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Trin Told MeFrom CLASS CRUSH to BOYFRIEND...(how to rizz & pull him in)There’s something soft and electric about having a crush… like your heart is learning a new rhythm and your mind won’t stop replaying the “what ifs.” In this episode of Trent Told Me, I’m diving into exactly how to turn that energy into something real.We’re talking confidence—the kind that doesn’t beg to be chosen, but knows it already is. I’ll walk you through the subtle signs your crush might be feeling you too (yes, the nervous smiles and stolen glances mean something), and how to build that spark into an actual connection...
2026-02-2028 minTrin Told MeThe Real Reason Your Crush DOESN'T LIKE YOU Back... and how to change that.In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about the real reasons someone might not like you back—and why it often has nothing to do with your worth.I break down the psychology of attraction, obsession, and emotional energy, and explain how giving too much of yourself too quickly can actually push someone away instead of drawing them closer. We talk about how emotional states transfer between people, why attraction thrives in ease instead of anxiety, and how obsession can quietly destroy polarity and desire.I also explore attachment styles, the importance of m...
2026-02-1625 minTrin Told MeThe Ultimate Guide: Nailing the FIRST DATE & making him OBSESSEDIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about first dates — the nerves, the excitement, and how to actually walk into one feeling confident instead of anxious.I break down why first dates feel so intimidating and how so much of that anxiety comes down to self-worth and overthinking. I share how I personally prepare before a date — from choosing an outfit that makes me feel powerful to doing my makeup in a way that feels like me, not like I’m trying too hard.We talk about how to break the tension naturall...
2026-02-1332 minTrin Told MeHow to Use a DATING APP... but also why you shouldn'tIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about the real psychological impact of dating apps—what they do to our self-worth, how they rewire the way we see connection, and why so many people walk away feeling frustrated, insecure, or emotionally drained.I share my own experiences using dating apps, what initially makes them so appealing, and why that quick hit of validation can slowly turn into dependency. We get into the psychology behind instant gratification, comparison, and why swiping can make genuine connection feel harder instead of easier.I also talk abou...
2026-02-0935 minTrin Told MeHow To Get A VALENTINE...(using psychology and confidence)Valentine’s Day is coming up, and in this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about everything—how to get a Valentine, how to move through dating with confidence, and how to protect your self-worth no matter your relationship status.I share my own experiences, the psychology behind attraction, and the exact mindset shifts that actually make a difference when it comes to love. We talk about researching your “target,” making the first move without feeling awkward, and using everyday moments and events as low-pressure ways to get closer to someone you like. I also break down...
2026-02-0631 minTrin Told MeIs He Cheating on You? LETS FIND OUT.. (catching a cheater 101)In this episode, I talk about red flags in relationships, especially when it comes to cheating, and why learning to see the signs early can save you so much time, energy, and heartbreak. I share a personal experience from high school when I was cheated on, the red flags I ignored, and what that situation taught me about self-worth, intuition, and emotional boundaries.We get into how insecurity shows up as jealousy and control, what manipulation and gaslighting actually look like in real life, and why being dismissed or blamed in a relationship is never okay. I...
2026-02-0237 minTrin Told MeGetting the Guy who is Out of Your "LEAGUE"... is possible.In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down the idea of “dating leagues” and why they’re not real—they’re a mindset. We talk about how believing someone is “out of your league” is usually the very thing keeping you from them, and why the only real separation is the story you tell yourself.I share how your frequency shapes your life, why confidence is assumed beauty, and how attraction works when you stop chasing and start positioning yourself to be seen. We get into self-love, mystery, and the mindset shift of assuming you already have...
2026-01-3030 minTrin Told MeDear My High School Self...This Is Everything You Should Have KnownTHIS IS A RE-UPLOAD THE LAST FILE GOT CUT SHORT-In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m reflecting on high school, self-worth, and all the things I wish I had understood sooner. I talk about how those early years quietly shape the way we see relationships, confidence, and ourselves—and how unlearning the wrong lessons is part of growing into who you’re meant to be.We get into self-belief, why your thoughts truly do create your reality, and how confidence can open doors you didn’t even know were there. I share why embr...
2026-01-2643 minTrin Told MeDear My High School SelfIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m reflecting on high school, self-worth, and all the things I wish I had understood sooner. I talk about how those early years quietly shape the way we see relationships, confidence, and ourselves—and how unlearning the wrong lessons is part of growing into who you’re meant to be.We get into self-belief, why your thoughts truly do create your reality, and how confidence can open doors you didn’t even know were there. I share why embracing femininity is a strength, not a weakness, and how dressing for your...
2026-01-2631 minTrin Told MeDoes He Actually Like You? Deciphering Mixed SignalsIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down one of the most confusing parts of dating: mixed signals. We talk about what they actually mean, why they mess with your head so much, and how to stop overanalyzing every text, pause, or energy shift.I get into the real signs of interest—texting habits, effort, body language—and why consistency will always tell you more than words. We also talk about overthinking in relationships, what it reveals about your emotional state, and why silence doesn’t automatically mean rejection.Plus, we dive into a F...
2026-01-2329 minTrin Told MeThe Blueprint for Becoming an InfluencerIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m sharing my journey from being a casual TikToker to becoming a podcaster and full-time influencer — and everything I wish I knew when I was just starting out. I talk about why understanding your why matters more than anything, and how setting the right intentions can completely change the way you show up online.I get into the real challenges of content creation, from finding inspiration to staying consistent when growth feels slow. We talk authenticity, personal branding, and why being yourself is actually your biggest advantage — even when it fee...
2026-01-1932 minTrin Told MeDating Advice From Both Sides, Anatomy Quiz & The Freak MindetIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m joined by my boyfriend, Parker, and we’re getting real about relationships, dating, and everything that comes with it. From heartbreak and mixed signals to self-worth and modern dating dilemmas, we dive into listener-submitted stories and give advice from both a female and male perspective.I share personal experiences that shaped how I see love and confidence, while Parker offers insight into the male mindset — including why some men flirt without real intentions and how attraction and emotional connection actually work. We talk about recognizing your value, not settli...
2026-01-1630 minTrin Told MeStruggling with your Sexuality?.. you are not aloneIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I sit down with my twin sister KJ for a raw, heart-open conversation about sexuality, identity, and love in all its messy, beautiful forms. We share our personal stories of coming out, self-acceptance, and learning how to navigate relationships while staying true to who we are.This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt confused, pressured, scared, or alone while figuring themselves out. We talk about what it really means to be bisexual (without labels boxing you in), how to come out at your own pace, and why you ne...
2026-01-1227 minTrin Told MePopularity, Peer Pressure & Fitting InIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m getting real about fitting in, popularity, and the quiet pressure we all feel to be someone we’re not. I share personal stories (some embarrassing, some healing), along with listener submissions that prove none of us are alone in this experience.We talk about why the need to belong is so deeply wired into us, how popularity is more of a social illusion than a measure of worth, and why growing out of friendships isn’t a failure—it’s growth. I break down how to spot real friends, h...
2026-01-0935 minTrin Told MeThe Truth About Loving Your Body (From Someone Who Struggled Too)In this episode, I open up about my relationship with my body, my self-worth, and the quiet battles I’ve fought behind the screen. From hitting major milestones on social media to still feeling trapped in comparison, I talk honestly about how body image issues can exist even when life looks “perfect” from the outside.We dive into the psychology behind body image—how trauma, control, genetics, and social media can shape the way we see ourselves. I share my thoughts on eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and why healing isn’t about chasing a certain look, but learning h...
2026-01-0540 minTrin Told MeEverything you should know before a MAKEOUT SESSION. (how to kiss 101)In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down everything you need to know about kissing and makeout sessions — from the moment you feel the tension building to what happens after the kiss. I walk through how to set the scene, how to break the touch barrier naturally, and how to build anticipation without making things awkward.I share practical tips on how to kiss in a way that feels smooth, connected, and intentional (not chaotic), and I talk about why emotional presence matters just as much as physical technique. Throughout the episode, I use humo...
2026-01-0248 minTrin Told MeBecoming HER in 2026...(a total rebrand)In this episode, I’m sitting down to reflect on everything 2025 taught me — the growth, the discomfort, and the lessons I didn’t realize I was learning in real time. This year stretched me in ways I didn’t expect, and instead of rushing into surface-level New Year’s resolutions, I wanted to have an honest conversation about what I’m leaving behind and what I’m choosing to step into as I rebrand for 2026.I talk about letting go of imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and the constant feeling that I’m never doing enough. I share how I’m moving away...
2025-12-2940 minTrin Told MeLooks don't matter and you CAN'T convince me otherwise...(the dangers of LOOKSMAXING)In this episode of Trin Told Me, I talk about the complicated relationship between beauty, confidence, and self-worth—and how I had to unlearn the idea that being “hot” was the key to feeling enough. I share my own journey from feeling unattractive and hyper-aware of my looks to realizing that real confidence doesn’t come from the mirror, it comes from how safe you feel inside yourself.I break down the psychology behind attraction and dating, and I’m honest about my thoughts on “look maxing.” You can enhance your appearance if you want to—but when looks becom...
2025-12-2229 minTrin Told MeThe Key to Keeping Your Relationship Exciting...(how to not get bored)In this episode of Trin Told Me, my boyfriend and I dive into the real psychology behind relationships — why they get boring, how to keep the spark alive, and what commitment actually looks like when two people choose each other every day. We read your DMs, share our own stories, and talk about the little things that make love exciting again. From communication and spontaneity to self-respect and never stopping the “dating” phase, this episode is all about what keeps a relationship vibrant and healthy. If you’ve ever felt stuck, bored, or unsure how to reconnect with your partner...
2025-12-1939 minTrin Told MeRejection isn't Personal, Social Anxiety is Mental & you CAN Talk to AnyoneIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I dive deep into rejection and social anxiety — not just what they feel like, but the psychology behind why they hit so hard. I open up about my own experiences with feeling overlooked, overthinking every interaction, and letting rejection define my worth. I share the mindset shifts and strategies that helped me break out of that cycle, from practicing small acts of vulnerability to learning how to hold conversations with confidence. This episode is really about being present, making people feel seen, and understanding that rejection is never a dead end — it’s redi...
2025-12-1545 minTrin Told MeToxic Friends, Tight Situations & Birth Control... FREAKY FRIDAYIn this episode of Freaky Friday, I talk about everything from my chaotic week to the holiday spirit taking over my life, and how all of it ties into toxic friendships, self-esteem, and personal growth. I open up about the way certain friends have been affecting my mental health, why respect and boundaries matter so much, and how complicated it can get when it comes to relationships and romantic feelings. I even get into birth control, Christmas movies, and all the little moments that made this week feel extra festive. At the end of the day, this episode is...
2025-12-1228 minTrin Told MeMaster Meeting the Parents...(first impression, manners & conversation tips)First times are never just physical—they’re emotional plot twists wrapped in nerves, boundaries, and butterflies. In this episode, Trinity opens up about her own first intimate experience: the moment he said he was a virgin, the way the intimacy felt too deep too fast, and how that shifted everything afterward.From the pressure of first encounters to the confusion of mismatched intimacy, this is a real conversation about how different two people can feel in the same moment. We explore why consent isn’t one question, how boundaries protect your heart, and what happens when a firs...
2025-12-0830 minTrin Told MeReligious Guilt, The BEST METHOD FOR GETTING OVER YOUR EX, & The Lost Art of FingeringIn this episode of Trend Told Me, I go from laughing about awkward dates to opening up about the deeper things — religious guilt, desire, breakups, and figuring out what I actually want. I talk about the art of fingering (yes, really), why knowing your own body matters, and how learning to communicate your desires can change everything.I share stories about getting over an ex, letting go of the version of myself that lived for someone else’s approval, and finding closure on my own terms. There’s humor, there are uncomfortable truths, and there’s a whole lo...
2025-12-0539 minTrin Told Methe art of gratitude and the history of black fridayIn this Thanksgiving-inspired episode of Trin Told Me, I’m diving deep into the magic of gratitude — not just the cute Pinterest version, but the real psychological power it holds. I share some of my favorite family traditions, the true (and kind of chaotic) history of Thanksgiving and Black Friday, and how gratitude has shaped my mental health, my relationships, and the way I see myself.We talk about how gratitude literally rewires your brain, why it makes you calmer and happier, and how it can shift your entire reality from scarcity to abundance. I share simple ways...
2025-11-2832 minTrin Told MeBeing Mean Is Not Hot... (psychology behind mean girls)In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m getting real about the whole “mean girl” mentality — not in a call-out way, but in a look-within way. I talk about how insecurity can twist itself into attitude, how easy it is to slip into mean behavior without realizing it, and why self-awareness is such a powerful form of personal growth.I share the moments where I had to check myself, the role models who shaped my moral compass, and the uncomfortable truth that most people never stop to question why they act the way they do. This episode...
2025-11-2436 minTrin Told MeI Faked Relationships, Don't Know my Kiss Count & Have Daddy Issues...(21 Confessions for my 21st Bday)In this very special episode of Trin Told Me, I’m ringing in my 21st birthday with Capital P by my side! 🎉✨ We get into everything — the chaos, the glow-up, the gratitude, and of course… the crazy birthday stories that only I could somehow end up in.We kick things off with all the excitement of turning 21, then dive into a hilarious and revealing round of “21 Confessions” (yes… I exposed myself a little 😭). We talk zodiac signs, wild memories, unexpected lessons, and how much can truly change in one year. The episode wraps up with a sweet birthday serenade an...
2025-11-2117 minTrin Told MeThe Secret Sauce To Having & Maintaining a Healthy RelationshipIn this episode of Trin Told Me, Capital P and I sit down and get real about what it actually takes to build a healthy relationship. We talk about communication (the real kind), how we navigate our different love languages, and how we keep our friendship alive inside our relationship. It’s light, it’s funny, it’s honest — and we definitely spill a little tea on the moments where we had to grow, learn, and choose each other all over again.We break down why balance matters, why accountability is sexier than defensiveness, and why healing before y...
2025-11-1755 minTrin Told MeDon't Panic... But Aliens are coming to EarthIn this episode, I’m diving into the paranormal—not as something scary, but as the universe gently tugging at the edges of my reality. I talk about how these strange moments feel like little tests, reminding me that existence is so much deeper and wider than what my mind usually lets me see.I explore why our brains push back, why we instantly reject the unexplainable, and how the universe has to lift the veil slowly to keep us from hitting full ontological shock. There are worlds within worlds, layers beneath layers, and every now and then...
2025-11-1429 minTrin Told MeNEWS FLASH...your childhood shapes the way you love (attachment styles 101)In this episode, I’m diving deep into relationships, emotional vulnerability, and the way our childhood wounds follow us into love. We’re talking triggers, attachment styles, nervous system calm, and the slow, beautiful work of becoming someone who feels safe in love instead of scared by it.I share what it’s like to crave closeness but still feel terrified of emotional intimacy, and why a guy leaving you on delivered is rarely as deep as your trauma wants you to think it is. This is about practicing small vulnerabilities, understanding your patterns, and reminding yourself every...
2025-11-1036 minTrin Told MeDrunk Hookup Stories...(you're not alone)This week’s Freaky Friday is a Halloween hangover of chaos, drunken honesty, and those “omg… did that really happen?” moments. I’m spilling everything from my wild Halloween weekend — the fun, the mess, the unexpected hookups — and the immediate next-day anxiety that comes with all of it.We’re talking drunk hookups, communication, self-worth, party culture, awkward morning-after moments, and how to not let one chaotic night ruin your confidence. I’m also reading your stories, giving advice, and laughing (and cringing) right along with you.This episode is all about learning to love yourself even...
2025-11-0733 minTrin Told MeHow To SAY NO & Actually Mean it...(People Pleasing, Boundaries & Consent)In this episode, I’m talking about the power of saying no — and actually meaning it. I used to be such a people-pleaser, always saying yes just to keep the peace. But I’ve learned that “no” isn’t mean — it’s magnetic. It’s how you protect your energy, your peace, and your power.I’m sharing some personal stories, how I learned to set boundaries without guilt, and why consent should always feel like a yes that’s safe and excited. Because silence isn’t consent — and “no” is a full sentence.This one’s for anyone learning...
2025-11-0331 minTrin Told MeTHE CONDOM CRISIS...(The consequences of going raw, STDS & Freaky stories)Welcome to Trin Told Me, where taboo meets truth.Today, we’re diving headfirst into what I call “The Condom Crisis.” We’re talking about the environmental footprint of condoms, the cultural shift away from using them, and why—no matter how inconvenient they might seem—they’re still essential for population control and personal safety.Because yeah, latex might harm the planet a little…but STDs and unplanned pregnancies? They’ll change your world a lot more.Get tested. Protect yourself.This isn’t paranoia—it’s power.
2025-10-3142 minTrin Told MeThe Great Love Debate (what IS and ISN'T ok in a relationship)In this episode, me and my sister KJ are getting real and a little chaotic with a full-on relationship debate. We’re diving into some of the juiciest topics — from trust and boundaries to what’s actually okay in a relationship (and what’s not).We debate, we laugh, and of course… we overshare a few personal stories along the way. This one’s packed with humor, honesty, and those “girl, same” moments that make you rethink your own love life.We’re talking real boundaries, real respect, and why individuality matters even when you’re in love. By the e...
2025-10-2743 minTrin Told MeHow To Give a Unforgettable Handy + Our Favorite Position & Freakiest Stories...( FREAKY FRIDAY)In this episode, I’m sitting down for a real and raw Q&A all about relationships, intimacy, and self-discovery. 💘✨I’m sharing my own stories — the funny ones, the messy ones, and the ones that taught me everything I know about love, boundaries, and finding my worth. We’re talking honesty, humor, and a little bit of nostalgia as I reflect on past experiences and drop some real advice for the girlies.💌 What to Expect:My personal take on love, sex, and self-worthReal talk on intimacy, boundaries & consentLessons I’ve l...
2025-10-2428 minTrin Told MeI was A WHAT in my Past Life?!?? (my experience getting hypnotized and how it set me free)I’ve always felt like there was something more—a whisper in the cosmos calling me home. In this episode, I take you with me on a journey deep into my soul as I experience quantum healing hypnosis therapy for the first time. What I found wasn’t just a memory... it was a lifetime.I uncovered a past life where I was an alien princess—powerful, graceful, yet silenced by my own fear of speaking up. Through this journey, I realized how those past wounds still echo in the present: the feeling of not being enough, the fear...
2025-10-2145 minTrin Told MeManifesting with Period Blood and Getting Lock-jaw... this is FREAKY FRIDAY In this episode of Freaky Friday, I’m fully embracing my witchy era. We dive into everything from witchcraft and menstrual magic to pregnancy scares, hookup horror stories, and the different types of witches that mirror our unique personalities.I share personal stories, talk about how witchcraft can be a tool for self-connection and empowerment, and remind you that exploring your spiritual or witchy side is totally valid in a modern world. We’ll also touch on relationships, boundaries, and how your personal power can shape every area of your life.This episode is spicy, empo...
2025-10-1729 minTrin Told MeThe Truth About Our BOP ERAS...(hookup culture, the chase & seeking validation)In this episode of Trin Told Me, me and my boyfriend get real about the messy, complicated world of hookup culture. We share our own experiences, talk through stories from listeners, and unpack the difference between love, lust, and the chase.We get into how casual connections can give quick validation but often leave deeper wounds — and why learning to love yourself first is the real glow-up. From lessons learned in our “bop” eras to the power of emotional vulnerability, this one’s raw, honest, and a little bit spicy.If you’ve ever questioned your worth...
2025-10-1340 minTrin Told MeHe HID A CAMERA during s3x & My Crush Knows I LIKE HIM...(Spooky Friday)It’s Spooky Friday, babes — and we’re diving into some hilarious (and slightly terrifying) hookup horror stories. In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m sharing your wildest submissions, reflecting on my own messy moments, and breaking down what different hookup locations really say about someone’s personality. We also talk about the serious side of it all — from prioritizing safety and protecting your energy to handling rejection like a boss and building unshakable confidence. Because sometimes, the scariest thing isn’t a ghost… it’s dating in 2025. SUBMIT PODCAST SUBMISSIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/fo...
2025-10-1024 minTrin Told MeFor The Boys... The Guide To Understanding WOMENIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m giving the guys some real talk on dating from a girl’s perspective. We’re breaking down everything from how to approach women with confidence to reading body language, asking for consent, and keeping your cool on first dates.I share personal stories, green flags, red flags, and little communication secrets that actually make a difference. It’s not about being perfect — it’s about being genuine, confident, and respectful.If you’ve ever wished you could get inside a girl’s head and understand what we really mean w...
2025-10-0627 minTrin Told MeOur Spooky Tales & Terrifying Experiences with Males...(stalked, recorded & threatened)In this episode of Trin Told Me, me and my sister KJ are diving straight into spooky season! We’re swapping ghost stories, laughing about how men can sometimes be scarier than actual ghosts 👻, and sharing our favorite mythical creatures.We also mix in some real talk about crushes and dating — from how to shoot your shot with confidence to why creating a cozy, safe vibe matters more than you think. It’s light-hearted, a little creepy, a lot funny, and totally perfect for October vibesSUBMIT PODCAST QUESTIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIp...
2025-10-0325 minTrin Told MeFalling Inlove With Yourself...in 7 steps In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking all about self-love and confidence as we head into fall, because this season isn’t just about cozy vibes, it’s about stepping into your power. I share my own journey of learning to love myself, the lessons I’ve picked up along the way, and how confidence is really a practice, not something you’re just born with.I break down my 7-step plan to help you fall in love with yourself — from defining your ideal self and romanticizing your life to practicing positive self-talk, celebrating your wins, a...
2025-09-2927 minTrin Told MeEverything SEX ED Should Have Taught You...(STDS, Feminine Hygiene & Pleasure)Get your pencils out, class is in session! In this episode of Trin Told Me, me and Halli (aka pink water bottle girl) are breaking down everything sex ed should have taught you but probably didn’t.We get real about contraception and birth control (why the pull-out method does not count, the truth about Plan B, and what it’s really like getting an IUD), plus the importance of STD testing, feminine hygiene, and understanding your body. We also dive into the topics school usually skips — like pleasure, setting boundaries, sexual empowerment, and how to communicate with a...
2025-09-261h 07Trin Told MeSTOP OBSESSING OVER HIM ...(Mastering Female Detachment)In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m getting real about what happens when we get way too obsessed with our crushes. I share some of my own stories, dive into the psychology behind crush obsession, and talk about why it’s so important to stay grounded in your own identity.I give you practical tips on how to detach, focus on your hobbies and passions, and build a strong sense of self-worth that doesn’t depend on whether a guy likes you back. We also get into self-care, female friendships, and how to celebrate yourself so you...
2025-09-2226 minTrin Told Me"I Do Not Chase I Attract"... Men, Money and HappinessIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m diving into the difference between chasing and attracting in relationships — and why pulling back is often the most powerful move you can make. I share some of my own stories, the lessons I’ve learned about feminine energy, and how tuning into your self-worth can change everything.We’ll talk about manifestation techniques, self-care rituals, and how knowing your true identity helps you filter out what’s not meant for you while drawing in partners who actually match your energy. And for a little fun at the end, I...
2025-09-1937 minTrin Told Me"Is This Friendship Toxic?"...(The Guide to Navigating Female Friendships); W/ CLEARLY CLUELESSIn this episode of Trend Told Me, host Trinity engages with the Clearly Clueless podcast duo to explore the complexities of friendships. They discuss the importance of supportive relationships, how to identify toxic friendships, and the dynamics of maintaining friendships in both personal and professional contexts. The conversation also includes listener questions, providing advice on navigating friendship challenges and the significance of authenticity in building connections. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the journey of self-discovery and the reassurance that there are supportive friends out there for everyone.PODCAST SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6...
2025-09-1541 minTrin Told MeStop Getting PLAYED in Relationships...(What goes on Psychologically when he CHEAT'S)))In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m diving into the messy, complicated world of relationships — from spotting red flags early to understanding the psychology behind cheating. I share some of my own stories, the lessons I’ve learned along the way, and why self-worth has to come before any relationship.We’ll talk about the games people play, how to communicate your needs clearly, and why you should never settle for someone who doesn’t prioritize you. I also break down how cheating often comes from insecurities or unmet emotional needs — and how to protect your own ene...
2025-09-1236 minTrin Told Me"But My Mom Said NO"...(Strict Parents, Sneaky Fun & Still Living)In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m opening up about what it was really like growing up with strict parents. From the funny little stories to the moments where I felt frustrated or held back, I share how I still managed to have fun while navigating all the rules.I talk about how a lot of strict parenting actually comes from love and wanting to keep us safe, and why learning to see it that way can change your perspective completely. I also give practical tips for communicating better with your parents, finding balance in yo...
2025-09-0928 minTrin Told MeFrom CRUSH to HOMECOMING DATE...(a freaky guide to securing that date)In this week’s Freaky Friday, I’m talking all about crushes, confidence, and homecoming. From awkward conversations to the thrill of getting noticed, I share my own stories and the lessons I’ve learned about putting yourself out there.I truly believe that living life is the best way to give real, authentic advice — and in this episode, I open up about what it means to be confident, how to break the ice with a crush, and why rejection isn’t the end of the world (sometimes it’s just redirection 💌).Whether you’re stressing over ho...
2025-09-0525 minTrin Told MeInside The Mind of a MIDDLE SCHOOL Boy..(Crushes & Signs explained)Hey divas...I want to apologize for the low quality of this podcast but i had to make do with what I had while traveling. Today i interviewed my middle school brother and his friend to get some insight on what they are really thinking when it comes to crushes, girls and the madness we know as middle school. I hope y'all enjoy this more than I did.ASK QUESTIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog
2025-08-2920 minTrin Told MeCramps, Blood & Smells... Lets talk PERIODSHEY BADDIES...In this episode of 'Trin Told Me', Trinity dives into the often-taboo topic of periods and feminine hygiene. She shares personal stories about her first period and tampon experiences, discusses the challenges of free bleeding, and offers practical tips for managing cramps and choosing the right period products. Throughout the conversation, Trinity emphasizes the importance of open dialogue about menstruation, encouraging listeners to embrace their womanhood and share their experiences without shame. The episode is filled with humor, relatable anecdotes, and valuable advice for navigating periods in daily life.SUBMIT QUESTIONS HERE- https...
2025-08-2538 min
Girl Core67: Rejection, first time advice, & bedroom secrets ft. Trinity BlairPrepare for an episode packed with no-filter honesty on 'Girl Core' with your host Halli Smith. This week, she’s joined by the relatable and hot Trinity Blair, a true queen of authenticity. Together, they’re breaking down the most provocative topics, think daring confessions on getting your crush, spicy relationship advice, and preparing for the first time. Expect provocative conversations, playful 'this or that' challenges, and plenty of moments that will make you blush and think. If you're craving raw girl talk with a spicy edge, this is the episode you don’t want to miss.
2025-08-2442 minTrin Told MeSummer Flings Don't Lead to Diamond Rings...(Getting FREAKY On Vacation)In this episode, Kj and I dive into the wild world of cruise stories, exploring the humorous and sometimes chaotic encounters that happen on vacation. We discuss the concept of 'cruise husbands', the importance of clear intentions in relationships, and share listener DMs seeking advice on vacation romances. With a mix of humor and heartfelt insights, we emphasize the need for self-awareness and the fun of living in the moment while navigating the complexities of dating and relationships.
2025-08-2238 minTrin Told MeMental illness or Teenage Angst?...(mental health monday)Hey baddies...In this episode of Trin Told Me, me and my bestie ace delve into the complexities of mental health, sharing personal stories and insights. We chat about the importance of understanding mental health challenges, navigating school with mental health issues, and the impact of relationships on mental wellness. We encourage reaching out for help, daily habits for mental wellness, and debunking myths surrounding mental health. Todays episode serves as a reminder that individuals are not alone in their struggles and encourages listeners to seek support and embrace their emotions.SUMBIT QUESTIONS HERE- https...
2025-08-1854 minTrin Told MeSchool is Back, but so are YOU...(being THAT GIRL this school year)In this episode of Freaky Friday, I discuss the challenges of returning to school, particularly focusing on navigating breakups, building confidence, and making a great impression on the first day. I share personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to approach crushes, dress for success, and engage with peers positively. I wrap up with some listener questions, providing tailored advice for specific situations, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and energy in social interactions.SUBMIT RESPONSES- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=header...
2025-08-1526 minTrin Told MeMiddle School SUCKS...(horror stories & the advice we wish we knew)In this episode, KJ and I take it all the way back to middle school—the chaos, the awkwardness, and the lessons that came out of it. We’re sharing our own stories from those years, the struggles we faced, and the things we wish we had known back then.We talk about finding the right friends, why self-care and hygiene matter more than you think, and how confidence can completely change your middle school experience. We also touch on popularity (and why it’s not worth chasing), navigating those confusing first relationships, and dealing with body image...
2025-08-1140 minTrin Told MeGetting FREAKY with my bf: The Unfiltered Truth of what Works on a GuyIn this episode of Freaky Friday, I brought on someone very special—my boyfriend (capital P)—to finally spill the tea from the male perspective. We got into everything: relationship dynamics, attraction, the infamous push-pull method, and how self-presentation can literally shift how people see you. We also played a spicy little game of Never Have I Ever, which turned into a full-on confessional.We talked about what actually gets a guy’s attention, why natural beauty hits different, and how your energy is just as important as your outfit. Plus, we got real about the emotional side o...
2025-08-0851 minTrin Told MeFirst Date Survival Guide: From Getting Dressed To Getting Him ObsessedIn this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m diving into the beautiful chaos of first dates—yes, the butterflies, the overthinking, the “what do I wear” panic... all of it. I’m sharing everything I’ve learned about navigating those nerve-wracking, exciting first encounters, from how to ask someone out with confidence to setting the tone with mindset and energy before you even step out the door.We’ll talk about the power of pre-date affirmations, how to break the touch barrier without it being weird, and why keeping the conversation fun and flirty is your secret weapon...
2025-08-0536 minTrin Told MeTrust Issues, Small Boobs & Rejecting Him...(FREAKY FRIDAY)In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m bringing back the classic Freaky Friday format—raw, real, and unfiltered. I’m diving into your confessions, sharing personal stories, and giving the kind of relationship advice I wish someone gave me sooner. We’re talking about body image, rejection, and the wild ride that is modern dating.I open up about the power of self-love, what it really means to communicate clearly in relationships, and how personal growth sometimes means outgrowing people who no longer align with you. This one’s for anyone who's ever felt too much, not...
2025-08-0139 minTrin Told MeBeing Jealous Isn't Hot...(The Good Girlfriend Guide)In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m opening up about what it really means to be a good girlfriend. Not the kind that loses herself trying to prove her worth, but the kind who knows her value before ever stepping into a relationship. I’m sharing stories from my own life, lessons I’ve learned, and the honest truth about jealousy, space, communication, and how to be supportive without pouring from an empty cup.We’re talking self-love. We’re talking independence. And we’re talking about how your relationship with you sets the tone for every ot...
2025-07-2829 minTrin Told Me"I'M PREGNANT"... or are you? (Scares, Birth Control & Cycle Tracking)In this episode of Trin Told Me, we’re talking about the thing that makes every girl panic in the middle of the night—pregnancy scares. I get real about your juiciest questions about birth control, bodies, and the absolute chaos of tracking your period like it’s a crime scene investigation. 🕵️♀️🩸With my signature mix of humor and honesty, I break down what’s normal, what’s definitely not, and why knowing your cycle is the ultimate form of self-love. From decoding “Can I get pregnant if…” scenarios to exploring how birth control can shape your sense of self, this episode is...
2025-07-2527 minTrin Told MeTrin's High School Survival Guide (First day, Friends, Crushes and Fitting in)Hey babies...In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m giving you the ultimate High School Survival Guide — but not from the cool girl perspective. From the quiet, slightly insecure observer, I was back in high school.I wasn’t popular. I wasn’t a total outcast. I was somewhere in the middle… just watching, learning, and trying to survive like everyone else. And now? I’m sharing everything I wish someone told me.From first day jitters, finding your classes, and figuring out where to sit at lunch, to making friends, talking to your crush, and h...
2025-07-2132 minTrin Told MeSh!t Stains to Strep Throat: My WORST Hookup StoriesIn this episode of Freaky Friday, I’m spilling all my worst hookup stories—yes, including the time a guy literally left a sh*t stain on my bed (and no, I’m still not over it). From hygiene fails to awkward first kisses and even getting trapped under a human weighted blanket of a man, I’m sharing the most ridiculous, embarrassing, and honestly hilarious moments from my college years.I’m telling these stories not just to traumatize myself all over again, but to remind you that we all go through awkward, messy situations in dating—and...
2025-07-1822 minTrin Told MeCasual But Complicated...(Friends With Benefits 101)Hey sexy! Today I dive deep into the complicated world of friends with benefits. From a personal storytime to professional advice, I break down what FWB actually means, why people enter these situations (hint: it’s not always confidence), and how to protect your emotional health while navigating casual intimacy.Expect real talk on:The psychology of emotional attachment (especially for women)Why craving male validation can lead you into FWB trapsClear, practical boundaries to avoid catching feelingsHow to know when you're settling—and how to stop
2025-07-1431 minTrin Told MeHow To Play The Player... (Secret Signs and Strategies)Hi baddies! So he thinks he’s a player? Cute. In this episode, I breaks down the real psychology behind why players play, how their brains work, and why your feelings don’t change a thing for them — but your game plan does.We’re getting real about:What makes someone a player (hint: it’s not about you — it’s about their attachment style)How to spot his fake sweet words and future fakesThe signs he’s only pretending to care because he wants what he wantsHow to detach yo...
2025-07-1130 minTrin Told MeRecognizing RED FLAGS & When to Walk AwayWhat's Up Divas...This week, I’m pulling back the curtain on the red flags we love to pretend we don’t see — and why ignoring them always costs us more than it’s worth. I’m sharing my own story about a time I knew the signs were there (and I stayed anyway), what I learned, and what I’d do differently now.We’re breaking down the biggest red flags you should never brush off, the subtle signs that don’t get enough attention, and — most importantly — how to leave when you see them. I want you...
2025-07-0733 minTrin Told MeThe Guide To Getting Any Guy OBSESSED & Keeping It That Way... (Its Easier Than You Think)In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to get a man obsessed with you — and more importantly, how to keep him that way. Spoiler: it’s so much easier than you think, but you’ve probably been giving away your magic without even realizing it.I’m sharing the real secret spell: keep your energy to yourself. The minute you stop pouring every ounce of your attention, time, and softness into him — and start treating yourself like the prize — he feels it. Men crave what they can’t fully have. They want to earn you. So give him just...
2025-07-0124 minTrin Told MeFreaky Friday: Everything You Need To Know For Your First TimeHi babies...This episode is your big sister’s guide to your first time — the stuff no one really explains but everyone secretly Googles at 2AM.I’m walking you through:The Pregame — How to get ready, what to shave (or not), what to wear, what to pack in your bag (condoms, perfume, wipes… yes, we’re going there). What To Expect — Positions that won’t make you panic, how to stay present, why eye contact matters (and when it’s okay to giggle instead). Protection 101 — Condoms, lube, feeling safe, and actually knowing what’s going...
2025-06-2734 minTrin Told MeYou Don't Need Heels To Level Up- Unlocking Your Divine FemininityHi Babies and happy monday!In this episode, I’m diving deep into something that changed my life: unlocking my feminine energy. For the longest time, I thought being feminine meant being weak — or worse, being unsafe. But what I’ve learned is that embracing my softness didn’t make me lose power... it activated it.I talk about balancing feminine and masculine energy, how to stop hiding your softness behind survival mode, and why the secret to manifestation is equal parts attraction and action. We’re healing the belief that femininity has to look a certain...
2025-06-2428 minTrin Told MeFrom First Kisses To Becoming THAT Girl In The Bedroom: Naked Confidence 101In this episode, we’re talking about everything they don’t teach you — from first kisses to giving head to standing in front of a man completely naked and still knowing you’re the hottest thing in the room.I’m giving advice on how to build confidence in the bedroom, stop shrinking yourself in intimate moments, and actually enjoy being seen — fully, emotionally, and physically. Whether it’s your first time or your next time, this is your permission slip to stop being shy, stop overthinking, and start showing up like the goddess you are.Because nake...
2025-06-1923 minTrin Told MeA Breakup Text To My Bop Era: Letting My Walls Down And Love InHey Baddies.This episode is personal. I’m talking about what it really means to let love in — even when it terrifies you. For a long time, I thought being unbothered was power. I thought building walls meant I was strong. But lately, I’ve realized that all those defense mechanisms? They were keeping me from something softer… something real.I open up about my first love, how it shaped me, and how I became the girl who broke hearts before hers could get broken again. But that girl isn’t me anymore. I’m learning how...
2025-06-1723 minTrin Told MeFreaky Friday: Pregnancy Scares, Body Image Issues & Obvious Signs He Likes YouHI BABIES!In this week’s Freaky Friday, we spiral (in style) through some very real hot-girl struggles:A pregnancy scare that had her questioning everything (including the moon cycle and her entire life plan).A heart-to-heart on body image, comparison, and why standing next to your hottest friend isn’t a personality trait.A Freaky Forecast based on your Spotify post (because yes, we’re judging you by your playlists).And finally, a “Does He Love Me or Love Me Not?” that proves sometimes… you really are the prize, you just forgot.
2025-06-1331 minTrin Told MeLetting Your Walls Down, Embarrassing Parents & Getting Rid of That VapeHappy Wednesday, babies. In this episode, we’re hitting the holy trinity of chaos:Embarrassing moms who somehow always find a way to make you want to disappear mid-sentence.How to get motivated to work out when you’d rather fake your death than do squats.Accidentally starting rumors without realizing your words were going to travel like wildfire.It’s giving gym goals, accidental gossip girl, and that one time your mom said something in public that haunts you to this day. If you’ve ever said “I can’t believe that came out of my mo...
2025-06-1226 minTrin Told MeI Found My Identity While They Lost Their Minds... (The Haircut That Broke TikTok)They said “bring back the red hair,” I said bring back your confidence. In this week’s episode, I’m breaking down the internet’s full-blown meltdown over me cutting my hair and going blonde — and why I didn’t flinch. Because here’s the truth: my identity isn’t rooted in my hair… and yours doesn’t have to be either.We talk about:Reinvention without explanationWhy change can be your power moveHow to build confidence that’s internal, not Instagram-approvedAnd how to stop letting other peopl...
2025-06-1021 minTrin Told MeFreaky Friday: Male Gaze Magic, Nudes That Haunt You & Situationship ScandalsHI BABIES!! In this week’s Freaky Friday, we’re asking the question every hot, confused, self-aware girl has whispered into her pillow at 2 a.m.: is any of this worth it?We start with a confession from a shy girl who doesn’t know how to talk to men — so I’m breaking down how to step into your feminine magic and master the art of the male gaze (without losing yourself in it). Then, I get real about open relationships — are they empowerment or avoidance? I said what I said. We also dive into the psy...
2025-06-0633 minTrin Told MeFlirting While Tipsy, Falling For Her Brother & Telling Him You're ReadyWelcome to another Advice Wednesday, where the dilemmas are hot and the advice is hotter. In this week’s episode, we’re diving into the chaos of: Mixing boys and booze — what to know before you flirt with a drink in your hand (and how to stay safe, sexy, and in control).How to tell your boyfriend you’re ready for the next step — without scaring him or shrinking yourself.And the tea on liking your best friend’s older brother… why it feels so forbidden, and the real dangers of crushing on a man who’s already...
2025-06-0418 minTrin Told MeDo It Delusional: My Journey to 1M Followers in Five MonthsHi Besties! Today I'm getting Juicy and vulnerable and telling my story of how I got 1M followers in five months, and what it took to get there. From homemade YouTube videos in my childhood bedroom to telling everyone “I do social media” even when I was making $0—this is the unfiltered, slightly delusional, fully determined story of how I built my dream life online. In this episode, I take you back to 13-year-old me with a channel that popped off… but I didn’t feel ready. I talk about falling off, watching everyone else get “real jobs,” and w...
2025-06-0329 minTrin Told MeFREAKY FRIDAY: Shower sex, Home-wrecking & The Condom CrisisHEY BADDIES! I'm so glad to be back with another Freaky Friday! This episode is a certified red flag smoothie with extra pulp, and you’re gonna want every sip.We kick things off with a messy little confession from a girl who accidentally (kinda?) homewrecked and is now deep in her shame era. Then, we slide into a steamy shower sex story that starts out hot and ends in a ghosting that no amount of conditioner could fix.I also go on a much-needed rant about the Condom Crisis of 2025 — aka why some men stil...
2025-05-3031 minTrin Told MeWhen Girl Code Gets Messy, Body Talk Gets Real & The Two Man Is OnHey besties — I’m back and better after a quick break (moving has me in a chokehold ), but your Wednesday tea is here and it’s steaming. In today’s Advice Wednesday sesh, we get raw, real, and a little rebellious. First, we dive into a heartbreaking situation: what do you do when someone you know was assaulted... and their assailant is still being embraced by your circle? I give my honest take with love, protection, and truth.Then we talk WGirl Code Drama—hat happens when you and your bestie like the same guy? It’s messy, but...
2025-05-2832 minTrin Told MeMy BF Likes My Bestie, He's Giving You Mixed Signals & She's Scared To Snap HimHappy Wednesday, besties 💅 Grab your favorite drink because today’s episode is overflowing with hot tea.First up, we’re tackling what to do when your BF and bestie are acting a little too close for comfort (yep… we’re going there). From third-wheeling your own relationship to taking back the power — I’ve got you covered.Then, we decode mixed signals from boys (because why are they so confusing?) and reveal what he really means when he’s being hot one minute and cold the next.And finally… the ULTIMATE Snapchat conversation starter guide. Beca...
2025-05-2123 minTrin Told MeHow To Stop Being A Pick Me Girl: Daddy issues, People Pleasing and Healing Your Inner Child.Welcome to your official recovery meeting, babe — this week’s episode is all about retiring your Pick-Me Girl era. We’re diving deep into the why behind pick-me behavior: from daddy issues to people-pleasing to that exhausting need for validation that has us competing for crumbs.You’ll learn how to spot the signs you’ve been in your pick-me bag, how to break free with confidence, and how to heal the friendships you may have unintentionally bruised along the way.This is your glow-up from approval seeker to self-worth queen.Let’s talk healing, hot...
2025-05-1828 minTrin Told MeFREAKY FRIDAYS: Foresomes, Secret BJs & The Hookup CurseStrap in, girlies—today’s Freaky Friday is NOT for the faint of heart. We’re diving into bathroom hookups, unexpected foursomes, and a love language forecast that’ll have you questioning where you like to be touched 👀💋First up, I’m reading a confession from a listener who had a full-on foursome with her boyfriend’s friends (yes, you read that right). Then we get a little… equestrian… with a Delusional Diary from horse camp that ends in a steamy restroom situation 🐎🚽We’ll also explore the freaky forecast of the day: what your favorite place to be touched s...
2025-05-1621 minTrin Told MeHe Ghosted After the Hookup, Your Friend’s Acting Weird, and He’s Lowkey Manipulating You… Let’s Talk.In this episode of Trin Told Me, we’re diving into the drama — from falling for your boyfriend’s best friend, to catching red flags in your situationship. I’m breaking down when to ask a guy out (without losing your power), how to handle friend breakups, and what to do when a guy ghosts you after getting what he wants (spoiler: it’s not your fault, it’s his cowardice). This is your no-fluff hotline for navigating messy love lives with confidence, clarity, and a little bit of delusional sparkleINSTA- TRINYXOTIKTOK- TRINITY.BLAIR
2025-05-1426 minTrin Told MeHot Girls Deserve Better Than Hookup CultureIn this raw and real episode of Trin Told Me, we’re diving deep into hookup culture—how it’s been glamorized, normalized, and quietly breaking hearts. I open up about my personal experience and how it left me feeling disposable, disconnected, and questioning my worth. But I’m not just spilling tea—I’m breaking down the psychology behind it: why women aren't wired for casual sex the way we’ve been told, and how modern hookup culture leaves so many of us feeling empty.If you’ve ever felt confused, numb, or unfulfilled after a hookup, you’re n...
2025-05-1229 minTrin Told MeFREAKY FRIDAYS: Kissing Exes, Park Sex & Prom DramaWelcome back to Freaky Fridays, the podcast where your confessions, chaos, and delusions take center stage!This week, we’ve got: A girl whose ex grabbed her by the waist and made out with her like it was a Wattpad rewrite A guy who lost his virginity in a public park (and somehow lived to laugh about it) A Delusional Diary about prom beef, FWB, and hallway crushes.And of course… a Freaky Forecast decoding what your late-night snack says about your weekend.Got a Freaky Friday story, a delusional diar...
2025-05-0919 minTrin Told MeWhat to Do When: You Like Her Boyfriend, Your Class Crush Ignores You, You're Scared to Kiss Him, & He Lives 4 Hours AwayThis episode is an advice session for the girls in emotional situationships, seatmate crush spirals, first-kiss fear, and long-distance delusions (you know who you are 😌).I’m answering YOUR stories—including:💔 What to do when you like your friend’s boyfriend (girl code 911)😳 How to get the attention of your class crush when he barely looks up💋 Why first-kiss anxiety is so normal—and how to stop overthinking it📍 And whether a long-distance relationship is actually worth the emotional mileageIf you’ve ever said “I know I shouldn’t like him but…” or “Why hasn’t he texte...
2025-05-0733 minTrin Told MeBecoming The Hottest Version of Yourself... From The Inside OutBeing hot isn’t about looks—it’s an energy.In this episode, I’m breaking down the real secret to confidence—and it’s not a new outfit or a full face of makeup (though those help too 😌).I’m sharing 5 tips to unlock your inner hot girl energy, backed by psychology, self-love, and the kind of shifts that actually make people notice you when you walk into a room. We’ll talk about what confidence really is, how to build it when you’re starting from zero, and why being magnetic has nothing to do with perfection an...
2025-05-0521 minTrin Told MeFREAKY FRIDAYS: He Sucked My Toes While I Slept?! + Mixed Signals 101? + What Your Coffee Order Says About YouWelcome to FREAKY FRIDAYS, where things get weird, wild, and way too real. This week, im spilling the story of how a man LITERALLY sucked my toes while I was asleep (yes, thats a thing that happened). Then, we dive into a listener's dilemma: is her crush actually into her? Or just bored and breadcrumbing? And finally, what your coffee order says about your weekend, love life, and chaotic aura. Buckle Up, babes- this episode is unhinged in the best way. Grab your iced latte and your bestie and GET READY.
2025-05-0219 minTrin Told MeHow To Be That Girl... In The Bedroom & The BreakupIn this week’s episode, we’re covering everything you wish someone had told you sooner.✨ First, I’m teaching you how to let a guy down easy—without the guilt, the awkwardness, or the overexplaining.✨ Then we’re getting into the real talk: How do you stay confident when you feel like everyone around you is prettier? (Hint: you’re comparing highlight reels to your behind-the-scenes.)✨ Next up? Shaving tips for the first time, or the 500th—because no one teaches us the cute girl hygiene secrets we actually need.✨ And finally, we’re talking about confide...
2025-05-0132 minTrin Told MeHow Being Delusional Over A Man Changed My Whole Life...Today, we’re getting real about the time being absolutely, unapologetically delusional over a man changed my entire life.I’m walking you through the messy decisions, the late-night spirals, the “maybe he likes me if I squint hard enough” moments—and how hitting rock bottom over a guy wasn’t the end…it was the beginning.The beginning of my self-worth.The beginning of my standards.The beginning of choosing me every time.If you’ve ever loved someone harder than you loved yourself… if you’ve ever waited by the phone, read between texts...
2025-04-2821 minTrin Told MeGirl Talk You Can't Google: Shaving, Unwanted Kisses, and Becoming IrresistibleIn this week’s episode, we’re unpacking four stories, four emotions, and four reminders that you’re never alone in your feelings.I’m giving advice to one girl who was kissed when she didn’t want to be—and reminding her (and all of us) that consent isn’t optional and your boundaries are sacred.Then we dive into the heartbreak spiral: Should you get back with an ex who says he “fell out of love”? I’ll tell you what to do when you’re torn between history and healing.Next, I guide a girl who feels...
2025-04-2429 minTrin Told MeBabe, Its Time to Break Up With Him... (How, When & Why to Leave Him)Babe… I love you, but we need to talk.If you’ve been losing sleep wondering whether or not to break up with your boyfriend, this episode is your sign. Your clarity. Your exit plan.Today, we’re getting real about the signs you’re staying for the wrong reasons, why “comfortable” isn’t the same as “happy,” and how to stop confusing love with obligation. I’m walking you through the breakup process—from what to say, how to prepare, and how to walk away without second-guessing your worth.Whether you’re deep in denial or halfway pac...
2025-04-2028 minTrin Told MeHot Girl Help Desk: Boys, Booze & BoundariesHey babies. Today we talked about how to deal with distance from boys, how to stand your ground and create boundaries and of course how to get freaky with it. IF YOU NEED ADVICE RO WANT MORE...TIKTOK- TRINITY.BLAIRINSTAGRAM- TRINYXO
2025-04-1729 minTrin Told MeTrin Told Me: What to Say When He’s Hot & You’re NervousSo you’ve locked eyes with him. He’s cute. You’re cute. But now what?!In this episode of Trin Told Me, we’re unlocking the secrets to actually talking to a man without spiraling, overthinking, or freezing up.I’m giving you psychology-backed tips to calm your nerves, flirty conversation starters that actually work, and the secret sauce to sounding confident (even if you’re screaming on the inside). From body language tricks to eye contact that casts spells—you’re getting the full convo confidence glow-up.Whether it’s your crush, your situationship...
2025-04-1530 minTrin Told MeHot Girl Help Desk: Ghosts, Sneaky Links, & Shy Girl Flirting 101Welcome to the ultimate advice session, bestie. In this episode were diving deep into the chaotic, sparkly, sometimes soul-crushing worlds of modern dating - and I'm giving you the REAL playbook. We're talking... ghosting, turning sneaky links into boyfriends, flirty tips for those shy girlies to get heads turning, and the truth behind dating profiles. Whether you're soft-launching your crush or recovering from being left on read, this one is for the girls who want love, power, and a little bit of delusion - in the best way possible. Press play and lets get into...
2025-04-1031 minTrin Told MeMind Games and Lip Gloss: The Ultimate First Date GuideHey baddies. In this episode we are turning your first date into a masterclass in unforgettable energy. Im breaking down exactly how to secure the second date, leave him obsessed, and play the game with a smile and a slay. From psychology-backed mind games with a smile that make him lose focus, outfit tips that say "look but don't touch," and- talking points that stick in his head for days- i've got you covered, babe. perfume? picked. Power moves? prepped. Lip gloss? Locked. Lets make your next date beginning of his spiral. Love you...
2025-04-0630 minTrin Told MeBoys, Exes & Forbidden Crushes- Yes, we're Going ThereOh hey baddies. Today is advice Thursday, where I read yall's dms and give advice to the best of my abilities. But I know a little thing here and there. It got juicy today as I gave advice over boy problems, wanting to get back with exes, and even a forbidden crush and how to navigate it. If yall need some advice you can DM me on tiktok @trinity.blair or instagram @trinyxoLOVE YOU BADDIES STAY SEXY
2025-04-0330 minTrin Told MeThe Spell To Get Your Ex Back (No Sage Required)This episode is about HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK. As your big sis i'm not here to tell you that getting with your ex is a bad idea, i'm all for a good revenge plot! If yall need some big sis advice please DM ME ON INSTA @TRINYXO or TIKTOK @TRINITY.BLAIR love you all so much! talk soon
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TFC ConversationsEp. 12- A Conversation with Barbara BlairListen in as we have a conversation with Barbara Blair, TFC member and author of "Out of the Pit." We talk about Barbara's testimony and life, including her journey out of clinical depression. If you're interested in her story, you can purchase her book here: Out of the Pit (Amazon link)
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Freistatt Radio - Trinity Lutheran Church of Freistatt MO20`9-12-14 Wedding Ceremony of Blair Tettenhorst and Jason Obermann20`9-12-14 Wedding Ceremony of Blair Tettenhorst and Jason Obermann by Trinity Lutheran Church of Freistatt MO
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Local Queen with Ginger Minj03 Blair St. ClairTrinity calls the beautiful Blair St. Clair for a sisterly chat. In this episode they discuss Hot Topics and political conversations revolving Jinkx and Pissi Myles. Blair also opens up about past struggles and her upcoming projects. To close off the episode Trinity invites Blair to play a Drag Race alumni song lyric guessing game!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/trinitythetuck) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
2019-11-1542 min