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Never Give These Losers Pussy🔥 Episode: 41 Unmatch Instantly: A Red Flag Mini GuideIn Episode 41, Unmatch Instantly: A Red Flag Mini Guide, Divine Ruler Ororo Snow delivers a spiritual yet savage field manual for spotting male mediocrity from a mile away. From self-proclaimed “sapiosexuals” with air mattresses to “I’m not ready” mutts fishing for late-night attention, this episode will recalibrate your standards and remind you that detachment is an act of devotion…. To yourself, and Devotion to yourself is the only requirement.Expect a mix of spiritual insight, high-femme dominance, and practical clarity that will have you hitting “unmatch” faster than he can say “Netflix and chill.” Plus:Meet mut...
2025-08-3015 min
Unmatch Me NowUNMATCH ME NOW - THE FINAL UNMATCHING GOODBYE EPISODESend us a textThis is a long-overdue goodbye. Thank you to everyone who listened!Support the show
2025-08-2117 min
The Expat CastAsk the Expat with Idan from Unmatch Me Now
Season 6, Episode 24. What's it like dating a German? How do I make friends as an expat? Can I get a job in Germany without knowing German? Is the rental market reallllyyyy that bad?
Nicole is joined by Idan from Unmatch Me Now to get into all of these questions and more! From personal experiences and opinions to concrete resources about Kindergeld and donating blood, nothing is off the table.
Thanks to all the listeners who submitted questions for this episode.
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2022-03-1746 min
Unmatch Me Now93 COUCH SURFING TO A HORRIBLE MARRIAGE PROPOSALSend us a textI talked to Marta about her online dating experience in Georgia, using FetLife, Bumble BFF, couch surfing, and Tinder. Why Middle Eastern people think she’s a spy, how it’s like being poly on tinder in a conservative culture and what reactions she gets from guys, how a guy canceled his flight to see her after a very stale first date having grand expectations about her, why it’s perfectly ok to not answer everyone on online dating apps and unmatch, marriage proposals on a tram, dates on a roof with a crimin...
2021-01-191h 04
Unmatch Me Now91 STRAIGHT EYE FOR THE STRAIGHT GUY ON BUMBLE BIZ = HI!Send us a textI talked to Oscar about his online dating experience after moving to Berlin from Spain, about how it’s like to meet and chat with people on Bumble Biz & BFF, why it’s harder to make friends than finding dates, a very tinder date full of coincidences, why it’s harder to date in Majorca, my schmoozy almost date story, why women are deterred from mentioning ONS on their profiles and more!Support the show
2020-12-2151 min
2020-12-2101 min
Unmatch Me Now90 NEVER DANCE THE DEVIL’S TANGOSend us a textI talked to Alkyoni (@poisoner_art), a photographer and erotica illustrator based in Athens, about tinder and Facebook for dating, People’s reactions to her erotic art on tinder, When does it count as ghosting after a date? People who don’t want to use condoms and sexual education, bad chemistry, what it’s like to date in Greece and social norms embedded society about sex, and how she was someone else’s horrible date, and much more!Support the show
2020-12-1250 min
Unmatch Me Now89 DRUG LORDS, NIPPLES AND IRANIAN MANNERSSend us a textI talked to Donya about her dating experience in Berlin, receiving dick pics, Dating a spati drug dealer, being Iranian in Berlin and why Iranian are too polite, Disappearing dates at house parties, Why people are afraid of commitment. Intimacy, drinking on dates - yay or nay, and much more!Support the show
2020-12-051h 13
Unmatch Me Now88 TO SEX CULT OR NOT TO SEX CULT?Send us a textI talked to Nikol about how she almost joined a Berlin artists sex cult and about her thoughts on tinder, bumble, and feeld and what it's like being asexual\graysexual using online dating apps, how should non-asexual people approach asexuality in general, and also about how to define what you want from your dating life and much much more!Support the show
2020-11-2744 min
Unmatch Me Now87 COCK BLOCKED BY A CHOCOLATE COVERED DOGSend us a textI talked to Isabel, who is a dating coach who used to work for some big casual dating websites in the past, about her weird dates in Israel, how her date was interrupted by a dog, eye contact meditation on the first date, what she thinks are the best pics you should use for your tinder profiles, why she decided to start being a dating coach and much more!Support the show
2020-11-2044 min
Unmatch Me Now86 DID YOU JUST INFECT ME WITH APPENDICITIS?Send us a textI talked to Jonah from South Africa about his first tinder experiences and how it was interrupted by a disturbed flatmate, STI shaming and safe sex, how to unlearn what we think about sex and relationships, how he was someone's worse date and generally dating in South Africa and how it's like, and much more!Support the show
2020-11-141h 02
Unmatch Me Now85 ONE HUNDRED EROTIC TINDER TALESSend us a textAfter 100 dates Marcus decided to write a book about his erotic tinder experiences, focusing on the good dates and smutty stories we also talked about how is it like using tinder in Romania, why we hate the tinder algorithm, why I think there are no people out of your league & why everyone is attractive to someone, black magic dates, a date that wanted him to never ejaculate, why he is all up for video calls before meeting and more!his book is available at Amazon in print and digital versions
2020-11-0643 min
Unmatch Me Now84 AN ANALOGUE JOURNEY TO DIGITAL DATINGSend us a textI had a chat with Greg from Melbourn about his journey using different dating services and websites since the early 90's such as -Â alt.com, FetLife, adult matchmaker, etc. also about what was it like dating before all of today's tech, what hat to wear so your kinky date can find you in a crowd, tinder scammers, how is it like to work as a pro dom sex worker, how I got a free desk off tinder and way more!Support the show
2020-10-311h 03
Unmatch Me Now83 YOU SHOULD HAVE GOOGLED ME BETTERSend us a textI talked to Franzi about how it's like starting to use online dating in your late 40s, what and how people showcase themselves on the apps, what defines a good date, weird dates with Doms and at what time do people have dinner, how to form a BDSM dynamic during dates, chatting with younger men on OKC and much more!Support the show
2020-10-2458 min
Unmatch Me Now82 COCK BLOCKED BY A PICKUP ARTIST PIGEONSend us a textI talked to Steven @stevemocomedy, who’s a comedian, about his journey from a Florida man using Plenty of Fish to Tindering in Germany and having weird dates such as: how he got cock blocked by a pigeon, dating alleged mafia members, pizza-demanding dates, why his dating choices should change and how, the first date at a fortune teller and more!Support the show
2020-10-1437 min
Unmatch Me Now81 IS YOUR DATE USING: A) METH B) KEBAB C) BUCKET BONGSend us a textI talked to Cleo (https://www.cleoconstantine.com/), who’s a sex worker in Berlin, about her dating experience from starting using tinder back in 2013 to this day, instant hookups, the difficulties of dating women as a bisexual, fangirling a famous tumbler blogger, dating on FetLife, why Australia’s cocaine is meth, the secret life of Australian plumbers, STIs and safe sex, dating as a sex worker, sex working and monogamy, first porn experiences and much more! Support the show
2020-10-021h 48
Unmatch Me Now80 THE DEMISEXUAL ANATOMY OF ONSSend us a textI talked to Sarah about dating as a demisexual, meaningful connection and how to make them, the anatomy of one night stands, why you should not really define your type, her weird journey with tinder while being in Chicago including deep-dish pizza, frat boys and more!Support the show
2020-09-2638 min
Unmatch Me Now79 THE DUDE SYNDROMESend us a textI talked to Ronnie about online dating in Tel Aviv, having a painting date with a poet, a dude that refuses to shower, to cuddle or not to cuddle? weird dates, how to communicate what you want from your dates, people who sniff around your fridge and critique your food choices, and much much more!Support the show
2020-09-1858 min
Unmatch Me Now78 OF KINK AND CONSENTSend us a textI talked to Nikki (@nikkispanou) about how she started using online dating while being in an open relationship, having cringe first dates on tinder and being someone else's worse date, but more importantly about her story of sexual assault while meeting someone for kink oriented purposes, and how consent should be more integral of kink play and BDSM. *trigger warning included in the episode* Support the show
2020-09-111h 30
Unmatch Me Now77 THE PUNISHER VS ANACONDASend us a textI talked to Keren who’s an American based in Tel Aviv about her horrible online dating stories involving a guy self nicknamed the Punisher, metaphorical snakes, manipulation techniques, unsolicited dick pics, how to do kink-pitching on dates, and much much more!Support the show
2020-09-0138 min
Unmatch Me Now76 TINDERELLA REPORTING LIVE FROM THE SCENESend us a textI talked to Maria (@tinderellalive) about how it’s like being a sex blogger for a Russian audience and using online dating in different countries (including Russia, Belarus Germany, and Israel), about radical honesty and communication, sex positivity, live blogging a funny date, slut-shaming culture in Russia, being poly and how people react to it on tinder and much more!Support the show
2020-08-2149 min
Unmatch Me Now75 THE SWIPE MANIFESTOSend us a textMe and David share stories and experiences about how we deal with online dating issues - why he prefer bumble and when to know it’s becoming an addiction, over-dating & self-reflection, being shamed for using tinder by friends, using online dating as a replacement for flakey friends and the problems that can occur with that, why guys usually don’t have such horrible dates, how to shift from casual oriented to relationship-oriented and more!Support the show
2020-08-1146 min
Unmatch Me Now74 JOANNA BOND 007: LIVE TO DATE ANOTHER DAYSend us a textI talked to Joanna about her online dating experience in NYC \ Berlin, dating a possible serial killer that’s obsessed with black and white interior design, dating secretive government workers, exploring sexuality and kink, getting catfished hard, to small talk or not to small talk and more!Support the show
2020-08-0659 min
Unmatch Me Now73 HEY, WHY DO YOU HAVE 7 KNIVES?Send us a textEla told me about how she started off tindering by inviting guys over to her dorm room in an all women’s college, her buddy system with her roommate, having 3 tinder dates one after another, how being in an all women’s college changed her for better and got her to be more in touch with inner sexy self, and why great mattresses can lead to threesomes and more!Support the show
2020-07-3052 min
Unmatch Me Now72 BI-SEX AND THE CITYSend us a textI talked to Luke about his difficulties dating in Berlin as a Bisexual man and some of the responses he gets from his dates about it, we also talked about how bi individuals should not be treated and how it's like overall from his experience as well as - dating in SLC vs Berlin, having a threesome with a couple that dislikes each other, why you should always swipe right on your friends and co-workers and more!Support the show
2020-07-2137 min
Unmatch Me Now71 FETISHISE ME LIKE ONE OF YOUR AUSCHWITZ GIRLSSend us a textI talked to Dana (@Dana_Regev), a journalist who published an article on Vice about her journey and insights about online dating and fetishization of jews in Germany, fetishization overall, and of Israeli women. We talked about how German men have mentioned to her they want to impregnate Jewish women, how they interrogate her about her military service and her family’s Holocaust history for sexual arousal and more.Support the show
2020-07-1349 min
Unmatch Me Now70 THE SOCIETY OF SHIT MAGICIANSSend us a textI talked to Ariela about her horrible tinder dates that either disappeared in weird ways or refused to go away, involving - a nazi, a double date that went missing, a pickup artist that ended up being a stalker and much much more. we also talked about consent, should you ask before you kiss someone? how dating in tel aviv is compared to Europe, how to have a threesome with 2 guys, and so so much more!Support the show
2020-07-0251 min
Unmatch Me Now69 THE PSYCHEDELIC JOURNEY TO A THIRD DATE IN NEPALSend us a textI talked to Morgan about why she started coaching people at @chillpolyamory about polyamory and unpacking monogamy bias. also - why she prefers OKC over Tinder, how to hack the algorithm to overcome it's inherited racist and body shaming nature, and the story of how she went to Nepal on a third date with a guy that became a long exploratory journey that involves psychedelics, danger and much more!Support the show
2020-06-2953 min
Unmatch Me Now68 THE 50,000 MEN CHOICE PARADIGMSend us a textI talked to Anissa host at Homoswipiens Podcast about how she discovered the dating apps universe and tried to commit to date a different guy every day, why she started a podcast about it and why and how should we live with online dating apps also about using the apps during the pandemic, experimenting with kink oriented apps, exchanging nudes for the first time in a dom\sub dynamic, using the quarantine time to think and explore virtually her sexuality and boundaries and much more!Support the...
2020-06-1638 min
Unmatch Me Now67 RAW GUSHY DICKSend us a textI talked to Sasha about her thought on bumble, OKC, Polyamory, relationship anarchy, her weird dating stories, why every time she and her partner swipe together it ends up in an argument, a letter she wrote to an unsolicited dick pic sender, why dating women in Berlin is hard, the most ridiculous reasons she swiped left on ppl, race fetishizations, copy paste messages, why you should explore different ways to have better masturbation skills and much more!Support the show
2020-06-0754 min
Unmatch Me Now66 TINDER EYE FOR THE STRAIGHT GUYSend us a textI talked to Ugurcan about his experience with tinder since the age of 17 till today, how he got catfishes and what to look our for, dating in times of quarantine and how this Changes our dating life, friends with benefits and over tindering and how it may affect us and how to deal with it better, long-distance relationships, sexting and one amazing date story in LA!Support the show
2020-05-2940 min
Unmatch Me Now65 I DON'T WANT TO GET IT OFF MY CHESTSend us a textI talked to Sabrina, who was my first taller tinder date a few years ago, and she told me about her boring tinder date experiences, how she ended up on a first date at a sex party and how it ended surprisingly. also about kink-shaming and people who are being pushy about their kinks, height supremacists and why we should change that and how she met her partnerSupport the show
2020-05-2033 min
Unmatch Me Now64 THE ROSE COLORED GLASSES THAT PAINT THE RED FLAGSSend us a textYaniv, host at Beautiful works in progress podcast and a relationship coach, told me about his red flags dates and how he dealt with those situations, 15 minute cigarette breaks that stretched for a few months, why people flake out, what he thinks about online dating and how we use them, what men really thinks after they orgasm, why he love coffee date and more!Support the show
2020-05-1352 min
Unmatch Me Now63 BLOWIES FOR GERMAN LESSONSSend us a textI talked to Kat (@katnippresents) about her experience using Tinder \ Her and other apps, how it’s like going on dates as an alcohol expert, when guys google reverse image stalk you, how rom-coms are actually about psychopaths, why she has only ugly pics on Instagram, her date’s 3 drinks rule, regretting about ghosting her date and SO much more!Support the show
2020-05-0453 min
Unmatch Me Now62 THE FANTASTIC GUIDE TO BEING A UNICORN AND NOT BEING A DOUCHESend us a textZofia - a comedian and a performance artist (https://www.instagram.com/noseofwax/), told me about her adventures using online dating app to try to explore dating women, which has been hard to find IRL, and how she discovered the weird and intriguing world of being a unicorn, her horrible story involving window-staring dudes and much more!Support the show
2020-04-1447 min
Unmatch Me NowSWIPING IN ISOLATION 03 - 9 FAKE PROFILESSend us a textI talked to Melanie about how it's like swiping in berlin during social isolation and about how she had to find a new job due the inability to work and eventually found one working as a "fake" profile for a new dating app.Swiping in isolation is a series of short interviews with people from all over the world during the COVID crisis, trying to figure out how to deal with the social isolation and using online dating to escape the hard parts of this new reality. please note: I encourage...
2020-04-1117 min
Unmatch Me Now61 LADY LEXI'S FUCKET-LIST & HOW TO DEVOUR MENSend us a textI talked to Lexi about her journey to become a Berlin dominatrix all the way from LA, her fucket-list and what's on it, and about her mission to kiss a boy in every city on her euro trip. we also talked about her horrible dates with a punk photographer, her journey to try to have sex with twins, how it's like being a dominatrix and how it affects your dating life, berlin fetish clubs and the issues with the fetish scene and the uniform mentality in fetish wear, sex work legalization vs decriminalization...
2020-04-061h 10
Unmatch Me NowSWIPING IN ISOLATION 02 - TENERIFE STYLE PIZZASend us a textI talked to Serita about how she attempted to deal with the loneliness or isolation in Tenerife, and how her online dating in Berlin before the quarantine has beenSwiping in isolation is a series of short interviews with people from all over the world during the COVID crisis, trying to figure out how to deal with the social isolation and using online dating to escape the hard parts of this new reality. please note: I encourage you to listen to your authorities recommendations and follow their instructions and this is...
2020-04-0214 min
Unmatch Me Now60 YODEL 007 - A VIEW TO A BEDSHEETSend us a textI talked to Alex about her horrible dates including kidnap attempts in Italy, very nonmessy hookups in Greece, yodeling (that’s an app) to get a blind date, dude’s apartments and how they’re like, how to be the unicorn you want to be! Who’s cumming first and how to communicate about your orgasm wishes, hate sex, one guy that did not see the benefits of changing sheets, and much more!Support the show
2020-03-301h 06
Unmatch Me NowSWIPING IN ISOLATION 01 - TO FAKE OR NOT TO FAKE? THE SEXTING DILEMMASend us a textI had a quick call with Ariana, who's in a complete lock down in Italy, about her sexting experience and how she tried using tinder to get some sexual relief in these weird times.Swiping in isolation is a series of short interviews with people from all over the world during the COVID crisis, trying to figure out how to deal with the social isolation and using online dating to escape the hard parts of this new reality. please note: I encourage you to listen to your authorities recommendations...
2020-03-2709 min
Unmatch Me Now59 THE STRANGE AND THE CURIOUS - TOKYO DRIFTSend us a textI talked to Nicola about her experience online dating in Tokyo and Hong Kong involving being bitten, making van diagrams for what’s normal nowadays and what’s not, being ripped off for free dinner, her tips on how to avoid horrible dates upfront, hair stroking dates, a very very horrible date story and many more!Support the show
2020-03-2348 min
Unmatch Me Now58 A FAREWELL LETTER TO A CONTROLING FREAKSend us a textI talked to Ashley about her experiences dating in Japan, how she used online dating to discover more about herself, understanding men and overall, how it’s like being a foreigner in Japan, And her horrible dating story that involves abortions, weird requests, cyber booty calls, and really strange dynamics and much more!Support the show
2020-03-1631 min
Unmatch Me Now57 OH SHIT IT'S THE GAY POLICESend us a textI talked to Anthony about his dating experience using Grindr in Lebanon and Paris, the difference between tinder and Grindr for gay dating, how he was the horrible date once, how to deal with lack of empathy in Grindr hookups, the beginners guide to using Grinder and his most horrible stories involving the dangers of being gay in Lebanon and how he dealt with it, guys that booked 2 dates at the same time and more!Support the show
2020-03-0943 min
Unmatch Me Now56 THE MILF’S GUIDE TO DEATH PHILOSOPHY & CUM IN YOUR HAIRSend us a textI talked to Hayley, who runs “death cafe” - an event that helps people deal about the philosophy of death and how to deal with it, and we talked about her experience using online dating in rural Australia, how it’s like dating young men and how to deal with the term MILF, catfishing attempts aka dirty johns, dick pics vs cleavage shots, a story of a very speed date, how to communicate you’re non-monogamous to your future dates, dating logistics in rural areas and being a single parent, how she got into bein...
2020-03-021h 05
Unmatch Me Now55 I'M LOOKING FOR DATES NOT MATESSend us a textI met with Lisa-Skye (sparklepuppy comedian, Femme Daddy, Muppet Dominatrix, Hedonism Muse) down under in Melbourne's suburbs, and we had a long and very whacky chat about kink, sex clubs, hand sanitizers, the scarcity of domme girls in online dating, safety in BDSM and dating, racism in Australia, VR porn, why polyam ppl like board games, her 17 minutes date and the struggles to date females, we also decided to update her OKC and Tinder profile with a new fresh bio and much much more! holy hack so much more!
2020-02-241h 17
Unmatch Me Now54 IF YOU DON'T COME TO RUSSIA, SOME DUDE WITH A RUSSIAN FETISH WILL COME TO YOUSend us a textI met with Anja and she told me weird tales about a guy that wrote her a scroll on how horrible germans are without even asking, being stood up by your date when you're already at the bar, dates with white noise machines, swiping right or swiping on the right person, more tinder algorithm talks! dick pics and why they happen, tips on sending nudes safely and why never expect good things when someone fetishizes you by your looks.Support the show
2020-02-1739 min
Unmatch Me Now53 2 GUYS 1 COCKRINGSend us a textI talked to Camille about her experience using tinder and other dating apps like seeking arrangement and about sugar daddies and sugar babies dynamics, finding slaves on Craiglist, dates that ignore obvious signs for a booty call, ghosting, dating significantly younger people and much more!Support the show
2020-02-1051 min
Unmatch Me Now52 ZEN & THE ART OF THE HOOKUPSend us a textI talked to Georgie, a Melbourne based escort and the author of the book and podcast "The art of the hookup" about her vast online dating experience, what she likes and dislikes about it, how to approach women (and people) to have the right mindset to get amazing casual sex, how people react to her being an escort, why we need to talk more about expectations and what we want and much much more!Support the show
2020-02-0351 min
The Art of the Hook UpWe need to talk about online dating. Featuring Idan from Unmatch Me NowEver since I started messing around with online dating a few years ago, I’ve been SO curious about what other people are getting up to on dating apps, and how my experience compares to theirs. But it’s not always something we talk about, especially when it’s not going well. I’m super excited to be able to talk with Idan in this episode. He produces a podcast called Unmatch Me Now in which he convinces people from all walks of life to share their weird, awkward and incredible dating stories. Join us for a chat about how to ge...
2020-02-0254 min
Unmatch Me Now51 CAN I OFFER YOU A CUP OF TEA WITH SOME PENIS?Send us a textI talked to Lena about tinder and her view of profile pictures as a photographer, and since she works at yad vashem we talked about the phenomena of people taking pictures in front of the holocaust memorial in Berlin and the general impression she has from people's pictures and how they present themselves. she also told me about her journey starting using online dating after being married for many years and getting used to the new dating apps and some horrible tea related dates.Support the show
2020-01-2737 min
Unmatch Me Now50 CAN YOU DONATE SOME DINNER?Send us a textDarius told me about his tinder experiences, what do you do if your date demand you should pay for dinner? is tinder the platform to look for relationships? the big miscommunication about ONS, is the third date rule still a thing? memes as secret to your tinder success, dating older women and trying new kink, cultural stereotypes and is it OK to make jokes about it? and more!Support the show
2020-01-2144 min
Unmatch Me Now49 THE GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE NETFLIX & CHILLSend us a textAfter ending an open relationship and moving to Berlin from Brussels Caroline told me about her dating adventures with a romantic poet, how to Netflix and chill literally, golden showers requests and the full pallet of Berlin's kink offerings, sexual harassment, how she deals with shorter guys and how to deal with our insecurities that come with different body types, how people react to her being in an open relationship and more!Support the show
2020-01-1343 min
Unmatch Me Now48 IF I HAD TONSILS HE WOULD HAVE SWIPED THEMSend us a textI met with Tenley in Bulgaria, and she told me about her troubles dating in a foreign culture, neo-nazis, guys that yell at her for looking better then her pictures, amateur porn directors, tindering in the rural parts of turkey, what happens if you write you're funny on your profile, is Halloumi actually cheese? how dates react to visible scars? dating in Bulgaria and Ukraine and way more! holy shit so much more!Support the show
2020-01-061h 22
Unmatch Me Now47 HE SAID HE THINKS BEYONCE IS CHUBBYSend us a textMe and Beverly met and talked about why she favors bumble but why some of their features and communication creates addiction and play a very risky game, racist dates, her first experience venturing outside vanilla land into dating a dom, using the C-word in sexy talk, what to do when you're date say he's into Jordan Peterson, a second date that took a month, how to deal with situations that require the morning after pill and more!#bigtiddygothgfSupport the show
2019-12-301h 00
Unmatch Me Now46 THE TINDER NIGHTMARE BEFORE HANUKKAHSend us a textI talked to Brocco about his mysterious goth dating story, why South Korea is his favorite place to tinder, why he super like people with no pictures on tinder, how to recognize flakey individuals, manage expectations, deep dive in the mystery on online dating with no expectations, tindering in Israel and how the culture is like and way more deep talk about online life! #Falafel&FantaSupport the show
2019-12-2338 min
Unmatch Me Now45 SEX LOVIN TAXI DRIVERS AND THE JOURNEY TO CASUAL SEXSend us a textI talked to Miri about her journey to figure out how to have casual sex and how she feels about it, dating using german websites such as poppen.de and the Interesting and weird dates she had revolving sex addicts, emotional connections, slow sex, married men, how to define what you want and more kinky stuff! Support the show
2019-12-1641 min
Unmatch Me Now44 THE TINDER CONFEDERACY FLAGSend us a textI talked to Gal about her short series of dates that ended up in an unexpected way, also about why nihilists should not have flags, the big height dilemma and the body-shaming issues that come with it, hookup culture in Tel-Aviv or the lack of and more!Support the show
2019-12-0949 min
Unmatch Me Now43 DO NOT GO CATFISH INTO THAT GOOD NIGHTSend us a textI talked to Stewart (www.stewartrogers.me) about being a digital nomad and why he thinks lyft is the best app for him to date, we also talked about sexism, who should pay and why (again!), being poly and his problems with poly centered dating apps, SexTech, feminist porn, Stewart's Sexy stories natural language processing startup, how men should stand up for other men being sexist, the effects of online dating on our behaviour, dating hologram and more! #TaylorSwiftLeftSupport the show
2019-12-0257 min
Unmatch Me Now42 DOUBLE RED HOT PIE PENETRATIONSend us a textI talked to Anna (Comedian @afberos)using "red hot pie" and "adult matchmaker" in Australia 10 years ago during her open marriage, their adventures hooking up with other couples and more! also: why she favors bumble, how to get out of a sex date with people that freak you out, my horrible hostel story, do you need to know the native language to have a significant relationship? and my 10 minutes horrible date (i was rather horrible too), why you should not hook up with your neighbor, my tandem meeting that turned into a weird...
2019-11-251h 06
Unmatch Me Now41 IS THIS A REAL DATE? IS THIS JUST FANTASY? CAUGHT WITH A LIAR AND NO ESCAPE TO REALITYSend us a textMe and Sara had a chat about her date with an actor that turned into something out of a movie, we also talked about the definition and issues of ONS (including when they're great!), the bad vibes of the "only good vibes" ppl, dating people who try to over impress with 23 euro socks, how to communicate in an open way about what you're looking for, what's on my tinder bio and why, and why you should super like your co-workers #superlikeyourcoworkersSupport the show
2019-11-1855 min
Unmatch Me Now40 - UNMATCH ME NOW, IT'S THE PODCAST BIRTHDAY!Send us a textIt's been 1 year since I started this podcast and for this occasion, I asked some of the former guests - Bard (E19), Neomi(E25), Rasha(E15) and Yair(E31) to come and share their AMAZING online dating stories for a change! and also update on new horror dates as well. we covered: the meaning of dick pics, the definitive guide to Grindr, ass vs face experiments, seeking sugar mama arrangement, what happen when you get to the final level of bumble, choking (breath play) ethics, the importance of reading texts carefully, the big...
2019-11-112h 13
Unmatch Me Now39 FETISHIZING AND LOATHING IN LAS TINDERSend us a textMokia and I talked about the reasons he decided to go rogue from online dating and go back offline and how to recognize black fetishization and racism and how to deal with italso: humanitarians of tinder, can germans be late? how to recognize flakiness, dates that bring their frigid friends along, "contract talk", hopefully, one last motivational speech about who should pay and more!Support the show
2019-11-031h 08
Unmatch Me Now38 THE ONE WITH THE DIRTY APARTMENT SEXSend us a textMe and Gloria talked about dick pics and gifs! dirty sex apartments, tindering in a small town, long term ghosting, orbiting your Instagram stories, guys with weed-related amnesia dates, sex with Catholics and the dangers entails in that, alcoholic tandems and more!Support the show
2019-10-2934 min
Unmatch Me Now37 THE STORY OF THE TRASHY SAUNASend us a textI met with Liz and she told me about her horrible sauna date, men dating younger people vs women dating younger people in their 30s and the problematic parts of it, how to have 5 lovers a week, alternative date locations, who should pay(again!:D), ending dates over falafel arguments, being loud in bed and more!Support the show
2019-10-2043 min
Unmatch Me Now36 HE HAD A MACHETE UNDER THE BEDSend us a textI met with Candice and she told me an array of stories about her dating experience as a transgender woman, from being blocked and being treated horribly on dates and other stories. we also talked about being trans on grindr, meeting people on Craigslist, what should change in online dating in order to have a safer space for all genders and trans and more!Support the show
2019-10-1356 min
Unmatch Me Now35 A BOXER, A NOMAD AND A SPY WALKS INTO A BARSend us a textI met with Sarah who's an opera burlesque dancer and singer (@pinupsoprano), and she told me about her date with a nomad, a boxer and a potential spy among other stories.we also talked about her thoughts about bumble and feminism, dating in a new city, dealing with objectification, kissing that resemble birds feeding, the no-pants in bed rule, sapiosexuality, mixed signals and moreSupport the show
2019-10-071h 08
Unmatch Me Now34 THE TINDER ANATOMY OF THE HEARTSend us a textI met with Richy and he told me about his weird dates that got messed up cause of basic anatomy facts, flat mates, security doors, drugs, also: who texts first and what, conversation dynamics on online dating, why swiping on pictures is not really superficial, nationality Fetishization, Spanish stereotypes, height factor in dating, kissing first, guys take on getting paid for on dates and more!Support the show
2019-09-3040 min
Unmatch Me Now33 THE ALABAMA DOUBLE HORROR DATE ROUTINSend us a textI met with Helen (@helen_hagemeier/) who's a Sex therapist and Linda (@wellitiswhatitis/) who's an actress to talk about their experiences and weird stories dating on tinder and other apps, we also talked about: vulva art, sexual addiction, dealing with dating women who are inexperienced with being with women and bi-curiosity, people with shady pictures, white-trashery and how to end a date when you're not comfortable with how it's going, and way more!Support the show
2019-09-231h 01
Unmatch Me Now32 THE STORY OF THE NUDES DETECTIVE AND OTHER SEXIST DATESSend us a textI met with Judit and she told me about the book she wrote of her journey to figure out her tinder algorithm score and dating experience, we also talked about sexist dates, body shaming, how to get rid of annoying and boring dates, how to deal with your feelings and dealing with rejections and disappointments, shaming monagomues relationships and how to be yourself in a sex positive/poly atmpsphere etcSupport the show
2019-09-1239 min
Unmatch Me Now31 THE BJ EFFORT TO PROXIMITY FORMULASend us a textI met with Yair and he told me about his online dating adventures, grindr vs tinder, consent issues in the gay dating scene, unsolicited drug taking, dark rooms, coming out at a young age in an orthodox family, taxi paying etiquette, first time being a bottom, dating in Tel Aviv vs Berlin, gay sugar daddies and more!Support the show
2019-09-1146 min
Unmatch Me Now30 A SHOWER BETWEEN THE SHEETS BUT A STALKER ON THE STREETSSend us a textMy good friend and former flatmate Rachel came down all the way from Australia to tell me about her dating experience, we talked about dick sizes and how not to judge your dates genital size, the pressures of masculinity, dick pics, dating in Australia and the who-pays-for-the-date conundrum and more!Support the show
2019-09-0154 min
Unmatch Me Now29 SHIT HAPPENS AND THEN DOORMATS DIESend us a textI met with Jordan (and Elif joined too) to hear the story that made him be more picky about his swiping, we also talked about: when you should and should not go on fetlife, body fluid accidents, the best thing anyone ever told after sex and why it's good to ask for the reason people are on tinder before meeting themSupport the show
2019-08-261h 09
Unmatch Me Now28 YOUR MOUTH SAYS "DON'T ASK" BUT YOUR BLACK EYE SAYS "RUN AWAY"Send us a textPodcasting on the road! I met with Liz in my home town Tel Aviv and she told me about her experience using bumble and tinder and a couple of weird dates she had involving a guy who lived with a cult and dealing with your date's stalker stalking you. we also discussed: long term hookups, Instagram ass models, ghosting and last minute cancellations and much more.Support the show
2019-08-1740 min
Unmatch Me Now27 EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FUCKINGSend us a textAnna told me about her very challenging first tinder date after not having sex for 1.5 years in Australia, which involved a very funky ending, fat shaming and why it is very very wrong, which questions should you ask or not and conversation dynamics on tinder. also: how to get brainwashed into a martial arts cult relationship and how to get out of it, cock rings, guys with ripped condom phobia and much much moreSupport the show
2019-08-0748 min
Unmatch Me Now26 HEY DJ! SHOULD I SHAVE ALL MY BODY NOW?Send us a textI met with Lauren to talk about her experience using tinder as a lesbian in Berlin and the difficulties that arise from that, also about: dating through google translate, Berlin Dj's, Bisexuality social pressure on women, looking for a friend on dating apps and more!Support the show
2019-07-2939 min
Unmatch Me Now25 THAT ONE TIME IN TINDER CAMPSend us a textIt's Freaky Friday! the ever amazing Naomi interviewed me and I finally got to tell all my stories! we covered: Finish making out techniques, abortions, explosives, strippers, knives, racist dates and racist friends, Neo Nazis, decapitated pig heads, how to bring up sex during a date, being upfront about what you want, what to write and not to write on your profile and much more!Support the show
2019-07-211h 13
Unmatch Me Now24 ANOTHER AFTERNOON OF JUST INSULT ME TO MY FACESend us a textStephanie told me about the pains and other annoyances that occur while online dating such as the ethics and antics of being stood up, actually giving a shit about other people on tinder, chasing people around, being upfront about sex, ghosting, what to write on your profile and more!Support the show
2019-07-1440 min
Unmatch Me Now23 MANDARIN EXPRESS & THE 10 MINUTES DATESend us a textKatja told me about her mysterious date involving citrus fruits and about the shortest date she ever had while discussing how is it like dating as a tall woman.Support the show
2019-07-0840 min
Unmatch Me Now22 DID YOU JUST SPIT ON MY FACE? AND OTHER DICK STORIESSend us a textI talked to Gwyneth (after her first Berghain rejection) about her rough sex experience and her takes and learning about it and also about tinder bios, eyes wide shut, yellow flags, tampons and intimacy and CLIMAX.Support the show
2019-06-2954 min
Unmatch Me Now21 THE ALCOHOL ENTHUSIAST GUIDE TO THE OKCUPID GALAXYSend us a textI talked to Burak about his journey using online dating after a long relationship and what he learned using OKC while discussing about racism against Turkish men, date failures, fuckbois, mansplaining, gender wars, feminism in men, pickup artists and holy shit what not! Bring your towel and don't panic!Support the show
2019-06-2554 min
Unmatch Me Now20 IF YOU WANT I HAVE A MASSIVE CUCUMBER IN THE FRIDGE THAT I CAN USESend us a textI met with Elif and we talked about some of her crazy encounters involving fake accents, boycotting countries, ass shaming, orgasm shaming, rejections and moreSupport the show
2019-06-1531 min
Unmatch Me Now19 SLIDE INTO MY DM'S LIKE A SEXY SNAILSend us a textDouble the guests - double the trouble! I talked to Bard and Lee about consent issues, dating as a transgender man and what actually qualifies as a dating app as well as: KKK dolls, dating 19yo, hitting on people at the gym and more!Support the show
2019-06-051h 08
Unmatch Me Now18 DON'T BE MENACED BY PERIOD BLOOD WHILE NOT EATING PUSSY IN THE CARSend us a textI talked to Charlotte about tindering in Berlin and what it means being a Berliner in a city everyone assumes to be "sin city" while she told me about two dates that revolved about period blood and one directional pleasuring. Support the show
2019-05-2544 min
Unmatch Me Now17 DIVE INTO MY PANTIES COLLECTIONSend us a textI talked to Maggy about her journey using tinder in Berlin and dwelling into the weird sides of it, meeting and experiencing different dates with all kinds of peculiar requests and what risks it entailed in it as well and how to avoid it.Support the show
2019-05-1533 min
Unmatch Me Now16 JA YOU LIKE MY GIANT SEXUAL ORGAN?Send us a textMe and Philip talked about his Grindr tales involving guys obsessed with their dick size description, borderline extorting money and many more. we also talked about sex addiction and how to deal with it and racism among (some) Grindr users.make sure to check out Philips's song "the GRINDLIEDR" https://youtu.be/e1AxtwzdyzASupport the show
2019-05-0937 min
Unmatch Me Now15 CHOKE ME YA HABIBI! A MANUAL OF KINKY SUFFOCATIONSend us a textRasha and I set down and discussed about her vast kinky chocking experience she had in Berlin and never seen coming, feminist porn, the Israeli-Arab fetish and why some of us can't date gym people. Support the show
2019-04-3041 min
Unmatch Me Now14 AND THEN HE PUT ON A PORN MOVIESend us a textI talked to Karin the (@karinmiriam) about her series of horrible crazy dates and how to be open about meeting new people on dating apps but still be cautious.Support the show
2019-04-2439 min
Unmatch Me Now13 GIVE ME YOUR VIRGINITY - A GHOSTING TALESend us a textI talked to Naomi, who was my former "failed" date, about her attempt to deflower a 27 years old virgin, being marked by the Israeli army as a potential threat and an extensive chat about ghosting and why does it happen.Support the show
2019-04-1431 min
Unmatch Me Now12 BOYS SWIPE TO THE RIGHT, GIRLS SWIPE TO THE LEFTSend us a textI talked to Arnaud who told me about his racist date, cat-fishing and date arrival time in Italy while discussing height, how us guys swipe, shitty first messages and pictures ethics.Support the show
2019-04-1033 min
Unmatch Me Now11 EVERYONE HAVE EXTRA LARGE DICKS AND OTHER GRINDER MYTHSSend us a textIn the first episode with 2 guests i talked to Grace and Daniel about how is it like being Asian in the western dating world, encountering Asian fetish while Danial shared his experience using grinder and Grace shared her very stalky tinder experienceSupport the show
2019-03-2329 min
Unmatch Me Now10 "YOU ONLINE GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME"Send us a textMina told me her thoughts about tinder boys in Berlin, how it's like coming from a conservative Muslim family background and her weird encounters with men through tinder.Support the show
2019-03-1634 min