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Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloLiving with Integrity at Work: How Can Christians Thrive in the Workplaces w/ Ms. Bridget DubeIn this episode of my podcast, I had the privilege of speaking with Bridget Dube, a legal practitioner at the Ministry of Justice, Legal, and Parliamentary Affairs in Zimbabwe. Bridget shared powerful insights on living with integrity in the workplace, especially for Christians who may find themselves facing pressure to compromise their values.Throughout the conversation, Bridget offered wisdom on how Christians can navigate situations where their faith is challenged—particularly when their bosses or clients may ask them to act in ways that go against their beliefs. With humility and grace, she shared personal st...2025-03-2831 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloA Clear Distinction of: Customary Marriage, Civil Marriage & Cohabitation under the South African LawIn this episode of Legal Wise Wednesday, we delved into an important topic that many people may not fully understand: LENYALO! The distinctions between customary marriage, civil marriage, and cohabitation. We explored the legal implications of each, helping listeners better navigate the different types of relationships and their rights.We started by explaining a customary marriage under the south African law, which is typically based on traditional practices and is recognized by certain cultural norms. Next, we looked at civil marriage, which is formalized through the state and involves a legal contract between two parties.2025-03-2609 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThe Value of Life: Abortion-The Killing of the Innocent and the Role Christians Lawyers can play w/ Adv. Keith MattheeIn this episode, we dive into a powerful conversation with Adv. Keith, who brings a compelling argument on the topic of abortion, exploring its impact on both the mother and society. With a mix of spiritual insight and scientific backing, Keith outlines the harm abortion can cause, not only to the woman but to society as a whole. While the right to choose abortion is widely promoted, Keith emphasizes the importance of showing women the truth about what happens during the procedure. Drawing from studies by professors that confirm life begins at conception, he calls on the...2025-03-211h 09
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloKnow Your Constitution: Part 2: Preview of Lesotho's ConstitutionIn this episode, the hosts discuss why it's crucial for every citizen of Lesotho to understand their Constitution. They dive into how the Constitution serves as the foundation of the country's legal and political system, ensuring the protection of citizens' rights and freedoms. The hosts emphasize that knowing the Constitution not only empowers individuals to protect their own rights but also enables them to engage meaningfully in national conversations and decisions. They also talk about how it helps people hold the government accountable and understand their role within the country's democracy. Overall, the episode stresses that a well-informed populace...2025-03-1909 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloShould Christians Care About Politics? w/ Ms. Sarah GilesIn this episode, we tackle the question: Should Christians care about politics? The year 2024 was pivotal for many countries that held elections, and politics became a dominant topic of conversation. For Christians, it was a real test of their values and beliefs. As political debates raged across social media and in public spaces, many believers found themselves unsure of whether they should get involved, and if so, which side to support. To explore this, Dr. Tee sits down with special guest Miss Sarah Giles, a political expert and fellow believer. She offers valuable insights on why it's...2025-03-1437 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloKnow Your Constitution: A Preview of the South African Constitution/ on LEGAL-WISE-WEDNESDAYIn this episode of Legal Wise Wednesday, we explore the Constitution of South Africa and why it’s crucial for every citizen to understand it. Dr. Tebello, who is also a legal academic breaks down the journey behind its creation, starting from the Interim Constitution in 1993, through the extensive public participation process, to its final signing into law in December 1996. The Constitution is more than just a legal document—it’s a promise to heal past injustices, protect human rights, and build a democratic, inclusive society.Listeners are encouraged to recognize their rights and responsibilities as cit...2025-03-1209 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloAfrican Roots of Christianity: Debunking Christianity as a White Mans'Religion w/ Ps. Phumezo MasangoHistory often tells us that Christianity is a religion for white people, but have you ever stopped to ask who wrote that history and whether it's actually true? Has Christianity really been a religion for just white people? And is it true that God has only revealed Himself to them? In today’s episode, we dive into these questions with my good friend and brother, Ps. Phumezo Masago. I truly believe you’ll find this conversation as encouraging as I did.2025-03-0740 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThe Dangers of Self-Care Culture, Beauty of Suffering, & Motherhood with Mrs. Sasha LouwIn this beautiful episode, Dr Tee, is joined by her friend from Namibia, Mrs. Sasha Louw. They close season 3 on a high note tackling the danger of the self care culture theology in the church, the beauty of suffering and motherhood. You don't want to miss this one. 2024-09-0653 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThe Dangers of Self-Care Culture with Ms. Hileni NamukolongaWe are on part three of the series we are running on the dangers of the self care culture in modern church! Today Dr Tee is joined by her dear friend Ms. Hileni Namukolonga! Ms. Hileni drops so much wisdom on this topic, containing so much humour and mostly insights from her own life journey! Don’t miss on this one 😊2024-08-0235 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThe Dangers of Self- Care Culture with Ms. Tsakani MathyeToday Dr Tee is joined by her dear friend Ms. Tsakani Mathye as they further tackle the dangers of the self care culture in the church! Ms. Mathye is full of wisdom and insight, and you don’t want your miss this! It is part 2 of the series! Enjoy2024-07-2636 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloSelf- Care Culture and its Harm in modern Church: My PhD testimony, on how God saved me from me:It is so obvious in our culture, that people are consumed with more of themselves than ever, how can I give more to me? The terms ‘pour into your cup, protect your peace, love you first’ are the new religion! In this episode Dr Tee, exposes its harm and sheds light on how to escape it by finding true identity in Christ!2024-07-1933 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’: Seek a person who is Obedient to GodKey takeaway- number 8 and the last one beloveds, is that Intentionally seek a person who is obedient to God! Nothing will frustrate any Christian like a person who is unequally yoked in the sense of hearing God’s voice! Hearing God’s voice is important because it also determines if one is able to Obey. So seek one who can hear and obey! My loves if you made it this far! Congratulations 👏🏿🎉 you are a step closer in making the right decision. I pray that you marry Godly, above all things.2024-05-1716 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’ : Observe the Potential Spouse CarefullyKey takeaway- number 7; carefully observe the potential spouse. Do not jump to any conclusions, but make sure your conclusions are driven by careful inspection of the person!2024-05-1018 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’: Bathe the process in Prayer & choose a person of CharacterKey take-away number 6, Dr. Tee with absolute confidence encourages us to bathe the process in prayer. If there should be a man to pray then there should definitely be a God to answer! Do not pick a person without intentional communication with God, while at it, check him/her if they are a person of Character.2024-05-0318 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’ : One Must Put Himself in a Position to Find a Potential SpouseKey takeaway number 5, is that Sis/ Bro, you need to position yourself! Put yourself in a position to be found or to find! Passive/ inactive searching is not going to work for you! So are you ready to be the one who the one you are searching for is searching for? (Read that again) Position thyself!2024-04-2622 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’ : One Must Understand How Difficult It Might BeToday, we are on key takeaway number 4, How One needs to understand How difficult it might be in finding your suitable one! All things that are good take time and do not come easy! Waiting and trusting is not easy but it’s worth it! We hope that you are enjoying this episodes!2024-04-1915 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’: Be Realistic and Submit to God’s Sovereignty throughout the ProcessHello Beloveds, are you enjoying this ‘before you say I do’ series? Tell us what you think! Today, we deal with key takeaway number 3, which is very much being realistic and submitting to the sovereignty of God! In waiting or searching for a potential spouse, it’s okay to be real in your search and allow God to be God! Find out from Dr Tee as she unpacks this key takeaway.2024-04-1217 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’: One must Seek Godly Counsel/ MentorsWelcome to part 2 of Before You say I do! Yep! Key- takeaway number 2 is to seek godly counsel! Surround yourself with truthful, godly and realistic people who will not be afraid of you! You will thank yourself later!2024-04-0516 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBEFORE YOU SAY ‘I DO’ : One must be committed to God & His purposesWelcome to our follow up series on relationships & marriage for single folks! All the things you need to know before you say I do from a Christian Lawyer’s’ perspective. Dr Tee, gives insights on the things you can try as much as you will to avoid, in order to be set up for a godly marriage! So in todays episode She gives key- takeaway number 1. How you and whoever you are considering to be a potential spouse should be committed to God and His purposes! Enjoy beloved!2024-03-2920 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloCan Christians advise married people to Divorce?Spicy topic! Today Dr Tee tackles the D word! Yep Divorce is skyrocketing and glamorised in Hollywood, even amongst Christian believers, so today we want to know, should we allow this pop culture to dictate how we see marriage and Divorce? Well, let Dr Tee tell us what she thinks! Buckle up and enjoy this one!2024-03-2234 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. Tebello‘Love Her like Christ loves the Church’ Too farfetched for men?What does it mean to articulate that men are called to love their wives as Christ loves His Church? Is their love not enough? Why should it be like Christ? And what does it mean? In todays episode Dr Tee, addresses these questions with much precision and clarity! She hopes all men find delight and Joy in fulfilling this call!2024-03-1531 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloSubmission for women married in the 21st century: Still relevant ? / overrated‘Submission’ has been used to oppress or abuse women in marriages, and as a result this word has had a bad taste for women who express the necessity of being equal in marriages. Lets find out from Dr. Tee as she explores and restores this word for women as per biblical terms! Maybe you will change your mind after listening to her!2024-03-0837 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloIs Feminism the cause of Weak Men in today’s cultureHave you ever heard of ‘toxic feminism?’ What are thoughts regarding the topic? Do you perhaps agree with the notion that it can be a factor that contributes to weak men today? Join Dr Tee in tackling the questions! With humour and insight Dr Tee gives us her own view!2024-02-2932 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloShould I Marry in Community of Property or Not?My Christian PerspectiveAnother debacle in our day, is should women consider marriage outside of community of property? What was the intention of God? Is what we see not gender- roles misplaced! Join me Adv. Tee as I tackle this topic!2023-08-1725 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloShould a Christian listen to secular music?This has been a hot topic amongst Believers for years! Is secular music beneficial for a believer? Come and join me Adv. Tee as I give you insights from my own convictions!2023-08-1023 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloOh Lord! Thank You for this ValleyHow many of you have trusted God for something, and yet it feels like it’s beeeeeeen so Looooooong God? When? Good! Then this exhortation is for you! “Even when I walk through the darkest Valley, you Lord are with Me.”- Psalm 232023-08-0311 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBiblical Womanhood in Modern- Day SocietyWhat does it mean to be a woman? Distinctly, a Woman of God? In this exciting instalment, I, Adv. Tebello address this topic from a biblical standpoint! With so much confusion in culture, it is crucial to tackle this conundrum using God’s word! Grab a cup of tea/ coffee/ a bucket of ice cream and come and hang with me!2023-07-2729 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloWhy you need a social media break…in your Spiritual LifeThere are so many breaks that I can think about, that as people we need but in today’s instalment I want to talk about the social media break that is necessary for our spiritual lives!
Below are 4 points that I learned on my social media break and why it is necessary! It is necessary because:
1. It declutters your Soul
2. It recenters your visions and goals
3. It sharpens your discernment
4. It definitely, helps you cultivate the fruit of the spirit
“Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you re...2023-06-2318 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloMr Kabelo Masalesa on the Myths about the Purity Culture, Sex, Celibacy & Doing it God’s WayLet’s talk about SEX baby! Honoring God with our bodies can be tricky in modern society! When it comes to issues affecting sexuality, there are so many theories surrounding the topic that opposes the word of God & if sometimes spoken of in the “toxic purity culture!” of Church it seems burdensome! In todays episode Adv. Tebello is joined by her dear friend Mr Kabelo Masalesa who will be sharing all things myths of the purity culture and practicing healthy purity & celibacy. This will leave you thought provoked and yearning more! Mr Kabelo Masalesa, is a 29 year old black man. He is...2023-04-211h 06Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloTestimony Time: Dealing With Childhood Trauma in Adulthood! Give your heart Time!Hey my Beloveds, In this exciting and rather touchy episode, I, Adv. Tebello take you back to my childhood days! I share the traumas I have experienced that caused me to become an insecure adult! This story is told from a place of victory! Buckle up and join me!2023-04-1439 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloRelentless Obedience & overcoming our fears in God w/ Ms. Zethu NgemaIn this exciting episode, I am joined by my dear friend Ms. Zethu Ngema! Zethu is a believer, sister, daughter and friend to many. She has a background in mechanical engineering and works as a consultant. She is a poet and creative. She is a podcaster and speaker who is an avid reader, enthusiastic gymer who loves exploring. Today She shares about the honest truth on Relentless Obedience! A journey that most of us have not yet arrived at or achieved but a journey worth travelling in order to attain the blessings of God! This is a conversation starter most...2023-04-0858 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloA blessing for you who lost too much too quickly: My 2022 story on suffering grief, loss and pain!Hey, Hey, Hey Beloveds! Today, Join me Adv. Tebello as I share my personal experience on grief, loss and pain! A journey travelled by many but Recovered by a few! This is a time of learning that it’s okay to be slow in life. Slow to heal, slow to rush to the next thing and just be in the moment of Recovery! Life and Hope is still found in pain. Buckle up, in this one get some tissues forrrrrrrr realllll! And come hang!2023-02-2436 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloBreaking Away from Unhealthy Generational Patterns with Ms. Olga MapanjeIt is not a hidden fact that every family has unhealthy patterns that seem generational or seem to be repeating themselves from one generation to another! It can either be unhealthy marriages, adultery, unhealthy behaviour of drug abuse, alcoholism, GBV, poor money management, scarcity mentality, and so on! In this exciting EP, Adv. Tebello is joined by Her Friend Ms. Olga Mapanje who shares her story and journey of breaking away from unhealthy generational patterns! Her story is both touching and heart warming. It will definitely leave you encouraged to give your Life to Jesus who is the ultimate Chain...2023-02-1735 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloOvercoming body Shaming Part 2 from a Man’s Perspective with Mr Job Tatenda Tendenedzai!In the past episode we shared on tackling the horrific elephant of body shaming in women and reclaiming our power back, but in todays episode we are joined by a gentleman who enlightens the world through his voice and story on body shaming in Men! Most topics when addressed in the public arena, are mostly addressed to women and for women, But Mr Job comes to share that ‘Men too have feelings & Men too get body shamed!’ He informs us from His life story on how He dealt with Body Shaming. His informative lessons will leave you a changed person!
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Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloOver-Coming Body Shaming with Ms Tsakani Mathye: Elevate Your Self: Esteem & Let Go of ShameOn this exciting episode Adv. Tebello tackles a topic that is not often spoken about and that is “Body Shaming!” She shares the possibility of overcoming this horrific elephant that has impacted many women around the world to hate on who God has created them to be and to embrace the power of reclaiming your identity! She is joined by Her Friend Ms. Tsakani Mathye who shares her trauma with body shaming and how as an adult she still needs to recover from the bashing annoying comments of people of how dark skinned she was or how big she was! Thes...2023-02-0339 min
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloMs. Nala Masigo On Beauty, Fashion & Lifestyle as a Ministering tool: myths & misconceptions.On this exciting Episode we have with us, Ms. Nala Masigo who is a Beauty, fashion & lifestyle influencer. She debunks the myths that exist within the Christian culture about being materialistic if one is into beauty and fashion.
She exposes the theory of 'slay queens' concepts ensnaring into the church and affecting how we sometimes view this form of Art. She extracts from scripture and shares stories like (queen Esther) who God used her for her physical beauty to advance his Kingdom.
God made who we are, differently yes, but also with all beauty. Beauty, fashion and Lifestyle are perfect...2022-10-151h 07
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloMrs. Tefelo Matela Mahlangu on the Naked Truth about Marriage: Character Development and Confidence.In this amazing Episode, Mrs Tefelo Matela Mahlangu shares insights on the naked truth about Marriage. She extracts these insights from her own life lessons she had to learn in the early years of her marriage. It was not easy, it was refining and as She puts it 'she became the sacrificial lamb' where God had to use her as living proof to show what a restored image of marriage like Heaven looks like after her own hardships.
Now She encourages and helps hundreds of people married through her blog and vlog through her healing and transformation ministry called "Marriage li...2022-10-011h 07
Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloMs. Atlehang Nkotha (Woman Empowerment Enthusiast) on Humility in Leadership: Always Self- CheckMs. Atlehang Nkotha, in this episode shares her life story on maintaining humility in a corporate sector and how to always be aware of Pride and repent of it as God elevates you. She is just a bubbly person and pro-women-Empowerment. Most importantly this powerhouse loves Jesus.2022-09-171h 01Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloREFLECTIONS|| Reflections.
In our need to have a safe space full of security and consistency, sometimes, we use our angry & fearful emotions to articulate what our hearts are spelling out ' can I have someone to listen to my story.'
I wonder who we would be, if we allowed our words/ voices bring healing rather than demeaning attitudes towards one another. I wonder who we would be if our stories are told raw and naked as they come, so that they inspire & liberate those bound by the same struggles. I wonder who we would be if we made space for o...2022-06-2625 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloCultivating Authentic FriendshipsIs Friendship breakups a real thing? If it's real how do we recover or heal from the loss of a friendship? How do we permit ourselves to grieve well? And how do we cultivate an authentic friendship?
My friend Fumane shares in detail about all of this. She draws from her own experiences and pours wisdom on having permission to grieve a lost friendship. She further encourages us, to have faith and pray for Christ- centered friendships that glorify God. She also alludes that it is possible to leave toxic friendships, and pursue loudly healthy friendships. I loved Fumane's voice...2022-06-091h 01Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloLove on a Mission-Field: Marriage, Finances, Cultural differences & Gender rolesI just looooove L.O.V.E♡ In this exciting new episode, I have my friends CJ and Sasha Serojane, who are full-time missionaries in Malawi! They share their love story, on how they met, and on how they just knew that they were meant to be together. Although, they have had their own fair share of facing storms in their marriage, I love their Wisdom and perspective on how Christ is their solid foundation in their marriage, which makes it more worth it to be married.
Being Married young, there was definitely some shocks they encountered in their first ye...2022-05-2147 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThe Importance of Beginning with SELF (BONUS EP)Have you ever felt like self-love is being selfish? Like you have to take care of others before you take of yourself? Like you have turned into a people pleasing person because you are afraid of showing up for yourself? This episode is for You sis! Come learn, implement and share!2022-05-0618 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloLet's talk "Finances!"Are our brothers sometimes delaying to pop the question?/ taking us out because "Chankuraaaa"??
Too much Lobola; less in their pockets & pressures attached.
Are men sometimes intimidated by women who earn more?
Are we delayed because "Black tax" baba?
How important is it to talk about Finances in the early stages of dating? Debt? View on Finances?
How does God view money? Is money demonized or a blessing?
Join me with my two handsome friends as we tackle the issue of Finances! I got to ask. And they shared their views! Easter Friday lunch was filled with lots of stomach...2022-04-1749 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloNavigating Interracial Friendships: Loving Beyond Race"True friendship is humbling, because it reveals our weaknesses...but we need to trust God with our hearts."- Moné Nel
My friend Moné shares so intensely in this episode that; in order to enjoy interracial friendships we need to surrender our sight in exchange for God's sight. When we begin to see people as God sees them, we are left with nothing but the height to enjoy his mysteries carried in different people. God created Color, God sees color, God embraces color and so should we.
Does God have anything to say about my blackness/ whiteness? Yes He does. He...2022-03-2048 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. Tebello"Unfinished Lobola in a customary marriage & it's impacts on the rights of Black women!"When the Europeans imported their legal systems into Africa, the indigenous people had already been following their own normative systems for several centuries. There was ancient ways that African people followed in certain areas of their lives, including LOBOLA. But the result of the western legal standards that were infused to interpret customary law impacted Africa negatively.
The effect of this dilemma resulted in the formulation of African principles in ways that exacerbated patriachy and in turn, affected the legal status of Black Women in Society. Today on the podcast I discuss the effects of an "Unfinished Lobola in a cu...2022-02-2229 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloYou are Not Your Mistakes: Relax!From experiencing Emotional Abuse from her own mother to abusing alcohol, entering abusive relationships and Ultimately living a redeemed Life in Christ. My friend and Sister Felicity shares some of her intimate parts of her life story in this Podcast. Along the way she made a lot of mistakes as a result of her tainted identity that was shaped by years of abuse. She shares some of these mistakes, how she learned from them and how she inspires women around her, including myself, to know that "You are Not your mistakes, but you are who God says you are!" Felicity s...2022-02-0745 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThe messy beauty of starting overIf you are in the process of wondering if you should start over, this episode is for you! The process of starting over is messy but worth every step and effort. Today I am joined by my friend, Tsakani Mathye who shares her real story of starting over. She shares on being delivered from the slavery of comfort and the opinions of people. She shares how she moved from ministry, studying and starting her business. She is a powerhouse! To be in contact with her please find her on Instagram:@pen2paperediting facebook: @pen2paperediting email:pen2paper.editing@gmail...2022-01-3040 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThe Birth of Simply She VoicedHave you ever felt like you have given up too soon on your childhood dreams? Felt stuck in something that you ran to while running away from something? God is calling you out today! Come Join me Adv. Tebello as I share my story of redemption in the legal fraternity. A girl that was once afraid to voice in a courtroom is voicing on paper and encouraging others to chase their God given dreams.2022-01-2016 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloIntroductionCome and get excited with me! As I greet you with the highest tone! lol. Welcome to SimplySheVoiced.with Adv Tebello Family. We grow as we move. Whatever project is laid on your heart, start! don't hold back because of Fear or because no one will like it! if God likes it, that's enough! Faith without works is dead! Love y'all!2022-01-1818 minThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. TebelloThoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. Tebello (Trailer)2022-01-1700 min