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Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 188 - From Passion to PurposePassion is good - purpose is better. In this episode Vern talks about a change he has made to how people checkin their weeks and why connecting people with their purpose is a better metric than helping (often unsuccessfully) men find something they are passionate about.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device signup using the link on your web browser BEFORE you download the circ...
2025-11-2419 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonDetroit Is the Next Big Market for Franchise ExpansionIn this special Detroit-themed episode of Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, Vern takes listeners inside one of America’s most dynamic comeback cities — a place where innovation, grit, and entrepreneurial energy are reshaping the future of franchise expansion. From major league sports to emerging tech corridors, Detroit has become a blueprint for transformation, and this episode breaks down why franchise leaders should be paying close attention.
Vern opens the conversation with a look at franchise development insights from 2024 and what the next five years will demand from growth-minded brands — including smarter data usage, stronger qualification, and more intentional market selection. Then the ep...
2025-11-2300 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 187 - Inside Out Porn Recovery (from Down Under)In this episode, Vern is joined by his Australian buddy Matt who talks about inside out recovery.In a desire for a wholistic model of behavior change, it is necessary to recognize that the most sustainable version of change comes from a deep sense of belonging which informs our beliefs. Out of that core, comes deep lasting change that can stand the test of time.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to...
2025-11-1733 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonVeterans Day, Mission-Driven Growth, and GEO for FranchisesIn this deeply personal and high-impact Veterans Day special, host Vern Nicholson—Vice President at Vetro Media, U.S. Navy Veteran, author, father, and seasoned franchise strategist—delivers a powerful blend of reflection, gratitude, and actionable growth insights.
Vern opens the episode by revisiting his years of service aboard the USS Theodore Roosevelt, recounting pivotal missions including Desert Storm, operations in Yugoslavia, and humanitarian efforts during the Haitian Relief crisis in Guantanamo Bay. He shares how the GI Bill, the VA Loan, and the profound camaraderie of the armed forces shaped his life and leadership philosophy.
From there, the episode tran...
2025-11-1100 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 186 - Should I do a Dopamine FastThere is a lot written these days about the role of dopamine in our addictive struggle with porn. One of the books "Dopamnine Nation" talks a lot about dopamine and seems to give some fairly straightword system to hack the system of recovery. In this episode we talk about how this book and a pure "dopamine approach" can be helpful in our recovery and where it presents an incomplete picture in regards to the process of recovery.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Ve...
2025-11-1021 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 185 - Your Guided Tour Out of PornLast week we popped the baloon that said that the recovery journey is simple or quick. We spoke about how long it takes to break a habit in a sustained way. Today we talk about some of the highlights we will experience on a guided tour away from porn. This guided tour explains the roadblocks we need to overcome, what are the challenges we face, and what are the benefits we will experience along the way.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Cir...
2025-11-0320 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 184 - How Long Does it Take to Quit PornThere are a lot of claims on the internet about helping you quite porn in just a few weeks. Sounds great - right? In this episode Vern takes a bit of a deeper dive into the real issues (and the amount of time) that is usually needed to quit a compulsive embedded behavior such as porn.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device signup using the...
2025-10-2720 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonThe Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: My Tell-All Experience Working for Two “Premiere” Franchise Marketing AgenciesIn this revealing episode, Vern Nicholson pulls back the curtain on what it’s really like to work inside two of the franchise industry’s most celebrated marketing agencies — the ones that dominate “Top Supplier” lists year after year. Through candid storytelling and firsthand experience, Vern shares the highs, lows, and hard lessons learned in environments driven by ego, rapid growth, and private equity pressures.
Listeners will get an insider’s look at how agency culture, structure, and technology impact franchise growth — from the burnout of global outsourcing to the breakthroughs of unified collaboration. Vern contrasts those experiences with how Vet-tro Media...
2025-10-2107 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 183 - Procastination and Quitting PornOne of the things I have noticed in working with guys who struggle with porn is - - they also struggle with procrastination. In this episode we look at this connection and discuss some simple strategies to overcome compulsive procrastination!If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device signup using the link on your web browser BEFORE you download the circle app) - (white circle on a bl...
2025-10-2014 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 182 - Learning Warfare - Lessons on Fighting PornThe metaphor of war is used a lot in recovery for the reason that it often feels like we are in a battle!! In this episode Vern talks about principles of warfare and applies them to our recovery battle.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)https://bandofbrothers-care.circle.so/join?in...
2025-10-1426 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastPastor Vern Tompke on P*rn Recovery, Accountability, and Church CultureIn this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Canadian pastor and recovery advocate Vern Tompke, creator of the Finding Traction and Pastors on P*rn podcasts. Vern shares his deeply personal story of overcoming p*rn*graphy addiction while serving in ministry — and how God turned his healing into a mission to help others.Together, Karen and Vern discuss:• The unique challenges pastors face when struggling with p*rn• How shame and burnout can fuel addiction• Why accountability and community are essential for recovery• How technology...
2025-10-0834 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 181 - The Porn Recovery Journey with Nate LarkinOne of the forerunners of the porn recovery field is Nate Larken. His book - Samson and the Pirate Monks is a classic read for anybody starting out on this journey. Today I am pleased to have Nate on the podcast as he talks about his recovery journey, missteps along the way, and how he wants the end of his recovery journey to be remembered. He also shares information on the Samson societies that he has started around the world to give men a safe place to come and talk about their struggles.To find out more about the...
2025-10-0630 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 180 - Porn Relapses Ripples and ResetsA relapse is always possible but never inevitable. There are inescapable ripples that follow a relapse but how do we prevent a slip from becoming a slide! In this episode we discuss how to get back on track when we fall off the wagon!If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)http...
2025-09-2919 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 179 - Marriage Hacks Pt. 3In this third and final episode of Marriage Hacks - Vern explores some of the ways to explore why you hit a wall on certain topics with you partner as well as the idea of recognizing when you have a filter on that you need to communicate with your spouse. Your marriage is not your recovery but working towards a better marriage can help in reducing the stress and friction in your daily life that often leads you to want to act our or use escape behaviors.If you want to get access to a host of free r...
2025-09-2231 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 178 - Are You a Deep FakeIt seems that deep fakes are everywhere these days. My question for you is this - are you a deep fake? Are you a person with a deep disconnect between the public and private you. In this Episode I talk about how that happens and how to experience the benefits of living a life of integrity.Todays episode is summarized in a diagram that you can find on the Circle learning platform. So...If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle le...
2025-09-1514 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 177 - The 5 W's - Examining a porn relapseIn a recent television episode of The Paper the new boss teaches his employers what it takes to be a local report. Toward that end he talks about the classic rules for reporting called the 5 W's. In this episode Vern talks about this in helping us learn to be better reporters of our relapse events.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circ...
2025-09-0821 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 176 - Sexless Marriages - A Marriage PleaWomen Please Note: This episode is not mean to shame you if you are struggling with the after effects of the disclosure of your husbands porn use. It is meant to encourage you not remain stuck in your pain, anger and grief and get the help to see your marriage restored to the dream you had when you walked down the aisle. If you are a woman looking for a great organization to help you process the reality of being married to a recovering porn user - check out https://apsats.org/Men Please Note: This podcast is n...
2025-09-0126 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 175 - More Marriage Hacks Pt. 2We had so much fun last time I thought we would do it again. Actually I realized there was a number of marriage tips and hacks that didn't make the last episode so I thought we would do a part 2! Heres to having a great marriage relationship!If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue back...
2025-08-2826 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonDO NOT RENEW YOUR MARKETING VENDOR AGREEMENTS UNTIL…In this episode of Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, host Vern Nicholson shares why franchisors should pause before renewing their marketing supplier agreements—and the five critical steps you must take first. Drawing on his experience with two of the leading marketing suppliers in the franchise industry, as well as working with national retailers and grocers, Vern explains how to evaluate agency performance, review year-over-year CPL and CPA data, and dig into historical lead sources that drive real sales pipeline results.
You’ll also hear how video-first creatives, story-driven content, and funnel acceleration strategies are outperforming static assets, and why multiple RFPs...
2025-08-2608 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 174 - 5 Marriage Hacks Pt. 1Relationships can be hard work - especially maintaining a marriage over the long haul. In this episode Vern shares 5 marriage hacks that can make that challenge be a little bit easier!If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)https://bandofbrothers-care.circle.so/join?invitation_token=84c412c67f81c7a9fa2da0...
2025-08-2517 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 173 - Dating Honesty - Why When and HowWhat should I tell my girlfriend about my porn history (or other sexual history). Should I hide it? What if honesty will end the relationship? In this episode I talk about why it is important to be honest but also nuance when and how this could be done.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue...
2025-08-1829 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonWhat Franchise Marketing Suppliers Are Not Telling YouIn this episode of Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, host Vern Nicholson pulls back the curtain on what many franchise marketing suppliers won’t tell you—and why it matters to your bottom line. From the power of AI in ad campaigns and precision lead generation to understanding the difference between raw leads and truly qualified prospects, Vern explains how Vetro Media’s cutting-edge technology is redefining franchise growth.
Listeners will discover how a database cultivated since 2012 is driving success stories in 2024, delivering industry-leading costs per lead at $25 and acquisition costs between $15,000–$18,000. Vern breaks down what franchisors should expect after 300 leads, includin...
2025-08-1310 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 172 - Welcome BackSo how did your summer go? Vern has been away for the last month and shares somes up and downs from his summer holidays including a recovery lesson that he is working at integrating into his life.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)https://bandofbrothers-care.circle.so/join?invitation_token=84c41...
2025-08-1227 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonCritical Levers to Accelerate Your Sales Pipeline in Q4 2025In this high-impact episode of Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, host Vern, VP of Strategy & Growth at Vetro Media, breaks down three critical actions every franchisor must take to close out 2025 strong. As the franchise development landscape tightens and lead quality becomes more important than lead quantity, Vern shares proven strategies that are helping brands lower their cost per lead (CPL) and speed up their sales pipelines.
You’ll hear how Vetro Media’s proprietary targeting algorithm is delivering franchise development leads at just $25 CPL, and why brands that integrate ad campaigns directly into their CRM systems are seeing major performance gain...
2025-07-2807 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 171 - Porn and Men's Health - A ConversationIt's fun to talk to people outside your circles who dont' necessarily share your experience or assumptions. The following is a conversation I did with Jeremy Longpre from the North Star Podcast around men's health and problematic porn use.The following is a link to the North Star Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/north-star-podcast/id1660393769If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mob...
2025-07-091h 01
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern Nicholson5 Franchise Development Trends You Can’t Ignore in 2025In this episode of Franchise Fuel, host Vern Nicholson dives into the top five franchise development trends shaping growth strategies in 2025—and what franchisors must do now to stay ahead. As buyer behavior evolves and technology continues to redefine the sales funnel, it’s more important than ever to ensure your development efforts are aligned, data-driven, and built for scale.
Vern unpacks the essential role of speed to lead in franchise sales, and how intelligent automation and instant engagement are key to converting today’s fast-moving prospects. He also explores the rise of AI-powered outreach and engagement, showing how personalized conten...
2025-07-0709 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonFive Marketing Moves Franchisors MissVern Nicholson uncovers the top five overlooked marketing strategies that can unlock franchise growth and maximize ROI. Learn how smarter content, tech integration, and targeted outreach can transform your marketing results—without ballooning your budget.
2025-06-2606 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 170 - Breaking the Acting Out CycleBack in Episode 73 I introduced the idea of the Acting Out Cycle using the picture of a Stopwatch. In looking back I felt I could give a more robust explanation of how to actually stop ourselves from just repeating the same cycle over and over. To do this I add a new step - PREEMPT - and share from some of my recent examples how to put this into practice.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to...
2025-06-2526 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonInside the Franchise Growth ToolboxExplore the essential digital tools and collaborative features fueling smarter franchise growth. Vern and Cindy break down how accessible tech, real-time editing, and universal sharing empower teams to scale faster and more efficiently.
2025-06-2006 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 169 - Anxious vs Confident RecoveryIt is not uncommon in our early recovery to feel anxious that a next relapse is just around the corner. Is there a way to grow in our confidence as we start out on this journey?If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)https://bandofbrothers-care.circle.so/join?invitation_token=84c412c67f81c7a...
2025-06-1927 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonMid-2025 Check-In: Are You on Target with Your Franchise Sales Goals?Explore how AI-powered platforms like DevHub are helping franchises accelerate digital ad campaigns, streamline operations, and track sales goals. Vern and Cindy break down the tech behind smarter growth strategies and share real-world examples from top brands. Discover the role of collaborative tools in hitting mid-year franchise sales targets.
2025-06-1304 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 168 - I'm Good (Until I'm Not)One of the reasons we are unsuccessful long term in porn recovery is because of some of the ways of thinking we practice. One problematic thing that guys tell themselves is that "they are good" or 'they are strong" which is experientially true at the time. The probem is that we are good (until we are not!)If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the...
2025-06-0517 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonAgency Alignment and Growth ChallengesThis episode explores the evolving challenges agencies face in scaling, maintaining client relationships, and achieving sustainable growth. Vern and Cindy break down recent survey insights, agency pitfalls, and practical strategies for both marketers and business owners seeking smarter partnerships.
2025-06-0509 min
Franchise Fuel: Smarter Growth, with Vern NicholsonTop 5 Ad Tech Tools for Franchise GrowthExplore the essential advertising technologies powering franchise expansion today. Vern and Cindy break down how AI, CRM integration, and advanced targeting tools are reshaping marketing strategies for franchises.
2025-06-0504 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 167 - Disappointed in SexWhat is the difference between real sex and our porn binges? The differences might explain why some people confess that real sex is hard and less exciting than our porn world. In this episode Vern explores that uncomfortable question and how we can grow towards real intimacy with a real person.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a bl...
2025-05-2919 min
Cinema RecallThe Vern reviews Mission Impossible: The Final Reckoning (Non Spoiler)The Vern does a quick review on the latest entry in the Mission Impossible franchise. Thank you to Minnesota Film Critics Association and Paramount Pictures for the Press Passes. https://mnfilmcriticsassociation.com/2024/09/25/jasonhemming/Cinema Recall is moving to a different hosting site in June. Please follow us on all of our social media channels for updates and if you like our show. Please become a Patreon Member to get access to episodes first.https://www.patreon.com/c/cinemarecallpod
2025-05-1606 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 166 - Relationships on the LineWhat if positive feelings toward your wife were a powerful motivator to move away from porn. In this episode Vern builds on a recent book he read called "Cherish" by Gary Thomas.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)https://bandofbrothers-care.circle.so/join?invitation_token=84c412c67f81c7a9fa2da045d969...
2025-05-1531 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 165 - Is Your Door Closing?Country songs are known for their - "if only I knew then what I know now" regret songs.In this episode we ask a sobering question - is the door to your marriage closing and share a principle that Vern has practiced and taught for 40 years.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRST download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background)
2025-05-0116 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 164 - What Set Me Up for Porn (with Tim Fletcher)Have you ever wondered what set you up for your struggle with porn? In this interview Vern talks with Tim Fletcher who is an extremely popular Youtube expert on the subject all things trauma and attachement.In addition to Tim Fletchers Youtube Channel you can find some of his helpful information on his website https://www.timfletcher.ca/If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device FIRS...
2025-04-2431 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 163 - When Porn Crashes Your Marriage (with Barbara Steffens)When porn use is disclosed (or found out) in a relationships it often comes with a thudding crash. In this episode expert Barbara Steffens talks through the impact this can have on a woman and steps that both men and women can take in their navigating a path forward.What can we learn from a relapse? In this episode one of Vern's coaching clients bravely shares what he learned from a recent relapse in the hopes that it can also be instructive to other listeners. The song at the end can be downloaded in the circle learning platform belo...
2025-04-1436 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 162 - Lessons from a Relapse (with Hercule Flambeau)What can we learn from a relapse? In this episode one of Vern's coaching clients bravely shares what he learned from a recent relapse in the hopes that it can also be instructive to other listeners. The song at the end can be downloaded in the circle learning platform below...If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - s...
2025-04-0334 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 161 - Wave Go To's Part 2In this episode Vern goes back to the topic of dealing with a wave of temptation and craving. In this episode he argues that we need to strengthen our understanding of connection and also introduces a couple of "Go To's" that he uses when he is in the middle of experience a Wave.The first reading is based on the Bible App (Psalm 119 - the Message)The second reading can be found here:A Liturgy for One Battling a Destructive Desire (read by Doug McKelvey)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQ_o...
2025-03-2620 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 160 - Waves of CravingDo you ever feel that craving hits you like a big wave? In this episode Vern provides hope that the next big wave doesn't need to overwhelm you!If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and last initial (like Vern T.) Your email will remain hidden from other users. The following link wil...
2025-03-2014 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 159 - The Hidden Costs of Porn UseMost of us are tempted to think that our porn use is free. Sure we may not be "paying" for porn but you are paying in ways you many not even realize it. Today we talk about the "hidden costs" of our porn use.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and las...
2025-03-1021 minCinema RecallThe Vern's Accurate Oscar Predictions(2025)The Vern gives his picks for who and what will win at the Academy Awards for 2025.For the full complete list head to our sitehttps://www.cinemarecall.net/
2025-02-2818 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 158 - Dial it InDid you ever start a day feeling "off". Today's podcast is all about "dialling your day" in to maximize the chance of the day going well.If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, you need to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and last initial (like Vern T.) Your email will remain hidden from other users. The following link will get you...
2025-02-2021 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 157 - Ten Rules for LifeThis episode is a bit different. One of the benefits of recovery from constantly battling with porn is that you can now start to think more clearly about how you want your life to go. In this episode Vern shares 10 principles he has landed on to guide his thoughts and actions.A summary of these principles is found on the circle learning platform under Free Resources.This is how sign up for the free circle learning resources Vern has to offer. If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and last ini...
2025-02-1030 minCinema RecallThe Vern's Golden Globes Predictions & Reactions (2025)
On today's episode . The Vern talks about who will win in the film categories at this year's Golden Globes Award shows. Is he right, is he wrong. Listen in and marvel at how he picked the correct winner or laugh in his face for choosing the wrong one. Hey it's a lot faster than watching the show for three hours.
Be sure to subscribe to Mike Mike and Oscar or Next Best Picture for accurate results.
After you listen please head on over to Large Association of Movie Blogs AKA Th...
2025-01-0623 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 146 - Before the Day AfterNovember 5th is a big day - its Guy Fawkes Day, Vern's Birthday and yes - the American election. How deal with the big feelings that will follow the election can make us truly vulnerable to relapse. Vern walks through how we navigate these strong emotions.We are starting new finding traction groups this fall to help 5-7 guys at a time connect around walking away from porn and moving towards a better life. We have a a group for young guys, a group for older guys in or near retirement and a few guys waiting to sta...
2024-11-0216 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 139 - Signs of a BaaaaD Recovery GroupfrEver been in a bad recovery group? Ever felt nervous about joining a group because of the many ways it could go wrong? In this episode Vern explores how to tell when a group is toxic and when it is healthy.We are starting up new Finding Traction groups in September 2024. Normally groups are $149/month but if you sign up by August 31 - Vern is offering them at the old price of $99/month. The cost includes all 52 videos plus handouts to guide our time together. To get more information about these groups email Vern at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com...
2024-08-2714 min
Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts of a Movie Insomniac: Episode 1
Hello Everyone.
The Vern and Ashley or sometimes just Vern will give you thier random thoughts on what they have seen recently or just talk about whatever is on thier minds. These episodes are unscripted and unedited so you never know what will happen.
On today's episode, Ashley and Vern give you their thoughts on Inside Out 2, Joker 2, The Boys season 4, Anyone but You, a drama involving a missing phone, and much much more.
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Please note that after this episode. All of our...
2024-06-271h 09
Pastors on PornEp. 88 - Father's Day - How to Be a Good and Safe ManThis last Sunday Vern spoke on Sunday morning on how men can move from being an *ss to being good and safe men - something women, our churches and our communities desperately need more of.If you are looking for a safe person to talk about your Sexual struggles - Vern gets it - as a Pastor for 30 years Vern has battled porn as a pastor and didn't have a safe place to go to or someone to turn to.To connect with Vern you can reach out to him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com
2024-06-1844 min
Cinema RecallThe Vern's Audio Drama Sampler Plate.
Hello everyone.
I the Vern have a new episode of sorts for you all. This is a collection of all the audio dramas that I have edited for Cinema Recall and other places for many years in the past. It was a lot of fun finding clips to share and I hope you enjoy it.
This episode contains selections from
Night of the Living Dead
https://www.iheart.com/podcast/256-cinema-recall-53671383/episode/night-of-the-living-deadaudio-drama-99921358/
Clue
https://rabbitholepodcasts.com/2024/02/03/rhp-theater-presents-clue-the-audio-drama/
Four's a Crowd ...
2024-06-071h 00
Cinema RecallHoward The Duck (1986) w/ Cayley of Once Over with Cayley
Howard The Duck was met with both critical and audience hatred when it was relased in 1986. But is it as terrible as everyone says it is.
The Vern brings on his friend, Cayley of Once Over with Cayley
https://www.youtube.com/c/OnceOverwithCayley
to talk about this cult classic in great duck tail, woo hoo. That is the only pun I will put in this entire episode
Before that they each have a Rage Corner brought to us from the great gents at Film Rag...
2024-04-261h 23Cinema RecallThe Vern reviews films from MSPIFF 2024.(raw and uncut)In this bonus episode. The Vern recaps many of the movies he saw at The Minneapolis/St. Paul International Film Festival.
https://mspfilm.org/mspiff/mspiff-films/?
It's unscripted and unedited. Just yours truly speaking into a microphone for under thirty minutes on some movies he saw.
You can read full reviews of the movies featured on this episode on our website.
https://www.cinemarecall.net
Films being reviewed are
Working Class Goes to Hell
Day Dreaming
2024-04-2326 minCinema RecallPearl & Switchblade Sisters( The Vern's guest spots on The Podcast That Wouldn't Die and Making Tarantino)On today's bonus episode of Cinema Recall. The Vern is posting small sections from his guest appearance on two great film podcasts that you should subscribe to.
First he is joined by Erin and Kevin of The Podcast That Wouldn't Die to talk about the classic horror film, Pearl.
You can actually watch us talk about this flick on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DpJIXp7_YFQ
After the break, The Vern meets up with Phillip of Making Tarantino to discuss the classic exploitation...
2024-02-231h 45Cinema RecallOscars 2024 Predictions & Rage Corner.
Ashley and The Vern are back together for a new episode of Cinema Recall. First, they go over the main nominees of the 2024 Oscars and predict who will be the winners. After the break, it's an extended version of Rage Corner (brought to you by Film Rage https://www.filmrageyyc.com/). In this section our two hosts react to a show called Who Are These Podcasts whose main premise is just to make fun of other podcasts. That's it, there is nothing more to it than that. You can look them up if you want to find the full episode...
2024-02-0939 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 115 - Do You Have a Yearly Focus?As we head into 2024 Vern shares about a tool that has been helpful for him as he starts out a brand new year. It just so happens that this one leads Vern into making changes that are long overdue!To contact Vern you can reach out to him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com.As he mentions regularly - he loves to connect with guys who are looking at making changes in their life around their problematic porn use!You can also check out the website for further recovery resources https://www.bandofbrothers...
2024-01-0928 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 108 - Recovery Rules with Mark DenisonVern loves the new book that Mark Denison has written Recovery Rules because it gives simple one page reminders to help any porn struggler re-orient themselves on a daily basis. In this podcast Vern interviews Mark as they dive into some of these rules (at least the ones that Vern especially loves!)If you want to connect with Vern directly - you can contact him at...email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more about him or the finding traction course go to the website:
2023-11-1323 minCinema RecallAshley's Haunted Horror Nights and Vern's Top 10 Films of 2023..so far
Hello everyone
Ashley and Vern are back together for a fun filled episode of Cinema Recall. Ashley talks about her time at Universal Studios Haunted Horror Nights and The Vern lists his top films of 2023..so far.
They also introduce a new segment called Rage Corner brought to you by the fine gentlemen over at Film Rage
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We also talk briefly about an upcoming sponsor called Magic Mind which is The World's First Productivity Shot. We will give more inf...
2023-10-201h 15
Cinema RecallThe Vern & Ashley & Barbie & Josie & The Pussycats
On this fun filled episode, Ashley and Vern first visit with some amazing people, Jeanette Ward, Matthew Simpson, and Richard Kirkham on The LAMBcast to talk about the number one movie in the world, Barbie.
You can listen to full episode by visiting the link below
https://largeassmovieblogs.com/2023/07/lambcast-695-barbie.html
After the break, The Vern is back with guest Daniel Lackey of Muscially Ignorant to talk about the best movie ever made( There is a book that proves it. Click HERE for more details)
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2023-07-282h 15
LetsArguh!Daddy's Baby, Momma's Maybe Ep. 36Could you be a stay at home dad? Why or why not?On this week's episode we debate if rap music will continue to be the leading genre of music, or will another surpass it? Vern and Bricks make a case for Latin music and Afrobeats, and Kash is hearing none of it. Why don't more men have primary custody of their kids, and why do women who allow their children to live with the dad receive such backlash? Kash says more men should step up in general, and Vern doesnt like the insinuation that they don't. Are most men...
2023-07-041h 28
Cinema RecallInterview with Director Deborah Twiss
The Vern is here for a special episode where he gets to interview Deborah Twiss. The writer and director of such features as, A Gun for Jennifer, Sebastien, and the recent erotic drama, Sapiosexual, (Click name to read Vern's review) Listen as Deborah discusses her love of Dogme 95, how intimacy coordinators are more hurtful than helpful when filming sex scenes and even calls Vern by his real name during the show. It was a really great time recording this interview and we hope you enjoy listening to it.
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2023-06-1631 min
Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts with Ashley and The Vern.
Due to some techincal issues we don't have a full episode but we still bring you a fun one that you will very much enjoy. Ashley and The Vern talk about some movies and shows they recently watched and spend some time talking about the panels they will be attending during Convergence in July. As a special bonus, Ashley will be singing a special theme song for our Patreon Members
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2023-06-0938 min
Cinema RecallHow to Market Your Podcast with The Vern (Theatrical Version)
The Vern is going solo this time to give some tips on how to best market a podcast. In no way should you consider him to be an expert but we hope that he can give you some good tips to help you and your show be more successful.
(An Alternate version is available for Patreon Members
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2023-06-0225 min
Cinema RecallVern and Ashley Watch Recent Movies and TV: Vol 1
Ashley and The Vern are back for their monthly recap. They each take time reviewing things they saw alone. Then have a lot of fun talking about two movies they saw, together, Renfield and Polite Society.
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2023-05-1249 min
Cinema RecallAshley and The Vern Visits Some Podcasts. (Theatrical Version)We are back( sort of) to bring you a newish episode. Ashley Jirak and The Vern are back but not together. However, they were great guests on these other amazing podcasts.
(extended version is availaible for Patreon Members )
The Vern was on an episode of Whatever with Jason Soto where he talks about a prank he pulled at McDonalds. Than Ashley takes a turn on the same podcast to talk about fast food jingles, musicals and more. You can find the episodes and so much more by clicking the link below
2023-05-051h 01Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 90 - Recovery False StartsIt is quite common for Vern to hear from a guy who emails him with a frantic - "I need help NOW" regarding their porn struggle. Yet a funny thing happens. Vern replies to the email and hears nothing back - apparently the emergency has passed. In this episode Vern explores a number of ways that people "false start" their recovery from problematic porn use.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com...
2023-04-2617 min
Cinema RecallThe Vern Shows Ashley his G.O.A.T.s
It's been a while but Ashley and Vern are back for a full episode of Cinema Recall Podcast.
On today's show they talk about a fun action comedy and an 80's TV theme song written by Chat GPT . DIscuss a bit about the recent Oscars and the controversy on our Facebook Group page. Get into what they have seen recently and than Vern talks about some of the movies he loved watching in theaters and still think these movies are still amazing to this day
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2023-03-311h 01
Cinema RecallAshley and The Vern Predict the Oscars (2023)On today's bonus episode. The Vern and Ashley talk about who they think will win the 2023 Academy Awards. They are not experts but they are extremely fun and very attractive hosts. So their opinions matter the most.
Get the Full list of 2023 Oscar predictions below
https://www.cinemarecall.net/2023/01/the-vern-official-list-of-oscar-winners.html
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2023-03-0933 min
LetsArguh!Step Daddy Season Ep. 25On this week's episode we talk about the effect Gen Z is having on the job market. Are companies responsible for taking care of employees? Or Is it up to employees? Why would they rather lose people than pay them. We debate Pleasure vs Happiness. We try to convince Vern to try standup. Then we have a deep convo on parenting styles as fathers, being a stepdad, and mixing parenting styles with a new partner. Is there such a thing as a "child's place" and should kids stay in it? Are you your kid's friend? On #ThisAndThat Vern asks...
2023-01-241h 24
Cinema RecallKnock Knock(2015) with Em of Verbal DioramaOn today's show The Vern is joined by Em, the creator and host of Verbal Diorama to discuss a Keanu Reeves movie she has never seen before. When she found out it was directed by Eli Roth she got a wee bit nervous. But Vern advised her that it wasn't going to be like his other movies.
Knock Knock is a tale about Evan(Keanu Reeves). A married, family man who one night while alone, meets two beautiful women Genesis( Lorenza Izzo) and Bel (Ana de Armas). Throughout the night the two girls shamelessly flirt with Evan and...
2022-12-201h 32
The Snap On Sight Podcast015-Welcome Home Vern- We 4 UsWelcome Home Vern!!!- The family connects for this therapy session. Introducing some old school guests to debate sports and discuss some social issues and current events. All honest, from a place of love, learning as we grow. Family Business!! https://thesnaponsightpodcast.buzzsprout.com
2022-12-101h 29Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 75 - Win Lose vs Win LearnIn the previous episode - Vern (and Jeff) talked about some of the connections between the martial art of Jujitsu and porn recovery. In this podcast Vern continues to pull on what a difference Win/Loss vs Win/Learn has to do with how we deal and learn from our setbacks.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about...
2022-11-1421 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 74 - Fight ClubVern's friend and pastor Jeff is somebody who is heavily involved in the martial art of Jujitsu. In this episode Vern talks with Jeff about how some of the insights he learned from this martial art can be applied to porn recoveryIf you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the...
2022-11-0328 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 64 - The Thrill Returns - 7 Ways to Welcome JoyLast episode Vern explored the topic of Joy and how it can be so elusive. Today Vern gives practical advice to how to practically invite joy back into your life!If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:https://www.bandofbrothers.careAre...
2022-07-1532 min
Cinema RecallTop Gun: Maverick or The Vern & Ashley enter the danger zone.Hello Listeners
On this episode, Ashley and Vern talk about random things including the box office and their thoughts on Top Gun: Maverick plus other long time sequels.
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2022-06-231h 14
Cinema RecallLive with Chuck Staton of The Chuck and Brad Podcast Back once again, Ashley and The Vern return with yet another live show. This time their special guest was Chuck Staton of the famous Chuck and Brad Podcast amongst many other great podcasts. The link to all of his great content can be found on his Twitter page.
On today's show, Chuck, Ashley and Vern react to underrated musicians, talk about if it's cool for trailers to reveal spoilers, Ashley's prank on Vern when she first met him and much much more. All while enjoying a shrimp cocktail.
Listen to the show below or watch the...
2022-02-2256 min
Two Hot MessesThe not-so-perfect life of Eunice and Wei VernEvery teenager has their own interests and problems that sometimes not everyone understands. Every Sunday, join two teen best friends Eunice and Wei Vern as they navigate through different aspects of a teenager life from high school to movies and shows. Each episode will be filled with a new topic that can help listeners to understand how teens work as human beings. Come and join us on this adventure of navigating a messy teenage life.
2021-06-201h 04Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 32 - 9 Types of KidsContinuing on from the last podcast, Vern in this episode explores, Vern explores 9 different types of childhood experiences, and explains how each scenario often leaves that type of child susceptible to certain key emotional triggers that activate their inner child.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course Finding Traction go to the website:
2021-04-2719 min
Brothers to the EndEPISODE 29 - DMCApocalypse, Borat 2, Vern's Delusional Basketball Hopes, & Guilty Pleasure Movies!Vern & Goldy are back again for episode 29 of BTTE. In this week's episode, they discuss the current climate of copyright infringement, DMCA takedowns, & go into details about behind the scenes of Twitch business. On top of that, Vern gives his incredibly unbiased opinion on the future of the Detroit Pistons & the boys talk a little about the newest Borat movie.
Thanks for listening & catch you guys again in 2 weeks!
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2020-10-2700 minFinding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 18 - Lifehack #5 - The Power of TechnologyThis podcast is based on a summary of a lesson found in Vern's Finding Traction Course. If we are going to be successful in porn recovery we will need to deal with the challenge of technology. In this episode Vern gives some ideas how to do that.If you want to connect with Vern directly (and you know he loves to connect with guys!) you can email him at email: bandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to check out more porn recovery resources or learn more about the 52 Week Video course...
2020-10-1303 min
Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts of a Movie Insomniac Spider-Man.On today's episode. The Vern is joined once again by guest and podcaster Chris Revill of Let's Chat with Chris Revill(https://letschatpodcast.net/) to discuss everyone's favorite neighborhood Spider-Man. They will discuss the history of the character from Peter Parker to Miles Morales and talk about all the theatrical movies from Sam Rami's fun introduction to the character as well as the groundbreaking animated feature, Spider-Man: Into the Spider Verse.
Be sure to check out Let's Chat's first ever watch party on Into the Spider Verse on August 29th by clicking the link below
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2020-08-251h 10
Cinema RecallCult Cinema Classics: Scott Pilgrim Vs The World (2010)The Vern is joined by actress and comedian Rebecca Kaplan (https://www.youtube.com/rebeccakaplancomedy) to discuss the cult comedy Scott Pilgrim Vs The World which celebrates it's 10 year anniversary. They each talk about their favorite moments, some differences between the graphic novel and film and other uses of the L word for this movie. Also stay tuned to the very end of the episode to hear some special shout outs by The Vern
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2020-08-1844 minBrothers to the EndEPISODE 25 - ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY, Competitive Nature in Gaming, & Vern's Sugar GammyIt's already been one year since we rebooted Brothers to the End! Time is flying by & so much has happened/changed in the last 365 days. In today's podcast, we talk about our competitive nature in video games, our NBA 2K addiction, & the possibility of Vern sucking objects for money. As usual, things get a little messy. ENJOY!
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2020-08-052h 27
Cinema RecallAll Time Classics: Clue(1985).Today's episode might be a repeat for others and a brand new one for the rest of you. The Vern was joined by Sean Homrig of 1001 Movies Podcast(https://1001moviespodcast.libsyn.com/) to talk about the 80's murder mystery comedy, Clue. We had a lot of fun talking about our favorite moments from this movie and The Vern learned a lot about the many different versions of the board game from guest Sean as well.
Thank you for listening.
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2020-06-131h 07
Laugh and Learn with VernLaugh and Learn with Vern Podcast #LLVPODWelcome to the Laugh and Learn with Vern Podcast! This is an introduction to the show. I believe everyone is funny and anyone can learn new skills to have a fulfilling career, hobby, and life. Please subscribe and leave, ideally, five star reviews! This podcast will be coming out every Tuesday and Friday, and will be available on all major distribution channels (Apple, Spotify, Google). Links to the podcast will be coming soon! #careeradvice #careerguidance #entrepreneurship #skillstacking #publicspeaking #standupcomedy #improvcomedy #comedy
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2020-05-1213 min
Cinema RecallMeet The Feebles(1989) This ain't The Muppets but it's equally as memorableOn today's show. The Vern is joined by new guest Donnie of Cage's Kiss podcast(https://twitter.com/unrealgoals) to talk about Peter Jackson's 2nd feature. Meet The Feebles. A story that features drug use, violence, suicide and rape, all involving puppets of a variety show. Donnie and Vern get into some of the most outlandish moments of this one of a kind cult feature
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2020-04-1451 min
Cinema RecallWes Anderson and moments from Moonrise KingdomOn today's show. It's another repost of an earlier episode. The Vern is joined by Justin Herring of the podcast Casual Cinecast(https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/casual-cinecast-blockbuster-movies-to-criterion-classic/id1301132213) to talk about Wes Anderson's feature Moonrise Kingdom and some of the iconic moments in that movie.
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2020-04-0749 min
Cinema RecallSpring Breakers(2013) AKA The Vern edits episode # 269 of LAMBcast.Before our hiatus ends next week with a brand new episode. I thought it would be fun to repost an earlier podcast that I The Vern was a part of. For this show, I'm reposting one from The LAMBcast where great guests and I had an in depth discussion on Harmony Korine's Spring Breakers. Starring James Franco, Selena Gomez, Ashley Benson, Vanessa Hudgens, and Rachel Korine. Joining me for all the fun on this show include
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2020-02-251h 15Brothers to the EndEPISODE 14 - Vern’s Bumble Experience, Jake Paul’s Scam, & NBA All-Star WeekendEpisode 14 is a special one! Vern has moved across the country and now we can record the podcast in the same room! In today's episode, we dive into his experiences on Bumble, the new Jake Paul SCAM, and our thoughts on the NBA All-Star weekend!
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2020-02-181h 44
Cinema RecallThe Vern's Quick Reviews of Mother!(2017) and Climax(2019)Sometimes things change and schedules have to be rearranged and when that happens. You gotta learn how to deal with it. Well listeners; The Vern made a choice to go ahead and post two very divisive movies on this episode instead of having nothing. for you to hear. So for your ear holes he is bringing his quick reviews of Climax and Mother!(exclamation point). But before he does that, he gives some very nice shout outs to some other great people including.
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2020-01-3120 minBrothers to the EndEPISODE 12 - BEST GAMES OF 2019, A NEW DECADE, & VERN'S BIG MOVEWhat a year! What a decade! And our longest episode yet! In this episode Goldy and Vern talk about the best games of 2019, what they're looking forward to in the new decade, and Vern's big move to the West coast!
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2020-01-082h 38
Cinema RecallThe Vern's 2020 Oscar Nomination PredictionsOn today's bonus episode. The Vern picks what he thinks will be the nominees for the upcoming Oscar's ceremony in just a few categories.
2019-12-1412 min
Cinema Recall3 Days of Halloween: 3 Bad Horror Movies...According to The VernSince I have been pretty much positive during this whole month. I, The Vern thought it would be fun to release a show that reviewed some horror movies I wasn't a fan of. There are more I could have listed but I needed to clear up some space on my hard drive and this felt right to use. After this episode, I may loose a few followers. Just keep in mind these are just my opinions and they don't have to match with yours. Feature films include are A Quiet Place, The Devil's Candy & Bad Apples.
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2019-11-0423 min
Cinema Recall23 Days of Halloween: Pet Sematary (1989 Vs 2019)On this episode, The Vern finds out that dead is better as he looks back at both adaptations of Stephen King's Pet Sematary. Listen as he discusses some key differences and says what works and what doesn't work from each version.
Here is Vern's written review of the 2019 version
https://www.thatmomentin.com/pet-sematary/
2019-10-0917 min
Cinema RecallRandom Thoughts of a Movie Insomniac: Physical MediaAfter a glass of whiskey and root beer. The Vern is going to give you his opinion on the status of physical media and where it's heading. The thoughts in Vern's head are for recreational use only. His opinions are from him and him alone Please consult a physician if you spend more than 20 hours on an episode
2019-09-2410 min