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The Powerful Man ShowLost and Found: A Journey of Self-DiscoveryEpisode #993 Ever feel like you've checked all the boxes—career, family, success—but something still doesn't feel right? You're not alone. And more importantly, you're not broken. In this episode, Tim Matthews is joined by Gregory "Dynamite" and Derek "The Redwood" for a down-to-earth conversation about what it really means to feel lost as a man. They get honest about the times in their lives when they realized they were completely off track—and what it took to admit it, face it, and find their way forward. This isn't about having a brea...
2025-06-1725 minThe Powerful Man ShowEmpowering Change: The Magic of Yes, No, and Personal GrowthEpisode #988 What if the reason you're burned out, disconnected, or stuck isn't because you're doing too much—but because you're saying yes to all the wrong things? Most high-achieving men are secretly overwhelmed. They've built successful businesses, provided for their families, and checked all the boxes… yet deep down, something feels off. In this episode, you'll hear how one man's struggle to say "no" led to decades of hidden pain, poor decisions, and relationships that never quite fit. In this episode, you'll hear a raw and powerful conversation between Tim Matthews, Mark Smith, and...
2025-06-0534 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Journey of Self-Discovery: Unveiling the Power of LoveEpisode #987 What if the key to stronger connection isn't about trying harder—but simply remembering who you are? Fresh off The Rising, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Chris Cameron—aka "The Love Power"—to unpack some of the biggest personal breakthroughs that came from shutting out the noise and tuning in to what really matters. They dive into the messy, beautiful process of self-discovery, and what happens when you finally stop running from your own patterns. You'll hear how something as simple as saying "I love you" can completely shift a rela...
2025-06-0331 minThe Powerful Man ShowNavigating Life's Storms: Becoming the LighthouseEpisode #976 In this episode, Tim and Arthur dive into a powerful metaphor that hits home for a lot of men: are you leading like a lighthouse, or grinding yourself down like a tugboat? A tugboat works hard, constantly pushing and pulling, trying to keep everything afloat—whether it's in business, marriage, or life in general. But a lighthouse? It stands firm. It doesn't chase or convince. It guides. Too many men fall into the tugboat trap—trying to please everyone, dodging conflict, letting things slide to "keep the peace," and losing themselves in the process. The...
2025-05-0827 minThe Powerful Man ShowAuthenticity Unleashed: A Journey through the Alpha Reset ProcessEpisode #969 Why do high-achieving men so often feel stuck, numb, or just... off? They've got the job, the house, the family—and yet inside, it's like something's broken. That's exactly what we unpack in this episode. In this episode, Tim Matthews and Arthur Magulianiti pull back the curtain on the Alpha Reset—a powerful in-person experience that's helped thousands of men stop spinning in their heads and start leading from a place of strength and authenticity. You'll hear what really happens behind closed doors during the Reset, and why men...
2025-04-2231 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Work-life Balance For The Married BusinessmanEpisode #889 Are you struggling to find the perfect balance between work and family life? Many married businessmen face the same challenge. But what if the idea of equal balance is actually a myth? In this episode, Doug and Tim dive into the reality of work-life balance and why striving for equal time between work and home might be leading you down the wrong path. Instead, they explore the concept of creating rhythms and seasons that shift based on your personal and professional needs. You'll hear personal stories and learn how to set clear expectations with...
2024-10-1724 minThe Powerful Man ShowSMV 2.0: Advanced Strategies to Maximize Your Sexual Market ValueEpisode #865 Ever wondered how to elevate your Sexual Market Value (SMV) and become the best version of yourself, whether you're single or in a committed relationship? In this episode, we dive deep into advanced strategies that go beyond the basics. Doug Holt and Tim Matthews discuss how to avoid falling into the routine traps that can lower your SMV and how to leverage your appearance, confidence, and social status to become magnetic. You'll learn actionable steps to refine your grooming, enhance your physical fitness, and build a strong social network. Plus, discover how...
2024-08-2243 minThe Powerful Man ShowDual Perspectives: Feminine and Masculine Feedback DecodedEpisode #864 In this episode, we dive deep into the dynamics of male and female communication, particularly how feedback is received and delivered differently between genders. Ever found yourself puzzled by your partner's reaction, feeling like it's way out of proportion to the situation? You're not alone. Join Tim Matthews, Mark Hainsworth, and Mo Parks as they explore the nuances of how men and women interact when emotions are high and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. We discuss why women might deliver feedback with a bite and how men can respond in a way that...
2024-08-2016 minThe Powerful Man ShowBecoming Your Own Best Friend: The Path to Self-Compassion and Personal Growth PT. 1Episode #860 Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be your own best friend? In this episode, we explore the transformative power of treating yourself with the same kindness and compassion you offer others. Discover how to shift from being your harshest critic to your biggest supporter. Tim Matthews and Mo Parks delve into the practical steps of self-compassion, from practicing positive self-talk to setting healthy boundaries. Learn how these small changes can lead to improved relationships, greater resilience, and enhanced personal growth. In this episode, you will learn:
2024-08-1023 minThe Powerful Man ShowOvercoming Guilt: Empowering Men to Prioritize Self-Care and Personal FulfillmentEpisode #857 In this episode, we dive deep into the often overlooked but critically important topic of guilt and how it affects men, particularly those striving to balance their roles as husbands, fathers, and business owners. Join Tim Matthews and Stu Gordon as they unravel the complexities of guilt, its impact on mental health, and its potential to derail personal growth and fulfillment. Guilt can be a silent killer, eroding your self-esteem and preventing you from living your best life. Tim and Stu share powerful insights and practical strategies to help you overcome guilt, prioritize self-care...
2024-08-0328 minThe Powerful Man ShowBreaking the Cycle: Understanding and Healing the Root of Repeating PatternsEpisode #855 In this episode, titled "Breaking the Cycle - Understanding and Healing the Root of Repeating Patterns," we explore why so many men find themselves stuck in a loop of relationship challenges and how they can break free. Doug Holt and Tim Matthews will uncover the core reasons behind recurring issues in marriages, particularly for high-achieving men. They'll share personal stories and proven strategies to help you understand the underlying patterns that keep you and your wife disconnected. Learn how to heal from past wounds, re-establish trust, and create a lasting, passionate connection with your...
2024-07-3029 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhy Don't Women Apologize? Understanding the Dynamics of Apologies in RelationshipsEpisode #854 Join us for a deep dive into the complex world of apologies in relationships in this insightful episode of The Powerful Man podcast. Hosts Doug Holt and Tim Matthews explore why women often struggle with saying "I'm sorry," and how this dynamic affects marriages and partnerships. In this episode, we uncover the psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this phenomenon, discussing real-life examples and expert insights. We also offer practical advice for men on how to navigate these challenging situations, fostering better communication and deeper connections with their partners. Whether you're...
2024-07-2725 minThe Powerful Man ShowUnlocking the Power of Attention: The #1 Secret to Deepening Your Connection with Your WifeEpisode #853 Welcome back to another episode of The Powerful Man Show! Today, Tim Matthews and I dive into the ultimate relationship currency: attention. Discover how giving your wife the right kind of attention can make her feel cherished and valued, leading to a deeper and more fulfilling relationship. We'll unpack the facets of attention that go beyond just being present, and reveal how simple shifts in your daily interactions can reignite the passion and connection with your spouse. From active listening to prioritizing your wife even in the presence of your kids, we'll cover practical...
2024-07-2526 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: The Need For Every Man To Have A Mission And PurposeEpisode #842 Are you feeling stuck even after achieving business success? In this episode, we dive into why many successful businessmen reach a point where financial achievements no longer bring satisfaction. You'll learn about the importance of shifting focus from money to mission and purpose, and how contributing to others can lead to deeper fulfillment. In this episode, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews discuss: The transformational Alpha Reset experience. Why mission and purpose matter more than money. How to find your mission and purpose. Real-life examples of men transitioning from business...
2024-06-2919 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: A Woman's Take – Why Neediness Is Such A Turn-offIn this episode, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews dive deep into why neediness is such a turn-off in relationships. Joined by special guests, they explore the root causes of neediness and offer practical steps to regain confidence and self-worth. Learn how to stop seeking validation from others and start filling your own cup. Discover the importance of pursuing your passions, connecting with a supportive group of men, and reclaiming your identity outside of your relationship. Whether you're struggling with feeling unappreciated or just want to strengthen your sense of self, this episode provides valuable insights to help...
2024-06-1827 minThe Powerful Man ShowWoman's POV: Unlocking Desire-What Women Really Find Sexy in MenEpisode #828 In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the female perspective on what truly ignites desire in women. Joined by relationship expert Tim Matthews, they explore the often-overlooked aspects of male attractiveness that go beyond physical appearance. Discover the secrets to rekindling passion, building deeper connections, and understanding the subtle cues that make a man irresistible. Listeners will gain valuable insights into: The psychological triggers of female desire. How to communicate in ways that foster intimacy and trust. Practical steps men can take to become more attractive to their partners. Real-life stories and...
2024-05-2829 minThe Powerful Man ShowMask Off: Defeating Imposter Syndrome and Embracing Your True PotentialEpisode #819 Do you ever feel like a fraud, secretly fearing others will discover you're not as competent or capable as they think? You're not alone. In this episode of the TPM show, I'm joined by Tim Matthews to unravel the complex feelings of impostor syndrome that many of us face. We delve into why this phenomenon is particularly prevalent among successful individuals and how it can manifest in both personal and professional areas of life. In this episode, we explore: The Nature of Impostor Syndrome: Understanding its roots and why even the most successful people can feel like phonies. Personal Ref...
2024-05-0728 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Energy You Bring Will Always Outweigh The Words That You UseEpisode #792 Are you looking to deepen your connection with your partner and create a more harmonious relationship? Do you want to understand how cultivating grounded masculinity and emotional safety can transform your interactions? In a candid conversation on the TPM show, Doug and Tim delve into the vital role of energy and presence in fostering intimacy and trust within relationships. Drawing from real-life examples, they illustrate how simple yet profound gestures can lead to profound shifts in connection and understanding between partners. In this episode, you'll learn about the transformative power...
2024-03-0515 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Be ConsistentEpisode #791 Why do we struggle with maintaining consistency in their daily lives? What internal barriers hinder our progress toward achieving our goals? In this enlightening episode of the TPM show, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews, delve deep into the crucial aspect of consistency, shedding light on common excuses and self-sabotaging behaviors that hold individuals back from reaching their full potential. Reflecting on their own experiences and interactions with high-performing individuals, they provide practical insights and actionable advice for listeners to implement in their own lives, empowering them to break free from...
2024-03-0225 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat Is Grounded Masculinity?Episode #790 Are you curious about what it means to embody grounded masculinity in today's society? Do you want to explore how this concept can positively impact relationships and personal development? In this insightful episode of the TPM show, hosts Tim and Doug delve into the concept of GROUNDED MASCULINITY, discussing its significance and practical implications. Throughout the conversation, they offer compelling insights into the essence of grounded masculinity, emphasizing qualities such as quiet confidence, self-assurance, and leadership by example. They challenge listeners to define masculinity for themselves and explore how embodying...
2024-02-2916 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow Is Not The AnswerEpisode #789 Are you struggling to commit to your goals for the year? Do you find yourself lacking motivation or direction? Join the insightful conversation between two powerful men, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews, as they share invaluable advice on how to overcome obstacles and achieve your true potential. Dive into their practical tips and strategies that will empower you to take control of your life and become the best version of yourself. In this episode, you will learn the importance of setting clear goals and surrounding yourself with a...
2024-02-2734 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Build Trust In Your MarketplaceEpisode #742 Are you struggling to build trust and loyalty in your business? Do you find it challenging to establish genuine connections with your customers? In this episode of the Powerful Man Show, Tim, Doug, and Arthur delve into the key elements that contribute to building trust in the marketplace. They emphasize the importance of authenticity, exceeding expectations, and clearly articulating what you stand for and against. Drawing from personal experiences and anecdotes, they highlight the significance of making meaningful deposits in the relational bank accounts of your customers. They discuss the...
2023-11-0923 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow Self-Care Fuels SuccessEpisode #737 How does self-care contribute to sustained high performance? What are some common misconceptions about self-care, and how do they affect individuals' well-being and success? This episode revolves around the challenge of neglecting self-care while striving for high performance. Tim and Arthur discuss how men often perceive self-care as a secondary priority, leading to a focus solely on work and external responsibilities. This neglect ultimately results in depleted energy levels, a lack of fulfillment, and strained relationships, posing a significant obstacle to achieving sustainable success and a balanced life. In this episode, you'll learn about the critical importance of...
2023-10-2830 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Recover From An InfidelityEpisode #706 Are you struggling with the aftermath of infidelity in your relationship? Can a relationship truly endure and heal after infidelity? In this episode of The Powerful Man Show, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews offer invaluable insights into overcoming these obstacles and forging a path toward a renewed and resilient partnership. Rebuilding trust requires both parties to let go of control and embrace a new beginning in the relationship. In this episode, you'll learn about the challenges of rebuilding trust after infidelity and discover practical strategies to navigate this challenging journey. __________ Hungry for more? He...
2023-08-1724 minThe Powerful Man ShowDoug's Cross-Country Road Trip To Visit The WivesEpisode #704 Ever wondered how a passionless marriage can evolve into a flourishing partnership? Can principles of transformation truly rekindle the flames of love and connection? In this episode of The Powerful Man Show, Tim Matthews welcomes back co-host Dougie Fresh (Doug Holt) as they delve into Doug's recent cross-continental road trip, a unique endeavor inspired by the stories of men whose lives and relationships have been revolutionized by The Powerful Man Movement. Doug shares insights from his interactions with these couples, their families, and the profound impact that embracing the Movement's principles have had on their marriages. From tea...
2023-08-1222 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Be Kind To YourselfEpisode #702 Are you tired of feeling like a success on the outside, yet empty on the inside? Do you ever find yourself caught in a cycle of chasing achievements, only to feel unfulfilled once you attain them? In this episode of The Powerful Man Show, Tim explores a profound shift from being pushed by pain to being pulled by pleasure. Through a compelling real-life story, Tim unveils the hidden struggles of a successful man grappling with a sense of inadequacy despite his accomplishments. In this enlightening discussion, you'll gain insights into...
2023-08-0825 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Ranch Recap!Episode #690 The Powerful Man is dedicated to making a positive IMPACT on men worldwide, transforming their lives for the better. Tim and Doug's investment in The Ranch, a sprawling 106-acre land, aims to establish a sanctuary where men can embark on a journey of healing, personal growth, and self-actualization. Their unwavering commitment lies in creating a secure and nurturing environment, allowing men to thrive and become catalysts for change in the global community. In this captivating episode, Tim and Doug narrate their extraordinary encounter with the remarkable TPM team within the awe-inspiring grounds...
2023-07-1141 minThe Powerful Man ShowDealing With Childhood Trauma: Part 1 (A Woman's POV)Episode #553 Did you have a traumatic experience during childhood that you're avoiding? As men, we were trained to "Be tough." and "Be strong.", which leads us to ignore feeling anything painful or hard from our childhood. This past you're avoiding is the exact thing that is getting in your way of experiencing the joy and the fulfillment you deserve. It's time to stop thinking that you're not worth seeking help and take a step to overcome the pain to connect to the people you love. In this episode, Mo a...
2022-08-2532 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhen Your Work Is Ruining Your MarriageEpisode #548 Do you feel disconnected from your wife? This is common with married business owners, and often is a result of focusing too much on work and not spending enough quality time with your family. In this episode, Tim and Doug explain why working too much can harm your relationship and what you can do to recreate a strong connection with your partner. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful
2022-08-1324 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Be Grounded In Your MasculinityEpisode #546 What is narcissism? What are the traits of a grounded person in the relationship? Being grounded in your masculinity means you have the ability to make better decisions for your family because you feel more secure in yourself without seeking validation from others. It's time to care less about what other people think and start loving yourself more. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about how can you tell if you're grounded enough in your marriage and what you can do to be more confident in who you are.
2022-08-0924 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do If You Find Yourself Fantasizing About The BaristaEpisode #540 Do you feel like you're just a paycheck at home? Do you find yourself fantasizing about the barista or a coworker because she appreciates you? If you are not getting admiration and respect from your family, then choose to take on the challenge of creating intimacy and getting to know your wife over again. In this episode, Tim and Doug are talking about why you're fantasizing about the barista and what to do to face a challenge so you can save your marriage. ————- Hungry for more?
2022-07-2619 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Heal The Relationship With Your FatherHow is your relationship with your father? What will you do to connect with him? If you want to resolve problems with your father, you should make a move because you have the right tools. Learn to take ownership without expecting in return. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about why you should not wait for your father to take action and some ways how to build a healthy relationship with him. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of th...
2022-07-1247 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: What Is Like To be In A Relationship With Me?Episode #527 Do you know what it's like to be in a relationship with you? Think about that for a moment. Unless you have asked your loved ones or they have told you...we don't actually know what it is like to be in a relationship with us. Oftentimes we think we are showing up in one way, but in reality, a completely different energy is present. In this episode, Tim and Doug will talk about what their loved ones have to say to the question of "What is it...
2022-06-2513 minThe Powerful Man ShowAre You Paying An Ignorance Tax?Episode #518 Are you scared of getting out of your comfort zone? Ask yourself... What helps you grow as a man? If you want to change something in your life that you are unhappy with, start taking a leap of faith to step out of your comfort zone and build a strong character that allows you to grow. In this episode, Tim and Jake talk about how to know when you are paying an ignorance tax and what to do to leave your comfort zone so you can step in...
2022-06-0428 minThe Powerful Man Show"I've Done The Work On Me, It's Her Turn"Episode #516 Are you doing your best to be a better husband to your wife? Or are you waiting for your wife to take action? Stop giving your power away and start taking responsibility for your life. It's time to step up... you have more control than you think. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about why you need to stop playing the victim role and how to reexamine your actions as a leader of the family. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus pa...
2022-05-3119 minThe Powerful Man ShowFinding The Right Time With Your WifeEpisode #511 Do you want to connect with your wife, but she's constantly unavailable? What happens when you don't spend quality time with her? Start expressing small but romantic gestures to show your love. Be proactive in managing your time for yourself and your family. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about the reasons you're getting disconnected from your partner and how to figure out a good time to build a strong connection with her. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for sp...
2022-05-1924 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Are You The Partner That You Want?Episode #508 Are you complaining about your partner? Do you wish your partner would be nicer? Do you wish your partner to appreciate you more? Or do you wish your partner could be better at giving you pleasure? Maybe you should ask yourself first. Are you the kind of partner that you want your partner to be? In other words, are you stepping to the line of being that ideal partner? Are you treating your partner the way you want your partner to treat you? When we ask t...
2022-05-1220 minThe Powerful Man ShowDon't Lone Wolf It!Episode #502 Is your marriage rocky yet you've chosen to not seek help from others and depend on your own ways? Are you struggling with your weight yet you don't want to do the work to lose it? As the old saying goes, "NO MAN IS AN ISLAND.", which means no one is truly self-sufficient, everyone must rely on the company and comfort of others in order to thrive. That's why there are people called "EXPERTS" in every field of life, who've been through every possible situation and managed to surpass them. I...
2022-04-2819 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhen To Introduce Competition Into Your RelationshipEpisode #500 Are you lacking intimacy with your partner? Have you been taking the approach of trying to make her jealous? If you want to feel desired, then learn how to clarify what you need. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about when to introduce a competition with your partner and what to do to stand up for yourself so you can bring desire back into the relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and te...
2022-04-2319 minThe Powerful Man ShowAre You Missing Out On The Marginal Gains?Episode #499 Are you frustrated because you're not winning in life? Start making tiny adjustments in life so you can do what you think is best for you. The difference between you shifting your relationship when you're already doing the work is a Marginal Gain. In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss why marginal gains are important and how to transform your life by getting 1% better in your five territories. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the de...
2022-04-2118 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do If You've Been Caught CheatingEpisode #498 Do you want to win your wife back after cheating on her? Is it possible to repair her broken trust? If you want to win her back, then it's time to work on yourself and use the right tools to change your attitude and behavior. In this episode, Tim and Doug share some ways to rebuild trust in a relationship after having an affair and what to do to be an Alpha who is unshakable. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special ac...
2022-04-1919 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do When Your Wife Is Constantly TiredEpisode #494 What do you do if your wife can't keep up with your energy? Maybe she prefers to go to sleep early because she's exhausted. Maybe you feel like you can't reconnect with her, have any intimacy, and are not able to have any sex whatsoever. There are two possible things to consider if your wife is always tired: 1. The Age of Your Wife - There are hormone fluctuations as women age. 2. Lifestyle - Taking care of the children is not an easy task, especially, if you have 2, 3, or 4 kids.
2022-04-0918 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Break Repeating PatternsEpisode #491 Are you seeing progress or growth in your life? Or do you feel stuck in a pattern that keeps on repeating? Oftentimes, when we experience new results that we never had before, life becomes great and wonderful. We feel so perfect and what used to be the ceiling becomes our floor. But when setbacks happen, most of us tend to panic and self-sabotage by going back to our old state because we don't know how to handle those setbacks. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about how...
2022-04-0220 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do When Your Wife's Parents Are In Her EarEpisode #485 Does your wife go to her parents when you have fights or misunderstandings? Are her parents becoming more of the Alpha in your relationship instead of you? Maybe it's a sign that your wife lost her trust and confidence in your leadership and how you handle your relationship. Or maybe you both have disconnected from each other. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about a very common issue that's going on for a lot of men. Learn how you can become the Alpha again in your relationship where your...
2022-03-1917 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow Should You Bring Up The Topic Of Sex To Your WifeEpisode #484 Are you talking about SEX with your wife like you're having a business conversation? Benign and boring. If the answer is YES, then don't expect to have more sex with your partner. Make it fun and light instead. Inject the fun and playful energy into the conversation. You're responsible for creating the relationship that you want. If your needs are not getting met by your wife, then you might have to change what you're doing right now. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about what they think...
2022-03-1716 minThe Powerful Man ShowI Love You But I'm Not In Love With YouEpisode #479 Is your wife still attracted to you? How can you tell if you and your partner are growing apart? If you and your partner are becoming strangers in your own home, then take action. Don't let this continue even further to the point where you can't bring back the fire in your relationship. In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss a very hard topic on what you can do if your wife tells you she's not in love with you anymore. You'll learn that you still have a chance to save the r...
2022-03-0522 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do When You Find Out That Your Wife Is Having An AffairEpisode #478 What will you do if you find out that your wife is cheating on you? Do you still want to be with her despite the betrayal? If your wife is having an affair but has no clue that you already know, then it's time to create a space for her to tell the truth. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about what to do when your wife is cheating on you and how to recognize your worth in the relationship. Keep showing up as a Powerful Man and rebuild a healthy...
2022-03-0323 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do When Your Wife Puts You Down In Front Of The KidsEpisode #477 Is it okay for your partner to criticize you in front of your children? Are you tolerating the way she treats you? If you are tolerating disrespect in the family, then you are teaching them how to treat you. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about why you should never tolerate your partner when she's putting you down in front of your children and what to do to stand for yourself so you can live the life you deserve. __________ Hungry for more? Head...
2022-03-0129 minThe Powerful Man Show1 Way To Break The Pattern Of NarcissismEpisode #473 What are the traits of a narcissist? How can you tell if you and your partner aren't connected? When your wife believes that you are a narcissist, it is because you might be ignoring her needs. Start reconnecting with her so you can solve the problem. In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss some signs of narcissism in the relationship and how to stop it. Step up because you are partners, not roommates with the ring. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to Grant Cardone, Tony Robbins...
2022-02-1934 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Woman's Take On The Balance Between Being Mr. Dependable & Mr. UnpredictableEpisode #471 Are you Mr. Dependable or Mr. Unpredictable? Are you finding ways to bring more fun and excitement to your marriage? Or are you that type who wants the steady phase, just a go with the flow kind of husband? If you think you're being Mr. Dependable, then it's time to start taking action. You get to spice up your relationship. Start adding some excitement to make your marriage more fun. In this episode, Tim and Mo talk about how to know whether you are Mr. Dependable or Mr. Unpredictable. You...
2022-02-1519 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Woman's Take On Wanting To Be The Center Of A Man's WorldEpisode #470 Do women really want to be the center of their man's world? A woman finds it attractive when you're engaged with yourself, enjoying your hobbies, doing what you love doing, and still able to make quality time with her. In this episode, let's listen as Tim asks some key points from a woman on how she views this concept of wanting to be the center of a man's world. You will learn that your partner also wants you to have some time with yourself, doing your passion in life while keeping the f...
2022-02-1219 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Woman's Take On How To Break A Cycle Of Co-DependencyEpisode #469 Are your moods dependent on your wife's mood? If she's happy...you're happy and if she's angry... well, then you're angry as well. Have you ever thought that maybe you're in a co-dependent relationship? What are the signs of a co-dependent relationship? In this episode, Tim, Mo, and Gerod talk about the warning signs of a co-dependent relationship, how to break this pattern and how it can save your relationship. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to Grant Cardone, Tony Robbins, Man Talks, Garret White, A...
2022-02-1022 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: How White Lies Take Their TollEpisode #459 Are you doing things that your wife isn't aware of? Is it because you know in your heart that she won't approve? Maybe you're micro-dosing, hanging out with your friends, drinking, or going out to places that your wife probably wouldn't approve of. We are so used to telling 'white' lies when we're doing things that our wives won't agree with or which might cause conflict with them. It's okay to tell 'white' lies occasionally, but if you're doing it constantly...Houston, we have a problem. ...
2022-01-1822 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe #1 Belief That Holds Most Men BackEpisode #457 Are you holding back from your relationship? Is your work affected when there is a conflict with your partner? It's time to stop doubting yourself because you CAN play big in life. Start giving your all and live with freedom. In this episode, Tim and Doug share some tips on how to let go of what's holding you back and be able to find your passion in life. Don't be scared of challenging yourself...you are more powerful than you think. Many of our listeners also...
2022-01-1319 minThe Powerful Man Show1 Easy Way to Break Patterns of the Past to Make 2022 The Year!Episode #456 Are you complaining about the patterns you made in the past? What are you going to do to make a difference in 2022? Reflect on the previous year and discover ways to accelerate your growth in your five territories. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about the reason why you can't break the patterns of the past and how to make 2022 the best year of your life. Time is short and now is the time for a change. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to Grant Cardone...
2022-01-1123 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Top 3 Ways To Create Emotional Safety For Your WifeEpisode #450 Are you breaking promises you made to yourself? Are you accepting your wife's opinions? Be a man of your words and validate her emotions. Take responsibility for your actions to strengthen your relationship. In this episode, Tim and Doug share some points about why your wife can't trust you and how to create emotional safety for your wife. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to Grant Cardone, Tony Robbins, Man Talks, Garret White, Alex Hermosi, and more. __________ Hungry for more? Head ov...
2021-12-2824 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Stop From Getting Sucked Into Your Wife's MoodsEpisode #447 Are you having arguments with your partner? Are you apologizing to her in a way you handle it? Clean up your mess as fast as possible and be true to yourself. In this episode, Tim and Doug will be sharing some tips on how to handle your wife's moods effectively and how to turn arguments into intimacy in the relationship. Stand for what you believe and understand her when she's having a bad day. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to Grant Cardone, Tony Robbins, Man Talks...
2021-12-2129 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Hold SpaceEpisode #445 Is your wife going through a tough time? What does it look like to be there for your partner? Take a deep breath because you need to stay connected to yourself. Open your heart more and understand whatever she feels. In this episode, Doug and Tim are talking about how to hold space in a relationship and what to do to be a reliable partner that she can lean on. Remind your partner that you are always there for her. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to...
2021-12-1622 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Avoid The Pitfalls Of A Dominant WifeEpisode #443 Is your wife controlling your marriage? What are you going to do to reclaim your masculine frame? Figure out a routine on how to help her surrender to you and execute it consistently. Be more confident in managing her moods. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about how to maintain your masculine frame in your marriage. Guide her - because you are an unshakeable lighthouse. Decide for the family and have fun. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to Grant Cardone, Tony Robbins, Man Talks, Garret...
2021-12-1122 minThe Powerful Man ShowIs The Grass Greener?Episode #439 Are you feeling disconnected from your partner? Do you find yourself thinking about alternatives and asking, "What if...?" If you still want to be with your wife, then do everything you can to make the relationship work. Conquer your fear and make the first moves. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about some reasons why you might be assuming that different situations will bring you greater joy and how to engage more with your wife. Be grateful for what you have and work on yourself. Many of...
2021-12-0220 minThe Powerful Man ShowBreaking The Pattern Of Co-DependencyEpisode #438 Does your wife feel insecure because she has the upper hand in the relationship? Is your worth depending on her happiness? Love yourself first because you can't give what you don't have. Try new things and find your passion. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about some ways to stop your partner from controlling your happiness and how to become an Alpha in the relationship. Live with confidence, do what makes you happy and - enjoy life with people you love. Many of our listeners also enjoy...
2021-11-3026 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Flip The Script On Your Marriage BreakdownEpisode #437 How to deal with your wife's mood swings? Are you pushing her away because you don't need her to complete you? If you've decided to take her back, then be confident about executing your rules and be clear about the consequences of crossing them. In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about managing your relationship breakdown to be able to keep your marriage. Choose to find a way back to each other because you want to be with her for the rest of your life. Many of our...
2021-11-2722 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe One Way To Tell If It's Too Late To Save Your MarriageEpisode #414 Does your relationship feel like it's falling apart? Do you know if your wife still cares for you? Do you still want to be with her for the rest of your life? ...and is it possible to get her back? In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about how to determine if it's too late to get back together in a relationship. Work on yourself more and clarify your decisions with your wife. Make a move now before it's too late - because you'll regret it if you...
2021-10-0520 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat Jim Carey Taught Me About Masks...Episode #412 Do you remember that 90s movie, "The Mask"? Are you pretending to be someone...when you're really not? Are you feeling good when you're getting compliments from people around you? And are you caring less about their reactions because you don't need their approval? In this episode, Tim and Jared talk about why we're disguising our personalities and how to leave our insecurities behind. Put a lot of effort into nurturing your potential. Enrich yourself - because you can find the true meaning of happiness in life.
2021-09-3034 minThe Powerful Man ShowWinners Want the BallEpisode #392 "Winners don't just want the ball they demand the ball". Why do certain people succeed in life? Is it because they have more talent? Is it because they have more opportunities? No. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about the one factor that separates the winners from those who watch on the sidelines. They talk about how you can see this factor show up in sports, in business, and even in relationships. If you're tired of watching other people succeed from the sidelines, then this episode is for you...
2021-08-1430 minThe Powerful Man ShowYour Wife Has A High Sex DriveEpisode #391 Something we hear men complain about often at The Powerful Man is that they believe their wives have no sex drive. At the beginning of their relationship, things were hot and heavy. But after getting married, the frequency and passion of the sex they're having has consistently declined. These men just assume that their wife has lost her sex drive. This is not true. In fact, women complain more often about their husbands having no sex drive! So, what's really happening here? If men are believing...
2021-08-1227 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Other YouEpisode #314 If I were to ask your wife if she thinks you show up as your authentic self every day....what would she say? Would those closest to you say that you are fully living out who you are.....or would they say that they can see you trying to be someone you're not? We have this perceived idea of who we "SHOULD" be and who we think our loved ones around us "WANT" us to be...but the reality is, those who truly love us want us to be the highest and...
2021-02-1328 minThe Powerful Man ShowIs This A Scam?Episode #309 Is this a SCAM? Is The Powerful Man movement a scam? Is The Activation Method a scam? It's normal to be hesitant about things that we aren't fully aware of, especially if it involves any kind of monetary value. It's normal to be scared of investing in something, especially if your investment could help you change your life. In this episode, Tim and Doug reaffirm that this program isn't fake. If your relationship needs help, then take action. You'll wish you'd have started sooner. __________
2021-02-0226 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe GapEpisode #308 Be honest with yourself. Where are you today? Where do you want to be? The distance or space between where you are now and where you want to be is called "The Gap". How are the Five Territories of your life? What's the state of your Self, your Health, your Wealth, your Relationships, and your Business? Get real with yourself. Identifying where you really are today and where you want to be are important, but what you need to focus on is bridging The Gap between them.
2021-01-3036 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Get The Spark Back In The BedroomEpisode #306 Has your marriage gone cold? Are you missing those steamy sex nights? Has it been a few days, weeks...or even months? How can you reignite that spark? The most effective way in bringing back that spark is simple: COMMUNICATION. Are you still having deep conversations with your wife? Or are you letting your business or your job consume all your energy? Prioritize that regular connection time. Spice things up. Create a sense of mystery. Cultivate an environment, an atmosphere, for sex. Make an effort. Seek...
2021-01-2632 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Red PillEpisode #285 This episode was inspired by a documentary film called, The Red Pill directed by Cassie Jaye. The film explores the men's rights movement, as Jaye spends a year filming the leaders and followers within the movement. Gender equality has always been an issue. But it's important to be aware that there will always be some things that women can do better than men, and vice-versa. In this episode, you will learn some shocking facts about men. Join Tim and Doug as they take a deeper dive into The Red Pill theory.
2020-12-0836 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Am I Failing As A Father?Episode #283 On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the highest and 1 being the lowest, how do you rate yourself as a father? Are you giving your children the best you have to offer? Or are you giving them your leftovers after you've given your best to your business, the best to your staff, the best to your customers, the best to your friends… Where do your kids fit into that? Are they going to be like you when they grow older and become a parent in the future? Bu...
2020-12-0330 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do If Your Wife Doesn't Want You To InvestEpisode #281 Do you ask your wife first when making any big decision where money is involved? A lot of men are like that. And sadly, for some men, even if they really want to invest in improving themselves, they become hesitant to do so, because they think it would create a heated discussion within their relationship. In this episode, hear what Tim and Doug have to say about this and learn some tips on how you can convince your wife to support you in investing in your personal growth. __________ ...
2020-11-2827 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Chat with Tim and DougEpisode #270 Are you living in excess? Are you beating yourself up too much? Learn more about your body. Refuse to accept something you don't want to accept. Go and try different approaches. See shifts occur. Reading a book is great, but without application, it's useless. When we see other people achieving great things, it really speaks to something that is innate within all of us - the desire to be great, and the desire to leave something great behind. Take the risk, get out of your comfort zone, be the man...
2020-11-0331 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow White Lies Take Their TollEpisode #261 Are you doing things that your wife isn't aware of? Is it because you know in your heart that she will not approve it? You're micro-dosing, hanging out with your friends, drinking, or going out to places that your wife probably wouldn't approve of. We are so used to telling 'white' lies when we're doing things that our wives won't agree with or which might cause conflict with them. It's okay to tell 'white' lies occasionally, but if you're doing it constantly...Houston, we have a...
2020-10-1323 minThe Powerful Man ShowAre You The Partner That You Want?Episode #254 Are you complaining about your partner? Do you wish your partner would be nicer? Do you wish your partner to appreciate you more? Or do you wish your partner could be better at giving you pleasure? Maybe you should ask yourself first. Are you being the kind of partner that you want your partner to be? In other words, are you stepping to the line being that ideal partner? Are you treating your partner the way you want your partner to treat you? When we ask...
2020-09-2620 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: How to Fix A Fight When You've Gone Too FarEpisode #205 Have you ever been in a heated argument with your partner? In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss what to do after a heated argument with your partner and how to correct it. One important thing to do first is to find out what triggered that situation to happen, or what triggered you to overreact. In order to avoid overreacting, both parties must communicate clearly what they both want without feeling like a victim and without judgment. Communicate out of love and respect because if you let your...
2020-06-0425 minThe Powerful Man ShowTim's Routine of Flow [Part 2]Episode #199 What is in your environment? Is your environment reinforcing where you are going and reinforcing the identity that you want for yourself? The path of power is a place of being full. It is being happy, fulfilled, and healthy. When you know how to take care of yourself and how you present yourself to other people, more money starts coming into your life, better things, better health, and better relationships. Things like this won't happen in a path of force. The things in your environment inspire you and...
2020-05-2130 minThe Powerful Man ShowTim's Routine of Flow [Part 1]Episode #198 Are you struggling in your relationship with your spouse and with your business? The struggle of pushing harder than others is an indicator that you are not working with passion. Waking up feeling like you're behind from the person you used to be, turns inspiration to desperation and you end up being busy + frustrated rather than productive and in your flow. In this episode, we are going to talk about what to do when you feel like you are being pushed or being pulled from your passion into your life...
2020-05-1930 minThe Powerful Man ShowAre You Getting Pushbacks From Your Wife?Episode #192 Is your wife mad at you because you don't seem to have time for her? Even during this quarantine, do you still find yourself putting all of your energy towards work & working the entire day, ending up with nothing left for your wife? Are you willing to step back from putting so much effort and energy into achieving your visions and goals for the sake of providing more quality time with your wife? In this episode, Tim and Doug share their experiences about how they deal with work-life balance during...
2020-05-0527 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: How to Seduce Your Wife?Episode #188 In this episode, Tim and Doug share some ways they are seducing their partners. As the man, you should be the one to take the lead and make your partner feel seen and desired. But…how exactly can you do that? This is a topic that comes up often at The Alpha Reset. The first key is that you should know your partner's love language and give her love the way she wants to receive it…not just the way you like to give it. Prioritize spending quality time with her a...
2020-04-2528 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow to Get Out of Your Head [Part 1]Episode #183 How can men get out of their heads and into their hearts? Most cliches about us, men, are that we don't show emotions and that we're so disconnected from our spouses + loved ones. And most of the time, these cliches are symptoms of a bigger problem. What is it? We think too much. We over-analyze things. We're not connecting to other people and we're not connecting with ourselves. Are you in the same situation? Listen to this 2-part episode and...
2020-04-1414 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat Is It Like To Be In A Relationship With Me?Episode #178 Do you know what it's like to be in a relationship with you? Think about that for a moment. Unless you have asked your loved ones or they have told you...we don't actually know what it is like to be in a relationship with us. Oftentimes we think we are showing up as one way, but in reality, a completely different energy is present. In this episode, Tim and Doug will talk about what their loved ones have to say to this question of "What is it...
2020-04-0214 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat Will People Think Of Me?Episode #167 Do you ever feel like you're wearing a mask? Like you're putting on a front to pretend that you are someone you think others want you to be? In this episode, Tim talks about his own experience in wearing a mask and feeling ashamed of what was behind the mask. The longer he had the mask on....the harder it became to take it off and show to the world who he really was. It's time to take the mask off and embrace The Powerful Man who is...
2020-03-0711 minThe Powerful Man ShowTim's "No Sex For 30 Days Challenge"Episode #162 No sex for 30 days... ...can you do that? As men, we tend to use sex as the bridge to build intimacy or connection with our partners, but often it is not enough. When you take a step back from sex, will you find that you are still intimate with your partner or will you find that you've relied on sex to be intimate? Take this challenge to discover different ways to become more intimate in your relationship, creating a deeper connection than ever before. ————- Hungry...
2020-02-2522 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: What Are Your StandardsEpisode #125 In this episode, Tim & Doug discuss how to shift your mindset to make progress in your business and personal life and how it starts with asking yourself about your standards. Using a real-life example, Tim & Doug share a story of a member of the Activation Method who completely shifted his mindset from one of self-limiting beliefs and fear to confidence and abundance to completely transform his life and his business. Over the course of 1 year, this individual went from being unable to sell in his specialist area to 10x-ing his sales, selling to the...
2019-11-3026 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: My Business or My MarriageEpisode #124 In this episode Tim & Doug one of the most common issues they encounter in The Activation Method. Men who feel they need to choose between their marriage or their business. In another open and honest discussion, Tim & Doug share their thoughts on what they describe as one of the most common issues faced by men across the business world today. However, it's not something anyone needs to go through, what happens if you replace the word 'or' with the word 'and' in this scenario, how does that life look to you? This...
2019-11-2825 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Don't Go To WarEpisode #123 Enjoy the Journey! How often do you hear that phrase, life is a journey and it needs to be enjoyed? However, being involved in a battle or war isn't an enjoyable experience. In this episode, Tim & Doug present another deep discussion about what it truly means to become a powerful man and they put the case forward for ditching the idea of a physical, tough, war-like alpha male in favor of a calm, quietly confident, self-assured man as being the one we should aspire to. As men, we are so...
2019-11-2626 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Why Success Is Not Always SexyEpisode #119 "The most powerful force in the entire universe is compounded interest" In this week's episode, Tim & Doug share another invaluable conversation that will empower your mindset and improve your business and personal when putting to action. How often are we sold the dream of success and what does that dream look like… most likely you are visualizing the "sexy" success story; money, cars, women, big houses. This, however, is simply a dream we've been sold via marketing. Marketing also sells us the dream that this can be done instantly and that your su...
2019-11-1624 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Honor Your WordEpisode #118 "We're all on the way out so we may as well enjoy it!" The quote that sums up the premise of this weeks' episode as Tim & Doug discuss the importance of sticking to your word. Have you ever found you miss appointments, cancel meetings or don't follow through on things you say you will do with your family or in your business? This doesn't mean you're a bad person, just that you are committing to too many things that you are not passionate about. In this episode, you will discover how to...
2019-11-1422 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Face Your DemonsEpisode #117 In this episode, Tim shares a very personal topic of how his extended family is littered with suicide and broken down relationships due to demons of the past being handed down through generations. Tim explains how he overcame the demons in his immediate family and discusses the wider picture of how this generation needs to step up to our demons by having conversations and taking responsibility. Mental health among young people is at an all-time low. Tim & Doug try to trace why so many people can relate to having being passed on the demons...
2019-11-1230 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Don't Pay The Price For Past MistakesEpisode #116 In this episode, Tim & Doug ask Are you paying the price for past mistakes? Past mistakes or negatives in our lives have a tendency to stay within us in some way and unless you address them and forgive yourself for them they can sabotage your future progress. So many of us go through life without realizing that we are making the same mistakes repeatedly. Do you ever feel like you are on a never-ending treadmill of constantly living on groundhog day? Do you tell yourself and other people that everything is great...
2019-11-0926 minThe Powerful Man ShowMeet Tim Matthews [Part 1]Episode #108 The Powerful Man movement was created to guide men in knowing themselves deeper, understanding their worth, and recognizing what they're capable of. This movement is composed of men who are leaders in their business, in their community and are aspiring leaders who want to uplevel their game in their business or their relationships. In this episode, we pull back the curtain and hear from the founder of The Powerful Man, Tim Matthews. We get to learn more about who he is, his journey, what inspired him to create The Powerful Man, and s...
2019-10-2226 minThe Powerful Man ShowPlanning the Perfect Date NightEpisode #93 Having a perfect date night is something that men aim for. And let us tell you....planning it is really a challenge! Expectation versus reality comes into play in a major way with this one. So the question is...is there a formula for having that perfect date night? In this episode, Tim and Doug share their ways of planning their perfect date nights. Get it in your calendar. Think about the outcomes that you want to have during and after that date night. Paint that picture in your head...
2019-09-1715 minThe Powerful Man ShowDo You Know You're Capable Of More?Episode #90 In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss Tim's conversation with one of the men from the brotherhood. He shared that this particular man has been hiding or living just to get by for the past several months after becoming a better man as a result of joining the brotherhood. For the past 12 months, this guy achieved phenomenal things. To name a few, he landed a 6-figure deal in his business which is the largest in his company's history, he reunited with his family, lost weight, is now picking up his kids from school and...
2019-09-1026 minThe Powerful Man ShowIt's Not the LocationEpisode #084 In this episode, we revisit one of our most popular episodes. Tim & Doug discuss a real-life example of a man they spoke with who felt everything around him was the reason he was unfulfilled. He blamed the location in which he was based, the people and other external factors for all that was wrong in his life, avoiding the real issue, which was himself! This is a very common occurrence in men that Tim & Doug help on a regular basis. People who don't take responsibility for themselves and always look to the nearest thing...
2019-08-2728 minThe Powerful Man ShowDo Less And Be MoreEpisode #081 Today we get to revisit one of our most popular episodes...DO LESS + BE MORE. In today's face-paced world, it's so easy to be busy, hustle hustle hustle, go go go. We even measure our success by how busy we are… how often do you tell someone you are busy for them to respond "Great, busy is good", "I wish i could be busier". Anyone can be busy, but it's much harder to be productive... In this episode, Tim shares a story of a business owner who was in hustle mode, working no...
2019-08-2020 minThe Powerful Man ShowDo It Now [Revisit]Episode #080 How often do you think about things that you want to do but put them off? In this episode, Tim & Doug present another incredibly motivating 30 minutes of audio about how we fall into the trap of procrastinating and putting things off with excuses and lies that we tell ourselves. "The beggar and the billionaire have the same amount of time in the day" is a quote reference by Tim in this episode to try and explain why we need to stop using time and other things as an excuse not to do...
2019-08-1729 minThe Powerful Man ShowTake off The Mask [REVISIT]This weeks' episode brings another very familiar story and common thread for entrepreneurs and business owners. Tim & Doug discuss a true story about a business owner they know, this man is extremely successful but admits he has no idea how he has got the success and feels like he just got lucky. Does this sound like you? Naturally, this leads to extreme insecurity and fear, he doesn't want his staff or people around him to see this, so he continues to wear the mask of being an all confident, all-knowing leader. ...
2019-08-1519 minThe Powerful Man ShowCreate and Maintain Boundaries [Revisit]Episode #075 In this episode, we get to revisit a conversation that comes up A LOT with our men...how to create and maintain boundaries. We divulge some real-life examples we have from the men taking part in our coaching program, the 'The Activation Method' and common problems and obstacles they face. So many people struggle with structure and organization in their business and personal lives because they have failed to create good boundaries. If you have no boundaries or structure your life and business is freewheeling, you will never know what t...
2019-08-0625 min