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Let There Be LightMission in Motion with Matthew Mugo Fields and Tiffany TaylorIn this episode of Let There Be Light, Partner & Co-president of the ASU+GSV Summit Tiffany Taylor sits down with Matthew Mugo Fields — General Manager at HMH, President of Heinemann, and a 2025 Innovator of Color Award honoree. From attending school as a low-income immigrant student to leading cutting-edge EdTech initiatives, Matthew shares how his own experience has rooted his career in purpose, access, and a deep commitment to transforming education through technology and innovation. Plus, hear his poignant perspective on why elevating innovators of color is so important for the education ecosystem.
2025-07-0316 min
TED HealthHow to have great sex (with Siphumeze Khundayi and Tiffany Mugo) | How To Be A Better HumanSex is a normal part of human life, but it can also get complicated–whether you’re having it or not! The way we approach, think, and engage with our sexuality varies widely our culture, community, identity, and more. But one thing we can all strive for is healthy and safe sex. Siphumeze Khundayi and Tiffany Mugo are two sex educators and the co-founders of HOLAAfrica (HOLAA!) a Pan-Africanist digital platform that focuses on creating spaces that deal with safe sex and pleasure. Today they share insights on the kinds of mental and emotional tools we can turn to in o...
2022-11-2237 min
How to Be a Better HumanHow to have great sex (with Siphumeze Khundayi and Tiffany Mugo)Sex is a normal part of human life, but it can also get complicated–whether you’re having it or not! The way we approach, think, and engage with our sexuality varies widely our culture, community, identity, and more. But one thing we can all strive for is healthy and safe sex. Siphumeze Khundayi and Tiffany Mugo are two sex educators and the co-founders of HOLAAfrica (HOLAA!) a Pan-Africanist digital platform that focuses on creating spaces that deal with safe sex and pleasure. Today they share insights on the kinds of mental and emotional tools we can turn to in o...
2022-10-0336 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 33: The Basic Life Of Anthony - How therapy affects marriage and all things mental healthDoes going to therapy mess with your relationship? Should your partner be your therapist? Is being married easy?
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Anthony on I.G: oluoch
Find Anthony on Twitter: oluoch
Go and listen to The Padded Cell podcast - https://soundcloud.com/padded_cell
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2022-08-0942 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 32: The Basic Life of Tinatswe: S*x positive feminism, unpacking coitus and relationshipsIts another cross over episode where Tina from the Feminist Bar podcast speaks about chatting s*x with their partner, figuring out what their intimacy means to them and how they are unpacking their coitus.
Good times!
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Check out The Feminist Bar on I.G: thefeministbarpodcast
Tina on I.G: thefeministcreative
On twitter: thefeministbar
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2022-07-1251 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 31: The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. partner's pleasure, STI's and monogamy & coming outIn this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around a partner finding out they have an STI whilst in a monogamous relationship, coming out to your parents after coming back from abroad and trying to figure out how to make your partner c*m.
Rules of the game:
1. You can submit your questions anonymously
2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.
Links:
Submit your questions here - forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9
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2022-07-0515 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 30: The Basic Life of Eliana - Sugar daddy energy, the dirty thirties and dating in MozambiqueWhat is sugar daddy energy? What is dating like in Mozambique? Why do people follow a social-sexual script?
In this episode we get to chat with this beautiful being from Moz about dating, friendship and turning 30.
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Check out Eliana’s I.G: elinzualo
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2022-06-2835 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 29: The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. co- parenting, dating for optics & mental healthIn this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around co-parenting after a bad break up, dating men to make your parents happy and tackling depression and isolation.
Rules of the game:
1. You can submit your questions anonymously
2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.
Submit your questions here - https://forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9
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2022-05-2417 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 28: Basic Bonus episode - Astrid & Tiff unpack Tiff's first rope tieThis is a special bonus episode where Astrid run's your host through a pre- tie negotiation as well as a post tie debrief.
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Check out Embodiment CT on I.G: embodiment_ct
Astrid’s gram on I.G: desirelinesbondage
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Links:
- The Embodiment CT website - https://www.desirelinesbondage.com/
- Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage - https://www.autostraddle.com/shibari-101-japanese-rope-bondage-350309/
- Shibari Is a Sex Practice That’s a Lot Like Bondage—but Better - https://www.cosm...
2022-05-1730 minBasically... Life PodcastEp. 27: The Basic Life Of Astrid - Tenderness in teaching rope, head strokes and blood moon dates.How is rope a form of couple communication? Does rope make Astrid h*rny? Why are old white guys always in the mix with everything?
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Check out Embodiment CT on I.G: embodiment_ct
Astrid’s gram on I.G: desirelinesbondage
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Links:
- The Embodiment CT website - https://www.desirelinesbondage.com/
- Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage - https://www.autostraddle.com/shibari-101-japanese-rope-bondage-350309/
- Shibari Is a Sex Practice That’s a Lot Like Bondage—but Better - https...
2022-05-171h 00
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 26: The Basic Life of Kgothatso - Casual dating, being a s*x coach & loving your friends deeplyWhy are friendships so important? How do you navigate casual dating after years of being in serious relationships? What is a sex coach?
In this episode we get to sit with a fave Kgothatso, who is my sweety baby and a whole sex- positive titan to speak about their love, sex and work.
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Check out Kgothatso’s sex coaching on I.G: yourpleasureadvocate
Kgothatso on I.G: lyricnotic
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Links:
- Why we need more platonic intimacy in our lives - Scary Mommy...
2022-05-0340 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 25: The Basic Universe - Hot Spots in exploring in bed, long distance love & bi-curious loversIn this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around sorting out issues when in a long distance relationship, trying out new things in bed without being pushy and dating a person who wants to also explore with men.
Rules of the game:
1. You can submit your questions anonymously.
2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.
Submit your questions here - https://forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9
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2022-04-1918 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 24: The Basic Lives of Mamello & Chido: kink as community, growing in your s*x and being toplessHow does kink bring about community? How do you go from being fucky to fucking right? And is it OK to randomly take off your top in the middle of a recording session?
In this episode I get to sit down with two faves to find out all about their journeys to be the s*x positive bad bads that they are, from navigating intimacy at a young age
Check out the Instagram: I.G basicallylife_pod
Check out Chido's gram on I.G etanapatriot
Check out Mamello's gram on I.G tswana_hippie
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2022-04-1246 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 23: The Basic Lives of Nakhane, Kim, Efemia & Roché - writing, s*x clubs, group lovin' and more.How do you write about s*x and sexuality? What is it like to date a white person? How do you handle group s*x? How should you act in s*x clubs? Are exes sometimes the absolute ghetto? (Yes.)
We sat around and chatted about all things writing, race, books and relationships.
An online conversation between Kim W., Efemia, Nakhane, Roche and your host Tiff around the themes in the book, their experiences with lovin', livin' and sexin' and also being a writer around sex.
TW: Mention of emotional abuse.
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Also check out:
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2022-03-2957 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 22: The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl low libidos, sending nudes & skills in bedIn this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around sending nudes in a new , figuring out where your partner learned that thing they did in bed and having a low s*x drive.
Rules of the game:
You can submit your questions anonymously
Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.
Submit your questions here - https://forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9
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2022-03-1512 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 21: The Basic Life of Mose Isse - Yoni steaming, self love and navigating deep break ups.Is yoni steaming just squatting over hot herbs? How do you heal after an abusive relationship? What is self love coaching and does it involve masturbation?
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Check out Lwazi's gram on I.G itsabameslife
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2022-03-0839 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 20: The Basic Life of Siphu (and Tiff): Meet-cutes and dating for over a dozen yearsDo I have a partner? How did we get together? Have I made her better? (Yes, yes I have) This is Basically...Life: looking at queer sex love and living and I am your host Tiff Mugo bringing you a random garden chat, with my partner of 12 years.
In this episode Tiff sits down with her boo thing and they have a chat.
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Check out Siphu's gram on I.G ithongomusings
Dua Kilifi Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/duakilifi/
Free Touch Manual - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1S2Py-f_ccm1XkdYQcGNnhk-NCNW5...
2022-02-2239 minBasically... Life PodcastEp. 19: The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. self pleasure, the streets & sleeping with a bestieIn this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around touching yourself, hitting on women and coitus with a close friend.
(and we shout out Thando’s Youtube)
Rules of the game:
1. You can submit your questions anonymously
2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.
Links:
Azania Realness YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/ThandoHlophe
Submit your questions here - https://forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9
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2022-02-0815 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 18: The Basic Life of Ophelia - Long distance, bisexuality and dating dudesHow does long distance help your relationship? Why do folx really not understand the B in LGBTIQ? Why is it sometimes so hard to date men?
In this episode I get to sit down with my amazing homie Ophelia and chat about dating, bisexuality and the wildness that is dealing with multiple genders.
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Check out Ophelia's gram on I.G kemigisha
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2022-02-0138 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 17: The Basic Lives of Lwazi and Khanyi - XY is just a State of MindIs XY just a state of mind? What is classified as compulsory heteroexuality and why do we so often fall into its clutches? Do all transbodies somehow fall into the stigma of heteronormative society or does it change when you transition?
This episode has the awesome awesome couple Lwazi (my brilliant producer for season 2) and Khanyi. the bae extraordinaire!
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Check out Lwazi's gram on I.G abuti.homebody
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2022-01-2541 min
Living While FeministS4: E8: Tiff Mugo: On sexual touch, heartbreak, pole dancing, and feminismToday on the podcast I have the absolute pleasure of talking again to Tiffany Kagure Mugo. Tiff was the very first guest on Living While Feminist, talking about her book Quirky Quick Guide to having great sex, cancel culture, and everything in between. Since then Tiff has given us a new collection, with her co compiler Kim Windvogel, called Touch: Sex Sexulaity and Sensuality. It came out this year from Kwela. As a piece in the collection by Zanta Nkumane says “The architecture of pleasure is expansive” and this collection certainly illustrates that well.
Tiff is still the...
2021-10-2534 min
It's A BAME's LifeEpisode 29 "You got to learn to leave the table when is no longer being served" Nina SimoneThis week episode sees new co host Kumba to the table with an old face Tiffany Mugo. We talk poly, sex Liberation and future plans don't forget to follow everyone on the socials by the books and keep choosing you 😉 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/moseissie/message
2021-09-1950 min
Africa Rights TalkS3 E11: #Tech4Rights: Reflections on conversion therapy, current practices, emerging technology, and the protection of LGBTQ+ rights in AfricaIn conversation with Ms Thiruna Naidoo
The Centre for Human Rights, University of Pretoria is pleased to announce the publication of the third paper in the African Human Rights Policy Papers series.
This episode reflects on the newly launched African Human Rights Policy Paper Conversion therapy: Current practices, emerging technology and the protection of LGBTQ+ rights in Africa. This policy paper has been prepared by the Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity and Expression and Sex Characteristics (SOGIESC) Unit at the Centre for Human Rights, Faculty of Law, University of Pretoria. ‘Conversion therapy’ is a broad term that...
2021-09-1417 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 16 The Basic Life of Siya: You need to be gay to know God, dinner party talk and Only FansLast episode of season 1 fam!
In this one we sit down with the incredible mind that is Siya Khumalo and answer 'what happens when you crash a dinner party and start chatting about sex? How do you marry the idea of Jesus dying for your sins and you being free in your sexuality? Have You Read You need to be gay to know God? (seriously, read it).
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Siya' s gram on @siyathewriter
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2021-07-0153 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 15: The Basic Life of Ndumi & Kgothatso: Different size d*ldos, proposals and dating other folxHow do friends help you plan a marriage proposal? Can you be masculine and wear lingerie and send nudes? Can you share your sexual experiences with another person with your partner?
On this episode we sit down with long term loves Thatso and Ndumi to discuss all things relationshipping. These two have grown so much.
(Also the sound quality is wild cause this was at a dinner party. Love us).
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Ndumi and Kgothatso's grams on @ndumi_17 and @Lyricnotic
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2021-06-0145 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 14 The Basic Life of Efemia (Again): Dating, strap ons and sleeping with straight womenWhat’s it like dating a violist? Why aren't I trying to f**k Efemia? Why was Efemia celibate for a year?
Its another great episode with this writer and constant collaborator of mine (whose name I seriously said wrong for years. Still shook).
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Efemia' s gram on @efemiachristiana
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2021-05-2039 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 13 The Basic Life of Kaz: A Special The Spread Podcast Cross Over (and threesomes)How is Kaz navigating her throuple? How do you find community in threesomes? What does a cross over collaboration look like? This is a special episode of Basically Life, a cross collaboration with The Spread Podcast, Africa’s biggest sex positive podcast. @karenkazlucas is greatness.
The Spread Podcast: @TheSpreadPod
Basically Life: @BasicallyLife_Pod
2021-05-1143 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 12: The Basic Life of Thabile (Again): Rope, anxiety and chicken wings in the studioWhy would you not want to be medicated? Can rope help with anxiety? Can you eat wings whilst recording a podcast?
This episode has the awesome Thabile who is dropping wisdom on abuse, social currency, and dealing with chronic mental health issues. Also she brought so many snacks.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Thabile's gram on @shale_thabile
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2021-04-221h 01
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 11 The Basic Life of Ella & Ishtar: First meetings, being alive and coupling fam! (Coupling)Do couple friends rock? Do Pandemics stress us? How do you go from a kiss and run to actually being together? Also do you need a leather hoody to be a smoldering lesbian?
These two will facilitate ANYTHING including couple drama. They are amazing. You never have to leave yourself at the door, whatever you come with... let's do it.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
*Note: Not our best quality*
2021-04-0840 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 10: The Basic Life of Zanta: Queer Women Culture, Nandos Chicken and being a top or bottomWhy do the gays not know queer women culture? What is Nandos full chicken? Does penetration mean power?
This episode has the awesome Zante, a premium gay and writer. And long term homie.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Zanta's gram on @zanta_nk
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2021-03-1835 minBasically... Life PodcastEp. 9 The Basic Life of Efemia: Talking stage, reality dating shows & the bisexual's curse.How do travel and trauma affect the talking stage? Can becoming celibate fix your dating life? you How the HELL have I been saying Efemia’s name wrong for nearly a decade?
Also Efemia went on a reality dating show!
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Check out Efemia' s gram on @efemiachristiana
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2021-03-0444 minBasically... Life PodcastEp. 8 The Basic Life of Thabile: Mental health and having you a f**kin' timeHow does depressive bipolar affect sex? Is kink privileged? Why is mental health scarier to show your friends than lovers?
This episode has the awesome Thabile who is dropping wisdom on abuse, social currency, and dealing with chronic mental health issues. Also she brought so many snacks.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Thabile's gram on @shale_thabile
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2021-02-2349 min
RLVNT!Episode 20-Tiffany MugoLet’s talk about SEX baby! In this episode, join Tiffany Kagure Mugo author of “Quirky Quick Guide to Having Great Sex”. She chats to us about all the things you’ve been dying to know but too afraid to ask; how to have great erection free sex, what’s the deal with lube, the big O - orgasms, consent and so much more.
2021-02-1248 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 7 The Basic Life of Uvania: Periods(again) and political p**syHow do you make your pussy political? Why is dating white men such a damn stress sometimes? Can you sync your periods after not seeing each other for two years? Can you have wine with your demons?
This episode has Uvania, speaking mental health, dating outside ones race and country and being a general super star.
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2021-02-091h 03
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 6 The Basic Life of Nyami: Emotional tissues, work and other thingsWhat is being an emotional tissue? Why does it take a village to raise and child and what happens when part of your village passes? Also, what the damn hell is an alpha femme?
This episode has the awesome Nyami a digital entrepreneur, business owner and consultant and all round cool cat.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Nyami's gram on @nyaminess
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2020-12-1746 min
The spread - A sex positive podcastTHE SPREAD | EP 75 | HOW TO GET CANCELLEDIn this episode we discuss the desire to critique and attack a person or community on social media platforms and how it has grown in prominence today.
Are there any repercussions for this one sided culture? Can we verify the facts? How do we hold people accountable?
Njeri, Samira and Silas sit and discuss all the different aspects of cancel culture so eloquently and I do believe that this should be a continuous conversation.
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2020-12-0455 minThe spread podcastTHE SPREAD | EP 75 | HOW TO GET CANCELLEDIn this episode we discuss the desire to critique and attack a person or community on social media platforms and how it has grown in prominence today.
Are there any repercussions for this one sided culture? Can we verify the facts? How do we hold people accountable?
Njeri, Samira and Silas sit and discuss all the different aspects of cancel culture so eloquently and I do believe that this should be a continuous conversation.
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2020-12-0455 minBasically... Life PodcastEp. 5 The Basic Life of Zanta: The curse of dating men and other thingsWhy are heterosexual folx boring? Should straight men clap them cheeks? Do writers have demons? (duh of course they do)
This episode has the awesome Zante, a premium gay and writer. And long term homie.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Zanta's gram on @zanta_nk
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2020-12-031h 07
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 4 The Basic Life of Anzio: Sex toys, (non)monogamy and other thingsWhat are fun names for sex toys? How do you handle being non monogamous? What is a 'monopoly'? Why is gender representation and sex so tricky?
This episode has the awesome Anzio Jacobs co- founder and facilitator at Scope Facilitation, writer and activist. And a flame in five inch heels.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Anzio's gram on @imjoesir
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2020-11-1932 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 3 The Basic Life of Kim: Free-bleeding and other thingsWhat is free bleeding? How does interactive s*x poetry work? Have you read they called me queer? This is Basically...Life: looking at queer sex, love and living.
This episode has the awesome Kim Windvogel, curator of The Called Me Queer, founder of Femme Projects and all round bad ass.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Kim's gram on @blazingnonbinary
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2020-11-1243 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 2 The Basic Life Of Lwazi: Quitting That Baby Dyke Game and other thingsWhy is relationshipping a scam? What makes you stop being a baby dyke? Should you ever delete a number? This is Basically...Life: looking at queer sex, love and living.
This episode has the awesome Mbali Chosen Flower, a multi faceted artist and creator who runs, the media consultancy, Chosen Flower Collections.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Mbali's gram on @chosen.collections
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2020-11-0530 min
Basically... Life PodcastIntroducing Basically Life: Behind The ScenesHOLAAfrica has a new podcast for ya! It is weird it. It is wild. It is queer. This podcast is all about the ways in which queers are livin', lovin, and f**kin' hosted by Tiff Mugo, curator of HOLAAfrica.
Every episode Tiff sits with some friends and chosen fam to chat about queer things.
Check out the podcast on instagram @basicallylife_pod
2020-10-2700 min
Basically... Life PodcastEp. 1 - The Basic Life of Anthony: Marriage, mental health and other thingsHow easy is it for queer folks to get married in South Africa? Why is mental health super important to talk about in LGBTIQ+ spaces? What happens when your husband forgets to book a honeymoon?
This episode has the awesome Anthony who is a podcast host and human rights consultant, also a jet setting husband.
Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod
Check out Anthony's gram on @oluoch
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2020-10-2426 min
Saturdays with JennyTIFFANY MUGO, AUTHOR, WINE BAR PHILOSOPHER 7 CURATOR DUDU BUSANI-DUBE, FICTION AUTHOR & JOURNALISTHusbands, Wives and Lovers: The Empresses Of Erotica Share Their Secrets - Saturday 12 September - 20h00 - 21h00
The empresses of erotica – Takalani M (Into The Sun), Yvonne Maphosa (Grasping At Straws), Busisekile Khumalo (Lola's Heart) and Tiffany Kagure Mugo (Quirky Quick Guide To Having Great Sex) – share the pulling power in their stories with Dudu Busani-Dube. www.kayafm.co.za · Kaya FM
2020-09-1213 minSaturdays with JennyTIFFANY MUGO, AUTHOR, WINE BAR PHILOSOPHER 7 CURATOR DUDU BUSANI-DUBE, FICTION AUTHOR & JOURNALISTHusbands, Wives and Lovers: The Empresses Of Erotica Share Their Secrets - Saturday 12 September - 20h00 - 21h00
The empresses of erotica – Takalani M (Into The Sun), Yvonne Maphosa (Grasping At Straws), Busisekile Khumalo (Lola's Heart) and Tiffany Kagure Mugo (Quirky Quick Guide To Having Great Sex) – share the pulling power in their stories with Dudu Busani-Dube. www.kayafm.co.za
2020-09-1213 min
Living While FeministSEASON 1, EPISODE 1: Tiffany Kagure Mugo - The Quirky Quick Guide to Cancel Culture and Having Great SexWelcome to the Living While Feminist podcast! How exciting!
Today I speak to Tiffany Kagure Mugo about many things, but mostly about Call Out Culture, Good Sex, and Feminist Kindness.
Tiffany is so many wonderful things it feels difficult to describe her but I’ll do my best. She is the (self-described) ‘intoxicatingly scary’ gatekeeper and co-founder of HOLAAfrica, a Pan African queer womanist digital community dealing with sex and sexuality. She is a TED and TEDX speaker with Siphumeze Khundayi, podcast, host, and Board Member of the FRIDA Fund.
Tiffany is a prolif...
2020-09-1140 min
A Readers' CommunityA Quirky Guide to Mermaid Fillet with Tiffany Kagure Mugo and Mia ArderneWe speak to Tiffany Kagure Mugo about her book, ‘Quirky Quick Guide to Having Great Sex’, and to Mia Arderne about her new novel, ‘Mermaid Fillet’, and get recommendations from Book Lounge staff.
Mia recommends ‘Kinnes’ by Chase Rhys, Thandi recommends ‘The Vanishing Half’ by Brit Bennett, Belinda enjoyed ‘Adults’ by Emma Jane Unsworth, and Megan loved ‘Ride or Die’ by Khurrum Rahman.
Get in touch by emailing booklounge@gmail.com or send us a voice message on Whatsapp to +27 (0) 63 961-6154
Hosted by Vasti Calitz. Produced by Andri Burnett.
2020-08-2736 min
Padded Cell PodcastEpisode 10 - On Sex Positivity And Mental HealthA chat with Tiffany Mugo of HOLA Africa on most matters sex, the link to mental health and making the most of what we have when it comes to sex.
2020-04-2800 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep. 46: Chosen Family - Chatting finding your tribeWhat is chosen family? Why is it such an important and very real thing? Why do the gays need it? Why has Tiff taken so long to watch pose?
The Wild Ones Chat how to navigate having to create your own loves.
Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica
2020-04-2847 min
The Wildness with Tiff & Manda[Repost] The Wildness Ep 30: New Label Who Dis?Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO)
Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia?
The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out.
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter: manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org...
2020-04-241h 21The Wildness with Tiff & Manda[Repost] The Wildness Ep 17 Miss Fifi The Great: What are you naming your juicy bits?What are we naming our collective pu**y? Can you say the word 'vagina' to your parents? What are the myths around vaginas? Is your vagina meat a sexual burrito? And what the hell are meat curtains?
Also what is a lesbianic job?
The Wild Ones sit down and discuss how we are naming our vaginas and how we speaking
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: manda_hodge
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2020-04-171h 05The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep. 45: Do you have the chest for cheating?What actually counts as cheating? Does Manda know how to cheat? Can you cheat if you are poly/in an open relationship? What should you tell yourself after you have been cheated on?
The Wild Ones unpack all the different parts of stepping out on your situation.
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2020-04-1457 minThe Wildness with Tiff & Manda[Repost] The Wildness Ep 13: Check it before you wreck it, do your relationship M&EIs babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!!
The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dynamics of your relationships need to be kept up with. Geddit!
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2020-04-1049 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep. 45: Calling Out Call Out CultureWhat is call out culture? Why is it a scam? Who gets the call out culture clap back and how does call out culture happen?
Do Tiff & Panda even know how to behave? Has it been four years since the wild ones podcasted? Also shout out to the padded cell. Thanks Ciku for telling Tiff about beauty YouTube.
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2020-04-081h 07The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 44: Getting more folks involved (How to have a threesome)How do you get a threesome on and poppin? Should you do a lil research before getting into the vibe? What about a small date inyana? Can it be romantic?
Can Tiff & Manda fix the wildness that was the episode with Botho and Sibu?
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2020-03-2456 minThe Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Widlness Ep. 43: So They Wont Have Sex With You Huh? - On FriendzonesWhat is the Friendzone? Should be getting a** from folks cause you nice to them? Are people just running a long con by being nice? Why is the idea of the friendzone shady af?
The Wild Ones tackle what it means to be getting sad someone ain't trying to sex you.
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2020-03-0943 minThe Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness' Valentines Day Re-Load: How To Deal With A Break UpAll good (and bad) things come to an end. Much as queer want a fairy tale romance and happy ending it can sometimes turn into an all mighty sh*t show and you end up breaking up. So in this episode throw back we are going to chat about breaking up. The Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship.
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2020-02-161h 19The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness' Valentines Day Re-Load: Do Your Relationship M&EValentine’s day is here and what better time to figure out if your relationship is doing proper things. It’s time to ask: Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!!
The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dynamics of your relationships need to be kept up with.
A podcast by two queer Afri...
2020-02-1149 minThe Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 42: Welcome to #20plenty: The Wild Ones step into season 3IT IS SEASON 3 AND THE WILD ONES ARE BACK!
For this episode we break down what this here Wildness thing is and also Leon asks us some Teen Vogue type questions.
What are the wild ones afraid of? What is their fave thing? Which celeb would the Wild Ones want as squad?
Its #20plenty and it’s time to get this year on an poppin’!
Buckle in Wild Ones, it shall be a bumpy ride.
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2020-02-0548 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep.41: What's Popping 2019! Ya BishIts about that time of the year again people!
We're wrapping up season 2 by having a little chat about what popped (and didn't) in this year of our Beyonce 2019!
And we shall see you all in the year of our Lizzo 2020!
WE OUT .... B***CH
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2019-12-241h 06
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 40: Sexy Safe Subbing w/ ChidoIn the second instalment of the BDSM series Tiff and Manda are chatting with the Chido about being a sub.
So what is a sub? What is a dom...actually what is a tech dom? Where do you find one? Does everyone have to be covered in leather? Do we have to be snaaxxing or nah? Did Leon clean the stu? And what does Tiff being a war journalist have to do with all of this?
Join us in a conversation about consent, creation, communication and a dive into sub and dom relationships.
Chido social medias: On Twitter @etanaPatra and...
2019-10-151h 00
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 39: Dark Juices The Erotica anthology: Chatting sex writing with Chido (and Panda)Is there a sexy poem at 14:00 mins in to the podcast? Yes. Did the wild ones have a guest? Was there an erotica anthology released? Also what is a muse and are they naked. This podcast will answer these questions.
Also Chinue Igwe drops us a poem. A sexy erotic poem. Chinue on instagram: @chi.nuanced
Dark Juices can be downloaded here –
Mobile version: https://drive.google.com/open?id=1WOSfoF60UkbizeV5btRdr7ZElgTu3ZWw
Double page spread: https://drive.google.com/open?id=10GAGaMqGmABVQvrraMnzyox1wP9qGTs5
2019-10-011h 03
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 38: Abuse in Queer Relationships: Time to talk about it Pt IIAbuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces.
The Wild Ones return with part II of abuse in queer relationships and spaces. If you have not listened to part I go back and listen to it. We recap some of the previous episode. The podcast breaks down different types of abuse because abuse is not just physical. Also how do you recognise the signs of abuse...
2019-08-2750 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 37: Abuse in Queer Relationships: Time to talk about it Pt ITW: Mention of physical abuse and sexual violence
Abuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces.
The hosts discuss how abuse in queer spaces can take different forms and how to recognise it. Myths in intimate partner violence in queer relationships.
Recognising intimate partner violence, the hosts share stories and not wanting to show our mess to the heteros. The hosts also break down types of...
2019-08-201h 16
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 36: Asexuality 101 : Is it more about a lack of snaxxing and sexing? (Spoiler: yes)What is asexuality? Can you be sex positive and asexual? Why do people want to fix asexual people? How do you know you are asexual? Can you date and be asexual? Panda and Tiff learned ALL the things during this podcast. Some people ain’t f*cksing with the fuxxing and they are not broken. Come learn how.
Links to check out:
What is asexuality - http://www.whatisasexuality.com/intro/
The Asexual Spectrum – Huff Post - https://www.huffpost.com/entry/asexual-spectrum_n_3428710
2019-08-0654 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 35: The one about heteronormativity (and other hot messes)The Wild Ones discuss heteronormativity in this episode and it is well… wild. Tiff is off on a tangent. Panda says she is having someone else’s baby. Someone walks out the stu. Leon says listen with caution. Despite the chaos we actually manage to drop some wisdom on heteronormativity and what it be. (it’s a little longer than the average but love us).
Links to check out:
What Is Heteronormativity – And How Does It Apply to Your Feminism? Here Are 4 Examples- https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/07/what-is-heteronormativity/
Heteronormativity: What It Is and Why It’s a Problem- https://www.entitymag.com/hetero...
2019-07-161h 23
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 34: Faking orgasms: Why are we doing it?(a lil somethin' for the straight honeys)Why is faking orgasms more complex than a few moans and eye rolling for a little while? Why are people faking orgasms? Why did Tiff snitch on herself about faking? Does Manda's vag*na twerk? And Manda has faked COUNTLESS orgasms with men. Where does Leon keep going whilst in we the stu?
Tiff and Panda were trying to turn it up in the studio to New Jack Swing *it's a party*
Links to check:
The Real Reasons women are faking orgasms - EveryDay Feminism https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/women-fake-orgasms/
What A Fake ‘Female Orgasm’ Statistic Says About Gender Bias -
http...
2019-07-0259 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 33: Polyamory 102: The praxis of polyamory a.k.a how to do itAre you high key cheating? Is Tiff trying to engage properly with polyamory? Had Manda grown in her polyamory? Did the Wild Ones answer a series of questions about polyamory and how to do it? Yes. Are those jungle sounds in the backgrounds?
Make sure you listen to polyamory 101 episode (episode 6):
https://soundcloud.com/thewildnesstiffandmanda/the-wildness-ep-6-the-wildness-chats-polyamory
2019-06-181h 16
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 32: Smashing the homies ex: It cool or nah? (The Wild Ones fought)'Do The Homie! Do The Homie!'
Hooking up with squad exes. Are we having the convo of ‘does they do that thing?’ It is a hard to detach? Should you centre yourself? How did they end? How long were they together? Who is deserving of love?
*boxing commentator voice* Comrades, feminists, activists and esteemed Wild Ones...Are you reeeaaaddddyyyy to ruummmmbbbblllleeee!!!
This episode Tiff and Manda almost come to blows over whether or not it’s cool to date your friend’s ex, or your ex’s friend.
It. Got. So. Real
Spoiler alert...we’re still together
2019-06-0448 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 31: Sliding into the DMs - is the internet helping/hurting our snaxing?Is Panda using lube? How are people finding that person to grind up on a Friday night or love forever as a queer person on the continent? What is Tu? Why is data so expensive sometimes? What are the inclusive apps? How can apps be used against you within your own country?
Accessing the internet is also exclusive. In this podcast we break down dating, the continent and the digital space.
Shout out to APC and Xeernah and Coding Rights. The Wild Ones speak about how to find love and sex and how the online space is helping and hurting...
2019-05-301h 04
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 30: New Label Who Dis?Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO)
Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia?
The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out.
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2019-04-161h 21
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 29: Masturbation: Knowing your body, busting the myths and closing the orgasm gapIs masturbation always political or can it be just to get off? What are some of the messed-up myths around masturbation and women? Also do you HAVE to have candles when I rub one out (can masturbation not take all day please?)
Why is Leon drink shaming us? And why has Manda got ANOTHER best friend? We teach you how to say Botho’s name?
The Wild Ones chatted about that self love and doing the snaxing solo.
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2019-04-0246 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 28: Feminist Porn 101 – where have the sex positive spaces gone?Where does everyone get their sexy things? Should Panda pay for rent or pay for feminist p*rn? Is Tiff watching the whole p*rn clip or just the snax?
Also womxn really like p*rn and spend more time on adult sites on average than their male counterparts.
The Wild Ones are discussing sexy times.
Shout out Tlangi! Panda and us love you! And do we need to put a tiny tampon in?
2019-03-1958 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 27: ‘Just SAY my booty is popping’: Is saying 'girl crush' problematic?‘A girl crush is a non-sexual, non-romantic admiration that one woman has for another.’
What is that anyway? Are the straight women outchea thinking people is cute? When you say it are you secretly saying ‘no homo’?
The Wild Ones discuss the phrase girl crush and whether you need #WCW in your life.
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Links to check out:
- It's Time We Reevaluate The Phrase "Girl Crush"-https://www.refi...
2019-03-1239 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 26: Sex Positive 101: Does it mean you are always looking to smash?Is being sex positive mean you are constantly Down To F**k?
Do you have to be constantly be looking to get a finger in your butt randomly? Are period snacks a real thing?
Also how have we never done a sex positivity podcast?
The Wild Ones sit down and chat about how to do this sex positive thing.
Shout out to our white girl Casey who pole dances! Also we met a Sexy Lexy!
Links to check out:
- Oh Joy Sex Toy: What does it mean to be sex positive?- https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/oh-joy-sex-toy-what-does-it-mean-be-sex-positive
- 8...
2019-02-1953 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 25: How To Deal With A Break UpThe Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship.
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2019-02-141h 19
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 24: How to digitally send your bare a** safely(ish)Where have the wild ones been? How do you send your naked body over the interwebs? Why is revenge porn a scam?
And we’re baaaaaaaccccckkkkkkk!!!!
Welcome to Season 2 Wild Ones. Tiff and Manda have been plotting away in the stu coming up with awesome episodes for season número dos. This episode we do a young recap of what the wildness is for baby Wild Ones who will be joining us this season and jumping straight into the art and complexity of sending segzy pics through the innanets. We delve into revenge porn and if that name is legit or...
2019-02-0759 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 23: The LAST episode of Season One. We out...b****!What popped with Tiff & Manda in TwentyGAYteen? Moving, heart breaks, studying, starting podcasts, violence in the community and movement, f**ky politics, good friendship and showing up for people, why folks aint s**t and being on NGO boards.
The Wild Ones count down their top things that happened, chatting the high lows of 2018. Grab your last glasses of wine and join them.
This the last episode of the year and of Season One. But do not worry we shall be back in the new year. Come back to us in Jan 2019!
@QueerWoc have the DOPEST intro song! And we...
2018-12-3042 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 22: Quick step advice for navigating the holidays (Christmas Special)What should you do when the family are stressing you? Do you have to turn up for EVERY family event? Is Netflix and hide a real thing? What should you do when being around loved ones are triggered?
Not everything is your circus and not everyone is your monkey.
The Wild Ones give this extra special Christmas episode to help you navigate the holiday times, because we know these aren’t always easy.
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2018-12-2146 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 21: 16 Days of Unpacking! A queer critique of 16 Days of ActivismWhat IS 16 Days of Activism? Should there be a queer feminist critique of the campaign? Is this s**t working? What are the different types of violence we need to look out for outside of putting your hands on someone?
Also we ask @QueerWoc on a podcast date!
The Wild Ones chatted about 16 Days of Activism and how it needs to thought of in different ways.
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2018-11-2548 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 20: All Bi Myself: Basic BisexualityHow do we define bisexuality? What are the myths of bisexuality? Does sleeping with a woman for 8 years disqualify you as being bisexual? Are you a monosexual? So what if I want sleep with errbody? Did Tiff see Sheena and Shaka in Nepal? How has Amanda been charging her phone whilst Tiffy was aware?
Can you pay your rent off foot fetishes?
The Wild Ones chatted about bisexuality and the myths and misconceptions behind it.
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2018-09-2543 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 19: Get your best baecation life: Tips and tricks for a good f**kaetionHow well should you plan? How many carbs should you eat? How much drama should you pack in your luggage? There are a whole host of wet and wild things to ensure you live your best baecation life!
The Wild Ones chatted after Manda went on a fuck-cation and has returned to give us all the juice and the do’s and don’ts of snaxxxing (also known as sexing) on vacation!
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2018-09-1452 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 18: Chatting reading butt naked w/ Alicia and Sibongile from NGR JHBWhat do you do with your tampon when reading naked? How can naked reading help with loving your body? And why is Facebook such a hater?
Also New hashtag: #Censortivity
The Wild Ones sipped vino with Sibongile and Alicia from Naked Girls Reading Johburg and discussed what it's like to read with no clothes on. Could they do it? Who knows.
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2018-08-211h 04
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 17 Miss Fifi The Great: What are you naming your juicy bits?What are we naming our collective pu**y? Can you say the word 'vagina' to your parents? What are the myths around vaginas? Is your vagina meat a sexual burrito? And what the hell are meat curtains?
Also what is a lesbianic job?
The Wild Ones sit down and discuss how we are naming our vaginas and how we speaking
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2018-08-141h 05
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 16: Bring Forth The SQUIRT!What is squirting and what is the biology behind it? Can you learn to squirt? What does squirting have to do with the rivers in Rwanda? Did Tiff need to squirt or did she need to pee? What countries are searching squirting on the internet?
And why is Amanda but naked on the couch?
We kept catching feelings about Coachella even if it happened ages ago. This episode of The Wild Ones poured some wine and chat about squirting and the logistics.
The Wild Ones also introduce Whats Poppin’ With Chu? Where they break down what good and bad thing is...
2018-07-241h 02
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 15: HOLAA in A Hot Spot: Poly lifestyle , learning new skills in bed and scary sexShould I hide my poly lifestyle from my new squeeze? What do you do if your partner knows new things in bed without learning them with you? What do I do when my girlfriend sexually hurts me?
Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.
Trigger warning: Sexual violence.
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2018-07-1209 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 14: What food should you be putting in (different parts of) your body?Will you eat edible panties if they come in the form of a thong? Our fave feminist farmer (NOT Criminal Minds things doe!) is back on the podcast and this time we’re chatting Food and Sensuality. Fam did you know that such a thing exists beyond edible undies? We chat about whether or not women who do not like to eat can be trusted, the awesome chef skills of our guests, how nourishing food can be both sexual, sensual and spiritual, luxurious water, and should you really be eating yogurt to balance out the PH of your vagina or is...
2018-07-0358 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 13: Check it before you wreck it, do your relationship M&EIs babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!!
The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dynamics of your relationships need to be kept up with. Geddit!
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
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2018-06-2649 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 12: HOLAA in a Hot spot: a crush on a homie, getting spanked and homophobiaHow do you deal with homophobic tendencies whilst being queer? How do you ask to be spanked in bed? How do you deal with having feelings for your friend?
Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.
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2018-06-1920 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 11: The One Where Sibu and Botho are kinda hot (but won't be in a three way)How did the convo go from masturbation to having threesomes? Why wont Botho and Sibu be in a group event? How do you just FALL into a threesome? Why is Tiff trying to watch people have sex?
Also Manda flashes us in the studio.
Conferencing is also a mess. A whole mess.
The Wild Ones sat down with Botho Maruatona and Sibu Malunga.
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
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2018-06-1232 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 10: The Wildness asks Haji Mohamed Dawjee to marry themWhat can white people do to be better? How do you navigate sexuality and being a gay Indian? Does Haji like sex during the day? Why was Manda a sad panda? Also Haji joined a cult. A whole cult.
The Wild Ones sat down with Haji, author of the awesome 'Sorry not Sorry experiences of a brown woman in a white South Africa', a book that explores the often maddening experience of moving through post-apartheid South Africa as a woman of colour. We chatted family, sexuality, writing, mental health, being with a white woman and also… sneakers. Jordans to be ex...
2018-06-051h 11
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 9: ‘To Spank Or Not To Spank’, chatting BDSM with FadzaiThis week the Wild Ones have a sit down with an awesome guest to chat Bondage, Domination, Sadomasochism and Masochism (BDSM). What’s in a name? Does all kink have to be called BDSM? Does it have to hurt? What the hell is a hard no and a soft yes? Also consent my people...C.O.N.S.E.N.T.
Grab your homies and a glass of wine and lets chat kink and BDSM.
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
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2018-06-011h 02
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 8: Sitting down to chat about 'She Called Me Woman' and Nigerian queer women*Warning: this podcast had ALL the technical issues, we shall get our Skype game right.*
Through first-hand accounts, She Called Me Woman challenges us to rethink what it means to be a Nigerian ‘woman’, negotiating relationships, money, sexuality and freedom, identifying outside the gender binary, and the difficulties of achieving hopes and dreams under the constraints of societal expectations and legal terrorism.
“We decided to put together this collection of thirty narratives to correct the invisibility, the confusion, the caricaturising and the writing out of history.”
The book’s editors and creators were inspired by similar books such as Bareed Mista3jil...
2018-05-2238 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 7: HOLAA in a Hot spot: Cheating, an affair gone love sick and crushes on roommatesWhat do you do when cheat on every woman I date with a man even though I hate the sex? Or you have now caught feelings for the married older woman you were having an affair with? And what do you do if you have a crush on your (potentially straight) roomate?
Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesnt show you flames.
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
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2018-05-1513 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 6: Polyamory 101Is Polyamory giving you stress? You're not the only one love. With tricky terms such as triads, truplets, primary partners and main partners, menamors and metamors, who can blame us for having a minor ‘system cannot compute’ moment? Also is it really just highkey cheating? Are there sister wives involved? Is it a tiny competition?
The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda, sat down, threw back some wine and chatted Polyamory 101!
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
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2018-05-0848 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 5: How much sex do you need in a relationship?Is it about how much sex you have or is it how you DO the sex? Also what if you are having no sex? Or too much sex? How do you chat to your partner about the fact that you do not want to see them butt naked? Can tantric sex fix your relationship?
The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda poured a glass and chatted about getting some from your significant other. Amanda was only turned down once for sex in 10 years. Once! That p***y must be flavoured.
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through...
2018-04-2355 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 4: How do you safely eat ass and what is a dental dam? Safe sex between two womenThis one is a little of a throw back, the wildness BEFORE the wildness. This was how it all begun. The one where Tiff proposed and Manda said yes.
Do you have sex with other women? Do you use dental dams? Is there SUCH as thing as safe sex between two women? Should you go down on your partner when they menstruating? How do you eat ass safely? Can a lesbian have Aids? Also you can get gonorrhea of the eyes.
And we call you HOLAArites. Know this.
The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda poured a glass and sat down...
2018-04-1738 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 3 : HOLAA in A Hot Spot: Leaving a relationship, polygamy problems and giving headThe Wild Ones give advice on leaving a relationship, polygamy problems and going down on an ex girlfriend whilst not going down on your current one.
HOLAA in A Hot Spot, Answering your burning questions so life doesn’t show you flames!
The Wild Ones share some wisdom and answer questions that have been submitted via HOLAAfrica. Catch these answers on the Wildness as well as on the HOLAA site and YouTube channel.
Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: kagsmugo
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2018-04-1217 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 2: LEGABIBO court case, the right to d**k and a slice of PAI with Botho MaruatonaThe Wildness pulled Botho Maruatona into the studio to chat about LEGABIBO, the right to d**k and she also gave us a slice of PAI (Pan Africa ILGA) which is being held in Botswana this year! Check out this semi -serious but not really) episode.
Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: kagsmugo
The Wildness is on instagram with IG: the.wildness
Check out HOLAAfrica on:
SoundCloud: @HOLAAfrica
Twitter: HOLAAfrica
Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Instagram: insta_holaa
About the PAI conference: http://panafricailga.org/pai-regional-conference-2018/about-the-conference-2/
LEGABIBO: https://legabibo.wordpress.com/
2018-04-1231 min
The Wildness with Tiff & MandaThe Wildness Ep 1: Q&A with Tiff and Manda: Find out a little something about the Wild OnesWe can’t go on this Wild ride together before we know a little bit about each other right? Tiff and Manda aka The Wild Ones throw a few interesting questions at each other to find get a young feel of the general chi. Pour your self a glass and have seat as we get to know our hosts.
Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: kagsmugo
The Wildness is on instagram with the.wildness
Check out HOLAAfrica on:
SoundCloud: @HOLAAfrica
Twitter: HOLAAfrica
Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Instagram: insta_holaa
2018-04-1240 min