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TILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenA Conversation with Toscha Shore about Addressing Aggression in BoysToday, we’re talking about aggression, specifically in boys, and how we as parents can respond with understanding, connection, and compassion instead of fear or shaming. Joining me is Tosha Schore, a powerful voice in peaceful parenting and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully. Tosha is also the creator of the Out With Aggression program and co-author of Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges. She’s spent decades helping parents shift the way they relate to their kids, especially when big behaviors show up.In our conversation, Tosha and I got...2025-05-0649 minTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenA Conversation with Tosha Schore about Addressing Aggression in BoysToday, we’re talking about aggression, specifically in boys, and how we as parents can respond with understanding, connection, and compassion instead of fear or shaming. Joining me is Tosha Schore, a powerful voice in peaceful parenting and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully. Tosha is also the creator of the Out With Aggression program and co-author of Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges. She’s spent decades helping parents shift the way they relate to their kids, especially when big behaviors show up.In our conversation, Tosha and I got...2025-05-0649 min
Delight in Parenting with Dajana Yoakley53. Building Bridges: Raising Emotionally Connected BoysIn our latest podcast episode, "Building Bridges: Raising Emotionally Connected Boys," I tackle one of the most pressing challenges parents face today – how to reach our sons when they seem increasingly distant and disconnected.As a mom of three (including two boys), I've experienced firsthand the struggle to maintain connection with sons who are bombarded with confusing messages about masculinity, emotions, and identity.This episode isn't just theory – it's practical wisdom born from both professional expertise and real parenting trenches.You'll discover:* Why so many boys are emotionally shutting down in toda...2025-04-2514 min
Authentic ParentingRaising Emotionally Aware Boys Who Turn into Strong Men with Tosha SchoreFormer podcast guest, author of Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges Tosha Schore on how we can help boys develop healthy communication skills and learn emotional intelligence. Creating safe spaces for boys to express themselves without fear of judgment. Challenging stereotypes and normalizing diverse emotions. Modeling emotional intelligence in everyday moments. The importance of emotional work for parents. Understanding your child’s emotional style and respecting boundaries. Practicing self-reflection to improve emotional parenting. Discussing emotional labor in parenting and supporting each other. LINKS AND RESOURCES Support the podcast by making a donation (sug...2025-04-0747 min
Читателски клуб Детето и ниеListen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges - Мария ГригороваListen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges - Patty Wipfler and Tosha Schore2025-01-1517 min
Been There Got Out PodcastNavigating Aggressive Behavior in Kids with Love & LimitsDiscover compassionate strategies to address childhood aggression with Tosha Schore, founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully. This episode promises to equip you with effective techniques to handle aggressive behavior in children while reassuring you that such behavior is common and not a sign of poor parenting. Tosha shares her holistic approach, which includes self-care for parents, deep connections with children, loving limits, and playful activities that can transform your family dynamics.We also tackle the tricky terrain of parenting teenagers, including setting boundaries around technology and dealing with emotional withdrawal. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of maintaining a...2024-11-1232 min
The Child Psych PodcastPlay as a Tool in your Discipline Toolbox with Tosha Schore, Episode #96This podcast episode is for every parent of a young child who doesn't want to always resort to yelling or time-outs as a discpline strategy. Tosha and Tammy walk through the power of play, connection, and laughter even during the most challenging of moments!Tosha Schore, M.A., brings a burst of energy and optimism to parenting. She is an expert at simple solutions to what feel like overwhelmingly complicated problems. A sought after coach, author, educator, and speaker, Schore is committed to creating lasting change in families and in the world by supporting parents to care f...2024-09-0437 min
No Guilt Mom | Overcoming Mom Guilt, Parenting Tips, & Self Care for MomsBONUS REWIND: How to Connect with Your Son: Small Changes to Make with Tosha SchoreIn this BONUS REWIND, we welcome Tosha Shore, a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she’s on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. I am also co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges,” which has been translated into five languages! Together we dive into a lively discussion of the differences we’ve experienced parenting boys vs. girls, how societal expectations lead boys down a different emotional path than girls, how we can best support our boys to be emo...2024-08-2843 min
Enlightening MotherhoodEp130 - Raising Emotionally Healthy Boys: Challenges Moms Face ~ with Tosha Schore"Connection is not something that children earn; connection is something that they need. It's their emotional food."
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Are you feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of raising boys with big emotions? Join us as we dive into practical solutions with Tasha Shore, founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully. Discover how to address behaviors like aggression and screaming, and learn the crucial steps to support your child's emotional health. Whether you’re parenting boys or girls, this episode offers valuable insights for fostering a peaceful and emotionally intelligent family environment.
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Evolving Together with Christine L’Abbé: Beyond the diagnosis: into a new realm of possibilitiesTransforming Aggression: Tosha Schore on Raising Compassionate Boys Through Love and Connection In this heart-opening episode of Evolving Together with Christine L’Abbé, we sit down with Tosha Schore, a renowned parent coach, author, and advocate for boys. Tosha is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time, by helping parents raise emotionally intelligent and connected sons. As the author of Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges, Tosha offers practical, compassionate guidance to parents navigating the complexities of raising boys in today's world. We dive deep into her personal journey, from advocating for women's empowerment to becoming a cham...2024-08-211h 00
The Heartful Parent PodcastEp 80 | Parenting Boys Peacefully with Tosha SchoreAs summer winds down, I hope you're settling into the new school year with ease, whether your kids are already back in class or you're soaking up the last few weeks of summer. After a break, I'm thrilled to kick off the fall season with some amazing guests and content that you've come to expect from the Heartful Parent Podcast. Our guest today is Tosha Schore, the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully. If you’re parenting girls, don’t tune out! Tosha’s insights are universal and relevant, regardless of your child’s gender. The way boys are rais...2024-08-2047 min
The Peaceful Parenting PodcastWhen Your Child is Aggressive with Tosha Schore: Episode 96aThis is a re-release of one of our favourite episodes: Tosha Schore joins me to talk about what to do when your child is aggressive. Most of us have been there – kids fighting over toys, hitting, sibling rivalry, or anger that seems to come out of nowhere. How do you handle it? Is there an effective way to deal with it? Tosha is mom to three boys and an advocate for boys and their families. She is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time by su...2024-08-1957 minBeen There Got Out PodcastTransforming Aggression Into Healthy Expression for BoysNavigating the stormy seas of raising boys through divorce and aggression can feel overwhelming, but Tosha Schore from Parenting Boys Peacefully joins us to chart a course toward calmer waters. Our latest episode unpacks the "boys will be boys" mentality, revealing how it hinders our ability to see through to the heart of our sons' struggles. Tosha's expertise shines as we dissect the importance of establishing loving limits and the profound ripple effect parental behavior has on a child's future relationships. We also dive into the complexities of co-parenting, where values may clash, highlighting strategies for maintaining consistency and...2024-08-0129 min
Spirited Hearts the podcast62. The Power of Listening Partnerships on Your Parenting Journey with Belynda SmithSend us a textI am excited to introduce you to Belynda Smith, an Aware Parenting Instructor, Hand-in-Hand Instructor, book lover and Mum of 2 boys.In this episode Belynda shares her journey into books and parenting, and the biggest things that have helped her on her journey.We then discuss:- moving into accepting feelings in children- how listening partnerships changed our parenting- how to start listening partnerships- how listening partnerships support us to become better parents- plus so much moreWhere to...2024-07-141h 06
Delight in Parenting with Dajana Yoakley9. Big Feelings and Aggressive BehaviorDoes your child struggle with big feelings, aggressive or challenging behavior, and big explosive outbursts? In this important podcast episode, I am absolutely thrilled to present a deep dive conversation with Tosha Shore, the co-author of Listen and a respected figure in child behavior management. 📚Together, we explore the often misunderstood topic of aggression in children and unpack the strategies that can transform challenging behaviors into opportunities for growth and connection.🔍 In This Episode, Discover:* The root causes of aggression in children, often linked to fear and anxiety, and how parents can ef...2024-05-0236 min
Healthy Parenting Handbook with Katie Kimball017: Discipline With No Punishment at All! (Especially for Parents of Aggressive Boys!) with Tosha SchoreI used Tosha's tips the very DAY we recorded this interview, and I have to tell you -- they work. So well.Once you hear about her strategy for reducing frustration and nipping "negative spirals" in the bud, you'll know why when my husband spent a ton of time hanging with our then-5-year-old, Gabe, over Christmas break, he said:"You know, Gabe has had a really good break. He hasn't been having any tantrums or behavior issues at ALL. And I'm really treasuring my time with him...he...2024-04-1640 min
Make it a Great One with Dr. DanParenting Boys Peacefully with Tosha SchoreDr. Dan welcomes back guest Tosha Schore to talk about parenting boys. Tosha is an advocate who works with parents to care for themselves, connect with their boys deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly. Today’s episode is a follow-up episode to Tosha’s important work (featured in our episode in December 2018) advocating for boys. Tosha Schore is a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one boy at a time. She is the co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet...2024-04-041h 00
The ReProgramAll Things Aggression with Tosha SchoreToday on the podcast we are going deep into aggression and how to support our children when their behavior manifests as such. Tosha deeply understands the neuroscience of safety, and how we can provide the felt experience first in our bodies and then in our relationship with our child.
This episode provides insights, empathy and many ideas that you can start to implement today for your sweet child who is struggling with aggression.
Tosha is a parent coach, mom, author and runs her program Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she has...2024-02-2854 min
Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto19: Tosha Schore and Stephanie: Aggression in Boys.Do you have a boy with big emotions, who lashes out, screams, hits, melts down, or uses aggressive behaviours? If you haven't encountered Tosha Schore from Parenting Boys Peacefully - you are meant to have found this episode today! Tosha is a visionary for changing how we see and parent our boys, particularly those who are described as disruptive, difficult or challenging.She shares the 3 things you NEED to understand if your child is struggling with aggression. We spoke about how aggression is genuinely fear in disguise and the mistakes parents make when dealing...2024-02-2534 min
The Child Psych PodcastAggression & Boys with Tosha Shore, Episode #68Whether you have a boy who is struggling with meltdowns in public, is physically aggressive when things don’t go their way (hits, kicks, throws things) or screams at the smallest request, you may feel completely lost in how to manage such behaviours without becoming aggressive or frustrated yourself.In this inspiring and practical podcast, Tosha Schore, best-selling Author, and parent coach, will talk you through how to use each of the 5 Tools from her book( co-authored with Patty Wipfler) “Listen” and apply them to working with aggression in our boys. As a result, you will not only see...2024-02-2142 min
That's Total Mom SenseCarrie & John Pacini: Marketing, Media, & Motherhood in the Digital AgeKanika interviews Mom 2.0 husband and wife duo John and Carrie Pacini on the genesis of the annual summit and community. During her live podcast with author, educator, and advocate Jen Hatmaker, they discuss her opening keynote which had everyone in the room feeling seen and understood as well as her podcast, For the Love, and cookbook, Feed These People. She also chatted with attendees Frenchi Ferenczi and Tosha Schore on building their thriving coaching businesses catering to women in business and parents raising mindful children. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices2024-02-1533 min
Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreBest Of - Top 5 Episodes of 2023 [434]2023 has been an amazing year on the podcast! What were the most-downloaded episodes? We will count them down from number 5 to number 1 on this episode with clips from each one. You’ll hear parts of these top 5 episodes:
Conscious Parenting Roadmap - Dr. Shefali [390]
[Mindful Parenting Coaching] How to Hold Space for Big Emotions [384]
Mindfulness For Busy Parents - Shonda Moralis [383]
How to help ADHD Kids - Seth Perler [386]
How To Handle Boys & Aggression - Tosha Schore [392]
If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear abou...2023-12-2642 min
Shameless Leadership823: Tosha Schore: A Feminist Model to Parenting Boys PeacefullyTosha Schore a Shameless Mom to three mostly grown sons (ages 16, 18, and 20), as well as a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. She is also co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges,” which has been translated into five languages. Tosha works with parents to care for themselves, connect with their boys deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly. She has been featured on Dr. Shefali’s Parenting Mastery Summit, GoZen’s Anger Transformation and Liste...2023-11-1549 minNo Guilt Mom | Overcoming Mom Guilt, Parenting Tips, & Self Care for MomsHow to Connect with Your Son: Small Changes to Make with Tosha SchoreIn this episode, we welcome Tosha Shore, a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she’s on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. I am also co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges,” which has been translated into five languages! Together we dive into a lively discussion of the differences we’ve experienced parenting boys vs. girls, how societal expectations lead boys down a different emotional path than girls, how we can best support our boys to be emotio...2023-11-0243 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 134: Parenting Young Boys with Difficult BehaviorsDoes your young boy exhibit behavior that has you in fear for his future, and what kind of man he will become? Parenting boys with difficult behaviors can be very challenging. What can we do now to reduce risks and aggression? Tosha Schore is a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. She is also co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges,” which has been translated into five languages. Tosha works with parents to care for t...2023-11-0132 min
Sage FamilyAggression with Tosha Shore“Limits are the thing parents struggle with the most and it’s one of the most important pieces of the puzzle. Until you feel confident and competent in your limit setting skills, it’s going to be really hard to help your child through aggressive behaviors.” Tosha Schore joins me in today’s episode about Aggression. Tosha is a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. We discuss boys, aggressive play, brains, fear, connection...2023-10-0347 min
That's Total Mom SenseMOM 2.0: Marketing, Media, & Motherhood in the Digital AgeKanika interviews Mom 2.0 husband and wife duo John and Carrie Pacini on the genesis of the annual summit and community. During her live podcast with author, educator, and advocate Jen Hatmaker, they discuss her opening keynote which had everyone in the room feeling seen and understood as well as her podcast, For the Love, and cookbook, Feed These People. She also chatted with attendees Frenchi Ferenczi and Tosha Schore on building their thriving coaching businesses catering to women in business and parents raising mindful children. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices2023-08-3135 min
Keep Calm Mother On! with Christy Thomas352. Parenting Boys with Tosha Schore12352. Parenting Boys Tosha Schore is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time by supporting you to care for yourself, connect with your boy deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly! She brings a burst of energy and optimism to parenting, and is an expert at simple solutions to what feel like overwhelmingly complicated problems. Through her online community and courses, Tosha helps break the isolation of modern parenting and lifts your confidence so you're better equipped to face the challenges of raising young boys. Tosha is the creator of all things Parenting Boys...2023-08-1839 min
The Exit Interview with Kim RittbergHow To Ask For That Raise With Crystal WareWe have a corporate superstar turned entrepreneur, Crystal Ware with advice on how to make more money and how to get a raise at work, using her experience as a lawyer, an entrepreneur, and an investor. After spending years in corporate America, she found the courage to leave her lucrative career and invest in herself. Along the way, she's learned so much about getting clear on your purpose, owning your worth, and living life on your own terms that she launched her own podcast, Get Clear with Crystal Ware to help other women get there faster and redefining what...2023-07-0534 min
The Bottom Line by Evolved FinanceTBL Episode 215: Tosha Schore - Founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully“I was so passionate about the changes that I was able to create in my own family, that I felt this call to be able to help other people do the same thing and then I realized that I could make money doing it.” This week, Parker chats with Tosha Schore about her financial journey. Tosha is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time by supporting her clients to care for themselves, connect with their boy(s) deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly! She brin...2023-06-0642 min
Dad Central: A Parenting Podcast To Reduce Stress & Build Confidence In Fatherhood#42 Why Your Loving Presence as Dad is Enough to Parent Boys PeacefullyJoin hosts Ed Gough and Drew Soleyn on The Dad Central Show as they sit down with Tosha Schore, the creator of Parenting Boys Peacefully. With a passion for building community and creating a safe space for dads to engage in parenting, Tosha shares her personal story and journey to working with fathers. The conversation delves into the two key areas of parenting boys peacefully: working on oneself and getting into "good enough" parenting shape. Tosha emphasizes the importance of taking care of one's own emotional well-being in order to be a better parent, and shares practical...2023-05-0854 min
The Danny Miranda Podcast#348: Joe Hudson – You Can Have Ambition And PeaceJoe Hudson is an executive coach. Joe has trained over 1,000 people across the country including executives and teams at Apple, Alphabet, SpaceX, HP, Automatic, Task Rabbit. He draws on his 20+ years as a meditator to help people gain new understanding.
In this conversation, we spoke about making friends with the voice in your head, how to transform, ambition & peace, conscious parenting, and much more.
(0:00) Intro
(3:41) Holding Onto Anger
(9:21) Starting “The Work”
(12:11) Trouble With The Body
(13:31) 10 Day Meditation Retreat
(18:15) The Voice In Your Head
(24:02) “We Only Get Angry Over Shit We Care About”
(25:49) *NSFW* Reacting To Angry Man On Plane
(31:27) The Joe...2023-04-281h 21
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Isabelle FILLIOZAT nous partage son expertise sur la PARENTALITE POSITIVE en s’appuyant sur les écris de Patty WIPFLER et Tosha SCHORE à travers les 5 outils pour déstresser et instaurer un nouveau climat à la maison.2023-04-0848 minThe Peaceful Parenting Podcast096: When Your Child is Aggressive with Tosha SchoreIn this episode, Tosha Schore joins me to talk about what to do when your child is aggressive. Most of us have been there – kids fighting over toys, hitting, sibling rivalry, or anger that seems to come out of nowhere. How do you handle it? Is there an effective way to deal with it? Tosha is mom to three boys and an advocate for boys and their families. She is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time by supporting you to care for your...2023-04-051h 00
Me N’ You - Vivre EnsembleS02E48 Isabelle Filliozat - "Ecoute, les outils indispensables pour se connecter à son enfant." -S02E48 Isabelle Filliozat - "Ecoute, les outils indispensables pour se connecter à son enfant." -
Aujourd’hui, nous allons parler de connexion, d’attention, d’écoute… autant d’ingrédients précieux pour un quotidien plus paisible en famille. Mais vous le savez, être parent, c’est aussi traverser des turbulences et se sentir parfois démuni face à des tempêtes émotionnelles de nos enfants. Pour parler parentalité et parentage (promis, on vous explique ce que c’est pendant l’épisode), nous sommes très très heureuses d’accueillir Isabelle Filliozat, qui est la référence en terme de parentalité pos...2023-03-1756 minMindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreHow To Handle Boys & Aggression - Tosha Schore [392]You’re watching your toddler or preschooler act aggressively, what do you do? It can be confusing and scary because you’re not modeling that behavior and we often don’t know how to respond. In this episode, Tosha Schore comes on to talk about boys and aggressive behavior. We talk about why it happens and what to do about it.If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it...2023-03-1455 min
Beautifully Complex210: What to Do When Your Child is Aggressive, with Tosha SchoreMany neurodivergent kids — including those with ADHD, autism, and anxiety — can be quite aggressive at home or at school. To cope with and improve aggressive behavior, you have to understand why it happens. In a global sense, the child doesn’t feel safe, and acknowledging this is a great place to start. Tosha Schore of Parenting Boys Peacefully is my guest on this episode. In her work with families, Tosha helps parents discover the root of the aggression and work to diffuse it. Listen in to learn the three things you must understand if your child (or student) is aggressive, common m...2023-02-2339 min
Tales From the Toolbox. Stories from Hand in Hand ParentingPlayful Limits: Nurturing cooperation with a smileIn this episode, join all five of the Tales from the Toolbox Team, Lara, Kelly, Stacy, Belynda and Alice, for a spirited conversation on how to set limits playfully. They share how this combination of two Hand in Hand Parenting tools, Playlistening and Setting Limits, is so powerful for bringing co-operation and joy.
If you want to learn about why playful limits are not permissive and how they actually help to dissipate the tensions that drive challenging behavior, whilst also bringing more laughter and joy then this is the episode for you!
You’ll hear mo...2022-12-1530 min
The Child Psych PodcastFive Empowering Parenting Tools with Patty Wipfler and Toscha Schore, Episode #9Patty Wipfler and Toscha Schore, authors of the incredible book "Listen: 5 Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges" explore five parenting tools that will foster connection, joy, emotional resiliency, self-compassion, and limit setting in your home. These tools are all beautifully simple, yet incredibly powerful. Irrespective of your child’s age, this is a parenting podcast you do not want to miss!Want to learn more from Patty & Tosha? Watch their workshop based on their best-selling book "Listen" Use code 5TOOLS30 to take 30% OFF! https://instituteofchildpsychology.com/product/five-simple-listening-tools-that-connect-heal/You can also watch this work...2022-12-1431 minTales From the Toolbox. Stories from Hand in Hand ParentingPlaylistening: How laughter brings us closer togetherIn this episode join Alice, Lara, Stacy and Belynda for a fun filled conversation about the Hand in Hand Parenting tool of Playlistening. We discuss how this tool is all about laughter and the amazing benefits that brings, from increased cooperation to less arguing and, most of all, an increased feeling of fun and connection in your family.
You’ll hear more about
The benefits of letting your child be the strong, powerful, competent one while you are a bumbling fool
How chasing the giggles helps your child heal from fears and other hurts
Why roughhousing is...2022-12-0836 minTales From the Toolbox. Stories from Hand in Hand ParentingSetting Limits: Saying no with warmth and connectionSetting Limits Introduction
In this episode join Belynda, Kelly, Lara and Alice for a thoughtful conversation about the Hand in Hand Parenting tool of Setting Limits. We share our own stories around how we’ve used it and report on some of the challenges we’ve had in our families with this useful and nuanced tool. We even manage to find the funny side of things... not always easy when our children dig in and seem like they are never going to cooperate!
You’ll hear more about
Why Setting Limits is so different within...2022-11-3040 min
Tales From the Toolbox. Stories from Hand in Hand ParentingListening Partnerships: The missing piece in the parent support puzzleIn this episode join Lara, Alice and Belynda for an earnest conversation about the Hand in Hand Parenting tool of Listening Partnerships. They share their adoration for this tool (again!), discuss how it has helped them and enthuse about how life changing it has been for them. You’ll hear more about:
What a Listening Partnership is and the guidelines that help to keep it a safe space
How a bright spot and refresher question are the perfect bookends for a Listening Partnership
How this tool sets Hand in Hand Parenting apart from anything else available in the pare...2022-11-2334 min
Tales From the Toolbox. Stories from Hand in Hand ParentingStaylistening: Holding space for all those big feelingsIn this episode, join the Toolbox team for a rich conversation about how they have learned to listen deeply to their children’s feelings and the impact this has had on their families.
Topics covered:
How Staylistening heals early hurts in quite dramatic ways
You can’t fake it - you need to respect your own bandwidth
How to build your own emotional capacity and how Listening Partnerships help
After a good dose of connection, children often reveal their underlying feelings
Naming feelings is best avoided
We don’t have to fix it
Stories about how bondin...2022-11-1646 min
Tales From the Toolbox. Stories from Hand in Hand ParentingSpecial Time: How 5 minutes can transform your dayIn this episode join Lara, Stacy, Belynda and Alice for a joyful and jubilant conversation on the Hand in Hand Parenting tool of Special Time. We share our children’s love of this tool, how it is structured in our approach, and why it is so powerful for impacting the trajectory of the parent-child relationship.
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Why we often start with Special Time when we share these tools with families
What Special Time feels like - for you (hint - sometimes hard!) and your child
How the Hand in Hand model of Spec...2022-11-0938 min
The Affiliate Guy with Matt McWilliams: Marketing Tips, Affiliate Management, & MoreAffiliate Profile: How a First-time Affiliate Finished in 2nd Place with Tosha SchoreImagine doing your first affiliate promotion and having a goal of five sales. Some might say that’s ambitious. Others might say it’s impossible. But today’s guest far exceeded her goal and even her own expectations to finish in second place in one of the biggest affiliate promotions in the parenting niche. She might be a first time affiliate, but Tosha Schore is about to deliver a masterclass in how to do affiliate marketing right. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE ConvertKit Free Trial: mattmcwilliams.com/convertkit Tosha’s Website: toshaschore.com To...2022-10-041h 04
Spirited Hearts the podcast13. Boys, Aggression and Parenting Peacefully with Tosha SchoreSend us a textIn this week's episode I had the pleasure of chatting with Tosha Schore - author, Hand in Hand Parenting trainer, guest expert and speaker.We delve into boys, aggression and how we as parents, can foster connection in our relationships with our children.Tosha offer valuable wisdom, insight and tools on how to approach aggression, how to re-frame aggression and how to dissolve the tension when things get chaotic in your household. We also discuss how to check in with boys when it seems like their play is aggressive, how...2022-07-3158 min
ON BOYS PodcastHelping Boys with Executive Function ChallengesYou might not even realize you have a boy with executive function challenges.
Instead, you (or others) might think he's "disorganized," "lazy," "resistant," or "unmotivated."
Seth Perler was one of those boys. Now, he's an executive function coach who helps other kids develop the skills they need to thrive. Seth is also the founder of The Online Executive Function Summit (TEFOS). TEFOS 2022 is August 5-7 -- and it's FREE! You can use this link to take advantage of the TEFOS 2022 Early Bird Special, which will give you lifetime access to each of the expert-led sources.
This year's TEFOS includes sessions...2022-07-2841 min
The Boss Mom PodcastHow to raise sweet and emotionally successful boys w/Tosha SchoreHow do we raise wonderful, amazing sons if we do not necessarily understand all the things boys go through? First, we need to get away from the idea that boys are simpler. We have to stop thinking that they’re not vulnerable, don’t get hurt, or have a big emotional life. How do we create a safe space for our boys and ensure we do not box up their emotions? In this episode, Tosha Schore, a mother-son relationship expert, reveals how we can build a genuine connection with our sons, and help them...2022-06-0944 min
Chasing ConsciousnessMaya Coleman PHD - PARENTING BY CONNECTIONIn this episode we look at an alternative child psychology approach to parenting and care-giving, than perhaps the one we’re used to from our own childhoods: one based on connection rather than threat based motivations. This episode is a little closer to home than usual, as a few years ago we hit the wall with our eldest boy, who after the birth of our second child when he was 6, became extremely aggressive and uncontrollable. This led us to try Hand in Hand parenting, and we got an improvement of wellbeing and behaviour within just 2 weeks!
We we...2022-04-011h 49
Focus on ProgressEp 18. You can figure it out: Interview with Tosha SchoreToday’s guest is Tosha Schore.
Tosha is a parenting coach who focuses on helping parents learn to parent their boys.
She has a double major in Women's studies and Language studies.
Life was running along smoothly until one day when she was about three months pregnant, she suddenly wondered, “What if I had a boy”. Until then, that possibility had not occurred to her.
She realized that she now needed to figure out a way to marry her commit...2022-03-3045 min
The Refreshed Moms PodcastThe Parenting Well Series - Raising Peaceful Boys with Tosha SchoreThere's a running joke in my family and with my friends about my son.Everyone that knows him knows he's this soft-spoken, gentle, laid back kid that is easy to be around and caused zero disturbances or trouble.The joke: "Except for year #4."Something happened when my son turned four years old - it has gone down in history as my roughest year of parenting, and to this day we have zero clue why.Tantrums and throwing hard things against the wall were his anger expressions of choice, and when he...2022-03-1150 min
The Dr. Vibe Show™The Dr. Vibe Show™: Tosha SchoreTosha Schore is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time by supporting you to care for yourself, connect with your boy deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly! She brings a burst of energy and optimism to parenting, and is an expert at simple solutions to what feel like overwhelmingly complicated problems. Through her online communities, Tosha helps break the isolation of modern parenting and lifts your confidence so you’re better equipped to face the challenges of raising young boys. Tosha is a trainer of ...2021-11-1249 min
Moxielicious with Alexia Vernon405: Coach-the-Coach Episode with Tosha SchoreIn my coach-the-coach podcast episode of season 4, I had the pleasure of coaching (and, as I explain early in the episode, strategizing with) Tosha Schore about opportunities in the “professional development speakers for teachers” space. Tosha is a parent educator committed to creating a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time, who wants to break into speaking to educators and parents. A coach, speaker and co-author with Hand in Hand Parenting founder, Patty Wipfler, of Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges, Tosha is mom to three boys and an advocate for boys a...2021-10-2638 min
ON BOYS PodcastWhy Feminist Tosha Schore Became an Advocate for BoysHaving sons forced Tosha Schore to reevaluate everything she knew about boys.
Schore, the daughter of a single mom, grew up stepped in the women's movement. As a child, she attended marches and rallies for women's rights and, in college, she majored in Women's Studies. She was pregnant with her first child and sidelined with a bout of nausea when a startling thought popped into her head: What if I have a boy?
The thought was "terrifying," Tosha said, noting that "it never even occurred" to her, before that moment, that she might have a son.
After her son was b...2021-06-0337 min
Raising a Powerful GirlRaising Sweet Boys with Tosha SchoreTosha Schore is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time by supporting you to care for yourself, connect with your boy deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly! She brings a burst of energy and optimism to parenting, and is an expert at simple solutions to what feel like overwhelmingly complicated problems.Through her online communities, Tosha helps break the isolation of modern parenting and lifts your confidence so you're better equipped to face the challenges of raising young boys.Tosha is a trainer of Hand i...2021-03-2438 min
Fresh Start Family ShowEp, 75. Helping Kids Move Beyond Aggression with Tosha SchoreDo you have an aggressive child that leaves you feeling defeated as a parent constantly?Or maybe you struggle with a kiddo that goes from super sweet to hulk - rage mode in 2.6 seconds when something triggers him (or her)? Rather than adding to the emotions and stress and responding with aggressive outbursts and MORE aggression or force -- which is all too common in parenting -- today on the show, we’re discussing how to connect with your child and help them move past aggression. Our guest on today’s episode is Tosha...2021-03-1047 min
Helping Children Smile Again with Amanda Seyderhelm#08 How to tame the tantrumTantrums are common when a child feels disconnected from their parent. It can be their way of crying out for a closer connection. During the grieving process a child’s fear of being abandoned or lost intensifies, and this manifests in separation anxiety – when the parent leaves the room or, the home for a short period of time, they may have what we call a tantrum.This is probably my number 1 referral issue, and as I write in my book, Helping Children Cope with Loss and Change, tantrums are really just signals – a child’s way of flagging...2021-01-1813 min
The Joel Evan Show037. Parenting Kids With Aggression, Simple Tools For Everyday Struggles - Tosha SchoreTosha Schore is the author of the hit book Listen: 5 Simple Tools to Meet Your Everday Parenting Struggles and the creator of the course Out With Aggression which has revolutionized the way I parent my two boys. Tosha has successfully raise three boys who suffered from aggression issues and now is teaching her methodologies all over the world. I discovered Tosha after taking her course, as I too was struggling with parenting two young boys, one who was extremely aggressive towards me: hitting and kicking me, spitting at me, yelling and screaming. I had read many popular books on...2020-12-161h 02
RebirthMake room. Clear out the space inside. Listen. Life grows in phases, skills are needed.🌿Connect with coach + artist @mira_helaine 🌿 Read Listen by Tosha Schore or Peaceful Parent, Happy Child, by Dr.Laura Markham🌿 Join Sit In Your Center: Online Retreat for womxn. Reclaim internal space, reconnect with your clarity, and move from center 》https://www.katebrenton.com/sitinyourcenteronline2020-04-2011 min
Tend the FlameMake room. Clear out the space inside. Listen. Life grows in phases, skills are needed.🌿Connect with coach + artist @mira_helaine 🌿 Read Listen by Tosha Schore or Peaceful Parent, Happy Child, by Dr.Laura Markham🌿 Join Sit In Your Center: Online Retreat for womxn. Reclaim internal space, reconnect with your clarity, and move from center 》https://www.katebrenton.com/sitinyourcenteronline This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit katebrenton.substack.com/subscribe2020-04-2011 min
Hi, Fam!TPJ Bonus Episode: Interview with Tosha SchoreIn this special bonus episode of the Parenting Junkie Show, I interview Tosha Schore, whose mission is to create a more peaceful world one sweet boy at a time. Tosha helps parents who have young boys who are struggling with aggression issues, helping change their behavior without using punishment or harshness. This episode will be helpful even if you don’t have boys. You no doubt have boys in your life in some way (nephews, friends of your kids, etc.) and you’ll learn about what we need to change regarding the way we treat boys in our c...2019-11-281h 02
The Soul Rising Podcast2.7 | Keys to Compassionate Parenting - Interview with Vanessa WalterIn this episode, parenting coach Vanessa Walter and I discuss why it is essential to form a connection to yourself before forming one with your child, why parenting at this point in time is uniquely challenging, and 3 steps you can use in a difficult moment with your child, no matter their age. Vanessa is offering online parenting courses on Tuesdays beginning November 5, 2019 - December 3, 2019. See her website in the show notes below for more information.
VANESSA WALTER'S WEBSITE: https://vmariewalter.wixsite.com/parentcoach
ATHENA RISING PODCAST WEBSITE: athenarisingpodcast.com
ATHENA RISING PODCAST ON I...2019-10-291h 03
Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreListening To Boys - Tosha SchoreHunter talks to Tosha Schore about Listening To Boys.It’s time to be more conscious about how we are raising our boys. Culturally, there’s a lot more shaming going on for boys because we don’t want them to grow up “soft.” But is that really what helps? What do boys need to grow up to be emotionally healthy, and how can we provide that for them?Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. It’s time to look at “bad” behavior as a cry for help 2. What to do when your child hits you 3. List...2019-08-271h 09
Authentic ParentingHealing Unresolved Trauma with Tosha Schore2019-06-201h 01
The Aware Parenting PodcastEpisode 6: Toddlers and TantrumsIn this episode, we talk about toddlers and tantrums, but what we share is also relevant to children of all ages.
We discuss the importance of listening to a child's feelings, and what can be required from us as parents to be able to do that.
Resources:
Power and Powerlessness in Parenting Course: http://www.powerandpowerlessnessinparenting.com/invitation/
Intro to Aware Parenting Webinar with Lael
https://laelstone.webinarninja.com/webinars/51777/register
Tears and Tantrums by Aletha Solter
Cooperative and Connected by Aletha Solter
Playful Parenting by Lawrence Cohen
Listen by Patty Wipfler and Tosha Schore2019-04-1456 min
Make it a Great One with Dr. DanParenting to Help Young Boys Thrive, with Tosha Shore
Dr. Dan enthusiastically welcomes today’s guest Tosha Schore to talk about a crucial topic for parents and communities across the globe: Raising our boys. www.toshaschore.com
Tosha Schore is a parent coach, speaker and co-author with Hand in Hand Parenting founder, Patty Wipfler, of Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges. Tosha is mom to three boys and an advocate for boys and their families worldwide. She is committed to creating lasting change in families and in the world by supporting parents to care for themselves, connect with their boys deeply, set limits lovingly, and pl...2018-12-2743 min
Sunshine ParentingEp. 31: Listen: 5 Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting ChallengesYou’re not alone. Whatever struggle you're facing and however hard it feels to you right now, I’m confident that with support you can get through it. And I’m 100% confident that you’re not the first or only parent to have slipped up in all the ways you have slipped up, nor are you the only parent to have a child who does X or behaves in Y way. So you really aren’t alone and we are our here to support you and help life go better for you and your family. -Tosha Schore In E...2018-04-0638 min
Hand in Hand Parenting: The PodcastMaking Changes: Resolutions That Actually SucceedIt's 2018 already! Happy New Year! This week's podcast has a New Year's flavor as Elle and Abigail talk about bringing change to yourself and your family. What is the secret to making habits stick? Abigail reveals she's big on studying on how habits work and reveals the three-step process she's used to help keep resolutions in the past. This is great news to Elle, who is less adept at adopting new ways that last beyond February! They talk about the pressure we pile on when we devote ourselves to doing something new - esp...2018-01-0227 min
Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensTosha Schore talks about how we can parent our boys for a more PEACEFUL worldMy guest today is Tosha Schore, M.A. Tosha brings a burst of energy and optimism to parenting, and will lift your parenting confidence! She is an expert at simple solutions to what feel like overwhelmingly complicated problems. A sought after coach, author and speaker, Tosha is committed to creating a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. Through her online and in-person offerings, she supports parents to care for themselves, connect with their boys deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly. Tosha is a trainer of Hand in Hand Parenting and co-author wi...2017-11-141h 04Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensTosha Schore talks about how we can parent our boys for a more PEACEFUL worldMy guest today is Tosha Schore, M.A. Tosha brings a burst of energy and optimism to parenting, and will lift your parenting confidence! She is an expert at simple solutions to what feel like overwhelmingly complicated problems. A sought after coach, author and speaker, Tosha is committed to creating a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. Through her online and in-person offerings, she supports parents to care for themselves, connect with their boys deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly. Tosha is a trainer of Hand in Hand Parenting and co-author wi...2017-11-141h 04
Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensPatty Wipfler, founder of Hand in Hand Parenting, teaches us how to listenPatty Wipfler is the Hand in Hand Parenting Founder and Program Director. Her 40 years of work with parents and children has given rise to Parenting by Connection, a simple but powerful parenting approach that nurtures the parent-child connection. Her Hand in Hand team trains parent leaders in the US and 10 other countries, and offers accessible support for the vital work of parenting. With co-author Tosha Schore, she has written the book, Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges. And Her Listening to Children booklets have sold over 800,000 copies in English, Spanish, and 10 other languages. She is the...2017-01-241h 03Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensPatty Wipfler, founder of Hand in Hand Parenting, teaches us how to listenPatty Wipfler is the Hand in Hand Parenting Founder and Program Director. Her 40 years of work with parents and children has given rise to Parenting by Connection, a simple but powerful parenting approach that nurtures the parent-child connection. Her Hand in Hand team trains parent leaders in the US and 10 other countries, and offers accessible support for the vital work of parenting. With co-author Tosha Schore, she has written the book, Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges. And Her Listening to Children booklets have sold over 800,000 copies in English, Spanish, and 10 other languages. She is the...2017-01-241h 03
Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensRaising Boys with Tosha SchoreToday’s guest is Tosha Schore, known online as “Your Partner in Parenting Boys” and a mom of 3 boys. She partners with parents to help their boys thrive – teaching parents to practice self care, connect with their boys deeply to encourage open communication, coaching them to set limits in a loving way and to use play strategically in their parenting. Join us!“My mission is to make a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time.” “Parenting is difficult because to do it well you must look inside yourself; you need to know what makes you sore...2016-10-251h 09Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensRaising Boys with Tosha SchoreToday’s guest is Tosha Schore, known online as “Your Partner in Parenting Boys” and a mom of 3 boys. She partners with parents to help their boys thrive – teaching parents to practice self care, connect with their boys deeply to encourage open communication, coaching them to set limits in a loving way and to use play strategically in their parenting. Join us!“My mission is to make a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time.” “Parenting is difficult because to do it well you must look inside yourself; you need to know what makes you sore...2016-10-251h 09