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ClosenessUnderstanding Women: How to navigate a breakup that comes out of nowhereBreakups are phenomenally difficult to navigate and are even more so when they seem to come out of nowhere. Your partner however, has likely been thinking about it for quite some time. This episode guides you through step by step of what to expect, do, and where to go from here when the rug seems to be pulled from beneath your feet.
2026-01-2925 min
Closeness5 things to think about before having sex with a womanWhile there are women who do enjoy sex with no strings attached, most women in relationships are tolerating their love life from their partner. Here are a few things to consider.
2026-01-2411 min
ClosenessAre you a highly sexual woman who really just needs to get f*©ked?The title speaks for itself. Please enjoy.
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2025-05-2719 min
ClosenessInterview: Is it possible to have an unforgettable One Night Stand?It's been a while since we've posted an interview style format so we're bringing it backwith a bang! (So to speak) For regular listeners who are used to relationship oriented sexual material, don't worry there will still be plenty of that in future episodes. But for today's guest, Venus is here explore how to make a one night stand a special and fun experience.
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2025-05-2645 min
ClosenessWhat happens long-term when you deprive a woman of sex, intimacy and closeness?For a sexual woman, or a woman who enjoys regular sex, nothing feels more devastating than being deprived of intimacy, closeness, and the feeling of being desired. In long-term relationships, this scenario is more common than many realize and can lead to her disconnecting, shutting down and even feeling deeply resentmentful. In this episode, we explore what you can do if you've been neglecting your partner ins this department.
The Pain of Feeling Undesired
When a woman feels rejected sexually, it’s not just about the lack of physical intimacy—it’s about the emotional toll i...
2024-11-141h 00
ClosenessHow to inspire a woman to FEEL sexy and sexual towards youHow to Inspire a Woman to Feel Sexy and Sexual TOWARDS you.
This episode of Closeness is a game-changer for anyone looking to create deeper sexual chemistry with their female partner. You may think your parter is sexy when you look at her or think she is sexy enough all on her own, but, can you make her feel sexy and sexual when she’s with you? This is a totally different story. There’s a world of difference between a woman feeling good about herself in general as a woman, and her feeling those hot and spic...
2024-09-231h 01
Closeness13 Easy to fix roadblocks that are keeping you from having sex right now… and what to do about themIn this episode, we tackle 13 common barriers that can stand in the way of a thriving sexual connection with your partner. Whether it’s logistical issues, bad timing, or emotional disconnection, these roadblocks can quietly chip away at intimacy. The good news? Every one of these obstacles can be addressed easily, paving the way for better connection, desire, and satisfaction.
It’s Not Just About Desire—It’s About the Setup
Sometimes, logistics are the real problem. Are there too many pillows on the bed creating a barrier to even touch? Is your couch too small or...
2024-04-061h 01
ClosenessWhat to do with an extra horny wife or girlfriend...when your libidos are mismatchedAh the case of the extra horny wife!
What to do when your wife or girlfriend has a high sex drive and you’re struggling to keep up? This episode looks at one of the biggest challenges in relationships today. Whether you’re dealing with mismatched drives, low libido, or confusion about how to take the lead, this episode gives you actionable tips to handle the situation with confidence and connection.
Understanding the Problem
When a woman has a higher sex drive than you, frustration and discouragement can creep into the relationship. Sometimes, men...
2023-12-1250 min
Closeness20 Things to consider when getting involved with a woman who has childrenIn so many ways, dating a single mother is an entirely different experience compared to dating someone without children. In this episode, we explore the unique dynamics, challenges, and many rewards of stepping into a relationship with a single mother. From navigating your needs, to her unique priorities and needs to understanding her relationship dynamic with her ex, this episode breaks down the 20 essential things you need to know to make the relationship work—or decide if it’s the right fit for you.
When dating a single mother, her children will always come first, and rightfully so...
2023-11-191h 11
ClosenessThe incredible experience of knowing when a woman is in love with you... and how to reciprocate back! 15 waysIn this heartfelt episode of The Closeness Podcast, Tari explores the subtle yet profound ways a woman expresses love towards you and how to nurture that connection. Love isn’t just a feeling, you can also see it written all over her face, as well as in her actions and gestures towards you that reveal her affection and devotion. From admiring glances to shared laughter and vulnerably sharing herself with you, this episode offers 15 clear signs to help you recognize when a woman is truly in love with you and, more importantly, how to reciprocate that love in meaningful wa...
2023-11-1159 min
ClosenessSexual Tension. What it is, how to play with it and why you must build it with your partnerThis episode dives into that unspoken, magnetic force that women love, men are strangers to and has the ability to keep relationships alive: sexual tension.
To begin, do you know what it is? How would you describe it to someone? Far from a fleeting moment of attraction, sexual tension is a dynamic between you and your partner. An energy that is felt. A strong feeling. A deliberate energy that fuels desire, excitement, and intimacy in long-term and short term relationships alike. Whether you’re looking to reignite a spark or keep the flames burning, this episode breaks do...
2023-10-3158 min
ClosenessUnderstanding how your partner starts fights and provokes you... and what you can do about itHow to Navigate Conflict and Stop the Cycle of Petty Fights
As much as we want our relationships to be full of passion and connection, they can also be bogged down by repetitive, exhausting conflicts. In this dense yet insightful episode, we dive into the dynamics of how fights start, why some partners provoke or blindside you, and what you can do to handle conflict in a healthier way. Fighting over petty issues often leaves couples feeling drained, disconnected, and unsure of what they were even arguing about. Let’s unpack how to break that cycle and fo...
2023-06-131h 11
ClosenessCloseness Interview: A glimpse into a millennial military spouse's marriage. Could this also be your relationship?Grappling with Intimacy: A Closeness Client’s True Story
In this unprecedented episode, we step into the intimate world of a Closeness client as she candidly shares her struggles with intimacy and her desire for dominance and assertiveness in her relationship. Read by the podcast host, this two-part interview offers a unique listening experience—complete with a “director’s cut” featuring host commentary alongside the raw, unfiltered story.
The Struggles of Balancing Desire and Connection
The client’s experience sheds light on a universal challenge: her yearning for a partner who can take charge in the...
2023-02-131h 22
ClosenessHow to move things forward and have sex when you feel like roommates, best friends or are simply not progressingFeeling like roommates instead of lovers? You’re not alone. One of the biggest struggles in long-term relationships is when passion fades, intimacy stalls, and everything starts to feel stale. In this episode, we dive deep into why this happens and, more importantly, how to fix it. Whether you’re a man or a woman, you’ll learn immediate actionable strategies to reignite the spark and take the lead in moving intimacy forward—no waiting around.
Why Relationships Go Stale—and What to Do About It
Over time, couples can fall into patterns that kill sexual ten...
2023-02-051h 13
ClosenessWhy your female partner or wife isn't having sex with you, and what you can do about itSometimes, the things you aren’t doing in bed can be just as damaging as the things you are. In this episode, we explore 10 key reasons why your wife or girlfriend might not feel inspired to be intimate with you—and more importantly, what you can do to turn things around. Spoiler alert: It’s not about asking for sex or sticking to the same moves you’ve been using for years.
Mindset Matters: How Do You View Sex?
One of the biggest turn-offs for women is when men treat sex like something they’re owed or som...
2022-11-0129 min
ClosenessInterview: Intimate insights from the mind and heart of a 20 year old college studentA striking and unusually intelligent, intellectual college student explores her boundaries of sexuality, and intimate desires for nearly two hours with Tari. How men and women at her university level interact with each other in the dating world is different than what we've seen before. Together, we explore who should initiate and seduce in the bedroom, male and female nature, her experiences with teaching inexperienced men how to have sex, what confidence looks like in a man, handling rejection, solving issues with eye contact, what eye contact actually conveys, the necessity for men to be dominant, coming into her...
2022-10-031h 55
Closeness10 ways women can feel more sexually desirable and connected in and out of the bedroomFeeling sexually desirable isn’t only about what happens in the bedroom—it’s about how you carry yourself, communicate, and engage with the world around you. This may seem obvious but how much are you really paying attention to this day to day.
This episode offers 10 powerful strategies to help women not only feel more confident and open to intimacy but also build deeper connections with their partner. Intimacy thrives when both partners bring their best selves to the relationship, and sometimes, it’s about becoming a better, more self-aware person.
Speak Up, Be Present...
2022-09-051h 01
ClosenessStaying hard, getting it up, finishing too early, ED, PE, and other fascinating subjects for men and womenLasting Longer and Keeping it up: for Men and Women
One of the most difficult—and often unspoken—topics for men is performance in the bedroom. Can he maintain his erection? Does he finish too quickly? Does he struggle with ED, or get so turned on that he finishes in minutes or worse seconds? These questions are more common than you think, yet so few men or couples openly address them. This episode dives deep into the solutions, offering practical tools and insights for both men and women to navigate this sensitive but crucial topic.
The R...
2022-05-211h 19
ClosenessHow to properly be dominant and assertive with a woman in the bedroomHow to Be Sexually Dominant in a Hot and Healthy Way
Sexual dominance is one of the most misunderstood and controversial topics in intimacy. Many men want to know how to take the lead in the bedroom, but they’re held back by misconceptions, insecurities, or poor role models. In this episode, we break down healthy sexual dominance is—how to guide, lead, and take control in the bedroom in a way that’s confident, respectful, and deeply satisfying for both partners.
What Is Healthy Sexual Dominance?
Healthy dominance isn’t about aggression, control...
2022-01-301h 25
ClosenessCan you have it all in relationships? Plus, female mating strategiesCan You Have It All in Relationships?
In this thought-provoking episode, we explore a timeless question: Can you really have it all in your relationship? From emotional intimacy to sexual fulfillment, we take an honest look at the myths, realities, and expectations that shape modern relationships. Are you expecting your partner to be your everything—your best friend, lover, therapist, and cheerleader? Or is it time to challenge that Disney-inspired fairytale and redefine what “having it all” actually means?
Unrealistic Expectations and Self-Reflection
Many of us carry the belief that “one person should fulfill...
2021-11-241h 02
Closeness30 phrases we never need to say to our partners and lovers againWords That Don’t Serve: Phrases We Can Stop Saying in Relationships
Language is powerful—it can build connection, but it can also create distance. Unfortunately, our daily conversations are often cluttered with filler words, passive-aggressive jabs, and expressions that serve no one. In this episode, we’re taking a closer look at phrases you simply don’t need to say anymore, especially to your partner. From thoughtless throwaway lines to phrases that diminish connection, you’ll learn how trimming the verbal fat can improve the way you communicate and connect.
Stop Saying Things That Mean...
2021-10-041h 13
ClosenessTo come or not to come. Whether men should finish and how women feel about itTo Come or Not to Come: Should Men Always Finish?
When it comes to intimacy, an often overlooked question to ask is quite simply: should a man ALWAYS “finish” during sex? And does he even need to? The answer quite simply is no. It is not always urgent or necessary.
Society often treats male orgasm as the end-all, be-all, end-of-it-all of sex, but is this expectation helpful—or even healthy? In this episode, we break down the cultural, emotional, and even spiritual dynamics around male orgasm and challenge the pressure placed on men to “perform” every sing...
2021-06-2941 min
ClosenessEmpathy, understanding and answers for sexually inexperienced menNavigating Sexual Inexperience: A Guide for Men and Their Partners
Sexual inexperience in men is a topic of conversation that is often avoided, misunderstood, or riddled with shame. This episode of Closeness addresses the stigma, challenges, and solutions for men who lack experience in the bedroom, offering actionable advice for both men and their partners. Whether you’re the one navigating inexperience or supporting someone who is, this episode provides the tools to foster understanding, intimacy, and growth.
Breaking the Silence Around Sexual Inexperience
In today’s hypersexualized world, inexperienced men often feel isol...
2021-04-1241 min
ClosenessWhat to do and what it means when a woman says she needs spaceOne of the most difficult things someone can hear, is that their partner needs space. Nothing is clear, the terms are undefined, and once uttered it usually ends up in disaster. Tune in now to find out what to do.
CHAPTERS:
0:00 Introduction
5:25 Malignant phrases
6:20 How to handle short term space
8:38 When she takes days, weeks and months of space
13:15 What you're supposed to know when she says she needs space
16:08 If you're going to try to make it work, here's what you should do. 15 minutes.
2021-03-151h 30
ClosenessPart 3: How to properly handle and move on from a breakupBreakups: What You Need, How to Heal, and When to Let Go
Breakups are messy, painful, and complicated, but they’re also opportunities for growth if approached with intention. In this episode, we dive deep into the lessons learned through heartbreak and how to navigate the journey of healing. From the importance of actions over words to the emotional pitfalls of unbalanced love, this conversation is packed with insights to help you move forward with clarity and self-respect.
What Do You Owe the Other Person?
A common question during a breakup is: what do...
2021-02-161h 14
ClosenessPart 2: How to properly handle, cope and deal with a breakupSurviving a Breakup: How to Survive, Heal and Move Forward
Breakups are one of the toughest emotional challenges we face. Whether it’s heartbreak, loss, or simply the difficulty of letting go, the aftermath can shatter us and feel overwhelming. In this 90-minute episode, we tackle the raw emotions and practical steps needed to help you navigate and heal from a breakup. From understanding grief to recognizing harmful distractions, this episode is your guide to finding relief and clarity during one of life’s most challenging transitions.
The Emotional Rollercoaster of a Breakup
In t...
2021-01-261h 29
ClosenessHow to properly handle a breakup...before it happens Part 1What are the warning signs?
Is Your Relationship Built to Last, or Is It Time to let go?
Breakups are among the most painful experiences we endure, often taking months or even years to recover from. But what if we could see the signs before it’s too late? In part one of this three-part series, we help you take a closer look at your current relationship—what’s working, what’s not, and how you’re truly being treated. This episode is about clarity: identifying red flags, spotting toxic patterns, and uncovering the behaviors that may i...
2020-10-111h 04
ClosenessGhosting and Blocking and Curving Oh My!Ghosting and Blocking: Some of the Most Damaging Behavior of Our Generation
Whether it’s cutting off contact, blocking someone on social media who has hardly said a word, or simply disappearing on someone after you sleep with them, ghosting leaves emotional scars that ripple far beyond the moment. This episode dives into the phenomenon, exploring why people ghost, the emotional toll it takes, and how we can change this behavior for good.
What Is Ghosting, and Why Do People Do It?
Ghosting happens when someone abruptly cuts off communication without warning or clo...
2020-06-291h 41
ClosenessHow to Create Hot Sexual Chemistry from NothingThe Truth About Chemistry: It’s Not Just “There or It Isn’t”
Yup. Surprise! Hot chemistry can be created from nothing. In fact most of the time... it is!
What’s your definition of hot, passionate chemistry? Do you believe it’s something that either magically exists or doesn’t?
In this episode of Closeness, we’re bursting that myth wide open. Chemistry isn’t just a lucky accident—it’s something you can create, cultivate, and amplify in our partner when you understand how it works.
What We’ll Explore:
•How to n...
2020-05-251h 21
ClosenessIs she asking for it and is she asking for it sexually?Is She Asking for It… or Just Asking for Attention?
In this provocative episode of The Closeness Podcast, we explore the power dynamics behind flirting, teasing, and attraction. Many women love being in a position of control—turning men on with playful eye contact, teasing gestures, or provocative outfits, all without intending to follow through sexually. It’s a game of power and attention, but where does the line get drawn? And what right does a man have if any, to act on it?
What You’ll Learn:
•The Power of Teasing: Why some women...
2020-04-1416 min
ClosenessAn Intimate Sensual Meditation on the tropical Island of KauaiKauai Escape: A new Sensual Meditation You’ll Want to Replay again and again
Welcome to another Closeness sensual meditation—your go-to sexy escape whenever you need to recharge and reconnect. One aspect of these brief encounters serves as a rampage of appreciation. That means that by focusing on things that feel good to you, without letting other defeating thoughts in, even if for a few short minutes, you'll start to feel better. Your focus will shift and you'll awaken your senses in just 15 minutes or less!
This time, we’re taking you to the shores...
2020-03-2524 min
ClosenessHow to properly have sex with a manHow to Take Care of Your Man: What Everyone’s Afraid to Talk About
While countless episodes of The Closeness Podcast focus on how to pleasure a woman, it's time to give men their time to shine! What does it take to truly take care of your man? This isn’t about surface-level advice; it’s about getting real, going deep, and uncovering the things everyone is too afraid to talk about. Don't worry there will be plenty of sexy and sexual things included as well- obviously.
But have you ever considered what he actually needs e...
2020-03-161h 17
ClosenessHow to properly kiss! 10 juicy stepsMaster the Art of Kissing: The proper way that she’ll respond to
Kissing is an intimate and often sensual way to connect with a partner—but let’s be honest, it’s not something we’re naturally born knowing how to do. Like any skill, it takes practice, intention, and yes, even technique. While no one teaches us how to kiss in school (thankfully!), Closeness is here to fill the gap with this must-listen guide to mastering the kiss.
What You’ll Learn:
•The do’s and don’ts of kissing to make you a more con...
2020-03-101h 07
ClosenessHow to properly have sex with a womanGiving Her an Unforgettable ExperienceWelcome to 2020 and Season Two of The Closeness Podcast! We’re kicking off the New Year with a bold and sexually explicit episode that lays out 15 essential steps to giving a woman an experience she’ll never forget. While we each have our own flavor that we bring to intimacy and perhaps there is not “one way” there certainly are general rules that make a “proper” approach to intimacy more successful. You won’t want to miss these do’s and don’ts that can make all the difference in having a hotter and more co...
2020-01-101h 23
ClosenessHow to have the big talk. STD's, STI's and proper etiquetteNavigating Sexual Health: The Vulnerability of Sharing Your PastTalking about details of your intimate sexual health and history with regard to STIs and STD’s can feel incredibly vulnerable—and let’s face it, it’s a conversation most of us would rather avoid. From getting tested to asking your partner about their past, these are some of the trickiest waters to navigate whether in relationship or casually dating. But avoiding the topic often leads to more harm than good.In this episode, we dive into the uncomfortable truths about sexual health conversations. Why are we s...
2019-12-1557 min
ClosenessThe Female Sexual Response Cycle: 10 Passionate PhasesBeyond the Basics: Unraveling the 10 Phases of Female ArousalIf you grew up learning about the traditional sexual response cycle—excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution—you might think you’ve heard it all. But what if there’s a lot more to the story? In this provocative and sexually charged episode, we’re breaking down the 10 phases most women experience as they get progressively more and more turned on. This isn’t just a lesson in biology; it’s a deep dive into the intricate and electrifying process of female arousal that takes intimacy to a whole new level....
2019-11-1649 min
ClosenessPart 2 How to say no: Changing your mind and maybeWhy Do We Change Our Minds About Attraction? Navigating Confusion, Boundaries, and RejectionHow to say no, part deux.How many times have you changed your mind about someone or something? Maybe you weren’t attracted to them at first, but later, something shifted and you found yourself wanting them. Or, perhaps the opposite happened—you felt drawn to them initially, only to realize later that something just didn’t feel right. Attraction can be complex, and understanding why our feelings change is key to navigating relationships and intimacy with clarity and respect.The Ar...
2019-10-301h 04
ClosenessHow to say no Part 1: Rejecting and approachingMastering the Art of Rejection: How to Say NoRejection—it’s something we all dread, yet it’s an unavoidable part of life, relationships, and intimacy. Whether you’re on the giving or receiving end, rejection can leave you feeling unworthy, shut down, hurt, or misunderstood. The truth is, most of us are terrible at handling it. We struggle to express our feelings in a considerate way, and even more so to hear “no” without taking it personally.But rejection is more than just a painful moment—it’s a critical step in establishing healthy boundari...
2019-10-151h 03
ClosenessSunday morning for her. A sensual meditation to turn you on...Experience Another Sensual Meditation: Go deeper
An immersive listening experience designed to awaken your senses and bring you closer to your partner, and yourself. Using evocative and sensual tones, this episode goes beyond what you’re used to listening to in a podcast and creates an atmosphere that feels electric and deeply intimate.
One of the best parts of listening to Closeness is how it teaches you the art of great sex—not just the physical, but the emotional and energetic aspects that make intimacy unforgettable. After receiving incredible feedback from previous sensual meditations, we’re thr...
2019-09-3020 min
ClosenessPart 3: Who should pay for first dates and beyond?The Explosive Finale: Who Should Pay for the First Date? Part 3This highly anticipated 90-minute conclusion to our provocative three-part series, is a no-holds-barred deep dive into the unspoken rules, assumptions, and expectations surrounding money, sex, and first dates. With a mix of hard-hitting statistics, personal stories, and surprising evidence, this episode will challenge everything you think you know about dating dynamics.What You’ll Discover in This Episode•Is Paying for Dates a Form of Prostitution? We examine the controversial comparison and what it reveals about the interplay between money and intimacy.
2019-09-151h 38
ClosenessPart 2: Who should pay for the first date and beyond?Who Should Pay for the First Date? Part 2: Exploring the ControversyIn part two of this three-part series, we dive even deeper into one of the most debated questions in modern dating: Who should pay for the first date? This isn’t just about picking up the check—it’s a conversation that touches on gender roles, financial dynamics, and the expectations we bring to relationships. With over 25 fresh insights to explore, this episode promises to challenge your perspective and offer actionable takeaways for your own dating life.Key Topics We’ll Explore•When She M...
2019-09-011h 20
ClosenessWho should pay for the first date and beyondIn this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal experiences as well as experiences from others that have helped shape his philosophies over time. Over three and a half hours of content spread out over three episodes ensures you’ll reexamine almost everything you thought about dating rituals and male, female dynamics. Drawing on countless studies and hundreds of interviews, Tari helps you explore what kind of person you are inside and out of the dating arena.Are you ready to come closer?...
2019-08-151h 13
ClosenessHow to know if a girl really wants you using 5 signsUnlocking the Secrets of Closeness: How to Know if she’s Into YouWhen it comes to creating genuine closeness with someone, the conversation often starts with what not to do. Avoiding common mistakes can set the stage for meaningful connection, but there’s so much more to the art of intimacy than simply avoiding pitfalls. This episode takes you beyond the basics, diving into the subtle yet powerful cues that help you understand when someone is truly interested—and how to respond with confidence.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWe’ll start b...
2019-08-011h 05
Closeness5 easy steps to figure out what turns you and your partner onMastering Communication and Intimacy: Unlock Closeness in Your RelationshipFlip through any self-help book, and you’ll likely come across the timeless mantra: “Communication is key.” But let’s be real—do we actually know how to communicate? Are we confident in expressing our needs, or do we hold back out of shyness? Do we truly say what we mean, or leave our partner guessing? And perhaps most importantly, do we actively listen to our partner’s needs with intention and empathy?In this episode, we challenge the basic surface-level idea that “communication” alone is enough to fix re...
2019-07-1450 min
ClosenessShould you engage in long distance relationships?We all have the potential to make relationships thrive, but are long-distance relationships truly worth the effort? If you’ve experienced one or are navigating one now, you already understand the unique challenges: the lack of regular visits, the absence of physical connection, and the emotional strain that comes with prolonged separation.In this episode, we delve into the many drawbacks of long-distance relationships and explore why they may not be suitable for everyone. How long can you sustain a relationship without intimacy, touch, or the comforting presence of your partner?This concise, thought-provoking episode is...
2019-06-3030 min
ClosenessInterview: The intimate adventures of a 48 year old motherHot sex and meaningful intimacy aren’t reserved for the young. In this episode, we dive deep into the complex and often unspoken facets of relationships, love, and sexuality—challenging societal norms and exploring the raw, real truths behind human connection.We begin by unpacking stigmas and judgments, particularly around homosexuality and bisexuality. Why does society still hesitate to embrace sexual fluidity, and why does it seem easier for women to be openly bisexual than men? From there, we question the concept of non-judgment—can we truly live without judging others, or is this an impossible ideal? This n...
2019-06-151h 13
ClosenessInterview: How to excite a demi sexual with SarahWhat does it mean to be demisexual, and how does this identity intersect with the complexities of online dating? What does it truly take for someone like Sarah to experience arousal and connection? In this captivating and deeply personal episode, we sit down with a remarkable woman whose warmth, insight, and infectious laugh make her story all the more compelling.Sarah shares her journey with vulnerability and grace, including the life-altering decision to undergo a double mastectomy. She explores the profound ways this choice impacted her sexuality and self-perception. When faced with physical changes, such as scarring...
2019-06-011h 04
ClosenessInterview: The intimate adventures of a 21 year old traveling girl with MarisaTraveling has always been one of the most exciting ways to immerse ourselves in life, culture, and romance. In this episode, we sit down with Marisa, a newly turned twenty-one-year-old, to explore her adventures in world travel, love, and sexuality. Her fresh perspective on navigating life as a young, single woman is as enlightening as it is arousing, touching on topics that resonate with both Gen X’s seasoned wanderlust and Gen Z’s fearless curiosity.We tackle the joys and challenges of traveling solo versus with a partner and the complexities of maintaining long-distance relationships while on t...
2019-05-301h 29
ClosenessCan men and women actually be friends?At first glance, the idea of men and women being “just friends” seems simple enough —of course they can! But is that really what’s happening when sexual attraction enters the picture? This episode takes a thought-provoking dive into the subtle dynamics and unspoken exchanges that often occur in male-female friendships. How often do men go out of their way to perform favors for women in the hopes of earning something more than friendship? How frequently do women keep male “friends” around to enjoy their help, generosity, or companionship, without ever intending for it to become something deeper?We’ll bre...
2019-05-151h 11
ClosenessThe final 13 deadly sins of online dating (Part 3)In the gripping finale of our Deadly Sins of Online Dating series, we reveal the final thirteen missteps that can doom your dating life—and, more importantly, how to avoid them. If you’re serious about stepping up your game and making real connections, this episode is your ultimate guide to sidestepping the biggest pitfalls of modern dating culture.Here’s what we cover:•Using vague or filler phrases to provoke jealousy. Saying you’re “out with friends” may seem harmless, but it’s a passive-aggressive move that creates unnecessary drama.•Being intentionally boring. If you’re...
2019-04-1651 min
ClosenessThe next 12 deadly sins of online dating (Part 2)In the second installment of the Deadly Sins of Online Dating, we’re tackling some of the most cringe-worthy behaviors that send online dating connections straight to the trash. Ready to up your dating game? Let’s dive in:•Looking significantly worse in person than your worst profile photo. Let’s face it, your photos set expectations. Catfishing through selective editing or outdated pics? Not a vibe.•Talking exclusively about what you “don’t do” or “won’t tolerate.” We get it, boundaries are important, but if your entire personality is wrapped in negativity, it’s exhausting.•Ma...
2019-03-1555 min
ClosenessThe first 15 deadly sins of online datingOnline dating is a bit like stepping into the wild West—lawless, chaotic, and full of promise, but it also isn’t without its pitfalls. For some, it’s thrilling, while for others, it’s a little secret we only whisper about to our closest friends. With endless choices and cutting-edge technology in the palm of our hands, why do so many of us leave dating apps feeling more frustrated, jaded, and alone than when we started?As much as online dating is meant to bring us closer, it often brings out the worst in how we treat ea...
2019-02-151h 30
ClosenessCloseness and self-love: 5 pillars of self careBuilding genuine closeness with someone else begins with a deep connection to yourself: learning how to care for your mind, body, and soul while staying in alignment with who you truly are.In this episode, we unlock the incredible power of your own presence. Sounds simple, right? But this one shift can transform not just your relationships but your entire life.We’ll dive into how physical activity doesn’t only strengthen your body but fuels your brain and emotional well-being. From mindful movement to high-energy workouts, we explore how different forms of exercise can boos...
2019-01-1122 min
ClosenessRome: A sensual and sexual meditationUnlock the Power of Sensual Meditations: A Unique Listening ExperienceWelcome to a new kind of meditation—one that isn’t about zoning out or falling asleep but about waking up your senses and diving into the world of erotic energy. This episode introduces sensual meditations. Created to excite and arouse rather than relax. Think of it as a sensual rampage of appreciation, a way to ignite positive emotions and connect with your body and desires in a whole new way.What Are Sensual Meditations?Unlike traditional meditations aimed at calm and relaxation, sensu...
2019-01-0127 min
Closeness10 Wicked little female faux pas to avoidCommon Behaviors That Might Be Hurting Your Relationships: What Women Should KnowIn this episode, we dive into behaviors that women (often unconsciously) engage in that could harm their relationships and interactions. It’s not about placing blame—it’s about building awareness and fostering growth. Let’s explore the patterns, habits, and mindsets that may be holding you back from deeper, healthier connections.Key Themes and Common Missteps Discussed1. Exaggeration and MislabelingThrowing around terms like “narcissist” without clinical basis or exaggerating normal behaviors can distort perceptions and damage trust. Overstating...
2018-12-2955 min
ClosenessPart 1: Social Etiquette. 5 faux pas to avoidCHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 3:16 The Reality TV effect on behavior 11:24 How do men feel about it all13:10 Solutions and answers16:15 2. Stealing your partners thunder in conflict 22:00 Answers and solutions 24:00 3. Being scared of everyone 30:20 I can’t be wrong or I would rather be right 32:26 Prioritizing social media over human connection34:44 Outro
2018-12-0935 min
ClosenessInterview: A sex coach in your pocket using the Juicebox app with Brianna RadarHave you thought about where you can go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? Hopefully after listening to the Closeness podcast you know that we are here for you. We offer in person private meetings and video chat as well as text support. But what if you’re not ready for that yet and you’re more of a private person? In this episode Brianna introduces Juicebox: an app that gives you direct access to sex coaches and sex therapists via text! Closeness listeners get a 5-day free trial by using the the code...
2018-11-0153 min
ClosenessInterview with a Brazilian Dancer: A better sex life through dance and learning to be submissiveDancers have always understood something that many of us are just starting to figure out—leading and following in dance isn’t just about choreography; it’s a powerful metaphor for relationships, especially in the bedroom. And it’s what women want. In this episode, we explore how the trust and connection built through dance can lead to deeper intimacy and better sex. For women, learning to follow and trust a partner on the dance floor can mirror the dynamics of surrender and connection in a relationship, opening doors to more fulfilling...
2018-10-281h 00
ClosenessInterview: Dirty dancing explained with Briana GibsonBriana Gibson is a force to be reckoned with on the dance floor, and in this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs, she gives us an insider’s look into the art of nonverbal communication through dance.Three minutes of moving closely with someone can reveal more about their personality, energy, and intentions than hours of conversation. Crazy, right? Briana takes us deep into this unspoken language, sharing what you can learn about someone simply by sharing a song and a connection.But it’s not all about the rhythm. In this episode, Briana also tackles the toug...
2018-10-1948 min
ClosenessPart 2: Who should initiate sex and intimacy in relationships?Ever wondered why women often don’t try again after approaching or initiating just once? The truth is, rejection cuts deep—often more than you realize. In this episode, we’ll unpack how intensely women tend to internalize rejection and explore what both partners can do to navigate this delicate dynamic. Spoiler: it’s not just about the initial “no,” but how that “no” is communicated.Rejection is part of life, but few people truly know how to handle it—or give it—with grace. That’s why we’re breaking it down: how to say no compassionately, without...
2018-10-0525 min
ClosenessWho should initiate sex and intimacy in relationships?Have you ever thought about how much sex you want in a day, a week, or a month? Or do you avoid quantifying it altogether, thinking it’s too personal or restrictive? And here’s another question: once you’ve slept with someone a few times, who should initiate? These seemingly simple questions can ignite deeper conversations—and even lead to couple’s coaching.At the heart of Closeness Coaching is this transformative idea: never have sex out of obligation. But how do you balance that with staying open, available, and receptive to intimacy with your partner? It’s a del...
2018-09-1328 min
ClosenessIs it a deal breaker if your partner doesn't share the same hobbies and passions?Balancing Passion and Partnership: What Happens When Your Partner Doesn’t Share Your Interests?Our passions and hobbies often define us—they’re what light us up, give us purpose, and make life more exciting. For some, these activities are just a fun pastime. For others, they hold the same weight as deeply personal values, like religious beliefs or major life decisions. But what happens when your intimate partner doesn’t share your same enthusiasm? What if, quite simply, they just don’t care about the things you love to do?Should they feel obligated to attend...
2018-09-0327 min
ClosenessHow to properly go down on a woman part 2The Secret to Deeper Intimacy: Communication, Connection, and Sensual ExplorationAnd also, how to properly go down on her. Part deux.If we want to create unforgettable intimacy with our partners, the first step is understanding a simple truth: neither men nor women are mind readers. We can be intuitive, empathetic, and perceptive, but expecting someone to magically “just know what turns us on” is a recipe for disappointment.Think about it: many of us see ourselves as rare, special individuals—complex, unique, and unlike anyone else. If that’s true (and it probably...
2018-08-2159 min
ClosenessHow to properly prepare to go down on a woman, get your mind right and eat her out Part 1Unlocking the Art of Deep Listening and Mind-Blowing Oral SexIntimacy isn’t just about physical connection; it’s about tuning in with your whole being. Deep listening means learning to read your partner on a level that goes beyond words—so you don’t have to ask so many questions. It’s about paying attention to her signals, her body language, and her energy to create an experience that feels electric, connected, and completely satisfying. This is intimacy at its best and sets the perfect tone for the ultimate act of closeness: going down on her.Oral...
2018-08-171h 01
ClosenessClaiming her, giving too much and knowing what to do when she just want to see where this is goingRefining the Art of Intimacy: A Guide to Memorable Sexual EncountersYou’ve shared moments of connection, and now you’re poised for some fun in the bedroom. While the mechanics of sex might be universally understood, the art of properly seducing a woman and truly connecting with a new partner on this level is a dance. Learn how to navigate the intricacies of this first intimate encounter. Are you equipped to ensure that both of you are left yearning for more?The first sexual experience with someone new is a magical experience. It sets the tone for future encounters. This init...
2018-08-1040 min
ClosenessHow to recognize a breakup before it happens Part 2One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be avoided simply by recognizing the early warning signs. Why do we ignore them so readily?In this episode we’ll show you what it looks like when someone is starting to withdraw from you, as well as the twisted truth about what really happens when one of us pulls back. When others withdraw from us, it can make us feel a sense of “forced neediness,” which isn’t healthy for either partner.We’ll...
2018-07-2727 min
ClosenessHow to recognize a breakup before it happens Part 1One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be avoided simply by recognizing the early warning signs. Why do we ignore them so readily? In this episode we’ll show you what it looks like when someone is starting to withdraw from you, as well as the twisted truth about what really happens when one of us pulls back. When others withdraw from us, it can make us feel a sense of “forced neediness,” which isn’t healthy for either partner.
2018-07-2136 min
ClosenessPart 2: Fighting, arguments and manipulation tactics solvedFighting and Manipulation Tactics Solved (Part 2)In this follow-up episode, we delve deeper into the roots of arguments and manipulative behaviors in relationships—and, more importantly, how to resolve them. From communication pitfalls to accountability issues, this episode breaks down actionable strategies to stop the cycle of fighting to foster healthier, more respectful interactions.Why Certain Phrases and Tactics BackfireIf you’ve ever said, “I don’t want to argue,” you likely found it only escalated the situation. This is because you’re starting an argument by saying this. It’s is a prime example...
2018-07-141h 09
ClosenessPart 1: Fighting, arguments and manipulation tactics solvedSolving Conflict (Part 1)In this episode, we explore the messy world of arguments, manipulation tactics, and how to resolve conflict in a better and more healthy way than what you’re used to. Whether you’re interrogating your partner, misinterpreting their actions, or are stuck in a cycle of accusations, this episode will help you reimagine how you approach disagreements and poor reactions.Questioning, Tone, and Playing FairOne mistake in couples quarrels is asking questions you don’t really want to hear or know the answers to as this often leads to resent...
2018-07-071h 10
ClosenessWhat actually happens in a sex coaching or sexual guidance session at Closeness?Are you curious about what really happens during an in-person sex coaching session? This episode takes you behind the scenes to show exactly why Closeness is renowned for creating breakthroughs and delivering sizzling results. From the moment you walk in, you’ll feel welcomed into a space that’s safe, open, and pressure-free. Sessions are tailored to meet your unique needs—whether you’re struggling with intimacy, navigating communication issues, rebuilding trust, or looking to reignite chemistry with your partner.We’ll explore the variety of approaches used to help you connect. Nothing is required and your co...
2018-07-051h 09
ClosenessWhat a woman's body is capable of Part 2: How to turn her onSelf love and “touching yourself” is an interesting concept. Observe how you feel when you simply read the question: “Do you touch yourself?” or “Do you masturbate?” Some women have no issue being handsy multiple times a day, while others rarely touch themselves with no immediate plans to do so in the future. If we tack on the additional challenge of touching yourself in front of your partner, it opens up an entirely different set of possibilities… and concerns!How do we unlock the ability to be comfortable in our own skin? How can we find comfort in touching ou...
2018-06-1756 min
ClosenessWhat a woman's body is capable of Part 1: Understanding female anatomy and orgasmHelping a woman spill over into orgasm is a very exciting experience. We’re big fans of the whole process. But getting her there is not always about what you think, especially if you’re the kind of man who is destination oriented and who prides yourself on making women come.In this episode we’ll explore this and several other concepts including: – Understanding word play and loaded words – What effects repressing your sexuality has on you – Understanding what happens to sex when you’re married– Why picking your type really plays in...
2018-06-1047 min
ClosenessHow to turn a woman on with decisivenessDecisiveness: Your Attraction Cheat CodeLet’s be real: Women are magnetically drawn to men who know exactly what they want.Forget pick-up lines and bedroom tricks. Do you want great chemistry and attraction? Decisiveness is your secret weapon. We’re talking about that electric confidence that makes her lean in, not pull away.This isn’t about being aggressive, domineering or hyper masculine. It’s about being intentional. About showing up with such clear purpose that she can’t help but be intrigued. When you move through the world with laser-focused direction, you’re bas...
2018-06-0228 minClosenessWhy you should talk to strangersHave you ever caught yourself creating emotional barriers with a simple phrase like, “You don’t know me!” or “You’re a stranger!” or “You could be a serial killer” when you’re on a date and trying to make a smart choice? These seemingly innocent words carry more weight than we realize, potentially sabotaging our chances for genuine connection.Imagine the invisible walls we unconsciously build in our daily interactions: avoiding eye contact with a fellow shopper, reflexively stepping back when someone new approaches, or treating unfamiliar faces as if they’re invisible. Each of these moments repr...
2018-05-3021 minClosenessUnrequited love: What to do when you like someone more than they like youUnrequited love is one of life’s most painful and challenging experiences—both for the person longing and for the one unable to reciprocate. Yet, we rarely stop to consider the impact on the other side: how it feels to be the one who isn’t interested. It’s a deeply emotional subject, and few of us are equipped to navigate it with the grace and sensitivity it deserves.In this episode, we explore tools to handle both sides of unrequited love with respect, compassion, and care. When someone offers us their most precious gifts—their love, heart, and...
2018-05-1521 min
ClosenessHow to know when you're being lead onEver find yourself telling someone, “I don’t want to waste my time” on a date? Sure, it feels like you’re setting boundaries, but let’s be real—this harsh phrase can come off as dismissive and cold. What about the other person’s time? It implies that anyone who doesn’t instantly captivate you or fulfill your expectations is disposable. Instead of fostering connection, it shuts people down and leaves little room for genuine closeness.And check this out: We often complain that others “waste our time,” yet we’re guilty of squandering it ourselves. How? By endlessly scro...
2018-04-3017 min
ClosenessHow to properly tell someone that you're not interestedHave you ever been accused of “playing games” or not being upfront? For many of us, the challenge lies in uttering three deceptively simple words: I’m not interested. This single sentence has the power to save both time and heartache—for you and for others.If we’re honest, ignoring someone’s advances often does convey disinterest, but only part of the time. In other cases, our silence could be rooted in poor communication skills, shyness, or even uncertainty about our own feelings.Instead of clearly expressing interest—or politely declining—we often respond to invitations w...
2018-04-1536 min
ClosenessHow being busy and running late makes you extremely undesirable and sexually unattractiveDo you find yourself constantly telling others how busy you are? When someone invites you out, is your go-to response something like, “I can’t,” “I’m busy,” or “It’s a really hectic week for me”? Do you follow up with genuine interest or an effort to reschedule—or does the conversation end there?If you’re always rushing from one place to the next, caught in a whirlwind of busyness, it’s worth asking: how much are you missing by being stuck in this cycle? A hurried excuse is worlds apart from having a meaningful, present conversation—eve...
2018-03-3028 min
ClosenessPart 2: How to properly have sex with someone new for the first timeUnspoken Expectations and First EncountersThe moments leading up to intimacy—the anticipation, connection, and discovery—are often just as profound as the intimacy itself. But what happens after that first experience? A dynamic begins to take shape, often filled with unspoken expectations about what happens next, subtle cues that most people do not pick up on, and decisions that can either deepen a bond or quietly unravel its potential.In Part 2 of How to have sex with someone new for the first time, we explore the balance of these pivotal moments: how to approach sex...
2018-03-1545 min
ClosenessPart 1: Having sex with someone new for the first timeMastering Intimacy: What to Do When You Have Sex for the First TimeYou’ve built a connection, the chemistry is real, and now you’re headed to the bedroom. But here’s the thing: do you know what to do specifically that will make that first time unforgettable? First impressions in intimacy matter—they can set the tone for your relationship moving forward. One wrong move might fizzle the spark, but with the right approach that you’ll learn in the episode, you can leave your partner craving more.•Make Your Partner Feel Valued: It’s not jus...
2018-01-1650 min
ClosenessWhat is the Closeness Podcast?Episode 1: Welcome ClosenessIn this inaugural episode of the Closeness Podcast, we lay the foundation for a transformative journey into the world of sexual tension, chemistry, and pleasure. With a unique approach that blends sensuality, sophistication, and authenticity, this episode introduces you to the art of creating deeper, healthier more meaningful connections… sure. But also teaches you, in no uncertain terms, how to have better, hotter sex. Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this episode sets the stage for what’s to come—offering profound insights and real-world guidance to help you better und...
2017-11-1542 min