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Women Being LovedIs This The Relationship You're Looking For?Let's talk about expectations in dating and what it means to get what you actually want in a relationship. What 3 attributes help you determine if you should continue with a relationship or cut your losses early? Let's also discuss advice from Dolly Parton and Lady Gaga on love. As promised: here are the links to the two episodes I mentioned on making a love list. The names of those episodes are: Should You Make A Love List and How to Make A Love List.You can find them by name on Apple podcasts, if you...2025-03-2024 min
Women Being LovedNo More Doomsday DatingWhether you're struggling through the world news or personal challenges, it can be tempting to seek out an ex to make it all better. Here's why you shouldn't and what to do instead. To support this podcast financially, go to www.womenbeingloved.com/podcastMy favorite uplifting playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYiKCMFrDKBE-1oFPLYAovJPzizJGa2-r#love #relationships #exes #womenbeingloved2025-02-1219 min
Women Being LovedChoosing A Partner For The Right ReasonsIt's easy to get caught up in the moment when dating and forget to look for emotional maturity that will stand the test of time. In this episode, I discuss what to look for when you're seeking a forever partner; how to tell if someone is mature enough to handle the hard spaces in life; and a few stories (as usual) from women I've interviewed for my upcoming book. As promised, here's the link for donating to give the link to donate directly to helping those in need in the California wildfires. https://www...2025-01-1619 min
Women Being LovedAttracting Love in 2025The holidays can be so hard when you're single, but in this episode I give some perspective on getting through this season AND preparing for love in 2025. I hope you enjoy it.The book I mention in this episode is It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single by Sara Eckel . If you enjoy this podcast, consider supporting it financially here.Happy Holidays! See you in a few weeks for Season 3.2024-12-2211 min
Women Being LovedPam: Falling In Love at 52In this fun, sound-effects enhanced episode, I introduce you to Pam from New South Wales, Australia who met the love of her life at 52 with a little help from her friends. If you'd like to support this podcast, go to https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/To be alerted when my book is released, sign up at https://womenbeingloved.com/2024-11-1515 min
Women Being LovedFree Yourself To LoveHere are the untrue things we tell ourselves that keep us from finding love; and what it takes to get past the lies. My email: todra@womenbeingloved.comHow to support this podcast: https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/2024-10-2417 min
Women Being LovedWhat You DeserveHere's what true love looks like in the midst of a meltdown. And a pep talk on what you deserve. If you'd like to support this podcast, you can do so here. https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/2024-10-0418 min
Women Being LovedTrust The Timing of Your LifeLet's look at where you are right now and where you want to be. Let's look at what it means to TRUST the timing of your life. And let's talk about how you can ignore the pressure to hit certain milestones in a particular timeframe. 2024-09-2014 min
Women Being LovedAsking For What You WantYou deserve to have the future you desire with someone who's on the same path as you. In this episode, I share three women's stories, Nancy, Briana and Lori. They each chose to make it very clear what they wanted from a relationship without fear of losing the other person. Did that work out for them? Listen to this episode and hear what they did, what they learned and if they ended up with the love they desired. 2024-09-0523 min
Women Being LovedFinding Love OnlineOnline dating gets a lot of bad rap, but I can prove to you that women are finding their forever loves online. Listen to this episode and I'll share parts of their stories with you, along with 5 tips for better online dating experiences. If you enjoy these episodes and would like to give a gift to this podcast, please go to my website. Thank you so much. If you'd like to contact me directly, you can shoot me an email here: https://womenbeingloved.com/contact/2024-08-2319 min
Women Being LovedThe Moment I Fell In LoveMy husband says he knows the precise moment I fell in love with him, and he's spot on. Women from my book of real love stories told me their stories of the moment love hit. I share a few of their stories in this episode. They also shared another phenomena that surprised them when they discovered their soul mate. Listen to these uplifting stories of getting the love they'd wanted when they least expected it. And how your love story could be just around the corner.If you'd like to donate to my podcast, here's the link...2024-08-0817 min
Women Being LovedWriting My Wedding VowsWedding vows express what we love about our mate and what we hope for our future together. In this episode, I share what my husband and I wrote for each other for our wedding day. I also share vows from a couple who have been together for many decades and what they've achieved from the vows they wrote. They also discuss WHAT IS LOVE?If you'd like to watch the videos of the couple I talk about in this episode, here are the links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pbyQhbZJhwI&t=0s...2024-07-2721 min
Women Being LovedIs Romance Dead?Have you been told that romance isn't a thing with modern men? Or romance doesn't exist in relationships that aren't brand new? I debunk all the hearsay around romance and share some solid proof from my own marriage and other women's relationships that romance is alive and well. I also talk about why romance novels and romance-themed book STORES are doing so well right now. Join me!If you'd like to read a few sample stories from my upcoming book and join my newsletter, go here: womenbeingloved.com2024-07-1113 min
Women Being Loved3 Traits of Lasting LoveIf you want a lasting love relationship, there are certain traits that can help you and your future partner get to that goal. Here are three traits that will definitely help your relationship dynamics. To help support this podcast or the upcoming book of true love stories, visit my website at womenbeingloved.com#love #relationships #womenover40 #womenover50 #midlife2024-06-2724 min
Women Being LovedJess's Love Story at 40This is the true love story of a woman named Jess who is autistic. She never expected to fall in love, so she built a beautiful, fulfilling life with friends, activities and a Golden Retriever. She bought a house. But at 40, a surprise encounter with a younger man changed everything.Hers is one of the stories from my upcoming book, Love Will Find You. Real Life and Love Stories for Women 35 And Beyond. If you enjoy this podcast and would like to help me get the book out into the world, please consider pledging to...2024-06-2113 min
Women Being LovedYou're One Decision Away From LoveThis week, I talk about what to do if you're fed up with dating; how one of my friends met her husband in Whole Foods when she was 48; and life lessons I've learned from old school rom coms.Wanna get fun perks and support my upcoming book? Check out my crowdfund page at womenbeingloved.comYou can also vote there on which cover design I should use for my upcoming book of real love stories. Wanna show some love for this podcast episode? go to Womenbeingloved.com/podcast...2024-06-1316 min
Women Being LovedQ&A With My HusbandThis week my husband joined me to discuss what he had on his Love List and if I matched everything he wanted. We also talk about what we value in each other; What we learned from past relationships before we found each other; How trust and fidelity works for us; And some bits about our nomadic lifestyle. I hope you are encouraged by what we share.This is the season finale for Season 1. The new season will begin in 4 weeks. I'll be getting the last writing on my book done and off to a proofreader and looking...2024-05-0937 min
Women Being LovedAsk These 5 QuestionsRom-coms would have us thinking love is about running into the guy from high school that was too into himself to ever notice us; but then one day (usually over the Christmas holidays in the small town we left 20 years ago), we cross paths. And BAM! The fireworks are undeniable. We leave our corporate jobs in the city and move to the farm with him and we live happily ever after. Um, no...When you do find someone you think could be "the one", it's important to make sure they're able to face the hard parts of...2024-05-0219 min
Women Being LovedAre You Blocking Yourself from Finding Love?Sometimes we have ideas about who's in our league and who isn't for dating; or we put up barriers that make it nearly impossible to attract the love we desire. In this episode, I talk about Anne Hathaway's new rom-com for midlife women; how my friend (who's 58) recently got engaged in Paris; and why you should expand your expectations in dating.Want me to speak on love at your live or online event? Contact me at Todra@womenbeingloved.comWant to read a few love stories that will be in the book? https://womenbeingloved.com...2024-04-2512 min
Women Being LovedAre You Relationship Worthy?It seems everyone on the Internet has an opinion on how feminine, submissive, young, traditional, etc. women have to be to find real love. I've got a different perspective based on the experiences of women who've already found the love of their lives - at 35 or later. You don't want to miss this. Did you meet the love of your life at 35 or later and you'd like to share your story for this podcast and my upcoming book of real life love stories? Click here and tell me a little about yourself, or put this link in...2024-04-1819 min
Women Being LovedAttracting Healthy Love After AbuseTRIGGER WARNING: This episode mentions domestic violence and an accidental suicide. Today, I share one woman's story of how she attracted the love of her life after leaving a marriage filled with domestic violence, and overcoming a toxic family of origin. Her second husband, along with therapy, were important components of her healing process. You don't want to miss this beautiful story.If you'd like to support this podcast with a kind gift, go to https://womenbeingloved.com/Contact email for Todra todra@womenbeingloved.com2024-04-1111 min
Women Being LovedAllowing Love To Find YouIn this episode...I share the story of how Carol, a twice-divorced woman of 43, met a stranger in Starbucks who became the husband she'd always desired.This is the story of a woman who had decided she wasn't actively dating or pursuing men in any way. And she wasn't going to settle on what she desired just to have someone in her life.The man she married provides the lifestyle of her dreams and she gives tips on what not to do if you want to attract a man who respects you and treats you...2024-04-0412 min
Women Being LovedShould You Make The First Move With A Man?In this episode I talk about...How women really feel about approaching men romantically instead of waiting on the sidelines hoping for an ask; What a few men had to say about women who make the first move; A woman who reached out (online) to a guy she found intriguing and where it went from there; How to know if he's truly interested once you've put the ball in his courtIf you'd like to read more of the couple's story that I share in this episode, you can find it (and two other love stories) on...2024-03-2813 min
Women Being LovedSigns of a Healthy Relationship Part 2In this episode, I dig deeper into the conversation of healthy relationships and give examples from several couples. Grab some tea and relax for the next 15 minutes as I share...5 ways we should feel in a healthy love relationship How understanding the 5 love languages help us enjoy a healthy relationshipWhat practical acts of love look and feel likeWhen to call off a weddingIf you'd like to get a sneak peak at some of the love stories that will be in my upcoming book, here's the link...2024-03-2114 min
Women Being LovedSigns of a Healthy Relationship, Pt. 1Healthy relationships are built on certain truths. But when we've not had healthy relationship modeled to us, it's hard to know what those truths are.In this episode, I'm discussing...The 4 pillars of healthy relationshipsWarning signs and characteristics of unhealthy relationshipsWhy relationships are like birthday cakes and cornbreadAnd two women from my Wise Collective talk about what they've learned about maintaining healthy relationships and how that plays out in their marriages.If you'd like to give a one-time or recurring gift to this podcast, vi...2024-03-1410 min
Women Being LovedPreparing for Love (Again) After DivorceDivorce is one of the hardest things we can go through in life. And often, we're not sure what to do after a divorce to heal and move on.In this episode, I speak on...The stages of grief during and after divorceHow long should you wait after a divorce to dateWhat does self care after divorce look likeHow our places of worship can hinder us from choosing our own freedom and healingHow I dealt with my own divorceIf you'd...2024-03-0719 min
Women Being LovedHow To Make A Love ListMaking a list of qualities we want in a potential life partner can help us get clarity on what's most important to us. In this episode, I discuss...The difference between a wish list and a real listHow to get to the core of what we really want in a love partnerHow I made my list that brought me my husbandHow to stick to your non-negotiablesHow my friend, Veronica, used a manifesting tool to attract her husband who is 90% of her list.I...2024-02-2914 min
Women Being LovedShould You Make a Love List?At some point in the dating arena, we've all made a list of qualities we want from a future partner. But most of us have had a hard time finding someone with those traits already in place. Or we find some semblance of our list, but we don't click with the other person the way we'd hoped.Today's episode is going to tackle this age old question with (hopefully) encouraging new insight. I'll discuss...Why your love list isn't workingWhat steps to take before making a love listWhat writing...2024-02-2315 min
Women Being LovedThe Scoop on Women Being LovedWelcome to Women Being Loved, an encouraging podcast for women 35+ who are ready for real, authentic, sustainable, love relationships.2024-02-2001 min
Yoga MagicThe Spiritual Journey of Traveling the World with Todra PayneThe magic of travel is something many are blessed to experience but the magic in living nomadically can elevate the human experience and one's own spirituality as shown by Todra Payne. Todra is an American writer traveling the world without a plan other than to learn what makes us different, and similar. Todra travels full time in order to immerse herself in new cultures, befriend locals and other nomads, and have fun, memorable experiences. Her goal is to be a global citizen, with an open mind and an understanding heart. Ashley and Todra discuss Todra’s path to...2021-05-1351 min
Picky Girl TravelsSanity Thru Slow TravelIn this episode, Adalia chats with Todra Payne about choosing a life of slow nomadic travel instead of the traditional "American dream". Check out the show notes here- http://pickygirltravelstheworld.com/podcast-2. You can show your support for the podcast by becoming a patron here - https://anchor.fm/adalia-aborisade/support Feel free to leave a voicemail here - https://anchor.fm/adalia-aborisade/message
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