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Lunch With SandyPower Play: Unraveling the Dynamics of Control in RelationshipsSend us a textEver wondered how the invisible threads of power weave through the fabric of your relationship? That's exactly what we're unpacking on the latest Lunch with Sandy podcast. Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we dissect the often unspoken power plays that arise from social status, gender roles, and financial contributions. We share candid stories from our own lives, dissecting moments where we've felt either on top or under the heel in our relationships, and we're laying it all out there for you to connect with.Navigating the complexities of modern partnerships...
2024-05-2533 minLunch With SandyPower Play: Unraveling the Dynamics of Control in RelationshipsSend us a textEver wondered how the invisible threads of power weave through the fabric of your relationship? That's exactly what we're unpacking on the latest Lunch with Sandy podcast. Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we dissect the often unspoken power plays that arise from social status, gender roles, and financial contributions. We share candid stories from our own lives, dissecting moments where we've felt either on top or under the heel in our relationships, and we're laying it all out there for you to connect with.Navigating the complexities of modern partnerships...
2024-05-2533 min
Lunch With SandyEquity and Equality in RelationshipsSend us a textEver found yourself pondering the secret sauce that makes relationships tick? Well, Sandy and I invite you on a journey to discover just that. With laughter, love, and a dash of wisdom from our own marriage, we tackle the intricate dance between equity and equality in partnerships. We've all heard that relationships should be 50-50, but what happens when life throws a curveball that demands a different approach? Through laughter and candid stories, we share how embracing each partner's unique strengths and challenges can lead to a more harmonious and supportive bond.
2024-05-1835 min
Lunch With SandyRethinking 'Till Death Do Us Part': The Case for Term MarriagesSend us a textAre lifelong vows in marriage a one-size-fits-all solution, or could it be time for a marital revolution? Sandy and I embark on an unguarded journey through the complexities of matrimony, questioning the conventional 'till death do us part' adage that has anchored the institution for centuries. Our candid discussion on term marriages investigates whether a set duration for marital bonds might just be the refurbishment needed for modern relationships, offering couples the chance to renew or respectfully part ways as they evolve.Imagine marriage as a service contract, complete with renewal...
2024-05-1132 min
Lunch With SandyRiding Solo on the Parenting Rollercoaster with a Teen in TowSend us a textEver found yourself thrown into the deep end of parenting duties? Well, I'm Terrance, and I've lived to tell the tale! Join me as I recount the unexpected adventure of solo parenting my teenage daughter while my wife was away. From haircare hurdles to laundry lessons and the culinary creativity of quick-fix meals, I've navigated the full gamut of household chores with a mixture of humor, desperation, and unexpected delight. Discover how a hair doll head became my unlikely ally and why peanut butter and jelly can be a gourmet meal in the...
2024-05-0421 minLunch With SandyRiding Solo on the Parenting Rollercoaster with a Teen in TowSend us a textEver found yourself thrown into the deep end of parenting duties? Well, I'm Terrance, and I've lived to tell the tale! Join me as I recount the unexpected adventure of solo parenting my teenage daughter while my wife was away. From haircare hurdles to laundry lessons and the culinary creativity of quick-fix meals, I've navigated the full gamut of household chores with a mixture of humor, desperation, and unexpected delight. Discover how a hair doll head became my unlikely ally and why peanut butter and jelly can be a gourmet meal in the...
2024-05-0421 min
Lunch With SandyDeciphering the On-Again, Off-Again RelationshipSend us a textHave you ever found yourself cycling back to an ex, despite swearing you turned that final corner? Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we lace up our running shoes and pedal into the heart of on-off relationships. Our recent Lunch with Sandy podcast episode is a roadmap through the rocky terrain of love's loop-de-loops, where we share hearty laughs, personal tales, and the surprising statistics that might just make sense of those reunion urges.As the wheels keep turning, we ponder the peculiar pull of the past. Why do some couples...
2024-04-2736 minLunch With SandyDeciphering the On-Again, Off-Again RelationshipSend us a textHave you ever found yourself cycling back to an ex, despite swearing you turned that final corner? Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we lace up our running shoes and pedal into the heart of on-off relationships. Our recent Lunch with Sandy podcast episode is a roadmap through the rocky terrain of love's loop-de-loops, where we share hearty laughs, personal tales, and the surprising statistics that might just make sense of those reunion urges.As the wheels keep turning, we ponder the peculiar pull of the past. Why do some couples...
2024-04-2736 min
Lunch With SandyThe Untold Joys and Challenges of Age-Gap RelationshipsSend us a textHave you ever spotted a couple with a noticeable age gap and found your curiosity piqued? Sandy and I, certainly have, and we're spilling the beans on everything age-gap related on the latest Lunch with Sandy podcast. With an aim to deconstruct the myths and societal judgments that surround age-disparate relationships, our conversation navigates through personal anecdotes, the impact of financial disparities, and the importance of mutual respect and understanding. This episode isn't just about the challenges; it's also about the unexpected joys and learning experiences that such partnerships bring. From t...
2024-04-2053 min
Lunch With SandyThe Shades of Betrayal: Journey Through Infidelity and HealingSend us a textHave you ever found yourself questioning where the line is drawn in the sand when it comes to marital fidelity? Join us, as we navigate the emotionally charged waters of infidelity in marriage, offering a beacon of understanding in the storm of heartbreak and healing. We're discussing the various forms cheating can take, from the clear-cut physical affairs to the emotional entanglements and secretive online connections that test the boundaries of trust.Betrayal in a marriage isn't a black and white scenario; it's a spectrum that can leave even the strongest...
2024-04-1354 min
Lunch With SandyThe Art of Translation: Decoding Your Partner's WordsSend us a textNavigating the choppy seas of marital communication, Sandy and I get real about the true colors of verbal and nonverbal exchanges between partners. The nuances can be as subtle as the difference between an earnest "whatever you want" and a resigned one, and recognizing these shades of meaning can make or break understanding in a relationship. We don't shy away from gendered communication differences either—expect to hear about the bluntness often found in men's words versus the riddled expressions women may use.Ever found yourself baffled by your partner's silence or...
2024-04-0634 min
Lunch With SandyPlanting Seeds of Tech: Parenting in the Digital LandscapeSend us a textEver found yourself chuckling over who gets to wield the rake during the first yard cleanup of spring? Terrance and I, have definitely been there, and in our latest chat, we're spilling the beans on how digital literacy is reshaping not just the seasons but everything from parenting to paying the bills. Lawnmowers might soon be smarter than our smartphones, and while we're not there yet, we're definitely seeing the impact of tech on our family dynamics. Remember the days when "digital etiquette" wasn't a thing? Those times are long gone, a...
2024-03-3034 minLunch With SandyPlanting Seeds of Tech: Parenting in the Digital LandscapeSend us a textEver found yourself chuckling over who gets to wield the rake during the first yard cleanup of spring? Terrance and I, have definitely been there, and in our latest chat, we're spilling the beans on how digital literacy is reshaping not just the seasons but everything from parenting to paying the bills. Lawnmowers might soon be smarter than our smartphones, and while we're not there yet, we're definitely seeing the impact of tech on our family dynamics. Remember the days when "digital etiquette" wasn't a thing? Those times are long gone, a...
2024-03-3034 min
Lunch With SandyThe Secrets to Seamless Family OutingsSend us a textEvery time we pack our bags and herd the kids into the car, Terrance and I brace for the beautiful chaos that is a family vacation. This episode is no exception, as we recount the whirlwind of emotions and the lessons learned from our latest adventure. We tackle everything from the anticipation of departure to the reality of post-travel blues and sniffles. Listen in as we get real about flying with kids, the unexpected dynamics of bringing new family members along for the ride, and the bittersweet growth of our daughter Aila, whose...
2024-03-2339 minLunch With SandyThe Secrets to Seamless Family OutingsSend us a textEvery time we pack our bags and herd the kids into the car, Terrance and I brace for the beautiful chaos that is a family vacation. This episode is no exception, as we recount the whirlwind of emotions and the lessons learned from our latest adventure. We tackle everything from the anticipation of departure to the reality of post-travel blues and sniffles. Listen in as we get real about flying with kids, the unexpected dynamics of bringing new family members along for the ride, and the bittersweet growth of our daughter Aila, whose...
2024-03-2339 min
Lunch With SandyThe Art of Cultivating Confident and Independent GirlsSend us a textHave you ever questioned if your daughter is equipped to tackle the world with her head held high? That's the very heart of our conversation today, where Terrance and I, unravel the complexities of instilling healthy self-esteem in our daughters. As we traverse through personal accounts and professional nuggets of wisdom, we aim to illuminate the path for parents striving to embed leadership, integrity, and confidence in their young women.Navigating adolescence can feel like steering a ship through a storm, particularly when puberty's tumultuous waves hit. Our dialogue here is...
2024-03-1642 minLunch With SandyThe Art of Cultivating Confident and Independent GirlsSend us a textHave you ever questioned if your daughter is equipped to tackle the world with her head held high? That's the very heart of our conversation today, where Terrance and I, unravel the complexities of instilling healthy self-esteem in our daughters. As we traverse through personal accounts and professional nuggets of wisdom, we aim to illuminate the path for parents striving to embed leadership, integrity, and confidence in their young women.Navigating adolescence can feel like steering a ship through a storm, particularly when puberty's tumultuous waves hit. Our dialogue here is...
2024-03-1642 min
Lunch With SandyMe Time: Strengthening Marriage through Personal SpaceSend us a textEver wondered how a vacation from your spouse might actually bring you closer together? Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we reveal the untold benefits of carving out personal space in a marriage, without sacrificing the intimacy that binds us. Experience the journey of discovering that, indeed, absence can make the heart grow fonder, as we share our own tales of managing the delicate dance between unity and autonomy in our relationship. From the invigorating solitude of a girls' trip to the artful juggle of leaving workplace woes behind, we bare all in...
2024-03-0938 minLunch With SandyMe Time: Strengthening Marriage through Personal SpaceSend us a textEver wondered how a vacation from your spouse might actually bring you closer together? Join us, Terrance and Sandy, as we reveal the untold benefits of carving out personal space in a marriage, without sacrificing the intimacy that binds us. Experience the journey of discovering that, indeed, absence can make the heart grow fonder, as we share our own tales of managing the delicate dance between unity and autonomy in our relationship. From the invigorating solitude of a girls' trip to the artful juggle of leaving workplace woes behind, we bare all in...
2024-03-0938 min
Lunch With SandyBeyond Youth: Silver ConsiderationsSend us a textEver wondered if cupid's arrow strikes later in life? Sandy and I unravel the enigma of senior dating apps with a touch of humor and a dash of sincerity. We're tackling the unique hurdles our golden-aged friends encounter in the blossoming digital realm of romance. From navigating the technology landscape to designing age-appropriate interfaces, we dissect platforms like Silver Connections, AARP Date Mate, and Senior Sizzle Swipe, all innovated for those relishing their seasoned years. Join us for a conversation that's as illuminating as it is fun, and discover how these apps are...
2024-03-0240 min
Lunch With SandyRelationship AgreementsSend us a textHave you ever considered that a splash of contractual wisdom could be the secret ingredient to a harmonious relationship? We certainly think so. Join us as we unravel the intricate weave of relationship agreements, discussing how setting clear expectations can prevent those pesky misunderstandings that even the strongest couples encounter. Just like the precision of a well-tailored suit, our rapport will show you how agreements in romance can be tailored to fit perfectly around the nuances of your unique partnership.Living together is an art form, and this episode paints a...
2024-02-2443 min
Lunch With SandyThe Heart of the Matter: What Men Admire in PartnersSend us a textEver wonder what ignites a spark in the diverse tapestry of men’s hearts? This episode, Sandy and I, get real about the qualities men truly admire in a partner. From ambition that's less about clocking hours and more about chasing dreams, to confidence that radiates without relying on the crowd's applause; we're serving up a feast of insights. Join us at our table where we share a slice of our lives, including that time we ran a half marathon together, all to illustrate the grit and grace of a goal-oriented partner.
2024-02-1737 min
Lunch With SandyFalling for the Person vs Their PotentialSend us a textHave you ever found yourself swooning over what someone could be, rather than embracing who they are right now? Join Terrance and Sandy as we unpack the intricacies of love, peeking into the delicate balance between nurturing a partner's potential and cherishing their true self. Over a lighthearted lunch, we swap tales about our own relationship journey and upcoming vacation plans, only to find ourselves wading into the deeper waters of romantic expectations. We'll share a laugh over the "Gold Digger" song, but don't be fooled, this episode is about the stark realities...
2024-02-1033 minLunch With SandyFalling for the Person vs Their PotentialSend us a textHave you ever found yourself swooning over what someone could be, rather than embracing who they are right now? Join Terrance and Sandy as we unpack the intricacies of love, peeking into the delicate balance between nurturing a partner's potential and cherishing their true self. Over a lighthearted lunch, we swap tales about our own relationship journey and upcoming vacation plans, only to find ourselves wading into the deeper waters of romantic expectations. We'll share a laugh over the "Gold Digger" song, but don't be fooled, this episode is about the stark realities...
2024-02-1033 min
Lunch With SandyWhat Women Want in a PartnerSend us a textEver pondered the building blocks that make a relationship not just survive, but thrive? That's where we, Terrance and Sandy, come into play, offering a deep dive into the essential attributes women desire in their significant others. Trustworthiness, we find, is not just an admirable trait but the very foundation upon which love and partnership stand. We break down how honesty, reliability, and authenticity aren't just lofty ideals but the concrete that holds the edifice of togetherness. Not shying away from the complexities of masculine vulnerability, we pull back the curtain on the...
2024-02-0336 minLunch With SandyWhat Women Want in a PartnerSend us a textEver pondered the building blocks that make a relationship not just survive, but thrive? That's where we, Terrance and Sandy, come into play, offering a deep dive into the essential attributes women desire in their significant others. Trustworthiness, we find, is not just an admirable trait but the very foundation upon which love and partnership stand. We break down how honesty, reliability, and authenticity aren't just lofty ideals but the concrete that holds the edifice of togetherness. Not shying away from the complexities of masculine vulnerability, we pull back the curtain on the...
2024-02-0336 min
Lunch With SandyRedefining the American DreamSend us a textHave you ever paused to consider the true essence of the American Dream, especially within the tapestry of marriage? Join Terrance and Sandy as we peel back the layers of what this dream means today, beyond the white picket fences and 2.5 children. Our candid conversation takes you through the heart of communication within relationships, the balancing act between personal ambition and partnership, and how societal shifts are redefining success.As we navigate the complexities of love and aspirations, we'll share insights on aligning dreams to forge a stronger bond with your...
2024-01-2743 minLunch With SandyRedefining the American DreamSend us a textHave you ever paused to consider the true essence of the American Dream, especially within the tapestry of marriage? Join Terrance and Sandy as we peel back the layers of what this dream means today, beyond the white picket fences and 2.5 children. Our candid conversation takes you through the heart of communication within relationships, the balancing act between personal ambition and partnership, and how societal shifts are redefining success.As we navigate the complexities of love and aspirations, we'll share insights on aligning dreams to forge a stronger bond with your...
2024-01-2743 min