate Talking begins with the word of the episode: homonym—words that sound the same but may have different spellings and meanings. The hosts explore related terms like homophone (same sound, different spelling) and homograph (same spelling, different pronunciation or meaning), using examples such as “lie,” “read,” and “dessert/dessert.” They humorously acknowledge the complexity of English and the challenges it poses for learners.The main discussion centers on where people hate talking. Common places include:Lines/queues: Many dislike small talk while waiting, preferring to complete their task quic...
2024-05-0220 minI Hate TalkingWhen Can We TalkSend us Fan Mail Episode 4 of I Hate Talking centers on the theme of time—specifically, when people hate talking. The episode begins with the word of the day, milady. The hosts discuss times of day when people dislike conversation, such as immediately after waking up (when some prefer silence) and late at night (when people are tired and less receptive). Cultural habits, like midday siestas in some countries, are also mentioned as times when talking is avoided.They expand the discussion to days of the week, noting that Mondays and Sunday evenings are...
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