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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha4 Keys to Stop Wasting Time & Make Every Day Count with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWe unpack how an eleven-day journey became forty years and why our schedules often repeat the same loop. Four practical keys help us redeem time, seize kairos moments, and align daily choices with what lasts.• the Exodus loop as a mirror for wasted time• screen time, reruns, indecision and hidden drains• numbering our days with humility and clarity• trusting God’s hand over our times and seasons• redeeming kairos opportunities instead of stalling• four keys: audit and align, seize moments, live eternally, guard focus• routines that anticipate...
2025-10-2330 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaFrom Routine to Romance: Ignite Your Relationship Again | Doing Life with Ken & TabathaSend us a textHas your relationship started to feel more like routine than romance? 😬 You’re not alone — most couples hit seasons where the spark fades and connection feels distant. But it doesn’t have to stay that way.In this episode, Pastors Ken & Tabatha Claytor get real about what causes relationships to lose their spark and share 5 practical ways to bring it back — emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Whether you’ve been married for 2 years or 20, these truths will help you reconnect, rekindle affection, and protect your “us” from the noise of life. 💛💭 W...
2025-10-1631 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHealing a Broken Heart with Ken & Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textSome wounds don’t just hurt—they rearrange your world. We open up about betrayal in its many forms—breakups, family fractures, church hurt, even the quiet feeling that God didn’t show up—and we offer a path forward that’s both honest and hopeful. Without glossing over pain, we lay out five keys for healing: tell the truth about the wound, anchor your identity in God, choose forgiveness even if trust must be rebuilt, set boundaries that protect your heart, and invite God to redeem what was lost. Along the way, we share a v...
2025-10-0937 minDoing Life with Ken and Tabatha7 Signs They Are Not The One with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textEver find yourself ignoring relationship red flags because your heart is saying "yes" when your gut is screaming "no"? In this revealing episode, Ken and Tabatha Claytor draw from their 26 years of marriage and ministry experience to shine a light on the seven unmistakable signs that someone isn't right for you—regardless of how strong your feelings might be.The Claytors don't hold back as they challenge the casual dating culture with a powerful perspective: "I personally feel, especially as a Christian, we shouldn't date to date. I think we should da...
2025-09-2540 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to Love Your Spouse When You Don’t Like Them with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textHave you ever found yourself loving your spouse but not particularly liking them in certain moments? That light switch they never flip off, those socks perpetually abandoned on the floor, or the crumbs consistently left on the counter – these small irritations can feel surprisingly monumental in marriage.In this heartfelt and humor-filled conversation, we unpack the critical distinction between love and like in marriage. After 26 years together, we've learned that those "little foxes that spoil the vine" – the everyday annoyances – can either become relationship-destroying mountains or opportunities for growth, depending on how we...
2025-09-1132 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaUnlocking a Spirit-Fueled Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textMarriage can be beautiful, but it can also be incredibly challenging. In our case, the first two years were some of the hardest. What transformed our struggling relationship into a thriving partnership wasn't better communication or date nights—it was supernatural power.Many believers are missing a crucial element in their spiritual lives and marriages: the baptism of the Holy Spirit. This isn't just theological jargon—it's a real, transformative experience that Jesus promised to every believer. While salvation brings the Holy Spirit to live within you, there's a second, distinct expe...
2025-09-0433 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaWhy You Should Stop Arguing Over the Little Things with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWhat if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in solving every problem, but in choosing which problems actually matter? Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, we reveal why "not sweating the small stuff" might be the relationship superpower you've been overlooking.Remember your wedding day? The birth of your children? The special celebrations? Of course you do. But do you remember every dirty dish, unmade bed, or forgotten errand that triggered an argument? Probably not—and that's precisely the point. When we fixate on minor irritations, we risk damaging so...
2025-08-2119 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaFive Keys to Save Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textMarriages don't break overnight, and they aren't restored in a day either. In this raw and revealing conversation, Ken and Tabatha share the five transformative keys that saved their once-broken relationship and built the foundation for their marriage journey."Locate where you are" begins their practical framework—because you can't navigate to Macy's without first finding the "You Are Here" dot on the mall directory. This honest self-assessment creates the starting point for genuine change. From there, the couple dismantles the myth that you should "work on yourself first" before addressing yo...
2025-08-0728 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to study the Bible? With Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThe secret weapon sitting on your shelf might be collecting dust. When was the last time you actually opened your Bible and studied it with purpose? In this powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha tackle one of the most fundamental yet overlooked aspects of Christian life - how to develop a meaningful relationship with Scripture.Christians often struggle with Bible study, feeling intimidated by ancient text or unsure how to extract relevant meaning for today's challenges. Both hosts candidly share their early experiences with Scripture - from falling asleep mid-verse to treating...
2025-07-3135 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaWaiting Until Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWe explore God's design for intimacy within marriage and share eight essential principles for newlyweds navigating sexual expectations versus reality after the wedding day.• Understanding God's purpose for sex: procreation, enjoyment, and intimacy between husband and wife• Recognizing that great intimacy takes time, communication, and patience to develop• Being patient with the journey rather than expecting instant perfection• Communicating clearly and often about desires, preferences, and boundaries• Inviting God into every aspect of your marriage, including the bedroom• Focusing on connection beyond just physical pleasure• Addressing and...
2025-07-1735 minDoing Life with Ken and Tabatha10 ways to a stronger marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville. 🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life! https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/1875 Support Our Ministry: h...
2025-06-1219 minDoing Life with Ken and Tabatha10 Ways to Be the CEO of Your Home & Strengthen Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textA focus on becoming a Chief Encouragement Officer can need positive transformations in household dynamics. Understanding the CEO role expands beyond business concepts into personal relationships. • Discussing the significance of encouragement in building strong marriages • Highlighting the need for positivity over authority in families • Understanding encouragement as an integral part of personal and spiritual growth • Offering practical steps to implement encouragement in daily life • Recognizing the importance of self-encouragement before uplifting others • Addressing the challenges and negativity that can permeate home life GET THE BETTER MA...
2025-03-0620 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaI love you, but you're annoying: Marriage Confessions with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textEvery marriage experiences annoyance, but understanding and communication are key to overcoming these challenges. This episode addresses the importance of perspective, encourages treating your spouse with grace, and emphasizes the necessity of friendship in strengthening the marital bond. • Discussing normalcy of marital conflicts • Exploring why spouses irritate each other • Importance of open communication • Power of choice in reactions • Strategies for self-care and personal reflection • Encouragement to treat spouse as best friend • Practical tips for maintaining harmony • Significance of grace and understanding in marriage GET THE B...
2025-02-2025 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaRekindle Intimacy in Marriage | Embracing the 7-Day Sex Challenge with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThis podcast episode encourages married couples to embrace the beauty of sexual intimacy while confronting cultural taboos surrounding the topic. Ken and Tabitha share personal insights and experiences, introduce the concept of a Seven-Day Sex Challenge, and provide actionable steps to increase communication and pleasure in marriage.• Importance of normalizing discussions about sex and intimacy • Godly purposes of sex: procreation, intimacy, and enjoyment • Overview of the Seven-Day Sex Challenge for couples • Addressing sexual health issues and personal insecurities • Encouragement to create regular space for open communication • Tips for sustaini...
2025-02-1338 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaMaster Your Morning | 5 keys to a spiritually empowered start with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThe episode focuses on mastering your morning to unlock a fruitful and spiritually empowered day. With practical insights and biblical wisdom, we discuss five keys: planning for the next day, obtaining quality sleep, prioritizing God, engaging in exercise, and meal prepping, all aimed at eliminating excuses and setting a purposeful tone for daily life. • Preparing the night before for a smoother morning • Understanding the importance of quality sleep • Prioritizing God through dedicated morning time • Incorporating exercise into your morning routine • Meal prepping to fuel your body for the day ahead
2025-01-3040 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaBad company corrupts good manners | Building Right Relationships with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThe episode explores the profound effects of relationships on spiritual growth, emphasizing the need for discernment in choosing one's company. We discuss boundary-setting, the challenges posed by misunderstandings, and the call to prioritize spiritual families over blood ties. • The impact of friends on decisions and behavior • The duality of positive and negative influences • Discernment in new relationships after conversion • Misunderstandings from friends and family • Emphasis on spiritual families • The importance of setting healthy boundaries • Prioritizing God’s approval over others’ opinionsGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
2025-01-2312 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaDeepen Your relationship with God Practical steps for “living at a 9” with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWhat if your relationship with God could transform not just your spiritual life, but every aspect of your existence? We're Ken and Tabitha, and today we're offering you an insightful journey into deepening that divine connection. Just like sporadic workouts can't give you a six-pack, attending church occasionally won't build a robust spiritual foundation. Tune in as we promise to equip you with tools for daily spiritual engagement, using our 60-day devotional, "Living at a Nine," as your guide to grow closer to Jesus. Our 25-year marriage is a testament to how a...
2025-01-1642 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to Make Your Husband Feel Valued & Respected at Home | Marriage Tips with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textA strong marriage thrives on creating spaces that nurture both partners. This episode discusses practical ways to make room for husbands in the home, emphasizing collaboration and mutual respect in household rules, the importance of personal downtime, and actions that make them feel honored. • Discussing the balance of rules and personal freedom in the home • The importance of mutual buy-in for household decisions • Encouraging husbands to engage with the podcast • Setting up welcoming environments within the home • Honoring the need for personal space and quiet time • Practical tips on...
2025-01-0915 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaPrayer & Fasting Made Simple with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textDiscover the profound spiritual rewards that come from fasting and prayer as we embark on a 21-day journey to start the new year with renewed faith and purpose. Through heartfelt personal stories from our own marriage, we reveal how fasting has helped us prioritize God's will, break strongholds, and enhance our spiritual intimacy. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like Esther and Daniel, this episode will guide you toward preparing for a fast, setting meaningful parameters, and ultimately, ending your fast in a way that nurtures both body and soul.We delve...
2025-01-0251 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaMy motive is love but I am standing in faith with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWe’re taking a much-needed break to focus on family and faith, but we promise to return in January with fresh content that aims to enrich your life. We believe 2025 is a year of growth, and we want to make it inclusive by inviting you to share your thoughts and questions with us. Your involvement is key to helping us create content that genuinely resonates and inspires.Moreover, we're thrilled to share our church's cherished tradition—Super Sunday, a celebration focused on giving as the year winds down. For 24 years, this has...
2024-12-1903 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaChristmas with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textEver wonder how unwrapping gifts can spark a lively debate during Christmas morning festivities? Join us, as we recount our personal tales and unique traditions that make Christmas an extraordinary time every year. From the peace that Christmas offered Tabatha during a turbulent childhood, to Ken's family's amusing tradition of not wrapping gifts, we explore how these experiences shape our holiday spirit. We promise you'll walk away with a renewed appreciation for how diverse and meaningful holiday customs can be.Our conversation isn't just about the past; we delve into the...
2024-12-1242 minDoing Life with Ken and Tabatha4 Easy Steps to Become More Generous with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textHave you ever wondered how generosity can transform every facet of your life? Join us on "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" as we unfold the powerful influence of giving on relationships, finances, and spiritual well-being. We'll take you on a journey through our 25-year marriage, revealing how we overcame selfishness and pride by embracing a spirit of generosity. This episode promises to ignite a desire for giving, especially during the holiday season, and inspire you to strengthen connections with both God and your loved ones.We're peeling back the layers...
2024-12-0557 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaGrounded in Gratitude with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textImagine transforming your darkest moments into opportunities for gratitude and growth. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey of thanksgiving, as we reflect on the power of gratitude, even when life throws its toughest challenges our way. We explore how a thankful heart can redefine our perspective on life’s trials and triumphs. Our chat is filled with the warmth of family traditions and the joy of sharing cherished Thanksgiving memories, honoring the spirit of togetherness that this season embodies.We unravel the transformative effects of gratitude and how it ca...
2024-11-2851 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaNavigating Boundaries and Submission in Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWe answered all your questions in this episode. For example, can setting boundaries with in-laws rejuvenate your marriage? Discover how prioritizing your relationship and applying the biblical principles of leaving and cleaving can create a sanctuary of respect and comfort. We unpack the power of words and the strategies spouses can employ to nurture their most important relationships, ensuring that love remains unfazed by toxic dynamics. By fostering supportive spaces, couples can learn to stand strong together, even when external pressures threaten to intrude. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP H...
2024-11-2134 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaSex Starts in The Morning | What a Wife Really Wants with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textJoin us as we delve into prioritizing both physical and emotional connections amidst the chaos of daily life. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how shared responsibilities and intentional communication can nurture intimacy. Whether it's addressing everyday acts like household chores or understanding the impact of health and self-care on a relationship, we've got you covered. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling partnership grounded in mutual respect and love.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
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