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Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantShould You Put Your Spouse Before Your Kids?In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a topic that has gone viral! Ayesha Curry, the wife of NBA Star Steph Curry, said she puts her husband before her kids. The Trufants discuss Ayesha’s comments and give their perspective in this week's episode. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2025-03-1728 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantOh Sh*t!! Our Oldest Is Going Off To College!It's been a while but the Trufants are back! In this episode, they give a life update on everything with the family. Also, they share the news about their oldest daughter going to college. Do you think Marcus and Jessica are ready for the oldest to leave the nest? Listen in now!Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2025-02-1433 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMy Daughter is Dealing With Her First Break UpThe Trufants receive an email from a mom whose daughter is dealing with her first breakup. She needs advice on how to help her daughter get through this hard time. The Trufants give her advice and share their own stories of heartbreak.Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-09-2531 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMy Man is Paying Another Woman’s RentThis week the Trufants answer an email from a listener who says she just found out her man has been paying another woman's rent. To make matters worse, she knows who the woman is and is beyond furious! Follow on all things Social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-07-1730 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantBuilding Stronger Relationships: Tips from Relationship Boosters Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia JamesOn this episode the Trufants are joined by special guests Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia James from Relationship Boosters. These licensed therapists help individuals and couples improve communication, intimacy, and connection to boost their sex life. With 18 years of experience, they have successfully guided thousands to healthier relationships by breaking toxic communication patterns and implementing strategies for a better quality of life.For more information on Dr. Carol Ann and Dr. Kia visit their website here.Follow them on IG @relationship_boostersFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-04-2444 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant"My Husband Charges Me Rent" - should I pay?What would you do if you got married, moved into a house your husband owns...and, he charges you rent? That's the predicament that one listener is in right now. She wrote into the podcast to get relationship advice from the Trufants to help navigate this sticky situation. Here is her question, "I’ve been married to my husband for a little over a year. We decided before we got married that I would move into his house and rent my place. What’s bothering me is since we’ve been living together he charges me rent. So half of...
2023-06-0136 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant"My Wife Withholds Sex To Prove a Point - What Should I Do?" | Relationship AdviceIs there such a thing as "weaponizing sex?" In this episode, the Trufants discuss another question submitted by a loyal listener. The listener's wife allegedly withholds sex when she doesn't get what she wants, claims the listener. We have a few serious questions about this topic - Is it ever OK to withhold sex? What would happen if the husband withholds sex? Is withholding sex a form of emotional abuse? Listen up as the Trufants discuss this topic and offer their best relationship advice. How do you feel about this topic? Help our podcast r...
2023-05-1832 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant"My Husband Gets A Lot of Attention, I Feel Insecure. What Do I Do?" | Relationship AdviceIn today's episode, we're answering another listener's question about marriage and relationship advice. A listener DM'd us about her very attractive husband who gets a lot of attention from both men and women. This attention makes her feel insecure. She feels annoyed, frustrated, and insecure when people approach her husband even though he always politely declines their advances and tells them he has a wife. The listener's confidence is affected, and she sometimes wishes she was with someone who didn't attract as much attention. The listener is asking for advice on how to get over these negative feelings.
2023-05-1137 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantI think my fiance has a thing for the neighbor...am I being paranoid?We have another juicy question from a listen on today's podcast. A listener wrote in because he is feeling insecure in his relationship because his fiancé rambled about how attractive she thinks the next-door neighbor is. She later tried to backtrack and say that she's not really attracted to him and that she only thinks about her husband. Things get even more complicated when her fiancé notices that she follows the neighbor on Instagram. He is wondering if he should approach her, or if he's being paranoid. Listen up as the Trufants discuss this situation and help the listener mo...
2023-04-2741 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow much sex is too much?In this episode, The Trufants get into the topic of sexual frequency in marriage - is there such thing as TOO much sex in a relationship?The hosts discuss the now-viral clip of Larsa Pippin saying that she and Scottie Pippin has sex FOUR times every night of their 20+ year marriage. The episode also provides practical advice and tips for couples to create a healthy and fulfilling sex life in their marriage.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-03-3038 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantLeaving a Toxic Relationship...In this episode, Jessica finally got some alone time with her son while Marcus took the girls on a father/daughter date. Kash wasn't feelin' it! Later, the Trufants respond to a listener question from a woman who is thinking of leaving her toxic husband who is emotionally controlling and negative. The woman wonders if she should leave or take another approach before making such a permanent decision for herself and her child.>> Have a question for The Trufants? Send us a DM on Instagram @trulyunruly_podcast or email trulyunrulypodcast@gmail.com...
2023-03-0240 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow Men vs Women Handle RejectionObviously, no one likes getting rejected - whether it be for a romantic relationship, a job interview and or any other form of rejection. Does one sex handle rejection "better" or "worse"? In this episode, the Trufants discuss the different ways that they handle rejection while Kel backs up their claims with the research. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-01-1333 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantLooking Back on 2022 - Questions To Ask About Your Relationship Going ForwardHappy New Year! In this episode, the Trufants look back at 2022 and ask some important questions about their relationships and individuals. Get your notes ready so you can ask the same questions about your relationship!What's the biggest mistake of the year, and the lesson learned as a result?What did you learn about your friends this year?What would you say were some highlights of this year when it came to your marriage?What was my biggest relationship accomplishment?What do you think you can work...
2023-01-0642 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThings Every Black Mom Has Said"I'm not one of your little friends" - if you were raised by a Black mom, you've definitely heard that one! If you're now a Black mom, you've probably said all of these phrases. In this episode, The Trufants laugh about all the things their moms said growing up and if they say the same things now to their kids. Get ready to laugh!Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-12-2842 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantAre Happy Kids a Reflection of a Happy Marriage?How happy or unhappy you are in your marriage certainly affects you and your spouse's emotional state and feelings of happiness, but does it affect your children? Do children pick up on the vibes of a stressful, emotionally draining marriage? Do they pick up on the vibes of a happy, respectful loving marriage? In this episode, the Trufants dive in. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-11-3038 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWant a Better Relationship? Fighting Fair is Key! | ep. #75Fighting and arguing in relationships feel uncomfortable and can really hurt the relationship if both parties are trying to hurt each other. But, fighting is normal in relationships. Learning to fight fairly, however, takes some time and practice to learn. If you want a healthy, long-lasting relationship it's important to take key steps to fight fair and to grow from the fight. Instead of hurting your relationship, a "fair" fight might actually help the relationship.In this episode, the Trufants, discuss their "fighting style" - if they fight fair and how they (and you...
2022-11-1034 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantShould You Vent To Your Friends About Your Relationship? | ep. #74Talking with a good friend can easily turn into a vent session all about your relationship. Sometimes it just feels good to get it out and to get someone else's take on the situation. But, is venting to your friends about your relationship healthy? Listen to what the Trufants say about this topic in their marriage. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-10-3131 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantSomeone fell asleep during sex - should you be upset? | ep. #73Has your spouse fallen asleep during sex? Do they fall asleep immediately after sex? Or, maybe YOU are the one falling asleep. One of the Trufants fell asleep during sex...can you guess who? Find out how the Trufants reacted in this episode.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-10-2736 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantLearn To Pick Your Battles Wisely For a Healthy Relationship | ep. #72Disagreements in relationships are normal. But, constant bickering can cause havoc even in the most healthy relationships. There comes a point when it's important to learn how to choose which fights are worth fighting and which ones are easier to just let go of. In this episode, The Trufants discuss the art of picking your battles wisely in a relationship. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-10-2139 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhat Do You Listen To During Sex? | ep. #70Do you have a favorite R&B song to listen to during sex? Or are you a rap person? Do you like it better silent? Maybe you like the TV on in the background? In this hilarious episode, the Trufants share their favorite bedroom sounds (or not).Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-10-1333 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow Astrology Changed Jess' Life | ep. #70Jessica had her birth chart done recently and was in for a few major life surprises. In this episode, the Trufants share some of Jessica's astrological secrets and how it has changed her life. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-09-3040 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow To Talk To Your Teen About Dating | ep. #69One day you wake up and your kid is not so kid-like anymore and they're wanting to start dating. You knew this day would come. Maybe you've prepared for it. Chances are, you're not. The Trufants have 5 kids, a few of them are teenagers and their preteens are quickly reaching that age. In this episode, Marcus and Jessica share how they approach dating and relationships with their kids and how to talk to your teen about those complicated years. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-09-1736 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantIs Love a Compromise or Sacrifice? | ep. #68Don't sacrifice and compromise essentially mean the same thing? Short answer, no. Sacrifice and compromise are totally different actions. So, what do they even mean? Is it important to practice BOTH sacrifice and compromise to have a healthy relationship? Relationships get more complicated when words like compromise and sacrifice are just thrown around all the time. In this episode, The Trufants dive into the questions that plague all of us in relationships when it comes to making sacrifices or learning to compromise....
2022-09-0934 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMoney, Looks, Personality - What's More Important? | ep. #65Good looks can fade. Money comes and goes. Personalities can change. So, what's the MOST important when it comes to dating and relationships? A lot of money, good looks, or a great personality? Everyone could have their own answer to that question depending on their preferences. Here's what the Trufants say matters most to them. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-07-2825 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDo you think of safe sex before busting it open? | ep #64In the heat of the moment, it's easy to rush into sex without thinking about the consequences of unprotected sex. Sometimes it seems like people are more concerned with pregnancy than with STDs. Until YOU catch something. With an estimated 80% of sexually active adults being infected with HPV, sexual health is something that needs to be talked about more often. In this episode, the Trufants discuss safe sex, how long to wait before sex, when it's ok to have unprotected sex, and how to go about having the STD talk with a new partner. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-07-0829 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant3 Reasons You Can't Get and Keep a Man | ep #62Breakups suck. They're hard and they hurt. It's just part of life - relationships don't always work out. Maybe you're just not compatible or you mutually decide to call it quits. But, there comes a point where you not being able to "keep a man" might be more about YOU and you're own unresolved issues. It's a tough pill to swallow and even harder to admit that maybe, just maybe, you are not "perfect" and that you have faults as well. A strong, lasting, healthy relationship is made up of two whole individuals who a...
2022-06-0934 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantYour Boyfriend is NOT Your Husband | ep. #61Do you do everything for your boyfriend that you think a wife does? Sex, cook, clean, grocery shop, laundry...blah, blah, blah? Basically, giving him all the privileges of being a husband without the commitment? Then you wonder why he hasn't married you yet after all this time. Now, if you're in a relationship where you have both decided that marriage is not your thing, this episode is probably NOT for you. For everyone else - your boyfriend is NOT your husband and it's time to stop treating him as such, especially if you want to get married and...
2022-06-0233 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThis is Why Men Benefit MORE From Marriage Than Women Do | ep. #60Nearly 70% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. So, why do more women than men call it quits on marriage? Maybe, just maybe, it's because they do not benefit from marriage in the same way that men do. Gender roles traditionally teach women to prepare to be a "good wife" their entire lives whereas men are taught to build careers. Ultimately, as times have changed, married women might get fed up with this narrative and decide that marriage cannot benefit them in the way they need. In this episode, the Trufants discuss wh...
2022-05-2626 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Harsh Truths About Love That Are Learned The Hard Way | ep. #59The "honeymoon" phase of relationships inevitably wanes and you're left to deal with REAL love. Real love is not always easy and it takes a lot of work. From feelings of loneliness to one person chasing the other to toxic partners - there are some very brutal truths that are often learned the hard way, by living (and learning) through them. Ask anyone you know who's been together a long time and they'll probably agree that these 5 things are true in most successful relationships. Or, they learned them in previous relationships. In this episode, the Trufants discuss these harsh...
2022-05-2033 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhat is considered flirting on Instagram? | ep. #58From "liking" someone's old pics to sliding in their DMs - what is considered flirting and what is considered just being friendly? In this episode, the Trufants discuss what is going too far on Instagram, when to steer clear of an "admirer" (or stalker) or when to get your flirt on (if you're single, that is)Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-04-2833 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant6 Petty Things That Make You a Jealous Spouse | ep. #57Are you jealous AF over the pettiest things? Maybe they're not "petty" to YOU, but they feel silly to your spouse...in this episode, the Trufants talk about the top 6 things that make partners jealous in a relationship and if it's even appropriate to feel jealous in those situations. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-04-2134 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Sex Myths That Will Blow Your Mind (with Sexologist Tiffynee Terry-Thomas) | ep. #54True or false: all women can orgasm from penetration? Pounding equals more pleasure, right? WRONG! For your safety and sexual satisfaction, Sexologist Tiffynee Terry-Thomas debunks some of the most common sex myths. She joins the Trufants in a hilarious, candid discussion about sex myths that you probably believe to be true and drops some sex-truth bombs for you to use tonight (wink wink)Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-03-2341 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMan Flu vs Woman Flu | ep. #52If you've ever lived with someone of the opposite sex you've probably noticed that men and women react totally differently to "colds" or the flu. Usually, men are DOWN FOR THE COUNT with any little ache or sniffle. Women, on the other hand, will suck that shit up and go about their life. Where's the lie? In this episode, the Trufants discuss the "Man Flu" phenomenon. Do the stereotypes ring true in their household or is it all a myth? Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-03-1031 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Things Selfish People Do in Relationships | ep. #51s your spouse super selfish? Or, maybe you're the selfish one in the relationship? If so, it's time to nip that sh*t in the bud! Do you know "someone" who ALWAYS has to be right?! Who is QUICK to react? Who always takes control of the conversation. When it comes to healthy, happy relationships, it's important to be selfLESS, understanding, and flexible. In this episode, the Trufants discuss what it means to be selfish, who is the selfish one in their marriage, and how to overcome your selfish ways. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-03-0241 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow To Build Trust After Infidelity | ep. #49Maybe you convinced yourself that your partner would never find out about your side-piece. Of course, your partner DID find out and now you're about to lose your family over some fling. Do marriages survive infidelity? Short answer - yes. But, if you're the cheater, you have to realize that you made the decision to RISK. IT. ALL. Now you have to do absolutely everything you can to rebuild your partner's trust, to make your partner feel safe with you again, to convince your partner that you are not only reliable but that you are also credible. In this...
2022-02-0936 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Worst Marriage-Killing Money Issues | ep. #47If you're having money problems in your marriage, you're not alone. At some point, most marriages encounter financial stress. From student loans to overspending and financial secrets - money issues can kill a happy marriage. In this episode, the Trufants discuss the top money issues that impact marriages (according to experts). We dive into questions like, - How do you resolve money issues in a marriage? - Can a marriage survive money problems?- Should you put your spouse on an allowance? - How to deal with debt in marriage? ...
2022-01-2635 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Questions To Ask Your Spouse at The End of The Year | ep.#43As 2021 closes out, it's important to reflect on your relationship together and ask some important questions to make the next year, the best year. In this episode, the Trufants open up about 2021 and share answers to some questions - like, Jessica buying a puppy (without Marcus). Follow on Instagram @trulyunruly_podcast Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-12-2944 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant7 SIGNS THAT YOU'RE THE TOXIC ONE IN THE RELATIONSHIP: ask yourself if you relate to these traits | ep. #39It's hard to look yourself in the mirror and ask, "am I the toxic one in the relationship?" The truth hurts sometimes and it's so much easier to place the blame on someone else. In this episode, the Trufants discuss some behavior and patterns that lead to a toxic relationship and how to determine if you are the toxic one. From gaslighting to manipulation and being judgemental. Try not to feel too bad if you identify with some of these characteristics - the first step to change is accepting ourselves for who we are and getting the help we...
2021-11-0238 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDIVORCE: is spousal & child support fair? | ep. #37Divorce is messy. There's no doubt about that - especially when it comes to finances, assets, child, and spousal support. What happens when one spouse makes a lot more money than the other spouse? What if one parent stayed home to raise the children while the other parent built their career? Is spousal support fair or it is just a part of reality? Should one parent pay child support? In this episode, The Trufants (and Kel) discuss how they feel about spousal and child support. Plus, they dive into some shocking amounts that celebrity F...
2021-10-2036 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Perfect Child-Free Getaway | ep. #36Marcus and Jessica finally get a well-deserved child-free vacation! The Trufants embark on a trip to New Orleans and enjoy great food, hospitality, and of course family. They get a first-hand Superdome experience and try a local favorite beverage called “The Bow Wow”. This episode is packed with laughter and a few food recommendations for the next time you’re in the Big Easy. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-10-1335 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Surprising (and funny) Truths About The Trufants | ep. #35The Trufant's play a game of "tell your truth." Kel asks them questions and they HAVE to tell the absolute truth. Get the popcorn ready because they're spilling all the tea. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-10-0638 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantIS IT OK TO TEACH YOUR KIDS TO FIGHT BACK? | ep. #34Most parents teach their kids NOT to hit, even when they're mad. It's always "go tell the Teacher!" But, is that always the best thing to do? What should your kid do if another kid hits them first or if they are being bullied? Should they actually hit back and learn to defend themselves. In this episode, the Trufants (and Kel) talk about a recent incident in Kindergarten with pushing and what they have taught their kids. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-09-3028 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantNurse Alice Debunks Viral COVID Conspiracy Theories & Myths | ep. #33The Trufants get real with Nurse Alice about conspiracy theories, misinformation, fear-mongering, and Black health in general. Nurse Alice works in the ICU in Los Angeles where she has treated COVID patients on the frontlines throughout the pandemic. She answers questions like, "Are you seeing more vaccinated or unvaccinated patients in the ICU with severe COVID?" "What would you say to Black people who are wary of the vaccine due to historical racism and mistreatment of our people?"“We see memes and social media post...
2021-09-2146 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantREAL REASONS WHY WOMEN PICK FIGHTS WITH MEN THEY LOVE: and how to stop | ep. #30From the little things to the big things, fights in relationships are inevitable. No one likes to fight with their significant other. But, sometimes we pick fights. The Trufants open up about some of their fights and the real reason why they might get started in the first place. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-08-0431 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWHAT HAPPENS IN VEGAS ENDS UP ON THE PODCAST: we went to Sin City with 5 kids and lived to talk about it. | ep. #29The Trufants took a 6 day trip to Las Vegas for a dance competition, with all 5 kids. Did they STILL go to the strip club? You bet they did (and they recommend more couples to do the same.) Listen for all the hilarious stories. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-07-2135 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantINSECURITY IN MARRIAGE: 5 ways to stop jealousy and trust issues from sabotaging your relationship | ep. #26No relationship is perfect - we all come with baggage. But, there comes a tipping point when feelings of insecurity, trust issues, jealousy, unwarranted accusations, snooping, and self-doubt pose a real threat to marriage. But what exactly is insecurity in marriage? How can you stop feeling insecure if you already have trust issues? How to deal with an insecure wife or husband? What are the signs of insecurity? In this episode, the Trufants open up about their own insecurities (past and present) in their marriage. They discuss expert advice on how to tackle those f...
2021-06-0234 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMAINTENANCE SEX (aka Sympathy Sex): Good? Bad? Or Necessary for a Healthy Relationship? | ep. #24When you don't want to have sex, but you do it anyways because you feel like it's your "job" to keep your partner happy- that's maintenance sex. Should people in long term relationships or marriages be having sex, just to have it? Will it strengthen the marriage? Or, is it putting unrealistic expectations and pressure on the relationship? In this episode the Trufants get real about this controversial subject. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-05-1835 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 MOST ANNOYING THINGS ALL PARENTS CAN RELATE TO - and why we wouldn't change a thing about our kids *Mother's Day Special Pt. 1* | ep. #23Nothing can prepare you for the millions of annoying things kids do DAY IN and DAY OUT. Do kids ever stop being annoying? (if you're asking that question you must not have a teenager yet!) As parents of 5 kids the Trufants have been through every stage of parenthood - from infancy to toddlerhood, adolescence, preteen, and now teenagehood. Kids are annoying at EVERY stage. If you know, you know! And while they love their children, they are not afraid to admit that parenthood is hard. Join Marcus and Jessica in a hilarious and REAL discussion on kids being annoying...
2021-05-0921 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWays To Have a Better Relationship (it's not sex or love) | ep. #21Spoiler, it's not SEX or love. Let's keep in one-hundred here, it doesn't matter how funny, sweet or perfect your partner is...sometimes, they might just drive you crazy. Great relationships aren't born out of thin air - they take work. YEARS of work. Relationships are always evolving. Marcus and Jessica's relationship is no different. In this episode, they explore advice from the experts on the 5 most important things in a relationship and how to make it even better. Find out what the Trufants think are the most important things in a relationship and if they are doing those...
2021-04-2741 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 14: Kids Grow Up Too Fast and Peloton Is Keeping Us YoungThe Trufants oldest daughter just turned 15, and as she gets older, Jessica is starting to get nervous. In this episode, they get real about how they're preparing for the day that she will leave the nest. Or, maybe she won't (if Jessica has her way). Later, the Trufant's gave it to the Peloton craze - is it worth it? Does it live up to the hype? Find out in episode 14. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-01-3157 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 13: Men Are From Mars Women Are From VenusRelationships are not always "rainbows and puppies." They are hard work. And, sometimes it can feel like you come from different planets. Probably why here's a lot of hype around the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." People have literally said it saved their marriage. In this episode, the Trufants, are joined by Jessica's best friend Rimah to discuss some key topics from the book. Does it give good relationship advice? Could it save a marriage on the rocks? Or, is it packed full of over-generalistic, chauvinistic, eye-rolling statements? Here's what The Trufants have to say...
2021-01-211h 14Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 12: Hawaii for the Holidays, in a PandemicThe Trufant family swapped the Seattle rain for sunshine in Hawaii for the holidays. Turns out, even paradise is weird in the middle of a pandemic - add 5 kids and 44 people on top of that and they were in for quite the experience. From meeting all the requirements to travel, getting the kids COVID tested and even the hassle of eating at a resort, this was not your typical vacation. Later on, the Trufants share some of their plans for 2021Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-01-081h 04Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 10: Let's Talk About SEXThe Trufants talk about S-E-X. Jessica (a self-proclaimed reformed Catholic) breaks out of her comfort zone and Marcus goes all-in about sex after 12 years of marriage (and 5 kids later.) Jess shares advice about talking to kids about sex. And, the couple answers some really personal questions about their sex life. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-12-1653 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 8: The Trufant's Wedding Story - "Is this real life?!"The Trufants spill the tea about their big wedding day. Talk about drama - Marcus was hammered, Jessica was pregnant (and maybe a little bit of a bridezilla) and their wedding was bat shit crazy in the most off-the-hook way! Jessica reveals her biggest wedding planning regrets. The DREAM Trufant wedding might have turned into pure comedy gold but, in the end, "it's all love and light," says Marcus.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-12-0350 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 5: What it's like to be an NFL Wife. When Marcus "made it". Dealing with fans.The Trufants open up about their normal life as a not-so-normal NFL family. They talk about how they are treated different when people realize that Marcus is an NFL player. Jessica shares about real friends vs fake friends. And, how their kids handle being the children of an NFL player. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-11-0254 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 4: From Dating to Our First Year of MarriageThe Trufants get real about the early years of their relationship. Together, they discuss their circumstance of having a baby early in their relationship, but not getting married until several years later. Marcus talks about when he knew it was the right time to propose. Jessica shares advice for single women who are dealing with “thirsty” guys while looking for the “perfect” man. As with most newlyweds, the first year of marriage was a challenge. In this episode, Marcus and Jessica share unfiltered advice for couples in long term relationships and newlyweds. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-10-2647 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 2: Why We Had 5 Kids and Our Unfiltered Advice For New ParentsIn this episode, the Trufants reveal some harsh truths and share hilarious (and real) advice for new parents. They talk about the early days of their relationship from pregnancy to having a new baby all while juggling Marcus’ new NFL career. Spoiler alert: 5 kids were not in “the plan.” Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-10-1235 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 1: Meet The Trufants - How We Met and Our Love StoryIn episode 1, Marcus and Jessica reveal how they met when Marcus was still a Rookie in the NFL. They also discuss some of the challenges they overcame in the beginning of their relationship. And, they speak about some of the trials that come along with being young parents while sharing uplifting advice for new relationships, new parents and newlyweds. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
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