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Divorce University OnlineIt Won’t Always Be This WayIt Won’t Always Be This Way – Episode 288 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We tend to feel like our day-to-day life is static and that whatever we are going through will last forever. However, life is contact change. So, if you’re in a rough season or trial, the good news is that it won’t last forever and if you’re in a good season, the lesson is to cherish it because it won’t last forever either. We are approaching the one-year anniversary of losing Thomas and in this episode, I’ll share some memories of Thomas and his...2024-04-2427 minDivorce University OnlineIt Won’t Always Be This WayIt Won’t Always Be This Way – Episode 288 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We tend to feel like our day-to-day life is static and that whatever we are going through will last forever. However, life is contact change. So, if you’re in a rough season or trial, the good news is that it won’t last forever and if you’re in a good season, the lesson is to cherish it because it won’t last forever either. We are approaching the one-year anniversary of losing Thomas and in this episode, I’ll share some memories of Thomas and his...2024-04-2427 minDivorce University OnlineReducing Conflict With A NarcissistReducing Conflict With A Narcissist – Episode 266 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Reducing conflict is difficult to do with a co-parent but it becomes even more difficult when you are dealing with someone who has a high-conflict personality like a narcissist. In this episode, I’m going to share 5 tips that will help you to reduce conflict and increase peace with your narcissistic co-parent. This wisdom came from some writing Thomas had done and I felt compelled to share his wisdom with you. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please sche...2023-11-1526 minDivorce University OnlineReducing Conflict With A NarcissistReducing Conflict With A Narcissist – Episode 266 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Reducing conflict is difficult to do with a co-parent but it becomes even more difficult when you are dealing with someone who has a high-conflict personality like a narcissist. In this episode, I’m going to share 5 tips that will help you to reduce conflict and increase peace with your narcissistic co-parent. This wisdom came from some writing Thomas had done and I felt compelled to share his wisdom with you. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please sche...2023-11-1526 minDivorce University OnlinePerspective with Thomas’ Ex WifePerspective with Thomas’ Ex Wife – Episode 243 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. This week I’m joined by Special Guest, Emillie, who is Thomas’ Ex Wife. We discussed the history of her divorce and subsequent co-parenting with Thomas and me over the past 17 years. Sometimes, when you’re having conflict with your ex, the skill of being able to shift your perspective and look at things from their side can help you navigate the situation in a more amicable way. I learned a couple things I didn’t know from her perspective in this episode and you’ll learn some useful sk...2023-06-0639 minDivorce University OnlinePerspective with Thomas’ Ex WifePerspective with Thomas’ Ex Wife – Episode 243 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. This week I’m joined by Special Guest, Emillie, who is Thomas’ Ex Wife. We discussed the history of her divorce and subsequent co-parenting with Thomas and me over the past 17 years. Sometimes, when you’re having conflict with your ex, the skill of being able to shift your perspective and look at things from their side can help you navigate the situation in a more amicable way. I learned a couple things I didn’t know from her perspective in this episode and you’ll learn some useful sk...2023-06-0639 minDivorce University OnlineA Love StoryA Love Story – Episode 240 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. This week I’m sharing a bit about mine and Thomas’ personal life. I’ll share a couple of funny stories from our early days and talk about he progression of our life and our business. Even when life seems hard and unfair, there is joy to be found if we can focus on what’s possible for us. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!2023-05-1726 minDivorce University OnlineA Love StoryA Love Story – Episode 240 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. This week I’m sharing a bit about mine and Thomas’ personal life. I’ll share a couple of funny stories from our early days and talk about he progression of our life and our business. Even when life seems hard and unfair, there is joy to be found if we can focus on what’s possible for us. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!2023-05-1726 minDivorce University OnlineThe Tragic EndingThe Tragic Ending – Episode 239 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Life is nothing if not constant change. This episode is our most personal yet. On May 1, 2023 the world lost the most beautiful soul known as Thomas D. Ferreira. Join me (Tammy) for my first solo episode. The pain is raw and real right now but I’m here and we’ll push through together. If you’d like to support our family through this tragic time, our greatest need is financial. So, please share our gofundme link: https://gofund.me/5968e1742023-05-1024 minDivorce University OnlineThe Tragic EndingThe Tragic Ending – Episode 239 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Life is nothing if not constant change. This episode is our most personal yet. On May 1, 2023 the world lost the most beautiful soul known as Thomas D. Ferreira. Join me (Tammy) for my first solo episode. The pain is raw and real right now but I’m here and we’ll push through together. If you’d like to support our family through this tragic time, our greatest need is financial. So, please share our gofundme link: https://gofund.me/5968e1742023-05-1024 minDivorce University OnlineREPLAY: Out of the Mouth of BabesOut of the Mouth of Babes - In this BONUS Episode, we decided to give you a more personal look at divorce from the viewpoint of children, specifically our own. We have invited our four boys to join us in studio this week to share their experiences of our divorces. Tammy’s two sons, Dalton, age 29, Kevin, age 24 and Thomas’ two sons, Isaiah, age 16 and Isaac, age 15 talk about the impact our divorces had on them. The boys were 15, 11, 2, and 1 at the time of our divorces and given their wide range of ages, they saw things very differently. We also...2022-12-221h 15Divorce University OnlineREPLAY: Out of the Mouth of BabesOut of the Mouth of Babes - In this BONUS Episode, we decided to give you a more personal look at divorce from the viewpoint of children, specifically our own. We have invited our four boys to join us in studio this week to share their experiences of our divorces. Tammy’s two sons, Dalton, age 29, Kevin, age 24 and Thomas’ two sons, Isaiah, age 16 and Isaac, age 15 talk about the impact our divorces had on them. The boys were 15, 11, 2, and 1 at the time of our divorces and given their wide range of ages, they saw things very differently. We also...2022-12-221h 15Divorce University OnlineBest Interest of the ChildBest Interest of the Child - Episode 200 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Best interest of the child is one of the most misunderstood concepts in family law. The law varies state to state and Thomas, of course, is only licensed in California. But this concept has many commonalities and in this episode, we’ll help you understand what Best Interest of the Child is and what it isn’t. For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!2022-07-1935 minDivorce University OnlineBest Interest of the ChildBest Interest of the Child - Episode 200 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Best interest of the child is one of the most misunderstood concepts in family law. The law varies state to state and Thomas, of course, is only licensed in California. But this concept has many commonalities and in this episode, we’ll help you understand what Best Interest of the Child is and what it isn’t. For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!2022-07-1935 minDivorce University OnlineWhen Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate?When Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate? – In Episode 94, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk new mates. People often ask about if, when, and how they should introduce new mates to their children. We find that ex-spouses often disagree on this issue and new mates often create a hiccup in co-parenting at a time when things were just starting to calm down. Join Tammy and Thomas as they share their own experience as well as what they’ve seen go right for clients and what they’ve seen go very wrong. For more information please...2020-06-2336 minDivorce University OnlineWhen Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate?When Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate? – In Episode 94, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk new mates. People often ask about if, when, and how they should introduce new mates to their children. We find that ex-spouses often disagree on this issue and new mates often create a hiccup in co-parenting at a time when things were just starting to calm down. Join Tammy and Thomas as they share their own experience as well as what they’ve seen go right for clients and what they’ve seen go very wrong. For more information please...2020-06-2336 minDivorce University Online7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty - In Episode 93, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about uncertainty, which most people find to be an uncomfortable feeling. Uncertainty often accompanies change and as you know, divorce is all about change, and lot’s of it! So, how do you deal with uncertainty when your anxiety, stress, and emotions are out of control. Join Tammy and Thomas as they share practical strategies to help you cut through the uncertainty and get your life back on solid ground. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!2020-06-1644 minDivorce University Online7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty - In Episode 93, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about uncertainty, which most people find to be an uncomfortable feeling. Uncertainty often accompanies change and as you know, divorce is all about change, and lot’s of it! So, how do you deal with uncertainty when your anxiety, stress, and emotions are out of control. Join Tammy and Thomas as they share practical strategies to help you cut through the uncertainty and get your life back on solid ground. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!2020-06-1644 minDivorce University OnlineOut of the Mouth of BabesOut of the Mouth of Babes - In this BONUS Episode, we decided to give you a more personal look at divorce from the viewpoint of children, specifically our own. We have invited our four boys to join us in studio this week to share their experiences of our divorces. Tammy’s two sons, Dalton, age 29, Kevin, age 24 and Thomas’ two sons, Isaiah, age 16 and Isaac, age 15 talk about the impact our divorces had on them. The boys were 15, 11, 2, and 1 at the time of our divorces and given their wide range of ages, they saw things very differently. We also...2020-01-171h 15Divorce University OnlineOut of the Mouth of BabesOut of the Mouth of Babes - In this BONUS Episode, we decided to give you a more personal look at divorce from the viewpoint of children, specifically our own. We have invited our four boys to join us in studio this week to share their experiences of our divorces. Tammy’s two sons, Dalton, age 29, Kevin, age 24 and Thomas’ two sons, Isaiah, age 16 and Isaac, age 15 talk about the impact our divorces had on them. The boys were 15, 11, 2, and 1 at the time of our divorces and given their wide range of ages, they saw things very differently. We also...2020-01-171h 15Divorce University OnlineAre You In the Divorce Box or Riding the Wave?Are You In the Divorce Box or Riding the Wave? In Episode 68 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we bring a different perspective on the ever-changing process of divorce. All Tammy’s fellow type A personalities will relate to this episode and frankly, so will the type B’s thanks to Thomas! Divorce is a fluid period in your life and we all have to learn to ride the wave of change. Join us as we share our best strategies for keeping you out of the box and riding the wave! For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com...2019-12-2439 minDivorce University OnlineAre You In the Divorce Box or Riding the Wave?Are You In the Divorce Box or Riding the Wave? In Episode 68 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we bring a different perspective on the ever-changing process of divorce. All Tammy’s fellow type A personalities will relate to this episode and frankly, so will the type B’s thanks to Thomas! Divorce is a fluid period in your life and we all have to learn to ride the wave of change. Join us as we share our best strategies for keeping you out of the box and riding the wave! For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com...2019-12-2439 minDivorce University OnlineDivorce Court Process Flyover – Understanding the BasicsWelcome to Episode 34 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 34, Divorce Court Process Flyover – Understanding the Basics, we talk about the legal process that everyone goes through during divorce. It’s important to have a basic understanding of the process so that you can make decisions regarding your case. Divorce is a lawsuit that involves pleadings, motions, discovery, and trial. For most people this part alone feels overwhelming. Confused yet? Listen now as we help you find your way through the legal mud. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening! Episode 34 Resources: Writ...2019-04-3048 minDivorce University OnlineDivorce Court Process Flyover – Understanding the BasicsWelcome to Episode 34 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 34, Divorce Court Process Flyover – Understanding the Basics, we talk about the legal process that everyone goes through during divorce. It’s important to have a basic understanding of the process so that you can make decisions regarding your case. Divorce is a lawsuit that involves pleadings, motions, discovery, and trial. For most people this part alone feels overwhelming. Confused yet? Listen now as we help you find your way through the legal mud. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening! Episode 34 Resources: Writ...2019-04-3048 minDivorce University OnlineHow to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody SituationWelcome to Episode 30 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 30, How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation, we talk about what to do if you have a restraining order, are on supervised visitation, or just have less parenting time than you wanted. Thomas always says child custody is a marathon not a sprint and we’re going to help you run that marathon in a way that will help you get more parenting time. We’ll discuss how to build a closer relationship with your child with the time you currently have and how to increase the...2019-04-0250 minDivorce University OnlineHow to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody SituationWelcome to Episode 30 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 30, How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation, we talk about what to do if you have a restraining order, are on supervised visitation, or just have less parenting time than you wanted. Thomas always says child custody is a marathon not a sprint and we’re going to help you run that marathon in a way that will help you get more parenting time. We’ll discuss how to build a closer relationship with your child with the time you currently have and how to increase the...2019-04-0250 minDivorce University OnlineThe Key Is YouWelcome to Episode 1 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this Episode we discuss the number one key to success in any divorce. You may be surprised to learn that the "secret sauce" is not the attorney you choose, the judge you have, or who is your ex’s attorney. Rather, the "secret sauce" is you. You are the key to your own success in this situation. And that's great news because you are in control of your behaviors, your thoughts, and your decisions. Thomas and Tammy will teach you to use this "secret sauce" to your advantage! For mo...2018-09-1842 minDivorce University OnlineThe Key Is YouWelcome to Episode 1 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this Episode we discuss the number one key to success in any divorce. You may be surprised to learn that the "secret sauce" is not the attorney you choose, the judge you have, or who is your ex’s attorney. Rather, the "secret sauce" is you. You are the key to your own success in this situation. And that's great news because you are in control of your behaviors, your thoughts, and your decisions. Thomas and Tammy will teach you to use this "secret sauce" to your advantage! For mo...2018-09-1842 minDivorce University OnlineAbout Your Hosts - Thomas & Tammy FerreiraIn this episode, Thomas and Tammy discuss their own divorce experiences in 2006 and how their experiences created a desire to help others traveling the road of divorce. Learn more at www.divorceuniversityonline.com2018-09-1234 minDivorce University OnlineAbout Your Hosts - Thomas & Tammy FerreiraIn this episode, Thomas and Tammy discuss their own divorce experiences in 2006 and how their experiences created a desire to help others traveling the road of divorce. Learn more at www.divorceuniversityonline.com2018-09-1234 min