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Coffee with TemmiSTRENGTH TO CARRY ONIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeHello and welcome to Coffee with Temmi. How are you doing?Today, I want to talk to the woman who is tired… the woman who keeps showing up, keeps carrying, and keeps giving, even when life feels heavy. This episode is about quiet strength, unseen burdens, and the resilience it takes to carry on when so much is being asked of you.
2026-06-2514 min
Coffee with TemmiDISCIPLINE IS ALSO FEMININEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThis episode, explores the idea that discipline and femininity are not opposites. Drawing lessons from the inspiring story of The Six Triple Eight and everyday life experiences, It reflects on the quiet strength of showing up, keeping promises to yourself, protecting your peace, and staying committed even when it’s difficult. A gentle reminder that women can be soft, graceful, and deeply disciplined at the same ti...
2026-06-1714 min
Coffee with TemmiTHE THING ABOUT CONTEMPT IS…If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeContempt slowly erodes a person’s confidence, self-worth, and dignity. It leaves invisible scars, making them feel unseen, unvalued, and less than they truly are. Over time, it can silence their voice and diminish the light they once carried within.
2026-06-0613 min
Coffee with TemmiLOVE GOD DEEPLY, BUT I'M TIREDIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeYou can love deeply and still feel exhausted.Sometimes the people you think are strong are carrying the heaviest invisible loads.
2026-05-2502 min
Coffee with TemmiNOT JUST SADIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeGrief is not something you can prepare for, because you don’t know how it will hit you or when it will come.There is something in griefing that is more than sadness. The loneliness, emptiness, helplessness, the feeling of being left behind, and mostly the finality of it all.This week, I found a poem that’s helped me, it’s titled, GRIEF by Glen Flower
2026-04-2909 min
Coffee with TemmiHOMECOMING -THE COST OF INDEPENDENCE If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeHomecoming: The Cost of IndependenceAcross cities and cultures, more young adults in their 20s, and 30s are moving back home, not because they lack ambition, but because independence has become expensive.Rising rent, unstable job markets, student debt, and delayed life milestones are reshaping what adulthood looks like. But this shift isn’t just financial. It’s emotional. It’s cultural. It’s deeply p...
2026-02-2231 min
Coffee with TemmiIT ENDS WITH US -THE SCOURGE OF GBVIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeToday on Coffee with Temmi, I sat down with two incredibly impressive teenagers, Naledi Gugushe and Saba Eskandari for an honest conversation about the scourge of gender-based violence. It was truly heart-warming, and a powerful reminder of how hopeful our future is when young people are informed, courageous, and willing to engage. Tune in as we explore their perspectives and the change they want to see in the...
2025-12-201h 09
Coffee with TemmiFAITH NEVER CRASHED: 25 YEARS AFTER Y2KIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhere were you at midnight of 31st December 1999?It’s been 25 years since the world held its collective breath on that night. People prayed, panicked, and prepared for what they thought would be the end of the digital world. But when the clocks struck midnight — nothing happened. The lights stayed on. Planes didn’t fall. Life simply continued.Reflecting on how far we’ve come, wh...
2025-10-0714 min
Coffee with TemmiRUNNING ON EMPTY: A CONVERSATION ABOUT BOUNDARIES If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeBoundariesHave you ever seen a hamster running in its cage? Round and round, legs flying — but it’s not really going anywhere. Lately, that’s exactly how my life has felt.And it’s all down to not setting boundaries.Grab your cup and let’s chat
2025-09-2408 min
Coffee with TemmiBETRAYAL OF TRUST: When Protectors Become PredatorsIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThe people children trust the most; parents, relatives, teachers, and leaders, are meant to protect them. What happens when those trusted protectors become the very source of harm?Abuse is not always committed by strangers; too often, it comes from the familiar, cloaked in silence and betrayal. We uncover the painful reality of broken trust and challenge the silence of adults who look away.Protecting children...
2025-08-301h 06
Coffee with TemmiGLOW - It Starts From The InsideIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode“You’ve heard the saying, ‘beauty is only skin deep.’ Well… the beauty industry has turned that into a multi-billion-dollar reality. We’re talking creams, serums, facials, treatments - each promising the kind of skin that’ll make you feel unstoppable.But here’s the thing… are we really buying better skin, or are we buying self-esteem? And if confidence has a price tag, what are we actually paying?Toda...
2025-08-151h 19
Coffee with TemmiFEELING BLUE - THE SLOW ROAD TO DEPRESSIONIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeI sat down for coffee with Clinical Psychologist, Lola Bade-Aluko to talk about what depression really looks like in adults — how it shows up, how it feels, and why it’s not always easy to spot.It’s August, and this month is all about women. I’ll be taking time to look at us — our experiences, our stories — through different angles and environments.
2025-08-031h 08
Coffee with TemmiSINGLE AND WONDERING WHY?If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode“Why am I not married?”It’s a question so many women have asked—and have been asked—over and over again. It’s gotten to the point where the idea that a woman could actually be happy without a husband isn’t even part of the conversation.For a lot of women, the thought of never getting married feels scary. Almost like something is wrong if it doesn’t happen...
2025-07-2115 min
Coffee with TemmiTHE MENTAL HEALTH CRISIS YOU CAN'T SEEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeI had a long and productive interview with Clinical Psychologist Kelebongile Lebo Mojanaga-Masilele on the increasing number of children struggling with mental health issues.The Mental Health Crisis You Can’t SeeIn this episode, we’re opening up the conversation on children’s mental health.Why are so many kids struggling? What signs are we missing? And how can we show up better as par...
2025-07-141h 28
Coffee with TemmiVIRGINITY- THE LOOPHOLESIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeLet’s talk about virginity.The word itself simply means untouched, unused — in its raw form. But when we talk about virgins, we’re usually not talking about olive oil or hair. We’re talking about people — specifically, women — and their sexual status.How far will you go to remain a virgin?Is there a cost too high? Or is there no cost too high?
2025-07-0717 min
Coffee with TemmiFATHERHOOD - REMIXIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode🎙️ Fatherhood: RemixNot your today’s young dad — but the dad you pray for. All for one and one for all. My guest today is Mlue Maguba. He has embraced the role of fatherhood with passion, purpose, and presence. He’s rewriting the narrative of what it means to be a young father — and doing it with heart.
2025-06-2248 min
Coffee with TemmiINSIGNIFICANT If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeInsignificant: too small or unimportant to be worth consideration - yet we seems to be consumed with it!
2025-06-0713 min
Coffee with TemmiSTRETCHING If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeStretch yourself into joy.
2025-06-0403 min
Coffee with TemmiSHE RISESIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeSHE RISESShe walks through fire, yet bears no ash,With silent strength and steady sash.The world may bend, the winds may roar,Still she stands—then rises more.Her tears are rivers—soft, yet deep,Where dreams and promises dare sleep.She weaves her pain into a song,And sings it bold, and...
2025-05-2109 min
Coffee with TemmiDANCE - like no one is watchingIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeDance like no one is watching.There is almost nothing that compares to the freedom of your spirit and body like dance.
2025-05-1603 min
Coffee with TemmiYOU HAVE MURDERED SLEEPIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThe death of reading.We have murdered sleep.” Not the kind you get at night—but the kind that rests the soul through knowledge, story, and thought. In our chase for quick entertainment and instant gratification, we’ve killed the quiet power of reading. And our minds are no longer at peace.“You have murdered sleep” Macbeth (Act 2, Scene 2). It symbolizes the killing of peace, innocence, and the conscience...
2025-05-1415 min
Coffee with TemmiSOMETHING IS ROTTEN IN THE STATE OF DENMARK: The Blind Spots of a Broken GenerationIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode "Something is rotten in the state of Denmark" is a famous line from William Shakespeare's play Hamlet, used to describe a situation where something is wrong or corrupt. It implies that the current state of affairs is not healthy or moral,
2025-04-3025 min
Coffee with TemmiROLLINGIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThe 5-Minute Stress Relief Trick You Can Do Anywhere
2025-04-2903 min
Coffee with TemmiTHE LIPSTICK BRIGADE If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhen the smile is perfect but the heart is heavy.Get your Reflective Journal onhttps://pay.yoco.com/shepherd-seed-npc
2025-04-2006 min
Coffee with TemmiSTANDING ON A FROZEN LAKEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeTo stand on a frozen lake speaks of being consumed by something you desire, so much so that you can’t think logically again.You look at this object of desire that seems to be just out of reach on a frozen lake.You think you are fast enough to get it before the ice cracks, but are you that fast?
2025-04-1414 min
Coffee with TemmiTIMEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThere is an arrogance in all humans that makes us believe we can schedule our lives the way it suits us, There is no consideration for time.
2025-04-0607 min
Coffee with TemmiSKETCHINGIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeGive your imagination permission to fly.
2025-04-0203 min
Coffee with TemmiHUMMINGIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeHum your way into happiness.
2025-03-1201 min
Coffee with TemmiNAKED AND UNASHAMED If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeBeing naked isn’t just about nudity—it’s about vulnerability. It’s about stripping away the layers we use to protect ourselves and letting someone see the real us.Four Men and Me: https://coffeewithtemmi.com/four-men-and-me/Intimacy: https://rss.com/podcasts/coffeewithtemmi/768291/
2025-03-0905 min
Coffee with TemmiFREE WEEKIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThis week is even more about you than before.Enjoy
2025-03-0502 min
Coffee with TemmiTHE BAGGAGE WE CARRYIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeRelationships can be tricky, especially when you’re young and just starting out. What many don’t realize is that we often step into new relationships carrying emotional baggage from our past—things we might not even see ourselves. It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement, but it’s so important to take a moment and reflect on what you’re bringing with you. If you can reco...
2025-02-2616 min
Coffee with TemmiMASSAGE - TAKE FIVE 7If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeOur bodies go through a lot everyday, sometimes we need more than a 10 minutes break.
2025-02-2402 min
Coffee with TemmiPAUSE BUTTONIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThere comes a time when you need a break - just a moment - it’s time to hit the Pause Button.
2025-02-1102 min
Coffee with TemmiSWIPE LEFTIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeRelationships aren’t what they used to be. It’s not just starting a new chapter—it’s like learning an entirely new language while tiptoeing through a minefield. So, grab your coffee as we unpack this ever-evolving landscape.
2025-02-0814 min
Coffee with TemmiTAKE FIVE - 6 DOODLE If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThere is something so soothing about drawing repetitively with no expectations of excellence, or necessary explanations of finished work.
2025-02-0303 min
Coffee with TemmiTAKE FIVE 4. READINGIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeReading.During your Me Moments, find joy in reading.
2025-01-2701 min
Coffee with TemmiTAKE FIVE 3. WALK IT!If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWalk the stress away.Walk away from it!Just walk!
2025-01-2001 min
Coffee with TemmiSolo Dad Chronicles: Life, Love and LessonsIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeToday, I’m chatting with an amazing single dad who’s absolutely rocking parenthood. His love for his kids is nothing short of inspiring, and along the way, he’s learned so much about himself—and life! We’re diving into the ups, the downs, and everything in between, as he shares his journey, the lessons that have shaped him, and some great takeaways for all the single parents ou...
2025-01-1427 min
Coffee with TemmiTAKE FIVE 2. MOOD LISTIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeSoothe your soul.
2025-01-1302 min
Coffee with TemmiAND SO IT BEGINSIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThe new year is here—a time for fresh beginnings, gentle intentions, and a little sparkle of possibility. Today, we’re talking about stepping into this next chapter with grace, confidence, and a whole lot of self-love. So, grab your coffee, cozy up, and let’s start this beautiful year together."2025 MANIFEST(O) linkhttps://bit.ly/40c5OdJTake Five with Temmi
2025-01-1005 min
Coffee with TemmiTAKE FIVE 1. 10 MINUTES If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeYou deserve 10 minutes of your day.
2025-01-0602 min
Coffee with TemmiLOOKING AHEAD - 2025If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode2024 felt longer than 12 months! It’s been rough and tumble but it also had its good moments.Looking forward to 2025 and new beginnings.
2024-12-3108 min
Coffee with TemmiGoodnight, Goodbye Matlhodi If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeGoodnight, goodbye Matholdi I’m still in shock, I don’t want to accept that you are gone.
2024-12-1111 min
Coffee with TemmiSUCCESSIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeSuccess looks different for everyone. Over a hot cup of coffee, I dive into the personal, and unconventional, of what success really means. It’s not about fitting into someone else’s mold—it’s about defining your own path.Join me as I challenge the norms, celebrate individuality, and sip on some real talk about success, life, and everything in between.
2024-11-2211 min
Coffee with TemmiBODY COUNTIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode“Chasing Clout: Why Gen Z Will Do Anything for Fame”There’s a growing obsession with fame at any cost among Gen Z. From shocking stunts to oversharing the unthinkable, they’re crossing boundaries—and broadcasting it all. How did we get here? Let’s dive into the rise of this fame frenzy.
2024-11-1608 min
Coffee with TemmiHAPPY PILLSIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeHAPPY PILLSWhat's really going on with us? Why are more people turning to anxiety medication than ever before? This episode dives into the roots of our collective anxiety, from social pressures and digital overload to the impact on our children. Are we just more anxious than past generations, or are we becoming a culture too quick to medicate? Join us as we explore the big questions: What are we...
2024-11-0517 min
Coffee with TemmiMENTAL HEALTH AWARENESSIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeIt’s okay to look after yourself!October is Mental Health Awareness Month.In today’s episode, I am sharing an interview I did some years ago with Clinical Psychologist Maud Bopape, that is still relevant today.I want to take a moment to talk about mental health—something that’s a part of all of us, even if we don’t always acknowledge it. Our mental wel...
2024-10-2454 min
Coffee with TemmiWILLS & TRUST with Mathlodi LeteaneIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode"Listen in as Mathlohi Leteane breaks down everything you need to know about Wills and Trusts in this recording of a live Q&A session.Get all the insights and answers to audience questions from the original program!"
2024-09-281h 48
Coffee with TemmiWHEN LOVE IS NOT ENOUGHIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhen is love no longer enough to sustain, maintain a marriage?Is it possible to have marriage without love?How solid is your relationship? Can it withstand the test of time?Are you Will to fight for your relationship?How far will you go to keep your relationship?
2024-09-1215 min
Coffee with TemmiFRAYEDIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhen life’s challenges continually press down on you, it feels like everything is on the verge of falling apart, and you’re desperately trying to keep it all together.
2024-08-2507 min
Coffee with TemmiLAZY GIRL JOBIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeIt’s an oxymoron to have the word lazy and job in the same sentence, yet today’s Gen Z have found a way to do just that.
2024-08-1710 min
Coffee with TemmiEND GAMEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThe End Game is the final stage of a game…Plans, Proposals, Relationships, Do you have an End Game?What is your end game?
2024-07-1021 min
Coffee with TemmiOKAFOR’S LAWIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeOkafor’s Law says once a man has had sex with a woman, he can always have sex with her - anytime, anywhere.
2024-06-1509 min
Coffee with TemmiSHOT LEFTIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhen life takes an unexpected turn
2024-04-2905 min
Coffee with TemmiWALKING WOUNDEDIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhat would you life be if you were a pair of Jeans
2024-03-3009 min
Coffee with TemmiTEEN SEX TRAUMAIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeYoung people have been sold a bag of bills, too sour to swallow. Is it too late to remedy?There is nothing free in Sexual Freedom.
2024-03-1316 min
Coffee with TemmiWAGWAN WITH THE YOUTH!If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeI had a sit-down with three teenagers, it was an interesting eye-opener for me. Their level of tolerance and accommodation of other people is commendable.
2024-02-0438 min
Coffee with TemmiTALKING CANNABIS If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThere is more to cannabis than meets the eye. An illuminating interview on the plant with Linda Siboto, one of the Partners at Cheeba Cannabis Academy. Located in Johannesburg, South Africa, Cheeba is one of the leading companies in the emerging cannabis industry in the country. https://cheebaafrica.com
2024-01-1359 min
Coffee with TemmiYOU MADE ITIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeSaying goodbye to 2023
2023-12-3106 min
Coffee with TemmiI Know Whose I AmIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeFocus lessons I learnt from the life of Dr. Vivien Thomas.
2023-12-1412 min
Coffee with TemmiTHE POWER OF A GUIDING PHILOSOPHYIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThis episode is a reproduction of a message by Dr. Tim Grage. He is a Pastor, Author, Leadership Coach and the CEO of Tim Grage Consulting. You can watch him on his YouTube channel @timgrage. He is the author of two books, Daily Devotionals and The 12 Laws of Marriage.
2023-11-1426 min
Coffee with TemmiI CALLED HIM DADDYIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeInterviewed myself about my father.
2023-10-1616 min
Coffee with TemmiWHO'S TO BLAME: GEN X OR GEN Z?If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhen parents bend over backwards for their children and there is no discernible line of who is the parent and who is the child, the result can not be good.In a number of families, good manners and discipline have become a taboo.
2023-09-1816 min
Coffee with TemmiSTRAIGHT TALK: BARE KNUCKLES If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeDream it! Seize it!How do you plan a dream, and birth it? If you can dream your desired future, you can achieve it.Ayo Arogbo is a leader in Venture Capitalist, a Pastor, an avid reader and he is passionate about empowering young people to fulfill their potential. He shares with us the program he started to help youth realise their dreams.. It’s not too late, if...
2023-09-0750 min
Coffee with TemmiSTRAIGHT TALK: SEXUAL CONFUSION with Katleho Monareng If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeKatleho Monareng gives us an insight into the sexual confusion that’s challenging young people.
2023-08-2246 min
Coffee with TemmiIN EVERY MIRROR SHE IS A WOMANIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWomen are awesome. Why are they not treated with respect and dignity?
2023-08-1211 min
Coffee with TemmiMARRIED with FRIENDSIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeShould Married Women Have Males Friends?
2023-07-1319 min
Coffee with TemmiOVER SHARINGIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeSharenting is to frequently use social media to share photos or other details and information about one's child.I am one of those people who "suffer' from JOMO (Joy Of Missing Out), so I don’t understand why parents plaster the internet with photos of their offsprings.They are seemingly unaware of the danger this poses to the children or to themselves.My question is why? Wh...
2023-06-2913 min
Coffee with TemmiAGE OF CONSENTIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhat are the criteria for fixing the age of consent; calendar age, size of the child, or preference of the person in authority?What are the criteria for choosing those who make these laws? and when other laws overlaps or supersede one another...The age of consent in most countries benefits not the young people it is meant for but the adults who should know better and who should be protecting the...
2023-06-0510 min
Coffee with TemmiAUTHENTICITY IS OVERRATEDIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeTo be authentic is to be genuine.Does being genuine mean you have to let the world into every facet of your life? Is it necessary to have your warts and all examined and probed by the public in order to gain a badge of authenticity?Let's chat.
2023-06-0307 min
Coffee with TemmiWOMEN, LAW AND FINANCEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeMany women unreasonably fear the law. Matlhodi Leteane hope to distil that fear in negotiating and navigating the law. Women don’t have to be the “weaker” sex when they know their rights as well as responsibilities. Matlhodi on women “… don’t be mistaken that we don’t know our strength, the level of our education, our fierceness, the passion that drives us and the discipline that got us there”
2023-04-2557 min
Coffee with TemmiTRIBUTE TO MY WOMBIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodePastor Charlain Bailey shares her journey to having a hysterectomy.
2023-04-1132 min
Coffee with TemmiI AM A WOMAN…not a CisIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeMy rant today is about the 'Trans Community". The language, the assumptions and the
2023-04-0422 min
Coffee with TemmiWHY AM I NOT MARRIED?If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhy am I not married? Being single is not a disease or affliction, yet I’m asked this question so often🤔here is my answer.
2023-03-2113 min
Coffee with TemmiRAWIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeFreedom to be yourself, to be true to who you are is liberating, it's beautiful, and it should be welcomed, embraced, and enjoyed.“I don't need to have my hands " held" to live/ navigate the world.Being true to myself is the most liberating thing I've ever done.I enjoy being older than my 20s” Demida.
2023-03-0620 min
Coffee with TemmiCHILDREN WHO KILLIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThere is something very wrong when children intentionally kill and show no remorse.
2023-01-2608 min
Coffee with TemmiINTIMACYIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeI find that one of the most misconstrued words in English is intimacy.Intimacy is not sex, though sex is a part of it it’s much more than the physical aspect.In my chat with Pako and Dineo Tlou we look at different areas of intimacy- enjoy!.
2023-01-1055 min
Coffee with TemmiPOST-COVID CAREER PREP 3 (Putting It All Together)If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThis is the third and final session of the Post-Covid Career Prep with Femi Bolaji.Femi puts all the sessions together with guidance on equipping oneself and preparing for the next step.. She unpacks the "bucket of competencies" that will be necessary to survive in the post-covid workplace,
2022-12-2746 min
Coffee with TemmiPost-COVID Career Prep. Session 2b If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThis is Part 2 of Session 2What exactly are soft skills? Leadership, Communication, Collaboration and more, Femi expands on them as she continues to guide us to work in the new normal .#softskills #postcovidcareerprep #learningagility
2022-11-2940 min
Coffee with TemmiPost-COVID Career Prep, Session 2aIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeContinuing the interview with Femi Bolaji, International HR Management Consultant. In this session we focus on What Skills are needed to be “who you need to be” ( session 1).What exactly are soft skills? Leadership, Communication, Collaboration and more, Femi expands on them as she continues to guide us to work in the new normal .#softskills #postcovidcareerprep #learningagilityInvest in yourself, books to read:The Adap...
2022-11-2940 min
Coffee with TemmiPost-COVID Career PrepIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeAutomation. Atomisation. AugumentationThese are not just buzzwords, rather words that we need to familiarise ourselves with in the new post-Covid workplace.Are you ready to emerge from the cocoon of your coach/bed office?Do you have what it takes to:COVID changed every aspect of life. Literally.In this series of Podcasts (3 in all), we will focus on the career...
2022-11-0846 min
Coffee with TemmiBLENDED FAMILYIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeOver the years the description of what the family is has changed, and yet some of have been the same but we just didn’t give it a name. So there was always the nuclear family, the step family and what we now call the blended family we just didn’t name that particular one.To clarify, a Step-family have parent or parents who come into a marriage with kids from...
2022-10-2253 min
Coffee with TemmiCrotch Is Not A Hem LengthIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeI can’t be a Karen, I am not a Karen, yet my peeves list is growing, and I need to vent.There are so many more important things to worry about but they are so out of my control and nothing I can do about them so…I may not be able to change any of these peeves either, but I can rant and vent on; hem leng...
2022-09-3026 min
Coffee with TemmiIF YOUR TEENAGER IS HAVING SEXIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeParenting a teenager can feel like having an alien in the house. To parent a teenager in a world that encouraging sexual freedom requires the wisdom of Solomon. What will you do if you find our your teen is sexually active.
2022-08-2523 min
Coffee with TemmiA LIFE WELL LIVEDIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeI had a smile plastered on my face throughout this interview, with Granny Pat it’s always love, laughter, hugs and coffee! At a few weeks shy of 82, Patricia Matthes aka Granny Pat is an incredible woman; wife, mother, and grandmother to dozens of children, biological and “adopted”. She has and continues to touch lives with godly wisdom, sensible advice, straight forward common sense!
2022-08-0956 min
Coffee with TemmiFOR BETTER FOR WORSEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhen couples stand before God and family and say their Marriage Vows, is it just a ritual, or are the vows meant to be kept?
2022-07-0620 min
Coffee with TemmiGrowing Up MaleIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episode We conclude Fathers month chatting with these incredible young men, Bongani Masilela and Thami Pooe are role models for the younger generation and game changers for theirs. They speak frankly about growing up in a free South Africa, their relationships with their fathers and how they will parent.
2022-06-2823 min
Coffee with TemmiRaising KidsIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodePastor Tim Grage is a father of two incredible adult-ish children. What’s his secret? He unpacks for us what he and his wife have tried, tested, what has worked and what can be done to enrich relationships between parents and their children.Parenting rules of engagement has changed to the extent that it can sometimes feel like navigating a field of uncharted land mines.We live in a...
2022-06-1948 min
Coffee with TemmiBeing A DADIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeBeing a dad is more than biology. In a world of baby-daddies, absent fathers, men with multiple baby-mamas, men who live up to the true calling of a father are gold, a treasure to have and to hold onto. A true father has enormous influence over their child’s life, determines his/her future. A father’s role can not be under estimated, in a world of chaos children find an a...
2022-06-1414 min
Coffee with TemmiLiving the Limitless Life with NdiaIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeNdia Madagadela lives life to the fullest. In personal, family, and her business live she’s gone through broken them and is flying high.
2022-06-0824 min
Coffee with TemmiABORTION, WHOSE RIGHT IS IT?If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThe issue of abortion is a very sensitive one, for the person going though the procedure, having to come to that decision.When should it be permissible to have an abortion? Is there ever a right reason?Who should make a decision about getting an Abortion? Government? Politician? Family? Affected person?
2022-05-3113 min
Coffee with TemmiGRIEFIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeOne of the most difficult topic to talk about is Grief. It’s something that affects everyone, young or old, it has no boundaries, and yet it’s something we just cannot prepare for or guard against. Everyone reacts differently and some people are emotionally touched that their mental state is destroyed or so impaired that they never recover from it. Is there any advice, any word that can...
2022-05-1917 min
Coffee with TemmiFGM. The Pain Never Goes AwayIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWhat is the purpose of female circumcision?Why are girls subjected to it? What is the benefit to the child? How do we stop the blood letting?
2022-04-1922 min
Coffee with TemmiADULTS BEHAVING BADLYIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThis was first posted on my YouTube page.The shock of the slap given by Will Smith to Chris Rock is still vibrating round the world. Not only that it was done but also done publicly. The genesis of the slap is lost to most of us, for there is surely more to it than the unsavoury joke made by Chris Rock.I don’t support the actions of...
2022-04-0709 min
Coffee with TemmiLOVING LIFE WITH KONEIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeKone Gugushe is a ball of positive energy, if I could call an adult a bundle of joy then that’s who she is. Mum, wife, daughter, friend and very busy executive, how does she do it?
2022-04-0523 min
Coffee with TemmiRAPED BY FATHERIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeRAPE: the crime, typically committed by a man, of forcing another person to have sexual intercourse with the offender against their will.This crime is made worse when the person committing the crime is the one that is supposed to protect, Where is the escape? How does one move on from here? Is there hope for a normal life after this heinous crime?
2022-03-2922 min
Coffee with TemmiGENDER-BASED VIOLENCE chat with Dr. Tshegofatso MaimelaIf this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeWe have to speak out, on this issue silence is not golden. Gender-based violence must not be stigmatized. The shame is not that of the victim but the abuser and yet the abuser is without remorse. Gender-based violence is a scourge on society, if one person is affected we are all affected. The occurrence of GBV has increased in recent years, made worse with the lockdown worldwide. This is not limited to...
2022-03-221h 01
Coffee with TemmiI KNOW YOU MEAN WELL BUT...If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeI know you mean well but...there are times when love and concern are better shown by not speaking. Times when words and actions tend to scratch places that are already tender. They are unwanted and unwelcome, how do we navigate those instances?
2022-03-1710 min
Coffee with TemmiINSENSITIVE If this topic hit home, I'd love to hear from you. Leave me a 60-second voicemail and I may share it on a future episodeThis was initially posted as a video on my YouTube channel last year. I have edited it slightly but the main message has not changed.I find that women are not as tolerant of each other as we should be, we disregard, belittle of just ignore the very thing that makes us different from men - our display of emotions. When we bruise other women emotionally we are all the...
2022-03-1611 min
Human & HolyIn the Ordinary Moments with Temmi HadarIn today’s episode, I interview Temmi Hadar about the topic of Isapcha, transformation, and how she strives to infuse the ordinary moments of her life with meaning, little by little.
It is not the grand moments that transform our lives into meaningful ones. It is the ordinary moments infused with meaning that make our lives extraordinary.
2021-04-1844 min