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She's The Realist On RelationshipsS4 E4 Why Did He Really Break it off?In general, men don't like to hurt a woman's feelings. Here's some of the things they say to avoid an emotional outbreak from you, and also some of the REAL reasons they break up with us.
2021-07-1010 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS4 EP 3 Missing LoveSimply put, if you're used to love, it doesn't matter your past pain, you may think and say you never want it again, or you can take it or leave it. But can you really? Here's where I found myself on the 4th of July.
2021-07-0708 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS4 E2 Did Covid Crash Your New Relationship Party?Hey All! It's good to be back! This episode is just to catch up on what I've been doing since Covid 19 came along, how I was affected and yes! Even how it caused an epic fail in me trying to virtually date! How has it affected you? I've been vaccinated. Have you taken the plunge?
2021-07-0415 min
Coffee with THow to Handle Soul Ties, Dating Red Flags and Rejection with Tonda Mingus-BohannonTonia and Tonda sit down and talk about relationships. Tonda shares her experience with breaking off a soul tie. She says there were red flags that were ignored. She even shared that she didn't know how to handle a rejection.
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2021-02-1222 min
Coffee with THow to Handle Soul Ties, Dating Red Flags and Rejection with Tonda Mingus-BohannonTonia and Tonda sit down and talk about relationships. Tonda shares her experience with breaking off a soul tie. She says there were red flags that were ignored. She even shared that she didn't know how to handle a rejection. Links Tonda mentions: Blog site: https://www.kikiscritique.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misstonda2u/YouTube: http://bit.ly/35PCZJ2 Additional Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tonda.bohannonmingusAnchor: anchor.fm/tonda-Mingus Ways to Support and Grow with Us: Subscribe and Become a Financial SUPPORTOR: https://bit.ly/37qE8pOCoffee With T Clothing and Apparel Store: https://teespring.com/stor...
2021-02-1222 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS4 E1 What He Doesn’t KnowChange is inevitable because nothing stays the same. It is true that where we come from and life itself may shape us in a manner which is harmful as we mature. It may also cause a great awakening if we keep our eyes and ears open. Stay vigilant, and never assume that one is captivated forever by manipulation, or will forever seem weak because of their past. You don’t know when the revelation will surface, but you may be surprised that she doesn’t see you as she used to. Imagine that. The experience you gave her was her best...
2021-01-3104 min
She's The Realist On RelationshipsS3 E4 UnSacred MatrimonyThings begin to heat up as we continue on this journey of my true story. It was Christmas time, and then New Year’s came along. Mark had me doing things I never thought I would, or could. I had always thought of myself as an honest and kind person, which had changed already since we were already cheating together on his wife, but I allowed him to take it a step further.
2021-01-2118 min
Coffee with TWhat are Soul Ties and How to break a Soul Tie Relationship with Tonda Mingus-BohannonTonia and Tonda talk about what are soul ties and how to break a soul tie relationship. Tonda shares her experience and how she copes with the difficulty of moving on. Links Tonda Mentioned: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tonda.bohannonmingusAnchor: anchor.fm/tonda-Mingus YouTube: http://bit.ly/35PCZJ2 Ways to Support and Grow with Us: Subscribe and Become a Financial SUPPORTOR: https://bit.ly/37qE8pOCoffee With T Clothing and Apparel Store: https://teespring.com/stores/coffee-with-t #ConfidentStrides #coffeewitht #toniatyler #strideflowcreate Our featured video podcast "Coffee with T" on Confident Strides is a 20-minute conversational interview on different topi...
2021-01-1922 min
Coffee with TWhat are Soul Ties and How to break a Soul Tie Relationship with Tonda Mingus-BohannonTonia and Tonda talk about what are soul ties and how to break a soul tie relationship. Tonda shares her experience and how she copes with the difficulty of moving on.
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2021-01-1922 min
She's The Realist On RelationshipsS3 E3 UnSacred MatrimonyIn this episode Mark and I grew closer since Tyree was no longer an employee with us. I also had to face meeting his wife and family for the first time. Finally, it was an interesting introduction to my parents, when I decided it was time two invite Mark over once I turned 18 years old.
2021-01-1319 min
She's The Realist On RelationshipsS3 E2 UnSacred Matrimony My True StorySecond episode of my True Story. In this episode, you will be introduced to someone who would become very special to me, and things would begin to happen and stir up the mix!
2021-01-0618 min
She's The Realist On RelationshipsS3 E1 UnSacred Matrimony My True StoryThis episode will introduce you to my new book, and it will prepare you for what you are about to experience in regards to How relationships shape us, as well as may define who we become later on in life. Welcome to My Story, which will be posted on Wednesday of each week until I have decided to end the readings, and hopefully have my listeners to purchase the remaining e-book.
2020-12-3015 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (10) What Sex Is NOT For WomenMen, this is mainly for you. If you believe you know EVERYTHING a woman likes, I want to educate on some of the myths or learned behaviors that are actually not pleasing at all. Women - communicate to him if he’s not getting it right and completely turning you off, or hurting you! In fact communication should be mutual.
2020-12-2623 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (9) The Emotionally Unavailable ManHe may seem to be ready for you. He opens up on many levels and you are receptive. The next thing you know, emotionally you are all the way in. Now he’s seemingly pulling away. Is he now emotionally unavailable? Is he scared? Is he playing for his own benefits? Well, it’s for him to know, and for you to find out.
2020-12-2515 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (8) He Wasn’t Mine But I Wanted HimIt’s so easy to meet someone who is not available yet justify why you will allow him or her into your life anyway. Sometimes there is a table turned and they may leave to be with you. The question is, do you know what you’re getting?
2020-12-2420 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (7) Taking Back My LoveWhat if you could physically and emotionally take back your love from someone undeserving that you wasted so much time on? Well unfortunately we can’t. But what we CAN do is forgive both them and ourselves, and being careful not to give ourselves away so quickly going forward. Keeping our love for the right person is very much realistic!
2020-12-1921 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (6) Choose Your PartnerIn a world of social media, the unrealistic demands for women to be perfect and look like the modified photo in magazines, and the dating website shenanigans, it throws trust and choosing the right partner out the door. Is anyone true anymore??
2020-12-1918 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (5) The Process of Emotional HealingOur world and experiences shape who we are. If you have had the privilege of people speaking life into you on a regular basis, if you have been in the most respectable marriages, friendships or relationships, and if you have basically had a really awesome life, you are blessed beyond measure. Some people have experienced the total opposite, and many times over. Listen as I share how I purged the negative things in my heart and mind, by facing my pain instead of trying to run from it.
2020-12-1511 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (4) How Could He? He Is GOD’S Servant!We are all GOD’S children and we look up to our Shepherds to guide us and teach of GOD’S Word. We can’t picture them in any form of immortality. In this episode I talk about my first ever, experience with major deception that hurt my soul!
2020-12-1117 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (3) The Reason To Keep Your Heart Open After A Break UpDon’t run from the pain or mask it with seat fillers to get you by after a break up. Allow your heart to stay open so that it can eventually heal. Grab your headphones! I’ll explain....
2020-12-0914 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (2) When He Doesn’t Step It UpIt’s ok if he’s not perfect, but if he’s not willing to meet you in the middle for what you’re looking for in a relationship, stop holding onto nothing!
2020-12-0709 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS2 Ep (1) Ladies If You Want Respect......This episode is to just tell the truth about what we are putting under our clothing, or a lack thereof, and causing ourselves to be looked at in a negative way. You want him to respect you? It starts with us! We have to respect ourselves.
2020-12-0411 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (10) THREE Marriages ZERO ProposalsMy true story of how I got married 3 times without a proposal of any kind. If you have ever known how it feels to be cheated on, you will also be able to identify with being short-changed or being cheated out of what should have been yours! This is the last episode for Season 1! We made it. Stay Tuned for Season 2!
2020-12-0317 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (9) His Woman Can't Wear Fake Anything But He Breaks His Neck Watching Others!Doesn't the title say it all? I've seen this scenario many many times, Please don't settle people! If you get what you really want the first time around, you will be content with what you have!
2020-12-0211 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (8) Relationship Pain Holiday MemoriesHolidays are the best memories outside of a new addition to families, whether it's a baby or even an animal. When you have unresolved issues within your relationship or marriage though, it can surface at the worst times. Unfortunately, I have countless unpleasant memories of various holidays in being with my ex spouse. Although I don't allow them to affect me now. I seem to never forget those moments that could have been amazing. Communication is everything in a marriage. Don't ruin precious memories because you are lacking in this area. Get professional help if needed, or an otherwise great holida...
2020-12-0119 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (7) I Live Here I Don't Want To Walk On EggshellsYour home should be your sanctuary, and that includes your significant other after you both have gone about your day, and now it's time to come together. When anyone has to walk lightly around someone, it breaks down intimacy because you never know what will set them off. If you are in this situation, I pray that you seek counseling for yourself even if he won't go with you. Counseling is a beautiful thing when two people want to help the marriage or relationship, however; it is not a necessity and one should never decline a support system nor counsel whi...
2020-11-3008 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (6) She May Be Too Nice But You're Clueless!Watch how you take her for granted. You may get a meek and soft spoken woman who unfortunately cannot find herself, due to years of some form of abuse. You may even think of yourself as so in control of what you call a fool because you walk all over her. It may take her many years, but when she exits, it will rock your world and your ego. Please understand that she may not say much, but she's taking in everything that you do to her, and every way that you have made her feel. The tears she's cried ma...
2020-11-3005 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (5) He Wasn’t My Type How Did I Fall For Him?The Laws of attraction are TRUE! I found out after going on a date with someone that I had only seen online. You never know exactly what you’re going to get in person for the first time, and they may turn you off in some kind of way. You write them off and something happens! You find yourself like a fish on a hook! Listen in...
2020-11-2910 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (4) But Sis, Are We Appreciative?We complain about a man, especially some of us who have an amazing man. No matter what he does, it’s never good enough. Stop ruining the good men we have.
2020-11-2810 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (3) I’m Black He’s White, What About It?People are curious about the “biracial couple”and how they came to be. Listen in as I share what one black woman said to me!
2020-11-2811 minShe's The Realist On RelationshipsS1 Ep (2) The Ghoster Returns - FYI Ep (1) no longer availableA person that "Ghosts" you, pursues you until he gets what he came for. He may be on his best behavior for months, so long as he gets his prize. When we give in, he basically cuts out. His calls and texts diminish until one day we look up and he's completely gone. Even if you decide to reach out, he ignores you. It's as if you never existed. Hurtful? Absolutely, but when he comes back, and they usually have he audacity to, here is where you can get your revenge, Don't give in! Listen in to the 3 options you can c...
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