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Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsMy Boston Marathon recap & having hope doing hard thingsI was stressed about the weather. I was stressed about the late start time.  I was stressed about the hills. So.....how did it go??  After spending much of season 4 talking about how challenging it was for me to get a spot in the Boston Marathon, we're wrapping things up with how the day itself went, what what well....and what was challenging ;)  Finally, we'll share some takeaways for actors throughout about how to stay hopeful when you're going after those seemingly faraway goals.    PS - We...2023-04-2743 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThis is supposed to be hard(sorry)  Yes. It's going to be hard. When we approach this acting thing with embracing of the hard, rather than the resistance to it - it gives us a new way of approaching the business where we might find ourselves less stressed AF... But also - this isn't about by passing your feelings when it gets hard either...(duh)  So let's talk about it :)  This week, where I'm just 4 days out from running the Boston Marathon, I'll share with you... 2 things that have gone really well during my training  2 big challeng...2023-04-1323 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsRejection, adversity, and overcoming hardship - with Cheryl LaMee & The Julie FundIf you're wondering how to deal with rejection and stay positive in the face of adversity - this episode is for you.    I brought on the Executive Director of the Julie Fund for Women's Cancer, Cheryl LaMee.    The mission of The Julie Fund for Women’s Cancers is to fight women’s cancers in three spaces: Education/Advocacy Research Patient Support The Julie Fund was founded in 2004 and has grown to become the single largest contributor to ovarian cancer research at Mass General Hospital.  In the past 17 years, The Julie Fun...2023-04-0659 minActor ProblemsActor Problems"Well that sucks" - Dealing with Setbacks That Seem Insurmountable"Well...that sucks." The only thing worse than a setback is wondering "How the hell do I even climb back from this?"  Whether it's from our personal life or professional career - either way, it sucks. Today I'll share a strategy that I've been implementing (even though it's making me stressed AF), plus how to break this down so that you can apply it - regardless of the obstacle.    In this episode, you'll hear... The problem we face when going through setbacks and our expectations  How to break thin...2023-02-2319 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHearing "no" sucks. Here's how to copeTFW you hear “no” and you feel like a failure   The only thing worse than getting a “no” is feeling like you suck as a human because of the no…   Sound extreme? Maybe. But if you’re an actor who feels deeper than the average person - this is a Tuesday…   Here’s what I’ve done in lieu of some personal rejections I’ve gotten recently, how I’m dealing, and tips to cope if/when this happens.    In this episode, you’ll hear….   ...2023-02-1619 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsChange sucks. Here's how to make it easier.Changing reps? Moving to a new market? Or maybe you're parting ways with specific parts about the industry to make a shift into something new??  This week I'll share how to handle said change, what thoughts and feelings might come up, plus what to remember when all the negative chatter starts to make you question yourself.    In this episode, you'll hear...   #TonyTip: Handling challenges while feeling our feelings  How to handle the “what if’s” in the business What to do when all the feelings come up when it comes to change i...2023-02-0221 minActor ProblemsActor Problemsstaying motivated when your goals feel impossibleWhen we share a really big goal we have with friends or family, we usually get one of two reactions: They either super support us….or super *don’t*. This week’s season premiere of season 4 will discuss how to stay motivated when our goals feel super big (and sometimes impossible), plus tips we can use along the way.    In this episode, you'll hear... A story of a recent goal I hit after facing a lot of adversity  Why it’s important to develop a heightened sense of awareness for when our goals start...2023-01-0541 minChristopher CloseupChristopher CloseupLinsey Davis interview - Christopher CloseupABC News correspondent and anchor Linsey Davis discusses her Christopher Award-winning children’s book “The World is Awake,” the ways she teaches her son to appreciate life’s everyday blessings, and how she stays grounded in her Christian faith while working as a journalist. Host: Tony Rossi. 2021-12-1327 minChristopher CloseupChristopher CloseupKristin Chenoweth interview - Christopher CloseupTony, Emmy, and Grammy Award-winning singer and actress Kristin Chenoweth discusses her new album “Happiness is…Christmas,” the joys and losses that inspired her choice of songs on the album, how she keeps Christ a part of the season, and why she teaches young people pursuing careers in the entertainment industry that learning from your failures is just as important as embracing your successes. Host: Tony Rossi.          2021-12-0227 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsSEASON FINALE - "I wish I weren't like this..."Stop me if you've said the following:  "I wish I weren't so bad at auditioning." "I wish I weren't so bad at memorizing." "I wish I didn't compare so much..." Or maybe you've said something along the lines of "I wish I weren't so emotionally attached to the outcome of this...: We all have strengths and weaknesses. And all of us wish we had strengths that are our current weaknesses. This week, I'm going to share some vulnerable weaknesses of my own - that involve ugly crying, hiding in my bathroom, and even s...2021-02-1816 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow Having a Pet Can Help Your Acting CareerSome of you know that I recently became a foster Daddy to a cat! ....and boyyyyy has it been an experience. In this episode, I'll share what the experience has been like, what I did for alllll the things I didn't know about (aka - 90% of what you need to know about cats), and how it can relate to you and your acting career. Links!  Swanwick Sleep Blue Light Glasses: https://www.swanwicksleep.com/?oid=1&affid=4372186  Free Audible: www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow Actor Resources  Wanna do a free 1 on 1 cal...2021-02-0422 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsActor Confidence & Why Agents Made Me NervousThis week, we're sharing a clip from a recent Facebook live discussing the following:  One thing Tony did to allieviate his pandemic depression What one actor started doing to help improve his confidence Discussing the power dynamics between agents and casting directors Actor Resources  Wanna do a free 1 on 1 call with me??  Click here to grab a spot!  Join us!  "Actor Problems" Facebook Group www.facebook.com/groups/actorproblems  Join the actor self-care newsletter! www.tonyrossicoaching.com Plus gain access to my free video series - “Why You Think You Suck (Ev...2021-01-2831 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsIf You're Sad, Loney, and Angry - Remember ThisFor anyone feeling alone, afraid, annoyed....or angry -  This week, Tony shares an experience where he felt really alone. Before he knew it - it led to anger. He'll talk about what you can learn if you're ever feeling alone, or angry, or experiencing heightened emotions. He'll also give you some reminders that frequently are left out of the conversation when we're busy beating ourselves up for our negative feelings. Actor Resources  Guess what?!  I'm giving away ANOTHER round of free coaching sessions: Click here to gra...2021-01-1421 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsActor Feelings: Why You Feel Differently Than Your Peers (and What to Do About It)It's the holidays! And wouldn't you know it? We can use the example of how others choose to celebrate - or just be Scrooges - for why we feel the way we feel as actors. Stay with me on this one....it just might make you feel better about your acting career right now. Things that come up:  A personal story that shaped how I experience the holidays A reminder about actor feelings that we often neglect How our own journey's as actors shape the way we feel What we can do when things r...2020-11-2517 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsYou’re Not Behind, You’re Right Where You Need to Be - with Deanna Reed-FosterToday's episode features Chicago actress Deanna Reed Foster. Deanna (she/her/hers) is a born and raised Chicago actor. She started her career later in life as she was a property manager for over 20 years. Since taking the leap to full time actor in 2013, Deanna can be seen in many movies and television shows. Pre pandemic, you could also see her on Chicago stages. She lives by the credo #LiveOnPurpose. She is all about helping find their purpose and equipping the to live fully in it.   Get to know Deanna! Instagram: @deannareedfoster http://w...2020-11-191h 01Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsHappy People Aren't Always Happy - with Michael TurrentineToday’s episode features Michael Turrentine Michael Turrentine is an actor, writer, activist strutting over originally from Tulsa, Oklahoma, but is happy to live currently in the Windy City of Chicago. He a twin, a proud uncle, and a hoot and a half! He is currently working on writing projects for such as Broken Nose and About Face, as well as The New Colony. He also the proud host of his POC and Queer forward podcast "How's Your Heart?" Get to know Michael!  Instagram: mturrentine5 - https://www.instagram.com/mturrentine5 Fac...2020-11-121h 01Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsTaking Back Your Power as an Actor CEOToday’s episode features Mike Moreno Michael Moreno is an actor, content creator and industry expert who runs The Actor CEO Podcast and ActorCEO.com, connecting thousands of actors around the globe to industry pros, tools, and resources to help them treat their career like a business and fill the gap between training and building a sustainable creative life. Listed as a "top podcast for actors" in Backstage and Casting Networks, Michael is also a contributing Backstage expert as well as writer for other platforms like OnStageBlog, DailyActor, StageMilk and more.  He is building a fan...2020-09-171h 03Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsAsk Questions About Your PainWe're pretty damn good at recognizing when we're in pain. But have you ever stopped to ask yourself, "Hey...why do I feel this way?? What is it that makes me feel this way more than others?" This week - we're going to share some examples from my own personal life to help you better understand your own pain. Episode links Shawn Stevenson and the Model Health Show podcast Shawn's Instagram Model Health Show podcast  Tony's reading & podcast list Click here to snag! Click here if you want to download one of these books for...2020-08-2722 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsStop Shoving Down Feelings! Do This Instead - with Nicole BakerToday’s episode features Nicole Baker - a former actress turned life coach.  More About Nicole: Nicole Baker is a Life and Mindset Coach trained in Neuro Linguistic Programming based out of Chicago, IL. As a Coach, she works with aspiring achievers who are ready to get out of comfort zone and helps them fully step into the life of their dreams! She is also the host of the Life Coach Baker Podcast, an entrepreneur, blogger and goal smasher extraordinaire!    Stay connected with Nicole!    The Life Coach Baker Podcast...2020-07-091h 00Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsAdversity Can Be a Good Thing - with Addison WrightToday's episode features Chicago filmmaker, Addison wright. Addison is a Chicago native filmmaker and director. From visualization to execution, his goal is to push the culture and change perspectives. Directors like Spike Lee, Hype Williams and Spike Jonze inspired his passion for film. Addison has 7+ years of filmmaking experience and aims to inspire people with his creativity. Follow Addison Website: www.addisonjwright.com Instagram: @addisonwright     Episode highlights His first dream that was shattered in college How he managed to keep his scholarship, despite his setback The story of the Hiplet Ba...2020-07-0245 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsYou’ve Always Known You’re Good Enough - with Aneisa HicksToday’s episode is with Chicago actress Aneisa Hicks. Follow Aneisa  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aneisa.hicks Instagram: @AneisaJene TikTok: @aneisahicks Interview Highlights: Ways to answer “What have I seen you in?” Her experience working in “Graveyard Shift” at the Goodman Theatre How she started giving herself permission to take breaks in between shows Her story of losing a family member during tech week What to remember when comparing to other actors Learning how to say “no” to a project Why health is so important How health isn’t just about looks  Why we try to “please...2020-06-181h 27Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhy 'Bookings Aren't Our Work " - with Patrick Mulvey“I was robbing the camera of myself” - Patrick Mulvey Today’s interview is with Chicago actor, Patrick Mulvey.  Patrick Mulvey received his Bachelor's degree from the Royal Scottish Academy of Music and Drama. While in the UK he starred on the BBC series River City and worked with the National Theatre of Scotland and the Globe Theatre in London. Other theatre credits include TimeLine Theatre, the Goodman Theatre, and Broadway in Chicago. He went on to play Tony in the nine-time Tony award-winning Billy Elliot the Musical on Broadway. He has also appeared in Cirque...2020-05-2850 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow Harry Potter Changed My LifeWelcome to Actor Problems - a self care podcast for actors. My name is Tony Rossi. While this podcast used to be called "The Tony Rossi Show," we're now switching so that the content is 100% focused on the mental health and well being of actors. Today is a quick introduction of who I am, why I'm an advocate of self care, and how Harry Potter changed my life.   Have you signed up for the free actor self-care newsletter?  Head on over to www.tonyrossicoaching.com to sign up for th...2020-05-0720 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWelcome to the Actor Problems PodcastWelcome to the Actor Problems Podcast - a self-care podcast for actors. My name is Tony Rossi. I'm a Chicago based actor as well as a mindset coach and Backstage guest expert. I help actors see things differently with the things that make them stressed and overwhelmed - so that we can focus on what really matters. This journey can be hard: Endless rejection. Constantly comparing ourselves to our peers. And often feeling like the harder we work, the further we are from our goals!  If we don't make our mental health a pri...2020-05-0402 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsREPLAY: Dealing with Comparison and Feeling Enough - with DaJuan JohnsonToday is a great day to revisit one of my favorite episodes with certified life coach and working actor, DaJuan Johnson. DaJuan Johnson is an actor recurring on BOSCH (Amazon), with credits including Grey’s Anatomy, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Days of Our Lives, and General Hospital. Despite having an impressive resume to his name, he still felt he was missing something. So he started Think Bigger Coaching, where he helps actors “STOP spinning and start focusing their dreams, setting some attainable goals and getting to that Oscar speech they've practiced so many times in the mirror!” He als...2020-04-301h 06Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhy This Feels Like a "Bad Breakup"Today’s episode features the #StayAtHomeActor series hosted by Elise Arsenault. I was invited to join as a guest for episode one! The following is a clip from my interview portion of the episode. To hear the full episode, as well as full access to the entire #StayAtHomeActor series and giveaways - head over to www.stayathomeactor.com and request access. (It’s free!)  Working Actor + Career Coach + Founder of The Global Actor, Elise Arsenault is known for bringing focus + direction to actors' careers helping them "live where they want + work when they want". From NY to...2020-04-2323 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsFor Anyone Who Feels AloneAnyone feeling lonely? As someone who is experiencing social distancing alone in a studio apartment - I've sure felt this. To make matters more challenge, I recently lost my job - which gave me a whole plethora of connections to people (virtually). But how much of this "I am alone" negative chatter is actually true? This week I share a story of when I was spiraling - and the realization that came from it. Feel free to use these ideas the next time you feel the same.    Have you si...2020-04-1622 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsREPLAY: Hardship & Heartbreak - On and Off Camera - with Ross GrantToday we're revisiting an interview with my friend from the UK - Ross Grant. (Don't worry - there's a new intro!)  Ross is an actor from Urmston, Manchester and graduated from the Manchester Metropolitan University School Of Theatre in 2005. Since graduation, he's obtained credits in multiple BAFTA-winning TV series, including the critically acclaimed 'Don't Take My Baby', where he played the role of Mike. Ross is also an established voiceover artist and an industry-leading high-performance mindset coach. He's the creator of the UK's largest professional and social network for actors - 'Act On This - Th...2020-04-091h 01Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsComparison During Crisis - It's a ThingWith social media being such a great resource for all of us to connect - has anyone else noticed a spike in their comparison levels?? (Raises hand). This week, we're sharing 3 things to remember to help alleviate comparison to your peers - regardless how you're spending your social distancing time.  Have you signed up for the free actor self-care newsletter?  Head on over to www.tonyrossicoaching.com to sign up for the free actor self-care newsletter. I’ll share tips, tricks, and stories (that I don’t post anywhere else) every week, just for ar...2020-03-2626 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsSomething to Think About for When Things Are Normal AgainIf current events have gotten you down - consider giving this a listen to help ignite that flame of hope again inside you.   Have you signed up for the free actor self-care newsletter?  Head on over to www.tonyrossicoaching.com to sign up for the free actor self-care newsletter. I’ll share tips, tricks, and stories (that I don’t post anywhere else) every week, just for artists.  OH - and you’ll also gain access to my free give away, “How to Win the Day!” This shares a deep dive into my daily...2020-03-1923 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsA Message Of Hope During Scary TimesI don't know about you, but the news surrounding COVID-19 has made me pretty nervous lately. Whether you're scared by the news or scared by the uncertainty in your career - this episode talks about hope, and why we need it.  Have you signed up for the free actor self-care newsletter?  Acting is stressful enough. What’s more stressful is when we don’t know why we’re so damn stressed! And how about all those “I should just be grateful and appreciate things” thoughts that tell you not to feel the (really legit) way y...2020-03-1218 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsA Journey of 100 Episodes + Listener Questions!This 100th shares the journey of the podcast, how it transformed into an actor specific podcast and the copious amounts of failure along the way. We also dive into some listener questions on actor-self-care!  NOTE: Full show notes will be available up the upcoming week :)    Have you signed up for the free actor self-care newsletter?  Acting is stressful enough. What’s more stressful is when we don’t know why we’re so damn stressed! And how about all those “I should just be grateful and appreciate things” thoughts that tell you not to fee...2020-03-0551 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhat to Do When You’re Frustrated AF with ActingYou know that feeling when you’re frustrated AF with how things are going in your acting career? It’s easy to get caught up in the “now” and forget about “what’s possible.” But if you’re human, you might get stuck on where you are now and find it hard to focus on possibilities. This week, we’ll discuss…. Two things to remember when you’re frustrated AF with your acting career How to handle feeling lonely - at any point in your acting journey How the concept of dating is similar to that of an actor Wh...2020-02-2729 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhen You're Doubting Yourself and Feeling SmallHave you ever felt small as an actor?  I had a #notperfect moment this week where I felt super small as an artist. And then began to found a theme I wasn’t exactly excited about, with my own career. This week, I’ll share what happened and how to deal with that negative chatter that starts to doubt ourselves and our career. If this episode, we’ll dsicuss…   What to do when you’re feeling “small” as an actor    What to do when you start doubting yourseld and your career. Why you’re...2020-02-2025 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsDiscovering Where You Belong (Without Apology) - with Jessica Estelle HugginsToday’s episode features Boston filmmaker Jessica Estelle Huggins. If you like these topics - you’ll love this episode... How we make our friend’s victories about *us* The difference between bragging about our wins and *sharing* them Why different acting cities may or may not be for you… Why it’s fine not to be a morning person ;)  Boundaries - why you need them (and how to be upfront with people)  How rejection often happens for a reason… More About Jessica!  Boston native, Jessica Estelle Huggins is an acclaimed Filmmaker. Various films that she...2020-02-1356 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsCrossover Episode: Seeing Rejection DifferentlyToday's episode is a crossover from the Dream Out Loud podcast, hosted by Vilma Llaguno from Dream Team Talent agency. We discuss my copious amounts of rejection, how that rejection led to better opportunities, plus how we're doing ourselves a disservice when we compare ourselves to our peers. PS - The Tony-Tip of the Day gives you permission to mess up as you go about this acting thing :)  For more on the Dream Out Loud Podcast, check it out below (or on your favorite podcast app) Dream Out Loud podcast  Dream Team Talent Agency   ...2020-02-0639 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThe Limit Does Not Exist...For ActorsYou’re an actor. You do emotions for a living. Your emotions trump logic and reasoning. And that’s why you’re going to be successful. But that doesn’t mean you don’t have your doubts.... This story is to share how I overcame a challenging goal: Grabbing last minute tickets to closing weekend of a Broadway in Chicago show. And the lessons I learned: Nearly giving up. Getting emotionally drained. And doing absolutely everything to prove the haters wrong.  I’m guessing you’ll be able to relate to this - and snag some t...2020-01-3032 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsYour Career Status Doesn't Matter - Here's WhyWARNING: 2020 might not be your year…. (Well, this got awkward….) First off - chill. Second off - it’s okay. You’re good. Because you’ve come a long way since you got started. And if you play your cards right - you just might start getting results sooner than you think…. This week, we’re talking why it doesn’t matter where you are in your career right now - and how to ensure that you still get where you want.  It’s all on episode #93 of the Tony Rossi Show: Talking about...2020-01-1632 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhy You're Not A Starving Artist - with Leah RaidtToday’s interview is with Chicago artist, Leah Raidt. Leah Raidt proudly hails from Louisville, Kentucky. She is an actor, teacher, mentor and director based in Chicago, IL. She is the founder and head instructor of The College Audition Clinic at Actors Training Center, and a teacher and private coach at The Green Room Studio. Works in process include developing and directing the show Reverse Missionary with creative partner Juliet Barrett, which had a workshop premier through The Guest House Project at Haven Theatre. Upcoming projects include ROE at The Goodman Theatre. Past credits include work with St...2020-01-091h 07Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsGoal Setting with Talent Agent Vilma LlagunoToday's episode features an excerpt from the Dream Out Loud Podcast, hosted by Vilma Llaguno.  Vilma is the founder of Dream Team Talent agency and Dream Team Productions. She is the mother of three, an entrepreuner, and someone who thrives off of helping others live their dreams.  Dream Out Loud Podcast  ITunes Spotify  Instagram  Vilma Llaguno   Want to start winning your day? (FREE GIFT)  Acting is stressful enough. It’s time to stack the odds in your favor Head on over to www.tonyrossicoaching.com and sign up for th...2020-01-0244 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsBe an Attractive Actor This Holiday SeasonIt’s the end of the year. Maybe you’re happy with how your year went in regards to your acting career. Maybe you’re not. Either way, I want to leave you with this advice that all actors should consider to be a “more attractive” actor - before 2020. PS - It comes from an aha moment I had during therapy :)    FREE WEBINAR: “How to talk to friends and family about your acting career” (just in time for the holidays!)  Join the actor self-care newsletter for a special link comi...2019-12-1919 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsBook More Work as a Nourished Actor - with Dionna EshlemanToday’s episode features New York based actor, Dionna Eschleman. Dionna Eshleman is an actor, singer, podcaster, and life coach for actors based just outside of NYC. She launched her podcast, The Nourished Actor Podcast, in March 2019, with hopes to build a safe space for creatives to discuss how to nourish our minds, bodies, and careers.  She is working on launching her life coaching business for performers in Spring 2020. As an actor, Dionna has worked professionally in plays, musicals, and readings all around the country and in New York City since graduating from Temple University. Dio...2019-12-121h 13Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsConsider This If You Don’t Feel Like a “Real Actor”Have you ever felt like “not-a-real-actor” because you’re…. -In between projects -Working a day job -Further behind than your friends?? This week, I’ll share an example of something people working a 9-5 get to do - but actors don’t feel like they can do…..(and it might piss you off). Plus, we’ll go into why you can call yourself a real actor - even if you don’t feel like one today.    PS - Wanna join me on a free virtual webinar???  I’m taking names fo...2019-12-0524 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsSuccess Today Might Not Be Here Tomorrow (And That's OK)“Be patient. Things are going to work out. It’s just gonna take some time.”  There’s no shortage of “just be patient” advice out there for actors these days.  Most of the time, it's good advice But what happens when we do hit success....only to start sliding backwards? This week, we’re talking how to mentally prepare for when things backslide and how to stay positive during the rough parts. Join the #Notperfect Actor Community!  Are you ready to stop feeling stressed AF about your acting career? Do you want to st...2019-11-1420 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsNetworking: It Doesn't Have to SuckYou’re probably dope at acting. ….you might not be so dope at the biz side of things…..ya feel me?! I remember I used to hate networking - until I learned to see it differently. Today? I kinda like it :)  I think one of the reasons we hate networking is because we think we have to “propose on the first date.” Whereas instead, why not see this as the long game that it is and just go and make some connections - with no expectations in return?? This week, we’re talking ne...2019-11-0723 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhen Things Suck And You Don't Wanna Do The WorkWe've all been there. Sometimes we have days where we don't wanna show up and be an actor.  It's bad enough when you're just in a mood and don't feel like acting....it's worse when that mood lasts several days, or more. This week we're talking strategies to get out that that funk - or at least, to keep showing up even when you don't feel like it.   Starting Sunday November 10th! Are you ready to stop feeling stressed AF about your acting career? Do you want to...2019-10-3122 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhen Auditions and Self Tapes Make You Stressed AFSometimes we get so caught up in trying to be a perfect actor that we forget we’re allowed to be happy in the process. Or in some cases, we even put our happiness on hold because “we need to be an actor….” This week, we’ll discuss what to do when all those actor responsibilities fall on your plate at once, plus how to put things in perspective and consider the bigger picture.   Starting Sunday November 10th! Are you ready to stop feeling stressed AF about your acting career? Do you want to...2019-10-2421 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsActing Goal Seems Far Away? Try This ApproachKnow that feeling when you want to book a gig - a really big gig - and it just seems really far away? There maybe some benefits toward going after them that you haven’t even considered. And yes - this applies whether or not you’re ready.   Starting SUNDAY October 20th!  Are you ready to stop feeling stressed AF about your acting career? Do you want to start feeling happy as an artist before you quit your day job? Would you like some coaching for stupid cheap...2019-10-1023 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsActors Deserve Help Too - 3 Reasons to Start AskingHey….need some help?  (Hint: The answer is yes.)  And there may be some reasons you really need to start asking for help that you haven’t considered. Let’s talk about it... Also...ANNOUNCEMENT:  Are you ready to stop feeling stressed AF about your acting career? Do you want to start feeling happy as an artist before you quit your day job? Would you like some coaching for stupid cheap on all those things??  Introducing the #NotPerfect Actor Community!  $10/month: Basic membership: Facebook group, all calls and b...2019-10-0329 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow to be a Practical Actor - with Guest Tony GarciaToday’s interview is with working actor, Jose Tony Garcia (who likes to go by Tony). He is an American actor working in theatre, television, and film. Born in New Haven, CT, he studied Theatre and got his BFA from the University of Connecticut and his MFA from Indiana University. He also works as an extras casting assistant with 4 Star Casting, and has a workshop, “The Practical Actor,” which he does regularly. He resides in Chicago with his wife Sarah and their dog Zorra, and is represented by Stewart Talent Chicago.     Tony Gar...2019-09-261h 14Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow High Standards Can Help Your Career (Pt 2)In part two of this series, we're talking #dayjobproblems - how having high standards can actually land you a better day job. I'll share my experience of 9 years of day jobs in Chicago, some of my rock bottoms, and how to know when it's time to get out. We'll also discuss what to do to make sure you don't land in a similar rough job in the future.    Next actor self care workshop:  #ActorProblems: How to Be a Thriving Artist in a Stressful AF Industry  Where: Actor’s Club Chicago...2019-09-1930 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow High Standards Can Help Your Career (Pt. 1)Actors get to have high standards too. In this first part of a two part series, I'll share how having high standards helped me out with a big thing in my personal life - which in turn, helps out my acting career. Stay tuned for part two next week!    Upcoming actor self care workshops:   #ActorProblems: Why You’re Stressed AF (And What To Do About It)  Date: Thursday, September 19th @ 7:30pm  Location: The Boxcar, 1115 W Berwyn Ave, Chicago, IL 60640 (two doors east of the Berwy...2019-09-1227 minActor ProblemsActor Problems2 Reasons You're Not Getting the Acting Results You WantHave you ever been super frustrated that you're not getting the acting results you want?  This week I'm coming to you live....from my day job. And you'll hear some specific examples of why we as actors might not be seeing those wins that we desperately want.    NOTE: Please pardon the audio quality this week...#dayjobproblems   Upcoming actor self care workshops: #ActorProblems: Why You’re Stressed AF (And What To Do About It)  Date: Thursday, September 19th @ 7:30pm  Location: The Boxcar, 1115 W Berwyn Ave, Chi...2019-09-0519 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsActor Perfectionism: Can It Help??Get good headshots. Always be in class. Make sure to network. Don't mess up your audition..... There's a lot of talk in the acting industry on what you can and can't do. And if you're a human being with emotions and feelings....you might find yourself trying to do everything "perfectly." Is there actually a time and place to be perfect? Let's talk about it!    Upcoming actor self care workshops:  Tuesday September 3rd, 6:30pm Artist Management: Playing the Long Game  Next Door Chicago, 659 W Diversey Chic...2019-08-2926 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsAgents, Casting Directors, & Being a Happy Actor - with Clare CooneyToday's podcast is an interview with Clare Cooney.   She's an actor, filmmaker, casting director and editor. Clare directed, wrote, & stars in RUNNER, a short film that played at 15 film festivals, winning 6 awards, and she is a "Filmmaker to Watch" nominee from the Academy-Qualifying Atlanta Film Fest. She has appeared in numerous film and television projects, including the feature film WIDOWS, directed by Steve McQueen, NBC's CHICAGO PD, Netflix's HOT DATE, and the Chicago features SOUL SESSIONS and RENDEZVOUS IN CHICAGO. She is also the Artistic Director of Elevated Films Chicago, a nonprofit that screens independent f...2019-08-221h 01Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhy Actors Need Therapy (Plus One Exception)Actors are emotional creatures. It makes the good times reeeeeally good....and the bad? Need I explain? In this episode, I'll share why I believe all actors need therapy - plus one reason you *might* be okay without it. Stick around til the end and you'll hear a gem that my own therapist shared with me - super relevant for actors.   Want to start winning your day? (FREE GIFT)  Acting is stressful enough. It’s time to stack the odds in your favor Head on over to www...2019-08-1523 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsUse This Trick for Actor SetbacksFrustrated with rejection? Sick of seeing your peers book more work than you? This episode is for you.  Want to start winning your day? (FREE GIFT)  Acting is stressful enough. It’s time to stack the odds in your favor Head on over to www.tonyrossicoaching.com and sign up for the self care email newsletter. When you do, you’ll get an email back with a link to listen to a free audio, How to Win the Day.  Through my own self care routine, I’ve identified three ways you...2019-08-0820 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsActor Rejection - Let's Talk About ItEver gotten so upset from an audition rejection you just felt broken and defeated??  That's how I felt after this one particular audition that happened several years ago. This week, I'll share what happened, why it was such a big deal that I book it, and something to consider the next time you *don't* book a gig. PS - Want to come to a free workshop on handling rejection? Come to Next Door Chicago on Monday August 5th at 6:30pm!    Want to start winning your day? (FREE GIFT)  Ac...2019-08-0118 minActor ProblemsActor Problems1 Thing That Might Be Crippling Your Acting CareerActors. We have a problem.  This journey is hard AF - and we might be making it harder on ourselves... Episode #70 now available.    Want to start winning your day? (FREE GIFT)  Acting is stressful enough. It’s time to stack the odds in your favor Head on over to www.tonyrossicoaching.com and sign up for the self care email newsletter. When you do, you’ll get an email back with a link to listen to a free audio, How to Win the Day.  Through my own self...2019-07-2514 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsREPLAY: How to Be Bulletproof - Even Through HarshipThis podcast is a replay from episode number 34. We'll be back with new episodes shortly!  -Tony    Ross Grant is #notperfect. He’ll always admit that part. But what he’s especially vulnerable is how he spent his early 20s - drinking, going into work hungover, and hoping one day he’d just “make it” as an actor…. Fast forward to today: The guy runs an online acting community called Act on This TV with TON of hours of interviews with actors, agents, casting directors, and other receognizable names all across the UK e...2019-07-181h 17Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow I Got My Agent - a Story of RejectionIt took eight years. It was a super unconventional route.  Whether you're an actor looking for an agent, or are having trouble with the copious amounts of rejection - this episode is for you.  Want to start winning your day? (FREE GIFT)  Acting is stressful enough. It’s time to stack the odds in your favor Head on over to www.tonyrossicoaching.com and sign up for the self care email newsletter. When you do, you’ll get an email back with a link to listen to a free audio...2019-07-1128 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsAn Actor Technique to Help with Challenging PeopleHAPPY FOURTH! Are you seeing a plethora of social media posts talk about how unhappy people are with our country?? I'm breaking my rule - I'm sharing some thoughts about politics this week. I'm also sharing how this acting technique - that we've all heard about - can help us stop being so stressed AF as humans....and maybe help us be better artists too. It's all on episode #68 of the Tony Rossi Show. Want to start winning your day? (FREE GIFT)  Acting is stressful enough. It’s time to st...2019-07-0415 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThoughts from a Casting Director - with Sarah Clark"Don't give us a reason to say no." - Sarah Clark, Chicago casting director.  Sarah has worked in the industry for nine years. Casting is her bread and butter, but she's also an Emmy Nominated producer and professional screenwriter. She’s been lucky to work on films like AUGUST OSAGE COUNTY, TO THE WONDER, RUDDERLESS, and many many more. Sarah has seen thousands of actors for hundreds of commercials with clients like NIKE, CORONA, HONDA, and hundreds more. Sarah works hard to make sure actors feel safe and clients feel heard. When she's not casting, she...2019-06-271h 00Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsActor's Guilt: It's a ThingHey acting friends :) Think about that one area of your career that you’ve been putting off improving in. You know the one. (If you’re like me, you have more than one…#notperfect). Now stop. How are you feeling? If the answer is “I FEEL SO GUILTY RIGHT NOW, WTF??”....then you’re my people. I was texting with a friend recently and I realized that we both were feeling guilty about neglecting a particular area of our career. It wasn’t fun for either of us. But GOOD NEWS - yo...2019-06-2019 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsI cried at Starbucks this week. Here’s what I learned.Have you ever cried for no reason at all? I did. This past week. ...until I realized, “OH. That’s why…” Actors are emotional. We don’t always know we’re in a bad mood until we’re hit with (what feels like) a wave of negative energy. And suddenly, we’re like, “Where the hell did this come from?!” This is why it’s so important to a) stay in tune with our feelings, and b) learn to recognize where those feelings are coming from. It’s not easy work. (In fact, it’s one of the...2019-06-1318 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhy Actors Should Learn to Love RejectionQuestion: How are we as actors supposed to be sane and positive when facing rejection all the time?  Second question: How are we supposed to do the same when we're getting rejected from even auditioning? Or rejected from getting an agent to get those auditions? HOW?!  First off - please stop shouting. Second - I got you. This week I share a very personal story of when I got rejected twice during my college journey: First time from my top choice university. Second time at my backup university. (Yeah. It really sucked.) Here...2019-06-0622 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow We Set Ourselves Up To Fail As ActorsIf you’ve read the first article I’ve ever written for Backstage.com you know that I once embarrassed myself at a charity event: I didn’t think I fit in. I told one of the volunteers who asked “So, who do you do?” that I was in the restaurant industry. Because I didn’t even think that I could call myself an actor if I wasn’t earning  a full time living as one. Today's episode is for any actor who thinks that "I can't call myself an actor" unless I have something shiny to show for it. 2019-05-3026 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhy Hardship is Really a Blessing In DisguiseIf you’re an actor with a day job, I’m guessing you’re a hard worker. I’m also guessing that sometimes - juuuuuust sometimes - you need a good kick in the rear to work on your acting goals….you know, the ones you keep putting off. (Yes. That one.) Meet Sain-R Edwards, Jr. A member of the US Coast Guard, father of four, who somehow balances a work life/family life - despite living in a different time zone from them. In this episode, we’ll discuss the importance of morning routines, why self hel...2019-05-2354 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThe Unfair Game of Being an ActorHave you ever thought this "acting thing" is unfair? The way this industry works can be really unfair - but does that mean we have to be miserable because of it? This week's episode gives a different perspective of how to view this "unfair game of acting." #notperfect #stillenough    This podcast was based off my latest article for Backstage.com. Full article can be read HERE    Wanna chat with me?  Use this link here to schedule a free one on one.  NOTE...2019-05-1631 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsMental Health Maintenance and Structured Time Off - with actor Aneisa HicksIt's okay. You're allowed AND encouraged to take breaks from the "acting thing."   Just like what our special guest is doing. Like, right now. Aneisa is from Asbury Park NJ who's been slowly making her way west since. She started out with a 20 year plan of going into the armed forces, getting a degree in psychology and, helping troops with ptsd but, ended up on stages telling stories instead; hopefully creating spaces for the audience to heal in different ways. Currently on a break from the stage to give herself some space but, you can catch her whipping up her o...2019-05-091h 13Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsHandling Rejection and Playing the Long Game - with Playwright & Director Spenser Davis Why you can relax about your next audition… Why it’s okay that you didn’t book your *last* audition…. What to remember when you JUST CAN’T How to get to know those important decision makers - without being salesy or annoying ;) This week, we’re talking to Spenser Davis, Director of Programming for Broken Nose Theatre. He’ll share a bunch of “sigh of relief” gems for actors, plus some of his own challenges he’s had transitioning from actor to director & playwright. It’s all on episode #59 of the Tony Rossi Show. Wanna chat with me? (F...2019-05-021h 01Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsDealing with Day Jobs and Gremlin Voices - with Life Coach & Actor Courtney RiouxWhy should you see a life coach instead of a therapist? Why should you work on your insecurities about yourself before transitioning to a new job? What should you know about some of those actors recurring on TV - that you might not know about them already? ….we’re talking ALL of this with Courtney Rioux on episode #58 of the Tony Rossi Show. Courtney Rioux is an actor, author, and coach based in Chicago. As an actor, you may have seen her as paramedic Courtney on Chicago Med, the “Hot Shot Mom,”...2019-04-2557 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsAvoiding Burnout and Practicing Patience - with Kelly PiliourasUs actors are SO darn excited sometimes… We get out of college. We move to a big city. We start auditioning left and right. We are SO EXCITED BECAUSE #ACTING! ... and then we get tired. We burn out. We constantly tell our friends that we can’t see their show because, “Sorry!.....but #brokeactorproblems.” Most actors don’t resonate with the word “patience” - which is what makes Kelly Piliouras stand out. Hailing from Michigan, she decided to move to Chicago before moving cross country to LA. Once she got there, she made sure...2019-04-1850 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsTaking Action and Pursuing Acting Excellence - with Leigh FosterLeigh Foster is a working Chicago actor. He's been a guest star on Chicago Med. He's recurred on Chicago Fire. You've seen him on Empire, commercials, and print ads. And as of early 2015 - he had never been on a TV show. Having no acting degree, Leigh took it upon himself to "pursue acting excellence." He's also shared with us many parts of his journey on his popular podcast, Action: The Pursuit of Acting Excellence. This week, we'll discuss why he started his podcast, what he did to become "acting smart,"a...2019-04-111h 12Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsHey Actors - Let’s Believe In The ImpossibleIt’s a little TOO easy to focus on the negatives in our acting careers...And when we focus on the negatives, we find more of them. And more... So let's switch that. I'm sharing three crazy stories that are so crazy they feel like magic. By listening to these stories, you're giving yourself a better chance of expecting better things to happen to you. Which - you deserve. It's all on episode #55 on the Tony Rossi Show. Shoutout to our sponsor, Audible! Listen to the bo...2019-04-0420 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWarning: You'll probably do this as an actorWARNING FOR ACTORS: Don’t do this. Please don’t. Like, for real. It’s toxic. You’ll regret it. It never feels good. ...but sometimes, despite knowing alllllll of this…. we’ll do it anyway. It’s okay. Don’t beat yourself up.. As someone who studies hours upon hours of self care principles- I still do it. In fact - I did it last week. Today’s podcast covers what this toxic thing is, plus a crucial element that can help all actors when we do inevitably fall victim to it...2019-03-2815 minActor ProblemsActor Problems3 Inspiring Quotes From Three Inspiring WomenWe celebrated my birthday. We celebrated St. Patrick’s Day. It’s time to celebrate Women’s History month. Looking at the list of mentors in my life - a lot of them are women. Here are three who have helped me immensely, plus three things you’re going to want to write down to remember the next time you’re super stressed :) It’s all on episode #53 of the Tony Rossi Show.   Wanna chat with me for free? Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter h...2019-03-2122 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsDrink!....Or Don’t: Defining Your Unique ValuesEverybody….DRINK! “....um, do I have to?” No. “But - I want to! Is that okay?” If you’re 21 - yes. “Actually….I feel guilty. Is it wrong that I enjoy drinking?”   As someone who didn’t start drinking until college (listen to the episode to find out when in college this was) - I have a lot of thoughts on this topic. At the end of last year, I took a three month break from drinking. I discovered a few things about myself... Whether you’re a dr...2019-03-1434 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsBIRTHDAY EDITION! Embrace Getting Older - Even If You're "Not There Yet..."It’s my birthday! I did a special edition, live on facebook and instagram, all about how I’m not where I thought I’d be at this point in my life…. I love setting goals. I bet you do too. But what happens when we don’t hit them by the time we thought we should?? I get reeeeeeally vulnerable with some #notperfect stories this episode and share what didn’t happen for me - plus some perspectives for you to use if you ever go through this “Why is this taking so long?” pers...2019-03-0725 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThe Comparison Trap: Why You Don’t Actually Suck.Have you ever felt like you weren’t as far as you should be in your acting career? While I always catch myself doing this to a certain degree, I remember it being really bad three years ago…. I was watching the 2016 Tony Awards. And I saw someone I knew. (In Hamilton….) CUE THE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS… What’s wrong with me? Why am I not getting results?? But you don’t need to know someone in Hamilton to start comparing yourself to your peers. This week we’re going debun...2019-02-2800 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsLife Has Seasons: 3 Tips for Getting Through Tough OnesIt’s hard enough when you’re having a go-through and everything sucks. It’s extra hard when that go-through overstays its welcome. It’s like winter in Chicago: November is meh. December is extra meh (easier with Christmas). January is rough. February…..we  Google rent prices in Atlanta. I’m in the midst of a go-through - and it’s HARDER with the cold weather ;) This week I’ll share with you exactly what’s been going on, plus three tips I recommend the next time you have your own go-through. ...2019-02-2027 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThe Beautiful Gifts Actors and Single People Have to OfferNot getting the results you want in your acting career? I can relate. In more ways than just acting. On this Valentine’s Day, I want to share a message of love. More specifically, times when I didn’t receive love. When I reeeeeeally wanted it…. ...and yet - my story, as #notperfect as it is - still has a happy ending. Even as a single guy.  Listen to the full episode and I’ll share with you some mindset shifts, plus why you might not be getting the results you want. 2019-02-1430 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsFinding Gratitude When It's Stupid Cold OutsideNeed I say more? Some backstory: Five years ago, I experienced my first polar vortex. I was also going through a rough time at work. Between the two, I felt pretty defeated... Not. This. Year. I'm five years into my personal development journey. I've learned a few things that help me stay positive during not-so-positive times (aka....when it's stupid cold outside....) We'll talk strategies to stay sane and positive, regardless of the weather or other life conditions.    I have a gift for you…. Speaking of l...2019-01-3123 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHate Your Job? Try These 3 TricksI thought I was going to that dark place again…. I was at a day job. There were tons of people. I started getting stressed. And cranky. And mad. And WHY do I still work these jobs again?? And, and, and….. “….STOP.” That was the the voice that came to me when I was about to really go down the negative chatter rabbit hole. Whether you’re in at a day job, got sucked into a place you don’t want to go, or are just having a bad day - try using thes...2019-01-2431 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsDealing With Bullshit That Isn't Your FaultYou know that feeling when others are making a mess, and yet you are the one cleaning it up? If they're under the age of five....usually you'll let that slide. (Maybe.)  But otherwise, it's easy to let it drain your energy. You know, that energy you NEED to get through the day... This week, I'm sharing a personal challenge (which I juuuuuust learned I don't enjoy sharing publically), plus some takeaways. It's all on episode #43.....   ANNOUNCEMENT:  I'm giving away a limited amount of one on one coach...2019-01-1020 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsRemember This One Thing To Win in 2019I spent the holidays alone.  And it taught me a BIG lesson - one that I probably wouldn't have learned otherwise. What this week's episode entails:  A breakdown of how I handle challenging moments  A focus on focusing on what's in our control Why we find more of what we're looking for (good or bad) My biggest wish for you in 2019   Notes and things…   The #NotPerfect Family: The #notperfect Family gets you on the phone with me and the rest of my #notperfect-ers twice a month...2018-12-2724 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsHow to Talk to Family About Your Acting CareerIt's almost the holidays.... Which means the inevitable question is about to pop up:  “So….how’s that acting thing going?” We love our families. We don’t always love talking to them. Or maybe you DO love talking to your family because they’re supportive….but what about your coworkers who want to know... “So what have I seen you in before?” This episode, I'll dissect:  Why we get asked these questions What to remember to help you stress out less  Some empowering statements to remember about yourse...2018-12-2026 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsI Lost My Health Insurance. Here's What I LearnedI got the worst news at the worst possible time. I wanted to scream. Right there, in the doctor’s office. This week, I’ll walk you through what happened, step by step. Then I’ll share three takeaways to help you the next time you’re in a shitty situation...and hopefully it’ll make it less shitty. Notes and things…   The #NotPerfect Family: The #notperfect Family gets you on the phone with me and the rest of my #notperfect-ers twice a month. You'll get exclusive...2018-12-1323 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsMy Strategy to Better Enjoy the HolidaysIT'S CHRISTMAS! The thing about the holidays is that everybody seems to be happy. But what if you’re not? What if you had high expectations and things didn’t go as planned? Or what if this year you’re just not feeling it? This week I’m going to share with you a personal story about one holiday that didn’t go as well as I hope. I’m also going to go into my morning routine and a process that really helps set me up for any potential pitfalls that might put me in a funk. I...2018-12-0622 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsIf You’re Broke AF, You Need To Hear ThisYou have big goals. You obviously want these goals to happen. BUT - are you actually the type of person who believes that this is possible? Like, do you really and truly believe that money is abundant and that YOU can make it? Like, a loooot of it? Because you can. And you should. Buuuuut...you’re not going to with the mindset you have right now (Sorry, sorry...) Let me share a few examples. It’s all in this week’s episode of the Tony Rossi Show.  2018-11-2919 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsUnhappy or Stuck? Try These 3 ThingsThere's a lot of us who want and deserve a different life than the one we're getting. And what kills me is that many of us aren't taking action to make that life happen.  This week is pure tough love, plus motivation. It's followed by three action steps you can take toward reaching that life.   Notes and things… The #NotPerfect Family: The #notperfect Family gets you on the phone with me and the rest of my #notperfect-ers twice a month. You'll get exclusive content just for being in the group, plus acce...2018-11-1520 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhat We All Forget About Embarrassing Moments  I think sometimes we think the world is out to get us.  Which is silly. Y'all - the world only hates us if we tell ourselves that story, then look for evidence for it to be true. Say it with me: It's. Not. True. What is true is that there's a lot of people in the world who truly want to connect with us. The trick? We have to let them connect with us. Unfortunately, many of us have a wall up that prevents others from getting anywhere remotely close!  Th...2018-10-1124 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsNoise: The Reason You're Not Reaching Your GoalsWhat do shitty politicians, that one casting director who won't call you in, and all your haters have in common?  They're stopping you from reaching your goals.  ....except it's not their fault. It's yours.  We all have a choice where we focus our energy. Are you focusing on the task....or are you looking at the noise?    Wanna get on my email list? I’ll give you links to some positive stuff I’m listening to, plus all of my weekly video and podcast content so you can grab it in one p...2018-09-2735 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhy Failure Isn't A Bad Thing - With Guest Bobby WilhelmsonToday’s podcast is an interview with Chicago actor and fitness trainer Bobby Wilhelmson. Bobby has been focusing on self care and improvement for the last 5 years and now wants to pay it forward by helping out anybody that needs it. Along with his wife, Jessi, he continues to stay motivated and hungry by applying what he's learned about health and fitness into his career as an actor. Ideas such as mindfulness, process-oriented mindsets, and investing in people has already started to get him results after just living 6 months in Chicago. More information about Bobby can be fo...2018-09-2053 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsMoney, Marriage and Medicine - Why They Won't Make You Happy I just need that one big paycheck. I just want a boyfriend.  I just need that one, big juicy spthingseaking role on television.  I'm not saying those things aren't nice, nor am I saying that they won't be helpful. What I am going to say to you this week is this: You need more than just "one thing" in order to be happy.   Links and things...   Books “Why You’re Not Married” - Tracy McMillian “Don’t Get Lucky Get Smart” - Alan Cohen Note - this is only $...2018-09-1326 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThe First Ever Tony Rossi Show LIVE!  The following was recorded at Vagabond School of the Arts on Monday September 4th, 2018. My cohost was the wonderful Kelsey Mathes     NEWS! The #notperfect Family is now accepting new members! DISCOUNT CODE: Use the code TONYROCKS to join at a discounted rate of $27 a month. (Expires Saturday 9/8) What is the not perfect family?? The #notperfect Family is a monthly membership group.  You’ll have access to me, other #notperfect family members, and exclusive monthly content that I won’t...2018-09-061h 05Actor ProblemsActor ProblemsAn interview with Kelsey MathesStop me if you HATE being told… Eat healthy You need to meditate Do you have any idea how much sugar that has?! Or my favorite…. You’re going to get sick if you keep getting this stressed out over everything. ...sorry if I just made your stomach turn with all of those statements. I know how frustrating it can be hearing them. I used to be a rebel against any of this advice. I heard conventional advice about being healthy and stressing less….but none of made me want to actually do anything...2018-08-3051 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsWhat Does "Getting In Your Own Way" Even Mean?Have you ever heard a self care guru say, “Stop getting in your own way” ? And has that ever irked you - not because of them, but because you want to know HOW you’re getting in your own way? Yeah. Me too. So this week, allow me to share a very #notperfect story (involving a Starbucks barista) that is a PRIME example of me getting in my own way…. Things to expect in this week’s episode: I realized while recording that I made a VERY #notperfect error while typing the...2018-08-2334 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThe Fears I Have When Others Think Things Are "Going So Well For You!"LISTEN TIL THE END BECAUSE I GOT SUCH A GOOD SURPRISE FOR Y'ALL!  ...or just click the link here to find out now:  https://www.facebook.com/events/281434719313818/ Today's episode:  Is it just me - or is it REALLY uncomfortable to get compliments in praise based on one area of your life, when you know there are six or seven other areas of your life that are, like, more than #notperfecty?? Even with our mentors, we see them as more financially stable than us - but do we kno...2018-08-1633 minActor ProblemsActor ProblemsThe Tony Rossi ShowIf you're sick of waiting for your career to move forward to be happier - you're in the right place, my friends.    For more - check out my links:    Blog: www.tonyinchicago.wordpress.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching Instagram: www.instagram.com/tony.rossi Twitter: www.twitter.com/_tonyrossi2018-04-1211 min