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The Things We SaySkyGuys: A Skyline Chili SagaThis is our biggest episode yet, by number of guests. About 3 times a year, this group of 7 guys pile into one minivan and travel 40 minutes to the nearest Skyline Chili establishment. The laughs never stop! It's time to let others in on the conversation.Stick around after the frivolity to hear why each of us, as fathers, have decided to raise our young families in the church.Rate the show, this episode, then join the conversation:Email: thethingswesay@mail.comfacebook.com/thethingswesaypodcastX and Instagram: @TTWSpodcast2025-04-071h 42The Things We SayThings We Don't Believe In: Part 3In this episode, the guys finish off their list of things they don't believe in. If you care to disagree with opinions expressed in this episode, let us know! Also, if you happen to have something else that we can add to this scrap heap of ideas ... send them our way!
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Your job: Rate the show. Share the episode. Subscribe to the channel. We deeply appreciate you!2024-11-181h 13The Things We SayDo We Make This Look Easy?Sometimes being on a platform obscures the view of the work and preparation it takes to serve well. This goes beyond the ministry context. We see it played out in sports, business, public speaking, etc. Nearly every time someone does something excellent, they make it look easy... but it's not.
So you have a call from God on your life. What do you do next? Run up on the first stage you find? How do I move forward?
The guys get real about their journey into ministry. We hope this episode serves you, no matter...2024-10-0356 minThe Things We SayAmerica: Season 248The guys discuss the chaos and confusion of American political 'silly season.' Stick around for an illustration involving fireworks and the moon. The political hope, intrigue, and upheaval is passing away quickly - there are eternal things that matter much more. But, it sure is fun to watch!!
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We are not afraid - but we intend to be decisive! Let us know all the stuff we got wrong here:
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We truly enjoyed being on some previous episodes of theirs, if you'd like to check those out:
Return of the Jedi : Sheldon and Nate
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Rate this episode and subscribe so you don't miss the next one!2024-05-071h 43The Things We SayThings the Bible DOESN'T SayChristians have all kinds of phrases that don't come from Scripture. There's even more sayings and proverbs that sound biblical that culture often attributes to the church that aren't backed up by Scripture. This week the guys challenge some of these common phrase by holding them up and examining a few of them, one at time. If you think of a few more, please feel free to drop us a note below:
We reference Episode 86 of the Naked Bible Podcast on the Head Covering of 1 Corinthians 11. Here's the link to that episode.
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Other podcasts referenced in the episode are: The Naked Bible Podcast (Dr. Michael Heiser), Haunted Cosmos, and Blurry Creatures.2024-02-0952 minThe Things We SayThe Gnostic LieThe guys discuss gnosticism after breifly being distracted by lemon seeds, Ben Franklin's cadaver collection, and Big Bird's Challenger disaster.
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2024-01-281h 13The Things We SaySticks & RocksA far-ranging episode including 40th birthdays, New Years celebrations, National Parks, and the differences between men and women.
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2023-12-081h 08The Things We SayChristian Anarchy?Brad and Nelson discuss anarchy and agorism from a Christian perspective. Along the way we also discuss dinosaurs, the atonement, pacifism, and paying taxes. This is a fun thought excercise on what you believe a Christian's role in government should be and how we respond to the role of government in society.
Nelson joins from Silver Screen Biases
Magdeburg Unicorn
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Text of Issue 1
Greg Locke wrongly says that a new temple will bring on the return of Christ. 1:16 of this video clip.
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Oliver Anthony's song here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqSA-SY5Hro
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2023-07-041h 01The Things We SayBigfoot and Easy BucketsThe guys start talk about concerts, then Bigfoot, then ... well, you'll just have to listen to it.
The other podcast we reference: https://www.blurrycreatures.com/
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2023-06-0259 minThe Things We SayBaptism!After a short aside about math trivia and irresponsible budgets, this episode focuses on Christian baptism. Why do we do it? What happens to the person being baptised? Who should be baptised?
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Also, in this episode we announce our guest appearances on Silver Screen Biases. You can check out Sheldon's guest appearance discussing New Hope and both of the guys discussing Return of the Jedi over on their podcast. Just click here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/silver-screen-biases/id1643626169
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2022-10-101h 05The Things We Say15 Seconds or 77 minutesIn this episode the guys dive into a new conspiracy theory and compare recent armed responses to mass gun violence.
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Link to the Naked Bible Podcast episode 86 that is referenced.
Chick Publications website
Chick Tract wikipedia page
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2022-06-041h 02The Things We SayReturning the TitheThis episode opens with a story of a bizarre kidnapping, but the bulk of the episode is focused on explaining the Christian practice of tithing, what it has meant to each of us, and common objections to the practice and implementation of it.
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2021-12-091h 00The Things We SayRandomness InterruptedTopics discussed include: the passing of Norm Macdonald, Covid tests, experiencing Covid, Anabaptists, and all-male Taliban government... among others. This episode gets interrupted in the middle and we pick up recording the following week.
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This episode is more of a therapy session than an instructional guide. In it the guys discuss everyday verbal disagreements. How they get in them, get out of them, and navigate their way through. Maybe we can all learn together!
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Ventrac vs California fires: https://youtu.be/mm1Rij7dvWI
FBI and Nancy's laptop: https://tinyurl.com/jpeknck6
Biden arrested in the Senate chamber: https://youtu.be/mGfte3vyTbU?t=80
Joseph Kony: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Kony
Balloon Boy MSNBC full coverage: https://youtu.be/-IuU1JEXayU
Balloon Boy "for the show" clip: https://youtu.be/wI6UONWCq7A
Balloon Boy 1...2021-03-0459 minThe Things We SayShredding through the BibleWe tried to read/listen through the entire Bible in 30 days. That's a fine New Year's resolution but why would anyone even attempt this? What does it take and do you even get anything out of it?
Here's some links...
The Shred explained in .pdf form https://tinyurl.com/fwc9wh2r
The 30-day Shred YouVersion Plan https://tinyurl.com/ym2bv9tr
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The Things We SayBible Oddities: Floating Axeheads and Left-Handed SwordsmenContinuing our series on strange or little known Bible stories. Submit yours or keep the conversation going at:
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2020-10-2736 min
The Things We SayJohn Wesley, Nolan Ryan, & Indiana JonesNelson joins Nate and Sheldon to discuss Calvinism vs. Arminianism, the Wesleyan Quadrilateral, and how to find unity in the most divisive Christian debates. But before things get too serious, we have to settle whether Indiana Jones or Star Wars is superior, and stray into thorny issues surrounding professional sports.
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Image of the Wesleyan Quadrilateral: https://tinyurl.com/y58vdzhc
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SHOW NOTES AND LINKS:
Mennonite/Catholic dialogue report: https://tinyurl.com/y8gcazr5
Old Man of the Mountain: https://tinyurl.com/grp466n
Complementarianism holds that "God has created men and women equal in their essential dignity and human personhood, but different and complementary in function with male headship in the home and in the Church." https://tinyurl.com/p44s9le
Eph 5:25 https://tinyurl.com/y9vj36ry
The One Life Dream that Makes a Girl Blush https://tinyurl.com/yd396p8w
50 Crucial Questions: An Overview of Ce...2020-07-061h 43The Things We SayWho We Are BecomingThe guys discuss licking cats, who they want to become, Nate forgets OKGO, both try their best to be real, and push back against the idea that music can be reduced to math.
Music videos that we reference:
OKGO Zero Gravity: https://youtu.be/LWGJA9i18Co
OKGO Rube Goldberg: https://youtu.be/qybUFnY7Y8w
Coldplay The Scientist: https://youtu.be/RB-RcX5DS5A
Walk Off the Earth, Red Hands:https://youtu.be/1bt-FHaFVH8
Walk Off the Earth, Red Hands Unedited: https://youtu.be/-OtOnZeQ9IM
Show features Sheldon Stauffer and Nate Ward II
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Twit...2020-06-231h 03The Things We SayDad MomentsThe guys talk about fatherhood, dad jokes, wasabi, and what it's like to grab a gun check your home in the middle of the night. Also, we would love your ideas for our 100th episode!!
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00:41 – Sincerely grateful to be back
01:15 – Nate hurts my feelings
01:27 – Admitting to our recent mistake
02:38 – But...
03:20 – Sheldon is a Twitter glutton
04:00 – Did You Know? - Mandatory Vaccinations – Not a Nate Ward Anecdote
https://tinyurl.com/y4urjymz
07:37 – Mask?
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10:25 – Some other things Sheldon won’t be Doing
12:30 – Sheldon yells at “Elites”
21:00 – Nate knows things about Italy
22:20 – How the guys have kept busy during qua...2020-04-241h 19The Things We SayA Word Salad that Attempts to Avoid the Plague: Nelson Hicks returns as a guestNelson rejoins us to record an episode about anything except coronavirus. We tried to be funny. We tried to admit where we've been wrong. We probably struck out on three pitches - but we went down swinging! Instead, we just talked about Anecdotes and Music and Memory and Market Forces and Toilet Papers and Presidents and Socialism and Sex and Feminism. On to the show notes:
00:41 – Intro
00:55 – “Quiet on the set... Sheldon”
02:34 – Nate explains the show
03:13 – Nelson does not endorse the show
04:13 – Did you know – 13 13:13 13th
https://tinyurl.com/tgjumes
http://aaronmahnke.com/
06:09 – Nelson’s “Good Friend”
06:47 – Did you know – Pennsylvania Dutch
07:04 – W...2020-03-181h 25The Things We SayWhy Be Reasonable When You Can PanicIn this episode we survive the coronavirus pandemic, give you a reason to wear your socks with sandals, explore the Christian response to plagues, and discuss the merits of bidets. We'll be your island of rationality in a sea of diarrhea. On to the show notes!! --->
00:41 – Fresh as daisies and pre-game stretched
01:28 – Pause and think
02:32 – Did You Know #1 – Restaurants with Children
06:07 – Did You Know #2 – Socks and Sandals
07:16 – 90's Fashion
10:00 – Bieber Fever
https://tinyurl.com/vrcbhws
11:44 – What we’re here for!
https://tinyurl.com/wuafnrl
12:28 – SARS–CoV–19
https://tinyurl.com/u4qccax
14:00 – Al-Quaeda
15:40 – Bushisms
16:40 – Cheney
18:07 – Clinton Body Count
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19:22 – COVID-19 in the US
20:20 –...2020-03-101h 02The Things We SaySpheres of InfluenceWhere do you think you have the most impact? Where is your life best invested? Who looks up to you? These are all questions of influence. This episode touches on the challenges of correctly estimating our influence in 2020's social media culture. Let's get to those show notes:
00:42 – Our Titles are Wrong
03:33 – Dingy Dungeony Basement
04:38 – Legal ≠ Moral
05:48 – Did You Know? Unextraordinary Dutch Chops
08:11 – Desk Calendars
09:38 – More than you ever cared to know
10:14 – Straight to Nazi Germany
10:49 – It's a slippery slope...
12:00 – Help, I’m being oppressed!
13:24 – Cost/Benefit analysis of Social Media
17:55 – Wrong Numbers
21:10 – Why we’re here
21:45 – What is “Influence”
23:27 – Spheres of Influence
25:08 – Overestimating Influence
...2020-02-271h 05The Things We SayStar Wars: with 9 yr-old Rylan StaufferSheldon's son Rylan joins the show to wrap up our dive into Star Wars lore. His encyclopedic knowledge and boundless enthusiasm for Lucas' space mythology is contagious! Show notes and time stamps below:
00:51 – Did You Know: All-Star Games
Hot as Curry - https://tinyurl.com/smqtoa3
04:40 – Nate's Hot Take on the NBA
06:09 – Longevity of Pro-Level Football
A few screws loose https://tinyurl.com/u2udtoe
07:32 – Rylan's Dating Profile
08:53 – Star Wars Episode IX: The Last Star Wars Thing
09:08 – The guys review The Mandalorian
10:36 – Sheldon walks through a room while a Star War plays
11:23 – Rylan loved Stars Wars before he ever saw one
14:00 – Ryla...2020-02-191h 11The Things We SayAn Amazing Salad of NothingThis episode covers everything from unrealistic body types, to being a tiny bit famous, to thumb rings, to what it's like when people call you "pastor." Also, Sheldon gives his completely rational reaction to a sportsball game. Enjoy our Amazing Salad of Nothing... show notes below:
00:41 – Intro
01:35 – Good to be back (again)
01:55 – Did you know? 15th Century Wedding Rings
03:00 – Nate and guitars
05:24 – Sheldon in Miami
08:55 – Epstein
09:56 – Shootin' from the hip
10:37 – Superb Owl Half-time Shows
13:03 – 40 yr old women, and how good they look https://tinyurl.com/wkbunh9
16:00 – Nate’s hot take on actors
16:15 – Sheldon reviews “Once Upon a Time in Hollywood”
17:32 – Nate and Sheldon discuss “The Mo...2020-02-121h 09
The Things We SayWomen In MinistryPeople and opinions can change. It's one of the reasons we talk things out. This episode, we discuss new perspectives and the power of learning from each other. Well, after we get side-tracked by ice, flat earth, a Kobe tribute, and some Superbowl LIV fandom.
Show notes below contain spoilers:
00:41 – Intro
01:10 – Did you know #1 – Earth's Ice - https://tinyurl.com/vvb2jgw
03:40 – Flat Earth - https://tinyurl.com/w6btewz
04:00 – Where we’ve been
05:22 – Superbowl LIV
09:20 – Kobe Bryant
13:13 – Grieving
18:24 – What We’re Here For
18:41 – Opinions Change
20:45 – Complementarianism - https://tinyurl.com/ookv2r9
22:50 – Sheldon and Jess’ Opinions Evolve
27:52 – Scriptural References
1 Timothy 2:11-15 - https://tinyurl...2020-01-301h 11
The Things We SayFastingIt's a New Year and a new season for The Things We Say! Can you believe it's season 3 already?! This time we're discussing Christian Fasting or giving up random things to focus on God. Show notes below:
00:41 – Intro
02:05 – Nate’s Week of Hell
03:52 – Did You Know - Francis Bellamy - https://tinyurl.com/q4v3ndl
05:39 – Saluting the Flag - https://tinyurl.com/apnqjaz
08:41 – Good to be back
09:56 – 21 Days of Prayer and Fasting
10:58 – Nate’s Relationship with Twitter
11:45 – Attention, Appetite, Attitude
12:30 – Sheldon’s Relationship with Twitter
13:20 – Nate's Relationship with Social Media
14:08 – 30/40 Hr Famine
17:50 – How People View Fasting
23:20 – Fasting Needs
23:58 – Corporate Fast
25:11 – What it means to us n...2020-01-071h 00The Things We SayDTR, The Shire, and IHOP: with Kayla Ward00:41 – Intro
01:50 – Kayla Sets the Record Straight Pt 1 – The Trash Can Thing
04:52 – Did You Know? Prince
06:25 – Kayla Sets the Record Straight Pt 2 – Our Social Media Could Be Better
07:50 – On Podcast Intros
10:13 – Kayla Ward: Social Media Expert
11:25 – Did You Know? Amazon Affiliate Links
13:30 – Kayla’s First Impression of Sheldon
14:55 – How Sheldon Gets in an Argument
17:13 – As Told by Kayla
19:42 – Kayla and Sheldon are Loud
20:20 – Kayla's First Impression of Nate
23:39 – Kayla’s Bathroom Stories
25:17 – Kayla's Schooling
29:18 – Kayla Ward: Force of Nature
30:54 – Kayla's Leadership Chops
32:00 – What is a Young Adult?
33:40 – Millennials
37:04 – Dating in ‘The Shire’
41:06 – The Phone Call
44:20 – “DTR”
49:23 – Nate Talks to Kayla’s Parents
51:25 – Vines
51:54 – Back to ‘The Shire’
53:10 – Is IHOP a Cult?
63:25 – He...2019-12-101h 22
The Things We SayHappy Thanksgiving!00:41 – Intro
01:12 – Sports Rant #1: Sheldon is a Lifelong Niners Fan and the “Browns” are not “The Browns”
03:00 – Christmas Music and Nate’s beef with Pentatonix
06:00 – Sheldon's evolving feelings on the Christmas season
07:05 – Sheldon is a contrarian
07:30 – Sports Rant #2: Myles Garett
09:49 – Sheldon’s Volume
11:45 – You don’t have to struggle with sin
12:49 – Did you know? “Chip on your shoulder”
15:42 – Sheldon and Nate’s Thanksgiving 2019
19:25 – Family Traditions
21:37 – Sheldon’s Special Thanksgiving Experience... wait no... Sports Rant #3: Colin Kaepernick
28:22 – Sports Rant #4: Cheering for Laundry
30:05 – Sports Rant #5: Sportsmanship
32:58 – Sheldon’s Special Thanksgiving Experience... for real this time
35:25 – Puritan Communalism and Personal Responsibility
37:55 – Fasting and Thanksgiving
43:00 – Harvest Festival
43:35 – Samoset, Squanto, and Sacagawea
47:42 – Oblivious Purita...2019-12-031h 07
The Things We SaySheldon in JapanAfter a week overseas, Sheldon recounts his first trip to Japan! Show notes below:
00:40–Shouting in Sunday School
02:11–Weekly Reflection
03:59–Did You Know? George Harrison attacked in his home.
05:27–Kaepernick
–Kaepernick 90 Second Interview- shorturl.at/gST26
–Kaepernick Superbowl Interview- shorturl.at/afkH3
14:00–Did You Know? Christmas in Japan
17:43–Sheldon in Japan
18:25–Sheldon doesn’t understand Japanese
20:35–Cultural differences Sheldon was warned about
20:43–The Business Card Thing- shorturl.at/vxKV0
22:27–Do not shake hands
23:14–Beautiful things about Japan
23:28–Signage in Japan
23:56–Grass and weed management
24:46–14hr Flight
28:13–First Impressions
30:05–Train Station
31:27–Sheldon's thoughts on rules, orderliness, and obedience
32:08–Eating Noodles in Japan
34:35–The best thing Sheldon ate
35...2019-11-221h 07
The Things We SayPies, Painting Nails, and Bad Habits (Facebook Live Event #3)Our audience takes control of the programming in this fast-paced, random episode. The live-stream is available in two parts on our Facebook page. See timestamps and show notes below:
00:42 – Intro
01:27 – Nate on multi-track recording
01:52 – Did you know? #1 “There will be no impeachment” theory, and explanation
04:35 – Did you know? #2 “No one was called ‘Guy’ before November 5th, 1605” - Verified
07:06 – Facebook Live ‘Rules’ and Sheldon’s ‘Running Question’
08:14 – Sheldon: Life without Twitter
09:30 – Kanye West: Jesus Is King, Sunday Service, and Being Born Again
16:58 – On Show Notes (sorry Kayla)
17:22 – Wardrobe Choices
17:58 – Speeding Tickets
19:10 – Live Video stops and Nate and Sheldon struggle to resolve minor tech issues
21:00 – Uncle Karl’s Foot...2019-11-081h 28
The Things We SayNew BeginningsWe take a look at what it's like to start something new. Seasons change all the time. Starting well is important, but do we pursue something new just because it's new. Is there more value in stability or possibility?
NOTE: We will be recording LIVE on Facebook at 8:30PM Eastern, October 27th!
To join, go to facebook.com/thethingswesaypodcast Sunday evening. We have released a lot of content this year and would love to hear your questions, comments, or even field topics you haven't heard us discuss.2019-10-231h 08
The Things We SayName that Tune: 90s Youth Group JamsA "name that tune" head-to-head battle that goes back 20 years! While we test our memories, we also tell some stories and recount the role these niche Christian bands played in our journey to adulthood.
The playlist we used: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DWZnA0FshBt4S
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facebook.com/thethingswesaypodcast2019-10-091h 13
The Things We SayThere's Treasure EverywhereWe say we believe in a second chance for everyone. What happens when celebrities turn their life around? Is the church ready for revival to start outside the walls of an established denomination? This conversation centers on the good things going on in celebrity culture.2019-09-301h 02
The Things We SayNelson Hicks: Becoming an AmericanNelson rejoins the show to talk about becoming a U.S. citizen. He also helps us put the wraps on the Fear Tournament, which was started and continued on several back episodes. A good place to start the Fear Tournament is here: https://soundcloud.com/user-782248540/fear-tournament-lightning-round
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Books referenced by Nelson:
Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman
Dumbing Us Down by John Taylor Gatto2019-09-251h 17
The Things We SayThings NOT to do in ChurchWhat some of you do in church is downright hilarious! What we have done or said (sometimes by accident), might top that! It's time to recount some of the awkward and funny things we have seen happen in a church service. Enjoy!
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Facebook: facebook.com/thethingswesaypodcast2019-09-171h 04
The Things We SayJessica Stauffer: Overcoming Misunderstanding and DisappointmentJessica (Sheldon's better half) joins us to talk about her journey through some painful circumstances, her emotional & inner healing, and what it means to follow the call of God on her life.
Our article for "Did you know?": https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/2019/02/magnetic-north-update-navigation-maps/
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Facebook: facebook.com/thethingswesaypodcast2019-09-091h 25
The Things We SayDeconstructing Faith, Purity Culture, and Church TaboosMike Myers joins the show to talk about growing up in church culture and our different paths to making faith our own. How do you know what you've always been taught and what is really true? How far would you go to find out? In this episode we cover some controversial topics. The important thing to do is to continue to talk openly and honestly about these things in the church, not take offense and shut down dialogue. If you disagree with us, here's a couple ways to reach us for further comment before you draw your own conclusions about...2019-09-051h 12
The Things We SayQuestions for Christians: Part 2We continue with part 2 of our discussion on objections to the Christian faith. We talk through 5. The offensive claim that Jesus is the only way to God, 6. A loving God would never torture people in Hell, 7. Church history is littered with oppression and violence, and 8. I still have doubts, I can't be a Christian.
Opening YouTube clip: https://youtu.be/1BB6wj6RyKo
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Facebook: facebook.com/thethingswesaypodcast2019-08-191h 04
The Things We SayQuestions for Christians: Part 1We take on the tough questions that Christians face. If we have faith, it will be challenged. This episode tackles four of the top emotional reasons people cite when they challenge belief in God or walk away from the Christian faith. This is intended to start discussion, not give pat answers. We're just saying what we think - or how we might naturally respond. These are some things we say...2019-08-121h 02
The Things We SayThe Boys are Back! (with Buddy and Jacob)Your favorite high schoolers are back! Buddy and Jacob follow up on their last episode by taking a citizenship test, discussing their favorite pastimes, and talking about how male friendships are formed. We also give some of the TTWS origin story!
Link to Indescribable: The Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/indescribable-the-podcast/id1237474618?mt=2
Show email: thethingswesay@mail.com
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Twitter and Insta: @TTWSpodcast2019-08-051h 32
The Things We SayNate's 12 Rules for LifePart 2 of our "12 Rules" episodes, where Nate shares his rules for life. Once again, these are just random things we have found to be true. Use them to make your own list! It's a fun exercise. If you want to continue the conversation, or tell us we're wrong...
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Twitter and Insta: @TTWSpodcast2019-07-301h 09
The Things We SayFear Tournament: Sweet 16We continue with our tournament that puts society's biggest fears head to head, March Madness style. It's just for fun, and serves as an opportunity to show that most of these are greatly exaggerated. Enjoy listening along, unless you take it seriously, then you'll probably be offended and grumpy. Enjoy!
Instagram shows the updated bracket: @TTWSpodcast
Will post it to Twitter as well: @TTWSpodcast
Facebook will have it too: facebook.com/thethingswesaypodcast
Email the show: thethingswesay@mail.com2019-07-1656 min
The Things We SaySheldon's 12 Rules for LifeIf you had to come up with 12 rules for life, what would they be? Sheldon takes the first swing, offering his 12 axioms. These are just the things we have found to be true in our 35 years of life. Nate's will be submitted on a later episode.2019-07-0856 min
The Things We SayMore of God: with Jared FlackThis episode begins with quite a few tangents and random entertainment. Some things will be profound (maybe), some things will be stupid. This is the follow-up to the earlier podcast where Jared joined us. Listen to that episode here: https://soundcloud.com/user-782248540/49-jared-flack
Or just scroll back to sometime in January.
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Instagram has the men vs women rating chart we reference in passing, here: https://www.instagram.com/p/BzX216oArUz/2019-07-021h 56
The Things We SayGood GriefThis is not an easy thing to talk about. We have always tried to be as real as possible with our listeners and this episode is no exception. We talk about the issues in life for which, sometimes, there are no words. What happens when you lose someone you love unexpectedly.
Show email: thethingswesay@mail.com
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Twitter and Insta: TTWSpodcast2019-06-251h 02
The Things We SayDeath, Ghosts, & Resurrection: with Ross from Singularity SaintsRoss Norris from Singularity Saints podcast joins the show to talk about how to get into podcasting, some thoughts on what happens when we die, and where medical advancement may be taking us.
Check out his show here: https://singularitysaints.podbean.com/
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You can find us on iTunes, Soundcloud, Stitcher, and Google Podcasts2019-06-181h 10
The Things We SayWhat Makes Nazarenes Different?Church of the Nazarene. What makes it different from evangelicals? Are they fundamentalist, charismatic, multicultural, or regional? What makes them unique?
Since one of us was born and raised in this denomination and the other found it as an adult, we do our best to share what this gathering means to us.2019-06-111h 13
The Things We SayAll About SchoolRecounting some of our history with homeschool, private school, and public school (K-12). The benefits and challenges of each institution and some funny anecdotes are also included.
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2019-06-051h 10
The Things We SayImmigrationNelson Hicks returns as a guest to discuss an issue that becomes a hot-button every election cycle: Immigration. His experience as a Canadian, married to a Guatemalan, trying to get American citizenship, helps us get a more nuanced perspective. Bunny trails include: a statute of limitations for social media posts, camping, and pooping - so something for everyone!2019-05-301h 12
The Things We SayFT Lightning Round - Part 2The continuation of our Fear Tournament where we list all the things people fear and put them head to head, March Madness style. Listen as we unceremoniously eliminate half of them in this fast-paced episode.
Article referenced in opening segment: https://www.wmur.com/article/missing-children-found-in-michigan/23679022
Species extinction article: https://humanprogress.org/article.php?p=19202019-05-211h 09
The Things We SayFear Tournament: Lightning Round!This episode is a fast-paced attempt to get through the first round of the Fear Tournament. This has been our opening segment for the last couple episodes, but it's taken on a life of its own. If you want to see what we're talking about, check out facebook.com/thethingswesaypodcast or Instagram: @ ttwspodcast
Here's the bee article: https://www.acsh.org/news/2018/04/17/bee-apocalypse-was-never-real-heres-why-128512019-05-131h 08
The Things We SaySerial Killers, National Debt, and Easter WorshippersOpening segment continues the Fear Tournament, pitting National Debt against Serial Killers. Then we discuss tragedies and how they are reported, the Democratic primary, the elections of Senators, and... few other rants.2019-04-291h 07
The Things We SayDemystifying ChurchThis Easter you may be headed to church. Whether it's for the first time, you're returning after a long time away, or you have been going there your entire life - it may be difficult to know what to expect. Church can be weird. Church people can be odd. The traditions sometimes need translation. That's what this episode is about. Consider this a beginners guide to first time attenders. Also, since it's based mostly on our own experience be prepared for some sweeping generalizations.2019-04-151h 09
The Things We SayThe Gun DebateIt's time to talk about guns. You've certainly heard loud voices on both sides but is there a way to resolve this? Is compromise possible? Are there solutions that will work for rural America as well as urban population centers? But before we get there, let's kick off our new opening segment with something less controversial... vaccines.2019-04-091h 10
The Things We SayMurphy, Music, and MinecraftTwo teens (Buddy & Jacob) join us to talk about growing up in the world of social media, how they view their culture, how their peers connect, and some of the challenges they face.2019-03-261h 27
The Things We SayWhen Christians DisagreeThe discussion begins with "Hells Bells" and Christian opposition to rock and roll. Somehow we end up discussing church movements and Christians opposing one another.2019-03-221h 06
The Things We SaySatanic Panic vs D&D [Part 2 of 2]The continuation of our conversation with Nelson Hicks where he shines light on Dungeons and Dragons. We begin with some history of role playing games and discover how D&D players, the game, and it's culture were impacted by the Satanic Panic of the 80s and 90s.2019-03-121h 24
The Things We SaySatanic Panic! [Part 1 of 2]While not explicit, some subject matter is intended for mature audiences. Listener and parental discretion advised. Friend of the show Nelson Hicks joins TTWS as we try to unpack the Satanic panic of the 80s and 90s. We do our best to uncover the history, personalities, and circumstances surrounding this event while also telling how it impacted each of us personally. The following episode will focus on Dungeons & Dragons specifically. PART 1 OF 2.2019-03-041h 19
The Things We SayPeace on Earth"Peace on earth, goodwill to men" These words of the angel have echoed across the years, found their way into songs, prayers, and writings of every kind. What does it mean? This is NOT just another Christmas podcast!2018-12-241h 05
The Things We SayVoting and ElectionsIn this episode we discuss voting and elections. Sheldon fixes the primary system. Nate reveals how he votes on taxes. And, we introduce a new segment.
Contact: thethingswesay@mail.com, @TTWSpodcast on Twitter and Insta, @thethingswesaypodcast on Facebook.2018-09-041h 02
The Things We SayFootball, Rebuttals, and Our TeamsNate is back this week to offer his rebuttal to the previous episode which was done without him. We discuss football, our fandom, our teams and we go off on a few tangents. Enjoy!
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Email: thethingswesay@mail.com2018-08-291h 04
The Things We SayHalf of Us, Half an EpisodeIt's an awkward episode. Nate is out, so Sheldon takes the opportunity to talk behind his back. We're praying the team is back together soon! Tune in for a shorter podcast that's completely rant-based2018-08-2219 min
The Things We SayThis Will Get Us In Trouble [PART I]We finally air some of our political opinions that are not popular... or maybe just don't fit in the box of mainstream American evangelical politics. Either way, feel free to listen along, disagree, think, come up with counter arguments, and express your weird opinion too! It's a 2-part podcast, so more to follow next week.2018-05-2341 min
The Things We SayStar WarsSheldon has never seen Star Wars! Nate is an avid fan, to say the least. Listen in as they discuss the galaxy, film, and why any of it matters.
Show email: thethingswesay@mail.com2017-10-2439 min
The Things We SayIntroductions and DisclaimerStart here! Sheldon and Nate introduce "The Things We Say." They discuss free speech, what the title means, express a desire to be real, and add a disclaimer for future episodes.
Show email: thethingswesay@mail.com2017-10-2422 min