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The Future Is HereEp. 48: Leadership Landmines: Avoiding Leadership Pitfalls and Growing Through MistakesMistakes are inevitable—we all make them. But great leaders know how to break the cycle of repeated missteps and grow from both their own mistakes and those of others. In this episode, Robert and Tommy explore some of the critical mistakes leaders often fall into, especially in high-pressure urban environments.We discuss the risks of relying too heavily on tactical responses without developing a clear, long-term strategy. Leadership is not just about what you can accomplish—it’s about how effectively you empower and leverage your team’s strengths. Misusing or overlooking the potential of your people c...2024-10-3028 minThe Future Is HereEp. 47: The Art of Decision-Making in LeadershipIn this episode, we dive deep into the complex world of decision-making in leadership, focusing on what it means to lead with intention in the fast-paced and dynamic environments of today’s world. As leaders, you know the importance of not just making decisions but making the right ones—decisions that align with your mission, values, and the communities you serve.Throughout the episode, we provide actionable strategies to strengthen your decision-making framework. Whether you're managing a small team or leading a large initiative, we break down critical elements such as:• Future-oriented decision-making: How to think long-t...2024-10-1625 min
The Radical MiddleBridging Generational Gaps: How Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z Shape Leadership and SocietyIn this episode of The Radical Middle Podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascall are joined by their intern, Taitem Brown, for an insightful discussion on the dynamics and tensions between Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z. They delve into how these different generations shape societal norms, influence leadership styles, and impact cultural values. The conversation highlights the crucial role of mentorship and the need for mutual understanding across age groups to bridge generational gaps.Tommy, Lenmarie, and Taitem explore the ways in which each generation brings unique perspectives and strengths to the table, and how embracing...2024-10-0932 minThe Future Is HereEp. 46: 5 Leadership Hacks to Boost Your Productivity and FocusEveryone strives to be a more productive leader, but finding the right strategies to enhance efficiency can be challenging. In our latest podcast episode, we explore five essential leadership hacks that can transform the way you lead, helping you to become more focused, effective, and impactful in your daily work.The first key to productivity is learning to say “no” more often. Leaders tend to take on far too many tasks that may seem important but don’t align with the bigger picture or long-term vision. This can leave you feeling overwhelmed and stretched too thin, preventing real p...2024-10-0134 minThe Radical MiddleFaith Meets Politics: Navigating the Radical Middle in a Polarized Political ClimateIn this episode of The Radical Middle Podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascall dive into the complex intersection of politics and Christianity, especially during the heightened tensions of the political season. They emphasize that the "radical middle" isn’t about taking a neutral or passive stance, but rather about engaging deeply and thoughtfully with politics from a Christian worldview. Tommy and Lenmarie challenge the idea of strict political alignment, encouraging Christians to evaluate political issues through the lens of their faith—focusing on justice, compassion, and the teachings of Jesus.The discussion goes beyond party lines, high...2024-09-2531 minThe Future Is HereEp. 45: Your Paycheck is not your purpose: Uncover the 3-Fold Path to FulfillmentHave you ever found yourself wondering, "Why am I here?" or more specifically, "What is my purpose in this world?" These questions are at the heart of our journey leaders, especially in the fast-paced, dynamic environments we navigate daily. In today’s episode, Robert & Tommy dive deep into the essential topic of discovering your God-given purpose—a purpose that is intricately woven into the very fabric of who you are and what you are meant to contribute to this world.Understanding your purpose is not an overnight revelation but a profound process of discovery that Scripture invites us i...2024-09-1834 minThe Radical MiddleWhat is the Radical Middle?The Radical Middle Podcast, hosted by Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascall, explores the concept of the "radical middle," which emphasizes living out the teachings of Jesus in a genuine, thoughtful way. Unlike a centrist approach, the radical middle involves deeply wrestling with Christian truths and engaging in meaningful dialogue to understand and apply them. The podcast addresses the challenges of conflict, societal divides, and the need for mature, practical faith in today’s world. It aims to model how to navigate these complexities while remaining rooted in a profound relationship with God.Support the show...2024-09-1130 minThe Future Is HereEp. 44: Overcoming the Inner Struggles of Leadership: Part 2 - Praise, Imposter, Fear, & PerfectionismIn the second part of our series, "The Internal Struggle of Leadership," we dive into four challenges every leader faces: praise, impostor syndrome, fear, and perfectionism.Praise: Recognition feels great, but how we handle it defines our character. Proverbs 27:21 says praise is a test. Accepting it humbly or crediting our team shows true leadership.Impostor Syndrome: Ever felt like a fraud? You're not alone. Even successful leaders face this. Gideon's story in Judges 6 reminds us that doubts don't disqualify us—they push us to rely on God's strength.Fe...2024-09-0438 minThe Radical MiddleEmbracing Healthy Conflict: A Path to Growth in Christian LeadershipIn this episode, Tommy and Lenmarie take a deep dive into the reasons why Christians, particularly those in leadership and institutional roles, often struggle with conflict. They explore how the reluctance to confront disagreements head-on has led to a widespread phenomenon known as "church hurt," where unresolved issues create rifts within congregations and communities. The hosts argue that this avoidance stems from a misconception that conflict is inherently negative or that peace is best maintained through silence and passivity. However, they counter this belief by highlighting how avoiding conflict can lead to festering wounds, hinder spiritual growth, and ultimately...2024-08-2830 minThe Future Is HereEp. 43: Overcoming the Inner Struggles of Leadership: Part 1 - Humility, Self-Confidence, and VulnerabilityAs a leader, have you ever felt inadequate, questioned your own motives, or been paralyzed by the fear of failure? If so, you're certainly not alone. Leadership isn't merely about guiding others—it's also about confronting and overcoming the inner battles we face within ourselves. These struggles can be daunting, but understanding them is crucial to becoming the authentic, effective leader you aspire to be.In this first episode of our two-part series, we delve into three of the seven key internal struggles that many leaders encounter: Humility, Self-Confidence, and Vulnerability. These challenges are not just abstract co...2024-08-2153 minThe Radical MiddleNavigating Masculinity: A Christian Perspective on Toxic Masculinity and True LeadershipIn this episode of the Radical Middle Podcast, Tommy and Lenmarie dive deep into the complex and often contentious topic of masculinity, viewed through the lens of Christian faith. The discussion begins with a provocative question: If you were alone in a forest, would you feel safer with a man or a bear? Surprisingly, many choose the bear, a response that opens the door to a broader conversation about how masculinity is perceived today.This episode challenges listeners to confront the notion of toxic masculinity—how it has infiltrated both societal norms and church culture, distorting the tr...2024-08-1435 minThe Future Is HereEp. 42: Inspiring Urban Youth: An Interview with Amy Williams on Leadership and TransformationIn today's podcast, Robert Aboites sits down with Amy Williams, author of Worth Seeing: Viewing Others Through God’s Eyes. With 30 years of experience serving youth involved in gangs, incarceration, probation, and parole, Amy shares her profound insights and leadership principles for working with urban youth on the margins of society.Amy recounts the impactful story of a former gang member helped by Father Greg Boyle, founder of Homeboy Industries, who poignantly said, “I was used to being watched, but not seen.” This sentiment is echoed in her book and serves as a powerful reminder of the import...2024-08-0758 minThe Radical MiddleRethinking Megachurches: Authenticity and Impact in Modern CongregationsIn this compelling episode of the Radical Middle Podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascall engage in a thorough examination of a significant question facing the religious community today: Should megachurches continue in their current form? With a keen eye on the evolving landscape of modern faith, they highlight several critical issues that megachurches must address to remain relevant and effective.One of the primary concerns discussed is the overwhelming focus on numerical growth, which often leads to a dilution of faith and shallow spiritual experiences. Tommy and Lenmarie delve into how this emphasis on size can...2024-07-3134 minThe Future Is HereEp. 41: Mastering Time Management: Essential Strategies for Growing LeadersTime management has challenged leaders for centuries. As William Penn, the founder of Philadelphia, said, “Time is what we want most, but what we use worst.” In today’s episode of The Future Is Here Leadership Podcast, Robert & Tommy delve into effective time prioritization, starting not with your calendar, but with your “why.” Prioritizing means focusing on what truly matters by clearly defining the problems you're addressing and targeting tasks that directly tackle those challenges. Understanding your strengths and weaknesses is crucial; it helps you allocate your efforts where they’ll have the most impact. Robert & Tommy simplify the process of p...2024-07-2434 minThe Radical MiddleBalancing Justice and Well-Being: Navigating Activism Fatigue with Faith and AuthenticityIn this episode of the Radical Middle podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascall take a deep dive into the concept of "justice fatigue." They explore the multifaceted challenges of staying actively engaged in social justice amidst the backdrop of overwhelming global crises. The conversation touches on the intense pressures faced by public advocates and the very real risks of burnout when justice efforts start to overshadow one's spiritual grounding.Tommy and Lenmarie candidly discuss the personal toll that continuous activism can take and emphasize the crucial need to integrate faith with activism. They offer insightful critiques...2024-07-1725 minThe Future Is HereEp. 40: Handling Underperformance with Compassion: Strategies for Faith LeadersAs leaders, we've all faced team members who aren't meeting expectations. How do you guide these individuals without jumping straight to reprimands? In our latest podcast episode, Robert & Tommy explore how to handle underperformance by creating a culture of support and growth. Learn how to navigate tough conversations with grace and empathy, recognizing that external factors often contribute to performance issues. Discover the importance of early detection, root cause analysis, and the "Moment of Truth" framework for constructive dialogue. Whether it involves restructuring, clarifying expectations, or making tough decisions, gain insights and strategies for managing performance with compassion and...2024-07-1036 minThe Radical MiddleWhy We Suck at Grieving - Transforming Grief Through FaithIn this episode of the Radical Middle podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie delve into the profound challenges of properly addressing grief, particularly within the church. They are joined by guest Angel Maldonado, who shares his personal journey through grief, from the loss of his father to his move to California. Maldonado sheds light on the often inadequate responses he encountered, especially within religious communities, and offers insights from his experiences.The conversation emphasizes the need for genuine empathy and robust support systems for those grieving. Maldonado critiques quick-fix approaches and advocates for deeper, more compassionate engagement...2024-07-0342 minThe Future Is HereEp. 39: Mastering Consensus Leadership: Unlocking Team Innovation and TrustEver faced challenges in getting your team on board with major changes, ideas, or direction? Struggling to reach consensus? In this episode, Robert & Tommy dive into how to lead your team through a consensus-driven approach. Discover how to achieve collective agreement by considering diverse viewpoints and landing on the best solution—what we call "Best Idea Wins." Learn the key elements for fostering inclusion and cooperation, and why shared responsibility and ownership are crucial for building trust. Get a step-by-step guide to the consensus-building process, from problem identification to decision-making and communication. Harness your team's collective creativity to...2024-06-2638 minThe Radical MiddleReviving Bible Engagement: Is The Church IlliterateIn the latest episode of the Radical Middle Podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascall, along with Esteban Shedd from Streetlights, explore the transformative power of the Bible when it is made accessible through modern methods like hip-hop beats. They discuss the troublingly low engagement levels among Christians, which they attribute to digital distractions and a lack of spiritual hunger. This episode highlights the profound impact of listening to the Bible and encourages deeper spiritual practices through tools such as the Streetlights app, showcasing the Bible's potential to change lives.The Streetlights team joins us to discuss...2024-06-1944 minThe Future Is HereEp. 38: Mastering Pacing: A Guide to Sustainable Leadership That Avoids BurnoutAt UYWI we frequently connect with leaders who are either teetering on the brink of burnout or already engulfed in its flames. Sadly, it seems that burning out has become all too common in ministry circles, almost glorified as a badge of honor that says “if you’re not burnt out, are you even doing anything?!’. But is this truly what God desires for us? And how can we break free from this destructive cycle of overexertion and exhaustion?In today's podcast, Robert and Tommy dive deep into the pressing challenges confronting Christian leaders, exploring the underlying causes...2024-06-1242 minThe Radical Middle“Church is wack!” - Why old skool methods aren’t working in a Relational GenerationIn this episode of the "Radical Middle" podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascal delve into the evolving landscape of Church practices in the wake of the pandemic, focusing on innovative approaches tailored to young adult ministry. They advocate for transformative changes that prioritize authenticity, community engagement, and discipleship. The discussion highlights the urgency of shifting away from traditional institutional models towards dynamic, relationship-driven worship experiences that resonate with contemporary congregations. Tune in as they explore strategies to revitalize Church culture and better meet the needs of today's young adults.Watch Video Episode...2024-06-0531 minThe Future Is HereEp. 37: Sacrificial Leadership: Gaining Trust, Influence, and IntimacyWhen you hear the word "Sacrifice," what comes to mind? For us, it immediately brings to mind Jesus, the ultimate Sacrificial Leader who gave everything, even his life, for us. But as leaders in youth ministry, what does sacrificial leadership really look like for us?In this episode, Robert and Tommy are diving deep into the heart of Sacrificial Leadership. We're debunking some common misconceptions about sacrifice—because it's not just about what we give up, but what we gain in return!Sacrificial Leadership isn't about losing out; it's about gaining trust, influence, and intimacy wi...2024-05-2934 minThe Radical MiddleNavigating Charisma vs. Character in Christian Leadership: A Critical DiscussionIn this episode of the "Radical Middle" podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascal delve into critical questions facing young adult leaders in Christian ministry. They examine the nuanced differences in cultural, ethnic, and church contexts and how these factors influence authenticity in leadership. The discussion probes the challenge of discerning genuine authenticity amidst charismatic leadership, emphasizing the importance of character over mere charisma.Tommy and Lenmarie explore the culture of the church and the glorification of certain traits, urging listeners to reflect on what truly matters in ministry. They confront the reality of unrealistic expectations placed...2024-05-2235 minThe Future Is HereEp. 36: The Gift of Resistance: Navigating Challenges in Leadership & Allowing Them to Make You BetterAs leaders we've all faced our fair share of challenges and pushback, am I right? In our latest podcast episode, Robert and Tommy are here to unwrap the "Gift of Resistance" and show us how to turn those hurdles into stepping stones.Join us as we dive into the why behind embracing, rather than fighting, the resistance that comes our way. From cultural and organizational barriers to emotional and spiritual opposition, we'll explore it all. Ever wonder why we react the way we do to resistance? We've got insights on that too!Discover practical strategies...2024-05-1536 minThe Radical Middle"Just Be Honest": Navigating Faith and Authenticity While Balancing the Sacred & SecularIn this episode of the "Radical Middle" podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Lenmarie Pascal welcome Alexander James, a poet, pastor, and author, to delve into his latest book, "Just Be Honest." Join the conversation as they explore the delicate balance between faith and conformity, particularly in urban settings. With a focus on integrating spirituality into everyday life, they encourage listeners to embrace authenticity and vulnerability. Prepare to challenge your perspective on living out faith genuinely and openly.Support the show & Follow Us ✅ Instagram ✅ Twitter ✅ TikTok2024-05-0840 minThe Future Is HereEp. 35: Unlocking Potential: Understanding Our Team MembersConnecting with our team is like uncovering hidden treasures! It's all about digging deeper to understand their unique stories, backgrounds, values, cultures, talents, and dreams. This lays the groundwork for a vibrant organizational culture where everyone can flourish. When we truly know our team members, magic happens—retention rates soar, productivity levels skyrocket, and both individuals and the organization thrive!Join Robert and Tommy in our latest episode of The Future is Here as we dive into practical strategies for getting to know your squad better. From sparking curiosity to having heart-to-heart conversations about values, we cover it...2024-05-0143 minThe Radical MiddleInclusion: Balancing Belief and Relevant Media ConsumptionJoin hosts Tommy Nixon, Vanessa, and Joseph Adam Cruz on The Radical Middle podcast as they delve into the complex interplay between faith and engagement with secular music and media. In this thought-provoking episode, they tackle the tension of maintaining one's beliefs and truths while navigating the landscape of inclusion and tolerance.Through candid conversation and insightful reflections, the hosts explore the nuances between acceptance and approval, urging listeners to discern wisely in their media choices. They delve into how these decisions not only impact individual spiritual and emotional well-being but also influence the broader community.2024-04-2433 minThe Future Is HereEp. 34: The Trustworthy Leader - How to foster trust as a ministry leaderIn a recent Gallup poll, clergy's trustworthiness hit a concerning low, prompting much needed discussions about the trust we have - or don’t have, in leadership. Join us on "The Future Is Here" as we dive into the vital topic of trust.With trust levels declining, it's crucial for leaders to grasp how to build trust effectively. By prioritizing care, reliability, sincerity, accountability, transparency, and competency, leaders can nurture trust within their teams and communities. In the challenging landscapes of modern ministry and trauma-informed discipleship, trust becomes even more vital for effective leadership.Remember, tr...2024-04-1739 minThe Radical MiddleReviving Evangelism: Embracing Modern Approaches to Share the GospelIn this episode of The Radical Middle podcast, hosts Tommy and Vanessa invite special guest Joseph Adam Cruz to explore the evolution of evangelism, discussing the changing tides of gospel outreach, acknowledging the fading effectiveness of traditional methods - championing a shift towards more personal, relational approaches that emphasize genuine connections over outdated tactics.Joseph Adam Cruz brings a unique perspective to the table, sharing how his passion for hip-hop has become an unexpected yet powerful tool for spreading the message of faith. Through his experiences, he highlights the importance of striking a balance between public expressions of...2024-04-1034 minThe Future Is HereEp. 33: Navigating Leadership Vision: What is your leadership lens?In today's episode, we're diving into the world of leadership vision and how leaders shape the future of their organizations. We'll introduce three distinct leadership types: the "Then and Now" leader, the "Now and Next" leader, and the "Near and New" leader. Each type offers a unique take on scalability, innovation, and organizational growth.The "Then and Now" leader sticks to tradition, preferring comfort over change. Decisions are centralized, empowerment is limited, and innovation is rare.On the other hand, the "Now and Next" leader focuses on immediate results and gradual growth, prioritizing current initiatives...2024-04-0331 minThe Radical MiddleExploring Truth: Navigating Complexity in Youth LeadershipIn this episode of the "Radical Middle" podcast, hosts Tommy Nixon and Vanessa Cruz dive into the fascinating realm of truth as perceived by today's young leaders. They highlight an intriguing shift that's been happening since around 2016—a move towards a more nuanced understanding of truth, one that's less black and white and more about shades of gray. This shift emphasizes flexibility and acknowledges the existence of partial truths.Tommy and Vaness stress the importance of real-life evidence and personal stories in uncovering truth, particularly within the context of Christian beliefs. They argue that it's not just ab...2024-03-2727 minThe Future Is HereEp. 32: Unlocking Strategic Leadership: The Power of Strategic Thinking and PlanningAre You Just Keeping Busy or Making Real Change Happen? Ever wonder what makes some leaders truly strategic? It's all about knowing the difference between just doing stuff and actually making a plan.A lot of leaders are used to being busy bees, but they might not be thinking strategically. Sure, it looks good to be super active, but is anything actually changing? Are you moving closer to your big goals, or just spinning your wheels to keep folks occupied?In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of strategic leadership. Find out how...2024-03-2041 minThe Radical MiddleNavigating Toxicity: Leading in Challenging Church EnvironmentsWelcome to The Radical Middle - In this episode, we tackle the crucial issue of toxicity within church organizations. Join us as Len, a seasoned leadership development expert, joins forces with Tommy - together sharing invaluable insights gleaned from their diverse experiences. We will be discussing the following:How do you discern the toxicity levels in your church environment? How do you identify red flags, such as unhealthy power dynamics and a lack of transparency? Moreover, what are the actionable steps for effecting positive change within your organization, equipping you to foster a healthier ministry culture.2024-03-1333 minThe Future Is HereEp. 31: The Empowered Leader: Navigating Delegation and OwnershipIn our journey working with leaders, especially in churches and ministries, we’ve noticed "empowerment" is a hot topic. You've probably seen it thrown around a lot – but how often does it really happen?In today's episode, we're diving deep into what empowerment truly means. We'll chat about the difference between empowerment and just passing off tasks. Turns out, confusing the two can really affect how we see others in our organization.We'll also check out how our views on delegation might bump into our biblical values. Ever heard of Philippians 2:3? It's all about putting othe...2024-03-0633 minThe Radical MiddleNavigating Urban Culture: Balancing Relevant Ratchetness and HolinessIn urban settings, we often find ourselves caught between two worlds: the raw authenticity of our surroundings and the call to live lives that reflect God's holiness. It's a tension we can't ignore.We're faced with the challenge of staying relevant to our community while also striving to live lives that honor God. How do we reconcile the ratchetness, that is often tied to certain elements of urban culture, with the righteousness we're called to embody?It's about confronting the hypocrisy head-on. We can't ignore the realities of urban life, but we also can't use...2024-02-2849 minThe Future Is HereEp. 30: Exploring Leadership: Definitions, Responsibilities, and DevelopmentWhat does it really mean to be a leader? Is it something anyone can do, or is it reserved for a special few? And what does the Bible have to say about all this? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of leadership with Tommy and Robert.We'll be taking a look at 1 Peter 5:2-3 to get some insight into the essence of leadership, particularly the role of shepherding God's flock.We're also shining a light on a topic that often gets overlooked: leadership development. Balancing our own leadership responsibilities with helping others...2024-02-2130 minThe Radical MiddleChristian Violence: Questioning the Idea of Fighting Fire with FireLet's talk about something that can cause a lot of division in Christian circles – the whole idea of using violence to make things right. Take a look at what's happening in Israel and Palestine – it's a hot topic, right? One side fiercely believes Israel has the right to do whatever they need to to “handle” Palestine… Others vehemently defend the people of Palestine and their right to not only exist, but thrive! It is a wild scenario where two groups of people, both professing to love Jesus, do not agree - with one side embracing the “by any means necessary” m...2024-02-1450 minThe Future Is HereEp. 29: Success without Burnout: Of Trees & Temples, Wisdom from Mark 11Feel like you are doing a whole lot of work, but instead of being impactful, you just feel BUSY??? Sometimes being a leader - especially in ministry, feels like we have multiple jobs… And for some of us, it actually IS something we do voluntarily in addition to our 9 to 5. If that’s you (or if it’s not but you don’t want it to be), check out our latest episode with Robert and Tommy as they unpack Mark 11 and the fig tree story. They've got warnings for leaders about getting too busy and missing the fruit.2024-02-0734 minThe Radical MiddleLeader Worship - Navigating the Boundaries of Honoring LeadersHow far should one go when it comes to showing honor to leaders? When does it cross the line into cringe-worthy territory, or worse, into a sinful or outright wrong practice? And who bears responsibility in this dynamic—the leaders who manipulate and demand honor, or the individuals who freely offer it, sometimes at their own expense?In this discussion, we confront the tension that arises in this complex issue. It's evident that leaders are often surrounded by YES people who believe the leader can do no wrong, a phenomenon the world observes.We delve in...2024-01-3151 minThe Future Is HereEp. 28 Our New Reality: Demographic Shifts and What’s Imperative for Innovative LeadershipEver wondered how to navigate the complexities of leading the next generation in a world that's rapidly transforming? Join Tommy Nixon and Robert Aboites in this game-changing episode as they kick off an exciting series of leadership conversations.As young leaders coming up in spaces that have never been navigated before, how can we adapt to the evolving landscape of a young, urban, and multi-ethnic reality? This episode is your compass to understanding the pivotal changes required for effective leadership in today's complicated world.Explore the nuances of the leadership journey and discover practical insights...2024-01-2434 minThe Radical MiddleDeath by Production - Balancing Expectations and Well-beingUnless you've experienced working or volunteering in an understaffed, under-resourced, or poorly-led organization, you may not fully grasp the challenges it entails. It can be a daunting prospect, and sometimes, downright frustrating!In this episode, we step back to examine the competitive landscape of Christmas productions across various ministries and organizations. These entities often impose higher demands for bigger, better, and more extravagant productions on their already tired volunteers. It begs the question: Why do we consistently push the envelope in this manner?Is it so challenging to find contentment in simplicity? Can we, for...2023-12-2041 minThe Radical MiddleNavigating Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion: A Holistic PerspectiveThe concepts of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) can elicit various reactions, from enthusiasm to resistance, based on individual ideologies.In this episode, we explore a nuanced perspective on DEI, emphasizing that it is not the ultimate goal but rather the vehicle that can lead us to fulfill the will of God. We delve into the tensions that exist within both sides of the DEI debate and introduce the concept of the Radical Middle, offering a holistic approach to this important topic.Join us as we navigate the complexities of DEI, seeking a path that...2023-12-0643 minThe Radical MiddlePower Dynamics - Understanding the Persistence of Organizations with Poor LeadershipHave you ever pondered why organizations with questionable leadership or unethical practices manage to maintain their grip on power? It can be baffling to witness influential organizations thrive while others struggle to access even basic resources.In this discussion, we delve into the critical role of power dynamics in various aspects of our lives. We examine the tactics employed by organizations to preserve themselves and their influence, shedding light on how they prioritize maintaining existing power structures and cultures.The consequences of these actions have resulted in the emergence of monolithic organizations that often lack...2023-11-2246 minThe Radical MiddleNavigating the Political Landscape: A Christian Perspective on VotingThe question of how to cast our votes is increasingly on the minds of young leaders today. Voting is often portrayed as our civic duty, a way to have our voices heard by those in power. However, in a world where politics has become intertwined with individual identity, it's challenging to strike a balance between participating in the electoral process and remaining true to our values.We find ourselves grappling with the fact that many candidates available to us may not align with the virtues of our faith. This raises questions about our role in a political...2023-11-0837 minThe Radical MiddleChristianity as a Weapon - Examining the Misuse of Faith for Political EndsJanuary 6th has gained infamy, being likened to other dark days in U.S. history. Among the distressing scenes witnessed on that day, one that stands out is a leader of the insurrection holding up a Bible and leading a prayer. This raises questions about how individuals can exploit Holy Scriptures to sow chaos and believe they are fulfilling a divine purpose.In this episode, we delve into the complexities surrounding the use of faith as a tool for disruption and chaos. We explore the various perspectives that lead people to believe they are justified in weaponizing...2023-10-2546 minThe Radical MiddleFamily Business - Addressing Nepotism in Churches & Its Impact on Ministries and FamiliesNepotism, a concerning issue within church organizations, has become increasingly evident. It is disheartening to witness leaders favoring their relatives without considering merit or suitability for positions. In this episode, we delve into the reasons behind this phenomenon and explore why churches often refrain from scrutinizing leadership transfers involving family members.We'll begin by shedding light on the issue, exposing instances of nepotism in churches, and analyzing the absence of meritocracy in such situations. This will help us better understand the scope and gravity of the problem.Next, we'll delve into the root causes of...2023-10-1149 minThe Radical MiddleWakanda Forever - Uniting Black and Brown Communities; Understanding Disunity and HopeWhy does it seem like there's an ongoing rivalry between black and brown communities? Is it an innate instinct, a cultural phenomenon, or something driven by fear? Could there be a larger agenda at play behind this division?In this episode of The Radical Middle, Fredy and Tommy address the pressing issue of disunity among black and brown brothers and sisters, while also highlighting the potential for growth in this area among younger generations. They delve into the root causes of disunity and provide insights into historical socioeconomic and political factors that have historically fueled division between...2023-09-2748 minThe Radical MiddleBibliolatry: Worshipping the Bible over GodJoin Tommy and Fredy in this episode of The Radical Middle Podcast as they delve into the intriguing and contentious topic of whether it is possible for some individuals to prioritize worshiping The Bible over God Himself. They unravel the various perspectives within the Christian community regarding this matter and examine how certain viewpoints may inadvertently lead to harm.The discussion also sheds light on conflicting behaviors exhibited by fervent believers who elevate The Bible's importance to the point where knowledge surpasses living its teachings. Is there room for healthy debate and tension when it comes to...2023-09-1356 minThe Radical MiddleCode-Switching: Cultural Diversity and LeadershipHave you ever observed someone transitioning from their native language to a more widely accepted form of communication? This occurrence is quite common, and you might not even realize it.This phenomenon is what we refer to as "code-switching." In this episode, Tommy and Fredy delve into the concept of code-switching, exploring the reasons behind its prevalence, its necessity, and whether it should be considered problematic.Additionally, they address the feelings experienced by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color) when they find themselves in environments less accepting of their cultural backgrounds.What...2023-08-3054 minThe Radical MiddleWoke Wars - Decoding Wokeness: Impact, Gospel, and Necessity in ProgressivismThe concept of the "woke agenda" faces scrutiny, with a notable portion of the challenge originating not solely from traditional conservatives or religious individuals.Within progressive circles, there is an internal struggle to outdo one another in virtue signaling. This intensification of cancel culture is noteworthy.Influential figures once celebrated by liberals as champions of the movement now face criticism for not aligning progressively enough with current ideals.Exploring the meaning of wokeness, its relationship with The Gospel of Jesus, and the necessity of adopting a woke perspective.Tommy and Fredy...2023-08-1639 minThe Radical MiddleThe Ambiguity of Whiteness - Exploring the Concept of WhitenessWhat exactly is "whiteness," and who does it encompass? These are the questions at the heart of today's episode featuring Tommy and Fredy.Often, we casually use the term "whiteness" to refer to individuals who are not minorities, without recognizing the rich diversity within the white community. Surprisingly, some white people share cultural and life experiences more closely with minorities than we might assume.Tommy and Fredy also dive into the racial disparities that sometimes create divisions among Christians, offering valuable discussion points to foster greater understanding and connection among all members of the faith...2023-08-0249 minThe Radical MiddleMcJesus - Serving up Quick & Delicious Christianity | Are We Replicating Cookie-Cutter Churches?Have you ever felt like we're constantly replicating the same type of churches? Well, you're not alone in thinking that way!We've observed that even exceptional church planters and planting movements can succumb to the allure of superficial metrics to measure success. In this conversation, Tommy and Fredy delve into the reasons behind this pattern. They also question whether this tendency is unique to American culture, where there's a drive to churn out numerous events, gatherings, and churches to boost numerical growth.The concept of "McJesus" comes into play, highlighting the concern that we might...2023-07-1954 minThe Radical MiddleChallenging the Christian Industrial Complex - Examining Inclusivity & RepresentationThere's a significant financial aspect to the Christian industry, where substantial profits are attainable. But is it ethically sound that this industry consistently favors a select few from a particular community, while simultaneously excluding BIPOC individuals?"The Radical Middle" podcast sets out to challenge the gatekeepers in this realm, aiming to expose the elements of greed and racism that persist due to a lack of inclusivity.In this episode, Tommy and Fredy delve into the underrepresentation of diverse cultures in mainstream Christian music and films. They also scrutinize why certain speakers consistently secure conference opportunities...2023-07-0550 minThe Radical MiddleMen’s Rights - Understanding Men's Concerns and Responsibilities in Christian CirclesDo men often feel under attack in today's society? It's a sentiment that's been voiced by many. But why is that the case?Join Tommy and Fredy as they explore the various reasons behind the perception that men are not treated fairly in society. They engage in a thoughtful discussion, acknowledging the validity of some arguments while also questioning the notion of oppression, particularly in Western culture.In addition, they delve into what scripture has to say about men, their responsibilities, and the call they are expected to respond to, shedding light on the spiritual...2023-06-2144 minThe Radical MiddleYou’re a Bad Leader if…. - Recognizing and Avoiding Bad LeadershipEffective leadership should be driven by noble intentions and a genuine love for the cause. However, what occurs when narcissistic or unqualified individuals are entrusted with leadership roles within an organization?Poor leadership can lead to catastrophic outcomes! So, what are the warning signs of ineffective leadership that you need to be vigilant about? How can you ensure that you do not inadvertently enable poor leaders to perpetuate harm within your organization?In this discussion, Tommy and Fredy draw from their personal experiences and observations to shed light on the pitfalls of bad leadership and...2023-06-0737 minThe Radical MiddleShould You Go To Church - Is Church Attendance Essential in the Digital Age?Is church attendance still a vital aspect of our faith journey? In an era where we can access worship services and sermons online, often from our favorite artists and preachers, the question arises: What's the real purpose of physically attending church?Join Tommy and Fredy as they grapple with the notion that traditional church attendance might not always be the most relevant practice. They present an alternative perspective that could be quite surprising.Furthermore, they delve into the issue of declining attendance among young people, highlighting that the reasons behind their departure from the church...2023-05-2437 minThe Radical MiddleGet Out the Way - Should leaders step down? Unraveling the Challenges of Church Leadership SuccessionIn this episode, Tommy and Fredy dive deep into the pressing issue of why the church often faces hurdles when it comes to ensuring a healthy succession of ministries and leadership roles. They shed light on the noticeable tension that frequently arises between younger leaders, eager and prepared to take the helm, and their more experienced counterparts who may be reluctant to step aside.The duo explores the complexities of determining whether one should remain patient and wait for the right moment or strike out independently to build something new. They carefully weigh the pros and cons...2023-05-0953 minThe Radical MiddleSpecial Episode: The Cult of Politics - President as Savior: Analyzing Easter Message and Christian LeadershipOn Easter Sunday, Trump shared a message on Truth Social that had Fredy awake all night. Amidst Trump's ongoing legal challenges, Tommy and Fredy engage in a crucial conversation about how some Christian leaders may inadvertently damage the church's reputation by excessively spiritualizing the charges against President Trump and failing to hold him accountable. They also explore the complex interplay between faith and politics.Is there synchronism at play here?Does America need Donald Trump to save Christianity?How should we pray for our current and past civic leaders?Support...2023-04-1958 minThe Radical MiddleSecuring the Bag - Exploring Compensation for Christian LeadersIs it appropriate for Christian leaders to receive higher compensation?Is there a point where excessive financial success could undermine the effectiveness of urban leaders?In this episode, join Tommy and Fredy as they delve into the dilemma of whether poverty is virtuous and wealth is detrimental. We're on a quest for The Radical Middle.Support the show & Follow Us ✅ Instagram ✅ Twitter ✅ TikTok2023-04-1251 minThe Radical MiddlePastor Daddy - Exploring The Link Between Spiritual Fathers & TraumaFather wounds have always been a captivating subject within our community, and the conversation surrounding them remains relevant. However, in this discussion, we shift the focus away from conventional father wounds. Instead, we delve into the realm of wounds inflicted by "spiritual fathers."Are you weary of leaders who exert control and manipulation over those they are meant to guide? In our inaugural episode of "The Radical Middle" Podcast, we undertake a profound exploration of this issue. Join us as we scrutinize the perils associated with leaders who position themselves as spiritual fathers and the resultant harm...2023-03-2941 minThe Radical MiddleHow To Give Power AwayWe are at a time and point in history where there are white power structures and because of this, we have a demographic shift. Don’t look at it as a loss, but rather as the most Christian thing to do because that’s what Jesus did. We can actually lay down our power for the benefit of others. It’s a dub. We need to create a new leadership for a new world. Even if power shifts and nothing changes with the distribution of power, we become our oppressors. How do we break the cycle?2023-03-2223 minThe Radical MiddleThe Army of God?How much of American Nationalism has seeped into the Church?We as Christians are in a spiritual battle against the evil forces of this world. When you add American nationalism to this battle, it creates enemies out of other people, and the reality is, those people are created in the Image of God. In this current reality, we see key groups of people who profess Christ but don’t care about the suffering of others. How are we being that light in this dark world?The next generation is rejecting boxes and conformity and is de...2023-03-2218 minThe Radical MiddleA Shared SufferingWe have experienced a tremendous amount of suffering these past couple of years, but with this comes polarization. As followers of Christ, how can we learn to share the suffering of others? And how can we learn how to do this well? What if suffering is imposed? Can we change the “they” narrative of suffering to a “we” narrative?Support the show & Follow Us ✅ Instagram ✅ Twitter ✅ TikTok2023-03-2222 minThe Radical MiddlePower DynamicsTime and time again, we have seen “whoever controls the Book, holds the Power.” This leads to a toxic Church AND Christian Leadership.We are going through the tension of how we read scripture and how we use it as a weapon to control people.How do we control the narrative when Pastors and Church Leaders are controlling the narrative to fit the Gospel to their beliefs?There are many mini Kingdoms that these leaders are creating about themselves because they hold power.Who does the power belong to?Tune...2023-03-2222 minThe Radical MiddleIdentity“Who am I?”You might’ve asked yourself this question once, twice, maybe more. We have lost the piece that makes us who we are. As leaders, we have a crisis. We are called to serve the marginalized, but the color of our skin disqualifies us. What happens when your Christian Community is not fighting for the injustices within our country? Do you lean into the color of your skin and fight? What comes into mind when you hear that you are a Child of God? Is there a hierarchy of how we ar...2023-03-2220 minThe Radical MiddleIs Social Justice a Sin?Is Social Justice a Sin?We have seen our Urban Brothers and Sisters go through social justice issues like abortion, immigration, and racism, but we fail to wrestle with this tension because we care more about being on the “right side.”So what happens when we embody the values of others as opposed to that of Scripture? We miss the mark. We can’t be a witness when we play the victim. We need to show what the Kingdom of God is really like.Why are we called, as Believers, to engage...2023-03-2224 minThe Radical MiddleIs The Church Full Of Hypocrites?Is The Church Full Of Hypocrites?The answer may shock you.It’s important that we recognize our hypocrisy and come with a posture of “I do not always live out what I believe.”The most Christian thing you can say is “I was wrong.” Why is it so hard to accept this?When we allow idolatry to play a part in our lives, of course, it’s going to be hard to acknowledge our own hypocrisy. We need to embody the values that have been laid out for us through Christ so th...2023-03-2222 minThe Radical MiddleThe Gray of RelationshipsWhat would it cost for the church to abandon its position on the left and the right?What if you didn't have to choose sides? What if the gray is actually where Jesus led from?Jesus was a paradox and wasn’t afraid to embrace the tension.In The Radical Middle podcast Tommy Nixon and Co-Host Fredy Romero break down the fundamental principles of the Radical Middle. They’ll discuss how to live the Christian life outside of the toxic box of black and white... and move into the gray. Relationships need...2023-03-2222 min
The Future Is HereEP. 27: How To Give Power Away - Radical Middle EditionWe are at a time and point in history where there are white power structures and because of this we have a demographic shift. Don’t look at it as a loss, but rather as the most Christian thing to do because that’s what Jesus did. We can actually lay down our power for the benefit of others. It’s a dub. We need to create a new leadership for a new world. Even if power shifts and nothing changes with the distribution of power, we become our oppresso...2022-10-1923 min
The Future Is HereEP. 26: Is Social Justice a Sin? - Radical Middle EditionIs Social Justice a Sin?We have seen our Urban Brothers and Sisters go through social justice issues like abortion, immigration, racism, but we fail to wrestle with this tension because we care more about being on the “right side.”So what happens when we embody the values of others as opposed to that of Scripture? We miss the mark. We can’t be a witness when we play the victim. We need to show what the Kingdom of God is really like.Why are we cal...2022-10-0624 minThe Future Is HereEP. 25: Is The Church Full Of Hypocrites? - Radical Middle EditionIs The Church Full Of Hypocrites?The answer may shock you.It’s important that we recognize our hypocrisy and come with a posture of “I do not always live out what I believe.”The most Christian thing you can say is “I was wrong.” Why is it so hard to accept this?When we allow idolatry to play a part in our lives, of course it’s going to be hard to acknowledge our own hypocrisy. We need to embody the values that have been laid out for us through Christ so th...2022-09-2222 minThe Future Is HereEP. 24: A Shared Suffering - Radical Middle EditionWe have experienced a tremendous amount of suffering these past couple of years, but with this comes polarization. As followers of Christ, how can we learn to share the suffering of others? And how can we learn how to do this well? What if suffering is imposed? Can we change the “they” narrative of suffering to a “we” narrative? Join Tommy Nixon & Fredy Romero on A Shared Suffering | The Future is Here Podcast: Radical Middle Edition Are you listening?!!!Support the showFollow Us: ✅ Instagram✅ Twitter2022-09-1722 minThe Future Is HereEP. 24 A Shared SufferingWe have experienced a tremendous amount of suffering these past couple of years, but with this comes polarization. As followers of Christ, how can we learn to share the suffering of others? And how can we learn how to do this well? What if suffering is imposed? Can we change the “they” narrative of suffering to a “we” narrative? Join Tommy Nixon & Fredy Romero on Episode 24: A Shared Suffering | The Future is Here Podcast: Radical Middle Edition Are you listening?!!!Support the show2022-09-0723 minThe Future Is HereEP. 23: Power Dynamics - Radical Middle EditionTime and time again, we have seen “whoever controls the Book, holds the Power.” This leads to a toxic Church AND Christian Leadership.We are going through the tension of how we read scripture and how we use it as a weapon to control people.How do we control the narrative when Pastors and Church Leaders are controlling the narrative to fit the Gospel to their beliefs?There are many mini Kingdoms that these leaders are creating about themselves because they hold power.Who does the power belong to?Tune...2022-08-1223 minThe Future Is HereEP. 22: Identity - Radical Middle Edition“Who am I?”You might’ve asked yourself this question once, twice, maybe more. We have lost the piece that makes us who we are. As leaders, we have a crisis. We are called to serve the marginalized, but the color of our skin disqualifies us. What happens when your Christian Community is not fighting for the injustices within our country? Do you lean into the color of your skin and fight? What comes into mind when you hear that you are a Child of God? Is there a hierarchy of how we ar...2022-07-0620 minThe Future Is HereEP.21: The Army of God? - Radical Middle EditionHow much of American Nationalism has seeped into the Church?We as Christians are in a spiritual battle against the evil forces of this world. When you add American nationalism to this battle, it creates enemies out of other people, and reality is, those people are created in the Image of God. In this current reality we see key groups of people who profess Christ but don’t care about the suffering of others. How are we being that light in this dark world?The next generation is rejecting boxes and conformity and is desperately lo...2022-06-1419 min
The Future Is HereEP.20: The Gray of Relationships - Radical Middle EditionWhat would it cost for the church to abandon its position on the left and the right?What if you didn't have to choose sides? What if the gray is actually where Jesus led from?Jesus was a paradox and wasn’t afraid to embrace the tension.In The Future Is Here Podcast | Radical Middle Edition Tommy Nixon and Co-Host Fredy Romero break down the fundamental principles of the Radical Middle. They’ll discuss how to live the Christian life outside of the toxic box of black and white... and move into the gray...2022-05-1723 minThe Future Is HereEP.19: The Third Way: Navigating The Pitfalls of The Right and The Left w/ Justin GiboneyIn the Season 2 Finale of The Future Is Here #Podcast titled The Third Way: Navigating The Pitfalls of The Right and The Left, our esteemed host and CEO Tommy Nixon talks to Atlanta-based lawyer, political strategist, Co-Founder, President of the AND Campaign, Justin Giboney about what it looks like to live as a Christ-follower in the tension of our current context and culture. If you have ever struggled with what it means to be conservative or liberal as a Christian this conversation is for you. Just one question remains, however... #areyoulistening 2021-06-1644 min