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The New ManThe New ManWhen Your Partner Feels Like an Adversary: Ditch the Bickering and Disrespect — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you treat the pizza delivery guy with more kindness than your partner? Do you frequently bicker or cut each other down with biting humor? And how is this disrespectful behavior killing your aliveness, connection, and sexual spontaneity? Today Alyson and I discuss the all too common problem of disrespect, resentment, and contempt in relationships. We explore how we can ditch the sniping and bickering and instead learn how to keep things clean, have each other’s back, and handle disagreements with respect.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/bickering-disrespect   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → T...2025-07-3046 minThe New ManThe New ManWhen Your Partner Feels Like an Adversary: Ditch the Bickering and Disrespect — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you treat the pizza delivery guy with more kindness than your partner? Do you frequently bicker or cut each other down with biting humor? And how is this disrespectful behavior killing your aliveness, connection, and sexual spontaneity? Today Alyson and I discuss the all too common problem of disrespect, resentment, and contempt in relationships. We explore how we can ditch the sniping and bickering and instead learn how to keep things clean, have each other’s back, and handle disagreements with respect.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/bickering-disrespect ...2025-07-3046 minThe New ManThe New ManDrama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments? What drains our aliveness more than work? And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex? Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more ab...2025-07-1652 minThe New ManThe New ManDrama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments? What drains our aliveness more than work? And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex? Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle   CO...2025-07-1652 minThe New ManThe New ManFeeling Stuck and Uncertain: Moving from Anxiety to Clarity — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever feel stuck about what to do with your life, relationship, or career? What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”? And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan? Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuels anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/stuck-and-uncertain   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working w...2025-07-0143 minThe New ManThe New ManFeeling Stuck and Uncertain: Moving from Anxiety to Clarity — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever feel stuck about what to do with your life, relationship, or career? What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”? And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan? Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuels anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/stuck-and-uncertain   COACHING  2025-07-0143 minThe New ManThe New ManIs It Healthy to Use AI for Therapy? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you talk to AI like it’s your therapist? Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human? And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning? Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the value of real connection.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/ai-therapy-connection   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn...2025-06-1838 minThe New ManThe New ManIs It Healthy to Use AI for Therapy? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you talk to AI like it’s your therapist? Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human? And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning? Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the value of real connection.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/ai-therapy-connection   2025-06-1838 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhy do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them? Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun? And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work? Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry and connection.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/06/attract...2025-06-0350 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy We’re Attracted to the Wrong People (and What to Do About It) — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhy do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them? Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun? And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work? Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and what to do if feel like you have to choose between chemistry...2025-06-0350 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Have Deeper Conversations — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you get drained by small talk? Does it feel like no one else likes to talk about the things you love? And how can you have deeper conversations even if you don’t see eye to eye? Today Alyson and I discuss some ways to have deeper and more meaningful conversations — even when interests don’t align. Whether you’re chatting with strangers or deepening bonds in a long-term relationship, we share a few key ideas that’ll help you get out of the shallow end of the pool.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/deeper-conversations   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with T...2025-05-2154 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Have Deeper Conversations — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you get drained by small talk? Does it feel like no one else likes to talk about the things you love? And how can you have deeper conversations even if you don’t see eye to eye? Today Alyson and I discuss some ways to have deeper and more meaningful conversations — even when interests don’t align. Whether you’re chatting with strangers or deepening bonds in a long-term relationship, we share a few key ideas that’ll help you get out of the shallow end of the pool.   https://w...2025-05-2154 minThe New ManThe New ManShould You Settle in Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp LanierShould you settle in your relationship? Do you ever wonder if there’s someone out there who’s a better fit? And could raising the bar too high leave you alone forever? Today, Alyson and I dig into the idea of “settling” in relationships. We talk about what it really means to raise your standards, how we sabotage relationships, and why it’s tempting to focus on someone else’s flaws instead of facing our own fears.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/settle-in-relationship   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier...2025-05-0644 minThe New ManThe New ManShould You Settle in Your Relationship? — Alyson and Tripp LanierShould you settle in your relationship? Do you ever wonder if there’s someone out there who’s a better fit? And could raising the bar too high leave you alone forever? Today, Alyson and I dig into the idea of “settling” in relationships. We talk about what it really means to raise your standards, how we sabotage relationships, and why it’s tempting to focus on someone else’s flaws instead of facing our own fears.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/05/settle-in-relationship   COACHING   → To lear...2025-05-0644 minThe New ManThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever fantasize about escaping your current life? Is fear the one setting your goals and expectations? And do you have any idea what would truly bring you peace of mind? Today, Alyson and I try to help a listener who is tired of the grind and wants to hit the eject button. We discuss how to know if you’re on the right track, why we pile on the pressure to succeed, and accessing our deeper selves to find peace of mind.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/on-the-wrong-path   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLa...2025-04-2245 minThe New ManThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever fantasize about escaping your current life? Is fear the one setting your goals and expectations? And do you have any idea what would truly bring you peace of mind? Today, Alyson and I try to help a listener who is tired of the grind and wants to hit the eject button. We discuss how to know if you’re on the right track, why we pile on the pressure to succeed, and accessing our deeper selves to find peace of mind.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/on-the-wrong-path ...2025-04-2245 minThe New ManThe New ManDealing with Blame and Big Emotions in Your Relationship — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it easier to do a cold plunge than to deal with your partner’s emotions? If your partner’s in a bad mood, should you just be their punching bag? And do you spend more time focusing on solutions or who’s to blame? Today Alyson and I explore navigating big emotions in a partnership. We explore how to deal with intensity while also setting boundaries against aggression and good old-fashioned drama.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/dealing-with-blame-and-emotions   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://Alyso...2025-04-0836 minThe New ManThe New ManDealing with Blame and Big Emotions in Your Relationship — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it easier to do a cold plunge than to deal with your partner’s emotions? If your partner’s in a bad mood, should you just be their punching bag? And do you spend more time focusing on solutions or who’s to blame? Today Alyson and I explore navigating big emotions in a partnership. We explore how to deal with intensity while also setting boundaries against aggression and good old-fashioned drama.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/dealing-with-blame-and-emotions   COACHING   → To learn more about...2025-04-0836 minThe New ManThe New ManStriving to be Set for Life — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat does it mean to 10X your life? Why are we so afraid to go “backwards” financially? And what’s really driving our desire for more, more, more? Today, Alyson and I talk about developing a healthy high achiever mindset. We explore scarcity, motivation, and what really drives us to be “set for life.”   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/set-for-life   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lacklu...2025-03-2544 minThe New ManThe New ManStriving to be Set for Life — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat does it mean to 10X your life? Why are we so afraid to go “backwards” financially? And what’s really driving our desire for more, more, more? Today, Alyson and I talk about developing a healthy high achiever mindset. We explore scarcity, motivation, and what really drives us to be “set for life.”   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/set-for-life   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit http...2025-03-2544 minThe New ManThe New ManStruggling with Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you struggle with spirituality? If you stay off the naughty list, does the Universe give you what you want like Santa Claus? And why can spirituality feel so threatening to some folks? Today Alyson and I discuss some of the ways folks relate to the unseen, mysterious world of spirituality. We explore how this relates to our fear of uncertainty, our need for control, and why some people — including me — struggle with spirituality.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/struggling-with-spirituality   COACHING   → To learn mor...2025-02-1146 minThe New ManThe New ManStruggling with Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you struggle with spirituality? If you stay off the naughty list, does the Universe give you what you want like Santa Claus? And why can spirituality feel so threatening to some folks? Today Alyson and I discuss some of the ways folks relate to the unseen, mysterious world of spirituality. We explore how this relates to our fear of uncertainty, our need for control, and why some people — including me — struggle with spirituality.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/struggling-with-spirituality   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https...2025-02-1146 minThe New ManThe New ManFeeling Stuck and Out of Alignment — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs there a voice in your head that says you need to make a change? Do you experience scarcity if you’re not always making more money? And what can you do if the things that used to light you up feel empty now? Today Alyson and I discuss what we can do when we feel out of alignment with our lives. We talk about why we don’t need to beat ourselves up, what really holds us back from making a change, and why feeling “not enough” is really an invitation to get out of the shallow end of the pool...2025-01-1445 minThe New ManThe New ManFeeling Stuck and Out of Alignment — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs there a voice in your head that says you need to make a change? Do you experience scarcity if you’re not always making more money? And what can you do if the things that used to light you up feel empty now? Today Alyson and I discuss what we can do when we feel out of alignment with our lives. We talk about why we don’t need to beat ourselves up, what really holds us back from making a change, and why feeling “not enough” is really an invitation to get out...2025-01-1445 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy People Pleasing is Killing Your Sex Life and Career — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it normal for you to forget things until someone nags you about it? Do you ever wonder why your relationships seem shallow or you miss out on career opportunities? And what does this all have to do with brown M&M’s? Today Alyson and I talk about people pleasing, nice guy syndrome, and how being checked out is killing your sex life and career. We discuss the dangers of transactional relating, why the little things matter and how you can become more trustworthy simply by saying “no” more often.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/people-pleasing   COACHING   → To learn more about coach...2024-12-1730 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy People Pleasing is Killing Your Sex Life and Career — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs it normal for you to forget things until someone nags you about it? Do you ever wonder why your relationships seem shallow or you miss out on career opportunities? And what does this all have to do with brown M&M’s? Today Alyson and I talk about people pleasing, nice guy syndrome, and how being checked out is killing your sex life and career. We discuss the dangers of transactional relating, why the little things matter and how you can become more trustworthy simply by saying “no” more often.   h...2024-12-1730 minThe New ManThe New ManHow Being Guarded Kills Aliveness, Meaning, and Purpose — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you devoted to anything other than money, security, or status? Does living with an open heart make you weak? And how is staying guarded killing aliveness? I grew up guarded and armored. For many years, I thought it was necessary and strong to cut myself off from emotional vulnerability. The truth is that I was fragile and incapable of being in emotionally challenging situations. That way of living almost destroyed me. For the last 20 years I’ve watched my wife Alyson navigate life very differently. She’s one of those rare few that can effortlessly disarm people and help them...2024-12-0354 minThe New ManThe New ManHow Being Guarded Kills Aliveness, Meaning, and Purpose — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you devoted to anything other than money, security, or status? Does living with an open heart make you weak? And how is staying guarded killing aliveness? I grew up guarded and armored. For many years, I thought it was necessary and strong to cut myself off from emotional vulnerability. The truth is that I was fragile and incapable of being in emotionally challenging situations. That way of living almost destroyed me. For the last 20 years I’ve watched my wife Alyson navigate life very differently. She’s one of those rare...2024-12-0354 minThe New ManThe New ManAre You Jealous About Her Sexual Past? — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you the best lover your partner has ever had? How could you ever be sure? What if they preferred having sex with someone else more than you? And is sex a place where you strive to prove that you’re good enough? Today we talk about feeling jealous about our partner’s sexual history. We explore what drives that insecurity, how neediness is repulsive, and why trying to prove you’re a rockstar in bed is a big mistake.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/jealous-about-sexual-history   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about wo...2024-11-1937 minThe New ManThe New ManAre You Jealous About Her Sexual Past? — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you the best lover your partner has ever had? How could you ever be sure? What if they preferred having sex with someone else more than you? And is sex a place where you strive to prove that you’re good enough? Today we talk about feeling jealous about our partner’s sexual history. We explore what drives that insecurity, how neediness is repulsive, and why trying to prove you’re a rockstar in bed is a big mistake.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/jealous-about-sexual-history   COACHING...2024-11-1937 minThe New ManThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo obstacles mean you're on the wrong path, or are they simply part of the journey? Is the universe conspiring against your dreams, or is it just your own fear holding you back? And what can you do if you’re struggling to find motivation or inspiration? Whether you're questioning your career path, second-guessing a major life decision, or simply feeling stuck, you’re bound to experience doubt and resistance. In this episode, we discuss finding your calling, facing inner resistance, and the fear that we might be heading in the wrong direction. And we also explore ways to keep movi...2024-10-2233 minThe New ManThe New ManAm I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo obstacles mean you're on the wrong path, or are they simply part of the journey? Is the universe conspiring against your dreams, or is it just your own fear holding you back? And what can you do if you’re struggling to find motivation or inspiration? Whether you're questioning your career path, second-guessing a major life decision, or simply feeling stuck, you’re bound to experience doubt and resistance. In this episode, we discuss finding your calling, facing inner resistance, and the fear that we might be heading in the wrong direction. And...2024-10-2233 minThe New ManThe New ManBuild True Confidence by Understanding Unhealthy Self-Esteem — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat’s the common link between workaholism, greed, and love addiction? Does your sense of self worth go up and down like a rollercoaster? And is there more to life than protecting our egos? If you’re like everyone else on the planet, then you’ve probably struggled with feeling “enough.” Today Alyson and I dive under the hood to discuss Terry Real’s unhealthy forms of self-esteem so that we can all understand what kills our true confidence. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/workaholism-greed-love-addiction COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working wit...2024-10-0839 minThe New ManThe New ManBuild True Confidence by Understanding Unhealthy Self-Esteem — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhat’s the common link between workaholism, greed, and love addiction? Does your sense of self worth go up and down like a rollercoaster? And is there more to life than protecting our egos? If you’re like everyone else on the planet, then you’ve probably struggled with feeling “enough.” Today Alyson and I dive under the hood to discuss Terry Real’s unhealthy forms of self-esteem so that we can all understand what kills our true confidence. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/workaholism-greed-love-addiction COACHING   → To learn more a...2024-10-0839 minThe New ManThe New ManDealing with Anger and Emotional Constipation — Alyson and Tripp LanierIf you’re angry, is it better to bottle it up or lash out in retaliation? Do you get stuck in a loop thinking of things you should say to that jerk who pissed you off? And how is emotional constipation draining our aliveness and motivation? In this conversation, Alyson and I discuss the problems that arise with anger. For many, we feel stuck — if we say something with anger it might make the situation worse. But if we bottle it up, we become a toxic balloon that could burst at any moment. So today we explore what really drives our...2024-09-1749 minThe New ManThe New ManDealing with Anger and Emotional Constipation — Alyson and Tripp LanierIf you’re angry, is it better to bottle it up or lash out in retaliation? Do you get stuck in a loop thinking of things you should say to that jerk who pissed you off? And how is emotional constipation draining our aliveness and motivation? In this conversation, Alyson and I discuss the problems that arise with anger. For many, we feel stuck — if we say something with anger it might make the situation worse. But if we bottle it up, we become a toxic balloon that could burst at any moment. So toda...2024-09-1749 minThe New ManThe New ManAvoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs our drive for more money, more status, or more stuff really just an attempt to fill a God-sized hole in our lives? Do you ever feel awkward when expressing love to others? And how does our need for safety block us from having satisfying relationships? Today Alyson and I try to understand why love can be so challenging to receive. We discuss the ways we armor ourselves to avoid vulnerability and how we can still feel alone even when we’re with others. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/feel-empty CO...2024-09-0334 minThe New ManThe New ManAvoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs our drive for more money, more status, or more stuff really just an attempt to fill a God-sized hole in our lives? Do you ever feel awkward when expressing love to others? And how does our need for safety block us from having satisfying relationships? Today Alyson and I try to understand why love can be so challenging to receive. We discuss the ways we armor ourselves to avoid vulnerability and how we can still feel alone even when we’re with others. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/feel-empty COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://Tripp...2024-09-0334 minThe New ManThe New ManFacing the Fear of Being Alone — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you with someone because you really want them or because you’re more afraid to be alone? Are you settling for junk food relationships that never satisfy and leave you feeling empty? And how does loneliness drive us to choose lousy partners? Relationships are hard and the only way to learn is to get in the mix. Today Alyson and I find some friction when it comes to dating and playing the field. We also discuss how we’ve helped ourselves and others face their loneliness so that they don’t have to set...2024-08-201h 06The New ManThe New ManFacing the Fear of Being Alone — Alyson and Tripp LanierAre you with someone because you really want them or because you’re more afraid to be alone? Are you settling for junk food relationships that never satisfy and leave you feeling empty? And how does loneliness drive us to choose lousy partners? Relationships are hard and the only way to learn is to get in the mix. Today Alyson and I find some friction when it comes to dating and playing the field. We also discuss how we’ve helped ourselves and others face their loneliness so that they don’t have to settle for lousy partners. https://www.thenew...2024-08-201h 06The New ManThe New ManIs Therapy Frustrating? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs the purpose of therapy to just dig up junk from your past? We talk about why many folks — including therapists we know and love — find the conventional form of therapy to be limiting. Is there another possibility? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/frustrated-with-therapy COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most m...2024-08-0639 minThe New ManThe New ManIs Therapy Frustrating? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs the purpose of therapy to just dig up junk from your past? We talk about why many folks — including therapists we know and love — find the conventional form of therapy to be limiting. Is there another possibility? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/frustrated-with-therapy COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You...2024-08-0639 minThe New ManThe New ManCan a Nerd Become a Stud? Reinventing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp LanierCan a nerd become a stud? Alyson and Tripp react to a movie called The Hitman and the topic of reinventing ourselves. This leads us to discuss pickup artists, neutered men, and handling our inner critic. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/reinvent-yourself COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men...2024-07-2329 minThe New ManThe New ManCan a Nerd Become a Stud? Reinventing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp LanierCan a nerd become a stud? Alyson and Tripp react to a movie called The Hitman and the topic of reinventing ourselves. This leads us to discuss pickup artists, neutered men, and handling our inner critic. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/reinvent-yourself COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dange...2024-07-2329 minThe New ManThe New ManFeeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time? Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges? And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better? Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it possible to get things on a better...2024-06-1344 minThe New ManThe New ManFeeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time? Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges? And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better? Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it po...2024-06-1344 minThe New ManThe New ManMotivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs FOMO driving you to constantly be busy, busy, busy? Is it scary to admit that the hustle and grind is killing your motivation? And when is our resistance trying to help us? Today Alyson and I discuss motivation, resistance, and the cult of success. We talk about how it’s necessary to learn how to thrive in the world, but ultimately we have to stop jumping through hoops, forge our own path, and create success on our own terms. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/motivation-success-resistance COACHING - To...2024-05-3000 minThe New ManThe New ManMotivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs FOMO driving you to constantly be busy, busy, busy? Is it scary to admit that the hustle and grind is killing your motivation? And when is our resistance trying to help us? Today Alyson and I discuss motivation, resistance, and the cult of success. We talk about how it’s necessary to learn how to thrive in the world, but ultimately we have to stop jumping through hoops, forge our own path, and create success on our own terms. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/motivation-success-resistance COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To...2024-05-3000 minThe New ManThe New ManFinding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever feel like something is just not quite right with your life? Do you have most of what you could want but still feel like something’s missing? And who are you underneath that ambition to succeed and avoid failure? Today Alyson and I talk about why so many folks feel empty inside even though they have amazing lives on the outside. We discuss what it means to find our gold, to reveal our essential nature, and what I call the “big imposter syndrome.” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/finding-your-gold COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier...2024-05-1452 minThe New ManThe New ManFinding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp LanierDo you ever feel like something is just not quite right with your life? Do you have most of what you could want but still feel like something’s missing? And who are you underneath that ambition to succeed and avoid failure? Today Alyson and I talk about why so many folks feel empty inside even though they have amazing lives on the outside. We discuss what it means to find our gold, to reveal our essential nature, and what I call the “big imposter syndrome.” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/finding-your-gold ...2024-05-1452 minThe New ManThe New ManSpiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDoes your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life? Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God? And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru? Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own te...2024-04-3046 minThe New ManThe New ManSpiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp LanierDoes your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life? Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God? And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru? Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms. If some of these ideas are he...2024-04-3046 minThe New ManThe New ManIs Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that le...2024-04-1637 minThe New ManThe New ManIs Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp LanierIs marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ev...2024-04-1637 minThe New ManThe New ManMaking Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp LanierAlyson and Tripp Lanier share a coffee and discuss Tripp’s spiritual path, making sense of science and spirituality, and white guys with dreadlocks. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-spirituality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get...2023-12-0552 minThe New ManThe New ManMaking Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp LanierAlyson and Tripp Lanier share a coffee and discuss Tripp’s spiritual path, making sense of science and spirituality, and white guys with dreadlocks. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-spirituality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guid...2023-12-0552 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Beat Mental Resistance + Wannabe Rock Stars — Tripp LanierIf your current path is challenging or scary, does that mean you’re on the wrong path? How can we keep mental resistance from killing our confidence? And what does this have to do with Tripp’s wannabe rock star days? In today’s video we discuss how to beat mental resistance. We’ll learn some basic steps to overcome self doubt and do what truly matters. In this video: Tripp’s wannabe rock star days Why mental resistance shows up The 3 commitments that keep us stuck The cost of letting resistance win 5 steps to get back on track https://www.thenew...2022-04-1312 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Beat Mental Resistance + Wannabe Rock Stars — Tripp LanierIf your current path is challenging or scary, does that mean you’re on the wrong path? How can we keep mental resistance from killing our confidence? And what does this have to do with Tripp’s wannabe rock star days? In today’s video we discuss how to beat mental resistance. We’ll learn some basic steps to overcome self doubt and do what truly matters. In this video: Tripp’s wannabe rock star days Why mental resistance shows up The 3 commitments that keep us stuck2022-04-1312 minThe New ManThe New ManThe Ego is Not the Enemy? — Tripp LanierWhat if our ego is not the enemy? What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind? And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team America, and goofy superheroes? A deeper look into IFS and Richard Schwartz. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/ego-not-the-enemy You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not fo...2022-03-3012 minThe New ManThe New ManThe Ego is Not the Enemy? — Tripp LanierWhat if our ego is not the enemy? What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind? And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team America, and goofy superheroes? A deeper look into IFS and Richard Schwartz. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/ego-not-the-enemy You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com ...2022-03-3012 minThe New ManThe New ManKelly Slater and a Healthy Competitor Mindset — Tripp LanierDo you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more? Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others? And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition? In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way. In this video: - Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters - Burnout from competitive mindset - Why losses can sting so bad - Reinventing ourselves - Another way to approach competition https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com...2022-03-0114 minThe New ManThe New ManKelly Slater and a Healthy Competitor Mindset — Tripp LanierDo you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more? Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others? And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition? In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way. In this video: - Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters - Burnout from competitive mindset - Why losses can stin...2022-03-0114 minThe New ManThe New ManThe Magical Steak Story: Dangers of a Magical Mindset — Tripp LanierDo some people seem to have magical powers? Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet? And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet? Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill. In this video: - Putting people on a pedestal - How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality - Hiding under our mother’s skirt - Shifting our mindset to build confidence and skill - One of my disgusting pranks https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/ma...2022-02-1510 minThe New ManThe New ManThe Magical Steak Story: Dangers of a Magical Mindset — Tripp LanierDo some people seem to have magical powers? Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet? And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet? Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill. In this video: - Putting people on a pedestal - How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality - Hiding under our mother’s skirt - Shifting ou...2022-02-1510 minThe New ManThe New ManThe 3 Keys to Clarity: Finding Direction and Alignment - Tripp LanierDo you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”? In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind. In this video: - Why so many folks feel lost - Why I was terrified after selling my first company - Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap - How does money impact a purposeful life? - Why procrastination isn’t always lazinesst https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/finding-clarity You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier u...2022-02-0117 minThe New ManThe New ManThe 3 Keys to Clarity: Finding Direction and Alignment - Tripp LanierDo you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”? In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind. In this video: - Why so many folks feel lost - Why I was terrified after selling my first company - Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap - How does money impact a purposeful life? - Why procrastination isn’t always lazinesst https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022...2022-02-0117 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy Did They Call Me Cat Squeeze? Productivity and Outgrowing Your Life — Tripp LanierHave you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’? Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway. Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do. In this short video: - My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him - Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough - Striving for more, more, more - Leading your own life vs stuck in expectations - 3 steps to shift into a more powerful m...2022-01-1816 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy Did They Call Me Cat Squeeze? Productivity and Outgrowing Your Life — Tripp LanierHave you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’? Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway. Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do. In this short video: - My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him - Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough - Striving for more, more, more - Leading yo...2022-01-1816 minThe New ManThe New ManYou’re Being Hormonal - When Heated Talks Turn into Fights — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhen you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames? Why do heated conversations have a tendency to spiral into infernos? And is it more important to win the fight or find a solution? It’s not always sunny in the Lanier household, and on this particular day, I stepped on a landmine. After the fire was brought under control, Alyson thought it might be helpful to turn on the mics and explore what caused the fire - as well as what we did to put it out. But to be honest, like a moron, I ended...2021-09-1445 minThe New ManThe New ManYou’re Being Hormonal - When Heated Talks Turn into Fights — Alyson and Tripp LanierWhen you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames? Why do heated conversations have a tendency to spiral into infernos? And is it more important to win the fight or find a solution? It’s not always sunny in the Lanier household, and on this particular day, I stepped on a landmine. After the fire was brought under control, Alyson thought it might be helpful to turn on the mics and explore what caused the fire - as well as what we did to put it out. But to b...2021-09-1445 minThe New ManThe New ManGo From Poopy-Pants to Power — Tripp LanierTired of feeling uninspired or “meh?” Tired of hearing yourself bitch and complain? And why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” In this short video, we explore a simple process to use our mood to our advantage. In this episode: Why do moods matter? What causes our moods? Why are we giving up our power? The 3 step process to shift a lousy mood into empowering action Why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/use-mood-to-your-advantage You don't have to settle...2021-04-2000 minThe New ManThe New ManGo From Poopy-Pants to Power — Tripp LanierTired of feeling uninspired or “meh?” Tired of hearing yourself bitch and complain? And why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” In this short video, we explore a simple process to use our mood to our advantage. In this episode: Why do moods matter? What causes our moods? Why are we giving up our power? The 3 step process to shift a lousy mood into empowering action Why do we choose to “cover our as...2021-04-2000 minThe New ManThe New ManBuild Confidence: There is No Secret Sauce — Tripp LanierDo you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing? Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often? And do you fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or putting folks on a pedestal? In this video, I share the story of a coaching client who used his business to transform his mindset and become more confident in the process. In this video: Lacking follow through on the important things Shiny object syndrome — switching strategies Comparing ourselves to others Putting others on a pedestal Looking for the “secret sauce”, hacks, or...2021-03-2400 minThe New ManThe New ManBuild Confidence: There is No Secret Sauce — Tripp LanierDo you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing? Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often? And do you fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or putting folks on a pedestal? In this video, I share the story of a coaching client who used his business to transform his mindset and become more confident in the process. In this video: Lacking follow through on the important things Shiny object syndrome — switching strategies Comp...2021-03-2400 minThe New ManThe New ManCompetitive Mindset: Is There More to Life than Winning and Losing? — Tripp LanierMake the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that time I got diarrhea from the FSU vs Miami football game. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/more-to-life-than-winning-losing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Wi...2021-03-0300 minThe New ManThe New ManCompetitive Mindset: Is There More to Life than Winning and Losing? — Tripp LanierMake the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that time I got diarrhea from the FSU vs Miami football game. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/more-to-life-than-winning-losing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. Th...2021-03-0300 minThe New ManThe New ManNot Everybody Gets to Be King: The Mindset Difference Between a Leader and a Follower — Tripp LanierNot everybody gets to be king. What’s the mindset difference between a leader and a follower? Are you a king hiding out as a knight? And how do we define success on our own terms? In this short lesson, we explore the major mindset differences between a leader and a follower. We discuss why so many of us are “kings in hiding,” as well as some practical tools to own our creative, visionary energy in service of something greater than ourselves. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/difference-between-leader-follower You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that T...2020-12-0800 minThe New ManThe New ManNot Everybody Gets to Be King: The Mindset Difference Between a Leader and a Follower — Tripp LanierNot everybody gets to be king. What’s the mindset difference between a leader and a follower? Are you a king hiding out as a knight? And how do we define success on our own terms? In this short lesson, we explore the major mindset differences between a leader and a follower. We discuss why so many of us are “kings in hiding,” as well as some practical tools to own our creative, visionary energy in service of something greater than ourselves. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/difference-between-leader-follower You do...2020-12-0800 minThe New ManThe New ManMotivation Beyond Fear: Underachievers vs Overachievers — Tripp LanierFinding motivation beyond fear. Why underachievers and overachievers are typically driven by fear. Developing self leadership skills to get out of feast or famine and “never enough.” Also: turning pro, finding flow, and tips to follow through. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/motivation-beyond-fear-underachievers-overachievers You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will M...2020-12-0100 minThe New ManThe New ManMotivation Beyond Fear: Underachievers vs Overachievers — Tripp LanierFinding motivation beyond fear. Why underachievers and overachievers are typically driven by fear. Developing self leadership skills to get out of feast or famine and “never enough.” Also: turning pro, finding flow, and tips to follow through. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/motivation-beyond-fear-underachievers-overachievers You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This b...2020-12-0100 minThe New ManThe New ManAm I With the Right Person? — Tripp LanierWhy we get stuck in unsatisfying relationships. Understanding the purpose of your relationship, tips for creating more alignment so you don’t have to settle. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/relationship-struggles You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will...2020-11-1700 minThe New ManThe New ManAm I With the Right Person? — Tripp LanierWhy we get stuck in unsatisfying relationships. Understanding the purpose of your relationship, tips for creating more alignment so you don’t have to settle. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/relationship-struggles You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make...2020-11-1700 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Meditate for Mindfulness — Tripp LanierWhat’s the point of meditation? How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity? And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of farting people? Today, Tripp Lanier shares some insights gained from 20+ years of meditation plus why he insists that his coaching clients develop a coaching practice. In this video: Why bother meditating? Why your hobby isn’t a meditation Flow states vs meditative states Different types of meditation Developing the “witness” or mindfulness Plu...2020-11-1300 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Meditate for Mindfulness — Tripp LanierWhat’s the point of meditation? How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity? And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of farting people? Today, Tripp Lanier shares some insights gained from 20+ years of meditation plus why he insists that his coaching clients develop a coaching practice. In this video: Why bother meditating? Why your hobby isn’t a meditation Flow states vs meditative states Different types of meditation Developing the “witness” or mindfulness Plus: A basic overview for how to meditate Meditating in a room full of farting people The upside to having a c...2020-11-1300 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy You (Probably) Don’t Need to Be More Productive — Tripp LanierAre you busy but still feel like you’re not doing enough? Does it seem like it’s all on you to keep things on track? And do you think that being more productive would solve all of these problems? Today we explore the possibility that our desire for greater productivity may be rooted in fear and delusion. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immedi...2020-10-2710 minThe New ManThe New ManWhy You (Probably) Don’t Need to Be More Productive — Tripp LanierAre you busy but still feel like you’re not doing enough? Does it seem like it’s all on you to keep things on track? And do you think that being more productive would solve all of these problems? Today we explore the possibility that our desire for greater productivity may be rooted in fear and delusion. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make Y...2020-10-2710 minThe New ManThe New ManDivide and Conquer: Avoid the Trap — Tripp LanierAre you sick of the pissing match being played out in politics and the media? Can you no longer be friends with folks because you have differing political views? And what if it’s possible that we’re being manipulated to believe this funhouse mirror version of reality? Today we take a look at some practical ways we can reclaim our power and peace of mind while the media and masses act like turd tossing toddlers. Feel free to keep whatever ideas work for you and discard the rest. In this inte...2020-10-2017 minThe New ManThe New ManDivide and Conquer: Avoid the Trap — Tripp LanierAre you sick of the pissing match being played out in politics and the media? Can you no longer be friends with folks because you have differing political views? And what if it’s possible that we’re being manipulated to believe this funhouse mirror version of reality? Today we take a look at some practical ways we can reclaim our power and peace of mind while the media and masses act like turd tossing toddlers. Feel free to keep whatever ideas work for you and discard the rest. In this interview: Tripp’s history in the dark underbelly of politi...2020-10-2017 minThe New ManThe New ManIntegrity: What if We Weren’t So Full of Sh*t? — Tripp LanierA quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportunity to use honesty to great advantage. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud...2020-10-1313 minThe New ManThe New ManIntegrity: What if We Weren’t So Full of Sh*t? — Tripp LanierA quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportunity to use honesty to great advantage. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play f...2020-10-1313 minThe New ManThe New ManIs Playing it Safe Killing Your Motivation? — Tripp LanierWhat’s killing your motivation? Is there more to life than making money or being exceptional? And why do so many fathers and husbands forget how to feel alive? Today we’re going to discuss how to rebuild our inner fire and why too much of a good thing is not a good thing. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swif...2020-09-2910 minThe New ManThe New ManGive Up or Stick it Out? Tough Love Swimming Lessons and The Hollywood Montage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierDid you have a terrifying experience when you learned how to swim? Does learning a difficult task feel the same as doing it well? And what life lesson can we learn from cheesy 80’s action movies? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we talk about the desire to quit, the magical, hollywood montage, and my covert black ops swimming lesson. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Should we give up or stick it out? Learning something vs doing something well Old school “tough love” swimming...2020-08-1806 minThe New ManThe New ManMotivation, Clarity, and Why Kids Suck (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierDo you depend on motivation or confidence to do what’s best for you? What if you’re stuck because you don’t know what to do? And why do kids suck? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we take a quick look into the myth of motivation, the best way to find confidence and clarity, and why it’s important to face the fact that we all suck from time to time. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Are you waiting to feel passionate...2020-08-1108 minThe New ManThe New ManDealing with Analysis Paralysis and Self Sabotage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierDo you believe you have commitment issues? Why do we sabotage ourselves? And how can we overcome analysis paralysis so that we can start taking meaningful action today? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, I’m going to share the reasons why we hit the brakes when we’re trying to make a positive change, and we’ll also begin to understand the invisible force of resistance so that it doesn’t keep us stuck. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Why won’t a man commit...2020-08-0410 minThe New ManThe New ManFear of Failure and Choosing to Play Big (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierWhat if the fear of failure wasn’t the thing holding us back? Could the freedom we deeply want be available to us right now? And how could we quickly shift into a perspective that challenges us to play big? Today we’re going to zoom out and see our problems and lives from a perspective we rarely take. In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we’ll tap into a universal view to minimize fear in order to access greater freedom and power. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting Dangerou...2020-07-0709 minThe New ManThe New ManThis Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier - Starbucks ShootoutHave you ever wanted something so badly that you screwed it up? Why do our efforts to “get it right” usually end up with us getting it wrong? And how does fear block our ability to be more energized, creative, and bold? Today, we’re going to hear another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. In this excerpt you’ll hear how I found myself in a cinematic coffee shop shootout and why I almost blew up my marriage before it ever got off the ground. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting D...2020-06-0208 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Use Death to Become More Powerful (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierHave you ever felt that you’re waiting to do what you really want to do in life? How could the fact that we’re going to die, help us live more fully? And what are the two key elements needed for us to step fully into our power? Today, I want to share another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. First, you’ll go through a short exercise designed to help us create more alignment with what we truly want. And second we’ll discuss how giving away our power keeps us playing small. If you’re interested...2020-05-2608 minThe New ManThe New ManHow to Stop Playing it Safe - Coaching Call with Tripp LanierDo you ever play it safe when it comes to money or sex? Do you take risks or only go for what appears to be a “sure thing?” And how can we make sure we don’t get stuck in a prey mentality? Today we’re going to listen in on a recent call I had with a coaching client. His work and sex life were feeling flat, so we explored some ways he could get out of his own way, stop playing it safe, and find that mojo again. In this interview: Feeling uninspired in our work and sex life Why...2020-05-1934 minThe New ManThe New ManThat Time I Went to the Butt Doctor (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp LanierWhat does it mean to be dangerous? How can we ensure we don’t become grumpy, soft, and fragile old men? And could what you’re about to hear be the worst, most disgusting way to open a book? Today, I want to share an excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. This is the introduction where we take a very unconventional look at expectations and clarify why I throw most success how-to books in the trash. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this interview: What happened when I went to the butt doctor Why I throw most succ...2020-05-1214 minThe New ManThe New ManFacing Fear: Only the Dead Survive - Tripp Lanier Group Coaching CallWith so much uncertainty right now, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings that arise? What if it actually all came crashing down? What could possibly exist on the other side of your worst nightmare? Our brains are constantly scanning for threats — most of which never come true, but this constant worrying can kill the enjoyment of our short time to be alive. Today I’m sharing a recent group coaching call where, instead of running away from these scary feelings we chose to do something else instead. In this interview: Clarifying what’s at stake Getting hijacked by our fe...2020-05-0620 min