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Émo Talk Show10 Years Strong Building & Sustaining Friendship in the African DiasporaIn this thought-provoking conversation, we delve into the complexities of real friendship in the African diaspora, exploring the essential elements of loyalty, growth, and letting go. The discussion is tailored to offer valuable friendship advice for women, particularly those in the African diaspora, who are seeking to build healthy friendships and navigate the challenges that come with them. Through open and honest dialogue, African women share their personal stories and experiences, providing insight into the African diaspora lifestyle and the importance of women supporting women. The conversation also touches on the difficult topic of losing friends in adulthood and...
2025-11-2847 minÉmo Talk ShowLove, Bride Price & Marriage in the African DiasporaIn this eye-opening episode of the Émo Talk Show, we dive deep into one of the most debated cultural topics: bride price and dowry in African marriages. Joined by Martin Classic, we unpack the tensions between love, tradition, and societal expectations—and how these forces are shaping relationships across the African diaspora.🔑 Key Questions We Tackle:Why do parents pressure their children into marriage?Why are some bride prices set so high—and what does that mean for young couples?How does this practice strain families and affect the foundati...
2025-08-3154 minÉmo Talk ShowWhat Happens When You Give Back to Your Community?Mentorship in the African diaspora, youth identity crisis, networking, and faith — this episode explores how giving back to your community transforms careers, families, and future leaders. What happens when you give back to your community? In this powerful episode of Émo Talk Show, we dive into the importance of mentorship and networking—beyond careers—to impact African families, youth, and faith communities in the diaspora...In this powerful episode of Émo Talk Show, we dive into the importance of mentorship and networking—not just for careers, but for the well-being of African families, youth, and faith communities in the diaspora...
2025-07-0555 minÉmo Talk ShowFaith, Healing & Hustle How A Single African Mom Rebuilt Her Life in the U.S.In this powerful episode of Émo Talk Show, we sit down with Rusi-a young, resilient single mother, Christian, and entrepreneur from Uganda-who opens up about her deeply personal journey of healing after heartbreak and depression. With raw honesty and inspiring clarity, Rusi shares how her life took a transformational turn through faith, prayer, and mentorship. Now living in the U.S., she's not only raising her daughter with love and strength, but also running her own beauty business built on passion and purpose.Rusi's story touches on many pressing realities that African women face, especially those in the diaspora. F...
2025-05-1547 minÉmo Talk ShowWhat's It Like to Be the FIRST to Achieve Something?n this powerful episode of the Emo Talk Show, we speak with Zetho, a Congolese refugee who became the first in his family to graduate college, start a business, and become a pillar for his family in the USA and back home in Africa.Zetho opens up about the emotional weight of being a firstborn, a husband, and a father - all while navigating the expectations of African culture, family dependence, and personal success. He shares how he balances it all and why being "the first" in any family is both a blessing and a burden.
2025-04-0556 minÉmo Talk ShowBecoming Her: Navigating Womanhood, Careers & Motherhood In this episode of Émo Talk Show, we delve into the multifaceted journey of becoming a woman in African societies. From navigating societal expectations in career choices to balancing the demands of marriage and motherhood, we explore the unique challenges faced by African girls and women.We’ll also examine intergenerational perspectives on womanhood—how cultural norms, traditions, and societal shifts shape the experiences and expectations of women across generations. This conversation will inspire reflection, foster understanding, and empower women to embrace their aspirations while navigating the limitations placed upon them.📌 Ch...
2025-03-161h 01Émo Talk ShowThe Hidden Truth About Growing Up Black in AmericaIn this thought-provoking video, we delve into the complex and often misunderstood dynamics between Black Americans and Africans. As we navigate the intricacies of identity, culture, and history, we explore the factors that have contributed to a growing divide between these two groups. From issues of identity and belonging to cultural differences and historical traumas, this discussion uncovers the nuances that shape these relationships.This segment is packed with deep historical reflection and analysis on colonialism, systemic oppression, and the lingering effects of these structures on both Africans and African Americans. We examine how oppression doe...
2025-02-161h 09Émo Talk ShowWhy African Parents Are Losing Their Children
we embark on an in-depth exploration of the parenting crisis faced by African families in the diaspora. This discussion aims to uncover the reasons behind the growing sentiment among African parents that they are losing their children to Western influences, a phenomenon that has significant implications for cultural identity, family cohesion, and the future of African heritage.
The Roots of Communal Parenting in Africa
African societies have long relied on a collective approach to child-rearing, where the responsibility of raising children extends beyond biological parents to the larger community. Elders, extended families, and even neighbors play critical roles in...
2025-01-2343 minÉmo Talk ShowSkin Bleaching & Colorism in the Black Diaspora
Join us for a powerful discussion on skin bleaching and colorism in the Black diaspora with special guests Masoka Mkombozi and Nyamani Ajak. Discover the origins of skin bleaching, its harmful effects, and why it continues to thrive in our communities. We explore the role of social media, beauty standards, and the lingering impact of colonialism and white supremacy. Together, we tackle tough questions about self-love, confidence, and the societal pressures that push people to alter their skin. Don’t miss this insightful conversation on building a future where everyone feels empowered to embrace their natural beauty.
skin bleaching, co...
2024-12-2134 minÉmo Talk ShowCongolese Entrepreneurs Who Succeeded in the USA
In this episode of the Emo Talk Show, we dive into the inspiring stories of Congolese refugees who came to the USA with little support but pursued higher education, achieved professional success, and even started their own businesses. Our Bembe Trailblazers guests share the challenges they faced as first-generation immigrants and how they overcame obstacles related to cultural integration, gender roles, and limited networks. From navigating college as immigrants to establishing careers and businesses, their stories highlight resilience and determination. Join us for an in-depth discussion on what it means to redefine success and pave a path for future...
2024-11-1647 minÉmo Talk ShowI Built a THRIVING Videography Business as an Immigrant!
In this inspiring episode of Emo Talk Show, we dive into the journey of an immigrant photographer who built a thriving business in the U.S. Learn how they overcame cultural stereotypes, industry challenges, and skepticism within the African community to create a successful photography business. Discover key lessons on resilience, professionalism, and the power of community support in achieving business success. Tune in to hear actionable insights and future plans from this trailblazing entrepreneur.
Timeline/Video Chapters:
0:00 – Introduction to the Show
2:00 – Introduction to the Guest and Topic
6:30 – Guest’s Story: Starting a Photography Business as an Immigrant
15:45 – Challenges in the Afr...
2024-10-2049 minÉmo Talk ShowUncovering the Truth: Power, Control, and Trauma in Sexual Violence | Challenging Rape Culture
In this eye-opening video, we dive into the psychological and societal dimensions of sexual violence, power dynamics, control, and trauma. Don't miss this important discussion on the shocking reality of rape culture.This episode focuses on the deeply challenging issue of sexual violence. The episode delves into the psychological and societal dimensions of sexual violence, discussing how power dynamics, control, and trauma play significant roles. It explores real-life stories, research on perpetrators, and the long-term effects of sexual violence on survivors. Through this episode, we aim to foster an open conversation, challenge harmful cultural norms, and push for collective...
2024-09-2144 minÉmo Talk ShowThe Untold Truth: Controversial Aspects of the Bembe CultureIn this episode of Emo Talk Show, we dive into the untold truths and controversial aspects of Bembe culture that often go unspoken. We explore the lack of sex education and how this gap leads adolescents to rush into marriage, sometimes without understanding the full implications. We also discuss the significant challenges young girls face in marriage, where they are expected to take care of not only their husbands but also all their in-laws, often at the expense of their own well-being.
Additionally, we tackle the sensitive topic of bride price and the reality of parental greed...
2024-08-1151 minÉmo Talk ShowPreserving African LanguagesIn this episode, we delve into the critical issue of the diminishing presence of indigenous African languages in the wake of colonization and the dominance of international languages. Our discussion explores the complex dynamics between the preservation of cultural identity and the pressure to assimilate into the global linguistic landscape. Join us in this thought-provoking discussion as we unravel the challenges and opportunities in safeguarding the linguistic and cultural diversity of the African continent in today's interconnected world.
2024-07-0646 minÉmo Talk ShowHappy Fathers, Thriving FamiliesIn this episode, we delve into the profound impact of fatherlessness in the African context, exploring its roots, consequences, and the evolving dynamics of family structures. From the traditional roles of fathers and mothers to the modern challenges faced by families, we unravel the complex web of factors contributing to the fatherless epidemic. Join us as we discuss the importance of men's involvement in their children's lives, the effects on emotional well-being, and the interplay between traditional and modern approaches to marriage.
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2024-06-1644 minÉmo Talk ShowWhy are we in the USA?
In this thought-provoking episode of the Emo Talk Show, we dive deep into the reasons behind our presence in the USA. There's a divine purpose for our journey here, beyond the surface reasons of escaping war and seeking safety. Our discussion highlights how God has strategically positioned us globally for a greater purpose. We explore the challenges of living in a foreign land and the enduring identity as immigrants, despite gaining citizenship. This episode encourages critical thinking about our roots, identity, and the responsibility to support and uplift our homelands. We also discuss the importance of acknowledging our Congolese...
2024-05-2708 minÉmo Talk ShowAfrican Led Churches in the Diaspora
In this episode, we delve into a crucial question: "Is the time spent in an African-led church in the diaspora time well invested or time wasted?" For many Africans, religion and life intertwine closely, and the ways of worship in Western countries often reflect the values and practices of their home countries. However, there's a growing conversation among young Africans about the effectiveness of African-led churches in the diaspora in meeting the diverse needs of their members.
Discussion Questions:
Role of African-Led Churches:
In your opinion, what is the role of African-led churches in the diaspora, especially considering the...
2024-05-1251 minÉmo Talk ShowIntegration in a Foreign Country
Tune into this insightful episode where we explore the journey of immigrants adapting to life in a new country. We discuss the critical differences between assimilation and integration, the benefits of integrating into a new society, and the common barriers like language and educational disparities. Plus, our guest shares personal tips for successful integration based on his experiences living in Europe and the US. Join us on for practical advice and a deeper understanding of this complex process. Perfect for immigrants and those interested in cultural dynamics.
2024-05-1127 minÉmo Talk ShowBridging Communication Gaps Between African Parents and Children
Join Kpandi Lumeh and I as we dive into a candid conversation on bridging communication gaps between African parents and their children. Discover practical tips and insights for fostering understanding across generations. Tune in for a meaningful dialogue that strengthens family connections. 🌍👨👩👧👦 #GenerationalBridge #FamilyCommunication #Podcast #emotalkshow
2024-03-1748 minÉmo Talk ShowBridging Communication Gaps Between African Parents and Children
Join Kpandi Lumeh and I as we dive into a candid conversation on bridging communication gaps between African parents and their children. Discover practical tips and insights for fostering understanding across generations. Tune in for a meaningful dialogue that strengthens family connections. 🌍👨👩👧👦 #GenerationalBridge #FamilyCommunication #Podcast #emotalkshow
2024-03-1048 minÉmo Talk ShowBuilding a Strong Foundation: 55 Years of Love, Respect, and Boundaries
Join us on a special episode of Emo Talk Show as I interview my grandparents, celebrating 55 years of marriage. In this episode, we delve into the reciprocal nature of love and respect within a marriage. We discuss the importance of handling marital issues internally to command public respect, and highlight how constant quarrels in a home can negatively impact children's perceptions of relationships. We emphasize the need for boundaries to foster healthy relationships. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on the enduring principles that make a marriage stand the test of time.#emotalkshow #mentalhealth #african #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #africanbeauty #mentalhealthquotes...
2024-02-2541 minÉmo Talk Show50+ Years of Marriage: Love, Challenges, and Wisdom
Join us on this heartwarming episode of Emo Talk Show as we delve into the incredible journey of a couple who has celebrated over 50 years of marriage! In this special edition, we sit down with our esteemed guests(King of Mnyaka clansmen of the Bembe Tribe in DRC) Mwami wa Bashimnyaka Mlumba and his wife) to explore the magic of enduring love, from the moment they met to the challenges they faced and conquered together. Discover the enchanting tale of their initial encounter, the romantic details of their wedding day, and the secrets to maintaining a strong connection throughout...
2024-01-221h 00Émo Talk ShowBreaking the Silence: Postnatal Depression
In this episode, we're explore a crucial and often silenced topic - Postnatal Depression. Join us as we break the silence surrounding the struggles many women face after childbirth.
Global Reality:
Did you know that more than 800 women die daily from complications in pregnancy or childbirth? Despite the joy, for many, it's a time of fear. Postnatal depression impacts not just mothers but fathers, partners, and families at large.
Discussion Outline:
1️⃣ Understanding Postnatal Depression:
Discover the prevalence of postnatal depression affecting 1 in 10 women within the first year after childbirth, dispelling myths about its selectivity.
2️⃣ Causes Unveiled:
Explore the contributing factors...
2023-12-1335 min
Émo Talk ShowEmbracing the Journey: Infertility and Womanism in the African Context
In this deeply insightful episode, we delve into the often-silent struggle of infertility and womanism within the African context. The societal expectations and perceptions surrounding fertility in African communities can cast a profound impact on couples navigating the challenging journey to conceive.
Join us for a heartfelt and nuanced conversation as we explore the intersection of infertility, cultural expectations, and womanism in the African narrative. Our guest shares personal story, and strategies for navigating this complex journey. 🌍💕
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2023-11-1956 minÉmo Talk ShowBreaking the Silence: Domestic Violence in the African Community
In this powerful episode of Emo Talk Show, we delve deep into the shadows of an issue often left unspoken – domestic violence within the African community. Together, we address pressing questions that demand urgent answers.
Episode Highlights:
Join us as we unravel the myths and misconceptions surrounding domestic violence in the African community. Our panel of experts explores the deeply entrenched beliefs that often shroud this issue, shedding light on the complexities that perpetuate these harmful ideas.
Discover the alarming truth about the high acceptance and tolerance rates of domestic violence, affecting 51% of African women. Through insightful discussions, we ai...
2023-11-0539 minÉmo Talk ShowAlcoholism in Today's Society
Alcohol is a major contributor to the global burden of disease. It’s also a key risk factor for preventable illness and death in Africa with expected increases in the number of potential new alcohol consumers, especially young people and women, the African continent has been identified by the alcohol beverage industry and market researchers as a key area for alcohol market growth. And yet, there is very little discourse taking place about this topic.
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2023-06-2300 minÉmo Talk ShowYou Graduated, Now What?Congratulations to all graduates! Graduation is a time for big celebrations, but it’s also a time for big uncertainty. Whether you’re starting your dream job, continuing your studies, or finding a way to stay afloat while you figure out what’s next, new graduates are entering a period of adjustment and exploration. Watch as we discuss with these new grads about their experiences in high school and college and what they are looking forward to. Share this episode: https://youtu.be/RwijB3f3SWM Follow US & GET IN TOUCH Instagram: @emotalkshow TikTok: @emotalkshow Facebook: @emotalkshow
2023-01-2532 minÉmo Talk ShowAfrican and Lack of Support SwahiliAfricans in the diaspora are thriving in different industries, however how often have you heard it said that Africans don’t support each other ? Many come to the conclusion that Africans just don’t show each other the same kind of financial love that you see in other ethnic groups. So, in this episode, we discuss with Joshua Promise, a Congolese gospel artist, about community support. Share this episode: https://youtu.be/bp9wqiNXH0w Follow US Instagram: @emotalkshow TikTok: @emotalkshow Facebook: @emotalkshow
2023-01-2525 minÉmo Talk ShowEmbracing AuthenticityWe live in a culture that bombards us with messages about how we're supposed to look, what we should think and say, how we should act, and who we're supposed to be in order to be accepted and loved. Self-acceptance and self-love are treated like foreign concepts or new-age, touchy-feely gimmicks. But it's our natural state to love and accept who we are. We're not born hating ourselves. We learn it. Something outside of us teaches us that we're not worthy unless we meet the never-ending list of things we're supposed to think, feel, do, and be. Embracing Authenticity is ab...
2022-11-3024 minÉmo Talk ShowGenerational TraumaIn this episode we discuss the dangers of generational trauma. This is happens if people don’t have the opportunity to heal from trauma, they may unknowingly pass it on to others through their behavior. Their children may experience difficulties with attachment, disconnection from their extended families and culture and high levels of stress from family and community members who are dealing with the impacts of trauma. This creates a cycle of trauma, where the impact is passed from one generation to the next. Africans in the diaspora particularly might also pass on the impacts of colonialism as well as...
2022-11-2325 min
Émo Talk ShowAfricans & InvestingMoney is a constant struggle in the African Diaspora household especially if you are from a big family. In this week’s discussion, our young panelist discuss the importance of investing especially for African millennials and GenZ living in the diaspora. Investment is the process of exchanging income during one period of time for an asset that is expected to produce earnings in future periods. Thus, consumption in the current period is foregone in order to obtain a greater return in the future. What you should invest in and the best strategies to use when it comes to it. Sha...
2022-08-0234 min
Émo Talk ShowPressure to MarryWedding season is here and that means seeing a lot of exciting videos of some elaborate African weddings on Instagram. So, this week, we discuss the pressure in the African community to get married and what that means here in the Diaspora. The pressure to enter the institution of marriage is particularly strong for African women in their 20s. If you are 22 or above and unmarried, you have probably heard one of these remarks from a nosy relative or community member: “It’s time for you to settle down already…” If you’re in a relationship, you and your partner have...
2022-07-1437 min
Émo Talk ShowMental Health in the African Diaspora CommunityMany of the issues facing the African community require uncomfortable yet necessary conversations and mental health is certainly one of those issues, at the top of that list. In this first episode, we discuss the mental health stigma in the African community. We take a deep dive into the origins of this stigma. Although we recognize that this is an issue, we shy away from speaking about it and potentially addressing the challenge with some real solutions. Mental health matters and it is time to start having these conversations to remove the stigma.
2022-07-1244 min