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Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 165 - Is Your Door Closing?Country songs are known for their - "if only I knew then what I know now" regret songs.In this episode we ask a sobering question - is the door to your marriage closing and share a principle that Vern has practiced and taught for 40 years.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)2025-05-0116 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 164 - What Set Me Up for Porn (with Tim Fletcher)Have you ever wondered what set you up for your struggle with porn? In this interview Vern talks with Tim Fletcher who is an extremely popular Youtube expert on the subject all things trauma and attachement.In addition to Tim Fletchers Youtube Channel you can find some of his helpful information on his website https://www.timfletcher.ca/If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRS...2025-04-2431 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 163 - When Porn Crashes Your Marriage (with Barbara Steffens)When porn use is disclosed (or found out) in a relationships it often comes with a thudding crash. In this episode expert Barbara Steffens talks through the impact this can have on a woman and steps that both men and women can take in their navigating a path forward.What can we learn from a relapse? In this episode one of Vern's coaching clients bravely shares what he learned from a recent relapse in the hopes that it can also be instructive to other listeners. The song at the end can be downloaded in the circle learning platform belo...2025-04-1436 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 162 - Lessons from a Relapse (with Hercule Flambeau)What can we learn from a relapse? In this episode one of Vern's coaching clients bravely shares what he learned from a recent relapse in the hopes that it can also be instructive to other listeners. The song at the end can be downloaded in the circle learning platform below...If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - s...2025-04-0334 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 161 - Wave Go To's Part 2In this episode Vern goes back to the topic of dealing with a wave of temptation and craving. In this episode he argues that we need to strengthen our understanding of connection and also introduces a couple of "Go To's" that he uses when he is in the middle of experience a Wave.The first reading is based on the Bible App (Psalm 119 - the Message)The second reading can be found here:A Liturgy for One Battling a Destructive Desire (read by Doug McKelvey)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQ_o...2025-03-2620 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 160 - Waves of CravingDo you ever feel that craving hits you like a big wave? In this episode Vern provides hope that the next big wave doesn't need to overwhelm you!If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and last initial (like Vern T.) Your email will remain hidden from other users. The following link wil...2025-03-2014 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 159 - The Hidden Costs of Porn UseMost of us are tempted to think that our porn use is free. Sure we may not be "paying" for porn but you are paying in ways you many not even realize it. Today we talk about the "hidden costs" of our porn use.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and las...2025-03-1021 min
Cinema RecallThe Vern's Accurate Oscar Predictions(2025)The Vern gives his picks for who and what will win at the Academy Awards for 2025.For the full complete list head to our sitehttps://www.cinemarecall.net/2025-02-2818 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 158 - Dial it InDid you ever start a day feeling "off". Today's podcast is all about "dialling your day" in to maximize the chance of the day going well.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and last initial (like Vern T.) Your email will remain hidden from other users. The following link will get you...2025-02-2021 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 157 - Ten Rules for LifeThis episode is a bit different. One of the benefits of recovery from constantly battling with porn is that you can now start to think more clearly about how you want your life to go. In this episode Vern shares 10 principles he has landed on to guide his thoughts and actions.A summary of these principles is found on the circle learning platform under Free Resources.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and last ini...2025-02-1030 minCinema RecallThe Vern's Golden Globes Predictions & Reactions (2025)
On today's episode . The Vern talks about who will win in the film categories at this year's Golden Globes Award shows. Is he right, is he wrong. Listen in and marvel at how he picked the correct winner or laugh in his face for choosing the wrong one. Hey it's a lot faster than watching the show for three hours.
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After you listen please head on over to Large Association of Movie Blogs AKA Th...2025-01-0623 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 146 - Before the Day AfterNovember 5th is a big day - its Guy Fawkes Day, Vern's Birthday and yes - the American election. How deal with the big feelings that will follow the election can make us truly vulnerable to relapse. Vern walks through how we navigate these strong emotions.We are starting new finding traction groups this fall to help 5-7 guys at a time connect around walking away from porn and moving towards a better life. We have a a group for young guys, a group for older guys in or near retirement and a few guys waiting to sta...2024-11-0216 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 139 - Signs of a BaaaaD Recovery GroupfrEver been in a bad recovery group? Ever felt nervous about joining a group because of the many ways it could go wrong? In this episode Vern explores how to tell when a group is toxic and when it is healthy.We are starting up new Finding Traction groups in September 2024. Normally groups are $149/month but if you sign up by August 31 - Vern is offering them at the old price of $99/month. The cost includes all 52 videos plus handouts to guide our time together. To get more information about these groups email Vern at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com...2024-08-2714 min
Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts of a Movie Insomniac: Episode 1
Hello Everyone.
The Vern and Ashley or sometimes just Vern will give you thier random thoughts on what they have seen recently or just talk about whatever is on thier minds. These episodes are unscripted and unedited so you never know what will happen.
On today's episode, Ashley and Vern give you their thoughts on Inside Out 2, Joker 2, The Boys season 4, Anyone but You, a drama involving a missing phone, and much much more.
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Please note that after this episode. All of our...2024-06-271h 09
Pastors on PornEp. 88 - Father's Day - How to Be a Good and Safe ManThis last Sunday Vern spoke on Sunday morning on how men can move from being an *ss to being good and safe men - something women, our churches and our communities desperately need more of.If you are looking for a safe person to talk about your Sexual struggles - Vern gets it - as a Pastor for 30 years Vern has battled porn as a pastor and didn't have a safe place to go to or someone to turn to.To connect with Vern you can reach out to him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com2024-06-1844 min
Cinema RecallThe Vern's Audio Drama Sampler Plate.
Hello everyone.
I the Vern have a new episode of sorts for you all. This is a collection of all the audio dramas that I have edited for Cinema Recall and other places for many years in the past. It was a lot of fun finding clips to share and I hope you enjoy it.
This episode contains selections from
Night of the Living Dead
https://www.iheart.com/podcast/256-cinema-recall-53671383/episode/night-of-the-living-deadaudio-drama-99921358/
Clue
https://rabbitholepodcasts.com/2024/02/03/rhp-theater-presents-clue-the-audio-drama/
Four's a Crowd ...2024-06-071h 00
Cinema RecallHoward The Duck (1986) w/ Cayley of Once Over with Cayley
Howard The Duck was met with both critical and audience hatred when it was relased in 1986. But is it as terrible as everyone says it is.
The Vern brings on his friend, Cayley of Once Over with Cayley
https://www.youtube.com/c/OnceOverwithCayley
to talk about this cult classic in great duck tail, woo hoo. That is the only pun I will put in this entire episode
Before that they each have a Rage Corner brought to us from the great gents at Film Rag...2024-04-261h 23Cinema RecallThe Vern reviews films from MSPIFF 2024.(raw and uncut)In this bonus episode. The Vern recaps many of the movies he saw at The Minneapolis/St. Paul International Film Festival.
https://mspfilm.org/mspiff/mspiff-films/?
It's unscripted and unedited. Just yours truly speaking into a microphone for under thirty minutes on some movies he saw.
You can read full reviews of the movies featured on this episode on our website.
https://www.cinemarecall.net
Films being reviewed are
Working Class Goes to Hell
Day Dreaming2024-04-2326 minCinema RecallPearl & Switchblade Sisters( The Vern's guest spots on The Podcast That Wouldn't Die and Making Tarantino)On today's bonus episode of Cinema Recall. The Vern is posting small sections from his guest appearance on two great film podcasts that you should subscribe to.
First he is joined by Erin and Kevin of The Podcast That Wouldn't Die to talk about the classic horror film, Pearl.
You can actually watch us talk about this flick on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DpJIXp7_YFQ
After the break, The Vern meets up with Phillip of Making Tarantino to discuss the classic exploitation...2024-02-231h 45Cinema RecallOscars 2024 Predictions & Rage Corner.
Ashley and The Vern are back together for a new episode of Cinema Recall. First, they go over the main nominees of the 2024 Oscars and predict who will be the winners. After the break, it's an extended version of Rage Corner (brought to you by Film Rage https://www.filmrageyyc.com/). In this section our two hosts react to a show called Who Are These Podcasts whose main premise is just to make fun of other podcasts. That's it, there is nothing more to it than that. You can look them up if you want to find the full episode...2024-02-0939 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 115 - Do You Have a Yearly Focus?As we head into 2024 Vern shares about a tool that has been helpful for him as he starts out a brand new year. It just so happens that this one leads Vern into making changes that are long overdue!To contact Vern you can reach out to him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com.As he mentions regularly - he loves to connect with guys who are looking at making changes in their life around their problematic porn use!You can also check out the website for further recovery resources https://www.bandofbrothers...2024-01-0928 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 108 - Recovery Rules with Mark DenisonVern loves the new book that Mark Denison has written Recovery Rules because it gives simple one page reminders to help any porn struggler re-orient themselves on a daily basis. In this podcast Vern interviews Mark as they dive into some of these rules (at least the ones that Vern especially loves!)If you want to connect with Vern directly - you can contact him at...email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more about him or the finding traction course go to the website:2023-11-1323 minCinema RecallAshley's Haunted Horror Nights and Vern's Top 10 Films of 2023..so far
Hello everyone
Ashley and Vern are back together for a fun filled episode of Cinema Recall. Ashley talks about her time at Universal Studios Haunted Horror Nights and The Vern lists his top films of 2023..so far.
They also introduce a new segment called Rage Corner brought to you by the fine gentlemen over at Film Rage
https://www.filmrageyyc.com/
We also talk briefly about an upcoming sponsor called Magic Mind which is The World's First Productivity Shot. We will give more inf...2023-10-201h 15
Cinema RecallThe Vern & Ashley & Barbie & Josie & The Pussycats
On this fun filled episode, Ashley and Vern first visit with some amazing people, Jeanette Ward, Matthew Simpson, and Richard Kirkham on The LAMBcast to talk about the number one movie in the world, Barbie.
You can listen to full episode by visiting the link below
https://largeassmovieblogs.com/2023/07/lambcast-695-barbie.html
After the break, The Vern is back with guest Daniel Lackey of Muscially Ignorant to talk about the best movie ever made( There is a book that proves it. Click HERE for more details)
Of cours...2023-07-282h 15
LetsArguh!Daddy's Baby, Momma's Maybe Ep. 36Could you be a stay at home dad? Why or why not?On this week's episode we debate if rap music will continue to be the leading genre of music, or will another surpass it? Vern and Bricks make a case for Latin music and Afrobeats, and Kash is hearing none of it. Why don't more men have primary custody of their kids, and why do women who allow their children to live with the dad receive such backlash? Kash says more men should step up in general, and Vern doesnt like the insinuation that they don't. Are most men...2023-07-041h 28
Cinema RecallInterview with Director Deborah Twiss
The Vern is here for a special episode where he gets to interview Deborah Twiss. The writer and director of such features as, A Gun for Jennifer, Sebastien, and the recent erotic drama, Sapiosexual, (Click name to read Vern's review) Listen as Deborah discusses her love of Dogme 95, how intimacy coordinators are more hurtful than helpful when filming sex scenes and even calls Vern by his real name during the show. It was a really great time recording this interview and we hope you enjoy listening to it.
Watch these Movies by Deborah Twiss
...2023-06-1631 min
Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts with Ashley and The Vern.
Due to some techincal issues we don't have a full episode but we still bring you a fun one that you will very much enjoy. Ashley and The Vern talk about some movies and shows they recently watched and spend some time talking about the panels they will be attending during Convergence in July. As a special bonus, Ashley will be singing a special theme song for our Patreon Members
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Cinema RecallHow to Market Your Podcast with The Vern (Theatrical Version)
The Vern is going solo this time to give some tips on how to best market a podcast. In no way should you consider him to be an expert but we hope that he can give you some good tips to help you and your show be more successful.
(An Alternate version is available for Patreon Members
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Cinema RecallVern and Ashley Watch Recent Movies and TV: Vol 1
Ashley and The Vern are back for their monthly recap. They each take time reviewing things they saw alone. Then have a lot of fun talking about two movies they saw, together, Renfield and Polite Society.
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The Parkway Theater
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Cinema RecallAshley and The Vern Visits Some Podcasts. (Theatrical Version)We are back( sort of) to bring you a newish episode. Ashley Jirak and The Vern are back but not together. However, they were great guests on these other amazing podcasts.
(extended version is availaible for Patreon Members )
The Vern was on an episode of Whatever with Jason Soto where he talks about a prank he pulled at McDonalds. Than Ashley takes a turn on the same podcast to talk about fast food jingles, musicals and more. You can find the episodes and so much more by clicking the link below
2023-05-051h 01Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 90 - Recovery False StartsIt is quite common for Vern to hear from a guy who emails him with a frantic - "I need help NOW" regarding their porn struggle. Yet a funny thing happens. Vern replies to the email and hears nothing back - apparently the emergency has passed. In this episode Vern explores a number of ways that people "false start" their recovery from problematic porn use.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com...2023-04-2617 min
Cinema RecallThe Vern Shows Ashley his G.O.A.T.s
It's been a while but Ashley and Vern are back for a full episode of Cinema Recall Podcast.
On today's show they talk about a fun action comedy and an 80's TV theme song written by Chat GPT . DIscuss a bit about the recent Oscars and the controversy on our Facebook Group page. Get into what they have seen recently and than Vern talks about some of the movies he loved watching in theaters and still think these movies are still amazing to this day
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Cinema RecallAshley and The Vern Predict the Oscars (2023)On today's bonus episode. The Vern and Ashley talk about who they think will win the 2023 Academy Awards. They are not experts but they are extremely fun and very attractive hosts. So their opinions matter the most.
Get the Full list of 2023 Oscar predictions below
https://www.cinemarecall.net/2023/01/the-vern-official-list-of-oscar-winners.html
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2023-03-0933 min
LetsArguh!Step Daddy Season Ep. 25On this week's episode we talk about the effect Gen Z is having on the job market. Are companies responsible for taking care of employees? Or Is it up to employees? Why would they rather lose people than pay them. We debate Pleasure vs Happiness. We try to convince Vern to try standup. Then we have a deep convo on parenting styles as fathers, being a stepdad, and mixing parenting styles with a new partner. Is there such a thing as a "child's place" and should kids stay in it? Are you your kid's friend? On #ThisAndThat Vern asks...2023-01-241h 24
Cinema RecallKnock Knock(2015) with Em of Verbal DioramaOn today's show The Vern is joined by Em, the creator and host of Verbal Diorama to discuss a Keanu Reeves movie she has never seen before. When she found out it was directed by Eli Roth she got a wee bit nervous. But Vern advised her that it wasn't going to be like his other movies.
Knock Knock is a tale about Evan(Keanu Reeves). A married, family man who one night while alone, meets two beautiful women Genesis( Lorenza Izzo) and Bel (Ana de Armas). Throughout the night the two girls shamelessly flirt with Evan and...2022-12-201h 32
The Snap On Sight Podcast015-Welcome Home Vern- We 4 UsWelcome Home Vern!!!- The family connects for this therapy session. Introducing some old school guests to debate sports and discuss some social issues and current events. All honest, from a place of love, learning as we grow. Family Business!! https://thesnaponsightpodcast.buzzsprout.com2022-12-101h 29Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 75 - Win Lose vs Win LearnIn the previous episode - Vern (and Jeff) talked about some of the connections between the martial art of Jujitsu and porn recovery. In this podcast Vern continues to pull on what a difference Win/Loss vs Win/Learn has to do with how we deal and learn from our setbacks.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about...2022-11-1421 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 74 - Fight ClubVern's friend and pastor Jeff is somebody who is heavily involved in the martial art of Jujitsu. In this episode Vern talks with Jeff about how some of the insights he learned from this martial art can be applied to porn recoveryIf you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the...2022-11-0328 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 64 - The Thrill Returns - 7 Ways to Welcome JoyLast episode Vern explored the topic of Joy and how it can be so elusive. Today Vern gives practical advice to how to practically invite joy back into your life!If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.care2022-07-1532 min
Cinema RecallTop Gun: Maverick or The Vern & Ashley enter the danger zone.Hello Listeners
On this episode, Ashley and Vern talk about random things including the box office and their thoughts on Top Gun: Maverick plus other long time sequels.
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Cinema RecallLive with Chuck Staton of The Chuck and Brad Podcast Back once again, Ashley and The Vern return with yet another live show. This time their special guest was Chuck Staton of the famous Chuck and Brad Podcast amongst many other great podcasts. The link to all of his great content can be found on his Twitter page.
On today's show, Chuck, Ashley and Vern react to underrated musicians, talk about if it's cool for trailers to reveal spoilers, Ashley's prank on Vern when she first met him and much much more. All while enjoying a shrimp cocktail.
Listen to the show below or watch the...2022-02-2256 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 45 - When the Levee BreaksA dike or levee is what keeps water back from flooding people's land and homes. In this episode Vern shares about the flooding in his home town - and how this flood is a powerful example that any dike (or porn recovery plan) is only as strong as its weakest links.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more...2021-12-0122 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 43 - Pathways into Porn (Why we Hire Porn)Porn serves a certain purpose in our life - that's why we hire it! In this episode Vern looks at why we use (or employ) porn and how we can find a better way to get these needs met.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:2021-11-2426 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 42 - Ticking Toward TroubleIn this episode Vern likens our porn urges to a ticking stopwatch. What do we do when the stopwatch starts ticking? Better yet, is there a way to reset our ticking clock without relapsing!If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.care2021-11-1921 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 41 - Beyond Cop AccountabilityThee is a lot of talk in recovery circles about having an "accountability buddy" In this episode Vern talks about the lousy form of this (cop accountability) and proposes a better type of accountability relationship that is a lot more effective over time.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go...2021-11-0825 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 39 - Tool time for Relationships Pt. 1For those who have had porn mess up their marriage relationship, how can we begin to restore trust. In this episode Vern gives some ideas on how this can begin to happen and some tools to help us toward this goal.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the...2021-10-2623 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 38 - Letting GoWhy is it so hard to let go of porn even though we know it only harms us? That vexing question is the one many of us have asked and one Vern explore today.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers...2021-10-2020 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 37 - Precommitments vs. WillpowerIn this episode Vern explores a simple but effective tool called "pre-commitments" that will keep you from having to exercise willpower over and over again - a willpower that eventually cracks.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.care2021-09-1321 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 36 - The 2021 NFL SeasonThis episode has nothing to do with recovery - but about the shared NFL passion between Vern and a couple of other recovery coach friends. None of them know what they are talking about but they are passionate about it nontheless!If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the...2021-08-221h 13
Cinema RecallThe Wolf of Wall Street (2013) w/ Josh of Your Next Favorite Movie PodcastIt's time for a brand new season here at Cinema Recall and one that I hope will stick around for a long long time.
On each episode I, The Vern will bring on a guest to talk about a movie and a moment from that feature that really stands out or is just something they really love. After the break, we will perform a scene from that film complete with sound effects and possible music.
On our 1st episode, Josh G from Your Next Favorite Movie Pod joins to talk about The Wolf of Wall S...2021-08-0529 min
Two Hot MessesThe not-so-perfect life of Eunice and Wei VernEvery teenager has their own interests and problems that sometimes not everyone understands. Every Sunday, join two teen best friends Eunice and Wei Vern as they navigate through different aspects of a teenager life from high school to movies and shows. Each episode will be filled with a new topic that can help listeners to understand how teens work as human beings. Come and join us on this adventure of navigating a messy teenage life.2021-06-201h 04
Rekindling RelationshipsDifferent PrioritiesHow do couples negotiate having different priorities about chores, work, leisure, children, family etc. How can these differences lead to disagreements and conflict? Why does Vern think that he does all the chores?
Bec and Vern discuss ways to manage our differences through having better conversations.
Check out our website or socials to find out more:
https://rekindlingrelationships.com/
https://www.facebook.com/becandvern
2021-05-2111 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 33 - Long Term Recovery with Matt D.What does long term recovery look like? Matt Dobscheutz join Vern Tompke as they explore this question togethrIf you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.careIf you want to connect with Matt Dobscheutz you can connect with...2021-05-1131 min
Cinema RecallMap of Mulholland Dr.(2001): Episode 0It's a new month which means it's time for a brand new series here at Cinema Recall. For the next few weeks and even longer, we will be discussing and analyzing David Lynch's mystery of a movie, Mulholland Drive. starring Naomi Watts, Justin Theroux, and Laura Elena Harring.
To help solve the riddle of this movie , The Vern is going to be bring on his good friend, Jason Soto of the podcast Whatever with Jason Soto to help decipher this mystery. At times they will need help so on upcoming episodes they will be joined by Ryan Lou...2021-05-1023 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 32 - 9 Types of KidsContinuing on from the last podcast, Vern in this episode explores, Vern explores 9 different types of childhood experiences, and explains how each scenario often leaves that type of child susceptible to certain key emotional triggers that activate their inner child.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:2021-04-2719 min
Cinema RecallBarry Lyndon Part 1: The Misadventures of Redmond BarryMary Mitchell and The Vern return for the first full episode on Barry Lyndon. While they go over the story arch, Mary introduces some great facts about British History and The Vern spouts off some fun facts about the production of this landmark achievement by Stanley Kubrick.
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Whatever with Jason Soto2021-04-1255 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 30 - Are We There Yet?How long will it take me to get over my embedded porn habit. In this episode Vern explores that question and gives some hope (as well as a some realism) in this recovery journey.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers...2021-04-0619 min
Cinema RecallBarry Lyndon Part 0: Introduction EpisodeFor the month of April. Cinema Recall will concentrating all of it's efforts on just one movie. That film is none other than Stanley Kubrick's Barry Lyndon. On each episode. The Vern will be joined by Mary Mitchell of the podcast Whatever with Jason Soto to go over all aspects of this visually stunning feature.
On our 1st episode The Vern and Mary give a quick review of the movie and discuss why they love it
2021-04-0229 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 28 - Andrew Bauman InterviewIf you have been listening to the previous couple podcasts you know how much Vern has been impacted by the writings of Andrew Bauman. In this episode we actually get to interview the man! Andrew is the author of a number of books including - the Pyschology of Porn and the Sexually Healthy Man - they can be purchased on AmazonIf you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you...2021-03-0922 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 27 - Do You have a PSR?PSR stands for Pornographic Style of Relating. Vern Explores this provocative concept based on the writings of Andrew Bauman.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.care2021-02-2225 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 26 - The Sexually Healthy ManWhat does it mean to be sexually healthy vs. being unhealthy? Join Vern as he walks through a concept he learned from Andrew Bauman's book of the same title. To see this talk in a diagram go to the following link....https://andrewjbauman.com/what-is-a-sexually-healthy-man/If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course...2021-02-1515 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 25 - It seemed like a good idea (at the time)Vern recently did a crazy thing on the freeway he now regrets (after paying a big fine) Lots of things we do seem like a good idea at the time but don't stand the test of a sober second thought. If nothing else this podcast will teach you what not to do ...If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more...2021-02-1220 min
Laugh and Learn with VernSuper Bowl LV Prop Bets and Gambling Extraordinaire with Mr. Prop Lock and Drop it - Jordan BallardJordan and Vern take a deep dive through their favorite prop bets for the Super Bowl. What are some of the best values for Super Bowl MVP? How do they see the game going? And what was their respective best past Super Bowl bets? If you are interested in seeing the Super Bowl through a different lens, this is for you. What are your favorite Super Bowl bets or past wins? For all things gambling, follow Jordan on Instagram at @_jballar
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Note: Do not gam...2021-02-041h 05Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 24 - The Kind of ManWhat type of man does not look at porn? Do you know any of them? Do you want to be that kind of man. In this episode Vern explores the idea of growing into this kind of man.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:2021-01-1110 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 22 - Hope is on the WayWe all need hope on the journey. As the year comes to a close - Vern explores in greater detail how we can all hold onto hope.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.care2020-12-0813 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 21 - Life Hack #6 - Hide and SeekHide and Seek is one of the earliest games we learned as a child. It is unfortunately one of the oldest games we have used to remain hidden in our struggles. In this episode Vern looks at our propensity to run and hide.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to...2020-11-2507 min
Cinema RecallCult Cinema Classics: Grease 2 (1982)On this fun packed episode, Marc Armstead of French Toast Sunday podcast joins The Vern to discuss the 1982 musical comedy Grease 2 . Starring Michelle Pfeiffer, Maxwell Caulfield, Adrien Zmed, Christopher McDonald, Pamela Adion, Lorna Luft and more. This sequel to the 1978 original was met with backlash when it was 1st released but after some time has passed it has now been met with some praise. Listen now to find out why Marc and Vern think Grease 2 is superior to the original in many ways.
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Brothers to the EndEPISODE 29 - DMCApocalypse, Borat 2, Vern's Delusional Basketball Hopes, & Guilty Pleasure Movies!Vern & Goldy are back again for episode 29 of BTTE. In this week's episode, they discuss the current climate of copyright infringement, DMCA takedowns, & go into details about behind the scenes of Twitch business. On top of that, Vern gives his incredibly unbiased opinion on the future of the Detroit Pistons & the boys talk a little about the newest Borat movie.
Thanks for listening & catch you guys again in 2 weeks!
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Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/btte/support2020-10-2700 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 18 - Lifehack #5 - The Power of TechnologyThis podcast is based on a summary of a lesson found in Vern's Finding Traction Course. If we are going to be successful in porn recovery we will need to deal with the challenge of technology. In this episode Vern gives some ideas how to do that.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course...2020-10-1303 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 17 - The When-Then trapDo you ever find yourself thinking that "when this happens then I will do this or that" In this episode Vern is joined by David (his Iowan guest) and they explore how this way of thinking doesn't help us in the long run.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to...2020-10-1318 minPastors on PornEp. 34 - Coach Me Up!I (Vern) have been immensely helped by having a recovery coach. In this episode Vern interviews one of his mentors, Michael Leahy, as to the role that coaching can play in your recovery.I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comYou can also see some more resources on my website https://bandofbrothers.care2020-09-2841 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 14 - Help I just got TriggeredIt's hard to live in this world without getting triggered one way or another. The key is to prepare for the next time you are triggered. In this episode Vern talks about how to deal with your next trigger...If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:2020-09-1713 minPastors on PornEp. 33 - Can God Use Me - with Matt ClineCan God still use me despite my ongoing struggles to walk completely free from behaviors like porn? In this episode Vern interviews Matt Cline and they discuss that topic.Matt is the Director of Restored Ministries and can be reached athttps://www.restoredministries.caI (Vern) ove to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.com2020-09-1731 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 13 - Lifehack #4 Getting StartedIt is not uncommon for even motivated guys to have a number of "false starts" when it comes to getting out of the starting blocks. In this episode Vern explores what is necessary to get off to a good start in porn recovery...If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction2020-09-0915 min
Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts of a Movie Insomniac Spider-Man.On today's episode. The Vern is joined once again by guest and podcaster Chris Revill of Let's Chat with Chris Revill(https://letschatpodcast.net/) to discuss everyone's favorite neighborhood Spider-Man. They will discuss the history of the character from Peter Parker to Miles Morales and talk about all the theatrical movies from Sam Rami's fun introduction to the character as well as the groundbreaking animated feature, Spider-Man: Into the Spider Verse.
Be sure to check out Let's Chat's first ever watch party on Into the Spider Verse on August 29th by clicking the link below
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Cinema RecallCult Cinema Classics: Scott Pilgrim Vs The World (2010)The Vern is joined by actress and comedian Rebecca Kaplan (https://www.youtube.com/rebeccakaplancomedy) to discuss the cult comedy Scott Pilgrim Vs The World which celebrates it's 10 year anniversary. They each talk about their favorite moments, some differences between the graphic novel and film and other uses of the L word for this movie. Also stay tuned to the very end of the episode to hear some special shout outs by The Vern
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Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/btte/support2020-08-052h 27Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 10 - 2 Sides of CommitmentMaking a commitment to do anything - especially recovering from porn requires us to look at both sides of commitment - in this episode Vern explores that concept...If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.care2020-06-2919 min
Cinema RecallAll Time Classics: Clue(1985).Today's episode might be a repeat for others and a brand new one for the rest of you. The Vern was joined by Sean Homrig of 1001 Movies Podcast(https://1001moviespodcast.libsyn.com/) to talk about the 80's murder mystery comedy, Clue. We had a lot of fun talking about our favorite moments from this movie and The Vern learned a lot about the many different versions of the board game from guest Sean as well.
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Laugh and Learn with VernLaugh and Learn with Vern Podcast #LLVPODWelcome to the Laugh and Learn with Vern Podcast! This is an introduction to the show. I believe everyone is funny and anyone can learn new skills to have a fulfilling career, hobby, and life. Please subscribe and leave, ideally, five star reviews! This podcast will be coming out every Tuesday and Friday, and will be available on all major distribution channels (Apple, Spotify, Google). Links to the podcast will be coming soon! #careeradvice #careerguidance #entrepreneurship #skillstacking #publicspeaking #standupcomedy #improvcomedy #comedy
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Cinema RecallMeet The Feebles(1989) This ain't The Muppets but it's equally as memorableOn today's show. The Vern is joined by new guest Donnie of Cage's Kiss podcast(https://twitter.com/unrealgoals) to talk about Peter Jackson's 2nd feature. Meet The Feebles. A story that features drug use, violence, suicide and rape, all involving puppets of a variety show. Donnie and Vern get into some of the most outlandish moments of this one of a kind cult feature
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Cinema RecallWes Anderson and moments from Moonrise KingdomOn today's show. It's another repost of an earlier episode. The Vern is joined by Justin Herring of the podcast Casual Cinecast(https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/casual-cinecast-blockbuster-movies-to-criterion-classic/id1301132213) to talk about Wes Anderson's feature Moonrise Kingdom and some of the iconic moments in that movie.
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Cinema RecallSpring Breakers(2013) AKA The Vern edits episode # 269 of LAMBcast.Before our hiatus ends next week with a brand new episode. I thought it would be fun to repost an earlier podcast that I The Vern was a part of. For this show, I'm reposting one from The LAMBcast where great guests and I had an in depth discussion on Harmony Korine's Spring Breakers. Starring James Franco, Selena Gomez, Ashley Benson, Vanessa Hudgens, and Rachel Korine. Joining me for all the fun on this show include
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Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/btte/support2020-02-181h 44Pastors on PornEp. 19 - I Have Made FireHave you ever wondered how the need to feel powerful is linked to our pull towards porn. In this episode Vern explore the linkages between the deisre to be powerful and the lure of porn.I (Vern) love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comYou can also see some more resources on my website https://www...2020-02-1315 minPastors on PornEp. 18 - Tony Ingrassia Pt.2Tony Ingrassia is the podcast host of the Power of Purity podcast. In this episode Vern concludes his discussion with Tony around his recovery journey.I (Vern) love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comYou can also see some more resources on my website https://bandofbrothers.care2020-02-1129 min
Cinema RecallThe Vern's Quick Reviews of Mother!(2017) and Climax(2019)Sometimes things change and schedules have to be rearranged and when that happens. You gotta learn how to deal with it. Well listeners; The Vern made a choice to go ahead and post two very divisive movies on this episode instead of having nothing. for you to hear. So for your ear holes he is bringing his quick reviews of Climax and Mother!(exclamation point). But before he does that, he gives some very nice shout outs to some other great people including.
Steve and Marc of Movie Drone podcast
Chris Revill of Let's Chat with C...2020-01-3120 minBrothers to the EndEPISODE 12 - BEST GAMES OF 2019, A NEW DECADE, & VERN'S BIG MOVEWhat a year! What a decade! And our longest episode yet! In this episode Goldy and Vern talk about the best games of 2019, what they're looking forward to in the new decade, and Vern's big move to the West coast!
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Cinema RecallThe Vern's 2020 Oscar Nomination PredictionsOn today's bonus episode. The Vern picks what he thinks will be the nominees for the upcoming Oscar's ceremony in just a few categories.2019-12-1412 min
Cinema Recall3 Days of Halloween: 3 Bad Horror Movies...According to The VernSince I have been pretty much positive during this whole month. I, The Vern thought it would be fun to release a show that reviewed some horror movies I wasn't a fan of. There are more I could have listed but I needed to clear up some space on my hard drive and this felt right to use. After this episode, I may loose a few followers. Just keep in mind these are just my opinions and they don't have to match with yours. Feature films include are A Quiet Place, The Devil's Candy & Bad Apples.
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Cinema Recall23 Days of Halloween: Pet Sematary (1989 Vs 2019)On this episode, The Vern finds out that dead is better as he looks back at both adaptations of Stephen King's Pet Sematary. Listen as he discusses some key differences and says what works and what doesn't work from each version.
Here is Vern's written review of the 2019 version
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Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts of a Movie Insomniac: Physical MediaAfter a glass of whiskey and root beer. The Vern is going to give you his opinion on the status of physical media and where it's heading. The thoughts in Vern's head are for recreational use only. His opinions are from him and him alone Please consult a physician if you spend more than 20 hours on an episode2019-09-2410 min
Cinema RecallSocial Media in Movies(Assassination Nation & Ingrid Goes West)On this Episode, The Vern is joined by That Moment In's staff writer Mark Jackson to discuss two features that deal with the dangers of social media. Assassination Nation and Ingrid Goes West. Be sure to click on each title to read full reviews from Mark and Vern. Thank you as always for listening.
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**Note*** this Episode originally aired on Podomatic back a few months back. Mark Jackson no longer hosts Cinema Recap.2019-09-121h 08Brothers to the EndEPISODE 2 - The Fall of OpTic Gaming, Twitch vs Ninja, & Vern's Future Wife In this episode, Brennon and Vern discuss the rise & fall of OpTic Gaming, a lil problem between Twitch & Ninja, take a trip down memory lane, cover recent gaming news, and then talk a little about Vern's future Wife...
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PlautCastPlautCast #12Vern haud mest fejeite daut et tiet wia fe PlautCast. Koop & Bua finje en grootet Loch oppem wajch. Wie haude besuch uet Paraguay en fetale juent feschiedenet uete Plautdietsche Welt, en spele een leed fonne Heischratje.Vern hatte fast vergessen dass es PlautCast Zeit war. Koop & Bua finden ein riesiges Loch auf dem Weg. Wir hatten Besuch aus Paraguay bei PlautCast, und wir erzaehlen euch so allerhand aus der plattdeutschen Welt. Wir spielen auch ein Lied von den Heischratje.Vern almost forgot about this weeks PlautCast. Koop & Bua find a huge hole on the...2007-05-0500 min