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The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#652: Rewiring Negative Self-TalkYour self-talk shapes your self-confidence — and if your inner voice is harsh, critical, or negative, it’s time to change that. Inside this episode: • How to stop believing the mean girl voice in your head • Real-life examples to help you rewire your daily thinking • Why most people never change their self-talk — and how you can Get ready to think better, speak to yourself with more kindness, and feel more confident than ever — starting today. 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!) www...2025-05-2023 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#651: Being Judged and Judging OthersDo you ever feel paralyzed by the fear of being judged? Or catch yourself judging others even when you don't mean to? Both sides of judgment—being judged and being the judger—can quietly erode your confidence. Let’s be honest—being judged hurts. And judging others…well, sometimes it’s just a knee-jerk reaction we don’t even realize we’re doing. But here’s the truth: both receiving judgment and giving it out are confidence killers. In today’s episode, we’re exploring what happens to our inner confidence when judgment—ours or someone else’s—gets loud...2025-05-1330 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#650: How to Talk to Anyone with ConfidenceConfidence in conversation is a skill — not a personality trait — and in this episode, you’ll learn exactly how to talk to anyone, anywhere, with confidence and ease. Whether you struggle with small talk, freeze in social settings, or just want to upgrade your people skills, this episode breaks down the mindset hacks and talking tips you need to shine. Inside this episode, you'll learn: • How to stop overthinking conversations • Go-to phrases to start or carry a conversation • What confident people do differently in social interactions • How to feel good talking t...2025-05-0628 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#649: Confident Parenting in a Judgmental WorldIn a world where everyone seems to have an opinion about how you raise your kids—from social media to the school pickup line—it’s no wonder so many parents feel like they’re not doing enough or doing it "wrong." In this episode, we’re unpacking the silent confidence battles most parents face: the fear of judgment, the trap of overthinking, and the constant comparison game. You'll walk away feeling less alone, more equipped, and reminded that you don’t need to be perfect—you just need to be present. This isn't just for...2025-04-2932 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#648: Being "Nice" Is Wrecking Your ConfidenceWhat’s the difference between being kind… and being nice? If you’ve ever found yourself people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, or trying to “keep the peace” even when it costs you your authenticity—this episode is for you. We’re talking about kindness versus niceness. Two words that sound similar, but are wildly different in how they impact your confidence, your boundaries, your relationships, and your self-respect. If you’ve ever caught yourself over-apologizing, saying yes when you really mean no, avoiding conflict, or trying to keep everyone else happy—this episode is your invitation to paus...2025-04-2226 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#647: Reframing Thoughts, Limiting Beliefs & AnxietyYour thoughts shape your reality—but what if the thoughts you’ve been thinking aren’t actually true? In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're breaking down the life-changing power of reframing—the simple yet strategic mindset shift that helps you take control of negativity, reduce overthinking, and build unstoppable self-belief. You'll learn how to identify thought patterns that keep you stuck, how to flip the script in real time, and how to start creating thoughts that empower rather than limit you. Whether you’re battling self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or just ready to stop being so h...2025-04-1535 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#646: Body Confidence Q&AsIf you've ever felt disconnected from your body or caught in a cycle of self-doubt, you’re definitely not alone. In today’s episode, we’re doing a special Q&A on body confidence, where I’ll be answering your most pressing questions on how to embrace the body you’re in and step into the confidence that’s always been within you. We’ll talk about practical ways to shift your mindset, let go of comparison, and silence that inner critic. It’s time to stop letting self-doubt hold you back, and instead, start honoring and cel...2025-04-0831 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#645: Confidence When There's PressurePressure can either crush you or bring out your best—and the difference comes down to confidence. In this episode, we’re talking about how to stay calm, clear, and confident even in high-stakes situations. Whether you're stepping into competition, facing a big career moment, or just dealing with the everyday pressures of life, I’ll walk you through practical mindset shifts and confidence strategies that actually work. 🎧 Press play now to learn: ✅ Why most people lose confidence under pressure (and how to avoid it) ✅ The mindset shift that instantly makes pressure feel easier ✅ Pr...2025-04-0135 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#644: The Lies that Steal Your ConfidenceIf you’ve ever thought, I’ll feel confident once I have more experience or Other people are just naturally confident, and I’m not—you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: confidence isn’t about being fearless, perfect, or having it all together. It’s about recognizing and rewriting the sneaky lies that are keeping you stuck. In this episode, we’re breaking down the five biggest confidence-killing lies, why you keep believing them, and—most importantly—how to replace them with thoughts that will actually help you feel as confident as you deserve to be. Get rea...2025-03-2532 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#643: Confidence for High Achievers Q&AsIn this special listener Q&A episode, I’m answering your biggest questions about confidence—straight from real, high-achieving women just like you. From overcoming imposter syndrome to trusting yourself in big decisions, breaking free from people-pleasing, and building unshakable self-belief, we’re tackling it all. Whether you struggle with self-doubt in your career, fear of failure, or body confidence, this episode is packed with practical strategies and mindset shifts to help you show up boldly, own your worth, and take action—even when you don’t feel ready. If you’ve ever wonder...2025-03-1828 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#642: Let Them Think What They WantIn today’s episode, we’re talking about something that can feel a little scary: letting people have their own opinions about you—even if those opinions are negative. It’s totally okay for people to think whatever they want, and today, I’m going to show you how you can be confident no matter what others think! Here’s what we’ll cover: Why it’s okay for people to have negative thoughts about you (and why it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you) How letting go of the need for everyone to like you...2025-03-1129 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#641: "I’ll Be Happy When…" (But Why Am I Still Not Happy?)We all do it: I’ll be happy when I lose the weight. When I hit six figures. When I find the right person. When I get that promotion. But then, the moment arrives… and happiness still feels out of reach. Why? In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re unpacking the hidden confidence-killer of conditional happiness and how to break free from the “next-goal” trap. You’ll learn the surprising reason why success doesn’t always equal joy, a simple daily shift that rewires your brain for lasting happiness, and how to stop feeling guilty for...2025-03-0432 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#640: The Nobody Cares TheoryEver feel like people are constantly watching, judging, or keeping score of everything you do? Spoiler alert: they’re not. The truth is, nobody is thinking about you as much as you think they are—and when you fully embrace this, you’ll unlock a whole new level of confidence and freedom. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re diving deep into The Nobody Cares Theory—a game-changing mindset shift that will help you stop overthinking, take action without fear, and finally start showing up as your most confident self. What You’ll Learn...2025-02-2531 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#639: How to Live a Big Life, Not a Busy LifeAre you filling your days or truly fulfilling your life? In this episode, we’re diving into the difference between living bigand just staying busy. You’ll learn how to break free from the hustle mindset, prioritize what actually matters, and create a life that feels expansive, not exhausting. If you’re ready to step into more purpose, joy, and intentionality, this episode is for you! If you’ve ever felt stuck in the hustle, like you’re doing a lot but not really living, you’re not alone. Somewhere along the way, we’ve been conditioned to believe tha...2025-02-1829 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#638: When Life Feels UnfairHave you ever looked at someone else’s life and thought, Why does everything seem so easy for them while I’m over here struggling? Maybe you’ve been working hard for a promotion, only to watch someone less experienced get it. Maybe you’ve dreamed of having a family, but infertility has left you heartbroken. Maybe you grew up in a family that never really saw you, never really supported you, and now you’re left wondering how much further ahead you’d be if you had a different start in life. 2025-02-1134 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#637: The Power of FailureWhat if failure isn’t something to fear but a stepping stone to your greatest success? In this episode, we’re redefining failure and exploring how setbacks can become your most powerful tool for growth. You’ll hear inspiring stories of world-class achievers—like Michael Jordan, J.K. Rowling, and Walt Disney—who turned failure into fuel for success. We’ll break down why we fear failure, how to reframe it as a learning experience, and practical steps to embrace it in your own life. If you’ve ever felt like failure means you’re not good enough...2025-02-0426 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#636: Catastrophizing & All-or-Nothing ThinkingHave you ever found yourself spiraling out of control, imagining the worst possible outcome, even when things aren’t that bad? Maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking, 'If this doesn’t work out, everything will fall apart' or 'I can’t afford to fail at this, it’ll ruin everything.' This type of thinking, known as catastrophizing, is when we blow things out of proportion, expecting the worst without evidence. It’s easy to get caught up in all-or-nothing thinking, where we see situations in extremes—either perfect or disastrous. But the good news is, it doesn’t have to...2025-01-2827 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#635:The Invisible Burden of Perfection in High AchieversHave you ever looked around and thought, 'Am I the only one here who doesn’t have it all together?' Do you feel like you’re one mistake away from being ‘found out’? Do you constantly worry that everyone around you will see you for the fraud you believe yourself to be? Or maybe you’ve caught yourself holding back, scared that if you speak up or make a mistake, the world will find out you don’t actually know what you’re doing. Guess what? You’re not the only one. And yo...2025-01-2133 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#634: What to Do When You Feel Embarrassed + How to Get Over Your Fear of Being EmbarrassedEmbarrassment is something we’ve all experienced—those moments when the spotlight feels a little too bright, and you wish you could disappear. But what if feeling embarrassed wasn’t something to fear but an opportunity for growth and connection? In this episode, we’ll dive deep into understanding embarrassment and how to handle it with confidence and grace. You’ll learn: Why embarrassment is a natural part of being human. Simple steps to manage the heat of the moment when it strikes. How to reframe embarrassing experiences into personal growth. Practical tools to let go of overthi...2025-01-1435 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#633: How to Date with ConfidenceDating doesn’t have to be overwhelming or filled with self-doubt—it can be exciting, empowering, and confidence-boosting when you approach it with the right mindset. In this episode, we’re breaking down the essentials of dating with confidence. You’ll learn how to: ✨ Put yourself out there and embrace opportunities. ✨ Get clear on what you want in a partner (and why it matters). ✨ Own why you’re a catch and show up authentically. ✨ Live an exciting life that naturally attracts the right people. ✨ Stop overthinking (hint: everyone has insecur...2025-01-0727 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#632: How to Be More ProactiveDo you ever have those moments when you catch a glimpse of yourself and think, 'Ugh, why do I look like this?' Or worse, when you spiral into comparison mode, scrolling through perfect social media photos and wondering if you’ll ever measure up. Well, spoiler alert: you don’t need to measure up to anyone, because your worth is already infinite. In this episode, we’re diving deep into why we sometimes feel this way, how societal standards and overthinking play into it, and most importantly, how to stop letting these feelings control you. Whether it’s b...2024-12-3129 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#631: Feeling Ugly and OffDo you ever have those moments when you catch a glimpse of yourself and think, 'Ugh, why do I look like this?' Or worse, when you spiral into comparison mode, scrolling through perfect social media photos and wondering if you’ll ever measure up. Well, spoiler alert: you don’t need to measure up to anyone, because your worth is already infinite. In this episode, we’re diving deep into why we sometimes feel this way, how societal standards and overthinking play into it, and most importantly, how to stop letting these feelings control you. Whether it’s b...2024-12-2436 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#630: Can You Lose Your Confidence? What To Do If You HaveHave you ever felt like your confidence just disappeared? Like you used to feel sure of yourself, but now, self-doubt seems louder than your self-belief? Maybe you’re wondering: Why do I feel so uncertain when I used to be fearless? Is confidence something that can vanish forever? And most importantly—if I’ve lost it, how do I get it back? If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing your abilities, overthinking every decision, or struggling to find the courage you once had, you are not alone. Today, we’re uncovering the truth about why confidence can feel lost...2024-12-1741 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#629: Bullying, Mean People & CatastrophizingHave you ever felt crushed by someone else’s words? Maybe it was a bully from your past, a toxic co-worker, or even just someone who was having a bad day and decided to take it out on you. It’s tough, isn’t it? Those moments can leave us feeling small, second-guessing ourselves, or even spiraling into worst-case scenarios. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the messy world of bullies, mean people, and catastrophizing. We’re going to break it all down—how to handle the hurt, why some people act the way they do, and m...2024-12-1034 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#628: How Do You Know If You're Good Enough? Are you tired of questioning whether you measure up? Do you find yourself constantly comparing your life, your work, or even your worth to others? And what would it feel like to finally believe that who you are, right now, is enough? How do we measure "good enough" anyways? And we're not just talking about it in general, like "you're good enough", but what is "good enough" in work, in friendships, in your fitness, in life? How do you know if you're doing enough? How do you know if you're settling? How do you know if you're l...2024-12-0337 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#627: Designing Your Life: Increasing Your Happiness and ImpactDo you look around at other people's lives and wonder why they're happier than you, or least they appear to be? Have you ever said "Must be nice?" about someone who seems to do cool things with their life and you secretly wish you knew what you could do to make your life more exciting, but you feel stuck? Today we're covering: How to know what you want in life -- especially if you feel lost or in transition What people don't tell you about designing your life The most critical thing you need to do...2024-11-2636 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#626: High Achiever Hacks to Make Progress No Matter What (How to Not Get Distracted by Life's Drama)You're driven, and focused, but then life happens. You told yourself that you would be super consistent, but what are you supposed to do when there's a family crisis, when you get sick, or when you're just stretched too thin. This episode is going to offer simple hacks that will take you out of the overwhelm and fog that derails so many well-intentioned people and help you keep things simple, clear and progressively moving forward. Get the full show notes and transcript at: www.trishblackwell.com/626 📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.t...2024-11-1930 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#625: How to Really Love Yourself and Your Life Do you want to be able to really love yourself, and your life, like, not just when things are going well for you or when you're getting external validation from others? This episode is for you. Look, I've been there … I put my worth and value, and my ability to love myself into the hands of what I couldn't control -- performance, affirmation, success and dating the right people. Ultimately, I loved myself when I got the positive feedback, but when I didn't, it felt like my world (and my worth) was caving in on me. You're not...2024-11-1235 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#624: Commonly Asked Confidence Questions (Listener Q&A) - Part 2Have you always wanted to ask me a question? In this episode we talk about: How to advance in your career without sacrificing your close connection to your children? How to not be afraid of making the wrong decision... How to make big decisions in life without feeling overwhelmed, anxious and like you're second-guessing myself? How to stay confident after disappointments and failures, and it feels like nothing is working? What to do if you have high anxiety and feel unsettled in the workplace? How do you know if you should have boundaries and w...2024-11-0528 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#623: Commonly Asked Confidence Questions | Part 1 (Listener Submitted)Have you always wanted to ask me a question? Do you have burning questions about confidence that you just don't know who or how to ask? Do you wonder what other people want to know about confidence? Today’s episode is extra special because it’s all about YOU! That’s right, we’re tackling your listener-submitted questions. From how to handle self-doubt to building unshakeable confidence in everyday situations, we’re covering the topics you care most about. So get ready for some real talk, actionable tips, and a whole lot of inspiration. www.trishblackwell.com/623 ...2024-10-2936 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#622: How to Never Give Up: Building Mental Toughness in 3 StepsDo you want to know the secret to overcoming any obstacle that comes your way? It's not talent, luck, or resources - it's GRIT, or mental toughness! In this podcast, I'm coaching on the power of grit and how it can help you develop the resilience and determination you need to achieve your goals. I'll share some strategies and techniques to help you develop mental toughness, overcome obstacles, and achieve your goals. From building resilience to managing stress and anxiety, I'm going to cover it all. The truth is that you cannot become mentally tough doing comfortable or easy t...2024-10-2232 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#621: How to Develop Thick Skin and Handle Criticism Like a BossDo you take things too personally? Or perhaps do you over-personalize things that aren't going well and over-compensate? Are you afraid of feedback because you know that you tend to take constructive criticism way too intensely. This is something we all deal with…haters, critics, and feedback we don't like— and today I'm giving teaching how to rise above the negativity and opinions of others. If you’ve ever felt weighed down by what people say behind your back or let their criticism steal your joy, then this episode is for you. It's time to develo...2024-10-1529 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#620: Make More Mistakes and Leverage Your Frustration ToleranceYou're a doer, and an achiever - you have high standards for yourself and you know that you're capable of so much. And you work hard. Like, really hard. So, when you make mistakes, especially avoidable mistakes, it hits you like. Like, super hard. You know it's okay to be human, but that's for other people - not for you, because, you have big goals and a ton of potential. I get it and if any of this resonated with you, this episode is for you. In this episode I'm going to be coaching on how to make more...2024-10-0834 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#619: Guilt and Being Too Hard on YourselfDo you feel the pressure of too many expectations and too much to do? There's a tug-of-war between feeling like you're never "enough" in any role and a conflict in demand for your attention. You feel guilty all the time … mom guilt, not doing enough guilt, feeling inconsistent guilt, or maybe guilt about that cookie you just ate that wasn't on your planned eating for the day…the guilt is real (and you're not alone!). Look, you're balancing work, family, personal passions, and societal expectations. That's a lot. This episode will help air out the dirt cloud of guilt that...2024-10-0131 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#618: Consistency: What Most People Are Doing Wrong and How to Not Make the Easy MistakesThe things that are holding you back from what you most want aren't big things, and ya'll that 's good news. Consistency is the key to success, and if you've ever struggled with being consistent, or following through, this episode is going to help you. Most people have a hard time being consistent, and it makes sense: consistency can feel boring. Not only that, there are a 5 easy mistakes that people make (most of the time without realizing it) that destroys their ability to be consistent. You're going to learn what these mistakes are and how to know if...2024-09-2429 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#617: Rejected But Not Dejected: How to Stay Confident When Rejected, Fired or Not SelectedRejection hurts. And the thing is, when we get rejected we also self-isolate and personalize the rejected state. This episode of The Confidence Podcast will help you know what to do to self-heal after the next rejection you experience (because let's be honest, you'll have them coming, we all do!) You can learn how to take every rejection and turn it into something good. This episode will teach you the steps how. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/617 📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COAC...2024-09-1737 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#616: What If I Regress? How to Not Worry About Backsliding in Your Habits or Your GrowthDoes your mind ever slip into a silent worry-zone about backsliding into your old habits or old patterns? You know, the kind of worry that you can't really talk to someone about because there's not really space in a conversation about it…but you worry about gaining the weight back, you worry about being awkward again like you were in middle school, you worry about losing your motivation or your vision…but it's weird because it's one of those things that you're afraid to talk about as if talking about it would make it reality? Listen, I get...2024-09-1033 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#615: Not Worrying About People's OpinionsDoes it bother you when someone doesn't like you? Or maybe you struggle with decision making because you waffle back and forth between what you think you should do and what other people think you should do. Maybe you find yourself worrying about other people's opinions of you, even though you know it "shouldn't" matter, but you don't know how to not care. This episode of The Confidence Podcast will help you stop worrying about people's opinions so you can feel free to go be yourself and to create the life you want to live. Get the...2024-09-0327 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#614: When People Don't Support You or Understand You Feeling misunderstood or not supported by those close to you can feel isolating and hurtful. It can devastate your spirit and throw you into a spiral of resignation and depression. You are not alone, and the good news is that you don't actually need the support of other people in the way you think you do. The support you need comes first and foremost from within. I spent years of my life feeling misunderstood and like people in my life didn't quite support my big dreams or vision … but I pressed on because I learned these techniques tha...2024-08-2733 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#613: Adult Friendships: How to Not Make it So HardFriendship as an adult can be hard. Everyone is busy, and you find yourself surrounded by co-workers who have nothing in common with you, or neighbors you don't like. You know you're great at friendship, and you love having a solid social group, but it feels like everyone you care most about is drifting and less available than ever before…busy pursuing a new relationship, starting a family or chasing a work career in a city that’s far away from you. You stay in touch, but it's just not the same. Or maybe you are surrounded by people, but...2024-08-2040 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#612: Anxiety Neutralization and Tools for the Anxiety ProneAnxiety used to rule my life. I woke up with it and went to bed with it. I felt like a prisoner to it. If you ever struggle with anxiety, this episode is for you. In the episode I'm going to teach you the two most effective techniques I have used that have enabled me to neutralize and have power over the anxious voice in my life. We're gong to talk about management tools for those of us who are anxiety prone, and as someone with a history and intimate relationship with anxiety, I'm going to share some of...2024-08-1334 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#611: Designing Your Dream Life and Believing It Can Really HappenIf you've ever looked at someone else's life and thought to yourself, "must be nice," then this episode is going to fire you up about the what is possible for you in your own life. The key isn't just to have a dream, but it's to believe that that dream is actually possible. It's only once you believe it's possible that you will have the drive and resilience to go build it and become it. Listen to this episode if you are ready to believe in the change you want - and the future of your dreams, and are...2024-08-0632 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#610: Confidence for Sales and for Making More MoneyEveryone sells something. We live in a world that operates on sales - selling ideas, selling products, selling personal opinions - and the more confidence you have, the better you will be at selling. In this episode I'm going to share the exact thoughts that will help you sell with confidence. The more confidence you have, the more you will sell. I'm going to pull back the curtain on the almost 20-years of sales training experience I have and share with you exactly how to have more confidence for anything you are selling. Get the full show...2024-07-3031 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#609: Being Different and Not Caring What People ThinkIf you've ever struggled with a deep desire to fit in, and yet at the same time you know that you also want to stand out, this is a podcast episode that you're going to love. As humans we're wired to be in community and to be connected with one another, and yet, we are each individually unique and created for a purpose that only we can activate and fulfill in this world. Your uniqueness and your difference is needed - but to live into your highest potential (and to be the difference-maker and world-changer I believe God made...2024-07-2329 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#608: Arrogance or Confidence? What's the Difference + How to Deal with Arrogant People?If you've ever worried about coming off arrogant instead of confident, this episode is for you. In this week's coaching I'm breaking apart the thought-pattern differences between arrogance and confidence so you can confidently navigate the grey line for yourself. If you are worried about being arrogant, you probably aren't - and you very well might be short selling and watering down the confident expression of yourself in the world. Learn the difference between confidence and arrogance, so you know exactly how to show up around others in a confident way…and we'll also be covering what to do abo...2024-07-1625 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#607: Micro-Complaining and How to Stop“Complaining is like bad breath. You notice it when it comes out of someone else's mouth, but not when it comes out of your own.” - Will Bowen If you want to have a happy and positive life, there's a small, toxic micro habit that you've got to start taking seriously. It seems innocent, and in many ways it's socially acceptable, but it's deteriorating your happiness from the inside out. The thing is, most of us don't intentionally do it, and when we do engage in it, we don't even realize how pervasively negative we are being. Reme...2024-07-0929 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#606: Insecurity Around Other WomenIf you ever feel insecure around other women - or find yourself comparing over-analyzing yourself when you're in groups of other women, this podcast is for you. Maybe you turn down social opportunities, or you just don't get along with female coworkers or you just feel more comfortable around guys than you do girls … this episode is for you. The truth is, there are a lot of women who feel insecure around other women. From the pressure to impress and the culture of comparison and competition, to the pervasive thoughts of exclusion and inferiority, there's pressure when women gather. The...2024-07-0233 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#605: Ghosting - Staying Confident in Social TurmoilGetting ghosted hurts. When someone stops talking to you without saying why. When the texts are never returned or you get the cold shoulder in person. I've been hurt by it and I'm sure you have too. The more our culture becomes integrated into technology, the more normalized and easy ghosting has become. This episode of The Confidence Podcast will give you a better understanding of ghosting, why it happens and how not to personalize it, and more importantly, how to deal with it without letting it negatively impact your social confidence. Get the full show notes a...2024-06-2529 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#604: Listener Questions & Answers (Part 2)You asked, we answered! This episode of The Confidence Podcast is part two of a special listener-submitted podcast. You'll hear the following questions answered (and more): How to do the right thing when others are doing the wrong thing? How to stay positive when doing things you don't want to do? Money and faith, what's the overlap? What to do if you're feeling behind in life? How to feel confident when you see your body changing and aging? Why do I feel insecure around other women and what can I do to change that? How to not internalize...2024-06-1834 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#603: Listener Questions and AnswersYou asked, we answered! This episode of The Confidence Podcast is a special listener-submitted podcast. You'll hear the following questions answered (and more): What do you do when people don’t like your growth or success? How to not let others make you feel bad? How to handle situations where you feel left out? How to stay motivated when you don't see results? What if I'm not good enough to make it at the next level? Why do I feel so much anxiety and insecurity when auditioning for something? Get the full show notes and transcript at www...2024-06-1141 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#602: Being Okay with Making MistakesIf you are the type of person to beat yourself up, this episode is for you. Does your mind play and replay a mistake or fumble you make when you do? Maybe this is something you said, something you did, or something you didn't do. You know the past is past, and that you can't change it, but something deep inside of you hopes that if you blame and shame yourself enough then you'll finally "do better'. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to talk about what to say to yourself when you make...2024-06-0440 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#601: Social Anxiety: How to Stop Overthinking Social SituationsHave you ever been in a room full of people but felt like you didn't belong or that you were completely alone? Do you find yourself coming up with excuses to not attend a social event because you're not sure "it'll be worth it" or that people will notice or care if you attend or not? Maybe you love being around other people, and you're craving deeper relationships and friendships, but you find yourself overthinking every conversation you have and kicking yourself for not saying the right thing. Or, perhaps you feel the pressure to look or dress a...2024-05-2829 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#600: When You Feel Less Than and InadequateDo you ever feel like you just don't measure up? You know a lot of it is in your head, but you can't help comparing yourself to others and find yourself always coming up short. You just feel like other people are prettier than you, smarter than you, more successful than you, more naturally popular and likeable than you … and you end up feeling, well, less than. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to give you practical tools on exactly how to stop allowing yourself to indulge in feeling "less than" and to start feeling good en...2024-05-2128 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#599: How to Always Follow ThroughDo you struggle following through for what you really want to do? You have a great idea, and you totally want to implement it. You make a plan, you get on board, and then you flake. You bail on yourself, you change your goal, you convince yourself that it doesn't matter or that you struggle with consistency and follow through, so you can't help it, right? But you can. Follow through is a choice. Consistency is a commitment. This episode will help you break free from the struggle of feeling like y...2024-05-1430 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#598: You Are a Somebody: How to Believe ItIf you've ever felt like you didn't matter, or wondered what the point of it all really was, this episode is for you. If you've ever felt discouraged and like no matter what you did, you would never really stand out and never really matter, this episode is for you. If your brain has ever had the passing thought - I'm just a nobody - or I'm just average - even though you know that's not true, the thought is sometimes had to shake, this episode is for you. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're coaching on...2024-05-0727 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#597: When Your Confidence Feels "Off"Can we talk about off days? Like, not necessarily "bad days," but just off days? Do you ever have them? You feel like you're in a funk that you can't shake and you can't quite identify, and you feel sort of disconnected from life. You go through the motions of your to do list for the day, but you find yourself looking forward to the weekend? You're a confident person, but your confidence feels "off" and like you aren't showing up as yourself. You feel awkward and not yourself, but you aren't sure what to do about it. This...2024-04-3030 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#596: 5 Toxic Mistakes Most People Make with GoalsWhy is it that some people are massively successful and others who try just aren't? How can you make sure that your goals aren't just ideas and that you don't end up like most people, feeling like they missed out on life and on their fullest potential but just don't know what they could have done differently? How is it that some people can confidently navigate public pressure and pivot with tenacity and total belief in themselves until they reach a goal while others get burdened and weighted down by discouragement, distraction and setbacks? The difference is that winners...2024-04-2332 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#595: Making Decisions and Delegating with ConfidenceDo you find yourself feeling frozen when making decisions? Maybe you are the type of person who likes to field the opinions of everyone you know before making a decision…or are you the type of person who internalizes the decision and delays it from the pressure to make "the right decision"? If you struggle with decision-making and want to have more confidence in your decision making process, this episode is for you. You'll learn how to make good decisions with confidence, how to avoid the purgatory of indecision, and how to see yourself / and trust yourself as someone wh...2024-04-1637 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#594: Wasted Potential and PressureIf you've ever worried about not maximizing your fullest potential, this episode is for you. Maybe you've had people tell you that you have so much talent, but you aren't sure if you believe them, or if you do believe them, you don't know how to really use what you've been given - it all just feels overwhelming. This episode is for you. Or, maybe you're like me, and as a driven high achiever, you're so used to self-imposed internal pressure that you think that there's no other way to really reach your potential without feeling stressed and pressured...2024-04-0931 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#593: Why Your Affirmations Aren't WorkingYou've heard that affirmations are a good thing to do, and you dabble in them sometimes, but they feel like they fall flat. This episode is for you. The words you speak over yourself matter and affirmations work, but most people are doing affirmations wrong. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to be talking about why your affirmations aren't working and more importantly, what to do about it to change it. This is not a woo-woo approach to affirmations, or a name-it and claim-it kind of thing, but rather an approach that will equip you to...2024-04-0230 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#592: Sunday Scaries and Monday DreadDo you feel anxiety or dread on Sundays, especially Sunday evenings, when the weekend starts winding down? Maybe you feel it like resistance, or like something is looming in on you … you just want to be happy and to be "normal" about not letting work press into your life, but you just aren't sure how to or why your general stress feels so intense. Maybe you counterbalance this with an extra glass of wine or you start daydreaming about finding another job that you actually look forward to, but nothing ever comes of it or changes. You get through, and...2024-03-2632 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#591: Disappointment and Discouragement: How to Stay Confident When You Feel DownDo you hate the feeling of disappointment? Are you afraid to go all in, out of fear that it just might not work out? Do you ever feel like you spend your life waiting for the other shoe to drop? Or perhaps, do you get really run down and sidelined when you feel discouraged? If you answered yes to any of those questions, this episode is for you. I used to be afraid to go all in on things because I was afraid of disappointment. When I learned that disappointment wasn't permanent and didn't have to define...2024-03-1930 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#590: The "What If" Voice and How to Talk Back to FearDo you ever have find your brain getting stuck in a self-talk loop of "what ifs?" What if it doesn't work out? What if you don't really lose the weight? What if you don't really have what it takes? What if your business doesn't grow? What if you don't get into your dream school? … Unanswered "what if's" are destroying your confidence. This is a fear narrative that chokes out the confidence of so many people without them even realizing it's happening. It speaks to you in statements that start with "What if…" and if left unans...2024-03-1228 min
Happy Whole You154. Unveiling True Confidence: A Journey with Trish BlackwellIn today’s episode, I am joined by a special guest, Miss Trish Blackwell, a renowned confidence coach with a wealth of expertise in empowering individuals to overcome self-doubt and self-limiting beliefs to achieve their highest potential. Trish's impressive resume includes coaching Olympic and professional athletes, Ironman champions, CEOs, high-achieving entrepreneurs, and cultural influencers. She has been recognized by TLC, Entrepreneur, and Elite Daily as one of the top confidence coaches in the world. Trish's approach to confidence has impacted over 6.5 million people worldwide through her top-ranked podcast, "The Confidence Podcast," her books, coaching services, and her online confidence un...2024-03-1133 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#589: How to Become More Self-Assured and Better at Self-AdvocacyIf you're someone who likes reassurance, or who needs the affirmation of others, then it's time to work on your skill of self-assuredness. Self-assuredness, like any other facet of confidence, is a skill that anyone can strengthen and improve. When you learn how to practice the skill of self-assuredness - and more importantly, what to say to yourself to prime your mind to be self-assured - you can confidently walk into any unknown or uncertain situation with confidence. This episode will give you the tools and exact thoughts to think to deepen this skill and to create unshakeable self-assuredness. 2024-03-0526 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#588: Success Confidence: Believing in Yourself and In Your Greatest PotentialSuccess is a mental game. There's a lot of focus on strategy, and discipline and the actions required for greatness, whether you're considering success in an athletic perspective or professional or financial perspective. What we don't talk about enough with success is what it really is like, and what is really required. Success is 95% mindset. That means that you have to stay in a place belief, even when it doesn't feel like things are working. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're coaching on: The one habit you NEED to be doing to elevate your...2024-02-2736 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#587: Wanting People to Like You: How to Feel Confident in Any Social SituationYou want to be liked, and at the core, you know people like you, but you still wonder if you fit in and if people really like you. You've accepted that there will be people who don't like you, but you still wish that you could be cooler or feel like you belong more than you do, and you wonder why you still struggle with some of the same social insecurities that plagued your mind when you were in middle school. This episode on social confidence, and knowing how to belong and feel confident in any social situation is...2024-02-2035 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#586.BONUS: Coaching Industry Secrets No One Tells YouThis bonus episode will expire 2/29/24. If you a coach, or aspiring coach, this epsiode is for you. On the episode you'll learn the following: the 5 secrets to growing your coaching business (that no one tells you) the 3 pitfalls most coaches unknowingly fall into (that hold them back) the next steps to take to 10x your income and your income (and to have me help you along the way) ❤️ FIND OUT ABOUT CERTIFICATION: www.confidencecoachingcertification.com 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle 🎉TAKE PART IN THE 7-DAY SELF-VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for...2024-02-1543 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#586: Taking Risks and Trying New ThingsDo you want to next-level your life, and you know some things you can do, but you're putting them off? Maybe it's joining the gym, or perhaps it's taking the first steps to switch your career. If you're an entrepreneur, this might be as simple as trying new ideas with more boldness and confidence, or investing in a new training. If you want more from life or you know you have more within you than you're currently living out, then this episode is for you. Today's episode covers how to take more risk, with more confidence, and w...2024-02-1333 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#585: Self-Talk and Self-Validation: How to Be Nicer to YourselfDo you have an inner mean voice that no one knows about? You know, that voice that is always beating yourself up, telling you that you could have done better, and putting pressure on you to lose weight, be cooler, do better or make less mistakes? We call that voice your self-talk. The self-talk narrative that you have determines everything about the level of confidence you feel. The great news is that you can change your self-talk. My self-talk used to be absolute trash, and it is now my greatest cheer leader and strength. If I can change my i...2024-02-0633 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#584: Purging Negative Influences from Your LifeThe world can be a negative place, and if you have negative people in your life or are fighting off internal negativity yourself, today's episode is for you. You're tired of the negative coworker, or perhaps the cynical family member, or just the negative weight of the world that feels like it's ever pressing in with every swipe of your social feed or story on the news. Maybe you're feeling weighed down by the negativity of the world, or maybe a nagging low-grade anxiety that follows you and wakes you up every morning, or the chains of depression and...2024-01-3034 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#583: 10 Power Statements to Stop Caring What People ThinkEver felt like you don't fit in? Or like you're just different from other people and you're constantly wondering what "they" think of you? Or maybe you have big dreams, and have been teased for it … or you're worried that your success will make other people feel bad. Perhaps you haven't go after what you really want, or allowed yourself to be yourself because you're afraid of what "they" will think, say or gossip about being your back. You know you shouldn't care what "they" think but you know you're holding back in life, or from being your full se...2024-01-2329 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#582: Silencing the Critics: Overcoming the Fear of JudgmentAre you held back by the fear of others? Do you find yourself caring too much what people think, or watching critical hot messes piles up on social media threads, and as a by-standard feel burdened by the critical nature of the world we live in? Maybe your critics aren't "those other people" out there; maybe the critics you worry about are closer to home … either your own voice or that of friends and family. You "know" that what they think doesn't matter and shouldn't hold you back, but yet, you still aren't going all out on the life you...2024-01-1640 min
Direction Not PerfectionUnstoppable Progress: Journeying Towards Success With Trish BlackwellCan micro actions truly be delivering unstoppable progress?**ALL ABOUT TRISH BLACKWELL ** CHECK OUT TRISH'S LIBRARY OF RESOURCES AND MOTIVATION:Trish's home is at: http://www.trishblackwell.com Trish's next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com Read some of Trish's raving reviews: www.collegeofconfidence.com/reviews *********************************** JOIN TRISH'S MONTHLY COACHING PROGRAM: Get all of the thought-training you need to transform your mindset by enrolling as a student in The College of Confidence. (www.collegeofconfidence.com). The College of Confidence is like the Netflix of lifecoaching, with courses upon...2024-01-1241 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#581: Confidence Gender Gap and Breaking Self-Limiting PerspectivesIf you notice a difference between the confidence, and wages, of men and women in the workplace, and you want to know what's going on and what to do about it, this episode is for you. The confidence gender gap is a real thing, and today's episode is a conversation with one of the world's leading experts on the study of the phenomenon. Buckle up to be fired up about the role each of us plays in closing the confidence gender gap, and in breaking self-imposed limiting perspectives. If you want to break your own internal and external glass...2024-01-0939 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#580: 24 Ways to Make 2024 Massively SuccessfulYou're fired up. It's a new year. But how do you make sure that you don’t lose the fire? How can you make sure that this year is different than any other year? It's all in the approach. Success is not a fluke, and it's not just for the lucky. It's for those who plan for it and who step into it. This episode will teach you exactly how to step into it - 24 ways to be exact - to exceed your own self-imposed limitations. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/580 🔥 CREATE A NEW Y...2024-01-0235 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#579: How to Be Consistent and Why You Should Expand Your Discomfort ToleranceIf you're consistent, you can create any result you want. The truth is, most people give too soon. They stop right before the breakthrough. They tire of the uncomfortable feelings of boredom or disappointment and they become inconsistent in following through. The result? They don't get the result they want, and then they're discouraged. Too much discouragement deters you from your destiny and from remembering who you are and what you're capable of. Anyone can be consistent, if you decide to be. This episode will teach you the secret to consistency, and how to leverage the discomfort of keeping...2023-12-2638 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#578: Time Boxing vs Time Assigning vs. Time Blocking: The Art of Planning for SuccessDo you feel like you never have enough time to get everything done, and like you never will? Like the pressures of the world and your to-do list are in conflict with your dreams and passions and the life you want to live. Time management is a huge industry - with apps, calendars, planners, and hacks of all kinds - and yet, most people still struggle. What gives? I believe we've overcomplicated things, both in our minds, in our standards and in our expectations, and in this episode of The Confidence Podcast, I'm going to teach you...2023-12-1935 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#577: How to Live Your Dream Life: 5 Mistakes Most People MakeDo you want to travel more? Do you want your net worth to increase? Do you want a generation-changing marriage? Do you want to change your family's legacy? Do you want to create a non-profit that makes a difference in the world? Do you want to enjoy your life more? Do you want to see what's really possible and within you, to really see what you're made of? This episode is for you. In this episode we're going to reawaken the dream inside of your heart and reignite your belief that anything is possible, for those who...2023-12-1239 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#576: Putting Yourself Out There and Taking Risks with ConfidenceYou know you're made for more, and you have big dreams, but how do you get past the overwhelm of putting yourself "out there"? What will people think? What will happen if you go after that big dream, you write that book, you put yourself up for the promotion, you speak up and start leading with your ideas … and people don't like it, or even worse, like you? If you want to have more confidence when it comes to taking the emotional risks involved with leveling up your life, this podcast episode is for you. I'll teach you why st...2023-12-0536 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#575: Seasonal Sadness and What to Do About ItThe darkness of the winter season is upon us and if you have ever struggled with winter sadness or holiday anxiety then this episode is for you. I'm going to share 3 simple strategies that I use that have been game-changing, as well as some mental shifts in how you can think about the seasonal sadness and allow emotional space for your heart and soul to feel all of the feelings this season without being burdened or side railed by them. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/575 ❤️ DO MORE IN 2024 | Vision Planning Workshop. REGIS...2023-11-2837 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#574: Intrusive Thoughts & Personalizing EverythingDo you ever feel like the thoughts you are thinking are making life harder for you? Like, you're stuck in a cycle of beating yourself up and that self-critical voice just struggles to see you the way the people who love you say they see you? Or maybe you sometimes get a sticky negative thought about yourself, or about your past, and you just can't seem to shake the anxious and mental distraction that is a result? For years I was frustrated with how many negative thoughts and intrusive thoughts I still had even though...2023-11-2136 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#573: How to Have More Confidence in YourselfIf you've ever said any of the following statements, this episode is for you: I've lost my confidence… I just wish I had the confidence to do that… There's no way I could do something like that … I don't know how to have more confidence in myself… I'm not confident enough to… I second guess everything I do… I'm just an overthinker / I struggle with indecision My self-esteem has taken a hit… I'll feel more confident after I ….. I just need to have more confidence in myself… I wish I had confidence in myself…. In this episode of The Confidence Po...2023-11-1432 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#572: Take Action and Do Hard ThingsIf you've ever wondered how some people seem to always be confident or know what they're doing, and you want to be one of those people, then this episode is for you. Those people aren't special, or better, or more motivated, or more qualified than you - they're just doing one thing differently that you might not realize, and I'm going to teach you today exactly how to do it yourself. This episode is for you if you want to have more success in your life - and really want to start taking action on...2023-11-0733 min
The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#571: Excuses that Are Holding You Back and How to Stop Making Excuses for GoodYou may not be consciously making excuses, but chances are, you're probably holding yourself back with some of these common and sneaky excuses. If you want to stop tip-toing in life and playing smaller than your potential, then it's time to identify and put a stop to the excuses, subconscious or conscious, that are holding you back and keeping you stuck. This episode explores the excuse mentality in depth, our excuse culture and how it leads to micro-quitting, and how to become someone who makes excuses a thing of their past once and for all. Get the full show...2023-10-3135 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#570: How to Start Your Big Dream and Change Your Life + How I Got Where I WasEverything is possible. Everything is learnable. Every problem is solvable. Every effort pays off and adds up. Your dream can happen. Your life can change. BUT you have to start. You have to be willing to do the work, to fail and to keep showing up. This episode will teach you how to get started, and more importantly, how to keep going. You'll hear Trish's full journey and how to train and increase your willingness and bias for action. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/570 ❤️ FREE COACHING > Come coach live with Trish on Wednesday 10/25 at 1...2023-10-2434 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#569: Soul Confidence: Uncomplicating Faith and Finding Meaning in LifeThose with unshakeable confidence have tapped into soul confidence. Soul confidence is different than confidence that is self-focused. It is God-focused, and it is strengthened by deepening one's relationship with God. This episode will help you find deep meaning and fulfilment through the deepening of your faith. It will also help you uncomplicate any challenging or painful past relationships with religion or faith that was imposed onto you. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/569 ❤️Join me live for FREE COACHING on Wednesday, 10/25. Sign up for your spot at www.trishblackwell.com/q&a ✅...2023-10-1737 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#568: Stop Beating Yourself Up: It Destroys Your ConfidenceDo you find yourself trapped in the cycle of self-criticism and "should haves"? It's time to break free! In this episode, you'll discover 10 compelling reasons to put an end to self-inflicted judgment and learn how to break the mental habit of beating yourself up. If you want to feel better in life, and not feel so much self-created internal pressure, this episode will give you your next steps. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/568 🍊SQUEEZE THE DAY: FREE WEBINAR 10/10 at 6PM EST Get more done, in less time, so you have...2023-10-1029 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#567: Reverse Inspiration: How to Know What You WantWhen you know what you want, like, really know, it's easy to stay consistent. Most people don't achieve their goals, not because they aren't trying, but rather because they don't have a clear idea of what they really, really want in life. Sometimes in order to know what you do want, you have to first get clarity of what you don't want. We call this process "Reverse Inspiration" and I'll teach you exactly how to go about it in this week's episode. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/567 🍊SQUEEZE THE DAY: FREE WEBINAR 10/10 at 6PM E...2023-10-0328 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#566: How to Be More Liked and LikableWhen you like yourself, others will like you more. Increasing your likability factor can open doors of opportunity, expand favor in your life and make you appear more confident to others. But there's a difference between being likable and caring too much what people think. This episode will help you find the courage to be disliked, as well as how to increase your overall likeability, which all starts with first liking yourself. Listen to this for 19 ways to be more likeable, while also releasing some of the pressure you are putting on yourself about whether or not people like...2023-09-2631 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#564: Morning Anxiety vs. Evening AnxietyWhether you're an early riser grappling with dawn's anxieties or a night owl navigating the challenges of evening unease, this episode offers practical strategies to help you find peace and balance throughout your day. Tune in to gain a better understanding of your anxiety patterns and learn techniques to enhance your mental well-being. Anxiety can express itself, and be triggered, differently depending upon the time of day and upon your core thought patterns. This is an episode you don't want to miss if you want to decrease your overall anxiety in life … and when you decrease anxiety, you increase pe...2023-09-1231 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#563: First Thought: The Easiest Hack for Increasing ConfidenceThe "First Thought" concept is one of the quickest and easiest ways to boost your confidence and to improve your overall happiness and productivity rate. This episode will give you the step-by-step process to training your first thought and to tapping more easily into a more positive brain. This process will help you have more positive days with less effort … and to implement the process requires less than 30 seconds. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/563 ✅ SELF DOUBT DETOX REGISTRATION Join our 5-day challenge week and learn to never strugg...2023-09-0525 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#562: Confidence for Interviews and MeetingsNever get nervous for an interview or important meeting again. This episode gives you everything you need to know to be confident for those big moments that matter the most. Discover how to harness positive self-talk, visualization, and active listening to transform nerves into empowerment. After this episode, you'll feel confident ahead of time for every big meeting or interview ahead, and you'll know how to manage any anxiety or nerves that come up along the way. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/562 ✅ SELF DOUBT DETOX REGISTRATION Join ou...2023-08-2926 min
The Confidence Podcast#561: Forgiving Yourself and Loving the Past YouSelf-forgiveness is the start of freedom. If you're hard on yourself, and tend to beat yourself up for past mistakes or unhealthy habits, this episode is for you. Learning how to nurture a narrative of grace and compassion will open you to a powerful growth mindset and free you from the prison of a fixed and perfectionistic mindset. This episode will help you come to terms with your past self, and even find gratitude and appreciation for the mistakes, struggles and valleys you have walked through - even those that were self-inflicted - so that you can really maximize the...2023-08-2233 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#561: Forgiving Yourself and Loving the Past YouSelf-forgiveness is the start of freedom. If you're hard on yourself, and tend to beat yourself up for past mistakes or unhealthy habits, this episode is for you. Learning how to nurture a narrative of grace and compassion will open you to a powerful growth mindset and free you from the prison of a fixed and perfectionistic mindset. This episode will help you come to terms with your past self, and even find gratitude and appreciation for the mistakes, struggles and valleys you have walked through - even those that were self-inflicted - so that you can really maximize...2023-08-2233 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#514: What to Do When You Wake Up with AnxietyIf you struggle with anxiety, this episode is a must-listen. Anxiety can feel like an unpredictable and powerful monster in your life, especially if you ever find yourself waking up feeling attacked by it before you even get out of bed. This episode will give you practical and easily applicable steps to victory over your morning anxiety in a way you've never heard before. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/514 Take what you learn on the podcast deeper, and really experience massive life change by joining me RISK-FREE in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE. F...2022-09-2736 minThe Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome#513: Procrastination and Putting Things OffProcrastination and putting things off creates a reactive, delayed life. No matter how deep your default patterns of procrastination or avoidance are, you can learn a new way to think and approach the things in your life that matter most to you. This episode will teach you the core tenants of how to stop procrastinating and settlings for average. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/513 Take what you learn on the podcast deeper, and really experience massive life change by joining me RISK-FREE in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE. Find out more and get started at...2022-09-2037 minThe Confidence PodcastBonus Episode: Stress, Overthinking and Anxiety ReductionBonus Episode: Stress, Overthinking, and Anxiety Reduction
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